He had a baby 8 months ago. Says he’s the catch! Doesn’t want a woman with baggage. An “8” or higher

[@TyWerks]

As a black dude this is sad asf man . Broken homes created everywhere, no generational wealth being passed down. Making a bunch of kids slaves to the system

[@Army_Brat1980]

❤

[@SonjaElizabethTeal]

This^

[@logicalcritik2144]

Just randomly sleeping around with strangers and producing babies...and some of these dudes have the nerve to call this their legacy 😂😂😂

[@MimiO23x]

exactly. he doesnt even see it

[@Southern.Nappiness]

Yep. He's not even embarrassed by it.🤨🤨🤨

[@Charmaine302]

I'm not concerned about him. We all know he's a mess. I'm concerned about the women that actually hit him up. YOU DESERVE BETTER!

[@dinamuburak5619]

No they dont.

[@Charmaine302]

@@dinamuburak5619 maybe you don't, but they do ✌️

[@vamps4me]

Most BW seem to have low self esteem, for any woman to entertain this idiot please seek help.

[@SpiritChild0980]

I’ll say this. I agree with both but the most I’ve seen is women want a man who’s wanted by other women and they feel that they’ll be able “change” this man into the man they want. I’ve seen it too many times and though it’s discouraging but I still believe I’ll be able to attract the woman who’s on the same energy and build with me a legacy that our kin will be able to prosper.

[@crookedsmile4886]

Nah they cursed him out

[@Ella_B33]

Any woman who slides into his DM's will get exactly what they deserve 😩

[@thesbianbeauty]

Right ‼️

[@shayshay12171980]

I agree😢

[@Howardgurl07]

Women who entertain him will only see how attractive he is to them. They have soul-searching issues as well. He displays no integrity and has a selfish personality. Women who date him just want to be loved by attractive man and ignore all his extremely damaging qualities. No one deserves him, and I feel both him and the woman that he defines as "8" struggle with esteem issues.

[@shachede6828]

Exactly!

[@ninab9169]

Them women gotta be desperate 🥴

[@latoyaracquel1680]

This interview needs to be used as a PSA for abstinence or birth control.

[@Maya-ln1os]

Chile...for real! I dried ALL THE WAY UP just listening to him talk!

[@josephwhite3486]

Actually the countless single mothers is the psa we need.

[@Ash2beauty]

@@josephwhite3486 y’all are making them single mothers, having babies then cheating and forcing women to leave or just leaving on your own. But y’all have no accountability

[@josephwhite3486]

@@Ash2beauty when are yall gone stop with this argument. He forced your pants down? Did he force himself inside you without a condom. Stop blaming us. Blame yourself for picking losers. I don't have children. Who's making yall not require marriage? Your single mothers. If he doesn't marry you. He doesn't want you. Stop being dumb with your mating decisions. Can't tell you how many I've had that say they don't like condoms. I don't care what you don't like. I wear condoms. Make them. Take accountability and stop blaming men. Yall 5 ft nothing looking for men 6 ft tall. Only 15% of the population. Most of them losers. Then wonder why they cheat. You looking for attractive men. Only 20% of men. Stop being shallow. Hood dudes, drug dealers, and dumb dudes aren't good fathers. Why the hell are you picking cheaters?

[@josephwhite3486]

@@Ash2beauty nobody makes you leave. Stay and get cheated on. You picked him. Yall not smart.

[@tmichelle9669]

Him: “I haven’t seen my kids, who live in the same city as me but I got time to go to Miami though!” These dudes are a trip 🙄

[@ashasun6620]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣right

[@christinewarren8134]

Right make it make sense. He's a keeper 💯

[@evroypowell9782]

This guy make me laugh 😂 one thing he say is right woman and man are different, look at future how much baby mother he have and woman still want him

[@brenda2311]

It's yall laughing about it that validates them.

[@acestarone]

He hasn’t grown up yet. I don’t entertain men like this

[@vthe_listener886]

He's only 31 with 3 kids, he's gonna have more and more and more. He has no respect for himself or all these broken women that would even want to spend 3 minutes of their time with him. How did they even get past the 1st date with him, let alone long enough to have a baby. Like what questions were they asking. I know I'm going in, but I can't with ALL these broken homes and hearts😡

[@AB-vb4sv]

See…here we go again. One man fathering multiple kids by multiple women and he still had women hit him up. It’s shameful.

[@candyalex12]

Some women always think that they are better then the previous. And they still have a child a compete.

[@fitnessfreak212]

But he’s complaining about the women who hit him up so they must’ve been trash like him lol

[@sandracole9898]

@favored&graced maybe to help him pay child support if he's on it. It appears he don't care for his kids, as he thinks it's the mothers job and he is supposed to run around freely seeking his next victim.

[@AB-vb4sv]

@@fitnessfreak212 probably!

[@didokinney9173]

He's a F boy

[@staceydanielle8558]

Of course He’s not wanting a woman who has a baby. This is because he don’t even want to be bothered with his own child

[@staceywilliams1863]

Exactly!

[@Rocanala]

🎯

[@vaeyah5354]

Most definitely

[@Age_Of_Aquarius84]

Father God, please continue to keep these men away from me and all the good women seeking a man of good character and decency. Amen 🙏🏾

[@tailorforeman7082]

In Jesus name we pray, Amen!

[@TiffanieLondon]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@almiyabrewer1675]

😂

[@HoneyBeeLuv22]

Amen 🙏🏼

[@hotward2000]

😂😂😂😂

[@SonjaElizabethTeal]

Run from any Man who says he's "trying" to see his children. No he isn't.

[@kayshawnsimmons6822]

Exactly

[@sponggiexoxo]

Facts💯

[@godsgirl7201]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@RubiPearl560]

He just said he know that their is difference between a single dad and mom. When he said that it pretty much confirmed he ain’t ish. Thank God for this show so I can know to avoid black men at all cost 🤷🏾‍♀️🤷🏾‍♀️

[@shelocsher2396]

Right.

[@faithful2myfreedom934]

He does not qualify for the type of woman he’s asking for. The women who were in his inbox who he deems “below his standards” is exactly what he deserves, so he better consider himself lucky. He’s a mansplaining deadbeat who’s WiFi doesn’t even work. An “8” wouldn’t even fart in his direction. And 31? I don’t believe it maybe late 30s at best. If he’s 31 he needs to drink more water, and mind his business

[@halimad.6401]

Haha 😂😆

[@familyfirst6633]

LMAO I agree! I love that song!

[@Southern.Nappiness]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@tid8583]

😂😂😂 these comments tho

[@cookiebiscoe3170]

Truth! I am an eight and I would dismiss this broke Babies Dusty Daddy with the quickness.

[@LittleMissSunshine721]

“If you’re the catch, why ain’t catch nothing?!” 💯💯💯

[@eprahs1]

This is an example of "stress". Stay stress free ladies.

[@shanafondon8767]

Exactly...he's the type you want to choose better from while dating.

[@Maya-ln1os]

For real!

[@tlakeee3720]

Watching him is even stressful..lol

[@tasha8974]

If stress was a word smh.....

[@Webefree59]

Protect your peace

[@AandP4dummieslikeme]

8 year old-NOPE 5 year old-NOPE 8 month old-HELL NOPE!!!!!!!!!!!!! He has lost his mind. 😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@bubblegumbumblebee6727]

Riiiggghhtt. 😐😶😐😶

[@kayshawnsimmons6822]

He can't even make a complete sentence 🙄😒

[@godsgirl7201]

🤣🤣🤣

[@vanessatheurbantarotgoddes2192]

Hell nope lol

[@brittanyb5942]

🥴🥴😑

[@alaneofmyown]

Kendraaa I am soooo glad you chewed him OUT, with facts too.. these are the typical type of men who get away with being a player and manipulating women.. he is the average dude with his sales pitch talking and childish kiddy games.. I am so glad you got him together

[@SolarTTauri]

Kendra gets 1000% respect for handling this one as she did. Salute!

[@mspeaches7335]

YES, Kendra was on point with this one.

[@okorochukwunonso2563]

I was so happy she dealt with him and his stupidity.

[@dacallins0884]

I'm on Kendra side for this one. My daughter absolutely will never bring someone like this to my house.

[@iamjoyt]

Agreed..@Daniel Callins

[@dacallins0884]

@ymarrero23 No I will not say that. Color doesn't dictate how they will treat her. Their upbringing will dictate that and race has nothing to do with it. My daughters are free to date any race as long has spiritually they follow the same God. Specially following Yah.

[@GoddessBlueYozakura7]

I'm glad you're in your daughter's life sir and she'll see this type as a loser as he doesn't resemble anything like her own hard working providing father.

[@CaramelCali]

@@dacallins0884 you’ll find out. Mark my words

[@dacallins0884]

@@CaramelCali no I am positive I will not. I know how to raise my children.

[@winnieyagan5157]

I was a Kendra fan before, now I’m a super fan!!!! Everyone needs to watch this segment. Whew Chile!!!

[@itsonlymythirddayouthere]

Anyone who messages this man don’t know their worth at all, he’s disgusting 🤢

[@twhaley42]

💯

[@sistrenyogigal3813]

Nah they know lol lol lol this they beat

[@MimiO23x]

🤢🤮🤢🤮🤢🤮

[@cookiebiscoe3170]

He looks dirty too.

[@tammyn2856]

lol.. run

[@MidnightMoon88]

He’s destroying women’s bodies & leaving them high and dry probably on purpose 🤦🏾‍♀️ he’s a demon 🏃🏾‍♀️🏃🏾‍♀️🏃🏾‍♀️

[@josephwhite3486]

Women are allowing him to destroy their body if that's what you call having unprotected sex. 🤣🤣

[@skidavis2782]

He’d be a demon if he was r*aping them, they’re no victims, just villains of their own story

[@josephwhite3486]

@@skidavis2782 women are the villains of their story if they take accountability. Yall need men to direct you. 🙄

[@skidavis2782]

@@josephwhite3486 And when you say y’all you mean your mama and the women you’ve let into your life, correct? Because you don’t know me

[@josephwhite3486]

@@skidavis2782 all women. I'm not trying to be with my mother in a relationship, that's creepy. But especially my mother, she left her marriage and her life crashed and burned. The men got worse and worse. 🤷‍♂️

[@ashdiva86]

He is so lost. I’m glad that Kendra is reading these men/ women and they can actually see themselves and think about what they’re asking for in every perspective. I applaud her and this show.

[@iriemo721]

So this man who is 31 with 3 kids has grounds to “be picky” but a woman with 3 kids should just take whatever comes right?

[@thetruesoulofanaquarius9302]

And have nothing to offer but the same package/🍆 he have since 15/16. 🤣🤣🤣

[@the_creative70]

I’m a dude and I agree with you 100%. Men and women should be accountable for their actions including the consequences of their actions.

[@iriemo721]

@@thetruesoulofanaquarius9302 and maybe an Std or two.

[@thetruesoulofanaquarius9302]

@@iriemo721 lol rite

[@AirunDevon]

@Marie Baker NO!!!! MOST PEOPLE ARE DELUSIONAL.

[@Rene-cn4jc]

I remember him. He’s ridiculous. Clearly, he’s up for creating more broken homes. He wants an “8” when he’s giving “family isn’t important” “creating broken homes is his priority ” “contributing to the obstacles of our community” “focused on BS” “don’t take life seriously”

[@Yassss-rj9zf]

IKR! Probably never had an 8 in his life🤣

[@nylotus]

@@Yassss-rj9zf Nah he's handsome enough to get an 8 but they weren't right in the mind if they were trying to have something serious with him. My guess is he's impregnated some highly insecure women or those that haven't reached full mental maturity. Because no sane woman whether a 1 or a 10 would put up with this bs.

[@magicworld3242]

Stop being ridiculous. He can't create a broken home by himself. Damn, can't blk women take responsibility for anything ? Why don't BW require getting married "Before" you start having kids and living together. A dude can only take advantage of you. If you let him. Stop thinking a baby is gonna keep him in "YOUR" life.

[@josephwhite3486]

You ever consider the fact that women leave relationships regardless of children more often than men do

[@Lavender_8497]

@@josephwhite3486 why do y’all always pull that out your azz? Do you think women leave the most because it’s an extreme sport to them? They leave because y’all are 🗑 and that’s the only way the relationship will end. Y’all don’t have a reason to leave because y’all are normally the ones causing problems and want the woman to deal with it.

[@thetravelhottie]

Ladies, please RUN from this man. A man like this even approaching you should be classified as ASSAULT

[@Sexyviolet]

😂😂😂

[@tomfooleryalert5094]

Watching these shows has confirmed one thing for me, singleness is not that bad and maybe the best option for me. I'm too old (36) to be dealing with a person that was irresponsible to have a bunch of kids that he couldn't afford and his baby mama issues!! For those considering to date under no circumstances have any sexual contact with that person until after marriage. If he's a waste of space, trust me you will find out with the quickness.

[@shinygamer0079]

Yes I second the notion and im hoping this isnt real life. Is he serious Yup ill wait till god said go

[@MissNyPeachJerseyAppleBottom]

Im with you

[@kmross73]

Being single and celibate is not easy but it does protect you from a lot of foolishness and heartbreak. I don't know why so many women keep allowing these scrubs into their lives.

[@designhub360customapparel]

Righr

[@itsHappening-ry2ef]

Divest ‼️

[@blahblahblah3722]

He said I'm a man; I ain't gotta be with my kids like that 🤣🤣🤣🤣 and yet he mad that the courts side with women 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@cynthiakila1161]

Right

[@amaragrace94]

Mannnn😂😂😂 you cant make this shit up

[@melaniedavis5257]

The hypocrisy 😂😅

[@briannaw716]

That part

[@carynlsmith69]

I'm just waiting for her to hang-up! 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@Iam_JaniceJ]

I love the way she sat him down! Some men really think too highly of themselves!!!!

[@me.2172]

Idc how much money you make, if you are content and comfortable not being in your children’s lives.. you are a bum. 🤷🏾‍♀️ It speaks volumes to his [lack of] character.

[@Rene-cn4jc]

Absolutely! There’s a guy I was getting to know. Asked if he had children. He said he had 1 with his college sweetheart but felt like he wasn’t ready. She decided to have the child and he left.. his words. Now that he’s well established he’s focused on marriage and family. He said his ex took on all responsibility. I asked him if he would try to build a relationship now since he feels like he’s in a good place. His response was that their son is her child. Didn’t matter how well off he was. I don’t give passes to guys who refuse to take part in their children’s lives.

[@briasworld8]

💯💯💯💯💯💯

[@briasworld8]

@@Rene-cn4jc Wow, that's just downright disgusting. Sad for that Kid. Smdh.

[@christinewarren8134]

@@Rene-cn4jc girl you did right and God will bless God. Damn dude straight trash 🗑

[@acestarone]

I don’t believe he makes ‘good money’ But I agree his children should be sharing travel experiences with him

[@yesitsme8702]

So you learned that the child support system was against you for 1 child, then why have 2 more children Pookie?

[@motivatingvision5874]

He in the military they gov paying for the kid. Lol we paying for the kid!

[@midwestdiva1089]

No way he paying child support to 3 different women but can just travel on the drop of a dime. Delusional.

[@OhhYouu..MICHELLE]

😅

[@brenda2311]

Because they never accountable for anything

[@abanks7675]

😂😂😂 not pookie

[@chilegarcia2969]

If you’re a deadbeat just say that, this guy is everything that is wrong with some men wrapped up in one sad package. Kendra nailed this one 💯 GET EM’ KENDRA!!

[@traceyperry1659]

the way she carried him to the curb like a bag o’ trash was so necessary! this guy is clueless if he really believes he’s a catch.

[@RAJOHN-ke7mc]

As cyn says a 3 trash bag carrying dusty

[@calikeisha365]

Okay!

[@iamjoyt]

Agreed…

[@itsallgood1922]

Bag-O-Trash 😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@MsJoanne2008]

👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

[@tajahcortez7465]

Black men be acting like sex unplanned,unprotected is something to be proud of … 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@kayshawnsimmons6822]

Yes! Like a woman should be happy to have his🍆🤡🤛🏾

[@dickie9748]

Some are and that's one reason we are so far behind the White community economically. I'm going to get on my soap box and preach this message until I can't. Men have to assume responsibility for their bodies just as women. Men cannot choose a low life woman to be his child's mother and just walk away. He is still responsible if he placed his DNA in her body. He should choose the best mother for his child. Some of the best Black women have decided to either remain single or not have children at all or marry out. It hurts the Black community when the best of ours decide it's not worth it to continue to build families. We all are witnessing the crime, poverty and the lack of education in our communities. If the best women refuse to have children and some are choosing to remain childless, where does that leave men who really want a family?

[@tajahcortez7465]

@@dickie9748 wow I totally agree… I’m 37 and I am emotionally and spiritually mature with a college degree and I haven’t found a man to procreate with 😞… it’s a lot of us who cherish motherhood and refuse to bring a child in this world that has to fight poverty or be grief stricken by the BC’s struggle it’s crazy and unfortunate…. I appreciate you doing the work by being an example… I’m proud of you 👍🏾 and I wish you the best 😊🙏🏾

[@trippljjj]

Not me tho😂

[@tajahcortez7465]

@@trippljjj u litt then

[@kimuknwamda1]

Thank you KendraG for shedding a light in this world/culture/mindset that we need to unalive

[@brownbeauty7429]

I would never give him the time of day. 😂 Who wants a deadbeat with kids? No thanks!

[@ThatSocialloner]

most women would and thats the problem.

[@TruthbTold777]

@@ThatSocialloner no definitely not most women

[@MelaniaRose]

@@ThatSocialloner most women ? Smart women with no kids and are established are avoiding men like him. He should date women with three baby daddies so It’s even .

[@erowry22]

@@MelaniaRose no he shouldn't date women with 3 kids, why? Because they are more of a parent then he would ever be. He should stay single forever.

[@marcyscloset6835]

@@ThatSocialloner lieeee not most women… so why is he here ?? 🙄

[@uwilberforce4628]

We might be making side comments, laughing, maybe even dogging this man out, but the reality is this man is an example of why THE BLACK COMMUNITY AS A WHOLE IS IN LAST PLACE. PERIOD.

[@Unapologetically_Savage]

Exactly!!So sad to see…but this has been coming for a long time now.

[@iamjoyt]

It’s sad but true…We have to do better…

[@alanajones4553]

Last place in what? Do you know other races go through the same thing

[@jasmic38134]

NOT true yall let these people convince y'all that this is the black community yet stats prove that there are more black men without kids than with

[@kwbaby4297]

@@alanajones4553yea but it’s not as prevalent as ours. Sorry sweetheart not.

[@2930honey]

I love how Kendra read him his rights 😂😂 loved it. He deserved it to.

[@itsonlymythirddayouthere]

Ewww 3 kids by 3 women?! He’s unmarriagable at this point

[@canadiangoddess9816]

Ruined for anyone above a "3". He's damaged goods. I couldn't bring him home to meet my parents! Not in this lifetime.

[@aguy9071]

Unmarriagable. Unfit for relationships. And unfit for sex and hook ups. Don’t reward men like this with your time or your body

[@kmariamv]

He could still be married...if that’s what he wants. Probably won’t be an 8 or 9 though unless she is very insecure and emotionally vulnerable

[@iriemo721]

Sadly, he'll find some woman who thinks she can save him, thinks she's a bad bitch and better than all this baby mamas who will marry him and then wonder why she's getting the same disrespectful, delusional, self absorbed low life that his baby mamas and kids have experienced for the last 8 plus years.

[@SuperTruthful]

He should have chosen better, his body count is too high and he thinks to highly of himself to be a good husband. lol

[@moralofthispodcast7138]

This is why our community is so deeply in trouble… This man just said our value goes down when we have their children. 🙄 And he doesn’t know how horribly that sounds…

[@pauloskidane2819]

Bla bla

[@Myt229]

Do you think white and Asian men prefer women with children? Men in all communities in general would rather be with a woman without kids. Why? Because her value to most men go down.

[@tandemtransport7702]

You mean your value goes down having Pookie and Ray Ray kids. If you are a baby Momma you are the plum damn fool nowadays. BW know by now that this Baby Momma Crap isn't working and never going to work.

[@magicworld3242]

You just mad because he's telling the truth. Stop having kids, by every Pookie and RayRay, then think you have the same value as a young, single women, with no kids. STOP LYING TO YOURSELF.

[@Epsilon514]

Asian, White, Middle Eastern and Hispanic Men....know they not accepting baby mamas...but you have such a lack of respect for black men....you think we should be greatful for 300+ pound land whales with 3 b@stards out of wedlock.

[@paulinebrownrose7984]

He is the one with the baggage.

[@Yassss-rj9zf]

He’s in the business of turning 8’s into 5’s after getting stretch marks and edges falling out. BFU🙄😒

[@geminimac613]

😂😂😂

[@deliteful1991]

🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@khennimahmud4006]

The "BFU" was funny as hell!

[@amareharris2797]

Im dead

[@Yassss-rj9zf]

@@khennimahmud4006 I’m glad you like it😂🤣

[@nikkibracy312]

He runs through women. Why would anyone take him seriously? He’s also giving his body up to everyone . It’s not healthy, nor attractive for men to sleep around also🤷🏽‍♀️

[@shelocsher2396]

THIS!!!!

[@grindhard4312]

He runs through women because women date and fuck a small percentage of a certain man. He's in that percentage.

[@staceywilliams1863]

If only they’d understand this like they say we need to understand shit they say!

[@SISTAGURL]

We need to start flipping that phrase. He himself is ran through. We give men too much power saying they are running through women. He’s a ran through dusty peen broken home maker.

[@LovelyM404]

I love how you handled him Kendra!

[@SheilaTrueLove]

Any woman reaching out to a dude who have 3 children and the youngest one is 8 months, that automatically tells you something is wrong with that female straight out the gate. No woman who is mentally and emotionally healthy would ever even dream of having anything to do with a dude like this one. If I were a man and women would reach out to me with this type of situation, I wouldn't want her because I know she's touched in her head. Any good woman would tell me to work it out with one of my baby mama's. Only women who are hard up, desperate and thirsty would have any dealings with this type of dude. Let's keep it all the real....

[@SheilaTrueLove]

@@broco6608 You're so right which only proves my point even further. The reason it's so hard to meet a good, decent man is because of what so many women are willing to put up with. Desperate, thirsty and pathetic females are messing up the QUALITY of life for ALL women.

[@dawnwillingham4432]

Truth be told

[@LadyPLM]

💯

[@Naturalwoman730]

Girl, I dont understand

[@iwashere5956]

My colleague recently allowed a man to come and live with her after dating him for 3 months and letting me know there he had a child under 1 year old. He cheated on her, spent and stole her money within a year. Needless to say she has bipolar and variations of mental illness she herself has two children from two men who used her for a place to live and the other one used her for papers to stay in a country. Her children were removed from her care... but she's exactly the type that would find this man appealing

[@09tashay]

“If you’re the catch why don’t you have what you want” 🦗🦗🦗🦗

[@nylotus]

I think that line is weak. There's a lot of women and men that are a great catch that are single and can't find what they're looking for. The pool of suitors is quite small these day. Definitely isn't the case for this guy but that line is null and void.

[@09tashay]

@@nylotus no that line is pretty accurate. If you’re gonna act that cocky you should have results to show for it or shush.

[@KB3.0]

Not the dead roaches 😂😂😂

[@09tashay]

@@KB3.0 those are crickets lmao

[@madcobra2444]

@@nylotus next time a woman is on this show you won't see the same energy. They all of a sudden will say she deserves what she's asking for and her multiple children by different men aren't baggage. Nobody will say "if you're the catch, why don't you have what you want"

[@shaylabrown6038]

The way his eyes are rolling around his square head trying to come up with answer and not listening to respond. Cute will only get you so far.

[@Alyssaj1236]

BW, listen to him! He is showing exactly the mentality that is out here!

[@shaylabrown6038]

Exactly

[@Slim2xzIsland]

@@shaylabrown6038y’all hurt lol

[@user-gn8to4wj9q]

Yes but let the men tell it, it's us woman 😅

[@BlackMenAreDope]

1. Why would a woman want a man with an 8 month old? You need to take a year, bond with that baby, and figure out how you’re going to move forward with the child’s mother as a co-parent. That alone takes a lot of intentionality and doesn’t afford you the time to be dating. 2. A man with 3 children and 3 baby mothers is THE definition of inconsistency. Why would a woman trust a man that would allow so much turmoil in his own life? One can only imagine what he would bring to a woman’s life. Ask the 3 baby mothers. 3. He admittedly doesn’t have a real relationship or doesn’t see one of his children very often. Who in the world would date a man who doesn’t see or fight to the death to see his children. As a man, I don’t even want to be FRIENDS with a dude like that.

[@blessedforever1424]

Unfortunately, plenty of women are lost and will see him as a prize . 🤷🏿‍♀️

[@MelaniaRose]

@@blessedforever1424 I hope smart women can talk to Eachother and them To stay away from men like him

[@niamarielove]

Bless you sir. Everything you said made perfect sense.

[@latricelatrice2802]

👏👏👏

[@staceywilliams1863]

🙌🏽

[@saraliburd7752]

He is DELUSIONAL

[@tdagbo]

He’s disgusting honestly. I can’t believe anyone fell for him.

[@TyWerks]

facts dude is honest brutally

[@alaneofmyown]

That smooth talking and looks can get any gullible woman.. Ladies please look past that smooth sales pitch and you’ll be straight

[@sweetsadi27]

ALOT of women fall for him and many others just like him unfortunately. He got about 2-3 more baby mommas in him.

[@leons26]

Fight for your kids. I paid child support for 2 years for a child that was living with me full time. The system isn't on your side, but your kids knowing you is priceless.

[@theoneandonlyK01]

Damn you can't sue and get your money back??!

[@leons26]

@@theoneandonlyK01 after all of that they told me...not asked. You really don't want to go after HER for child support do you. Gladly all that is over and I'm not looking to do it again

[@tabithaedwards745]

It's really your fault for not turning in taking it to court and saying they were living with you full time.

[@leons26]

@@tabithaedwards745 I spent thousands taking it to court...as I said before system isn't on your side. Went to the attorney general's office with all the proof and they looked at me as if I'd committed a crime (I wasn't behind on child support). I once thought as you did though.

[@HumbLeeTV]

Thank you ❤

[@SupaBlessedAries]

This happens so much smh! Thank you Kendra straight kept it real ❤

[@aguy9071]

@15:50 BLACK WOMEN. LISTEN. this man is telling you what he thinks about you. He will knock you up and leave because he can. He sees no problem with it STAY AWAY FROM POOKIES WHO ALREADY HAVE BROKEN HOMES

[@crystalc820]

Sum of them don't care LOL they still wanna repeat the cycle smh sad but tru

[@Armyvet55]

This is so sad on all levels, 1.he obviously thinks he's God's gift to women.2 he sees nothing wrong with having babies with no commitment. 3 mindset and attitude applies across the board period looks are only 1 component of being a complete person

[@GepsenLuv]

I get low key depressed every time I watch these videos...this is what's to offer in our community??😣😣

[@alvinbiggsjr8351]

a portion of the community.

[@candycrusher2024]

A large portion. Keep in mind 1 out of 3 black men have a felony record now. Kanye had a whole rant about that.

[@MookiePookieDookie]

divest

[@Pokemonfan543]

@@MookiePookieDookie I’m scared 😫

[@janellewynter573]

@@MookiePookieDookie that is NOT the answer. Think critically, my friend.

[@Kimmac-cs7km]

I absolutely love Kendra's response. Sometimes men need a realize check.

[@magicworld3242]

Unfortunately, it has been way too acceptable in the Blk community to have " Out of Wedlock" kids by multiple baby daddies.

[@deejai1173]

Multiple baby momma’s in his case!

[@confidentrose2829]

It stops with me 1 and done expeditiously.

[@underthemilkyway7267]

Sad reality

[@futuristicvibes2643]

These men are calling out women with multiple baby daddies while having multiple baby mama’s themselves. Now they claim it’s unacceptable for a woman, but different for a man. This man spoke what countless others feel on this double standard SMH

[@SuperTruthful]

He has multiple baby mamas...so it's even steven.

[@Denailacole]

That “the courts aren’t made for black mens benefit” crap is tired! You wouldn’t even be in the situation if you weren’t laying down & spreading it wide. This is just another baby daddy looking for a younger & dumber victim. Bye!

[@sharonhicks-jones5471]

Rip Tracey Braxton...didn't Mama E tell yall about men like him lol.

[@nylotus]

I agree the courts didn't work in their favor maybe in the 80s and 90s but things have progressed. I'm a child of one of those court cases where the mother lied to keep the kids from the father. That was the early 90s... had that happened today my mother wouldn't have gotten away with it. There are too many resources now to get your kids, especially as a veteran. He just sounds like he's full of excuses.

[@christinewarren8134]

@@nylotus facts

[@futuristicvibes2643]

Courts may not work in their favor, but let’s keep it 100. Does this man really look like he wants to bear the responsibility of being the custodial parent for his children? I think we all know the answer so he can stop the CAP and quit playing

[@futuristicvibes2643]

@@broco6608 All these men complaining online about the court system are primarily speaking out against child support. Some men actually do desire full custody, but the majority enjoy their freedom and prefer the mother to be the full time custodial parent so they have time to continue being in the streets doing what they do

[@lynetterice8413]

Any chick hitting this trash of a dude up deserves whatever she gets. He’s straight up letting everyone know just how he is🤦🏾‍♀️😳🤷🏾‍♀️

[@deejai1173]

Well, one thing, he sure doesn’t stay put long. 3 children, 3 different mothers , the youngest is 8 months and he’s looking already. Geez, guess he’ll be here next year with another newborn. Lol not too much baggage… hahahahahaha this dude!

[@sharonhicks-jones5471]

#FOOLISHNESS 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@faithful2myfreedom934]

Right tryna leave these 8s single mothers 😂

[@myvalentine9590]

And he only 31… sticking & moving like a MF. I bet BMs has no other children! He wouldn’t have dated them if they did

[@SuperTruthful]

these women need to do their homework and use birth control to prevent these pregnancies with these dusty men.

[@deejai1173]

@@faithful2myfreedom934 right!

[@Beautiful.Lioness23]

When he said “the thing about being a dad…” I dropped my head. Wow. This is super sad and the kids always suffer in these situations. 🤦🏽‍♀️

[@MegTelevised]

It’s important that he said that because a lot of men think that

[@teeomni]

Thank you Kendra G. He needed a dose of reality.

[@birdy1126]

3 young children means at least a decade or more of drama and child support taking a sizable amount of his salary. The hypocrisy of this man to have a shitload of baggage but wants a woman with none? Okay….🤣😂

[@brishaberries0101]

They are the baggage. 🧳

[@Rene-cn4jc]

He is the baggage. 😂🤣

[@blessedfromtx.1910]

Don't want her to come with baggage because he has enough for the both .and will drag her down with it! 🤣

[@madcobra2444]

So kids ARE baggage again? Because when childless men say women who have multiple kids have baggage it turns into, "BM think their kids are baggage" "kids aren't baggage!"

[@Seeingisntbelieving]

Sis try 18 years he has an 8 month old🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@tierahoward874]

He’s a prime example of how a lot of men think today. Double standards and expect women to settle

[@sallysharp4126]

indeed the desensitization is real and sadly so is the ignorance. 💔

[@Rocanala]

“It’s different for men with kids..” No, it’s not sir. 🤣

[@Slim2xzIsland]

@@Rocanalayes it is

[@kelciemiller4921]

Kendra this was the BEST clap back to this insanity! You're a lovely woman!

[@Ms_B1020]

Thank you Kendra! As an accomplished woman with no children and my own everything, he is an arrogant, confused soul. He needed the reality you gave him at the end 👏🏾

[@saraliburd7752]

Kendra is asking the REAL questions-he wants to fuck around and be a dead beat dad with no accountability 🤮🤮🤮🤮

[@saraliburd7752]

He 1000% disgusting

[@saraliburd7752]

Thank you Kendra for keeping it real with him

[@rocquelmason8051]

He was dang near speechless.

[@realascanb222]

If you are 34 or 35, freeze your eggs. It's too late to freeze after 35. Best wishes.

[@monigurl4229]

I love how people laugh when they have nothing to say…she dealt with him perfectly! 👏🏽

[@kayshawnsimmons6822]

He couldn't even and her question

[@lovette7684]

He was prob too embarassed to come up with an answer!

[@rocquelmason8051]

Honnneyyy.. he so molded. He had no choice but to laugh it off. Feelins were hurt

[@Hannah-yi1bj]

You are so good with your words! He got TOLD. I love you, Kendra!

[@ourtruth216]

“I’m not the custodial parent, I don’t even get to see my Son like that” lol what in the fckn dead beat 🤦🏽‍♀️

[@kayshawnsimmons6822]

🤡🤛🏾💯

[@jamescottone9882]

Kendra got him right.

[@brookealicia92]

I’m convinced these dudes love to make single homes then complain about them. All the “men will stick it in anywhere, y’all should be accountable” is such low level thinking. I honestly don’t know how women even talk to men anymore outside of work purposes

[@briasworld8]

Right.

[@faithful2myfreedom934]

Yup and a lot of men are making it so women don’t even want to deal with them. If everything is the woman’s responsibility and there’s so much trash out here, it’s just easier not to deal with any of them at this point

[@AB-vb4sv]

36% of bm having multiple kids, less that 1 million bm are in jail-there 19 million around . He’s trash, but why is he still allowed to impregnate multiple women I wonder.

[@madcobra2444]

Maybe stop sleeping with men who have multiple children.

[@Higfsyourvioihb]

Black men...fixed that for you

[@jcarp2322]

I would never date a man with multiple babies with different women. A man who is careless with his seed is careless in all aspects of life.

[@jaiwills6867]

yes, and he'll make you #4. and as soon as you get pregnant he will be turned off and move on to the next. that's what it look like.

[@SunnyKayy]

FACT!!!!!

[@georgialouisew4152]

He said the women can’t come with baggage yet he’s carrying a boat load.

[@melanindawn2050]

Dating someone new while or being the father to a newborn. Sounds about right to dusty and Dustin as.

[@thetruesoulofanaquarius9302]

Disgusting both males and females.

[@brownbeauty7429]

Exactly. All women should avoid this trashbag.

[@antasiashaw8815]

That was my cousin he was on Facebook posting everyday how he wants a girlfriend and this man posted a baby when she was born so he barely told people I knew but when his bm was far along. By the time she was like 5 months pregnant she was single but living with him and his family

[@melanindawn2050]

@@antasiashaw8815 That's really crazy, after a woman gives birth she is recovering from post partum depression. So it says a lot when a man is ready to move on. He will probably get at least 10 single mother households before in the next 10years.

[@dspenderella9671]

I LOVE the way she keeps it a buck and humbles them in all their bravado and fake confidence.

[@picalothaxon1783]

M minimum

[@okorochukwunonso2563]

Exactly!

[@Bnizzofashizzo]

When women try to even the playing field and be tit for tat with a man, this is a perfect example of how even the most trifling and irresponsible man amongst us, will have his pick of the litter with women. You may not like it, and you may not think that it’s fair, but if somebody this trifling and sorry Has so many women to choose from, but he didn’t even get to them all, what does that say about you? Oh, and by the way, three women have been willing to have his children. Reputable men have no intention on messing with you if you got impregnated by a man like this.

[@dspenderella9671]

@Bnizzofashizzo The first few sentences you wrote demonstrated you make absolutely NO sense in response to my comment so I didn't read the rest. Any woman who deals with clowns like him doesn't love herself. I neither dislike nor like it for her b/c it has NOTHING to do with me. I don't relate to people with these problems b/c I don't deal with problematic people, so take your comment to someone playing childish games with low tier/ low vibrational people on your level who go "tit for tat"... What type of man even puts a woman in that position to go back and forth trying to get even in a toxic union where neither of them is winning? If my hormones are off and I'm overly emotional or irritable - my husband not only refuses to get on a feminine hormonal level with me, but he also knows how to soothe me and show grace allowing me the space to gather myself before inviting me to have a rational conversation about whatever is bothering me... THAT'S what a leader does - not some man-child antagonizing a woman in a toxic tit for tat match. Please don't ever message me some played out talking point like that again and think higher if you want to engage with me.

[@angeleyes3386]

The courts will give you more time. Problem is they won’t take away your child support and *many men don’t want more time, they just want to pay less money*

[@DBrown-vg1fi]

Honestly I love seeing this. It shows there is delusion on both sides. Some people really believe only women are delusional. Love this show nothing but hard core facts. Btw this man will never find the women he desires he’s no where on their level

[@sandracole9898]

This guy is on nobody's level. If a woman is not that worldly attractive or has some weight on her does that automatically make her lesser then? Even those women desire and deserve a person that will be a good mate for them..

[@geminimac613]

💯

[@madcobra2444]

@@sandracole9898 I bet you're fine with a woman not wanting a man who only makes 40k a year

[@JamalMack]

My thing is women are more “In-your-face” with delusional as we see in social media all the time. Now I agree there are delusions on both sides and this dude is a clown but he funny tho but he obviously still gonna have women hit him up

[@brenda2311]

@@JamalMack And yet you wouldn't say "that baby mama would still have men hitting her up" You would just blame HER.

[@DefinitelyAFakePage]

There is no logic in his thought process.

[@bornwithclass2365]

Like absolutely none at all..

[@glynisgibson4933]

KG..you handle the situation correctly..

[@glynisgibson4933]

She embarrassed him..I am happy..KG, put him in his place..

[@brishaberries0101]

Why are men upset that beautiful women are constantly out on dates with different guys? That's what dating is supposed to be... having good experiences, seeing who work and who doesn't. That's the problem most BM don't know what healthy dating and courtship is or even looks like. Ugh.

[@nwatson2773]

That part! The toxic behavior is the reason I divested. Therapy and opening my dating options is helping me a lot.

[@laurenlocd3180]

Because they are insecure and think women are sleeping with them all cause they know they are sleeping with all the women they “date” lol

[@gp9677]

It’s pointless to date multiple men cuz regardless of u sleeping or want to sleep with them they all want to sleep with you. Nobody wants to put their money in a pot and hope to get it back make it make sense. Women need marriage more than men do y’all have to compete for men not the other way around it’s more available women than men in America most of y’all will never be married just based on numbers alone.

[@ThemnewKrispys]

@@laurenlocd3180 if a man and woman go on a date and the man has sex with the woman. How can the waoman not be having sex on her date? That don't make sense.

[@FairyDragon9]

@@ThemnewKrispys she put the word date in quotations for a reason....

[@brickztheproducer6931]

This dude pisses me off as a black man. He's pretty much throwing it in women face that he's a man and he's different he don't have to carry a child. It's unfortunate that there are a lot of us out here that really see women that way

[@cswells601]

Thanks Kendra for giving him true honesty!

[@Alexissc567]

Want Somebody with no baggage and he has all that baggage!!!!! 3 kids with 3 different women. Y’all I can’t

[@futuristicvibes2643]

These men are getting more and more delusional by the day

[@jaiwills6867]

if somebody calls this man, they'll be #4

[@desreenjackson7638]

"What's an 8 to you, like your baby 8 months"?. Kendra 👍🏾🤭😆😆😆👏🏾👏🏾 good one!!!!

[@iriemo721]

The black community’s finest.

[@alvinbiggsjr8351]

not even close.

[@itsonlymythirddayouthere]

Facts!!

[@sharonhicks-jones5471]

Father🤦🏾‍♀️

[@me.2172]

🤢🤮

[@Jakyjoseph]

Must be... the women are choosing him.

[@mobetta6408]

I'm glad that Kendra put this dude in check. I'm embarrassed as a black man to think my fellow black brother thinks this way. He's totally confused.

[@DaddyFatSzack]

Say it louder. These men need to put in check. But I bet he has no problem calling women “delusional”

[@erikac3283]

Thank you Kendra for being honest with him

[@sjones2195]

Why are women hitting this man up? Ladies, you can’t be this hard up for a companion? He has 3 kids from 3 different women, he’s not taking care of them l, he’s uneducated and can’t even verbalize the kind of woman he is looking for. He had no shame saying he’s not around his children.

[@miminotbovered2857]

Most likely because he's lying to them. Pookie's and dustie's are never honest with women, she'll be knocked before she discovers that he even has other children, let alone an 8-month-old.

[@EM-hn1db]

Women will still sleep with this dude even after knowing all this shit about him. 😌

[@kmariamv]

Hopefully they are on birth control/ wrap it up!!!!

[@GoddessBlueYozakura7]

@@kmariamv They need to be on truvada too!

[@Gigilovehugs]

He probably lie and say he doesn’t have kids

[@EM-hn1db]

@@Gigilovehugs They probably still would sleep with him. They love Pookies and Ray Rays.

[@shelocsher2396]

And let him put baby #4 in them, then cry about it 🙄

[@shayshay12171980]

Sadly there will be some woman with low self-esteem that hits his inbox. Some woman that has no self worth will be in that inbox then will be left in a worse position after. 😢

[@madcobra2444]

Wow Kendra I'm impressed with how you broke some of this info down

[@sharonhicks-jones5471]

Yeah she made me proud on this one.

[@evroypowell9782]

What info I see,Kendra mad at the guy for telling the truth 😂🤣🤣

[@madcobra2444]

@@evroypowell9782 I don't agree with everything she said but I'm giving her credit for how she delivered *some of the info. She is getting better at explaining male dating strategies. I have another comment expressing my displeasure with her denying the rating system. I think she's learning and getting better. She got emotional because she's a woman and it struck a nerve so she pressed him. Kinda the same way KS does to women him being a man and all. I think it's a good sign so I'm encouraging what I see to be progress, rather than just complaining. She dialed it back by the end and expressed she was just trying to prove a point

[@OhhYouu..MICHELLE]

He’s a dusty..His babymothers was on Facebook showing text messages of them begging him to be a father 🤦🏽‍♀️

[@thetruesoulofanaquarius9302]

Chileeee 🤦🏾‍♀️ smh

[@amilllion1]

Nooooo , and he wants a woman without baggage and responsibility meanwhile he’s pumping and dumping and leaving kids in the dust!!!

[@brishaberries0101]

On a online dating show, begging for women without baggage and he is THE baggage. 🧳

[@kmariamv]

😦

[@confidentrose2829]

overly coddled these are the results.

[@latoriaclark7266]

Yes Kendra, READ HIS ASS😂😂😂

[@peacefreedom4930]

He said his physical value is still the same. His financial value has take 3 hits and counting. Money that should be in one household building generational wealth now has to go to 3 households. He can’t provide the best quality of life anymore to a wife or future children because he’s paying stupid tax. Not to mention this conversation exposed his lack of character and poor priorities. Women with little baggage are that way because they love themselves and treat themselves well. They don’t allow negativity in their space. This man is dragging trunks, suitcases, duffel bags and backpacks... trying to take it to a good woman’s house and saying she can’t have any of her own. The only women who would want him are the ones who should be in counseling to heal. They don’t know their worth so they’ll settle for him and all his baggage.

[@lewis20002000]

I douth it very much that he's providing all the needed child support that's needed by all three kids, that's where the burden falls on the custodial parent, and he knows this as per his conversation. No way those kids' needs are interrupting his flow, but I can't just blame him, he didn't hold a gun to the baby mama's heads to have his kids.

[@peacefreedom4930]

@@lewis20002000 It’s not about just blaming him. The custodial parents are definitely feeling the consequences of their decisions. They are actually with the children daily doing the hard work of raising them and providing for them. Meanwhile, he believes nothing changes for him as he creates more and more children. Obviously if he believes that it’s because he isn’t a committed, consistently involved parent. But in reality he has a financial obligation to all of his children. The courts can not force him to spend time with them, but they can force him to pay. Any woman that marries him attaches herself to that baggage and obligation. Therefore, his dating value and marriage value is tarnished and he’s delusional for believing it isn’t.

[@MelaniaRose]

He needs to settle for a woman with three baby daddies that’s his match.

[@staceywilliams1863]

@@MelaniaRose But see he think he is better than what is actually his equal! That’s where he got life fuked up at!

[@TJWC]

His physical is in straight decline. Men like this, don't go to doctors or dentists regularly. His prostate and gums will be completely compromised in 10 years.

[@iamempress292]

He's the catch? Looks more like the throw away unless you're desperate. Boy bye

[@blessedforever1424]

😂 👌👍

[@vacationeveryday]

🗑🚮

[@staceywilliams1863]

😂😂😂😂🤌🏽

[@andreamoore7002]

He's showing that he's not trying to take care of his kids. He's concerned with women and traveling.

[@kywanmarshall2192]

I don't pay men attention who have multiple baby's Mamas that is drama 👀🧐

[@confidentrose2829]

I see their game and I'm 31.

[@kmariamv]

✅

[@sasshil4202]

My brother is one of those men. Stay away from them. Dusty 🤧

[@_Milcah_]

I love this live!!!! Kendra set this man straight and I’m here for it!

[@angelgreen9945]

She had time today

[@renamorris7852]

Kendra is a boss!!!!

[@dawnstewart9298]

When this man gets to to he's going to be 6:30 so what his e saying i know some people work out looks fine with a 6:30 shit

[@Attackatyourownrisk]

This man is asking for an “8” yet he is a “3.” He is a 3 because he has become a negative statistic. He has 3 kids by 3 different baby mothers, he is a part time parent, and he’s looking for a relationship but does not have his priorities in order at all. And the sad part about it is that he wouldn’t even date himself. Make this whole situation make sense. You can not. Enjoy ladies!!

[@amaj_lex]

Ew he couldn't touch me with a 10 foot pole

[@thetruesoulofanaquarius9302]

Rite and the arrogance is beyond cringe this man really think he is a catch. The living in LaLa Land Kang.

[@brownbeauty7429]

Never. He's a broke and unattractive deadbeat father. 😂

[@amaj_lex]

@@thetruesoulofanaquarius9302 it's very disgusting. Kendra is right he'll have options but they damn sure won't be quality

[@MelaniaRose]

His options are baby mamas with 3 baby daddies 😂

[@itsonlymythirddayouthere]

This is why I don’t date black men anymore, at all! And I’m young, 23 and childless

[@GoddessBlueYozakura7]

Ohh yes girl. Divested is the TRUTH! When they hit on me 99% of the time they are just a version of this guy in the video. I'm like "nah I'm good".

[@annarogers8220]

Ain't mad at you, protect your womb girl

[@iriemo721]

First step to success girl. Kudos to you for learning what a lot of women never do. Leave the trash on the curb.

[@laurenlocd3180]

I’m not gonna lie every time I see them I call myself wishing they do not approach me . It’s the same ol same ol . And they have more excuses than when they go to jail. Excuses as to why their women can’t stay home and raise the kids , excuses as to why they can’t and won’t stay faithful , excuses as to why they don’t have any money . I’m just tired . And I’m sure one of them is about to come under here and say maybe it’s the men u date nah .. it’s the men I dare my friend dates the lady up the street dates and the damn lady at the damn store !

[@AB-vb4sv]

Yet 36% of bm are doing this irresponsible shit. Just say you hate bm. Go divest.

[@vanessaomoka5224]

Kendra I love you. The audacity 🤦🏾‍♀️