“He Has To Be A Millionaire”… Asking Women About Male Income

[@John-yj3rs]

For your final question you should ask “Suppose you find the man of your dreams. What do you think his standards are for a wife and do you meet them?” This is the key question that they never consider.

[@phil7574]

They don't care. They think the fact that they have a pulse and a p***y means they deserve the world.

[@MoshJunkie426]

It's not a coincidence they don't ever consider that question

[@mothegoat6865]

Underrated comment!

[@MR-nl8xr]

Noice.

[@yzer]

Also the follow-up "what age(s) were you while dating that person earning $X/yr?" Oh, so Y years ago.

[@phil7574]

I work as a firefighter/paramedic in Texas and make $92,000 a year. I've had women literally say $92,000 a year is broke and ask how do I survive? It's a circus out there folks.

[@elizabethmchugh9811]

Firefighter and paramedics are very valuable people in our society.I hope you meet somebody nice who appreciates you.

[@milan90ful]

From Canada many thanks for keeping safe 👊 as for that women don't worry cats will follow soon enough for her.

[@phil7574]

@@milan90ful Thank you I have several buddies up in Canada. I served in the US Air Force as a Pararescueman prior to becoming a Firefighter/paramedic and we trained alot with CSOR and JTF2.

[@swlc5555]

92K = broke??? Truly mind-blowing!🤯

[@laststand6420]

As another youtuber says "Clown world!"... So true. Also, congrats on making a ton of money. That takes effort.

[@oacevedo81]

The woman who said the guy has to be a millionaire is also the one that said money doesn't really matter to her. This is pure comic relief at this point.

[@Danzillar]

Dropped to $100k after, literally she expected 10 x that at the start. Crazy… 🙃

[@williambassett6962]

@@Danzillar That's why my first comment was I would love to have seen their responses if there wasn't a camera rolling ;) Once they were called out they changed their responses because they knew they looked vain and bad on camera.

[@bbtank3000]

Chris Rock covered this a long time ago: "Men can't go backwards sexually. Women can't go backwards in lifestyle."

[@ctguitarguy8510]

She was the cutest one of the bunch. So it's not surprise. The truth is, if a woman like her is around millionaires, she likely belongs to the streets.

[@williambassett6962]

@@ctguitarguy8510 Agreed, maybe not the streets, but definitely not what a millionaire would pursue other than for some fun. The reality is, and this is going to sound really hard and harsh, but a millionaire, or ANY of the six figure guys all these women are talking about WOULDN'T be looking for women like them! Again unless it was just for a fling. Guys that make that much are looking for a woman that also brings some value to the table. I seriously doubt the one woman that said she makes $200K, maybe she does, but if she did she wouldn't be doing an interview like this.

[@luckygunner3484]

when faced with the fact that she was 5x less likely to get a guy meeting her requirements than a valedictorian getting into harvard, rather than deciding that she needed to lower her standards and that she was being unrealistic her response instead was "guess ill be single forever" 😂😂😂

[@AstucesLangues]

Birth rates are about to drop some more

[@467076]

Women should have high standards but their high standards are material and not of values. I personally do have high standards, however, all those standards are personal values and not anything physical like fat ass or big tities or at least an 8/10 or whatever other physical trait men choose lol

[@Manwith6secondmemory]

Welcome to the modern world, great time to be alive

[@seanreusing5407]

"The goal of this video is not to make anyone look stupid" - Courtney Yea, but we all know it is about to happen

[@crimsonhawk4912]

Its like putting a pedophile in a room with kids.

[@lockyp204]

They do it themselves. All you need is a camera and a microphone.

[@thenathanimal2909]

everyone is stupid.

[@willllllll-r1f]

It takes ZERO effort to make these girls look like the delusional fools they are, just turn on the camera, sit back and ask questions, they'll take care of the rest. May they all RIP ⚰🪦

[@tlizzle2123]

Epiphanies

[@denniedollreborn8711]

I want to see these women interviewed in 30 years and see how their lives turned out

[@alanparks3402]

you like horror movies don't you?

[@christopherflanagan9626]

Pride cometh before the fall.

[@deejay7060]

They’ll either be divorced, or never married.

[@mrs.carter4775]

🐈 🐈 🐈. 🍷 🍷 🍷. 💔💔

[@redflag4255]

5 years from now

[@coryluke12]

“The men I date make 6 figures!” No, they just tell you that.

[@lplp1546]

Yes “she’s dated many millionaires”😆😆

[@KingpinCarlito]

Right they could make 70k live in a condo save up some money to spend recklessly and say they they make 100k. Same with 100k they could say they make a million. Those ladies are just gullible

[@justatallguy]

I don't think she even dates them, I think they just pump and dump, she just didn't notice.

[@philspaghet]

Also what kind of relationship? One night stand or short term doesn't count

[@jaws666]

Little does the one that said "i have dated men who make 6 figures" realise those men work for the toy company Hasbro and the 6 figures he told her he makes are action figures.🤣🤣🤣

[@Scout-Fanfiction]

Red Sweater Lady is my favorite. She's modestly dressed, modest in her expectations, and her body language is shy but authentic.

[@seanlinnan2719]

Yeah... but the haircut...

[@Scout-Fanfiction]

@@seanlinnan2719 If that's the biggest or solr complaint, then that's a GOOD thing lol.

[@pkphilips2]

Yes, she seems to be the most well adjusted and perhaps the least maintenance

[@Scout-Fanfiction]

@@pkphilips2 Agreed. She seems the most "normal" (if such can be said lol).

[@jonathanzuniga3681]

Was just coming here to say the same thing. If anyone she definitely seems the most fitting to date seriously. She probably opens up very well when comfortable with you and is loving. Call it a hunch.

[@ajtaylor8750]

*"Settle for less than a millionaire?"* She said that as if there's millionaires casually walking down the street everyday. At the end of the day, most women will either end up alone or "settle" for a guy whose not their ideal guy but in reality he probably makes a great long-term partner and even a husband. Being a man who earns an honest living is perfectly fine yet some of the standards and preferences today are insanely delusional and women who want a millionaire man just like how it sounds more than the reality of it.

[@TSierra]

Facts, some of the standards and preferences today are absolutely insane and delusional.

[@ImagineOnward]

They care more about the wedding instead of being a wife

[@tommygunn6901]

I just leave these girls alone. They're too stubborn and set in their ways

[@mikeh197]

You don’t want to be that man either. Better to be alone than the man she settled for while in the back in your mind wanting more.

[@freudianslip2192]

The problem is if/when she settles, she will destroy that man because he’s not good enough.

[@donutdan2079]

My favorite part about this is once Courtney told them that they’re expectations are unrealistic, they just say “I’ll just be single forever” 🤦🏻‍♂️

[@AutisticMorty]

Invest in cat food companies.

[@jayfromaz]

Good. Then they wouldn't be making a husband's life miserable with unrealistic expectations.

[@adamcraig1468]

They don't make women like they used to. Our grandparents worked every day raising families and their holidays were a week away to the coast if they were lucky. No luxury, no complaints, just living

[@mtd963]

Easier said than lived. These bit ch Azz fee-males don't know squat. So be it. Grab your passports dudes

[@Nordic_Sky]

They are correct. Single & bitter.

[@brassyjazzful]

Yikes man. I'm 45, I make $56k per year, history of childhood trauma which led to depression, anxiety and alcoholism. I'm 2.5 years sober, finally trying to build my ideal life for myself...I'm lonely as shit, and miss being with someone, but watching these videos makes me feel like I should just put those thoughts out of my head for good and just work on myself.

[@LGDarksteed]

Congratulations on your sobriety

[@LGDarksteed]

Congratulations on your sobriety

[@justatallguy]

There is still time for you to find someone, you are in a good position now. Just keep making good decisions and looking for the right person. What statistics and averages don't account for is choice. Statistically speaking, if you eat two chikens and I eat zero, on average each of us ate one chicken. But that's not true, our choices were completely different, and that changes everything. When you make the right choice in life and partner, judge them, vet them properly, stand up to yoru values, set boundaries. You increase yoru chances a lot more. Most people can't do that, but you are already aware of the traps of life, and you came out of them, so I'm sure you're ahead. Don't let some average number or some youtube videos make you give up on the life you want.

[@carpelunam]

Don't listen to Carlos and his goobly gob, just keep working on yourself and the women will come.

[@Abeisgreat1]

Get your passport

[@justinbruck9602]

Just to point out, a millionaire is someone worth a million dollars, not necessarily someone who's annual income is a million. There are probably more retirees who are worth 1M than there are guys who will ever make 1M.

[@LTJuni0r]

What’s even scarier about the finances conversation is some women don’t know the totality of what these things costs. They know vacations, housing and cars but forget about retirement, property taxes, 529 plans and all the car repairs. Most women grew up with Disney-based marriages in mind.

[@freudianslip2192]

Exactly! I dated a woman who would brag about her many international trips a year. I believed she must make a ton of money to afford that life. I was wrong she was in massive debt, had poor credit, no 401k, would rely on others for food, or emergencies. However, on Instagram she appeared to be this jet setting, world traveler, with a luxury lifestyle. It was insanity.

[@alfredlape]

Agreed- Sounds like they don’t know a $200,000 house after 30 years would cost around a million which includes interest to the bank, property tax, PMI, HOA, taxes, insurance, maintenance, cap x expenses, etc. Or their desire for a Tesla is a depreciating asset which may be worth $18,000 after 15 years. But if you invested the same down payment & monthly into an index fund, you would have $322,853 after 15 years. After 25 years, it would be a million. According to the book, Millionaire Next Door(studies behavior of millionaires), the #1 car of millionaires is a used Toyota bought with cash, not Mercedes. Some people are paying $1,200/mo for property tax. Google says the average cost to raise a child until age 18 is $200,000. Some people are paying $1,500/mo for daycare. Some people are investing $800/mo for 529 plans. This is not even including retirement. If you're spending $3,333 per month, you need one million at retirement. Spending $5,000/month, need $1.5 million. Expenses $7,000/month, need $2.1 million. This is based on the 4% rule where you multiply your yearly expenses by 25. If you need a million upon retirement, you withdraw 4% which is $3,333 per month for the rest of your life & never run out of money, even in a market crash. Many Americans that don't come from money are able to become millionaires through their retirement plans. Most people achieve this goal by investing in an index fund through their 401k, Roth IRA, & brokerage account. The National Study of Millionaires found that 8 out of 10 people became millionaires through company's 401K, the largest study conducted by Dave Ramsey.

[@echo-channel77]

Which is why when the state comes along and offers numerous incentives to divorce - there's a reason why women initiate 77% of the time.

[@davester1970]

Especially if these ladies live in a high tax blue state like California where a man making $100k is taking home around $45-50k and over half of that take home is being spent on housing.

[@richg4011]

@@freudianslip2192 I was at a bar like 4 months ago and heard the tender talking about her travels to a regular(unmarried, likely easy to F, 40s mid. She might be a great person, but we all know how birds of a feather), and I was like you probably should be saving that. People are coping hard, and figuring it out later in our society. Men and women. I've never met a travel person that It was anything other than a social flex, not reflective of their financial prowess. Ive been that guy before myself. Youre just being a conversation starter. Your pockets still tight. lmao. Sometimes it FEELS. A lot of women would rather hear how many places you've been, and wild random stories of how a camping trip ended with you surrounded by 10 raccoons, and this time you made it into a blockbuster world premier movie(when you just entered a raffle), then sit across from a guy thats like yeah I work 65 hours a week and try to catch up on sleep on Sundays. Even if you have a plan for working that hard, its not her turn on. Im not on any goofy red pill shit, this is life experience, and its sad. If the roles were reversed, and i had my current mind state. If a woman on a first date was like "I work like 65 hours a week, and try to just rest a lot on sundays, BUT i really like you so i'd like to spend sundays with you, and i have a lot of paid time off that i could use to maybe have a nice friday or saturday to ourselves.", Id think i found a winner. LOL. That shit be sounding like a burden to a lot of ladies instead of them meeting someone that is so enamored by them that they want to use their only day off and paid time off just to be with them.

[@mikeyb8313]

Moral of the story…social media is ruining people’s lives.

[@MKULTRA_Victim_]

Even if you don't use it, because everyone around you does, it ruins your life too.

[@TheFartanSpartan]

Sad but true....sad but f-ing true

[@cmdrshephard2040]

Yup

[@Mira-pm3ni]

Social media is not ruining people's life , society has biased raising standard for men and women . That's where it went wrong for some .

[@kelleychilton2524]

@@Mira-pm3ni Social media is definitely a contributing factor. Young women 30 and 40 years ago didn't have these unrealistic expectations. I know because that's when i was dating and women were more down to earth back then.

[@RenXiS47]

When they’re asked if they’d date someone who makes less money… you could you see the high discomfort in their faces just by the mere thought about it. But “money doesn’t matter”. 😂

[@katemiller7874]

Of course it does. Most women want to have children. We want to raise them ourselves. I suppose if no children then it doesn’t matter. I had them I needed a strong provider. They are grown now. I know this may bother some men to hear but it’s true. You can raise a family on 65,000 you just have to cut back. I’m not talking 200,000 that’s a different lifestyle

[@gregcountryman8770]

I feel like financial education would help both men and women when it comes to issues like this.

[@IamjustBruh]

Preaching to the choir, dude

[@gregcountryman8770]

@@IamjustBruh Thanks for noticing.

[@cisium1184]

Ironically, financial education would also result in young people who save and invest more of their money, and consequently are somewhat wealthier.

[@THX5000]

Invest in cat food, antidepressants, and boxed wine because there will be a whole generation of spinster cat laydees in a few years.

[@tombradydid9114]

The only ones who need help are women. Psychological help.

[@JDog14diggity]

Courtney, I have to say thank you for statistically opening these women’s eyes on the reality of the dating game expectations. I know some were more realistic. But most aren’t aware of the reality they live in. Again thank you for advocating for men.

[@draak88]

Im sorry, but their eyes remained closed.

[@scottbrandon6244]

@@draak88They all think it will be different for them. Why wouldn't a high value man sweep her off the feet and marry her?

[@Knapptime95]

You also have to consider that some of these girls were likely born into money. Sure, Cleveland itself is historically a working class industrial city, but it has some VERY affluent suburbs believe it or not. So if they’re born into a wealth, and luxury is all they know, they’re not gonna all of a sudden desire a 40-50k a year middle class run of the mill dude…that’s just the unfortunate truth of it

[@christophersmyth1908]

This video is honestly one of the best examples I've seen as to why there should be a class on financial education that is a requirement for graduating High School. 🎓

[@JohnPaul-jn1fo]

these girls would all fail

[@omotayosatuyi252]

I haven’t watched the full vid yet but yes we need financial education a whole class about it it’s so sad that some kids graduate high school and don’t even know the basics about finances and financial education like investing and setting up emergency funds some don’t even know what interest rates are

[@richg4011]

This isnt a lack of financial education tho. This is a multitude of problems. One is just a culture of non transparent parents with constant CC debt looking like they're living good, and their kids didnt know that from age 10-18 of their lives the parents were stressing over their finances, had a horrible personal relationship, and then theyre confused when they're divorced before they graduate college. Second would just be literally never thinking of this stuff because clearly theyre not on their own, and most people dont. Roommates to split the cost dilute your view of money. Financially supportive parents dilute your view of money. A car you didnt have to buy with your own money, and mad that your monthly payments are so high because youre credit score sucks at your age and no one told you about C scores, dilutes your view of money. And they've literally never even thought about well, just cause he's rich doesnt make me rich. EVEN SHAQ TOLD HIS KIDS IM RICH, YOURE NOT RICH. Some of these girls over the last few months think they're going to have full access to their mans bank account. LMFAO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! You think even lebron james has his wife having full access and decision making on his hundreds of millions, and that she can just wakeup one day and be like babe im flying to L.A, i just bought a 4 million dollar buggati. No, she can use that 100k limit credit card that someone on his team makes sure is paid every month, and keep it moving. That millionaire girl giggled "thats why im single". You will always be. You're chasing unicorns. I love how magically they all know young millionaires on every episode. Well not all, but at least one. No you dont. If you do, you dont know their finances and theyre probably pump faking. Magically so many women know all these men making 6 figures, multiple 6 figures, 7 figures, and statistically it seems like theyre all running into unicorns. lol. Everyone just wants to be next to money, even if its not real money. Those older women are unfortunately desperate, but they in our culture probably will only get worse. At least if your marks are off in your young 20s someone can be like nah and educate you about life, relationships, money, and you can start to maybe build with someone in those early 20s, and if its what you both want, start a family in your latter 20s when your resume is good, your savings are great, your understanding of each other is immaculate, and your general resources to build and raise a family are great. There is a reason millionaire girl doesnt have a millionaire, but has been "involved" with men who make way less im sure. They(millionaires) dont want you, and theyre not that abundant. When men want women, they go for it. Doesnt matter if youre in a relationship, married, etc.. Well a selective group of men are that confident. I feel for her because shes going to continue to be unfilled and early 30s soon, and she still wont get it. If you were gonna get chosen by a 7 figure guy, it wouldve happened already. Theyre mostly settled down, and the young millionaires will just turn you into a sidepiece or baby moms.

[@Carfalog]

Agreed. It needs to happen while they’re kids too before their financial perspective is fully infected by the facade of social media lifestyles.

[@lavellelee5734]

@@richg4011 jeez this is long 😂

[@elizabethanne8729]

22:21 I’m married to a surgeon. You like that lifestyle? You better be ready for him being completely dedicated to his job. We once drove five hours for a weekend trip to then turn around and drive all the way home because one of his patients came back to the ED with what looked like a stroke (it wasn’t thank god) Phone calls all night from medicine, PA’s, residents…. That lifestyle?

[@robertsmith17359]

100%, this is very typical of these careers that pay $100k plus. If my boss tells me I need to get on a plane tomorrow and fly half way around the world, I'm doing it. For my troubles I am compensated well, but there is a tradeoff.

[@elizabethanne8729]

@@robertsmith17359 exactly

[@Arvak777]

​@@robertsmith17359yup, lots of people I met that were making that were always away from home, living out their luggage in a new hotel every week. They loved the pay but if you'd want a home or stable family it wasn't easy

[@BigTroyT]

In these women's fantasy worlds, these guys have the income, but none of the responsibilities, and they're free to come and go as they wish. There is zero connection with reality. I'm sure your husband would love to make his salary AND take an uninterrupted vacation once in his life, or spend more time at home with you, but that's just not the reality of his job, or of nearly any high-income job.

[@abarrister1506]

I am a divorce lawyer, ask me what the Christmas Holidays are like.

[@Mr_Fairdale]

Women: “I’d like a husband making 200k minimum so I can stay at home and plan our vacations.” Men: “I’d like my wife to be nice to me and maybe wear a sun dress…?”

[@oscarma15]

Yeah, that's literally me. It would be nice if she was an animal lover, smart, and had bangs. Our expectations are so much more reasonable and yet we're still disappointed

[@AutisticMorty]

Men are not allowed to have expectations. You're going to get a clinically obese 40 year old angry feminist, and you're going to act like you're happy about it.

[@dudeguyme1]

Ong

[@elmateo77]

Yep most guys just want a woman who's nice and not fat. Yet women act like that's completely unreasonable and somehow oppressing them.

[@adamcraig1468]

@@elmateo77 they think wanting an agreeable, in shape woman is mysoginistic 🤣

[@Scorpionwitch]

The one girl who said it makes her question the level of education in America that men don't make more money is really off the rails. Not every single person can be a doctor, lawyer, or whatever. The bulk of society is made of people that fix cars, build roads, teach, keep the water running and the power on, etc. If every single man in America was a surgeon, life would grind to stop almost immediately but those people are probably invisible to her.

[@MATCHLESS789]

Not to mention the fact that US is one of the wealthiest societies in the entire world. I wish I lived in US, median salaries are like 8-10 time lower here, yet prices are the same (except for real estate).

[@jeffreyspurgeon9126]

I’m a “blue collar” guy (I have two degrees) and i work with my hands because I make more money and don’t pay for insurance which is huge because I have a wife and 3 kids. I make more money than almost everyone I went to college with. The trash collectors and and building trade person makes more money than the statistical average that she talked about but many women ignorantly look down on them.

[@butchsmith-rt1ok]

Wow you guys arent listening.....most of what they was reasonable.

[@aty11x]

As a 31-year-old individual who has been earning a six-figure income since my late 20s, I have noticed that it is relatively easy to find casual partners when your income is high. However, it is much more difficult to find a suitable long-term partner. I often encounter women who are just like the women in the video - have little income, have probably received a subpar education (with a worthless degree), and possess an average or below average IQ, but still expect to marry someone who is financially successful and elevate them to a lifestyle they could not attain otherwise. In my experience, most individuals in similar circumstances only pursue serious relationships with women who are either equally successful, have ambitious goals, or possess qualities such as intelligence, class, elegance, and physical attractiveness. Finding such a woman is not an easy task, just like finding a good-looking and financially successful man is not easy for women. Do not ask expect a luxury car when you yourself don't have luxury car income.

[@doma1686]

As a man made 100k+ a year i never look up upon those who made lesser than me. dont get me wrong i could take care of the household,children etc

[@stevejhkhfda]

spot on.

[@yaz5627]

Very spot on and similar to my experience. Literally perfect response. A lot of these low quality women are just parasites to successful men and even with those men they attempt to break them down because they are insecure. If they really want such a person of high standard they need to know how to act and how to treat them and bring a true sense of loyalty and care. A high value man would give them the boot real quick if they show any sign of toxicity or negative intentions that can in any way hold you back. That is why I agree they need to be on the same level or atleast truly understand hard work and how difficult it is to get anywhere in this life. None of these lazy lounging couch potatoe parasite hoes allowed in my orbit. Any sense of entitlement or indecency will get ghosted. Been thru too much. No type of lust or loneliness is worth that headache. Id rather use that energy to accomplish even more.

[@hkchan1339]

Women nowadays are looking for fathers who will love and provide for them unconditionally even if they are a brat, and had no idea what an adult relationship is like where love is provided under the condition of mutual respect. They didn’t want boyfriends, they wanted daddies.

[@RayleighCriterion]

Women do not want a man that is on their level, because that means they are settling, but somehow for the man it's not settling, which is how perverse female logic is.

[@positiveaddict]

Dreams were crushed in this video. Courtney's bringing the heat!

[@brushylake4606]

No, most women are delusional. This information will be out of their head by the time they go to sleep that night.

[@alfredocornelio4329]

Courtney: the point of these videos is not to make anybody look stupid. Obi Wan Kenobi: They have done that themselves

[@nonamewillbegiven7228]

Aka you losers in the comments haha

[@ernestogerena7419]

Hello, there. ;)

[@RR-et6zp]

they arent chaste, they're half naked everywhere, they don't do anything around the house

[@Danny328DT]

I see through your lies Obi Wan! I do not fear the modern women as you do!

[@shawnberry9335]

If she seeks an athletic tall, dark, and handsome self-made millionaire who is the life of the party, has 3 legs, and only has eyes for her, what could possibly go wrong?

[@purerage7963]

3 legs 💀

[@f-bomb3566]

Hey I'm a athletic tall dark and tattooed one handsome devil mma fighter but my B**** A** is broke

[@Slaughterproof]

Yeah that eyes for her part isn't happening.

[@ShinLeeChan]

I'd say everything. :)

[@rene-rv6pp]

That she can weak up suddenly and find is only her dream

[@Canada4evr]

Courtney, multiple universities should give you an honorary Ph.D. for the reality check you're enlightening upon women with your channel.

[@JohnSkyLey]

"I like a guy who travels" Translation: I want to go on trips with you and I want you to pay for it

[@bobsmithy9024]

Lol Broooootal.

[@AutisticMorty]

And a lot of them probably don't even like traveling, it's all about the photos for Instagram so they can flaunt a status and lifestyle to their friends. They would probably prefer to stay home instead of going to a poor Latin or European country to visit some tourist attractions.

[@gordonjay2461]

Hey she's willing to use her 'emotional labour' booking the flights and hotels. Really she's doing the heavy lifting 😂

[@Sparta1984]

@@AutisticMorty Use Photoshop then, It's cheaper haha

[@gucciguy3408]

Yea I love peoples obsession with traveling to different countries. Like they are nice once in awhile,but my god these women prove that they just want to always live paycheck to paycheck even if they made 200k a year.

[@dillans]

Things you’d never hear a man say…when I get married I only want to contribute 25% to the household budget. 😂

[@soindifferent_]

haha almost spat my coffee out

[@corinaalbu6803]

😂😂😂

[@carontorliak2760]

As long as she does 75% of the household chores and childcare.

[@nightgoggles9931]

@@carontorliak2760Lmao, how does that make sense? 50/50 is still 50% of chores and caring for the kid. As someone that has owned a house for years and that had to take care of my sister’s child multiple nights a week and during the day for like half a year, an additional 25% of chores and childcare is at best maybe a part time job. If you both make 100k, how is that worth her pocketing an additional 75k and you giving everything? And having more time with your own child that you would die for (like my niece) isn’t some form of a chore or “work”. It was one of the most enjoyable times of my life. Ask any decent parent if they would rather spend a Saturday at work or with their children. Putting it in the same group as chores is dumb af and really only a view that a terrible/narcissistic parents have. They’re also completely gone for at least 7 hours a day after the age of 5 which kind of begs the question again of how does that make sense since the load of childcare is significantly reduced? Either way, they’re the one getting the better deal

[@katemiller7874]

Women are built differently in case you haven’t noticed. If we have children we want to be able to take care of our young and protect them. Be with them and teach them so ya we won’t be contributing as much as you do to the family budget.

[@nunnaza]

I would love for you, Courtney to interview a group of Men of diverse ages and appearances who ARE making a Six Figure Salary and ask them what they're looking for in a woman. It would be interesting to see their answers ... 😉

[@melteddarkchocolate000]

And that will validate what?

[@richfreedomguns]

@@melteddarkchocolate000 no one is looking for validation. The purpose is to educate some women as to what we are looking for, and what we avoid.

[@gobot4455]

As a married man that fits that criteria, if I knew what marriage was like with a western woman, I would not be married. No one wants to carry an albatross for the rest of his life.

[@briandickie7264]

None of these women appeal to me, a multi millionaire.

[@_Painted]

I am less than 6 feet tall which is apparently a deal-breaker for many women so they'd reject me anyways. I want to marry a smart (maybe a little nerdy) practical secular/liberal Jewish woman who has some overlap in interests and who wants to have a large family together (~4 kids). Even though I make enough money to comfortably be the sole provider for a family, I want my partner to make some income (maybe 30% as much as me) so that they realize the effort that goes into having a career and so that they value what I contribute. I also highly value competence in a partner, so her having a career will make me respect her more.

[@bbtank3000]

Today's culture is more superficial and materialistic than ever before. Women see other women on Instagram and Tiktok who have amazing clothes, homes, cars, vacations, lifestyles, etc....and they naturally want that same level of "success". In their minds, they realize: "If that's going to be me, I need a rich man who can afford me that lifestyle."

[@bruceleeroy8302]

The people who work at the passport offices around the US would like to thank Courtney Ryan for making videos like this.

[@Fr3d0mC0nsum3d]

I don’t get it, can you explain? Is it because guys will get mail order brides or because fewer girls will travel abroad?

[@reanschwarzer2187]

@@Fr3d0mC0nsum3d there’s a large section of guys called the passport bros I’m one I’m 27 and I’m saving up to date outside the country

[@hughjohns9110]

@@reanschwarzer2187 good for you. You might be disappointed but not as disappointed as if you tried to date in a western country these days.

[@bigpapa2195]

@@Fr3d0mC0nsum3d passport bros4life girls in many other countries are better in every single way than american women.

[@reanschwarzer2187]

@@hughjohns9110 gotcha well I’m been knocked out plenty for not being 6 foot alone. So if I can approach in other countries and get shot down nicely that’ll still be a big improvement

[@theevolutionofthebear3093]

Could you imagine choosing a women based on how much they make and expecting them to pay for your wildly unrealistic lifestyle? I couldn't even imagine thinking someone else should pay my way. These videos are wild.

[@Robnas621]

Well, of course not. Men are not hard-wired to care about how a woman financially contributes, what degree she has, and things like that. Men care about youth and physical appearance. It’s totally natural for women to value the resources of their prospective mates. That said, the expectations in many cases are obviously unrealistic

[@lauraa857]

Men select women based on their look and the amount of sex they can have from them. what is worst? Trust me im not going to stay fit , invest in my look and give sex to a poor/cheap man I will gladly stay alone.

[@garypierce7380]

It never actually entered my mind.

[@theevolutionofthebear3093]

@@lauraa857 Pretty shallow point of view which was my point really. What if he is a really cool guy with a lot of love to offer you? You're missing out because you perceive him as being "cheap/poor." I make more than enough money and I don't blow it on girls that have your attitude.

[@FokusEnzo]

@@theevolutionofthebear3093 well said brother she needs a reality check

[@jesse3733]

reality won't be as kind as Courtney

[@lplp1546]

You said it true my brother.

[@starscream6629]

Good, it should be brutally honest to wake people up.

[@marlowe1842]

The irony is the Courtney traded up for a millionaire fiance.

[@thomaswoods1365]

"Hostility is the result of unmet expectations." You definitely are on the right track Courtney. I personally believe it is the number 1 issue why relationships fail. I would categorize it as Surprise Expectations. Where a spouse has them dropped on them after marriage.

[@derekwhite7829]

"I'm gonna be single forever". Yes, you are with those expectations😂🤣😅. It's almost as if she didn't realize that her expectations were completely insane.

[@machno.1887]

She seems like a gold digger

[@MR-nl8xr]

Almost, huh?

[@jerrybruckhart9134]

You should count your blessings.

[@banditonehundred]

She is fine looking though. I bet she can find a sugar daddy

[@nonamewillbegiven7228]

You're so gullible White

[@Entree_Iguodala]

The look of shock when Courtney said that a lot of people on social media lie about how much money they have lmao

[@garypierce7380]

Hannah Alonzo has a site where she tells MLM (Multi-Level Marketing) horror stories. They lie like crazy in those things too.

[@amykearns9470]

There are studios with private jet set up/ jets on ground to do photo shoots from and all you have to do to appear to be on tropical vacation is cram yourself in a tropical plant and take extreme close up.

[@rafaelnadal1851]

Half the people who are travelling/spending on social media are in credit card debt

[@davester1970]

@@rafaelnadal1851 Right! Sadly most women seem to confuse true wealth with consumption.

[@nghtwtchmn129]

@@rafaelnadal1851 I'm reliably informed that many country club members are also the subject of bad-check warrants. They are living beyond their means.

[@derekwhite7829]

Courtney - “I’ve noticed as I’ve gotten older that people buy things that they cannot afford.” Girl - “I’m one of those people” The least surprising interaction of the whole video. 😂😂

[@Thriving_in_Exile]

Here's your 69th like, My Guy.

[@ShinLeeChan]

I had no doubts about it since she told "He has to be a millionaire".

[@rene-rv6pp]

Yes i think that last woman allready a bit old to have kids .i mean if she bends to take the baby her back will ache .she is not a 21 years old

[@JG-yo1jg]

Solid content, really wish the algorithm would push it to more women. Women really need to hear this so they can have a more realistic expectation when it comes to a partner. You have helped these women out tremendously.

[@melteddarkchocolate000]

Her channel is made mainly for men. If she can make a video for women, that could be helpful.

[@angiepatterson6338]

Throughout cancer and chemo my husband was there 110% of the time for me and I think you are all to young and entitled to understand how much more valuable than money that sort of husband is.

[@TOhara-eb2lp]

Thank you for noticing that the quality of a man doesn’t come his checkbook.

[@RichardHartl]

Wow you belong in a museum just for how rare of a specimen you are! Thank you for being you and I truly hope you're fully recovered now. And you're a billion percent right, I think some real and hard life experience will show these ladies what their laundry list of ideal qualities really mean. SPOILER ALERT: it means nada Dating and its expectations are so unsettling. I've never dated and I've found I kind of don't care

[@MR-nl8xr]

May you both live a happily ever after!

[@hwalter5432]

Yeah, you belong in a museum. Did the same for my ex, even before we were married, took off work, stayed with her through and after surgery, and took care of her and her 12 year old daughter at the time, looked after her and the girl-not one word of appreciation from her. Daughter knew tho, now my step daughter and she remembers! But women simply cannot appreciate-not in their hearts!

[@gregoryadler7806]

@@hwalter5432 So, just to be clear, you would have been happier if she didn’t appreciate him?

[@champeight6737]

If there was an Emmy awards in social media, this video would be a strong candidate. Entertaining while revealing perception vs reality. Well done.

[@userre85]

Johnny Harris won an Emmy for a KZbin video I think

[@tommygunn6901]

Here's the thing, I don't care what their delusions are cause they're just that from their unreasonable expectations. Secondly, how much I make is no one's business! Social media has not only made people entitled, but it's made people nosy!

[@LatimusChadimus]

We all just need to collectively start being like Willy Wonka telling these women they lose, they get nothing, good day!

[@ZaibatsuuHQ]

Exactly, my income is my business, I don't make money for someone other than myself first. Those videos about MALE INCOME are too much right now. Woman also needs to get up and find a job instead of sitting all day on the couch watching tiktoks 24/7 without purpose in life thinking she's a special queen or something. It's insane how they think they're special. They need to be taught how life works and then she'll change immediately after feeling poverty

[@tommygunn6901]

Totally inappropriate on the first few dates to be asking, let alone talking stage. I come off aggressive because I know what I won't tolerate, and know what I want. I know what not to entertain and these fools I wouldn't bat an eye

[@GomersPile01]

Yes, they are completely delusional. Good think gay marriage is legal. They can marry each other.

[@cisium1184]

The problem with the "don't talk about money" mindset is that what no one talks about, no one learns about. To quote the writer David Wong, "people consider it so wrong to talk to you that way that they've decided it's better to simply let you keep failing." I was raised not to talk about money - I'm 55 now. When we don't get realistic financial pictures from our parents and our schools, we cleave to unrealistic ones from the media, television, and KZbin, which are all absurdly inflated. I agree that it's rude to flaunt one's wealth, but the irony is that not talking about money honestly actually _encourages_ young people to flaunt. Because none of them know the truth, they can all lie and get away with it, and over time everyone starts to believe the lies. Thus 20-something sitcom characters with humble jobs live in huge apartments and we don't question it. Thus we end up with 22-year-old women who "won't settle for less than six figures" and have no clue that they are consigning themselves to a decade of loneliness. Thus our politicians can manipulate us into resenting other people that we think have more than us. Seriously, I know that mindset comes from a modest, humble, Christian place. But in practice, it's poison. It's tearing at the fabric of our society. It's gotta stop.

[@zovoth]

Thank you ladies for confirming my decision of bachelorhood… I have prevented crippling debt

[@DutchDansing]

I was at a bar last month and spoke to a girl who was in her mid 20's. She said she had been casually seeing a guy who is a millionaire. According to her, he ignored her for 3 weeks at one point and she still ended up going back to him. I told her that millionaires have options. If my competition is able to behave like this yet I have to jump through so many hoops to get a girls attention it almost makes me want to throw in the towel. Her friend, who I also spoke to, said that she was sad that the guy she was "seeing" chose someone else over her. Her claim to him was that she had "left her toothbrush" at this guys house. Just like us guys can't reason women into being attracted to us, women should not try to negotiate themselves into a guys life by pathetic stuff like this. If modern women want to be part of Chad's harem, I am not going to stop them... but they should also know that I would be very hesitant to date them when they have hit the wall. All that baggage and a body count that makes a serial killer blush... yikes!

[@johnj6743]

Hesitant? Do not come close, don't save them if your life depended on it.

[@imanigordon6803]

Don’t worry about women that aren’t in your frame of view find the partner that best fits you and have the individuals that made poor choices weed themselves out the dating market. That’s life those who waste taking dating seriously will regret it later on.

[@Dave-qh4vw]

You need to head overseas, where you don't need to be a millionaire to be appreciated by women. It's the best experience I've ever had in my life so far.

[@CaptTambo]

"Chad's Harem" LOL!!!

[@richardthomas598]

Yet you fixate on them, instead of like literally everybody else. That is assuming any of this actually happened, and isn't an RP strawman fable. And don't say all women are that. It's false and a cop-out, sold to you by a con-artist.

[@MLI0369]

I’m at work and when they girl said, “I know it sounds like money matters to me, but it really doesn’t” I broke out laughing so loud lol. People looking at me weird hahahaa

[@AutisticMorty]

When I heard that, same. Pure cap. Or she's just really bad with numbers, has no idea what $1 million means.

[@Smoovindecat]

He needs to make a million 😂 also I don’t care though 🤣🤣🤣

[@Smoovindecat]

Excellent video ! As for a question about dating .... mine is.... is it deemed aggressive to approach a girl for her number in the real world nowadays? Considering the dating coach girls online are all saying grow a pair be a man and do it! The old fashioned way! but the videos of girls complaining about actually being approached are everywhere! Even if you exclude the creepy men incidents. So what does it all mean? What’s a guy to do if they like someone?

[@AutisticMorty]

@@Smoovindecat only if you're attractive, well dressed, and you don't have autism.

[@Smoovindecat]

@@OgunDaMan just watched your recommendation, they hit the topic perfectly! Great explanation of the predicament.

[@bigchungus4283]

When that blonde was told how rare a man like that is she said “I’m gonna be single forever” see this is proof that they would rather die alone than have reasonable standards.

[@volusiasorange]

these women aren't even very attractive, is the thing

[@banagan4604]

Hopefully

[@robertsmith17359]

It is indeed evidence that some women would rather be alone than lower their standards. But that is exactly what makes the relationship marketplace advantageous for women. Since women are more likely on average to forgo marriage if they can't get what they want there are fewer women to date, and those women can demand a higher-quality man. So, we as men can decide if we want to try and meet the standards or bow out ourselves. I think the reality is that men are much less likely to bow out, so women can date and marry up.

[@ines3770]

Why is it a bad thing ?

[@volusiasorange]

@@ines3770 because it's not what they actually want

[@Kirralee09]

These interviews are excellent! As a guy i find them insightful, and I do get a kick out of watching women realize their expectations are at times unrealistic

[@lesgibson969]

Women: Men and women are equal. Also women: It's not the case when it comes to money though. Guess what honey, I'm not going to give you a single cent.

[@matthewcoombs3282]

What is yours is mine, what is mine is mine. Sums it up. Very few women on the video talk about a partnership here. Quite depressing they think obtaining a life partner is like shopping for a hand-bag.

[@MrFuckinglogin]

money is somewhat okay. Because women like presents, and women want to have kids. Also money is something a man can change (if he is lucky, or works hard, or talented or whatever). Height on the other hand... big oof

[@lockyp204]

This is the way…

[@swlc5555]

@@matthewcoombs3282 The woman with the cleavage basically said as much. She said it would be okay if a guy made less money so long as he isn't jealous that she makes more. And at the end she added, "Don't come after my pockets." Translation: don't expect my income to be used for your benefit.

[@yzer]

@@swlc5555 "don't come after my pockets" was the most honest and accurate answer all video

[@nicolashromyk5397]

Seven bedrooms 💀 I shared a room with my brother until we were both in college lmao the percentage of people who have enough money to buy a house of that size is already small, the percentage of people within that bracket that actually buy a house that big is even smaller.

[@d.e.b.b5788]

You have to remember, women are brought up believe that they are all princess quality and deserve to become royalty and queens eventually.

[@williambassett6962]

I'm single, own a 4K sqft house and I don't have anywhere close to 7 bedrooms!

[@hunter_69_69]

It's kinda funny how a lot of gen Z gals complain about "income inequality," and yet want their husbands to be the breadwinners of the family. I personally feel that spouses should have zero overlap with their finances.

[@Tsunami-6]

Just more proof of how illogical/delusional society is today.

[@dat868]

Right. They demand equal pay then lose interest in legions of men who they are now on par with salary wise but this reality never knocks them upside the head.

[@thossi09]

@Barley My sister makes more than her husband, a woman friend of mine makes more than her husband (she's working full time as a "practical nurse, he's either 60 or 70% working as a kindergarten assistant), another woman friend of mine will most likely make more than her husband for at least 6 months (if he ever gets around to actually moving to the country where we live). I've worked with a doctor whose husband's job was owning and running a hot dog stand. I have friends (two couples) who supported each other through university - one worked full time while the other studied. What's nature's programming there?

[@anonymous76]

@@thossi09 you are delusional. Exception doesn't make rule. Those couples are in EXTREME minority. And most of these couples break apart after some time so it is like 0.0something% of most cases that worked for long time. Women don't want to financially support men (for long) in 99.99% of the cases. Finding 1 women out of million women don't disprove the rule stated above.

[@matthewcoombs3282]

@@thossi09 The divorce rates among couples where the woman is a- college graduate, b- earns more than her husband are above the average. I have seen the figures (cannot quote them from memory) and of course the woman usually iniates the divorce. Hypergamy is real and 50 years of f-ism is not going to over turn 50 thousand years of cultural and evolutionary programming.

[@tryan4242]

This is entirely accurate where I live, 42 male and I have met a lot of women who want a man with 200K PLUS as a minimum. It is getting hilarious.

[@lockyp204]

It’s ok, they’re pricing themselves out and will end up alone. And I mean if you’re earning that much, I’d be trying for 25 year olds. But no I wouldn’t, because I’m not interested in being divorce graped

[@milan90ful]

Problem is even normal women now demand this and everyday more and more women want this.. sad

[@sunfish4095]

It's important to recognize that with every woman now presumed to sexually available and indeed they are, they are now flying blind in terms of being able to differentiate what calibre of man will actually commit to them. I'm sure these same women you speak of have "dated" with 200k men just fine...and so it is the case that they believe they can secure commitment from these men that date them. However, if they can pull it off they would gladly have the 200k man's child then find a commited man willing to raise that child. It's a war of attrition it seems. Starve the bottom 80% of men from relationships until they are desperate enough to date a single mother is the ideal it seems.

[@lockyp204]

@@sunfish4095 I’m 51, I’ll never live under the same roof as some other guys kids- ever ! Happy to watch Rome burn if that’s the case

[@joeskeptical4762]

*$200K annual income to buy access to something given away for free quite a few times already?* ▪️I ▪️Don't ▪️Think ▪️So

[@bensu0145]

I'm 40 years old, make around $100,000 annually, do bodybuilding, speak two languages, travel around the world, and completed a Bachelor's plus a Master's degree program. Even with all that said I still wouldn't have a chance with these women because I am a short SOB at 5'3.

[@bobbanks6217]

There are some girls who don't care about height. You might get lucky especially with your other attributes 😁

[@kelleychilton2524]

@@bobbanks6217 The majority of women do care about a man's height. He's probably going to have to find a woman his own height.

[@nicksantangelo9083]

It bothers me how little women bring to the table and how many demands they have

[@lifeafterkings6315]

Exactly all these women in that interview failed, I wouldn't take any of them.

[@gerardoa9179]

Hypergamy

[@TSierra]

Exactly, most modern women today.

[@nsteak4236]

As a woman I agree

[@universal3024]

Right? These females are delusional. Want all the benefits of traditionalism and none of the responsibilities. They’re crazy

[@233kosta]

These women demonstrate why the ever hated "gender pay gap" is absolutely essential to the function of the society they want

[@Mastermind111111]

Yep.

[@onehtereproppper3697]

Work 4 years, then stop and start a family.

[@fturla___156]

Decades ago a friend was dating a girl, and I said to another friend that it would be easier for my first friend to get into Harvard than get into being with his girl friend. I was serious. My first friend actually did get into Harvard University and he became a surgeon. When the former girl friend wanted to re-initiate a relationship with my first friend again, my doctor friend wanted me to assist him in avoiding her advances toward getting his affection for her. We all knew that she wasn't willing to provide enough affection when he and she were much younger, and I expect she hasn't changed.

[@sheths]

Many factors that were not taken into account: 1) Cost of living in city 2) student debt 3) cost of raising kids 4) cost of home / cars 5) cost of Medical insurance

[@SweatmansFlicks]

The problem with modern dating is competition. Women believe they are in competition with other women. When they see or hear what one woman wants, they immediately want that too without reason because she believes she has to fit within a certain group of women to be seen as a high valued woman to make other women envy her.

[@kevinb8881]

This is 1000% true!!

[@milan90ful]

Agree as well 1000% many women not all, overvalue themselves. Almost all women think they deserve the best without putting any effort or just being a traditional wife. Most women now in days think being a traditional women is extremely unrealistic, and also to add to that if women do house chores they would think it's unfair and you also need to help as well in regards to that. While you're also working very hard to earn as much money as possible to have decent income.

[@alangwhiteTheBoss]

Yes group think

[@grandrapids57]

Well yes they are in competition ... usually marrying means a raise.

[@zerpblerd5966]

no, 95% of people, men and women, are not emotionally mature enough to handle the seriousness required relaitonships are not for most people, it is a false idea that everyone should be with someone, no leave mating to the best of the best

[@archinemesis]

Hearing these girls' requirements are like they were going on a shopping spree with an unlimited credit card

[@williambassett6962]

Honestly? I bet most probably have met guys that let them to just that... hence why they feel entitled and expect all men to treat them that way. Also if they did go for guys like that, odds are they were WAY older than 35 and probably married! I know that sounded harsh, but guys that earn what they are expecting just don't typically date women like them for a LTR.

[@thescoon1]

I'm not sure these questions are framed well, which is why they seem more demanding. This a reflection of 'ideal lifestyle' which if I were asked the same question, I'd say that my partner was a 10, earned good money, was always willing and open to everything and anything etc. - would I settle for any less? Of course I would. I'd settle for a lot less because I understand that those are unrealistic expectations, and people are human. The fact that one of the girls laughed when she said 'He'd have to be a millionaire' I think is a laugh of self-awareness of how absurd their 'ideal lifestyle' really looks, just how mine also looks absurd. If they then went on to say they'd accept no less, *then* you have a problem.

[@rixyz7013]

@@thescoon1 I’m just going to take this video for what it is and what it is not. This video is about girls who want absurdly high demand in terms of value. It is not about what you describe

[@melinatedthinka8210]

@@thescoon1 exactly it’s a set up, the witch knows and is aware of what she’s doing. She make sure to always say “in your ideal world” to instigate a fantasy. Then judges based on fantasy and NOT their practical standard. Something is off about that woman and her content. She never asks what is your current standard etc etc

[@AndrewTheVikings]

They have spending problems.

[@Yanusun]

I can relate. I mean, my expectations are that my future wife is someone who is kind, giving, ambitious, and not vain and I'm realizing more and more just how delusional I am 😅

[@LazGato]

Same, seems like asking for genuine love and loyalty is like asking for a dragon

[@c1s1125]

Looking in the wrong country. Get a passport

[@nohomo4774]

why do you want an ambitious wife? thats a really weird trait to desire

[@Yanusun]

@@nohomo4774 What, you think I want a wife who sits around and does nothing and has no desire to achieve anything in life? Sounds exciting. I think maybe you need to look up what ambition is. It's a great thing to have.

[@Banana-eb8qr]

@@nohomo4774 that’s not weird at all. Ambition relates to having a strong desire to achieve something, and that thing can be anything. It doesn’t have to be related to finance or status.

[@RaderizDorret]

Let's see who wants the Pagani Hypercar this time.

[@CourtneyRyan]

😂😭

[@kamaalkatariya1088]

😂😂😂

[@TSierra]

And the $50 million dollar mansion lol

[@ked4]

"Nothing too spacious, just 4,000 or 5,000 sq ft house"

[@RaderizDorret]

@@ked4 And here's the thing. I own a 1100 square foot house with 3 bedrooms, 1 bath and detached garage on a lot just over 5000 square feet in area. In a small town in Michigan. I paid $80,000 for it and that was a good price for what I got.

[@ernstachildiyev2155]

As an actual millionaire in his early 30’s, with a circle of friends who are also young, self-made millionaires, these are not the type of women any of us would consider dating.

[@GOD999MODE]

and why is that?

[@ernstachildiyev2155]

@@GOD999MODE Not good wife/mother material based on the answers they provided.

[@TrippyLiberty]

It's very telling when some women are shown just how insane their standards are and all they decide to do is casually say "Welp, I guess I'll be alone forever".

[@wolfhawk1999]

I feel like most single women choose to be single. She's a perfect example. She's also a gold digger

[@Progress234]

Women are just not desperate

[@Youaretheactionsofgod]

​@triptinath5675 That's the fault of men, these problems don't get solved until the average woman feels acutely the pain of the average man. They need to be treated with disdain and contempt like they treat others.

[@yarmus718]

Just delusional @@Progress234

[@Bowserguy62]

Ok, the girl in the white top who said 60-70k for a 30-year-old with a college degree in business or engineering is very doable. I think she is the only one who had a sound mind

[@reanschwarzer2187]

Right but literally now she’s on the starting line. Gotta find a man with that also I mean you are cutting out a large section without including blue collar jobs. Cause smart men today are not dating in the workplace so you gotta go to places these people will be. Lastly hook up culture a lot of dudes seen to many of these types of women and go okay so no real relationship material left I’ll just have fun.

[@StpMakinMeChangMyNam]

The girl in the pink with the crazy necklaces was even more realistic. The problem is, the girl in the white was average looking and the girl in the pink was below average and they STILL both wanted an above average income man.

[@Bowserguy62]

@@reanschwarzer2187 Oh bro exactly like Im only 25 I make in the middle of the total I mentioned but I 1. dont flaunt my wealth and 2. None of these girls actually attract me or they seem so fake. Im like Im not trying to decipher and find out how you are and taking you to places just for status. Me personally I give 2 shits less about status I enjoy my quiet life of working, working out, piano, and traveling I dont even post it on insta now because its my life who do I need to show off to?

[@reanschwarzer2187]

@@Bowserguy62 smart you’d also be surprised how many women will disqualify you based on your Instagram page or lack there of

[@Bowserguy62]

@@reanschwarzer2187 Oh bro I know like people always acting like you need to take care of yourself dress up nicely. Im like listen if im comfy in sweat pants im gonna go out in sweatpants. I kid you not when I go to weddings all my friends are shocked they are like wtf you cleanup so good. Im like I know its a formal event why do I need to impress randos on the street?

[@kaixokaleabilbao2770]

I laughed when the girl was hit with the date and the truth and her response was " I will be single for a while " instead of " I should lower my standards because they seem to be imposible ".

[@joeydoherty368]

Why do so many guys want girls to lower their standards for them? Stop being so desperate and instead declare yourself to be the standard. Women do it all the time, why can’t we? It’s like women have more balls than men. We’re so weak nowadays it honestly doesn’t surprise me women measure us solely by our wallets.

[@kaixokaleabilbao2770]

@@joeydoherty368 if your standard is to go for 1% of the male population when you are an average woman that is being delusional is not a question of having balls. If she thinks she can marry Elon Musk I think she is delusional may be you think she has lots of balls but I thing most people will agree that she is delusional.

[@joeydoherty368]

@@kaixokaleabilbao2770 What you guys don't understand is that it's not so much that she thinks can marry Elon Musk as much as it's she wants Elon Musk, and if she can't get him she'll just stay single as opposed to settling for less. What's wrong with that? Why would you want to be second place?

[@kaixokaleabilbao2770]

@@joeydoherty368 what’s wrong with that? The extinction of human kind. We are facing the largest generation pf single women in their 40’s of all times because of the insane standards of modern women in western countries. Let’s not talk about the future psicological problems that those women will suffer due to the fact that women take worse loniliness than men do. Most modern western women think that the Tinder party of their 20’s and 30’s will never be over, they sleep around a lot with more than average guys (as side chicks) thinking they will marry one of them but more than average guys don’t settle with average girls and that’s the truth so when they reach their 40’a they are hit with the truth and not even average guys want to marry them because they know what they are and a single woman in their 40’s smell like trouble for any men, they are everything but innocent and full of good intentions so the tables turn and in their 40’s modern average women are the ones that become desperate for marriage and average single guys are not interested in marriage because they have already accepted that a current western modern woman in their 40’s has already been infected with the modern virus of híper Narcissm and the distorted perception of higher value that they have so more a more average western guys in their 40’s or 50’s are looking for wives in developing countries where women don’t behave like that. That’s what is happening right know. The west is self destroying itself and is causing a demographic implosion because of that delusional and narcissistic way of thinking that has being implemented with wokeism and the 4th wave of feminism.

[@kaixokaleabilbao2770]

@@joeydoherty368 kzbin.info/www/bejne/bJ6yhIqwqdiAd7s

[@frankbizel1]

Thank you for creating a healthy environment for these conversations. It’s very rare that this is handled without a massive amount of emotion.

[@kevinb8881]

I'm glad I'm single just listening to these women, they get more and more delirious each and every day!!!

[@Graveyard_Hiker]

I find it disturbing that lots of people that age don't realise how hard it is to make a living. It seems that these girls have a huge grosery list when it comes to a potential partner, but it seems to lack one very important ingredient more than often: love. Social media has destroyed the actual image and importance of true love. If you love each other for the way you truly are instead of loving someone's length ore bank account, unimaginable things will happen. I have seen it personally with lots of my friends. Two friends of mine: they lived in a house tiny'er than a average bed room, it was about 20 square meters. They both worked their asses off with each other and for each other and after a couple years got married and recently got the most beautiful little girl I have ever seen. They sticked with each other not because of their hotness ore bank account, but because they truly love each other. If someone would ask me: "what would be the ideal income of your partner?". The only correct answer in opinion would be: I don't care, if we truly love each other, than we can always work as a team to make living worthwhile with each other. That's my top thing on my grocery list for a partner: loving each other for who we truly are.

[@harambe4267]

I don't remember which guy said it, but he had a bit about this, but he had this story about how things just happen for women in their early 20s. She wants to be on a yacht? Poof, she finds herself on one. She wants to go to Dubai? Suddenly she's on a jet there etc. All of these experiences create a false sense of reality that quickly shatters once they start aging out of the 'hot and young' category into middle-age and people start ignoring them.

[@Graveyard_Hiker]

@@harambe4267 exactly my point, as long they don't realise how good they have it in their lifes and ignore the matter of effort to get them on a yacht ore to dubai they're in for a heavy treat of reality. And then they might realise how hard it is to find a man with a heart, because they will be taken ore givin up hope.

[@oblivion_2852]

@@Graveyard_Hiker there's no e in or. Please stop

[@Graveyard_Hiker]

@@oblivion_2852 no…..

[@p01236-g]

@@oblivion_2852 😂😂😂

[@thesuperfilms]

"We're equals" and also "You need to be better than me by every possible metric"

[@christophergraves6725]

Yes, men and women are moral equals but not in any other way. Women want men who are older, bigger, stronger, more educated, smarter, more mature, wealthier. Those are reasonable and natural desires, which are wildly inconsistent with feminism. Even feminists are more happily married to men who meet these standards and they willfully submit to these men's leadership. There are studies that find this to be true-for e.g. "What's Love Got to do With It? Equality, Equity, Commitment and Women’s Marital Quality," Steven Nock & Brad Wilcox, *Social Forces,* March 2006, plus my own experience with such women at personal level. But then the man must produce and we need an economy that will supply those opportunities for men.

[@lolfolcopter]

Really good interview Courtney! I think it's really honest and respectful which can be difficult in this realm

[@DragonVignesh]

I think Luna was the only woman in the lot who was close to realistic life expectations.

[@Jeremy-ql1or]

Classic, the one whose name is derived to get 'lunatic' is the most reasonable one.

[@ShadowbannedAccount]

@@Jeremy-ql1or Luna means moon.

[@mattfromtinder2916]

The girl has a mirror, so she probably has a better idea of what she can get.

[@ykonratev]

@mattfromtinder2916 dude I bet she could look pretty good if she got in the gym and got a stylist or something stop being vegan etc you'd be surprised

[@Karlonstark]

@@ShadowbannedAccount The word lunatic comes from the Latin word for moon, Luna, because mental illness and insanity have been historically associated with the moon and its cycles.

[@caddie1a]

We need to teach both men & women the realities of life so they can make as good of decisions as possible.

[@JackSmith-gv5yw]

I just cant get over how specific these girls are about traits in a partner. I often find that things soon get over looked if you really resinate with someone. Height, Income, age etc.

[@anotherperspective6247]

With online dating you rarely get this option though. Women are incredibly picky on attributes and so Chads wind up winning the bedroom fun. Of course they don't commit because why would they? There's more bedroom fun a few swipes away.

[@TheNaturalHealthBlogger]

They are living in this weirdo gen Z world. It's absolutely shallow, superficial, robotic, honestly you could market anything intensely to these types on the internet and in a years time they'd be championing that. Couple years ago you never heard all of this minimum 6 foot height crap, but with all these collective videos like this interviewing women, its now considered as much of a norm "standard" for modern women as their time immemorial love for penis size shaming and bullying men for that.

[@Cameron_David_]

When they know they are on camera they just give answers that make themselves look valuable. If you saw their actual dating history, none of their requirements would be met.

[@TheNaturalHealthBlogger]

@@Cameron_David_ Other than penis size of course if they could help it. If they can prescreen you for that before hooking up they will to save themselves the hassle of having to settle for a worthless average to below average loser of course, who's of no value, blah blah blah insert feminist penis size girth culture obsessed rhetoric lol

[@westinsmith1457]

Courtney, these “girls” are very sweet, honest and naive to put it mildly. Thank you for bringing a wake up call of morning coffee reality. Most of these young women have no concept of what it takes to make a six figure income. Keep up the enlightenment training for your generation. You are doing a great service for them🤩

[@Trecesolotienesdos]

you don't get "girls" is a verncular? lol

[@CrazyStarSuga]

Videos like this makes me feel so glad and happy that I discovered this "self-improvement" thing so young (currently 20) and I can maximize my potential and happiness. I can then choose a quality woman that's seeking a quality man and these types of girls will end up alone, or unhappy in "realistic" relationships. While I'm currently broke, because I'm working my first job, It's a great inspiration and motivation.

[@anomalyarcane8771]

you're going to be okay- trust me, there are so many women out there who are *not* like the ones in this video!! focus on yourself, stay positive, don't let bitterness/anger settle in, and you'll find one of the good ones.

[@schroederluck7984]

Keep at it man. Your early 20s as a guy is a huge launching point for the rest of your life. Grind now, and 10 years from now you will be absolutely balling.

[@Primitive_Code]

Work and invest. Put it in a CD, that's what I'm doing and interest rates are very high. 20 is very young, don't let the girls get in the way of your dreams, but it's possible to find the right one when you don't really want to, in fact that's how life usually is.

[@sachinmistry1]

You might be broke right now, but hard work does pay off. These are some tough times too. Inflation is real, and there are a lot of layoffs. I’m an industrial designer who has been working for 16 years. I sometimes wish I was more successful, but I feel thankful for having a job. Especially working in a competitive field. 20 is young. Just try your best!

[@amasdaha9734]

So the “other final question” I would ask relates to what it takes to become/sustain as a 1%’er. Being one and living in this career, your spouse has to come to grips with the fact that there is no such thing as a 40 hr work week, you would have to put up with 60-100 hr work weeks and maintain your relationship within those boundaries. Good communication, no drama and mutual goals are the only way to survive. And, yes, he will most likely expect you to be a bright, focused and hard working person as well. Nothing great in life comes without sacrifices. 😊

[@thethinkingmansgame5050]

Yes perfect... what would they do or sacrifice for the guy of their dreama

[@cjdematatis4566]

I would love to see a dating expectations video for men to see what is important for men in dating to almost compare and contrast what everyone would want in a future partner

[@joshelkins6189]

Mine are Nice, non combative and loyal

[@gianniferrari1122]

Courtney, you’re a legend for setting this up. Thank you!

[@lostallmymoney2082]

I checked out of the dating game 10 years ago because of female’s unrealistic standards. I knew I was never going to measure up to their expectations. Whether in height, income, or looks. Went and did my own thing. Now I’m just going to watch the plane crash into the mountain.

[@dancacciatore]

Same here. As an outdoorsman and traveler, I thankfully rarely encounter women like those in the video. I stay under the radar to avoid these types of people. Besides, I don't think they would be impressed by my 1996 Toyota Tercel.

[@danjenkins21]

Same here! Single life is better.

[@FokusEnzo]

@@dancacciatore who cares what they think bro

[@RichardMohabeer]

A lot of men did, being average really doesn't cut it no more, plus in most states, there isn't a middle class anymore. It's just the poor class, upper middle class, and rich class. Cost of living factors and inflation since I would say from 2008 and up to now, have to do so much more with the dating game as well. Go ask any man even making 30/hr and ask him if he's happy being single, he will definitely tell you 9 times out of 10 he is.

[@animestarlord9021]

@@dancacciatore Ladies in VA are not even impressed with my Lincoln MKZ and $90k income. I'm a bum on welfare according to ladies here.

[@danielbroad]

These girls were all very honest, I'm thankful for the time they took to answer your questions

[@mitchellbaldridge1281]

Mostly likely they got paid for doing so ;)

[@ShinLeeChan]

That's the most scariest thing. Being honestly thinking that those requirements were common or easy to achieve. They literally live in a different world (social medial)

[@AndrewTheVikings]

if they are honest they would be with man by now. But they're not.

[@JasonMoir]

I can feel my blood pressure going up listening to these responses.

[@TSierra]

Crazy, insane, delusional and unrealistic.

[@michaelrodriguez3329]

😆 .... Try a vegetarian diet

[@energyzer_bunny1913]

I watched this video while drinking cold brew. My blood pressure REALLY shot up.

[@wolfhawk1999]

It's deeply upsetting

[@daktari3055]

I honestly believe this is a blessing in disguise. If these women have these unrealistic expectations around salary, I’m way!!!! better off by myself.

[@rene-rv6pp]

They have seen too many movies and social.very common anyway

[@AndrewTheVikings]

If they keep up with these unrealistic in their brains, then they are indeed going to be single and die alone.

[@daktari3055]

@@AndrewTheVikings Hear hear.

[@wizeguy2388]

Courtney, I appreciate you factoring in other things like height after all of this realization. It's crazy how further down it goes even after other factors are considered. I am a 5'4" man, but I make 100k, so I can at least expect to be alone forever anyway. This is why I don't even try anymore because I see through videos like this how things are.

[@internetbard4384]

the grass field isnt much greener. im a 6'1 attractive semi-pro ballet dancer. who makes around 45k a year. i might get a better initial response, but without serious attention to budgeting and investing the little i have, i have no hopes of owning a house or having the ability to start a family.

[@roykliffen9674]

@@internetbard4384 As a ballet dancer you'll probably have an amazing physique which helps. I, myself never had the genes to show my daily commute of 40 miles cycling every day to my engineering job and playing volleyball two times a week...... I always looked chubby. Probably a personality issue never to be able to attract someone, so in my thirties I simply gave up on the prospect of finding a life partner.

[@gsdgfds]

Even if you were a midget there are other midgets. You don't have to be alone forever

[@benjaminskellie7708]

@@internetbard4384 it doesn’t get much better with more income either. I’m 21 been making 90-100k+ since I was 19. It’s hard to find a long term suitable option. You can find endless amounts of casual partners but to find someone worth investing in is another ball game.

[@internetbard4384]

@@benjaminskellie7708 I worked at a fairly nice golf course caddying and you def hear about richer guys who fall into the trap of using their money for social power only because finding ppl genuinely interested in you is near impossible

[@steelfanther328]

- If I became a billionnaire, say, at the age of 60, do you think I would have any chances of marrying a girl who is 20? - I suppose your chances would be much higher if you became a billionnaire at the age of 90 ... A Russian joke

[@matthewjordan7297]

Hey Courtney! This is another interesting video. It's not just social media driving these expectations. We have very serious economic issues in this country - inflation keeps going up, interest rates and cost of living are all out of control, and yet wages are still pretty steady with where they were 20 years ago. That means, the percentage of people that can maintain a middle class lifestyle is steadily going down. Putting the actual numbers aside, what these women seem to generally want (nice house, nice car, 2-3 kids, yearly vacations) would have been achievable 30 years ago at a more modest income.

[@LinkWave290]

Central bankers and quantitative easing are helping ruin the world.

[@khalidm5346]

Not just that, 30 years ago you could easily find a savings account that would yield 10+% annually, today you are lucky to find one at 3%

[@JackMoore0311]

while you have some points that things have changed economically the rate of delusion is far higher than the rate of inflation

[@kchal0]

As a young affluent man, Guys like this do exist, I will say though, my wife took a chance on me when I had nothing. She never went into it with the mindset that I had to be a millionaire for her to be happy. Makes it all the more satisfying when you do hit those goals to want to spoil your woman because you know she would appreciate you even without it. These women are doing themselves a disservice by saying they want a man to invest in them but they wouldn’t dare do the same. I wish them the best but likely they will end up lonely without a mindset shift.

[@katemiller7874]

Right! That’s where true love comes in. I never had theses expectations in my 20’s at all. I never knew men that had financial expectations of me. My husband now at 69 makes 250 but it took him his whole life to make that much. The expectations from both sexes are so high. You got a good lady. Cherish her sounds like you are. ❤️

[@natemekis3959]

Another Sunday morning with Courtney Ryan and a team of women who see the world opposite of myself. 😂

[@MrCjchamp2001]

Hasn’t she done this same video like 5 times?

[@bakeliteperformance]

Courtney's unpacking in the later half was helpful. I can see why it would awkward to asking pointed personal questions, but you can start to form some outlines on the different backgrounds. Compare the woman who is a pre-school teacher and makes music to the one who is working towards being a psychiatrist. They come from different worlds. The pre-school teacher is most likely coming from a working class background and her answers were by far the most realistic to the median statistics. The psychiatrist mentioned in a previous video that both of her parents were in that field. She's launching forward from an upper-middle class background. I can imagine that the pre-school teacher is open to college or no college education background, whereas the psychiatrist is likely not considering anyone who doesn't have a college degree and a professional background. The classes are in many ways defining access to other people. The psychiatrist, while her expectations on a statistical level seem slim, isn't nearly as slim because those statistics are for the median income. It's more realistic to get the statistics not for the median across all men, as only about 30% of the population has a college degree. The population of men is confined to a smaller pool, but in that pool it is going to have a much higher income median. Further, she is going to have access to these men through her profession, graduate school, professional organizations, and a social network of friends and family that are also upper middle-class. Likewise, for the woman who wants a millionaire, she said she knows millionaires. Having social access to millionaires is not something that is average. She has to have a background that allows for that access. For her to concede to $100k seems appropriate because she is likely surrounded by family and friends that are all in an upper class background. I do agree that social media distorts our expectations of how people live, but since the 80s popular media has broadly scrubbed away a lot of class signals in the shows and movies that are made. Reagan set the tone with his "City on a Hill" view where we mainly focus on an idealized upper middle class lifestyle as the norm in representation. Compare sitcoms like "Good Times" in the 70s to the "Cosby Show" in the 80s to see contrasting examples. So long before social media, we already had a distorting lens being presented on a culture where social classes were largely erased. The reality today is that to hope to have something akin to a middle class lifestyle requires two incomes which approximate about $100,000 per year on average, and far higher if you are living in larger urban areas, and far higher if you want an upper middle class lifestyle as depicted in media (traditional or social). Two partners, making around $50k each is far more the realistic aspiration. This of course precludes being a stay-at-home parent. You have to go back to the 1970s to have a single income household that could afford a family, house, car, and so on for a white family.

[@fubarmodelyard1392]

People lie on social media? Shocking. Luna seems like the most realistic of this group. I like this popped balloons format

[@FIGGYYY_]

Courtney - “The goal of this video is not to make anyone look stupid” The internet - “Stop The Cap 🧢…😂😅😆🤣😄”

[@matthewroth1]

In all your videos in this format, asking girls what if it would you rather scenarios, it’s really important to ask “what qualities of a wife are men looking for?” Or “what is your career and/or personal background?” (i.e. grow up wealthy, section housing, two parents, etc)

[@anony88]

They are mostly extremely specific on their ideal age, but I feel like 9 times out of 10, that number goes out the window if they find the right person even if that person goes outside of their ideal age range.

[@relaxingdawn6358]

It goes out of the window as soon as they find out how much money the guy makes. These 20 yo women would immediately date a 40 yo if looks/money or status is right

[@TheNaturalHealthBlogger]

Aka the more desperate their body clock runs down to get pregnant if they aren't already and dying to do the whole mother thing after being pumped and dumped by endless useless massively endowed chads running a train on them every weekend for a decade plus to the point they are barely functional alcoholics with numerous mental baggage and SSRI anti-depressant prescriptions lol Or if they don't want to spend any period alone, they will settle of course for whoever the best is around at that time. Or if you are massively endowed of course, you could be completely broke and they'd date you. But you could be a millionaire and if you aren't massively endowed then you are a loser to most of these modern women, bullied, body shamed and publically humiliated for what you can't even help about your body, but yeah women have a hard time with Hollywoods unrealistic beauty standards hahahaha

[@khaosmue2114]

First things first, you don’t get to choose someone that is much more valuable than you. You deserve someone either equal or within a small range above or below you. As a men who earns a high income, I promise that we are looking for the same thing too. The onus to earn a high income works both ways. What we are most concerned with when choosing a partner, is what do women bring to the table? Do you think we work this hard for this much just so we can give it to you? If u think you can just chill while the men provides, you are in for a world of pain. For the men reading this, focus on yourself, build your worth. And your worth is not dependent on the opinions of others.

[@abuseofmainstreammediacanh5713]

"Women try their luck; men risk theirs." ― Oscar Wilde

[@zhshsG7]

I'd love to see the same interviews from guys' perspectives. Obviously asking about salary won't get results as we usually don't care, but asking about beauty while bringing up stats (maybe weight? I have no idea) would help reveal our biases on dating.

[@mrchopsticks3]

Yeah, I can guarantee a couple of these girls wanting a rich husband wouldn't make the cut for most guys. I would only consider dating a couple of these girls, and the girl who wants a millionaire ain't one of them.

[@internetbard4384]

i would hope that the point of a video like that would showcase how litte and bare minimum certain guys ask for while other guys might have long demanding laundry lists of things they need. either way, men have problems over/undervaluing themselves and itd be interesting to see not only what type of guy is more out of touch, but which guy do girls respond better to?

[@AchmedComedy_]

This is a mirror on us as a society for not setting realistic expectations. I genuinely feel for them

[@zerpblerd5966]

age of narcissism

[@TheNaturalHealthBlogger]

I blame science fiction movies and all these movie directors. More creative than Spielberg some of these guys with their endless ability to break expectations on the big screen. lol Has everyone developed delusions of grandeur it seems these days or something. It's one thing being optimistic or aiming for the best, but you have to at least have a pinch of realism in there somewhere. All thees average 4 to 5 out of 10 women thinking they are the next Sharon Stoners or something lol

[@playthegame7445]

These type of girls are the ones crying on TikTok that they've been cheated on cos they're chasing for the same guy that 20 other women are chasing

[@louiegumede]

Nah nah nah, don't blame all of us. We ain't involved

[@1EddieKaneTV]

I as well, you kind of realize as these shows go on that these women don’t know any better. At this point in our time they are just products of what they’ve been told their whole life, and what they see on social media. Goes for anyone really.

[@amronfler]

Courtney, you are such a blessing to a proud Daddy of two daughters! Your content is always truthful, thought provoking and very entertaining Those young ladies will find reality a bitter pill to swallow when confronting their future! Please keep preaching the truth and I look forward to future videos! God Bless you in all future endeavors.

[@draffut4079]

Courtney, thanks so much for your channel. Every video is an eye-opener 😳 After losing my wife of 33 years to cancer, it is a shock being single. Your content is very useful in helping me realize that the dating scene is full of unrealistic and unreasonable expectations! Keep up the great work 👍

[@lesterdiamond6190]

Sorry about that bro. Make sure you eat good food, take your vitamins and get lots of exercise.

[@robertsmith17359]

Sorry to hear about your loss. Based on single guys I know who are older, the pool of dating is really rough. The women who are available at this point either don't want to be married or have a lot of baggage with them.

[@purerage7963]

Bless your soul sir. Hope things work out.

[@2livecrew88]

I think that women that have dated millionaires have shown their hand giving a real example of how hypergamous they really are. It’s a huge gamble at that point and not worth the risk. It’s a pretty harmless question “how successful were your previous partners” and damning at the same time. They will settle then divorce given kids and enough time.

[@tomyoung8563]

I think the woman who say they’ve dated millionaires are lying

[@monkeyhero479]

@@tomyoung8563 I don't think they're lying I just think their definition of "dating" is wonky. I'm pretty certain when these women say they've "dated" men in these income ranges they probably were hooking up with some rich dude or went on a couple of expensive dates. Courtney even asks if they were casual relationships and the ones who supposedly had dated these rich dudes answered vaguely in the affirmative.

[@accord_aero_r]

I would so love to see a couple groups of guys given similar questions (but flipped for ideal woman), just to see if we're generally as out of touch with the real world. *EDIT - Damn, you guys just _went off_ on 'personal characteristic' expectations, when this video was ultimately a build-up to a question of financial education. I had a feeling that younger men these days are probably just as ignorant as young women and expecting they'll all have no problem making $100k by the time they're 30, given how pervasive social media has become. You're all kinda proving my expectations for a generally low IQ.

[@ogar0]

bro it would be just "i just want someone who has nice smile, isnt bitching 24/7 wants kids sometime down the road and has a fat butt"

[@AK-American]

No way. We want an average looking loyal girl that's it

[@ogar0]

@@AK-American guess i have too high standards ☠

[@joshuabenitez3260]

It would be cool to see, but most of Courtney's audience is male and her content is catered to men.

[@accord_aero_r]

@@AK-American I just want an idea of where random men's heads are at, who probably don't spend their days on social media watching all the red pill garbage. It seems like everything's focused on women's unrealistic expectations. I'd like to see some balance.

[@easlern]

Can we acknowledge how amazing a job she does getting people to examine their beliefs in a way that’s not judgmental at all? These women are pretty young, and this isn’t something they’ve probably thought much about so let’s not be too hard on them

[@CourtneyRyan]

Thank you so much! I love this comment

[@JosueExplores]

An OG used to tell me that when he took women out on dates if they happened to ask how much money he made, he’d say “listen honey, that’s not any of your damn business.” 😂😂😂