“He Has To Be A Millionaire”… Asking Women About Male Income

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[@John-yj3rs]

For your final question you should ask “Suppose you find the man of your dreams. What do you think his standards are for a wife and do you meet them?” This is the key question that they never consider.

[@phil7574]

They don't care. They think the fact that they have a pulse and a p***y means they deserve the world.

[@MoshJunkie426]

It's not a coincidence they don't ever consider that question

[@mothegoat6865]

Underrated comment!

[@MR-nl8xr]

Noice.

[@yzer]

Also the follow-up "what age(s) were you while dating that person earning $X/yr?" Oh, so Y years ago.

[@phil7574]

I work as a firefighter/paramedic in Texas and make $92,000 a year. I've had women literally say $92,000 a year is broke and ask how do I survive? It's a circus out there folks.

[@elizabethmchugh9811]

Firefighter and paramedics are very valuable people in our society.I hope you meet somebody nice who appreciates you.

[@milan90ful]

From Canada many thanks for keeping safe 👊 as for that women don't worry cats will follow soon enough for her.

[@phil7574]

@@milan90ful Thank you I have several buddies up in Canada. I served in the US Air Force as a Pararescueman prior to becoming a Firefighter/paramedic and we trained alot with CSOR and JTF2.

[@swlc5555]

92K = broke??? Truly mind-blowing!🤯

[@laststand6420]

As another youtuber says "Clown world!"... So true. Also, congrats on making a ton of money. That takes effort.

[@luckygunner3484]

when faced with the fact that she was 5x less likely to get a guy meeting her requirements than a valedictorian getting into harvard, rather than deciding that she needed to lower her standards and that she was being unrealistic her response instead was "guess ill be single forever" 😂😂😂

[@AstucesLangues]

Birth rates are about to drop some more

[@467076]

Women should have high standards but their high standards are material and not of values. I personally do have high standards, however, all those standards are personal values and not anything physical like fat ass or big tities or at least an 8/10 or whatever other physical trait men choose lol

[@arnavprakash7991]

Welcome to the modern world, great time to be alive

[@LTJuni0r]

What’s even scarier about the finances conversation is some women don’t know the totality of what these things costs. They know vacations, housing and cars but forget about retirement, property taxes, 529 plans and all the car repairs. Most women grew up with Disney-based marriages in mind.

[@freudianslip2192]

Exactly! I dated a woman who would brag about her many international trips a year. I believed she must make a ton of money to afford that life. I was wrong she was in massive debt, had poor credit, no 401k, would rely on others for food, or emergencies. However, on Instagram she appeared to be this jet setting, world traveler, with a luxury lifestyle. It was insanity.

[@alfredlape]

Agreed- Sounds like they don’t know a $200,000 house after 30 years would cost around a million which includes interest to the bank, property tax, PMI, HOA, taxes, insurance, maintenance, cap x expenses, etc. Or their desire for a Tesla is a depreciating asset which may be worth $18,000 after 15 years. But if you invested the same down payment & monthly into an index fund, you would have $322,853 after 15 years. After 25 years, it would be a million. According to the book, Millionaire Next Door(studies behavior of millionaires), the #1 car of millionaires is a used Toyota bought with cash, not Mercedes. Some people are paying $1,200/mo for property tax. Google says the average cost to raise a child until age 18 is $200,000. Some people are paying $1,500/mo for daycare. Some people are investing $800/mo for 529 plans. This is not even including retirement. If you're spending $3,333 per month, you need one million at retirement. Spending $5,000/month, need $1.5 million. Expenses $7,000/month, need $2.1 million. This is based on the 4% rule where you multiply your yearly expenses by 25. If you need a million upon retirement, you withdraw 4% which is $3,333 per month for the rest of your life & never run out of money, even in a market crash. Many Americans that don't come from money are able to become millionaires through their retirement plans. Most people achieve this goal by investing in an index fund through their 401k, Roth IRA, & brokerage account. The National Study of Millionaires found that 8 out of 10 people became millionaires through company's 401K, the largest study conducted by Dave Ramsey.

[@echo-channel77]

Which is why when the state comes along and offers numerous incentives to divorce - there's a reason why women initiate 77% of the time.

[@davester1970]

Especially if these ladies live in a high tax blue state like California where a man making $100k is taking home around $45-50k and over half of that take home is being spent on housing.

[@richg4011]

@@freudianslip2192 I was at a bar like 4 months ago and heard the tender talking about her travels to a regular(unmarried, likely easy to F, 40s mid. She might be a great person, but we all know how birds of a feather), and I was like you probably should be saving that. People are coping hard, and figuring it out later in our society. Men and women. I've never met a travel person that It was anything other than a social flex, not reflective of their financial prowess. Ive been that guy before myself. Youre just being a conversation starter. Your pockets still tight. lmao. Sometimes it FEELS. A lot of women would rather hear how many places you've been, and wild random stories of how a camping trip ended with you surrounded by 10 raccoons, and this time you made it into a blockbuster world premier movie(when you just entered a raffle), then sit across from a guy thats like yeah I work 65 hours a week and try to catch up on sleep on Sundays. Even if you have a plan for working that hard, its not her turn on. Im not on any goofy red pill shit, this is life experience, and its sad. If the roles were reversed, and i had my current mind state. If a woman on a first date was like "I work like 65 hours a week, and try to just rest a lot on sundays, BUT i really like you so i'd like to spend sundays with you, and i have a lot of paid time off that i could use to maybe have a nice friday or saturday to ourselves.", Id think i found a winner. LOL. That shit be sounding like a burden to a lot of ladies instead of them meeting someone that is so enamored by them that they want to use their only day off and paid time off just to be with them.

[@gregcountryman8770]

I feel like financial education would help both men and women when it comes to issues like this.

[@IamjustBruh]

Preaching to the choir, dude

[@gregcountryman8770]

@@IamjustBruh Thanks for noticing.

[@cisium1184]

Ironically, financial education would also result in young people who save and invest more of their money, and consequently are somewhat wealthier.

[@THX5000]

Invest in cat food, antidepressants, and boxed wine because there will be a whole generation of spinster cat laydees in a few years.

[@tombradydid9114]

The only ones who need help are women. Psychological help.

[@shawnberry9335]

If she seeks an athletic tall, dark, and handsome self-made millionaire who is the life of the party, has 3 legs, and only has eyes for her, what could possibly go wrong?

[@purerage7963]

3 legs 💀

[@f-bomb3566]

Hey I'm a athletic tall dark and tattooed one handsome devil mma fighter but my B**** A** is broke

[@Slaughterproof]

Yeah that eyes for her part isn't happening.

[@ShinLeeChan]

I'd say everything. :)

[@rene-rv6pp]

That she can weak up suddenly and find is only her dream

[@justinbruck9602]

Just to point out, a millionaire is someone worth a million dollars, not necessarily someone who's annual income is a million. There are probably more retirees who are worth 1M than there are guys who will ever make 1M.

[@bruceleeroy8302]

The people who work at the passport offices around the US would like to thank Courtney Ryan for making videos like this.

[@Fr3d0mC0nsum3d]

I don’t get it, can you explain? Is it because guys will get mail order brides or because fewer girls will travel abroad?

[@reanschwarzer2187]

@@Fr3d0mC0nsum3d there’s a large section of guys called the passport bros I’m one I’m 27 and I’m saving up to date outside the country

[@hughjohns9110]

@@reanschwarzer2187 good for you. You might be disappointed but not as disappointed as if you tried to date in a western country these days.

[@bigpapa2195]

@@Fr3d0mC0nsum3d passport bros4life girls in many other countries are better in every single way than american women.

[@reanschwarzer2187]

@@hughjohns9110 gotcha well I’m been knocked out plenty for not being 6 foot alone. So if I can approach in other countries and get shot down nicely that’ll still be a big improvement

[@tommygunn6901]

Here's the thing, I don't care what their delusions are cause they're just that from their unreasonable expectations. Secondly, how much I make is no one's business! Social media has not only made people entitled, but it's made people nosy!

[@LatimusChadimus]

We all just need to collectively start being like Willy Wonka telling these women they lose, they get nothing, good day!

[@ZaibatsuuHQ]

Exactly, my income is my business, I don't make money for someone other than myself first. Those videos about MALE INCOME are too much right now. Woman also needs to get up and find a job instead of sitting all day on the couch watching tiktoks 24/7 without purpose in life thinking she's a special queen or something. It's insane how they think they're special. They need to be taught how life works and then she'll change immediately after feeling poverty

[@tommygunn6901]

Totally inappropriate on the first few dates to be asking, let alone talking stage. I come off aggressive because I know what I won't tolerate, and know what I want. I know what not to entertain and these fools I wouldn't bat an eye

[@GomersPile01]

Yes, they are completely delusional. Good think gay marriage is legal. They can marry each other.

[@cisium1184]

The problem with the "don't talk about money" mindset is that what no one talks about, no one learns about. To quote the writer David Wong, "people consider it so wrong to talk to you that way that they've decided it's better to simply let you keep failing." I was raised not to talk about money - I'm 55 now. When we don't get realistic financial pictures from our parents and our schools, we cleave to unrealistic ones from the media, television, and KZbin, which are all absurdly inflated. I agree that it's rude to flaunt one's wealth, but the irony is that not talking about money honestly actually _encourages_ young people to flaunt. Because none of them know the truth, they can all lie and get away with it, and over time everyone starts to believe the lies. Thus 20-something sitcom characters with humble jobs live in huge apartments and we don't question it. Thus we end up with 22-year-old women who "won't settle for less than six figures" and have no clue that they are consigning themselves to a decade of loneliness. Thus our politicians can manipulate us into resenting other people that we think have more than us. Seriously, I know that mindset comes from a modest, humble, Christian place. But in practice, it's poison. It's tearing at the fabric of our society. It's gotta stop.

[@bensu0145]

I'm 40 years old, make around $100,000 annually, do bodybuilding, speak two languages, travel around the world, and completed a Bachelor's plus a Master's degree program. Even with all that said I still wouldn't have a chance with these women because I am a short SOB at 5'3.

[@bobbanks6217]

There are some girls who don't care about height. You might get lucky especially with your other attributes 😁

[@kelleychilton2524]

@@bobbanks6217 The majority of women do care about a man's height. He's probably going to have to find a woman his own height.

[@zovoth]

Thank you ladies for confirming my decision of bachelorhood… I have prevented crippling debt

[@nicolashromyk5397]

Seven bedrooms 💀 I shared a room with my brother until we were both in college lmao the percentage of people who have enough money to buy a house of that size is already small, the percentage of people within that bracket that actually buy a house that big is even smaller.

[@d.e.b.b5788]

You have to remember, women are brought up believe that they are all princess quality and deserve to become royalty and queens eventually.

[@williambassett6962]

I'm single, own a 4K sqft house and I don't have anywhere close to 7 bedrooms!

[@Entree_Iguodala]

The look of shock when Courtney said that a lot of people on social media lie about how much money they have lmao

[@garypierce7380]

Hannah Alonzo has a site where she tells MLM (Multi-Level Marketing) horror stories. They lie like crazy in those things too.

[@amykearns9470]

There are studios with private jet set up/ jets on ground to do photo shoots from and all you have to do to appear to be on tropical vacation is cram yourself in a tropical plant and take extreme close up.

[@rafaelnadal1851]

Half the people who are travelling/spending on social media are in credit card debt

[@davester1970]

@@rafaelnadal1851 Right! Sadly most women seem to confuse true wealth with consumption.

[@nghtwtchmn129]

@@rafaelnadal1851 I'm reliably informed that many country club members are also the subject of bad-check warrants. They are living beyond their means.

[@tyn6211]

in my small city, it'd take minimum 300K to have a low-end, bougie lifestyle w/ 2 kids, if you wanted to live near the city core. Also, because of the staggering amount of student loan debt for this age group, the headline salary isn't nearly as important as the monthly cash flow.

[@tryan4242]

This is entirely accurate where I live, 42 male and I have met a lot of women who want a man with 200K PLUS as a minimum. It is getting hilarious.

[@lockyp204]

It’s ok, they’re pricing themselves out and will end up alone. And I mean if you’re earning that much, I’d be trying for 25 year olds. But no I wouldn’t, because I’m not interested in being divorce graped

[@milan90ful]

Problem is even normal women now demand this and everyday more and more women want this.. sad

[@sunfish4095]

It's important to recognize that with every woman now presumed to sexually available and indeed they are, they are now flying blind in terms of being able to differentiate what calibre of man will actually commit to them. I'm sure these same women you speak of have "dated" with 200k men just fine...and so it is the case that they believe they can secure commitment from these men that date them. However, if they can pull it off they would gladly have the 200k man's child then find a commited man willing to raise that child. It's a war of attrition it seems. Starve the bottom 80% of men from relationships until they are desperate enough to date a single mother is the ideal it seems.

[@lockyp204]

@@sunfish4095 I’m 51, I’ll never live under the same roof as some other guys kids- ever ! Happy to watch Rome burn if that’s the case

[@joeskeptical4762]

*$200K annual income to buy access to something given away for free quite a few times already?* ▪️I ▪️Don't ▪️Think ▪️So

[@233kosta]

These women demonstrate why the ever hated "gender pay gap" is absolutely essential to the function of the society they want

[@Mastermind111111]

Yep.

[@onehtereproppper3697]

Work 4 years, then stop and start a family.

[@lin3378]

I don't know about America and I need to learn more about this topic, but the thing about dating these rich and powerful guys is that, if they wanna do bad things to you, they will be able. Not saying that all rich and powerful people are evil, but if they want to get rid of you, even if they are dating you, they will be able to pay for their freedom after getting rid of you.

[@TrippyLiberty]

It's very telling when some women are shown just how insane their standards are and all they decide to do is casually say "Welp, I guess I'll be alone forever".

[@wolfhawk1999]

I feel like most single women choose to be single. She's a perfect example. She's also a gold digger

[@Progress234]

Women are just not desperate

[@Godfailedyoustophumpinghisleg]

​@triptinath5675 That's the fault of men, these problems don't get solved until the average woman feels acutely the pain of the average man. They need to be treated with disdain and contempt like they treat others.

[@yarmus718]

Just delusional @@Progress234

[@bigchungus4283]

When that blonde was told how rare a man like that is she said “I’m gonna be single forever” see this is proof that they would rather die alone than have reasonable standards.

[@volusiasorange]

these women aren't even very attractive, is the thing

[@banagan4604]

Hopefully

[@robertsmith17359]

It is indeed evidence that some women would rather be alone than lower their standards. But that is exactly what makes the relationship marketplace advantageous for women. Since women are more likely on average to forgo marriage if they can't get what they want there are fewer women to date, and those women can demand a higher-quality man. So, we as men can decide if we want to try and meet the standards or bow out ourselves. I think the reality is that men are much less likely to bow out, so women can date and marry up.

[@ines3770]

Why is it a bad thing ?

[@volusiasorange]

@@ines3770 because it's not what they actually want

[@oyuyuy]

So that black woman expects to get hired as a 'clinical psychologist' and get a $100k salary once she graduated? Please tell me that's not true...

[@khaosmue2114]

First things first, you don’t get to choose someone that is much more valuable than you. You deserve someone either equal or within a small range above or below you. As a men who earns a high income, I promise that we are looking for the same thing too. The onus to earn a high income works both ways. What we are most concerned with when choosing a partner, is what do women bring to the table? Do you think we work this hard for this much just so we can give it to you? If u think you can just chill while the men provides, you are in for a world of pain. For the men reading this, focus on yourself, build your worth. And your worth is not dependent on the opinions of others.

[@thesuperfilms]

"We're equals" and also "You need to be better than me by every possible metric"

[@christophergraves6725]

Yes, men and women are moral equals but not in any other way. Women want men who are older, bigger, stronger, more educated, smarter, more mature, wealthier. Those are reasonable and natural desires, which are wildly inconsistent with feminism. Even feminists are more happily married to men who meet these standards and they willfully submit to these men's leadership. There are studies that find this to be true-for e.g. "What's Love Got to do With It? Equality, Equity, Commitment and Women’s Marital Quality," Steven Nock & Brad Wilcox, *Social Forces,* March 2006, plus my own experience with such women at personal level. But then the man must produce and we need an economy that will supply those opportunities for men.

[@DallaS.88]

A major contributing factor to mismatched expectations is the access to more people due to social media, online dating apps, etc. The paradox of choice comes into play

[@OrdMandrell1]

Thanks for another one of these videos Courtney. They're fascinating, mildly disturbing yet extremely valuable. These young women shouldn't be laughed at - they should be pitied. Their expectations are born of an utterly fictitious vision of the world created by their social media feeds. This means that they will either decide to remain single (there go the kids) or they'll be forced to marry below their expectations/hopes to husbands who will always be thought of as less-than-advertised. The future painted by this video is bleak. But reality needs to be faced head-on regardless of whether it is a depressing one or not.

[@sidepocket7]

This is spot on. Great post, coming from a 43 yr old married dude who has a high net worth. I would never marry this young. I’d play around, but never sign that agreement.

[@garypierce7380]

The biggest lie is that they should wait to get married and have kids. 20-30 is the best time to do that. I'm sorry that other sadsacks can't get along and end up getting divorced, but the truth is sadsacks can't get along at any age. Waiting just makes childbirth more risky.

[@levyroth]

Oh please, we should always make fun of stupid people. In the age of information, no one should be pitied for staying ignorant. Women need to step up, your game is weak and good pussy is very cheap.

[@AutisticMorty]

And in that second category, it ends up as her being unhappy, cheating and divorce. So if you're a dude who gets suckered into that situation, you're just a wallet that she despises and looks down upon. The damage by women's media (not just social media, but daytime talk-shows and magazines too) has truly been done and there's no fixing it. The culture went rancid and now society will pay the price with declining marriage, declining birth-rates, increased divorce, and increased addictions (alcohol, drugs, antidepressants)

[@cosmodoc]

This is a brilliant testimony of the unrealistic expectations of American women. I’m not saying that it’s only American women, but it’s usually more frequent in the US and some other western countries. We live in an affluent area in Europe and my wife seems to think it’s normal to be a millionaire, when it’s less than 1% of the population. Social media are a huge problem in re-enforcing those expectations. Some women also have an overinflated image of themselves and think they “deserve” a millionaire!

[@onehtereproppper3697]

The 200K was bringing 200k, so.

[@accord_aero_r]

I would so love to see a couple groups of guys given similar questions (but flipped for ideal woman), just to see if we're generally as out of touch with the real world. *EDIT - Damn, you guys just _went off_ on 'personal characteristic' expectations, when this video was ultimately a build-up to a question of financial education. I had a feeling that younger men these days are probably just as ignorant as young women and expecting they'll all have no problem making $100k by the time they're 30, given how pervasive social media has become. You're all kinda proving my expectations for a generally low IQ.

[@ogar0]

bro it would be just "i just want someone who has nice smile, isnt bitching 24/7 wants kids sometime down the road and has a fat butt"

[@AK-American]

No way. We want an average looking loyal girl that's it

[@ogar0]

@@AK-American guess i have too high standards ☠

[@joshuabenitez3260]

It would be cool to see, but most of Courtney's audience is male and her content is catered to men.

[@accord_aero_r]

@@AK-American I just want an idea of where random men's heads are at, who probably don't spend their days on social media watching all the red pill garbage. It seems like everything's focused on women's unrealistic expectations. I'd like to see some balance.

[@christophhopfer237]

The final stages of idiocy - THERE IS A GENDER PAY GAP!!!!!!!! Same time: My man has to earn more than me!

[@thisismonitor4099]

A lot of women are unwilling to invest in potential. I know a man whose first girlfriend broke up with him because he was a student (he was doing a PhD). Two years later he got a job in finance with a starting wage of 140k (that was decades ago) and when she learnt about it she tried to get back together with him but by that time he had another girlfriend.

[@melteddarkchocolate000]

Please don't pretend as if there aren't women who don't date a man for potential and are later screwed over by him. There's a reason for every action behind

[@thisismonitor4099]

@@melteddarkchocolate000 I don't disagree that this is the case but it doesn't change my point.

[@melteddarkchocolate000]

@@thisismonitor4099 okay but your point is biased. You're painting it as if women naturally do this when that's not even true. You met a few who has however I have run into a couple that hasn't and they are now miserable in their 50s complaining about their partner/husband cheating on them. I see this as a people thing, not gender based.

[@fubarmodelyard1392]

People lie on social media? Shocking. Luna seems like the most realistic of this group. I like this popped balloons format

[@yindes]

We really need like a 5 years follow up to these videos

[@anony88]

Where I live in Tennessee, experienced police, US Marshals, firefighters, teachers, a lot of pilots, and a LOT of managers in many types of careers, dont make NEAR $100k. Most younger guys who make that much here either work in tech or the medical industry, and they likely already have a woman. The guys in tech dont ever really get out for the most part, so you're less likely to find them. The guys in the medical industry work a lot and interact with the public a lot, plus they have a lot of cute co workers, so they probably already have someone. That leaves you with the tiny percent of young business owners or younger guys that found their way to the financial industry or upper management, which there isnt a ton of either.

[@davagevorriose8046]

- "Don't be jealous and try to come for my pockets." Exactly what they're doing! Ugh. - Next question should be, "If he's making more than you, are you willing to do more of the cooking and cleaning? How much more?" - Everyone's willing to have standards for everyone else, but not for themselves. - "I'm OK with with settling." Are you OK with someone settling with you? Marriage is not about settling, it's about settling down with. If either of you feels like you are better or beneath the other, it's a deadly toxin for the relationship.

[@randyramey6549]

The best reply statement I have read so far.

[@AutisticMorty]

"I'm ok with settling." The funny part is, she thinks she's settling. No honey, you're not settling if that's the best you can do. That's literally your prime candidate. You're not settling, because you never had a chance with anyone better than that.

[@Thriving_in_Exile]

Hot Take: Luna is the real winner here. EDIT:: Just to be clear, there are PLENTY of women who are far more realistic than what we're seeing here. Don't forget that, my dudes.

[@tomdrummy4984]

A smart , single millionaire doesn’t advertise it. You won’t know by looking at them. An obvious doctor/lawyer also has big expenses/overhead…….and they work a lot and don’t have a lot of time to enjoy life.

[@paladain55]

Since people are paying attention to your channel now, you should put some men on and have them answer the same questions. I would love to see the reaction in the comments on those too.

[@CourtneyRyan]

I’m planning on it!

[@Sych0symatic]

@@CourtneyRyan Are there sign-up forms for that? Because I live in the same area and would volunteer some of my time. I think it would be pretty fun!

[@Sagefrakrobatik]

@@Sych0symatic me ase well. But not today it's very brutal out

[@matthewcoombs3282]

The answers will be much more straight-forward. Attractive, tick, fertile, tick, cooks and keeps a good home, tick, loyality and has my back, tick and respects me. If you have the above they will not give a damm what you earn or your career.

[@garypierce7380]

I think Courtney needs a video telling ordinary guys how to find a rich woman who will take them on European vacations and buy them a less expensive luxury car,...like just a Mercedes Roadster.

[@dylanmccombs252]

I have to say, for myself as a man, what makes it so frustrating to hear even the hesitancy on marrying a man who makes less than them is that I seriously do not care how much money they make. If I love them and we have similar values that’s seriously all that matters to me. Regardless of my job if she were a Starbucks barista her entire life and a great person I would happily be her boyfriend. The idea of rejecting someone because of how much money they make at all is foreign to me because I’ve never had it engrained in me that a woman must provide for me.

[@keithsurdyke2535]

Men willingly marry down while women only want to marry up.

[@nonamewillbegiven7228]

You're a 🐱

[@dian277]

do you mean you also don't care how much MORE money they make? Also there's something weird about your logic. If you're ok with women who make less, that means you'd be making more, which means you're ok with making more, and those women want men who make more, like you, so why are you not ok with that?

[@dylanmccombs252]

@@dian277 I am absolutely okay with my partner making more money than me. I have literally been in a relationship where I was completely okay with my partner making more money than me. But for her that idea ended up being problematic. It honestly seems to me, based on your comment, that you are making an assumption about whether or not I would be okay with my partner making more than me. And once again, I would be absolutely fine with that.

[@904_noah]

"They must have $80k+" Me living on my disability (In my own apartment in Florida) getting $11,580 a year: 💀

[@DallasSniper]

Just because a man is a millionaire doesn't mean that he's financially responsible. He could have a high amount of debt and living from paycheck to paycheck.

[@TOhara-eb2lp]

There’s all the difference in the world between what you make and what you keep.

[@canadianeh4792]

In my experience, millionaires generally don't act like millionaires. I make well into 6 figures, I daily drive a 1992 Acura Integra.

[@caydenpo1001]

@@canadianeh4792 Yikes my guy you might wanna go out and buy something more modern with modern safety features. If you get into a serious accident in that thing you'll end up a statistic. We don't want that.

[@drjohnsonhungwell5115]

@@canadianeh4792 I'm similar I have a few nice vehicles but also daily drive and actually prefer the beater car and casual clothing and am still 50/50 moderately frugal but also do get some occasional material things but I don't have to have the latest , greatest and most expensive items

[@canadianeh4792]

@@caydenpo1001 I've got a 2019 Ram 3500 dually to do truck stuff/if the roads are bad and a '71 Corvette as a project car but the Integra was my first car, very fuel efficient and easy to fix if it breaks. I like it. Over 600,000 miles on it now.

[@dennisspackman7147]

If you have such high expectations for someone else then you should look at yourself and ask what you will be bringing to the relationship. If it’s a short list of positive attributes then you are most likely vastly overvaluing yourself and don’t have realistic expectations. Always a good policy to be continually working on improving yourself throughout your life.

[@coreyclark7472]

These ladies have no concept of reality. God bless them.

[@subvertusinreallife5277]

Well done interview, nice to just see the questions and space given to to hear honest answers, none of these women are bad or stupid, just sold an unrealistic view of what the world really is. It exposes the damage social media generates combined with unhelpful messages originating several decades ago.

[@Trecesolotienesdos]

nah, they're spoilt and sheltered asf.

[@subvertusinreallife5277]

@@Trecesolotienesdos what you're talking about is the RESULT of the damage social media does, and you said it in an apathetic way, which says a lot about you as well. People believe what they are raised to believe, that's why the religion that a person believes is determined mostly by what part of the world they are born in. That's not their fault. Understanding and empathy are what is needed, you can't get peace from war.

[@michaeluphoff4749]

The delusions are strong with some of these ladies, but I also think that this group of ladies is more grounded in reality than the previous group of ladies you asked these questions to. They gave some very honest and thoughtful reflections. And Courtney, while I would love to follow you on Instagram, I deleted Instagram, Snapchat, and Twitter a couple of years ago out of principle. Too much social media.

[@Diego-Designs]

I did the same! People look at me weird when I say I don't have Facebook....

[@gerardoa9179]

Sooner or later they will hit the wall

[@Aaron-kj8dv]

I agree, they're not really my type but I would hang out with some of these chicks. They seem like they'd be fun and maybe too much work to actually date lol

[@michaeluphoff4749]

@@Aaron-kj8dv I looked at one or two and thought I could date them, but I'm too old. I make a decent amount for my age, but I'm definitely too old for someone in their early to mid-20s.

[@SLRModShop]

I love how they set the bar so low that the next group of girls sound like genuine people ^-^ You should listen to them with a calculator nearby... 3 or 4 kids, nice home, nice cars and vacation abroad every year... None of them will actually work (3 or 4 kids, remember?), they will have a mortgage for the house, one for the car and with multiple kids, $5000 gone each years on vacation alone... I make just above 100K (104K to be precise) and I cannot afford the most modest one of this group... And 104K in my country is more than half the average income ahahahaha I'm literally in the top 10% bracket and I cannot afford any of them... Yes, they are MORE grounded than the previous group, but they're all still trying to get a 250K / year man... They all want the top 3 or 4% of men... And statistically, half of them are already taken... Half of the remaining would vote Trump... Half of the remaining are ugly... These "more grounded" women are looking for the top 0.1%... Not THAT grounded anymore once you do the maths...

[@elijah5791]

The internet completely screwed the world up.

[@BravoLaboratorioCarpintero]

I saw a comment and wanted to improve it: "Social media has destroyed reality".

[@farawayranger8489]

I love how that one girl said she will just be single forever instead of saying how should she lower her standards.

[@oza1302]

First, appreciate them all agreeing to do this. I mean it could be a Lion's Den when you do this. I feel this is the same as asking a child, "What do you want to be when you grow up?" The answers are super aspirational with no life experience to temper them. Ask them years later and the answers are a bit more grounded. Similarly, I'd love to hear these ladies thoughts on their aspirations after a bit more life and/or relationship experience. For many men, that life/relationship experience leads to them being very strong about a commitment only to themselves. And that's a very sad thing.

[@rathelmmc3194]

All these women are in their 20s yet somehow they have no concept of how much money people make? That doesn't make any sense to me. I doubt any of their friends make large sums of cash, and if any of them actually did make over 100k you'd think they'd know exactly where they sit in the income pecking order.

[@oza1302]

@@rathelmmc3194 for me, it’s like when men say, “marriage material”, for a lady who looks aesthetically nice but they know nothing else about them. They’re literally making their judgment on looks and measurements and nothing else. Or similarly, men going on about not dating someone who doesn’t have (fill in whatever physical aspect you’d like). Then, years later, you see them with someone who physically doesn’t look like anything they ever talk about them. Reality b*tch slaps us.

[@joshlowell3075]

The average American earns $70,000.00 a year. How can a man buy a tesla, a 2000 square foot house, raise 3 kids and a wife, take vacations, save over one million for retirement on $70,000.00? The worst part is that a lot of women wait until they find this rare man that makes over $200,000.00. Suddenly they are 35 and have been losing 1000 eggs a month because although they release one fertile egg they lose 1000 others. At 35 that loss increases. At that point all the good men are gone so they settle for some ugly, broke, loser paying child support to 4 other women. I've seen it so many times. This was a good wake up call.

[@rickshaw35]

Courtney, thanks for not being afraid challenge them in their answers. I appreciate that.

[@nonamewillbegiven7228]

Wuss

[@travisdunlap4526]

My only issue with these videos is: This is using the median income for the entire country, and the cost of living is dramatically higher in small towns versus big cities. Women who were dating men in....lets say San Fransico would rightly think there dating pool is going to make more than 49k as a median, as opposed to say Rome Georgia. So just saying only 15% of men will ever make X is a bit misleading, if we only consider the men that these woman might actually date (based on geography) that income bracket might look a good bit different.

[@robertfreestone414]

Their reactions to unrealistic salaries give me warm fuzzies because it means millions of shelter cats and dogs will eventually have forever homes.

[@chetanphoenix]

I'm shocked to see today's attitude. Whatever happened to feminism where women also wanted to work and earn money? Women didn't want to be tied to home and kitchen. They wanted lots of education, have dreams, ambitions. Now it's just - I'mma marry a millionaire and live off his money. So we're voluntarily going back to patriarchy?

[@thewhiteknight02]

😂

[@russellsmith3825]

She ought to ask these girls how much they think their parents make.

[@liamscorgie8859]

I love their reactions to some real income figures us guys are making. Had a good laugh and made my day

[@rubiaragagon7722]

While in military, was making about $50-$60k a year and married. Even with this income, I was able to plan world vacations with wife, maintain a decadent lifestyle, have a Prada wallet and able to buy wife LV stuff. Now retired, still married to same woman wo supported me while in service, working a kickass engineering job, make about $90-$110k a year and able to afford us a newly built home, still maintain world vaca every year with the whole extended family, have a sports car, and have a good circle of friends and family. Military brotherhood is no joke. Main point; don’t need to be a millionaire to enjoy life. Turns out that nice hard work, financial education and a bit of luck, can make or break life. Being a millionaire is not what it’s hyped up to be. Wake up sheeple.

[@joshuamoore8042]

As a wealth advisor, I’ll tell you that many millionaires never made a 6 figure salary. They just saved and invested consistently and wisely.

[@timothydoyle5474]

Ask some of the same questions with some changes to those over 38 or 40 year old. I think it would be interesting to see what they think is important vs the younger girls. Thank you for getting a different group of women this round of questions.

[@ugaais]

They literally never change

[@nickofthenorth]

I have to agree w girl who dated surgeon (for whom $200K would be low) that once you taste the good life its hard to settle. She’s not materialistic- just honest.

[@vivienne8097]

My partner makes 400k per year and he is 36 years old but it took him 10 years to get here and I stick with him all this time through good day and rainy days. All I could offered him was loving giving and always maintained my physical on top shape I know he loves me no matter what but I thought he deserved to have beautiful partner

[@PFG888]

Thanks for the video! Would love to see more videos like this, a part 2 if you will, if a new group of women. Maybe make one of these every year or two? 28:16 - it'll be interesting doing a video on this with the real answer, which is no. In today's age there are so many videos of women 40+ saying it is hard to date and not being able to find someone. You should do a video showing these women the truth one to save them from becoming the 40+ women that can't find anyone because they ask for so much and two to get their reaction.

[@jraine2328]

She needs to ask do these women know what these men want out of them

[@henriqueleijoto9285]

Keep doing this format, Courtney! Thumbs up!!!

[@kbrett2004]

Love this type of video Courtney. Could you please phrase a question to the ladies such as - "My male viewers are curious. Why do you think you deserve a man making 'X' amount?" Thanks for making these, they always entertain me.

[@caribemarruffo9120]

Have worked all my life to make the 7 figure income, and hearing these women talk about 50/50 now that's just making checks with your mouths that your asses can't cash.

[@kamaalkatariya1088]

It would be interesting if you provide some statistics about marriage , income ,age , kids

[@accord_aero_r]

One interesting statistic about kids is that it now costs a bit over $300k to raise a single child to the age of 18 in the US. Pretty much $17k/yr out of your salary. But I do agree with some of the girls' comments that it is necessary to make real money if you want kids; I hate how so many people have kids they can't afford. I feel like that's partially responsible for the dumbing down of this country.

[@davidchang8428]

@@accord_aero_r goes a long way in explaining why birth rates are nosediving

[@accord_aero_r]

​@@davidchang8428 Honestly, though, I find it hypocritical of society for acting like a decreasing birth rate is a bad thing.

[@TOhara-eb2lp]

Courtney, thank you for the video as always. I love (and appreciate) having a good Canali but when I was their age (I’m guessed early-mid 20’s) I wore a navy uniform and made three figures a month. Maybe not being their type was a blessing in disguise.

[@analyticalchick3064]

Are you old? I made 4 figures a month in the Army in 2000.

[@TOhara-eb2lp]

@@analyticalchick3064 E-1 to E-3 early 1990’s

[@edwinnaranjo9435]

Been making 6 figures since I was 26, but my gf chose me since I was making 46k a year, so she is definitely a keeper for sure.

[@John.Doe-OG]

What I liked the most out of this video, was the dose of reality that they got and needed. Their reactions to the reality was a big tell. For the guys in the comments, these girls are red flags.

[@johnrussell519]

Anyone (male or female) who is 29 and makes 1M will have options around the block. Funny thing is that someone in that income bracket works like 40-100 hours a week! He or she will not have time to take lavish vacations or spend time with a family at all.

[@Tionaintown876]

I find it so weird that 25 year olds want to date 30 year old guys when they’re basically not much different from 20 years olds. I’m about to be 25 next month and the men I’m interested in are typically 44-50

[@didamnesia3575]

Gold digger

[@Maremare680]

Watching this video makes me realize how lucky I am. I live in luxury, but don’t even think about it. I just didn’t know how uncommon it is.

[@PeerKristijan]

Would you consider yourself to be an upper class person or just upper middle-class?

[@hotpockets69]

I can't imagine wanting to travel all over the world every year and not contribute anything financially. Or wanting a luxury car and not contributing anything. Or staying at home with three kids. With the exception of the tall girl with light brown hair and the short girl with the black jacket, I wouldn't talk to these people. I'm so happy that the women I have in my life are normal and actually understand how the world works.

[@Dirty_Dumb_NAFO_Scum]

None of these women are attractive enough to secure a sub 5% income earner.

[@FrancoiseLaurent-ew9wl]

Average women wanting millionaires? Wow. What a time we live in 🫣

[@seanreusing5407]

"The goal of this video is not to make anyone look stupid" - Courtney Yea, but we all know it is about to happen

[@crimsonhawk4912]

Its like putting a pedophile in a room with kids.

[@lockyp204]

They do it themselves. All you need is a camera and a microphone.

[@thenathanimal2909]

everyone is stupid.

[@willllllll-r1f]

It takes ZERO effort to make these girls look like the delusional fools they are, just turn on the camera, sit back and ask questions, they'll take care of the rest. May they all RIP ⚰🪦

[@tlizzle2123]

Epiphanies

[@oacevedo81]

The woman who said the guy has to be a millionaire is also the one that said money doesn't really matter to her. This is pure comic relief at this point.

[@Danzillar]

Dropped to $100k after, literally she expected 10 x that at the start. Crazy… 🙃

[@williambassett6962]

@@Danzillar That's why my first comment was I would love to have seen their responses if there wasn't a camera rolling ;) Once they were called out they changed their responses because they knew they looked vain and bad on camera.

[@bbtank3000]

Chris Rock covered this a long time ago: "Men can't go backwards sexually. Women can't go backwards in lifestyle."

[@ctguitarguy8510]

She was the cutest one of the bunch. So it's not surprise. The truth is, if a woman like her is around millionaires, she likely belongs to the streets.

[@williambassett6962]

@@ctguitarguy8510 Agreed, maybe not the streets, but definitely not what a millionaire would pursue other than for some fun. The reality is, and this is going to sound really hard and harsh, but a millionaire, or ANY of the six figure guys all these women are talking about WOULDN'T be looking for women like them! Again unless it was just for a fling. Guys that make that much are looking for a woman that also brings some value to the table. I seriously doubt the one woman that said she makes $200K, maybe she does, but if she did she wouldn't be doing an interview like this.

[@denniedollreborn8711]

I want to see these women interviewed in 30 years and see how their lives turned out

[@alanparks3402]

you like horror movies don't you?

[@christopherflanagan9626]

Pride cometh before the fall.

[@deejay7060]

They’ll either be divorced, or never married.

[@mrs.carter4775]

🐈 🐈 🐈. 🍷 🍷 🍷. 💔💔

[@redflag4255]

5 years from now

[@elizabethanne8729]

22:21 I’m married to a surgeon. You like that lifestyle? You better be ready for him being completely dedicated to his job. We once drove five hours for a weekend trip to then turn around and drive all the way home because one of his patients came back to the ED with what looked like a stroke (it wasn’t thank god) Phone calls all night from medicine, PA’s, residents…. That lifestyle?

[@robertsmith17359]

100%, this is very typical of these careers that pay $100k plus. If my boss tells me I need to get on a plane tomorrow and fly half way around the world, I'm doing it. For my troubles I am compensated well, but there is a tradeoff.

[@elizabethanne8729]

@@robertsmith17359 exactly

[@Arvak777]

​@@robertsmith17359yup, lots of people I met that were making that were always away from home, living out their luggage in a new hotel every week. They loved the pay but if you'd want a home or stable family it wasn't easy

[@BigTroyT]

In these women's fantasy worlds, these guys have the income, but none of the responsibilities, and they're free to come and go as they wish. There is zero connection with reality. I'm sure your husband would love to make his salary AND take an uninterrupted vacation once in his life, or spend more time at home with you, but that's just not the reality of his job, or of nearly any high-income job.

[@abarrister1506]

I am a divorce lawyer, ask me what the Christmas Holidays are like.

[@coryluke12]

“The men I date make 6 figures!” No, they just tell you that.

[@lplp1546]

Yes “she’s dated many millionaires”😆😆

[@KingpinCarlito]

Right they could make 70k live in a condo save up some money to spend recklessly and say they they make 100k. Same with 100k they could say they make a million. Those ladies are just gullible

[@justatallguy]

I don't think she even dates them, I think they just pump and dump, she just didn't notice.

[@philspaghet]

Also what kind of relationship? One night stand or short term doesn't count

[@jaws666]

Little does the one that said "i have dated men who make 6 figures" realise those men work for the toy company Hasbro and the 6 figures he told her he makes are action figures.🤣🤣🤣

[@ajtaylor8750]

*"Settle for less than a millionaire?"* She said that as if there's millionaires casually walking down the street everyday. At the end of the day, most women will either end up alone or "settle" for a guy whose not their ideal guy but in reality he probably makes a great long-term partner and even a husband. Being a man who earns an honest living is perfectly fine yet some of the standards and preferences today are insanely delusional and women who want a millionaire man just like how it sounds more than the reality of it.

[@TSierra]

Facts, some of the standards and preferences today are absolutely insane and delusional.

[@ImagineOnward]

They care more about the wedding instead of being a wife

[@tommygunn6901]

I just leave these girls alone. They're too stubborn and set in their ways

[@mikeh197]

You don’t want to be that man either. Better to be alone than the man she settled for while in the back in your mind wanting more.

[@freudianslip2192]

The problem is if/when she settles, she will destroy that man because he’s not good enough.

[@Mr_Fairdale]

Women: “I’d like a husband making 200k minimum so I can stay at home and plan our vacations.” Men: “I’d like my wife to be nice to me and maybe wear a sun dress…?”

[@oscarma15]

Yeah, that's literally me. It would be nice if she was an animal lover, smart, and had bangs. Our expectations are so much more reasonable and yet we're still disappointed

[@AutisticMorty]

Men are not allowed to have expectations. You're going to get a clinically obese 40 year old angry feminist, and you're going to act like you're happy about it.

[@dudeguyme1]

Ong

[@elmateo77]

Yep most guys just want a woman who's nice and not fat. Yet women act like that's completely unreasonable and somehow oppressing them.

[@adamcraig1468]

@@elmateo77 they think wanting an agreeable, in shape woman is mysoginistic 🤣

[@Scout-Fanfiction]

Red Sweater Lady is my favorite. She's modestly dressed, modest in her expectations, and her body language is shy but authentic.

[@seanlinnan2719]

Yeah... but the haircut...

[@Scout-Fanfiction]

@@seanlinnan2719 If that's the biggest or solr complaint, then that's a GOOD thing lol.

[@pkphilips2]

Yes, she seems to be the most well adjusted and perhaps the least maintenance

[@Scout-Fanfiction]

@@pkphilips2 Agreed. She seems the most "normal" (if such can be said lol).

[@jonathanzuniga3681]

Was just coming here to say the same thing. If anyone she definitely seems the most fitting to date seriously. She probably opens up very well when comfortable with you and is loving. Call it a hunch.

[@alfredocornelio4329]

Courtney: the point of these videos is not to make anybody look stupid. Obi Wan Kenobi: They have done that themselves

[@nonamewillbegiven7228]

Aka you losers in the comments haha

[@ernestogerena7419]

Hello, there. ;)

[@RR-et6zp]

they arent chaste, they're half naked everywhere, they don't do anything around the house

[@Danny328DT]

I see through your lies Obi Wan! I do not fear the modern women as you do!

[@donutdan2079]

My favorite part about this is once Courtney told them that they’re expectations are unrealistic, they just say “I’ll just be single forever” 🤦🏻‍♂️

[@AutisticMorty]

Invest in cat food companies.

[@jayfromaz]

Good. Then they wouldn't be making a husband's life miserable with unrealistic expectations.

[@adamcraig1468]

They don't make women like they used to. Our grandparents worked every day raising families and their holidays were a week away to the coast if they were lucky. No luxury, no complaints, just living

[@mtd963]

Easier said than lived. These bit ch Azz fee-males don't know squat. So be it. Grab your passports dudes

[@Nordic_Sky]

They are correct. Single & bitter.

[@nunnaza]

I would love for you, Courtney to interview a group of Men of diverse ages and appearances who ARE making a Six Figure Salary and ask them what they're looking for in a woman. It would be interesting to see their answers ... 😉

[@melteddarkchocolate000]

And that will validate what?

[@richfreedomguns]

@@melteddarkchocolate000 no one is looking for validation. The purpose is to educate some women as to what we are looking for, and what we avoid.

[@gobot4455]

As a married man that fits that criteria, if I knew what marriage was like with a western woman, I would not be married. No one wants to carry an albatross for the rest of his life.

[@briandickie7264]

None of these women appeal to me, a multi millionaire.

[@_Painted]

I am less than 6 feet tall which is apparently a deal-breaker for many women so they'd reject me anyways. I want to marry a smart (maybe a little nerdy) practical secular/liberal Jewish woman who has some overlap in interests and who wants to have a large family together (~4 kids). Even though I make enough money to comfortably be the sole provider for a family, I want my partner to make some income (maybe 30% as much as me) so that they realize the effort that goes into having a career and so that they value what I contribute. I also highly value competence in a partner, so her having a career will make me respect her more.

[@brassyjazzful]

Yikes man. I'm 45, I make $56k per year, history of childhood trauma which led to depression, anxiety and alcoholism. I'm 2.5 years sober, finally trying to build my ideal life for myself...I'm lonely as shit, and miss being with someone, but watching these videos makes me feel like I should just put those thoughts out of my head for good and just work on myself.

[@LGDarksteed]

Congratulations on your sobriety

[@LGDarksteed]

Congratulations on your sobriety

[@justatallguy]

There is still time for you to find someone, you are in a good position now. Just keep making good decisions and looking for the right person. What statistics and averages don't account for is choice. Statistically speaking, if you eat two chikens and I eat zero, on average each of us ate one chicken. But that's not true, our choices were completely different, and that changes everything. When you make the right choice in life and partner, judge them, vet them properly, stand up to yoru values, set boundaries. You increase yoru chances a lot more. Most people can't do that, but you are already aware of the traps of life, and you came out of them, so I'm sure you're ahead. Don't let some average number or some youtube videos make you give up on the life you want.

[@carpelunam]

Don't listen to Carlos and his goobly gob, just keep working on yourself and the women will come.

[@Abeisgreat1]

Get your passport

[@christophersmyth1908]

This video is honestly one of the best examples I've seen as to why there should be a class on financial education that is a requirement for graduating High School. 🎓

[@JohnPaul-jn1fo]

these girls would all fail

[@omotayosatuyi252]

I haven’t watched the full vid yet but yes we need financial education a whole class about it it’s so sad that some kids graduate high school and don’t even know the basics about finances and financial education like investing and setting up emergency funds some don’t even know what interest rates are

[@richg4011]

This isnt a lack of financial education tho. This is a multitude of problems. One is just a culture of non transparent parents with constant CC debt looking like they're living good, and their kids didnt know that from age 10-18 of their lives the parents were stressing over their finances, had a horrible personal relationship, and then theyre confused when they're divorced before they graduate college. Second would just be literally never thinking of this stuff because clearly theyre not on their own, and most people dont. Roommates to split the cost dilute your view of money. Financially supportive parents dilute your view of money. A car you didnt have to buy with your own money, and mad that your monthly payments are so high because youre credit score sucks at your age and no one told you about C scores, dilutes your view of money. And they've literally never even thought about well, just cause he's rich doesnt make me rich. EVEN SHAQ TOLD HIS KIDS IM RICH, YOURE NOT RICH. Some of these girls over the last few months think they're going to have full access to their mans bank account. LMFAO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! You think even lebron james has his wife having full access and decision making on his hundreds of millions, and that she can just wakeup one day and be like babe im flying to L.A, i just bought a 4 million dollar buggati. No, she can use that 100k limit credit card that someone on his team makes sure is paid every month, and keep it moving. That millionaire girl giggled "thats why im single". You will always be. You're chasing unicorns. I love how magically they all know young millionaires on every episode. Well not all, but at least one. No you dont. If you do, you dont know their finances and theyre probably pump faking. Magically so many women know all these men making 6 figures, multiple 6 figures, 7 figures, and statistically it seems like theyre all running into unicorns. lol. Everyone just wants to be next to money, even if its not real money. Those older women are unfortunately desperate, but they in our culture probably will only get worse. At least if your marks are off in your young 20s someone can be like nah and educate you about life, relationships, money, and you can start to maybe build with someone in those early 20s, and if its what you both want, start a family in your latter 20s when your resume is good, your savings are great, your understanding of each other is immaculate, and your general resources to build and raise a family are great. There is a reason millionaire girl doesnt have a millionaire, but has been "involved" with men who make way less im sure. They(millionaires) dont want you, and theyre not that abundant. When men want women, they go for it. Doesnt matter if youre in a relationship, married, etc.. Well a selective group of men are that confident. I feel for her because shes going to continue to be unfilled and early 30s soon, and she still wont get it. If you were gonna get chosen by a 7 figure guy, it wouldve happened already. Theyre mostly settled down, and the young millionaires will just turn you into a sidepiece or baby moms.

[@Carfalog]

Agreed. It needs to happen while they’re kids too before their financial perspective is fully infected by the facade of social media lifestyles.

[@lavellelee5734]

@@richg4011 jeez this is long 😂

[@JohnSkyLey]

"I like a guy who travels" Translation: I want to go on trips with you and I want you to pay for it

[@bobsmithy9024]

Lol Broooootal.

[@AutisticMorty]

And a lot of them probably don't even like traveling, it's all about the photos for Instagram so they can flaunt a status and lifestyle to their friends. They would probably prefer to stay home instead of going to a poor Latin or European country to visit some tourist attractions.

[@gordonjay2461]

Hey she's willing to use her 'emotional labour' booking the flights and hotels. Really she's doing the heavy lifting 😂

[@Sparta1984]

@@AutisticMorty Use Photoshop then, It's cheaper haha

[@gucciguy3408]

Yea I love peoples obsession with traveling to different countries. Like they are nice once in awhile,but my god these women prove that they just want to always live paycheck to paycheck even if they made 200k a year.

[@Stephanie_12345]

70% of Men never earn $100,000 or more. Women, you are going to be lonely and own a cat. By the way, Brad Pitt is available...

[@JDog14diggity]

Courtney, I have to say thank you for statistically opening these women’s eyes on the reality of the dating game expectations. I know some were more realistic. But most aren’t aware of the reality they live in. Again thank you for advocating for men.

[@draak88]

Im sorry, but their eyes remained closed.

[@scottbrandon6244]

@@draak88They all think it will be different for them. Why wouldn't a high value man sweep her off the feet and marry her?

[@HughGenvoenni]

You also have to consider that some of these girls were likely born into money. Sure, Cleveland itself is historically a working class industrial city, but it has some VERY affluent suburbs believe it or not. So if they’re born into a wealth, and luxury is all they know, they’re not gonna all of a sudden desire a 40-50k a year middle class run of the mill dude…that’s just the unfortunate truth of it

[@derekwhite7829]

"I'm gonna be single forever". Yes, you are with those expectations😂🤣😅. It's almost as if she didn't realize that her expectations were completely insane.

[@machno.1887]

She seems like a gold digger

[@MR-nl8xr]

Almost, huh?

[@jerrybruckhart9134]

You should count your blessings.

[@banditonehundred]

She is fine looking though. I bet she can find a sugar daddy

[@nonamewillbegiven7228]

You're so gullible White

[@Scorpionwitch]

The one girl who said it makes her question the level of education in America that men don't make more money is really off the rails. Not every single person can be a doctor, lawyer, or whatever. The bulk of society is made of people that fix cars, build roads, teach, keep the water running and the power on, etc. If every single man in America was a surgeon, life would grind to stop almost immediately but those people are probably invisible to her.

[@MATCHLESS789]

Not to mention the fact that US is one of the wealthiest societies in the entire world. I wish I lived in US, median salaries are like 8-10 time lower here, yet prices are the same (except for real estate).

[@jeffreyspurgeon9126]

I’m a “blue collar” guy (I have two degrees) and i work with my hands because I make more money and don’t pay for insurance which is huge because I have a wife and 3 kids. I make more money than almost everyone I went to college with. The trash collectors and and building trade person makes more money than the statistical average that she talked about but many women ignorantly look down on them.

[@butchsmith-rt1ok]

Wow you guys arent listening.....most of what they was reasonable.

[@mikeyb8313]

Moral of the story…social media is ruining people’s lives.

[@MKULTRA_Victim_]

Even if you don't use it, because everyone around you does, it ruins your life too.

[@TheFartanSpartan]

Sad but true....sad but f-ing true

[@cmdrshephard2040]

Yup

[@Mira-pm3ni]

Social media is not ruining people's life , society has biased raising standard for men and women . That's where it went wrong for some .

[@kelleychilton2524]

@@Mira-pm3ni Social media is definitely a contributing factor. Young women 30 and 40 years ago didn't have these unrealistic expectations. I know because that's when i was dating and women were more down to earth back then.

[@theevolutionofthebear3093]

Could you imagine choosing a women based on how much they make and expecting them to pay for your wildly unrealistic lifestyle? I couldn't even imagine thinking someone else should pay my way. These videos are wild.

[@Robnas621]

Well, of course not. Men are not hard-wired to care about how a woman financially contributes, what degree she has, and things like that. Men care about youth and physical appearance. It’s totally natural for women to value the resources of their prospective mates. That said, the expectations in many cases are obviously unrealistic

[@lauraa857]

Men select women based on their look and the amount of sex they can have from them. what is worst? Trust me im not going to stay fit , invest in my look and give sex to a poor/cheap man I will gladly stay alone.

[@garypierce7380]

It never actually entered my mind.

[@theevolutionofthebear3093]

@@lauraa857 Pretty shallow point of view which was my point really. What if he is a really cool guy with a lot of love to offer you? You're missing out because you perceive him as being "cheap/poor." I make more than enough money and I don't blow it on girls that have your attitude.

[@FokusEnzo]

@@theevolutionofthebear3093 well said brother she needs a reality check

[@dillans]

Things you’d never hear a man say…when I get married I only want to contribute 25% to the household budget. 😂

[@soindifferent_]

haha almost spat my coffee out

[@corinaalbu6803]

😂😂😂

[@carontorliak2760]

As long as she does 75% of the household chores and childcare.

[@nightgoggles9931]

@@carontorliak2760Lmao, how does that make sense? 50/50 is still 50% of chores and caring for the kid. As someone that has owned a house for years and that had to take care of my sister’s child multiple nights a week and during the day for like half a year, an additional 25% of chores and childcare is at best maybe a part time job. If you both make 100k, how is that worth her pocketing an additional 75k and you giving everything? And having more time with your own child that you would die for (like my niece) isn’t some form of a chore or “work”. It was one of the most enjoyable times of my life. Ask any decent parent if they would rather spend a Saturday at work or with their children. Putting it in the same group as chores is dumb af and really only a view that a terrible/narcissistic parents have. They’re also completely gone for at least 7 hours a day after the age of 5 which kind of begs the question again of how does that make sense since the load of childcare is significantly reduced? Either way, they’re the one getting the better deal

[@katemiller7874]

Women are built differently in case you haven’t noticed. If we have children we want to be able to take care of our young and protect them. Be with them and teach them so ya we won’t be contributing as much as you do to the family budget.

[@jesse3733]

reality won't be as kind as Courtney

[@lplp1546]

You said it true my brother.

[@starscream6629]

Good, it should be brutally honest to wake people up.

[@marlowe1842]

The irony is the Courtney traded up for a millionaire fiance.

[@aty11x]

As a 31-year-old individual who has been earning a six-figure income since my late 20s, I have noticed that it is relatively easy to find casual partners when your income is high. However, it is much more difficult to find a suitable long-term partner. I often encounter women who are just like the women in the video - have little income, have probably received a subpar education (with a worthless degree), and possess an average or below average IQ, but still expect to marry someone who is financially successful and elevate them to a lifestyle they could not attain otherwise. In my experience, most individuals in similar circumstances only pursue serious relationships with women who are either equally successful, have ambitious goals, or possess qualities such as intelligence, class, elegance, and physical attractiveness. Finding such a woman is not an easy task, just like finding a good-looking and financially successful man is not easy for women. Do not ask expect a luxury car when you yourself don't have luxury car income.

[@doma1686]

As a man made 100k+ a year i never look up upon those who made lesser than me. dont get me wrong i could take care of the household,children etc

[@stevejhkhfda]

spot on.

[@yaz5627]

Very spot on and similar to my experience. Literally perfect response. A lot of these low quality women are just parasites to successful men and even with those men they attempt to break them down because they are insecure. If they really want such a person of high standard they need to know how to act and how to treat them and bring a true sense of loyalty and care. A high value man would give them the boot real quick if they show any sign of toxicity or negative intentions that can in any way hold you back. That is why I agree they need to be on the same level or atleast truly understand hard work and how difficult it is to get anywhere in this life. None of these lazy lounging couch potatoe parasite hoes allowed in my orbit. Any sense of entitlement or indecency will get ghosted. Been thru too much. No type of lust or loneliness is worth that headache. Id rather use that energy to accomplish even more.

[@hkchan1339]

Women nowadays are looking for fathers who will love and provide for them unconditionally even if they are a brat, and had no idea what an adult relationship is like where love is provided under the condition of mutual respect. They didn’t want boyfriends, they wanted daddies.

[@RayleighCriterion]

Women do not want a man that is on their level, because that means they are settling, but somehow for the man it's not settling, which is how perverse female logic is.

[@RenXiS47]

When they’re asked if they’d date someone who makes less money… you could you see the high discomfort in their faces just by the mere thought about it. But “money doesn’t matter”. 😂

[@katemiller7874]

Of course it does. Most women want to have children. We want to raise them ourselves. I suppose if no children then it doesn’t matter. I had them I needed a strong provider. They are grown now. I know this may bother some men to hear but it’s true. You can raise a family on 65,000 you just have to cut back. I’m not talking 200,000 that’s a different lifestyle

[@RaderizDorret]

Let's see who wants the Pagani Hypercar this time.

[@CourtneyRyan]

😂😭

[@kamaalkatariya1088]

😂😂😂

[@TSierra]

And the $50 million dollar mansion lol

[@ked4]

"Nothing too spacious, just 4,000 or 5,000 sq ft house"

[@RaderizDorret]

@@ked4 And here's the thing. I own a 1100 square foot house with 3 bedrooms, 1 bath and detached garage on a lot just over 5000 square feet in area. In a small town in Michigan. I paid $80,000 for it and that was a good price for what I got.

[@nicksantangelo9083]

It bothers me how little women bring to the table and how many demands they have

[@lifeafterkings6315]

Exactly all these women in that interview failed, I wouldn't take any of them.

[@gerardoa9179]

Hypergamy

[@TSierra]

Exactly, most modern women today.

[@airthrowDBT]

They don't even think about bringing anything to a relationship, typically. It's a foreign concept to them.

[@nsteak4236]

As a woman I agree

[@derekwhite7829]

Courtney - “I’ve noticed as I’ve gotten older that people buy things that they cannot afford.” Girl - “I’m one of those people” The least surprising interaction of the whole video. 😂😂

[@Thriving_in_Exile]

Here's your 69th like, My Guy.

[@ShinLeeChan]

I had no doubts about it since she told "He has to be a millionaire".

[@rene-rv6pp]

Yes i think that last woman allready a bit old to have kids .i mean if she bends to take the baby her back will ache .she is not a 21 years old