He Just Flaked On Me... (Text Him THIS!)

[@datingcoachryanpatrick]

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[@phillyblaze777]

If a guy flakes on you - move on immediately. Everyone's time is important and flaking is the most rude, inconsiderate, immature thing a date can do.

[@stark.edwards2068]

Absolutely Absolutely 💯

[@cristinavega7248]

When a man flakes means they are not Interested, just move on. I learned my lesson.

[@rebeccajones8628]

I agree.

[@BINFP]

Yep. Just had it happen

[@imlargessbeauty3166]

I move on I don't care why he flaked, grow the f*$# up.

[@katelyn1601]

What to do when a doctor says he worked the night shift and fell asleep 25 min after we confirmed where to meet for our first date.

[@DengrayKai211]

wish most men learn that.. took me a long time not take it personally lol

[@synchronicity1219]

If he flakes, just move on and go about your business. Not worth the time to even ask why. Don't contact him.

[@Thislife78-p1w]

Exactly!!

[@beautifulstranger5628]

Well said! There should no second chances

[@jizelle7845]

Agreed, but very difficult!!

[@nithaazalea7579]

Same here

[@Apocalyptiseptical]

They prob have zero empathy so give them the cold shoulder right away

[@brendaschouten-beckett6448]

If a man ever stood me up, unless he was in four point skeletal traction in the intensive care, I would not give him a second chance. Ever.

[@TheBeaniestBean8675]

Same

[@corinelafont8659]

lolol

[@healthright3657]

Someone made a 3rd date with me for evening time… 5pm rolled around and I texted asking what’s the plans? …he texted back an hour later and said “hey, I just got off work, not sure” then nothing the rest of the night. No apology, no concern for my time. Next day texts me and says nothing regarding the flake, just that “we aren’t on the same page but can we go slower without expectations?” Who can’t respect a time frame at over 30 yrs old? Still no apology, he’s texting still, I haven’t responded. Wtf am I supposed to do, think?

[@brendaschouten-beckett6448]

@@healthright3657 You know what not to do.

[@Theo973]

But life happens. You don’t always need to explain your personal life to someone you just started seeing. They should also be mature enough to know that people get busy.

[@xxxx-to5ul]

“Do not let immature men get you down” 💯

[@ink5395]

Just got flaked today. There's this guy who kept on asking me out on a date for 2 months and then after how many rejections, I finally agreed. Told him I'm free on Sunday and he said that we're on to that Sundate. But after three days of that mutual agreement, there is no news from him. And then Sunday came the date just didn't happened. It'll be my first date tho. He didn't even apologized for that asshole behaviour but he's reacting to my Facebook posts. But I'm happy that I didn't get to spend my precious date to a bummer. I actually dodged a bullet by him giving me that favor. I'll just wait and invest my emotional energy to a man who truly deserves it.

[@greengoddessof75]

It just happened to me.

[@heidimcnamara5648]

sorry but it sounds like you weren't interested in him so as he got the date be bailed cus he wasn't your first prioritys

[@ink5395]

@@heidimcnamara5648 Yes. It is true that he wasn't my priority that time cause those past few months were very crucial in my studies cause I'm really aiming for a scholarship. He knew that too. I was really guarding my heart not to get attached too knowing that in this generation, dating seems like just a game to play. You know what I mean people aren't really serious. Cause if I have to gamble my time and effort, I wanted to be sure that in the first phase of getting to know he is someone that is genuine and wouldn't give up that easily. So, even I knew I can't afford to get distracted I still entertained him and gradually get interested til I finally gave him a chance to get to know each other, face-to-face. That is a really big deal for me cause he broke that barrier and I'm taking a huge step out of my comfort zone cause I've never gave anyone a chance to get to know me before. But, I got my hopes up for nothing. He just suddenly ghosted me one day. Left me with such disappointment and I really blamed myself. But you know, maybe we were just not meant to meet.

[@heidimcnamara5648]

@@ink5395 i appoligize i shouldn't judge so quickly like i always say people dont know the whole story i need to take my own advice i truly appolagize

[@ink5395]

@@heidimcnamara5648 apology accepted 😊 I already moved on and learned from it so I'm still happy that I get to have this experience.

[@meenanaicker8999]

I've listened to a lot of different coaches but you are by far the BEST... your clarity is beautiful and you are easy on the ear..

[@datingcoachryanpatrick]

Aww thanks so much Meena! That really made my Monday haha! You rock! 💯

[@mariedupont7158]

Totally. I'm binge watching all the videos. Very very good advice. By far the best channel to me as well. 👍💪👏

[@xuxuxiao8359]

agree, totally

[@Anna-ri8mp]

Flaking is just disrespectful. Don't be a doormat, move on!

[@Mari-gl2tk]

I had a guy flake on me on the first date. He was “sick. When this happens I usually don’t give a 2nd chance. But since we had been talking for awhile and he apologized several times I gave him the benefit of the doubt. Then he flaked on date 3. After that I ghosted him. No response to any of his texts. Lesson learnt! No more benefits of the doubt.

[@Jennnbg]

He was “sick”...translation: he was hungover after going out with someone else. 😑

[@DiraMcClintock]

Ghosting is immature too. just say "sorry, two strikes you're out"

[@Theo973]

But people get busy. I’m not saying what he did was right but also not everything revolves around the person you just started seeing. You can also be mature enough to know that at some point everyone in their life has flaked so don’t be hypocritical.

[@ebonyeverything2751]

@@DiraMcClintock no, she didn't owe him that at all.

[@MarokoJin]

@@Theo973 if you're busy, don't try to get into a relationship, stay busy.

[@walkyria1]

When a guy flaked on me, I never gave him the chance to speak to me again. I broke up. Never saw me again.

[@danajones3818]

This is what I needed to hear.

[@Mamamia90210]

He ignored me when we were supposed to go out. I texted him hours later and said “you flaked on me” and he asked if I was available tomorrow. No sorry. No excuse. Nothing. I told him I was busy the rest of the week and he asked to have lunch with me. I told him sorry, no and to enjoy his week. He tried to carry on the convo and I didn’t respond. I haven’t texted at all today either. This is only the 3rd date

[@datingcoachryanpatrick]

You played that right. If he doesn't even apologize and acknowledge he flaked... NEXT! 😉

[@mychelleforan6137]

I love how your videos are about the topic and not always giving cliffhangers to push to buy a book or membership

[@justablankaccountnow6471]

Literally don’t waste your time. If they flake on you 3 times you need to let them go. “Fool me once shame on me, fool me twice shame on you”

[@lanigirl01]

I just lived this very thing. Never again.

[@Axumbelfashiontubi]

Yeah i cancelled the 3rd invite he said me that "Because I have a business dinner with my boss tonight and then we go to the airport" he was change the appointment twice then I feel he is not respect me that is why I said no u can go with ur business boss😂

[@42710steph]

We were supposed to meet up but never texted me back to confirm a time....I went on FB and posted that I had a wonderful afternoon with another guy...in the evening, he apologized saying that he was just tired ! I replied that it didn't matter because I had other plans. He prob saw my post...no news since, good riddance !

[@accesstotheredcarpet]

42710steph Wow that was EPIC!!! Love it. You go girl high five!!!

[@briannalisaphotography5477]

That's how you do it sis

[@EmsEms81]

No second chance. It’s easy to know if it’s genuine or not. We teach people how to treat us.

[@krystalsoto2365]

Wow. He seems like the most genuine dating coach. I love his cut and dry explanations and NO GAMES.n

[@blakaeg]

I got flaked last Thursday. I text to say I’m going to be leaving home soon. He text back “Awesome” them 2 minutes later, got a text saying he’s not feeling well. Not sure if it’s Covid!! I was like OMG that’s it. next! Told him that best not to arrange any other meets lol. I don’t accept this behavior!

[@Theo973]

Flaking is a part of life. Everyone has flaked. If people can’t accept that other people flake they’re not mature enough either. People don’t need to explain their personal life to someone they just started seeing. I’d take ghosting any day over women stalking me. Ive literally felt sick to my stomach amount of times women can stalk and sent 50 texts in a row without you responding to one. Ghosting is fine! I don’t see a problem with it. No need to make things awkward. If you don’t wanna be with someone and aren’t responding they should take the hint and move on. No need to blow up your phone, and just terrorize you . Women can get downright scary.

[@sipe254]

@@Theo973 can’t agree with you more. I’ve had 2 absolutely batshit crazy woman stalking me after I declined them and kept me wondering how tf do I not call the police. Better getting ghosted any day

[@christineboutin4971]

Had a date planned for Sunday, After communicating that i was on my way he flaked/apologized and proposed a date mid-week and would call later that night. He has not called/text since to elaborste on what happened. I feel that I do not need to reach out,

[@ink5395]

Yes girl. It isn't your obligation to do so. He was the one who bailed on you so if he really felt bad about what had happened and is really interested about the date, he would bother to tell you at least why he stood you up.

[@carolorsmond8642]

Could be a hangover? Ive seen that pattern so either way your better off without

[@MademoiselleRisquer]

Guy canceled on me on the secound date but apologized and asked what my favorite flowers are. But he also said he canceled because of work reasons. He doesn’t know if there will be enough time to see each other because he only has a few days off to commit to relationship. So I told him work nights work for me. But said I was bummed. I still feel bummed next day. I’m not texting him first at all. I feel bad cuz I really felt connected on first date and we went all the way. He also said he would wanna see a movie with me but no date set. I’m taking a seat backwards to see if he actually wants to date. It just hurts thinking we might not work out. I also unmatched him on the app but he has my number.

[@Tns85]

They flake on you because they're just not interested in the first place they were after a certain thing they didn't get it so they left.

[@silvistan9779]

I love how Ryan speaks with his whole body for emphasis, to really get through to his viewers. He’s re-enacting all my body reactions to some outrageous text from a loser, or how I may spas out to my girlfriends discussing a loser..

[@alanamoore2110]

I have noticed that American men, seem to use the line: "I make it up to you", after they mess up, but surprise...nothing happens and they just want to pick up were they left of. How do you deal with this situation?

[@ksactress]

Alana Moore so true

[@shopgirl6183]

Context? If it's flaking on dates, move on. If they don't want to make it up to you, it's not your job to remind them.

[@ink5395]

Well girl, he don't deserve any of your time then. Forget about him and move on. You deserve so much more than this.

[@TheIndigodog]

Is he going to make it up to you when he is late to your wedding, forgets the kids at school or doesn't visit you in the hospital after you've been married for 17 years? Thank him for showing his true nature leave him , go find and date a real man.

[@kattherese8541]

I had a guy set a date with me and flaked. Then he apologized and set up a second date only to flake again 😭😭😭

[@datingcoachryanpatrick]

NEXT!

[@Cristinact]

As****e

[@rebeccajones8628]

You should not have made the second date.

[@VictoriaGarcia-cb6ey]

Same

[@katelynnlee5158]

lol You should text him to see if he is still up for the date. No response is enough to just move on.

[@amygoodman4320]

Happened to me Saturday. Then I told him I’m moving forward. He said he got drunk and passed out. I told him take care. Then he’s like I’m sorry and I said so am I. But that’s it. Not looking back. Haven’t heard back since Monday.

[@stacy_angel6324]

Honestly I’ve implemented some of your techniques in my relationship and it’s made a world of positive difference THANK U!!!

[@grumblydoore8551]

I bet you’re still single tho 🤣🤣 cause the guy is thinking the same thing. Any sign of games, GONE. I really doubt any of you ladies here are in a relationship hahahaha.

[@agdollsnikki]

he made plans then cancelled without rescheduling, then the day where we were supposed to hang out came and he said "hey wyd tonight" and i hit him with the "I'm busy" and then ended up going to the same party he was at. lol

[@farihamohamedhilmy4700]

Flakey guys are the most immature :P

[@Theo973]

That’s not true at all

[@farihamohamedhilmy4700]

@@Theo973 Yeah. It is. You just simply bounce out at the last minute. That's not cool. Which is why they are the most immature

[@Theo973]

@@farihamohamedhilmy4700 Flaking is a part of life. Everyone has flaked. If people can’t accept that other people flake they’re not mature enough either. People don’t need to explain their personal life to someone they just started seeing. I’d take ghosting any day over women stalking me. Ive literally felt sick to my stomach amount of times women can stalk and sent 50 texts in a row without you responding to one. Ghosting is fine! I don’t see a problem with it. No need to make things awkward. If you don’t wanna be with someone and aren’t responding they should take the hint and move on. No need to blow up your phone, and just terrorize you . Women can be downright scary.

[@farihamohamedhilmy4700]

@@Theo973 No. Ghosting and flaking is not fine. The best way to end things is BE DIRECT with the person. Not cool to leave people hanging bruh

[@Theo973]

@@farihamohamedhilmy4700 I think it depends on how well you know the person. I think if you go on 1 or 2 dates you don’t really owe an explanation for anything

[@celissewillis9399]

You have such great energy for such heavy topics. I don’t follow many relationship accounts on KZbin, I’m really mindful of the info I take in & what truly resonates. So other than a couple LOA based love life coaches, I love your approach! I also wanted to say that I appreciate your vulnerability & authenticity on this topic. It takes a really strong man to admit when they’ve let someone down, but also be able to help women understand the mindset based on experience, because experience can definitely give you an edge!

[@datingcoachryanpatrick]

Thanks Celisse! Glad to have you on the channel! 🙂

[@dhritisingh4808]

his apology said, "da fuq, I forgot"

[@nishishabima]

Omg wtf dump his ass🤣

[@gbhemmy4441]

OMG! I totally got this reply from someone too

[@legibitiqua2]

🤣 da fuq, forget him!

[@sonja4936]

LOOOL Waste man EW

[@sweetness1992]

After several dates with a guy i onced liked. An he flaked on me the last date we was supposed to go on i politely deleted his number an told him too leave me alone an that was the end of that An i happly moved on an minded my own business If a guy flakes on you . He just not that interested in you an dont take it personal. Dont let what that person did get to you. An dont become obsessed with the person trying to figure out why.. just let it go an walk to much men out here to go crazy over one man

[@bomaigimogeremawi4242]

"He's a little punk" 🤣

[@ashleybellerose7104]

He didnt tell me at all. He just ignored my texts

[@mdee860]

I appreciate that you 'own' your own BS & immaturity. I also like that you don't wait until the video's almost over before you get right to the point. Thank you. 👏

[@samrester6254]

"If he did flake on you, how apologetic was he, in his text..." Text? IF he isn't AT LEAST calling but, better in person, then just move on. Anyone having all their communications via text get what they deserve.

[@romansworld8891]

Hear this excuse a guy told me after flaking on me...sorry I drank with friends and blacked out, they had to drive me home. Do guys not realize how unattractive it is to not only flake on a girl but to not be able to hold her alcohol like a grown ass man?! I replied with, right ..don't make plans with me anymore. then blocked and delete him.

[@FitandCappy]

I had a man flake on me once, no communication. So instead of wasting the arcade/bowling reservation I had I called a guy friend of mine. We had a blast, posted videos and pictures to social media (and he’s a natural flirt which made it so much better). A half hour later, Flakster (who was on my social media) shows up with a bs story about some fake emergency that ended up not being important 🙄 I told him I’m glad it wasn’t serious and to enjoy the rest of his night, because I sure was 💁🏻‍♀️ he got so hooked after that. 😂 it’s all a game to men until they’re no longer playing, just being played. 😉

[@AnastasiaDiscovery]

It is always some kind of emergency lol It happens when we least expect it but you did your best to gracefully exit out.

[@Dragonfly_magictarot]

Dang, that last part sounds like a Fleetwood Mac song

[@julz3tt3]

4:00 haha lol I love it. Unless you got kidnapped, someone ran over your phone or you died... Then theres no excuse to flake without even texting beforehand... The "Omg Im Sorry" impersonation is golden. 👌😊😊😁😂❤️💙❤️💙 #justkeepswiping #justkeepswiping

[@nelimandin8793]

thank you for clearing this up. i was really hurting. now i feel better.

[@araceliscollazo5067]

"Just Keep Swiping" LOL.....Too funny!!

[@ellar6491]

I had a guy not know who I was when I contacted him the day of the date that he asked me for. Obviously the date didn't happen smh!

[@rebeccajones8628]

What if they do not even talk about it, or even gaslight like ' We didn't set a date' ?I think he was juggling too many girls.

[@cherierobinson8713]

You are so right! Ooh! He says he’s just a friend but even a friend shouldn’t treat me like that! He Failed on on three questions! I’m clearly not important and his Mom says he flakes, too. He’s an acquaintance. Thank you so much. I’m tired feeling so stupid about him

[@angelinac3747]

Literally this guy hurt my feelings so much but thanks for this video it made me see that HES THE PUNK N THE PROBLEM

[@TrollgeAnimations0]

Watching this but tired of trying to impress guys this much. 😂 Done trying that hard, I will hold the door open for them.

[@stacyschenk]

Dont let the door hit ya where the Good Lord split ya! Agreed.

[@ViaBellaLife]

Thank you for giving a full detail of the circumstances. This happened and we have been dating for a while. It was hurtful and not sure how to respond. Trying to be understanding since he was overly tired from working. So this was super helpful to help me understand.

[@juliaportillo5485]

I agree. this was a decent guide

[@rousseautr]

Did you accept his reason for flaking? How is your relationship?

[@eso8171]

What do I do? Lose interest

[@thelmaminoruyokoyamakunhar4172]

This channel is the best! I wish I had found it earlier, soooooo much stuff makes so much sense now.

[@juliegalea7720]

Had this years ago. After 6 months he started ghosting etc then we split up. He's recently come back after 4 years apart and we atranged a long weekend away and he did it again Never apologised back then and not now either

[@aylex1974]

Leave him alone he is not interested in you. Since the very beginning. Focus on your goals and keep working on yourself ❤ he is a great teacher and a great lesson the best for him.

[@ilostwaldo]

You said something that really hit home to my experience of first dating my former fiancee. Time management choices.

[@msnimzay528]

I so enjoy the humorous ways u show behaviors & reactions, I am loving each & every single one of your videos. 👍🏼👍🏼

[@karlacruzmusic7412]

Here's an interesting situation. I hope someone can clue me in. He set up Date #2. He was quite clear about us having a "full day." I cleared my day for him. 2 hours into it, he announced, "Well, I gotta RUN." ???????? I texted him later that night. Several hours later. I wrote, "Was it something I said?" He played dumb, (in my opinion) and answered, "Was it something I didn't say??" I just made some sort of humorous response and dropped it. He is now on "ice", meaning he has to do the heavy lifting now. What the hell was going on here?

[@sapphireandrews9260]

Can you do one about why and what we should do when a guy habitually leaves you on read or takes ages to read your messages, when he does that to everyone

[@diamondunicorn2421]

Great information!! But that statement “RAT BASTARD” had me on the floor lmao!!

[@butterflybrains243]

Make sure you make the right choices before you're 30. If he flakes, thank him and walk, Early or later...we either build something to last or use love to feed our ego. Apologies mean you do not matter.

[@xw6475]

Before 30 and after 30 I guess, I am 37 years and I am single still. Have seen plenty of assholes this year already

[@katerivera1959]

@@xw6475 what was flaking mean?

[@ekasteviajulip6917]

I have listened to many video on how to attract men from men point of view and i hate it. This is the first time met a dating coach that would give a clarification in a best humorous way. Like your videos

[@youngmulabarbie28]

This just happened to me yesterday thanks for this information ❤️

[@maureenkariuki254]

I have watched 25 videos of your channel today non-stop, its addictive.i love it.

[@Mushroom321-]

"Okay here's the fun part " 🤣 I loved your expressions..

[@Malin0908]

Some men have so low self esteem, they never intended to go on a date, they just need to know they could get one.

[@bethanystpaul5683]

Omg Ryan you are my new hero! I absolutely love your videos, and I laughed so hard when you said 'rat bastard'. You know, this information is so logical and obvious, it really takes any guesswork out of the dating scene for me. So simple! Too bad the crap from the magazines etc etc got to a lot of people in years past, shame on them for making it a mindbending s×÷%show! Since watching your videos I run whatever question I have by you in my mind, taking a step back to try to really see the facts. It works! Thank you for your time!!

[@datingcoachryanpatrick]

Thanks Bethany!

[@loveispatientloveiskind2205]

I told him he'll never see me again, he can have my mate instead... because I don't love him anyway

[@healthright3657]

Someone made a 3rd date with me for evening time… 5pm rolled around and I texted asking what’s the plans? …he texted back an hour later and said “hey, I just got off work, not sure” then nothing the rest of the night. No apology, no concern for my time. Next day texts me and says nothing regarding the flake, just that “we aren’t on the same page but can we go slower without expectations?” Who can’t respect a time frame at over 30 yrs old? Still no apology, he’s texting still, I haven’t responded. Wtf am I supposed to do, think?

[@datingcoachryanpatrick]

NEXT!!! 👉👉👉

[@mylenem7677]

I like how you delivered everything... You explained it simply precised and direct to the point... Very clear and encourgaing

[@ruth.alhambra]

I tell him what i think about his behaviour, faster way to move on. And much healthier

[@debracollins1479]

Pink looks good on you.

[@corinelafont8659]

OMGGGG, I so love your content!

[@Beautytrends77]

I just recently had a guy do this. We did meet up the first time but it wasn’t an official date then we had plans for a date the next day. He bailed an hour before the date. I played it cool and said not a problem. He continued to text me throughout that week then he stopped so I just shot him a text and said hey how’s your day going, he replied right away. I then ask if he was still interested in getting together and he said yes he’d love to see me again and said for one night during the week. When he initially bailed he was apologetic and said he’d make it up to me but didn’t mention it until I said something. I’m sorry but I didn’t like that oh let’s get together one night next week text. I’m not waiting around for him and he clearly showed his non interest. I still will never understand why guys can’t be honest instead of stringing someone along, it’s just selfish

[@dbedazzling1]

He cancelled the date n that just immediately turns me off. Self love n self respect is everything. We started dating 2 months now. He cancelled once before. This time Half hour before picking me up. He thinks he got me wrapped around his finger. He's in for a surprise.

[@dianaolivarez4444]

Love this, love the humor you give!

[@jessicajones4645]

So, this would of been our third date. And than last minute he texts me saying he went out last night and is not feeling well. I think I am done talking to him. Wasnt really attached.He did tell me he is seeing another girl as well but nothing serious on the very first date. But, I'm still going out and going to have fun regardless I don't like games

[@wild07child]

Just discovered your channel. GREAT advice; thank you!

[@charleycanalita2184]

Your facial expressions! LOLOL!

[@whome6081]

He was super great about planning dates down to the time and place prior to me stating he wouldn’t be coming to my house for a long time. Since that, set up dates, but flaked.

[@klarawinterain6101]

Thanks for the great content. Has anyone already expressed how well this colour suits you? It almost hurts!

[@LifewithKrys]

You are extremely entertaining and I love you lol Thanks for all of the advice. I get so wrapped up in all of your videos!

[@emmabeck4820]

Wonderfull. Points .more ladies should listen. To. Your good points.

[@ananunez1423]

Best coach in you tube

[@monahzayn711]

I love how you explain those situations and the body language is fun too thank you

[@sassiejoan]

My boyfriend forgot we had dinner plans last night - his band had a gig. I’m pretty upset that he forgot about our date.

[@landriahm6161]

He invited me to his moms funeral then later got so caught up and forgot about me. I was mad at first but I’m glad I didn’t go. It would of been weird to meet his family during a funeral. I didn’t get mad about it either bc he was grieving...so I never said anything when I saw him again...I feel like it was the selfish test lmao

[@AstarionWifey]

He planned a date and then few hours later he's like nah we're not compatible and he feels covid isn't a good idea to date. I just found it super confusing.

[@natalie-s9w1y]

Guy just cxl our 1st date when I tried confirming. He was the one to suggest the place and date and even thanked me that I agreed to his choice, then he tells me 6 days later he changed his mind and wish me the best. WTF!

[@SherryKayEveryday]

You're making me laugh too much Ryan!! Ffs im crying with laughter, this is hilarious!! And helped aswell, thank you for this :)

[@rainsaint7665]

I love the way you explain those all things- have a great day and thanks for sharing this lovely video!

[@NanasMagicBookBag]

I am enjoying these videos. Thank you. After being married for 14 years and with my former spouse for a total of 20 years, dating is something I am completely unfamiliar with. LOL

[@datingcoachryanpatrick]

Thanks Sharrie! Happy New Year!

[@corinelafont8659]

Immaturity exists even in their 50's and 60's. Um, can you tell me when will they ever grow up Ryan?

[@isabellacintora]

Ryan, I love your videos. you're like the big brother I always wanted to have.

[@stacibee224]

Great topic! Thanks for your videos! This has happened in my experience with online dating this past year. The first stood me up on a first date & texted 2 weeks later on Christmas apologizing for disappearing saying he had to fly out of the country 🤨. I never replied. Another guy flaked more than once (no apology) & then wondered why I wouldn’t pursue him. Jesus take the wheel!! 😂

[@nightsky3981]

This has happened to me a couple of times too. 🙄

[@xw6475]

This has happened to me 3 times and that's exactly made me unregistered from the online dating. Guys acts like that just no basic manner and they are too low. Don't waste time on these trash

[@stacibee224]

X W I’ve had one serious relationship that lasted 5 years from online dating but even with paid membership sites it really is an exercise in patience as you’re literally weeding out the bad apples which unfortunately I’ve learned are just as plentiful on the paid dating sites versus the free dating apps 😒. The dating culture has just changed so much!

[@xw6475]

@@stacibee224 Yes, exactly! The world we are living in is such a hard place. Everything is difficult. I decided not to use any dating website anymore, I am going to focus on myself

[@stacibee224]

X W Good for you! I’ve been taking a break myself. I think this dating culture with the whole ”paradox of choice” and having so many options at people’s fingertips has made it more difficult for people to recognize something good when it’s right in front of them.

[@GG-rw8cz]

Lol you're hilarious, and I don't find a lot of stuff funny generally. The other dating coaches aren't funny at all....

[@amberl4053]

Check askchazellis

[@jennsteeves2790]

Thank you for this video!

[@Jvankabell]

I hate that after 5 years,i still looking at this video😢

[@ilostwaldo]

What about when they make tentative plans with you? As in THEY ask if you were interested in meeting somewhere specific, but then say they might not be there and they'll reach out later...kinda feels non committal but polite..but what's with that?

[@ginadiz3217]

He texted that he hadnt gotten out of work and said hes sorry and he will text me when he gets home, anyways i wasnt even dating right now

[@HeartCenteredUniverse1111]

Thank you for explaining how men think!

[@kelzlondon2138]

your so much fun ....thanks for making me crack up laughing lots..these vids are brilliant ..

[@kimb7970]

That was great advice. Thanks

[@xocaz11]

we were supposed to go on a date & he never even opened my message lol 😭🥲

[@alexgorlechen5059]

Love your light pink shirt

[@thegreatnw1]

I am such a fool...long term relationship and my guy constantly makes plans and then shows up hours late! He'll leave the house with a promise of "back soon" and we'll go...i get ready and wait only to have him show up hours late, no excuse, no reason, or a stupid dubious one, no apology, and anger if I'm upset or hurt. I know I allowed this behavior how do I set boundaries now?

[@bethanystpaul5683]

Get out ! He doesn't value you. You deserve someone who does!

[@FrauIndian]

Tell him it is over.