He loves bullying her but gets jealous when she's with other men | Lighter & Princess | YOUKU

[@TheeTreyForbes]

I know a lot of young women are probably watching this, so I just wanna tell you something: good guys do not bully girls to show that they like them. Do you see how the other guys who liked her were nice and concerned for her? Do not accept a guy bullying or being mean to you as an excuse for him showing interest. Accepting this and saying that it’s normal, allows guys like that to remain emotionally constipated and never express themselves because certain people will just give them a pass anyways. All of you deserve someone nice. I’m not saying that this is a bad show, just that for real life situation, this behavior is unacceptable.

[@Dorydreory]

If its light bullying in idk elementry school or middle school because boys that age are stupid its not that bad but if theyre in high school or older and do this its just. Red flag

[@Harou21122]

Very well said @Ashley hines ❤️❤️

[@laibatv8762]

Thank you so much for explanation. When I was young I used to be attracted to rude guys I was so stupid and I ignored all those who were so nice to me, and in the end I hated those rude men they hurt me so bad that I am still single

[@muffincupcakeprincess]

Very well said

[@nhucb1]

Yessss 👏👏👏

[@drsaher8968]

He doesn't bully her. He just let her be and doesn't smother her. You gotta watch it to know. He is actually a genius and very abrupt in his decisions and actions to everyone. Actually *she* is the one who eventually softens him but it took a trip to hell and back. Her character is so strong and steadfast, you end up respecting her more. ❤

[@kanaka7552]

Both of them take that trip to hell though. She chose him because he lets her be, unlike her parents who were the real bullies actually. This is one drama where both the leads have eyes only for each other with no love triangles and quadrangles.

[@Imthemoonyouremystar]

@@kanaka7552 yup, that's why I like this Cdrama the best of all Cdrama's I've watched. There's no serious love triangle because from the start you know that they only have eyes for each other. No one can also stop their love for each other, not her parents, his circumstances nor the people around them. That's pure love I see there... Some are saying he's bullying her, but for me he's actually just making her stronger, not trying to baby her as she's already been treated like a princess by her parents, he wants her to be able to stand up for herself and let her do whatever she wants... I love their chemistry and I love this series so much! Still watching this every after 6mos 😂

[@nawshinmuntahaayra8787]

He didn’t bully her. Not even once. Sometimes he was wrong but it was never a bully

[@eme.261]

He bullied her. Most definitely.

[@laviniasnow4494]

Guys, if you're watching this video please understand that acting like the main protagonist doesn't get you the girl (unless she has the self esteem of a doormat), but acting kind like the other guy might. So please refrain from bullying people altogether. I mean in this series it kind of worked because that's where the character starts and then he grows. It's about character growth, but in real life very few people change like that. Trust me, I'm speaking from experience as a survivor of narcissistic abuse.

[@marianafrancisco7551]

Wow!!! I am sooooooooooooooo thankful that you are alive !!!! And you couldnt be more right !!! In the end what counts its only the inside of each person !!! The personality and the heart and ofc the intentions towards u !!! Like i always say people are like an package of cookies, doesnt matter how beautiful the wrapping paper is it still goes to waste and what stays is the inside ( the cookies) soo basically what im trying to say is that the beauty or the appearance will once in the future fade away but the character, personality and intentions stay forever, soooo in order to be trully madly deeply safe and in real love we need to look at people with our eyes wide open and not judge by the appearance, just cause something shines doenst means its beautiful on the inside !!! Believe in me its the real world unfortenally !!

[@laviniasnow4494]

@@marianafrancisco7551 Thank you! ☺️

[@shenyceserrette5049]

@@marianafrancisco7551 Yes! Beauty does fade.

[@marianafrancisco7551]

@@laviniasnow4494 u welcome !!!

[@nukshiyoutube7802]

Your genius till now i don't even get a girl

[@ariae000]

Y'all, he doesn't bully her in the actual series. They have quite a good relationship for the most part.

[@parkchaeyounganggandamo]

Yes but sometimes he is redflag and sometimes green flag😭 Halfgreen halfred HAHHAHAHAHAH

[@ajitashahi3334]

@@parkchaeyounganggandamo name???

[@dbgks]

@@ajitashahi3334 the c-drama is called "lighter and princess" if that's what you're asking^^

[@mhargx_bobc5753]

What’s the title of this series?

[@ariae000]

@@mhargx_bobc5753 Lighter and Princess

[@claudiabalan5075]

Those saying he is toxic should watch the series. He has a complicated past and until he met her he actually did not know how to love and be loved. I totally recommend their story. It is about growth, unconditional love and also learning from the mistakes.

[@BeyBooBooBear]

What's the name of the show?

[@claudiabalan5075]

@@BeyBooBooBear Lighter and Princess! Totally recommended!

[@kayl.2877]

Crap that never happens irl tho unless the person gets help and therapy

[@marcidorman]

Even though he has the tsundere vibe, I actually really loved his character because he felt more real and complex than a typical tsundere. The characters are complex and true to themselves. This went into my top Asian dramas list. Highly recommend. I loved it so much. I was completely swept up in the relationships, the story, the dynamics between characters, the character arcs etc.

[@herme1427]

It’s sad if you encourage people to accept this behavior in real life. Because it’s a toxic behavior. Never believe that you can change someone. Trust me. Been there. Done that. In short summary, change is hard and comes within each individual. His toxic behavior is unacceptable

[@leosid9609]

This was hands on, THE BEST CDRAMA OF ALL TIMES. Perfectly acted and executed chemistry between Li Xun and Zhu Yun ❤

[@ashwinidombale7158]

It's name?

[@ceceiliawilliams3204]

Lighter and Princess

[@cloudxarepretty]

it's fine if a guy jokingly teases a girl to show interest but "bullying" is a whole different thing! girls, y'all deserve someone better than the one who bullies you, i promise! 💗 bullying is a serious offence and is illegal, you should stand up against it and also, not everytime if someone bullys you, it's to show interest! 🎀

[@mochi7526]

I watched the drama and saying bullying is an too much the title is wrong as both of them were " enemies mostly academically and he never bullied her they always teased eachother and she always teased back

[@cloudxarepretty]

@@mochi7526 this certainly was NOT about this drama..also, i never said its about this drama! i see a lot of people romanticising bullying and hence i commented this!! 😭

[@mochi7526]

@@cloudxarepretty oh , sorry I thought it was about the drama as alot of people were commenting, but I agree with your opinion

[@godfather7022]

What is drama name?

[@mochi7526]

@@godfather7022 lighter and princess

[@Jkenthusiast]

This is not bullying, its just annoying our favourite person.....

[@luckydeep2144]

He isn't rude or behaving badly with the girl. See he even told her not to drink that cold drink and offered her water. He is rude to her in the earlier episodes because they have a rivalry and he misunderstands her but here he makes it clear that he is interested without harming or saying bad words to the girl. What you people think rudeness is in fact pride and confidence that this character is known for.

[@anchalsingh3954]

Exactly...people are very quick to judges

[@leiajones852]

They really up in here saying he’s abusive and toxic like what?? These people haven’t seen real abusive and toxic relationships.

[@leosid9609]

GUYS, Y'ALL.. for the record, he never bullied her, he was rude and indifferent for the most part, but never bullied her or took advantage of her. In fact he always cared for her in his aloof and awkward ways because he always had trouble expressing his emotions.

[@opensource32]

Bro as guy I will still say it is wrong bullying is bad thing and doesn't matter if you are boy or anyone self respect is priority

[@KayAmZee22]

I don't think He was "bullying" her like I've watched meteor garden and other C dramas that had bullying which is something serious. This guy got a sad sad past and he is pretty sane, he cared for her and never hurt her... I liked him because he was thr for her like she was... Mind you, this character lost his parents at a young age so whatever he learned was from his surroundings so I think they put up a pretty good character...

[@Lalit02Dhanwani]

whoever lose there parents should be like him

[@taryii]

If u watched this drama u know that he doesnt bully her. unless you guys wanna call a lil teasing here and there ‘bullying’. he is though very arrogant and cold everyone except the girl but it makes sense once u know what happened to him

[@adegokejesujuwonlo8879]

Title

[@taryii]

@@adegokejesujuwonlo8879 Lighter and the princess

[@eme.261]

He does bully her. I like the series quite a lot, but there were moments I wanted to scream at the FL for her to get the heck away from him. Sometimes, based on his own reasons, he did those cruel things to protect her or merely to tease her, but regardless of the reasons, he still emotionally tormented her. That's a form of bullying.

[@saadrana8658]

Darama name please 😊

[@Imthemoonyouremystar]

I like how she's the only one who can really control him... He genuinely listens to her and he is willing to do anything for her... He supports her decisions, he's even willing for them to be on a long distance relationship when her mom wants her to study abroad... She is strong minded and can't be swayed by anyone if she's on to something... She makes all her decision and is not being bullied or anything, you guys have to watch this series to understand what the scenes shown meant...

[@beboti30030]

Yes, I agree! You have to watch the series in order to understand the story. It's good, really.

[@AngelRivas-vh7fz]

YALL NEED TO WATCH THE SERIES... MAN IS ACTUALLY NOT A DAMN BULLY TO HER

[@Badruborg]

Also, she is making him mad on purpose at times. You can see she loves his ways to impress her 🎉

[@DebbieLissaman]

Exactly!!! She loved his ways and understood him more than anyone!

[@yzkkoch479]

1:07 omg I love seeing innocent jealousy, it gives me butterfliess

[@readtheroom831]

Please explain how she hit the ball and got such a severe forearm bruise 🤣🤣👏🏼

[@femmebrulee5053]

Tell me you don't play sports without telling me you don't play sports. It's not a bruise. It a red mark. They often fade away after a few hours.

[@stellalenora7500]

Because it's Chinese Drama...

[@anshikapankaj7617]

Literally 😁😁😁

[@icarenot1327]

I don't really play any sports, so when I do, specially volleyball, this happens. So it's not really weird or anything.

[@evamn4999]

Wow you gotta just love these dramas. She had a huge bruise 😂🤣

[@wandawolfe8665]

He is so sweet when he is jealous! He makes me smile!

[@jminaj3467]

It’s not bullying . He’s teasing her

[@mscamz3656]

He looks like a younger version of Hyun Bin!

[@goldenhourss]

omg he really does

[@nana8631]

I agree

[@davidn7761]

I was looking for this comment ❤

[@sakibashahin5321]

Yes yes

[@joshushushu]

Tbh he reminds me of wufan

[@evamn4999]

When I was in junior high. It was a guy use to bully me. Some 25 years later. I found out why from him. He said he liked me. I told him he really didn't know how him bullying me in school affected me. He ended up going to prison he told me he had a bad situation at home when he was growing up. The person that bully people have problem going on in their life. I believe that is why they bully people. I my case he had problems.😳

[@mochi7526]

watched the drama and saying bullying is too much the title is wrong as both of them were " enemies mostly academically and he never bullied her they always teased eachother and she always teased back

[@Caratiny03]

He actually doesn't bully her.... They have the most healthy relationship in the. Series.....i highly recommend this drama..... ❤❤

[@Sologaming-zs1yv]

Well people see it as bullying but i see its as jeleousy feel proud of this girl getting the boys attention

[@madhumitasamanta3459]

I want to say for those people who say that he is toxic or bad whatever.....they donot understand the series actually....... He is a very emotional and caring in nature,so after losing his mother he breaks down and make youself hard from outside..... doesn't want to be attached with anyone cause he can't accept their pain. As he has enemies who becomes enemy out of jealousy that they are less talented than him so they want to defeat him by hurting him emotionally. Often such weak people choose this path to win but can't. He always say the girl to stay away from him from the very beginning......but she does not want to. She recognises the potential and his soft heart inside......so continuously stays close to him....then sometimes he teases her but never bullys her..... because he also likes but does want to involve because of past experience. Inspite of his cold behaviour he always nice to her for which other girls are jealous to her. When he comfirms that she never lose his side whatever he says or does....then he cannot control his feelings and starts shows his feelings too......otherwise he always stays alone and works for his goal. This kind of boy should be loved and deserves love so she loves him endlessly . Intact at the end he forgives Gao too that's the proof that he has a big heart. He doesn't harm anybody without reason.....he has no dirt in his heart......but though they're suffered and people misunderstood as like you people...that is sad

[@slavkakupkova4450]

Minulost vždy ovlivní povahu člověka, jak se s tim poperu....to je osud♥

[@slavkakupkova4450]

[@MarieDThomas]

But in other words, he love her ❤ he wasn't bullying her 😊he was teasing her, because he love her. guys!!

[@caelanca]

LOVED the drama. UGHHH

[@cromentsierre]

Dia tu ga bully, cuma kalau di real life menurut gw dia tu lumayan redflag. Sifat kasarnya bisa ditolerir soalnya ni anak hidup dalam tekanan selama bertahun2, jadi itu bentuk dari self defense dia, tapi kalau di real life, org kayak gini bakal dijauhin terus, siapa yg mau punya relasi sama org yg sifatnya kasar hampir tiap hari? Yg bahayanya lagi itu dia suka bertindak sendiri dan menutup diri. Kalau kyk gini susah komunikasinya. Sedangkan kunci utama dalam hubungan itu komunikasi. Nanti pasti bakal banyak salah paham, bakal banyak mendem sakit hati, berasa ga dihargai, mau ambil keputusan sulit, dan bakal stress ujungnya

[@memaarmal8648]

Lol😂😂 cmt section is serious 😅 don't judge watch the drama first He never bully her 😂 he so gentle to her because he like her😅 some time he tease her and she also tease him back😅

[@andibrown7058]

I don't see how you could feel that way if you have watched the entire drama but you have the right to your opinion.

[@tachiruu]

Jealous Li xun is the cutest Those who haven't watched the drama shouldn't judge the storyline

[@Shyprettyface]

Title??

[@maki13141]

@@Shyprettyface lighter & princess

[@mohdriyaz9104]

Drama name Lighter and princess

[@cc3667]

What episode is this and what drama is it

[@iyaben-at814]

I don't think he's bullying her.. teasing ? Yes he does. teasing and bullying is very different.. I've seen worse you know .. don't remember the titles but they treat the girl far more worse.. Li Xun is too gentle compared to other ml i see nowadays (would even make girls cry just coz they're jealous)😅😅

[@motivational.__-.at._TheBeest]

if anyone was wondering Drama name is Lighter & Princess

[@IzzyKawaiichi]

I always have to double take when I see an actor who was in Story of Yanxi Palace. Like "Oh! Look at how attractive you are with hair!"

[@njm20384]

what is the drama name ?

[@carolinaguz9740]

Can some Tell me the name of the drama please?

[@StephanieKosisochi-kc1mf]

Please what's the name of the series

[@saumyabarnwal7400]

Drama name plz

[@kileyknight6275]

Lighter and princess

[@dyVal]

He pushed himself into her unintentional ❤ trap. 😂😂

[@milliondolargirl]

They're cute

[@leratomohale5407]

Drama name

[@saadrana8658]

Darama name please

[@MohdJaveed-w5l]

Nice ❤❤

[@lolitabautista1198]

Nice drama. Saw it already. Chen Feiyu is so cute😘

[@Appayipyip-xo8zx]

Which drama is this

[@lolitabautista1198]

@@Appayipyip-xo8zx Lighter and Princess

[@amandab6835]

These types of shows glorify toxic relationships. Very unhealthy, especially for young impressionable people.

[@joycedates2059]

Then they shouldn’t watch tv. These shows don’t glorify anything. It’s people mindset. They are just telling a story. You take from it what you like. To some it’s about toxic relationships. Others growth & unconditional love. If they worry about messages then only one type of story will ever be told. If impressionable minds can’t tell the difference from reality and fiction, between good & bad, then they shouldn’t be watching to began with.

[@ys-jj5pk]

@@joycedates2059 agree

[@leiajones852]

Be so Fr this was not toxic in anyway y’all need to stop throwing that word around just bc y’all sensitive. As a young person this isn’t impressionable. The show wasn’t even glorifying toxic relationships either. This was literally the farthest thing from that. Lord people can’t watch anything these days without somebody making it into something it’s not. 🤦🏽‍♀️

[@degcholmawawhaff2589]

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[@luna_777]

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[@JoanaRamagiri]

Where can we watch this drama ❤ plz

[@sterjexiii2416]

I don’t care what others think, but it’s kinda sweet!! ❤️ I mean i don’t know why i have a different taste probably bcuz i rarely use my smartphone for social media and usually hanging out w/ friends for like food trip and road trip. 😅🔥

[@o._.o25318]

Name ?

[@Andromeda-gu7fu]

What is the name of the drama

[@TshepoMacheke-kz4kx]

NAME of the drama

[@pruhaswathygobalakrishnan8576]

Is there any chinese drama same as this drama/scene...if yess pls tell me the name of it

[@carrydy843]

Love this compilation.. quite interesting to watch!! Haha..❤

[@MiraculousTabitha]

Name pls

[@civilengineer123-q4f]

Lighter and princess 💓💓

[@catwalks-o6x]

his so crazy because if he really liked her he wouldn't do what he has just done

[@mochi7526]

watched the drama and saying bullying is too much the title is wrong as both of them were " enemies mostly academically and he never bullied her they always teased eachother and she always teased back

[@namatovuhadiijah1226]

And the drama name

[@Serenity-e4p3q]

Drama name???

[@aikooyamazaki]

I don’t care what everyone says. I love Li Xun!!! Something I have never felt for any male lead in c-dramas. LI XUN is worth fighting for and I’m so glad Zhu Yun did! They are so perfect for each other. This is the only show that I equally love the male and female lead. It’s because if I were Zhu Yun, I’d do the same. It’s us against all odds. I repeat, he is worth it. Definitely one of my best cdramas. And the best in modern! my #1 along with Hidden Love. 🫶🏻

[@DebbieLissaman]

Loved the fact she recognized his potential and knows he’s worth fighting for…they perfect for each other ✨🫶🏻

[@nejilopez7351]

Title please?

[@FunkeAdaramola-yn3xh]

Well that's not bullying he is just teasing her the channel just used that term to capture people's attention

[@AthaoKamei-w9e]

Drama name plz-

[@demahpatience4895]

The title please

[@jeianrabelista4172]

What is the title ?

[@lauranguyen8617]

This is a cute drama.

[@admsya]

He looks like ji chang wook oppa little bit 😅

[@daudkaiser7354]

Does anyone know the name of this drama ? Can someone tell me plz if u guys have watched it or not and if u have can u guys please tell me and their acting is so gud 👀 lot's of love from Pakistan 🇵🇰❤️

[@andibrown7058]

Lighter and Princess

[@daudkaiser7354]

@@andibrown7058 thank you so much 😊yr so sweet a quick question is this the name of the drama? If yes than thx have a great day 🤗

[@andibrown7058]

​@@daudkaiser7354yes, the name of the drama is Lighter and Princess.

[@daudkaiser7354]

@@andibrown7058 thank u 💖

[@courtneysneed490]

Whats the name of this drama please

[@KhyatiSingh-e8t]

Lighter and pricess

[@Serahh.]

This drama remaind me of skate into love

[@tarannumshah5951]

Drama name 🖇️🦋

[@duong9606]

Lighter and princess

[@CalvinMoyo-ie7ve]

Movie name

[@georginacote6659]

What is the title of this show?

[@pochacco.8013]

It's a cdrama called Lighter and Princess

[@miche.5146]

this is not an adult love.

[@Mysteryyyyy247]

can anyone tell me...best dramas like lighter and princess

[@sinuacet]

ep?

[@SaudatuBashiru-zj2vp]

Please the title of the drams series 🙏

[@anvi7yearsago687]

y'all... The title is misleading. Li xun never bullied her, they were just playful with each other from both the sides.. This video just shows the cuts which makes him look like the 'typical cdrama bad boy ' ... Believe me, its nothing like that and he was nice most of the time in the series..

[@candyqueen825]

The title of the video is so wrong

[@junniehaeeeee914]

My fav CDrama couple right now......... :DD

[@alikhan-gr5gn]

name?

[@Junranghaeeee]

@@alikhan-gr5gn Lighter and Princess!

[@crystalenehilpert8286]

Oh my gosh... when he put her agast the whal ( sorry for bade spelling ) that's how me and my Crush meet he all so kinda bullied me i love thie

[@letstryit40]

Girls, always go for the nice guy. Mean narcissist are a no-no

[@mochi7526]

watched the drama and saying bullying is too much the title is wrong as both of them were " enemies mostly academically and he never bullied her they always teased eachother and she always teased back

[@eme.261]

@@mochi7526 -- Stop it. I watched the show twice and he definitely bullied her multiple times. She took it. It sort of ended up being their thing. To proclaim "saying bullying is too much" is a bold-faced lie or you've got very low standards.

[@abigailorabby22]

If he truly cared about her, wouldn’t he have sucked it up and let her take the first bottle of water offered? Even if it was from his rival lol. Maybe I’m therapizing this and should take my therapist nose back out of this drama story 😆 Sorry don’t mean to ruin that moment for others. Carry on gushing about how cute they are 🙌🏼

[@laviniasnow4494]

I totally get it! He was ego driven in this clip, right? Anyway, I don't know if you've seen the series (I haven't yet), but from what I understood she starts standing up for herself and calls him out on his behaviour which makes him change. Se yeah, I guess the jerk mode works in here because this is where the character starts his growth.

[@luv.linaaaa]

the first bottle was an energy drink with too much additives and preservatives as well and she was feeling motion sickness... she probably would be better drinking regular water than the energy drink and im sure he knew that too and wanted to give her the better choice...

[@gutierrezjohn]

What a title of this series... k like it

[@FavourOgechi-2004]

What the name

[@getem7640]

Dude looks like walmart version of Kris lol

[@yallneedtochill6076]

💀

[@GraceOpoku-q3r]

Title pls

[@giftyyeboaah7659]

What is the name of the movie

[@pochacco.8013]

It's a cdrama called Lighter and Princess

[@MetalBusiness-e4p]

This is not bullying. Any way what the name of this drama

[@wirotwongapichon7425]

Lighter and princes

[@snoopgarcia8854]

I love how he got so jelly

[@adegokejesujuwonlo8879]

Title

[@janettamaryam5724]

Guys he just shown his felling in different way. As I know bullying is something terrible that sometimes touch physically and create trauma. But he never do that. For me he is so childish and don't know how to confess his feeling 😂. So it's just wrong title on this video

[@eme.261]

He grabbed her right wrist right after it was bandaged due to severe bruising.

[@peterjoshualandig4278]

I like the drama but i hate that the ml is so arrogant to the point that he didn't respect even the girl's parent. I can tolerate if his arrogant to everyone but he never gives in to anyone. He is too domineering to the point of being reckless

[@JasvirKhatra-po6xq]

What is the name of this k-dama

[@eu_eduarda365]

qual nome do dorama

[@S_H_Creation02]

Drama nem plz

[@hamster8700]

Lighter and princess

[@ankitabehera6982]

@@hamster8700 why do they keep princess as drama name

[@raeza10]

@@ankitabehera6982 he calls her princess in the drama...

[@eme.261]

To those claiming that the ML doesn't really bully the FL and one would have to watch the series to understand that he's actually not a bully, ummm.... yeah, nah. I've watched the series twice and yes, Li Xun (ML) definitely bullies Zhu Yun (FL) multiple times. Li Xun is a grade-A jerk. The character was often verbally cruel to others-- yes, he spoke the truth, 95% of the time, but he often said the things he did in the most cruel ways. He even ended up being the cause of Zhu Yun spending time in hospital because of the cruel manner in which he spoke to her due to his jealousy. He's terrible to her for most of their first year, then grows sweet and loving but was still often distant, as 3 years into their relationship Zhu Yun still had to argue with him to not shut her out of decisions. Li Xun's a bullying, emotionally damaged and damaging pr*ck and, luckily for him, Zhu Yun is OK with this, as most of the time she can hold her own. To claim he isn't a bully? That's nuts!!!!!!!!!!

[@vivekcc555]

I already watched this series😊

[@namatovuhadiijah1226]

Name of the theme song pliz

[@DraupadiKalindi]

Please 1 episode Hindi me

[@Stizyella]

I just don’t like the mean , rude male leads some Chinese dramas have . That’s why I stay away from such dramas nd lighter and princess was a no no for me . Being nice is a sign of love not mean nd rude