Anyone asking you for nudes is not a man that is serious about marriage. He knows full well what this girl stands for. He is being incredibly selfish.
@pinkdiamonte53008 жыл бұрын
Yep agreed
@MrJazmine878 жыл бұрын
+Pattydole70 I agree!
@ARI-kn3wz8 жыл бұрын
Yes misogynistic people are selfish ! 😴😴
@somaliqueenable8 жыл бұрын
👍🏾👍🏾
@jacobyshaddix328 жыл бұрын
As a guy I totally agree with you.
@2ndwednesday8 жыл бұрын
If he asks you again, just give him the link to this video lol
@nazafghan35708 жыл бұрын
ikr!!
@sidrabibi25318 жыл бұрын
hahah...thats funny
@Myview2468 жыл бұрын
Or do this funny thing that I read about the other day, guy asked a girl for bra pics so her dad wore a bra and sent pics of himself to the guy lol 😂
@aseeshera59988 жыл бұрын
+Myview hahahahahaha that would be funny plus dad holding a shot gun. Titled come and get ur dead. Muahahaha
@pro0omises7 жыл бұрын
naz khan
@ManoosaFar8 жыл бұрын
you two need your own chat show
@snatchedwig26508 жыл бұрын
yassssss
@GameClubHD8 жыл бұрын
your gawjus.
@amaanalisaqlain29278 жыл бұрын
Said like a bawase💯
@idilfaruq50408 жыл бұрын
I think so
@leenaalh64018 жыл бұрын
yes
@PinkySaadia8 жыл бұрын
"he respects me, however he does ask me to send him nudes".... oxymoron?
@greenink998 жыл бұрын
If he's asking for nude pics why are you still going ahead with the marriage? That's the biggest red flag! Its the sign of a major character flaw. I know it's hard to see it as a red flag because you are caught up in the emotions..... but from a an outsider's perspective he's not loyal husband material. And hes not treating you with dignity and respect. If I was you sis, I would show him the door. Pray istikharah and make lots of dua.
@trendafile63568 жыл бұрын
agree.
@pinkdiamonte53008 жыл бұрын
Yeah I agree with you. And plus the guy should respect the girl and he knows that he is gonna marry her so therefore there is no reason why he should be asking for nude pics. Surely the guy can wait.. 😏
@ronnyyen45218 жыл бұрын
Yea I wish Dina and Sid would straight out say to the girl to end her relationship. The audacity of the dude to ask for a nude picture... says a lot about him. No hayaa at all. There's no way this guy is a good person.
@yusraalharbi81048 жыл бұрын
Totally agree
@pinkdiamonte53008 жыл бұрын
+br br not all but most men seem to be.. Yeah I guess in some situations girls tend to give chances to the bad guys.. And then we wonder where the good guys are at 😌
@shamsheerkaur92548 жыл бұрын
" Send him a picture of your nude lipsticks"😂😂😂 I love that! Hahaha
@radiyaali30728 жыл бұрын
Loool he will be all gased and then he opens the picture all he sees is a lipstick
@shahenab51478 жыл бұрын
First thing i noticed is how good Dinas bronzer looked! Anyone know what she uses?
@SidandDina8 жыл бұрын
+Shahena B bit.ly/2176UjM .. Dinas crappy bronzer that she cannot get over. I will be trashing it soon.. watch this space :)
@azrabegum40198 жыл бұрын
the bobbie brown one
@Samy.10VE8 жыл бұрын
+Azra Begum no it's the Balm one
@aemennyunus27288 жыл бұрын
bahama mama by the balm :)
@azrabegum40198 жыл бұрын
+Shahida Bieber but normally she uses the bobbie brown one so that's why I said it. ... And plus her frequent makeup she had been wearing bobbie brown just a bit of background info..... If that makes sense 😊 Thank you for correcting me 😊
@ASHLEY.3978 жыл бұрын
Tbh if a guy asked me that who I was engaged to I would straight away call it off. Coz that's just disgusting.
@zahraaesmael3428 жыл бұрын
Exactly! I would wonder who else he has asked in the past. I would wonder why he has so little respect for the engagement and for me. Perfect reason to call it all off. If he really wants to see that kind of thing he should be able to wait
@filzahmahmood5155 жыл бұрын
Same.
@adrikrystal8 жыл бұрын
"send him a picture of your nude lipsticks ok byee" the best advice ever.
@mahamimran81528 жыл бұрын
You guys keep me going since my brother passed away 💖 I will always keep you family in my dua ☪
@mahamimran81528 жыл бұрын
Your*
@VC-ux3wb8 жыл бұрын
Sorry for your loss :(
@natramohamed58848 жыл бұрын
allah yerhamo❤ hope you are well love you for being so strong even tho I dont know you😚😊
@snatchedwig26508 жыл бұрын
stay strong💙may Allah bless your family🙏
@azrabegum40198 жыл бұрын
inalah waina alyahi rajoon. May Allah ( swt ) give your brother the highest rank in jannah 😊 Inshallah I will pray for him and keep him In my dua's ..... Inshallah
@tazxbakes8 жыл бұрын
Fam I'm praying to God I marry a man as chilled and funny as Sid, mans jokes
@Mx747xm8 жыл бұрын
The titlesssss keep getting me lmaooo can't even type right 😭😂
@SheikhEyad8 жыл бұрын
Lmaoo
@deenadir27288 жыл бұрын
You watch them too!! #dcnation❤️ Upload a video
@RS-eq9tl8 жыл бұрын
Ayyyy DC NATION!!! Fam I see you everywhere 😂❤️❤️
@meelzz4858 жыл бұрын
Omg u watch them too!? Yay!!!
@mohammedalam64717 жыл бұрын
Demoham Cristiano you watch them too?? AYYYYYYY DCCCC NATIONNNN ❤❤❤❤❤
@Mali.Princess8 жыл бұрын
Somebody call 911 cause Shawty forget to mention Sid's question.
@sinaan92518 жыл бұрын
What did I do to deserve all these videos???!???
@mimo48568 жыл бұрын
same
@girlsgamers72608 жыл бұрын
There's a button called exit
@farjjanarumii34098 жыл бұрын
+Girls Gamers she could mean it in a nice way 😊
@bellmaora66778 жыл бұрын
Obviously she meant that in a nice way!?!
@vasemedroserii8 жыл бұрын
+Sinaan Farooqui 2 weeks since last video....
@SidandDina8 жыл бұрын
2nd
@kojofunds80318 жыл бұрын
love you guys so much xx 💜💜💜
@youtubelife15778 жыл бұрын
❤️❤️❤️❤️
@zayzay7468 жыл бұрын
Heyxx💞💞
@mschoplos8 жыл бұрын
hiiiiiiiiiii
@piphraraspangons97048 жыл бұрын
2nd what? 2nd WHAT?!
@Beinglilas8 жыл бұрын
An advice for the girl. When guys really love "especially in Islam" they will NEVER EVER ask their girl for nudes. In a nutshell a guy supposed to be the protector who saves his girl's beauty n treasure not only from people but from himself as well because he knows pretty well that he's not your halal yet and by asking you for smth like that means that he's promoting you to do smth haram which means he doesn't really care about you or even wishes you the best. If you still getting the same questions even after saying no, you should know by then that he's not the best for you.
@pinkdiamonte53008 жыл бұрын
Agreed sis 👍🏼
@1000wastedwords6 жыл бұрын
This. Absolutely.
@mimo48568 жыл бұрын
Damn Dina and Sid. Back at it again with the Q and A's!!
@m.a82378 жыл бұрын
Personally I wouldn't marry a guy like that because if he really respects you he wouldn't even dare to ask about something like that.
@fkasqar84848 жыл бұрын
What about the question to Sid?
@MahinTariqArt8 жыл бұрын
+Farouk ak this is what happens when you have a kid.
@fkasqar84848 жыл бұрын
Mahin Sheikh lol
@rayyankhaify8 жыл бұрын
I was wondering about that too lol
@YasminMahnaz8 жыл бұрын
+Ray Khai nope its called someone can't stfu cz they only hear themselves aka lack of something in her childhood hence she couldn't have a voice heard growing up so she is big bossy in life
@queenrei348 жыл бұрын
+Fabulous ugh I love them both but it bothers me how much she cuts him off. He patiently waits and let's her answer her question and when it's his turn she keeps cutting him off again. He didn't even get his turn this time around, because she just answered her question.
@baphelled8 жыл бұрын
"Send him a picture of your nude lipstick." Lol! I love you two, masha Allah. This videos are great because these are real issues, and it's often hard to talk about them, so as a Muslimah who has undergone similar situations, I really appreciate you addressing them and giving your advice. May Allah reward you both, Sid and Dina.
@nyankitty20008 жыл бұрын
I always see a Sid n Dina notification and go make myself a cup of tea. I then sit down to watch the video and can never have my tea until its finished as i may choke on it with all the laughing I'm doing. I need to remember to wait till after the video to make my tea.
@Rumena1018 жыл бұрын
Omg it's been long missed you guys! Okie I'm watching now! 💕💕💕
@user-lf4xn9vl2f8 жыл бұрын
Hey Rumnena ilysm x omg you watch sid&dina!
@nazvlogs19868 жыл бұрын
OMG u watch them luv u loads xxx
@aishaqureshi85868 жыл бұрын
I just came from your favourites video lol 😂😂
@mohamedabadila8 жыл бұрын
Sharing your personal views as a couple to many subjects and doing it very openly is mind-blowing to me, i can't thank enough, can muslim brothers and sisters ask Allah to give a good wife, i know I'm not a good person but Allah forgives right ? :'(
@Z_err8 жыл бұрын
right
@mohamedabadila8 жыл бұрын
:)
@adnamohamed55448 жыл бұрын
+Mohamed Fadel Maelainin your humility is beautiful, May Allah give the best of women as a wife, InshaAllah.
@mohamedabadila8 жыл бұрын
Thank you :)
@meikoblock8 жыл бұрын
I'm sure you are a good person, don't be so down on yourself.
@hajerakhatun13128 жыл бұрын
LOOOOOOOOL "It's better for you to just show him from a distance in the window" Sid is just BANTER😂😂😂😭😭😭
@Hello-wv7ul8 жыл бұрын
11:52 " Protect yourself in anyway", so much passion in that one sentence ;'D
@jenniferpowell49148 жыл бұрын
you guys are the modern day answers to every muslima who needs real, straight up answers to questions that are taboo. thanks for the advice. literally. you both are my youtube parents lol
@leonahammington35218 жыл бұрын
i agree with dina that it is a big red flag for me! nudes?! what the hell? if a guy would ask me for one i would be so done with him. God knows what he wants next. that's such a no-go.
@ongeify8 жыл бұрын
"He just doesn´t get the picture" Is actually the best pun ever :D Hahaha I appreciate this one and hold it close to my heart :D
@ayeshabashay8 жыл бұрын
Make a video with your inlaws dina :) with sid's family.
@cupcake32158 жыл бұрын
Yeh
@makkiyagy11368 жыл бұрын
The way Sid looked at Dina (2:13) ugh cutest thing ever😭❤
@LiliannaM88 жыл бұрын
GUESS WHAT. I JUST FINISHED MY HOMEWORK 👏🏾
@Zainaabxx8 жыл бұрын
I didn't 😭 I just dropped everything to watch this
@naziha28468 жыл бұрын
+ayan jama oml ur everywhere.. lol
@abdurahmanfarah1508 жыл бұрын
Not one fuck is given...
@dosomething98348 жыл бұрын
I watch their videos whilst solving physics problems lol
@LiliannaM88 жыл бұрын
I didn't ask for any. +abdi omar
@gulandmum55548 жыл бұрын
they need a muslim show on tv. like those dr.phil show kind of things. sid and dina show.
@MrKnucklez10008 жыл бұрын
Dina's accent is slowly turning into Sids
@mariab42508 жыл бұрын
They both already have the same accent tho lol? Cardiff
@tanzimrahman24238 жыл бұрын
"Send a picture of your nude lipsticks" 😂😂😂
@wowso48 жыл бұрын
Great advice Dina and Sid I remember back in my high school days this girl in my class sent a naked picture of herself to this guy who she thought loved her well guess what followed? after he got sick of playing her bf he send the whole school pictures of her the girl couldn't even show her face in town cos everyone had the pictures now, I felt so sorry for her, her family and her had the move to another town. Any girl out there who wants to send naked pictures please think about it carefully cos it could destroy your life.
@arafahmohamed25018 жыл бұрын
LMFAAOOOO i was dying when dina was explaining the punn "he doesn't get the picture" looooll it was so funny to me
@shonalevick1898 жыл бұрын
Omg you guys are so funny😂 The way Sid says " oh come on man" when Hannah started crying 😂😂😂
@danielavargas13778 жыл бұрын
I want Sid and Dina as my parents so they can give me advice! Adopt me!
@Sana-N998 жыл бұрын
I've been loving these types videos lately, keep it up sid and dina!
@umasal53128 жыл бұрын
y'all are getting better about not interrupting each other, but sometimes, I think "Dina, let Sid talk /complete his thoughts!" good advice though
@sarra75118 жыл бұрын
What about Sid's question?
@TheBlessedVerses8 жыл бұрын
I love the way in nearly every video, dina would be explaining something and sid's just there like, "nah. load of bollocks." loool.
@rej52318 жыл бұрын
it's wrong even if you're married, you don't do them tings
@meikoblock8 жыл бұрын
Right it's not like when you get married it's fine to send nudes, that does not take away the risk of them getting out on the Internet.
@fkasqar84848 жыл бұрын
+Mr Arsenal You don't need nudes when youre married youre smashin when you want.
@honeypot24838 жыл бұрын
2:12 look at how sid looks at dina
@atidin18 жыл бұрын
You didn't read the question tht was meant to be for Sid??
@yasminemaidame95408 жыл бұрын
"don't send him pictures of your nudes, send him pictures of your nude lipsticks" made me laugh as never 😂 you guys are so funny
@ayanjama94108 жыл бұрын
"A penis is so ugly"-Sid
@pennypixie8 жыл бұрын
Asking once is a bit disappointing, but can be forgiven I suppose. What is disrespectful is ignoring your refusal and continue to push and pressure. Agreed, definitely a red flag.
@curlyhairswagg8 жыл бұрын
Honestly if a man wants a halal relationship and really wants to marry you he would respect you as a Muslim woman and never ask you anything close to what this guy is asking. Tbh its just disrespectful for him to try to invade you privacy like that and I know women who are not Muslim or are more open to showing their bodies might not agree but I personally would feel so disrespected if a guy asked me that. Like is that all hes attracted to, my body? And if he's that needy to see a picture then what else would he ask if that picture was sent. Red flag like Dina said. For all my hijabis out there just know that no man deserves to see you without your hijab/naked until he is married to you because why give him the pleasure of it when you dont even know if you will end up marrying him, you know? Idk there's just something special about having so much control over who you choose to show yourself to and I would hate to see this girl do something she regrets just so her fiance is "pleased"
@pinkdiamonte53008 жыл бұрын
Good comment ✌🏻️
@najmaha.40228 жыл бұрын
Exactly why we wear the hijab. This is what people don't get. They think we are forced to wear it. But really it's a way to be modest and have a man marry you for personality instead of beauty. Your husband is the only man who should see you without hijab. Your beauty isn't for other men to see.
@pinkdiamonte53008 жыл бұрын
+Najmah A. Yeah true say but unfortunately people seem to do stupid things and don't care. It's not just guys, some females don't seem to care either.
@najmaha.40228 жыл бұрын
+PinkDiamonte I agree.
@pinkdiamonte53008 жыл бұрын
+Najmah A. Thanks and the other thing is some females that wear the hijab are no good either no disrespect or anything. Once girls do something like this, men expect it over and over.
@marloflanagan74218 жыл бұрын
Dina, I tell my kids this all the time!! The internet is forever!! That and keep your damn pants on!! A guy will always ask, but it's your job to say NO!
@maria_b70538 жыл бұрын
2.13 just pause and look how sidz staring and Dina man! 😭😭🙈🙈 so damn cute
@dazzlingdiva48208 жыл бұрын
Yes!! I was looking at the comments to see if anyone saw that & i found ur comment!
@kc_x28628 жыл бұрын
I dont know what's more funny the titles or the videos or Sid and Dinas comments you guys are funny..
@Beyza-lq2mw8 жыл бұрын
I don't know why but Dina looks like her twin sister so much in this video
@loveandpeacexo968 жыл бұрын
Oml yes I thought that it was 2c first 😂
@mariyaahmed22188 жыл бұрын
Flippin 'eck Dina... Sid couldn't get a word in edge ways !
@randomcookie958 жыл бұрын
Reverse it on him, pester him for a nudes, ask him for nudes constantly like he's asking you and see what he says. Chances are he will hesitate and change the subject. Then after ask him how he felt being in your position, having the pressure of sending something so intimate. He will then be educated on how weird and uncomfortable it feels for somebody to ask that question and hopefully if he has any respect or love for you he will apologize, not ask again and wait until after marriage to have a nude you in person!
@EmaMalik7 жыл бұрын
Uhm, did anybody realize that they never got to Sid's question?
@aneesahparvin118 жыл бұрын
"Send him a picture of your nude lipsticks" hahahah dina you're so funny😂😂😂
@aishaashfaq90358 жыл бұрын
Dina looks like tousey😂😂😂
@aishaashfaq90358 жыл бұрын
#twin problems
@ReedaNaa8 жыл бұрын
I love these videos. You get so involved and personal when answering which makes it more relatable and sincere. Keep it up 👏🏼👌🏼
@amalaboshiik8 жыл бұрын
DAMN DINA BACK AGAIN WITH THE NEW QUESTIONS😂
@GeraldineAladean8 жыл бұрын
Very good advice. Once they send out these kinds of pictures it stay on the internet forever. You never know what's going to happen years from now. You most certainly don't want that hanging over your head.
@hal75288 жыл бұрын
May Allah bless us all with a husband like Sid. He's great haha
@taniachowdhury76807 жыл бұрын
“It’s better for you to just show him, like in a distance by the window” lmaooooooo I’m dead
@brandielyn218 жыл бұрын
Salam alaikum Sid and Dina... I loveeeeeeee your vlogs you guys crack me up.... I pray that my husband and I can mess around with each other and talk to each other the way you both do inshallah :) God bless
@humairaahmed18938 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 at Sid & his acting & 😂😂 at Dina's sarcasm, legit sat in bed watchinf all the videos jus too funny
@ibbyyyyy35778 жыл бұрын
Dayum. You really are hitting these taboo topics lol
@Dwizzy0138 жыл бұрын
Well that's the question bruh
@ghizbinthuda99178 жыл бұрын
haha you're hilarious for the lipstick jokes, I love love your energy Dina!
@summerxo32038 жыл бұрын
If his asking for nudes he doesn't respect you and doesn't deserve to be your partner ✋
@yoldanezami47628 жыл бұрын
I'm so happy you guys posted 😭 I was just thinking about how it's been a while. 😃
@SooBeautyFull8 жыл бұрын
Are the people that ask these questions idiots? I'm sorry, call me judgmental or whatever, but these questions all have obvious answers. If the girl that asked the question is a good Muslim, she will easily know what she needs to do without asking a youtuber.. Obviously tell the guy it's haram for him to even be asking such things and if asks again, the relationship will end! If he can't stop asking for something like nudes, it says a lot about his character. And who's to say he hasn't asked other girls for the same thing? ugh
@SetASpark8 жыл бұрын
I'm glad you said it coz that's exactly what I was thinking!
@s.o73658 жыл бұрын
My thoughts exactly!!!
@SooBeautyFull8 жыл бұрын
SetASpark Good that I'm not the only one thinking this way!
@sherifaomerspahich49308 жыл бұрын
I think they ask because they need assurance and support for their decision. They probably feel weak confronting the problem themselves. So in real life you cant really speak to someone about these issues. You are on your own. So having someone supporting your decision and argument not to do the wrong thing is very reassuring!
@SooBeautyFull8 жыл бұрын
Sherifa Omerspahich Yes, I understand, but I just hope the people asking the questions aren't really waiting for Sid and Dina's answers. I would hope they have enough common sense (as Muslims, especially) to figure out their problems on their own!
@alinanoshin50318 жыл бұрын
"you can see the real thing after marriage WOWWW" this was way too funny
@asmaairl8 жыл бұрын
wait dude what was sids question again ? btw i love yall, mashAllah, one day i wish to be as happy as u and find a amazing parter like u xx
@manta47768 жыл бұрын
Never notice just how much you look like your twin until now! I think your turban style is really similar in this video so you guys even more alike. That colour looks so good on you!
@dannymarkglenx8 жыл бұрын
I'm literally sitting in class waiting for my teacher to pass out exams but the notification came 😂
@hajerakhatun13128 жыл бұрын
"A penis is so ugly" I actually died😂😂😂😂
@DanHeather8 жыл бұрын
Your vlogs are getting more and more Risqué and 18+.
@cinnamonbunlatte22218 жыл бұрын
The world is changing though and it might help someone.
@asparklez8 жыл бұрын
hahahaha i react exactly the same way as sid in all the videos! HAHAHA you guys are hilarious!
@Khadeejah-rl8jf8 жыл бұрын
What about SID'S QUESTION??! was looking forward to his 2 cents
@sarahalwasim86288 жыл бұрын
You guys are amazing!!💕😭 Love you so much, you guys are just GOALSSSS!🙌💖 You guys are hilarious and so perfect!👏💗 Keep up the perfect work and love you loads!💜
@GraceyHeart902108 жыл бұрын
send him an ankle pic
@laylalovelayla45918 жыл бұрын
Theses kind of advice videos are so good dina...keep up the good work!😊
@skippykipper1018 жыл бұрын
I know young, YOUNG, girls who do this and the fact that it's so casual to them scares the crap out of me. Girls, save it for the one who has vowed to stick with you for the rest of your life. And never over the phone or internet.
@themanecareactor15128 жыл бұрын
I Love these advice videos, so good 😭 The intro was everything. Sid is too funny. May Allah bless you guys!
@lapetitebantam2808 жыл бұрын
Why do people always think it's about the guy -.- always. If a girl has a nice body she usually likes to show it because she is confident...end...
@fatimxh8 жыл бұрын
But it's not halal and good lol, unless their married
@jdmmi8 жыл бұрын
The question came from a girl who clearly doesnt want to do it and wants help and advice
@fatimxh8 жыл бұрын
+BlackDeath12345 I'm her sister so no, idc if ur having a laugh, leave her alone.
@yasminrazzack14808 жыл бұрын
Dina love your lipstick...what brand& colour is it? thanks xxx
@AX-dg8iq8 жыл бұрын
sids haircut🔥🔥🔥
@ermehgerddd8 жыл бұрын
'better for you to just show him from a distance in the window' OH MY GOD SID YOU HAVE KILLED ME AHHAHAHAHAHAHAH
@liyanamiah4838 жыл бұрын
dina, what lipstick are you wearing?!! it looks gorgeous on you!
@Karinasmg3 жыл бұрын
The baby says : what in the flying eFFFFS are going on here 😂
@paulachanell26688 жыл бұрын
Dina you are amazing, but plz let Sid finish his sentence some times :P
@aGoooNeR8 жыл бұрын
She is a woman. She just can't. It's like asking a man to ask for directions. It ain't gonna happen.
@Samy.10VE8 жыл бұрын
These videos have become one of my favourites! Even if it's a serious situation you guys make me laugh so much 😂
@aisha91548 жыл бұрын
#NotificationSquad 😂❤️
@sihammido70828 жыл бұрын
😎
@anaamarwa8 жыл бұрын
When Sid said "It better stop soon!" to Hana being naked I was just like: OMG HIS OVERPROTECTIVE DADINESS IS SHINNING THROUGH!! 😂😂
@barbiebeiber1438 жыл бұрын
LMAO You guys are having an argument over the same point and took you ages to realise it
@StrawberrySugarCandy8 жыл бұрын
I actually die of laughter watching these videos and the advice is 100p!
@kiwi-po2wq8 жыл бұрын
Dina, you need to let Sid talk, I think you're the one interupting 😂😂😂😂
@jahmed89638 жыл бұрын
Loving the notification thing from KZbin, always getting update from your channel 💜💜🙌🏽👊🏽
@misshaya57018 жыл бұрын
Sid is actually quite wise.. lol. Looks can be so deceiving. 😁
@yasmina72127 жыл бұрын
Sid: "But I can understand why it's good to look at, you know..." Dina: "BECAUSE YOU'RE A MAAAAAAAAAAAAANNNNN!!!!!!!" LMAO x')
@suaaddirie34908 жыл бұрын
I don't know what telling him no is going to do here. If he is asking for "nudes" before you guys are even married he is not a decent man. Period. You think he is all perfect but to be honest he is not anywhere near perfect. The girl deserves sooo much better than a guy who does not clearly RESPECT her. Love is not there if there is no respect, honestly. The solution here is BREAK OFF THE ENGAGEMENT. You deserve better hon, break it off and have faith in Allah. The right one will come around, right time) He needs to respect you first, period.