He Wants You | 5 Minute Video

Men look at pretty women. That goes for men who are married, men who are dating, and men who are single. That's their nature. But is this built-in attraction with the female body a threat to their spouse, girlfriend, or partner?
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Script:
The London newspaper The Daily Mail listed the top ten problems experienced by couples on vacation together. And topping the list was: The man looking at other women in bikinis on the beach.
Now, in another Prager University course, I explain the sexual power of the visual on men. And as I show, and as anyone readily understands unless they've been misled by a politically correct college course the power of the visual to excite men has no analogue in women. Women don't get excited by virtually every male body at the beach. Male legs don't turn them on like female legs turn men on. Etc. etc.
It takes massive willpower in fact for a heterosexual man not to look at bikini-clad women. And few men -- even the nicest, finest, and most monogamously faithful and loving -- have such willpower.
So, the Daily Mail notes, this frequently causes problems when a couple's itinerary includes a visit to the beach.
And what exactly is the problem? The problem is that the wife or girlfriend feels threatened by his looking. And why does she feel threatened? Because she thinks he is comparing her to those women. And why does this disturb her?
Here are three reasons.
First, virtually every woman, no matter how attractive, thinks that when her man is looking at other women -- other women in general, and in bikinis especially -- he is finding them more attractive than her.
Second, she thinks that he is therefore dissatisfied with her, which in turn arouses the unspoken but primal fear that he might leave her.
And third, she is sure that her man will continue to think about these women long after they have disappeared from sight.
So now, let's analyze these reasons.
First, does the husband or boyfriend find these women on the beach -- or for that matter anywhere else -- more attractive than he finds his wife or girlfriend?
Well, since I believe that only honesty works in the long run, the answer is sometimes, yes. He may very well find some of those women more physically attractive than his woman. But, here's the point that most women, again understandably, don't know: with very few exceptions, it doesn't matter!
You heard me right. Of course, when looking at these other women, he may find some of them more physically attractive than the woman he is with. But -- and here's the good news -- SO WHAT??
Presuming he is attracted to you -- and if he isn't, it doesn't matter if you're vacationing in a monastery and all he sees are monks -- he wants YOU. I repeat, he wants YOU.
And if he does, all these other women don't amount to a hill of beans.
There's another thing women need to know. Within seconds of her disappearing from view, he has no memory of any of these women. When in sight, they can take over his male mind. But out of sight, they are out of mind. It's as if they never existed.
Yes, the visual gets men's total attention in a matter of seconds, but as soon as the woman he was focused on vanishes, most men forget what they saw in an equal number of seconds.
Why does this come as news -- and hard to believe news, at that -- to most women? Because you, the woman, remember the women your man looked at. And you therefore think that he, too, remembers them. But let me assure you he doesn't. Most men under torture couldn't identify the women they looked at that the hour before, let alone the day before if they were shown photos of them along with photos of women they had never seen.
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[@MadTad]

I am a man and I look at women. And I look at men. And I look at buildings, attractions, landscapes, rising suns, cars, food, .. eveything. Because I observe. Someone else who is with me?

[@CD-wn3pi]

Mad Tad True but I must say cleavage and bubblebutts extend my attentionspan considerably.

[@pangpengmaster]

Mad Tad Yes. Definitely.

[@jameshay3664]

I'm with you!

[@lezenfilms]

Mad Tad *Nyeh i'm an insecure girlfriend and i'm gonna get mad at you to release the pressure of the constant stress i put onto myself*

[@BungieStudios]

Mad Tad I look out for danger like rival spies, possible bombers, and unstoppable machines from the future. That attractive woman in the bikini could be a shape shifting machine made of mimetic poly alloy, able to form knives and stabbing weapons.

[@JamesRansom]

Prager got caught looking and made this for his wife.

[@AlphabetCookie]

He sounds like he's making excuses to justify himself haha

[@lma9468]

Prager

[@BL3SSed-Bliss]

😂😅

[@fishganggamers2322]

Lol

[@tarasbulba4029]

@@AlphabetCookie yes, like in nearly all hia videos

[@SierraHarmony]

Of course he wouldn't remember their faces. He wasn't looking at their face lol

[@ΒίκτωρΚιρόσκα]

**insert lenny face**

[@standi719]

Lol

[@ಠ_ಠ-ಲ6ಬ]

Even less of a reason to be concerned then

[@torb1trick415]

raul castillo denis prager did

[@jimmyhardingsr.1920]

Haha 🤣

[@AlmostaCountry]

Sounds like Dennis returned from a vacation with his wife.

[@zaki9804]

Lol

[@anonymousdude9099]

Noice!

[@junegerber4028]

Dennis doesn't know the Lord Jesus Christ!

[@MasterRoshi69]

I actually heard this sentence in Dennis's voice, imagining a wink at the end from him.

[@crohunter100]

Checking out the grandmas in bikinis

[@NameePark]

“When he accidentally sees once, he’s a human When he looks again, he’s a man When he looks a third time, he’s disrespecting his wife” -A quote my husband loves from Mark Driscoll

[@MrJM-zr1hk]

If he's not looking, that's when you need to be worried.

[@fallenslave6684]

He can memorise the names, not the pictures. If he did memorise the pictures, he whoud not search again for the names. Anyway. I am anty porn, anty hentai and anty masturbation amd anty sex before marroage. I am a born again Christian. And sadly I was a huge porn addict. And it was the regret of my life. And that is how I know I can memorise, video titles, or names that to revisualise the forgotten content. Good that I quit porn, hentai, masturbation. By the mercy and only help (not mine) Lord Jesus Christ. The Son of God.

[@lapizza7206]

Looking at someone that way is disrespecting your girl period.

[@wlc2334]

When he looks a fourth time, he’s an alpha 😈😂

[@shiwan8]

I have no recollection who said this but it was a she: If a man is kept from sex for 6 months and he cheats the woman can blame no one but herself. I agree. No woman is opting out from sex that long for legitimate reasons.

[@TomKilworth]

That hill of beans animation was oddly pleasing to watch

[@y2commenter246]

It really was. Haha!

[@Curiousnessify]

ur right, i found it surprisingly easy to masturbate to

[@marymacdonald7816]

Are you a mathematician? Were you thinking of the beans' angle of repose?

[@greg77389]

Press 5 for beans!

[@VCYT]

PRESS 2 FOR SPANISH

[@Crok425]

"Does a husband/boyfriend find these women more attractive than them? Sometimes, yes". What have you done? You doomed us all!

[@SakuraSpookyGames]

Yeah.. that doesn't make me feel better at all tbh

[@Crok425]

+TheWorldOfAbbie Hahaha, don't, you have to take into account what the guy said "he wants you"... even though he wants them at least for the five seconds they see them... yeah... lol

[@SakuraSpookyGames]

+Crok425 I just find it difficult because I don't look at other guys, so I don't understand it really.. I'm with someone so I don't look, especially in his presence because I think that's a bit disrespectful

[@Crok425]

+TheWorldOfAbbie Well, I have friends that when they are with me (or any other guy) they tend to watch girls passing by all the time but when they are taking a walk with their girlfriends they don't because it's disrespectful and because they wouldn't hear the end of it. However there are some girls that don't mind because they realise that some girls wearing tight jeans is, in all honesty (no disrespecting), is eye candy for guys. But yeah, don't worry there are guys that won't look when you're with them.

[@infinitetundra]

w

[@objectfool0401]

It’s about mommy, it’s about milk. We stay held, we get comforted

[@can2835]

i hate this meme and i commend you for it

[@AnzenRyzen]

I hate this comment so much, yet I managed to laugh for 2 minutes about it.

[@Kumalalaguyy]

Damn a touhou fan on other videos than touhou rare

[@CrowTenguOfBunbunmaru]

Nitori, it isn't about milk.

[@objectfool0401]

@@CrowTenguOfBunbunmaru it’s about cucumbers.

[@somuchfortalent]

Someone got caught looking at other women.

[@NickMcDude]

You?

[@hipolymerduck706]

Is it me?

[@Real_Question_Marked]

100% those dislikes are female

[@justletmesigninokthx]

Nick Reed Not 100% - Its bullshit, I voted it down.

[@Real_Question_Marked]

justletmesigninokthx Someone's taking this pretty seriously.. I guess I just look too good for my partner to care.

[@CarlosBeo]

Showed this to my girlfriend...Well...ex-girlfriend.

[@ThiefKingofLegend]

Your supposed to hit her wear the clothes cover silly ;)

[@tubehicks7037]

+CarlosBeo Gratz!

[@harishrabbani]

+CarlosBeo I hope you two are cool afterwards

[@krieginphernjacobson]

lol

[@brockobama257]

+CarlosBeo HAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAH OMG HAHAHAHAHAHAH

[@James.b.lifting]

I want mommy i want milk i want to be held

[@viyron6160]

I want to be comforted

[@TheUnforgiven59]

LOL

[@Cookie_kuttr]

@Jadexinsane that's not goodness that's narcissism

[@manwhatdoiputhere]

@@Cookie_kuttr how

[@woorldpresident5963]

Me

[@raspberrymarmalade7330]

My husband showed me this video because of my insecurities. Then, I understood everything. Why he wanted me to get operated. Why he wanted me to exercise so thoroughly. Why he saw so many women, no matter who they were. I understood that he didn't love me.

[@narnia1233]

Just know that this video is NOT scriptural. The Bible does NOT teach this. It is a sinful nature. Basically looking at people with sexual intent (lust) is not acceptable. I mean, if you think about it how could it be? After all, Christians are called to witness to other people, basically everyone we meet. I doubt staring at someone with sexual intent is going to witness to that person. 🙄 Christians are supposed to see other people as people. And the Bible calls people brothers and sisters in Christ. So, people who are married should think of others as brothers and sisters only. Not as potential sexual objects. Obviously that can be very difficult for many people (both men and women). I mean, one of my friends when she got married wanted to take her bridesmaids to a male burlesque show (I forget what it was called, something that’s well known though) the night before she was going to get married (bachelorette party). Purely as an event to gawk and giggle at handsome men. However, my other friend who’s also a Christian and was the maid of honor refused to go because of obvious reasons and I objected too. The thought disgusted me personally, as I see them as fellow human beings who have mothers and sisters and I have no desire to gawk at them. But, it really does happen on the women’s side too. My friend who got married is very left wing and has some morality issues. She really was going to gawk at men with lust. No joke. It is not just men. But even if it was, it’s still not acceptable. Good luck with your marriage. Everyone has their struggles with sin. I pray your husband can acknowledge his sin and turn away from it. Also I have been looking into what the Bible says about divorce and remarriage. It’s another very hard truth but the Bible from what I can tell doesn’t encourage divorce or remarriage. But talk to your pastor about it. It’s a very difficult thing. But God loves you and your brothers and sisters in Christ are praying for you.

[@savannaha5038]

If your husband is showing you prageru videos, it might be time for a divorce.

[@bubbletea1985]

You deserve better!! Don't settle for someone who doesn't value you

[@raspberrymarmalade7330]

@@bubbletea1985 If Jhonny says it, I have to do it.

[@teaparameter5721]

@@raspberrymarmalade7330 agreed

[@JpLabs1981]

To solve this problem, the sunglasses were created.

[@Skeletonman59]

I've been using them right the whole time!

[@patientestant]

Women still can feel your gaze. Don't be dumb.

[@Khavatarion]

in many cases we still hef to turn our head

[@rioncardwell3867]

Exactly

[@Pidgen56]

Omfg yes. I get away with all the looking with ma sexy shades.

[@hausofone]

Coming to think of it. That's true. I never remember.

[@Skulclaimr]

Neo Dore weird huh. Like I KNOW I saw a babe, but other than that I remember nothing

[@joew.3354]

Yup. I guess it's on our sub-conscious.

[@domenicore5239]

The only time I remember other women is if I am not with one.

[@P.L.D.]

I could not remember as well.

[@benciccarelli9870]

Its weird

[@sibergirl]

Hold a sec. I do know that boys/men are more visual but lemme tell ya, Women look too. There wouldn’t be Boy bands, handsome actors, and musicians, if we didn’t. We don’t only look, we scream, and cry too. (Has anyone ever noticed how young teen girls lose it at boy band concerts?) I’m letting my age show when I say that I had a huge crush on, Bowie, Sting and Duran Durban, when I was a teen in he 1980’s. Also, at 52, I don’t go and watch Guardians of the Galaxy JUST for the story, I also go because of Chris Pratt.. However, I love my husband and he IS the one I want.

[@hassammahmoodq]

celebrities are a different ball game. Watch his other video

[@dashthehuman7352]

that's not the same thing

[@duustincrawford2945]

@@dashthehuman7352 so you say, without providing any evidence

[@pbonfanti]

And this is where similarities end, women get more excited by fame and power , men about nice shape, most of those artists if unknown would not get a glance from women. Men look at women he don't care about and don't know.

[@katelyntaylor4737]

Renato Bonfanti I knew before reading your comment that someone was going to say this. I see a good looking guy at the store, I notice. No, I didn’t see him driving a nice car. No, I didn’t see him buy a building or close a big business deal. I just saw him walk by. He was hot. I looked at him. Women look too.

[@johnnywhitsel1583]

I can't say I blame the woman. If I had a girlfriend/wife that looked at every man that went by I would prolly get and imagine she is looking to replace me. This is especially true both ways today, where monogamy is so rare.

[@foxargen]

It would not mean the same if your girlfriend did it.

[@sourabhs14]

Yeah. But that doesnt happen. Attraction for women is situational and atmospheric. It's rare that women lile someone, just based on their looks. So men donot worry so much.

[@Aakash_Goswami1]

Show me a person who still believes in monogamy and I'll show you a person that hasn't caught their spouse yet. Wise women have always known that we are not monogamous by inclination! It is also known that one in every three children is not related to the male who thinks he is the father!

[@zfloyd1627]

But that scenario NEVER happens. Women just aren't like that.

[@Aakash_Goswami1]

@@zfloyd1627 Sarcasm?

[@cliffordbodine5834]

The intelligent man looks at other women and realizes that there are many facets that go into a relationship, and that simply leaving a woman with which he's had a very strong and fulfilling relationship, to run off with a woman that is just simply beautiful, can, and often is, a huge mistake! A beautiful and sensual woman may be exactly that - beautiful and sensual. But beauty and sensuality are not nearly enough to sustain a long-term fulfilling relationship where he can draw strength from her, and she from him. That builds richness and strength into a relationship that no sensual aspect can provide.

[@humblehat4347]

Pragma.

[@lizbz]

Yup, just look at Brangelina.

[@joshzzz8911]

Clifford Bodine Please tell us something we don't know...

[@jimmyartie6094]

Yaas queen

[@ryandono5721]

Implying men want a monogamous relationship and weren't wired for polygomy..

[@5tegosaurus150]

*Looks at other women* *Forgets them* *Looks at hot anime girls* *Can name them all with a single glance*

[@tettuotuo5446]

So true.

[@5tegosaurus150]

I prefer anime girls drawn by professional artists. Because it's made to fulfill our visual fantasies the best.

[@C4TNPC]

5tygimoloch and also made to lower my self esteem 😂

[@c.c7490]

True that😭😭

[@mrdiego556]

Because I am single, cousin, I'm waiting to a woman of my own so I imagine her looks/personality in some anime girls. Sad but real.

[@RealRks]

Wear sun glasses, save yourself and your woman the headache. Problem solved.

[@-Meatwad]

delete your comment quick!

[@FaithandActiondotnet]

God judges the heart of the perpetrator, not the headache of one of his victims.

[@Marlowann]

Christian Repenter it's a joke.

[@lovelykary79]

Too late, we already know that trick haha

[@StreetPeter]

Karina Perez DAMMIT :/ lol

[@phillipmark9311]

I like how Prager is presumably totally ok with his wife checking out every guy they walk past.

[@justinnamuco9096]

She would have to forget about those men, and choose Prager over them. Would she do that?

[@samuelbarrett5648]

@@justinnamuco9096 Of course not, because Prager ha$ $omething that the other$ don't

[@samuelbarrett5648]

@@watchdominion7356 Hahaha

[@tristramcoffin926]

You should watch the video again.

[@LRibeiro97]

He said, women are not as visual as men are.

[@jamesbuck2378]

Not true!? I saw this one hot stuff and was ingrained with her frame/face in my brain, never forgot her... probably cause we got married soon after i saw her 14 years ago? Wow, this here comment *exploded* didn't it? Thanks mates, from Australia!

[@KlumSyTurtl3]

that might do it

[@KenericTheGeneric]

Yeah I get that now, but my comment still stands if they were with another person at the time lol

[@avril962]

But I say unto you, That whosoever looketh on a woman to lust after her hath committed adultery with her already in his heart. Mateo 5:28

[@Fireeater-rl4ep]

Well played. I almost fell for it.

[@Fireeater-rl4ep]

FaraH. Indeed. The host should have added that men should strive to refrain from "looking" at women i.e. lusting after them.

[@willhelmberkly3025]

I feel like the outro should have been "I'm Dennis Prager and this is why I should no longer have to sleep on the couch."

[@mitzvahgirl613]

Willhelm Berkly lol!

[@YvetteArby]

Bwahahahaha!!

[@adrianspataru9249]

True :)

[@dal.salvador]

IM DED

[@Msfracture]

hahahaaaa... Truth!

[@ruffhouse00x]

I noticed when your single women don't give you much attention but when your in a relationship women try their hardest to flirt with you.

[@TheGrace020]

Everone wants something forbidden and they try their luck

[@Frangipani808]

Women like getting the approval of other women, having something that other women want. So if your in a relationship your deem desirable to at least one woman and that's enough for other women to get a piece of you.

[@donniesmith9234]

Dan Sinatra Dan my man, you are possibly the only man, excepting myself, who gets it right. And Tiffany, you also scored highly in understanding male female relationships... If you are a great looking female, the selection process is easier because you only have to find the best of pre-selected males and that eliminates lots of dinners, drinking, and sleeping with male losers...!

[@Frangipani808]

mang kanor and man are any better? guess i can't blame you i mean the only female in your life is probably your mother and you just pick up all her actions to represent half of the earth's population, but thats cool.

[@DuplicitousDark]

Tiffany Linda moron! its natural for men to check out women even if they have boyfriends bec we're visual creatures. Women need to check for a stamp of approval before checking out a guy, having a wife/girlfriend = stamp of quality. Also women are insecure and need constant reassurance or an ego boost. Getting a guy to chase her even if he's in a relationship gets them that assurance.

[@tbonespartacus9368]

You did a good job explaining the nature of men. Unfortunately, she is worried because she knows the nature of women.

[@ffxiikiller]

Exactly lmfao

[@Alisha-qt5rm]

XD

[@cookedspaghetti5796]

"the nature of men" its the nature of all people dude. hate to break it to u, women look at other dudes too. and it takes two to cheat so ur comment is kinda irrelevant

[@g_satyanarayanan]

Men by nature is polygamous?

[@cookedspaghetti5796]

@@g_satyanarayanan actually, science argues humans, by nature, are polygamous but evolved for the sake of child rearing. its not just men dude. think about what you just said. if men are supposed to naturally go around having sex with many different women, this would make all the different women having sex with many different men also polygamous. its not hard to put those pieces together since there isn't (and has never been) a natural vast difference in the amount of men and women

[@CoelhoSports]

i looked because she looked first, and she caught me looking because she knew what i was going to look at before i even saw it. women notice other women WAAAAY more than men do. women notice each other's shoes, their clothes, hand bags, hair, nails, ear rings, everything.

[@nickdipaolofan5948]

Bingo, in fact, many women secretly hope you DO look so then they can "catch" you and use it as a justifiable reason to be upset with you, thus making it so you have to be apologizing non stop and "making it up to her" Many women actually look for reasons for their men to fail them so they can maintain control and keep him constantly "in the dog house"

[@LizNeptune]

This is true lol I’ve seen other chicks with my ex and been like damn I know he’s about to check her out hard lmao

[@cleopetra87]

coelho sports omgg I experienced that.. I noticed a guy (no reason tbh) and truly didn't think anything of it, until he looked at me too and his partner then saw the whole thing 😧😧

[@HalfbreedTrini]

my lady tried that once. i didn't fall for it and just kind of laughed at her. i think a part of her knew why

[@Alaina-w6y]

Yep. It's a trap.

[@tomandkelly]

My wife doesn't mind at all if I look at other women. When watching Hollywood hunks in movies she often tells me how sexy she thinks these men are and it doesn't bother me. We both admire the opposite sex and its never been an issue. I don't understand why, just because you're married, you are not to find others attractive. It doesn't make sense.

[@rune.theocracy]

yuo da real mvp!

[@katjandu]

Tom S. It sounds like you know how to treat your wife and help her feel confident in who she is in your life. (yes we are emotional beings)

[@tomandkelly]

katjandu Yes but it goes a little beyond that. Jealously can destroy a marriage. Both of us know the destructiveness of being with someone who is jealous and insecure.

[@katjandu]

So true Tom S. I used to struggle with self confidence until I found someone who loves me for who I am as I love him keeps that green eyed monster at bay. Blessings to you.

[@aapjew18]

Relationship goals

[@realitiesquestioned7818]

If you know it disturbs or hurts your partner, then you must atleast try not to look at others, for the sake of love and respect.

[@kelvyiturralde8111]

Why? At most times it is wired into your subconscious to look. You can't help it, ultimately alot of factors go into whether a man and woman stay in a relationship or not and attractiveness is a tiny one.

[@realitiesquestioned7818]

kelvy iturralde You must try. It's not about attractiveness. It is about respect and love. If your partner doesn't like it, you don't do it, when it comes to what they consider as their potential competition.

[@kelvyiturralde8111]

I'm not on this earth to please anyone but not doing things that I can't help. If someone feels threatened by their significant other looking, JUST LOOKING not touching or talking or thinking of then they need to look on the inside of themselves and find out why they are insecure, I've been in a few relationships and not once did I ever cheat on a girl with a girl I looked at, nor did my girlfriends ever cry about me looking at other women, you know why? Because in the long run the fact that a man looks at another woman means shit, I ended my relationships based on other disagreements,not because someone was more attractive. So no I will not try to appease anyone, and if my significant other feels insecure they can speak up or deal with it

[@realitiesquestioned7818]

kelvy iturralde No offence my friend. Yours seems to be a self centric western point of view. I was born and raised in the east, hence have a different opinion. So I know why it is hard for you to see my point. Sacrifice and selflessness are beautiful things. Cheers.

[@obsideonyx7604]

Did you even watch the video? Or maybe you missed the part where he said that looking at females that catch our attention is basically a reflex action. What you're demanding is no different from asking a person to not jump when they get jump scared, despite that it's a reflex action. What most guys do is stop looking when they notice they're looking, and some guys will stop looking almost immediately and you'll never notice, but some guys don't have that much self control or just forget to stop themselves and so you catch them looking. They guy *does* love and respect his girlfriend because again, HE WANTS HER! It's just a reflex action and doesn't mean anything. Stop being so insecure, it's really hard not to be sexist and say females are insecure and dumb when you say stuff like this.

[@tardwrangler]

He wants you, I repeat, he wants you, he wants milk he wants mommy he wants to be comforted

[@teamofwinter8128]

he wants to be held

[@teamofwinter8128]

@@ocfire finally I get a chance to be that one guy. Wow this comment is totally not stolen

[@KnightGlint]

When you get a ad for the channel you're currently watching.

[@Draco_Alpha]

Knight Glint Nice. haha

[@indahludji7155]

I thought it was only me..hahaha

[@berrych3wy]

Same

[@edgarlarios4718]

Women think we remember strangers?! 😲 Now I get it! Thanks video!

[@dnw009]

Your expected to have photographic memory and constantly question your current relationship and compare it to if you were with strangers and not her. Because ofcourse men don't just look and forget or automatically look by nature, no such thing I tell you!

[@justvibin1087]

dnw009 Women often project their insecurities onto their boyfriends.

[@dyl_white03]

The only man who looks at women and remembers them is Clark Griswold.

[@isabellamccann7395]

If they're good looking, or even half naked.

[@swimmingduck9905]

I have a man who is literally nothing like this and would never disrespect me like this. Ladies, please don't take this as absolute.

[@whatdoinamethis4325]

Then he’s just hiding it really really well

[@JanischMaximilian]

@@whatdoinamethis4325you are going for the convenient way to ignore evidence which clashes with your hypothesis

[@common_skeleton]

"men are literally just goldfish" - dennis pragur

[@junegerber4028]

only stupider!!

[@benawesomebw1197]

June Gerber It’s actually kinda true not going to lie.

[@zfloyd1627]

Lololololololololol

[@mikewazowski2462]

The snack that smiles back Goldfish

[@devinmay6881]

Dont get mad woman. If men weren't like this, the human race would have never spread its genes down throughout history and you wouldnt be here. This is how men are, the first step is accepting it

[@christopherramsey7027]

I feel like Dennis just got back from vacation and this is his way of venting after getting in an argument with his wife.

[@matthewgagnon9426]

This video literally was posted after he came back from a vacation.

[@WesleyWhiteside]

I think most Prager U videos got made after someone lost an argument.

[@dwightsmith4641]

Dennis left out one minor fact. Most of those women in bikinis on the beach have a list a mile long of qualities they want in a man. The chances you meet all the criteria is small unless you look like you belong on the cover of a Harlequin ie Fabio. A large percentage of those women hate men and are simply out to get cash and prizes. Also divorce is mostly filed for by the woman 72% of the time. 90% if she is college educated.

[@keuringdienst2518]

press 5 for beans

[@mggthebest]

Thank you very much, that was very funny. XD

[@bilge677]

i laughed my ass off for some reason lol

[@randomjunk1998]

rising europe 5

[@ezzerby]

This is the best meme

[@lobstereclipse6170]

rising europe 5

[@MariaPullatt]

It's like my Mom once said, "if you don't find your wife attractive anymore, stare at her from your neighbor's window" lmao

[@the8u9]

lol that's amazing! Does that sort of imply the "other women" thing? Like, if you look at her from outside of your normal perspective?

[@rebekahguilder602]

Such a good saying!!!

[@rachaelskibbe7899]

That is so great! Im gonna use that!

[@yaseenmalik1755]

😂

[@pudding1255]

@@the8u9 he’s sleeping with the neighbour.

[@vardoksnispavardiskevicius1705]

Even if other women is more beautiful, it doesn't matter, we not animal, not only physical attractiveness is important. Mind beauty, character, world view, goals ambitions and etc etc is important more.

[@VyacheslavBychenko]

Yeah, true, right after the looks

[@Jolly123123123]

Looks are most important. It's the only one that gets worse over time. The others can get better.

[@Jolly123123123]

@Sturm Panzer At least you admit you are ugly. The first step is admitting.

[@RedRoseSeptember22]

Yep :) physical is just the outside, I always care more about what type of person they are ^_^

[@RedRoseSeptember22]

@@Jolly123123123 Looks fade overtime, if you're with someone just for how they look then you're never gonna be happy.

[@gpanag93]

Mr. Prager no matter how many times you repeat it my girlfriend won't get it..

[@rotiman]

George Pan get rid of the bitch

[@alialsaeed98]

Me too dude me too 😔

[@hansennoah1]

Laya9194 feminazi spotted

[@seancousins1955]

George Pan because she dosnt want to

[@radedg]

George Pan hahaha. nailed it!

[@mordant221]

I do my best not to stare at women, not because of someone I'm with, but because I hate feeling like a creep.

[@purpleprinc3]

Staring is creepy, looking is just cooking. That makes no sense but it sounds good right?

[@Curiousnessify]

that's why sunglasses and binoculars were invented

[@WolframiteWraith]

They would probably call you a creep too. There's a difference in just having your eyes drawn to them for a few seconds as you pass them vs creepily staring at them while you sit on the beach. You might get slapped that way.

[@JubileeLambie]

true but that has less to do with sex, attraction and gender and more to do with just being polite, people sometimes dont feel comfortable if they feel like someone they dont know is wathing them

[@heartpursuer]

Yeah, because using binoculars is not at all creepy. LOL.

[@Zector01]

If you really love your woman, you wouldn't want her to feel bad about her self either.

[@nadinegomez8858]

YES!! It’s so simple

[@razzytack]

How hard is this to understand to some people? Like, sure, you can fantasize about sexy women all you want, but staring at other women openly right in front of your wife? Jesus, have some respect. Porn exists, there are sexy models you can gawk at all day long but why would you openly disrespect your wife when she's right next to you?

[@nadinegomez8858]

@@razzytack some men are just extra selfish and idiotic like that🙄

[@christianmedrano4511]

There's very very very few guys that actually stare. I wish Dennis would've said this in the video. But literally most guys just quickly glance. Not stare. Just how they glance at literally everything else.

[@razzytack]

@@christianmedrano4511 Dennis didn't say that because he's one of the guys that stares, even the graphics in the video show overt staring and no other guy is calling this out in the comment section as the "only thing wrong" with this video. The whole video is about staring, not just glancing at women. Everyone glances at everything. Women can glance at other women. Men glance at other men, no one cares. This video is specifically about staring and a lot of the guys in this comment section seem to agree with it and it's gross

[@abilenevickers1314]

I drew the line when my now ex-husband dragged me and our baby through the stores to follow, literally follow, a woman he found attractive due to her large breasts.

[@coconut602752]

Omg 😱

[@Meelan72]

Wow, I’m sorry. It has happened to me multiple times I know how that feels

[@comradecat3678]

o man try this with an asian gf and your lucky if you make to the produce section with out getting stabbed

[@phuonglu1332]

@@comradecat3678 or getting murdered, lol

[@paul-ye3ut]

@@comradecat3678 sounds kinda hot

[@tawnyatrunnell9498]

MY MOM'S WISDOM... If another woman takes your man. She's done you a favor! ON LOOKING AT OTHER LADIES... My gosh, I look! Hair, makeup, clothing, SHOES! If my man looks, I'm not bothered. Women are beautiful! It's what we do. Ladies, if he's a good man he will not step out. When you batter a good man with insecurities it will ruin a good relationship. If you have a guy who cheats, no matter what you do he'll cheat. Like my Mom says, "She's done you a favor!" So...... all your worrying does nothing but hurt your heart and soul. Enjoy your vacations with a good man, or go with a group of your besties! Life is too short.

[@DarkWandererAU]

Probably the smartest comment in this thread

[@lorddeath6300]

Tawnya Trunnell I’m a simple man I see a intelligent tolerant woman I crush ☺️ 😍

[@diegoflores6164]

You wise lady, on other life Id marry you...

[@mayacokie4811]

Thx girl ill keep that in mind 👌

[@avril962]

But I say unto you, That whosoever looketh on a woman to lust after her hath committed adultery with her already in his heart. Mateo 5:28

[@ThermicLight]

Both sexes look. Sometimes even at the same sex. It's not a big deal anymore than just basic situational awareness. So long as you're not a bloody creep about it.

[@verysmelly9946]

Thermic Light yesssss 💞💞

[@massiex1872]

Uh, trust me. Women look.

[@guzinadonguzina9789]

As soon as I saw you I wanted to do you.

[@guzinadonguzina9789]

That is power of the eye... and your picture.

[@jpgiddwm]

Sarah Chaudhry well no women look at him thats for sure

[@sparky8455]

At hot men’s wallets

[@JKHGAMING]

@@sparky8455 or rich mens

[@tayloralesia96]

This may be a really unpopular outlook/opinion .. but any man who is in a committed relationship with me that can’t control himself enough to not lust over another woman is automatically less attractive to me. The bible calls us to not lust over anyone outside of our relationship. Which knowing exactly how that feels.. I understand why God put it in there. The pain from seeing someone you love lust over another woman’s body is heartbreaking. That being said, if a man can’t control himself in that area of his relationship than who knows what other areas he can’t control himself in. Huge turn off. Focus on your wife. Not that difficult. If it is .. pray to Jesus for strength and He will give it to you.

[@bdstudios6088]

I agree with you, unfortunately most men are still stuck in backward mindsets

[@sandro426]

@tayloralesia You get hungry outside, but you eat at home ;) Wise words of every true commited man.

[@avril962]

But I say unto you, That whosoever looketh on a woman to lust after her hath committed adultery with her already in his heart. Mateo 5:28

[@slayridah]

Im an atheist but i can get down with this verse. I dont like the idea of my girl gawking at other guys in front of me so i agree with this verse. All to often guys wanna say it shouldn't bother her without ever thinking how it would feel if she did the same...

[@leonidas0242]

True, but just because we look doesn't mean we're lusting after them

[@reverenddickie8116]

Lust doesn't mean looking and liking something. You can see a beautiful building, and say "Hmm, well that's nice" without being lustful after it. You can do the same with women. If you dropped your wife, and ran after the woman you looked at, then yes, that would be lustful.

[@tigerex777]

@@leonidas0242 No, but it always leads to and the possibility of lusting. It's like saying "I'm going to the strip club with blind folders so I don't lust after them". Why not not go to the strip club in the first place? As a christian men I know fully well that even if I try to keep myself from looking at the beautiful women there are times where my mind will wonder off a little too far. There's always that possibility.

[@veggiesarefruits]

Good point. I love Prager, but he does seem to pick and choose passages in the Bible.

[@b.w.8104]

Dads and Moms used to teach this stuff to their kids... now we have to go to KZbin... sad.

[@aapjew18]

I think moms and dads still teach this stuff to their kids. The problem is, not every adult in the world knows these things to be true. Not by a long shot. So the people who didn't have parents to know these wisdoms, now get to learn them as well.

[@aaronkauffman8996]

You sir are damn right.

[@johnjacob8234]

KZbin does it better......

[@MikeDindu]

Exactly. "Guys look at good-looking women?!" Holy shit, mind blown!

[@counter-weightmedias2263]

B. Wooton My parents taught me thid

[@J_Dawg217]

It's not a problem unless he starts cheating on you, then it's a whole nother problem

[@chocobrowniewin]

Dr4g0n breath I highly doubt men cheat just because of an attractive woman was seen. There is usually tension in the relationship that leads to the cheating.

[@cringeii7345]

Dorothea Chia very true

[@kurimzon]

“A whole nother”. Do you want to............DIE?!?!

[@mathewbilodeau]

Gtgghy F. Don’t question it, it’s a New York thing

[@kell_checks_in]

"Looking" is cheating.

[@katzestuff]

_he wants mommy he wants milk he wants to be held he wants to be comforted_

[@currently7886]

What is this from?

[@Completelyregular]

And if he doesn't get all of these think immediately he will ruin your life

[@The-su4pj]

That isnt Goodness that's Narcissism

[@JukesMcGee]

2:40 those bean physics are on point.

[@kidd_kudu847]

Whoa ikr nice game & watch

[@folbykleetwood7462]

This... this is a good comment....

[@frosterionx-zeroraikenuchi7794]

I concur, I have to appreciate how well the physics are done in these videos

[@noodledoodle4134]

Whoa my fav point in the whole video

[@benciccarelli9870]

Top two comments are about the beans

[@gackjack5192]

I wonder if he's wearing pants.

[@mattl175]

Are you sexually attracted to Dennis Prager?

[@25987489]

LMFAOO

[@titushickman9230]

Matt L Aren't we all?

[@HoneyBadger1779]

Gack Jack I wasn't wondering that now I am.

[@yk_6169]

Gack Jack Please let there be pants. Please let there be pants. Please let there be pants. Please let there be pants. Please let there be pants

[@Sammh]

Yes, men may think other women are more physically attractive than you, but if they really care about you (which they most likely do, considering they're spending their day at the beach with you), they will care more about your personality than your looks.

[@xg2513]

That's right. With anybody, even myself, I know when a girl is "The Girl". Looks are just one part of a huge puzzle that has to fit together just right when it comes to attraction. Essentially, when objectifying women on the beach and getting aroused, it's just that, objectifying. People do it and it's just a thing. I know in my mind that personality weighs more in long term things

[@thelza1770]

There's an old saying: you can look at the menu, you just can't order.

[@honeybee8989]

🤭😆🤭🤷‍♀️

[@AlphabetCookie]

Well duh you can look. You look at everyone. You look at family members, old people, ugly people. Looking is nothing. The problem is when you're attracted to the person.

[@Cosmic_Kitten2]

That’s the rule I live by with my husband! 😅

[@supreetkumar7604]

@@Cosmic_Kitten2 lol

[@RedRoseSeptember22]

Exactly ^_^

[@TotalFacePlam]

Women aren't visual?!?!?!? Tinder would like to disagree.

[@Just-Nikki]

Jimmy Situ we are definitely visual but it’s not the same. We’re just wired differently because what we’re looking for and what you’re looking for aren’t the same ( if you’re attracted to the opposite sex ) so naturally women try to look visually pleasing and men try to look either strong ( to be a protector) or hard working ( to be a provider) your DNA says make babies and ours says provide them with the safest home. I believe we’re at a point where populating isn’t a necessity and women can provide for ourselves so those instincts aren’t as important. I should stop typing now and possibly not wake and bake either 😂😂 have a Happy New Year.

[@jadeelise7982]

We aren't blind lol

[@stroodlepup]

Damn straight

[@stroodlepup]

@@Just-Nikki that's a very long defense

[@Just-Nikki]

Donn Jeferson Atienza but I wasn’t wrong so...

[@mysticmint7904]

Who said that women don't get turned on by male legs! Where are you getting this data from!

[@mastertrey4683]

Dont worry 30% of what he says is spewed out of his ass. But the other 70% is partly true

[@TedTeddison99]

He’s getting it from basic life you nitwit, do you find Hairy legs attractive like I find shaven firm ones? Ffs

[@vladimirirkhin]

PragerU is pretty biased.... I'm just here for the comments....

[@lindakey7721]

Precisely !😂🤣🤣👌👌👍👍👍 I like, I can stare at sexy legs for hours , such a hot stuff 🤘🤘😝😜😛🤣🤣

[@Doublemonk0506]

He said in the video, Men & the power of the visual, some women get aroused at male legs but men 100% get aroused

[@Lauradallemagne]

I am a woman and definitely look at guys.

[@WhoNeedsRussiansAnyway]

Laura Rabea comment

[@luizaeiras9760]

THANKS

[@AbdallahTeach]

say it sister!

[@israeltavera5648]

Are u married tho?

[@gayrunnycumstain]

Laura Rabea perv

[@metalfox1911a1]

Well for me with my girlfriend even if I see another pretty lady I look back at my girlfriend and I'm reminded that I'm so glad to have somebody so pretty, cute, easy going that I can cuddle with and more. I simply put am a one woman man. Since the second date when she cuddled my neck I already decided that I want her to be my one, call me simple our old fashioned but all men and women should look for there one.

[@allysonwidenrock3403]

metalfox1911a1 that’s actually so pure I’m so happy someone in the comments said this. When I’m with my bf and a group of men walk by I will grab his hand and look him in the eyes until they’re gone bc where I look is important to me and speaks volumes, and I expect the same from any man I have in my life. So sick of hearing the “it’s in men’s nature” argument, like nah one that makes men look bad and two it’s disrespectful to tell a woman she needs to accept that

[@Concertjunkie14]

metalfox1911a1 god I wish my boyfriend had your mindset. thank you, because I knew there were guys out there like you.

[@aliceilieva1380]

metalfox1911a1 A REAL MAN . Your girlfriend should be very very lucky to have you

[@metalmk6839]

One gal I dated was “bi” and would look too. “Oh, she’s beautiful!😍” she’d say. She’s now divorced after calling monogamy unrealistic.

[@metalmk6839]

Way to virtue-signal there, bud! 😂

[@xLiLtEmPeR]

People don't realize he doesn't speak for men.. He speaks for himself. He see's himself looking at women not us. He's reflecting his personal life on to all men

[@fierybookworm]

Men who fantasize about women other than the one they have committed to are cheating in their heart. That's a betrayal on its own and hurtful enough to stand grounds for separation. Ladies, don't let a guy guilt you with this video when he constantly feeds your insecurities.

[@mrs.cordova8286]

He had to be a men justifying what’s Not acceptable when being in a relationship. This crap is not looking is ogling blatantly. And clearly shows No boundaries, No self control, and No respect.

[@placeholder9462]

i clicked this purely bc of my own vanity title: he wants you me: i know

[@Jack-fd8cx]

Saving this for a possible future fight lol

[@jeffgrey2746]

Yeah, I thought about showing this to my wife, but I thought why start a fight, when we aren't currently having one.

[@stevenhahn2343]

No Denise prager supports woman giving there husband sex whenever he wants it . Prager basically supports rape do not show anything this awful man says to your girlfriend . Listin to any man who loves his girlfriend do not take advice from prager .

[@jeffgrey2746]

@@stevenhahn2343 a tad hyperbolic there, aren't you?

[@bruhmoment9046]

Lol same

[@nickjean3350]

@@stevenhahn2343 So let me get this straight.....he puts up videos about how important it is for a female to say no to men and he supports rape? Really???? If you cannot see at least some of what he says as truth you might be disagreeing with him just so you can have you way. His points are valid and based on fact. Yours just sounds like the typical tantrum of anyone who tries to demonize anyone who does not agree with you. I will say I am not religious in any way so I do not agree with some of his advice or reasons. But this does not make him my enemy and it sure as hell does not make him a monster that should be destroyed at all costs. You do not do any female or male any favors by acting like this. I hope in the future you will at least understand that just because they do not share all your views it does not make them wrong or monsters.

[@BombalurinaAI]

He's talking to the camera as if he's connecting with a female audience....

[@realitycheck5288]

women should also have self control with the make up & adornment

[@BombalurinaAI]

Zia Grozny Why? Really, why?

[@anunkash5185]

vanity

[@BombalurinaAI]

Anun Kash Putting on make up doesn't equate to vanity. Not in the slightest.

[@anunkash5185]

Bombalurina05 then why do people put on makeup?

[@tailboard]

Well I don't think I would be OK with My Wife staring at every male she sees. That's why I try and use that "massive will power".

[@kmiss7623]

You are a rare good man in this way!

[@bunnym5617]

I checked out a shirtless guy jogging in front of my now ex boyfriend and he never let it go but when he checked out other women he expected me not to feel bad. It's stupid just look when you're alone then there will be no problems.

[@Tyler_W]

Jealousy, a powerful, rationality defying double edged sword is it not?

[@tasneemahmed5821]

When a men catches his women staring....oh that's a whole new story.

[@adoboFosho]

Yeah your pretty much done

[@metalmk6839]

Been there!

[@carolinesalv]

CALLED IT! 👍

[@annaa3346]

adoboFosho see ? Thats unfair

[@willfarkas2445]

Males and females have different brains انستازيا الراسي

[@jc-ke3ll]

all that being said, if you love your girl you know it's gonna bother them, so try your best not to stare

[@lucaslemonholm5492]

Roasted Pickles - omg exactly

[@pamelastableforeight905]

Yes! If you are attracted to your girl and satisfied with her, then why check out other girls.

[@TaskMaster5]

or...or...OR...people can not be insecure. Or just understand how the brain of the opposite sex works. Men are simple creatures. Seriously. We're not difficult to understand. Relationships are built on trust. A man or woman 'looking' at a member of the opposite sex shouldn't be ruffling your feathers. Seriously. It's in our nature to seek traits we find pleasing to our eye. Chastising or condemning your partner doesn't earn you ANY favors and such jealousy is likely going to bite you in your own ass later on if they always feel like they're under a microscope and can't just be a Human once in a while. If it DOES bother you so much, talk to them POLITELY about it, as the video says. If you trust and love your partner, then listen to what they have to say. And if they say they love you and are attracted to you, then why wouldn't you believe them if they've given you no real reason to believe the contrary? Ask then what it was about the woman (or man in the case of a woman who has 'wandering eyes') that had them looking. Explore your partners sexuality/preferences. It's therapeutic to be able to talk about that sort of stuff and sometimes even poke fun at one another without being a douche. Me and my ex had a lot of discussions on what we found attractive/sexy even though neither of us really fit the bill on a lot of those points. She thought men with a certain level of muscle were super sexy even though I'm a flabby guy. I found women with thicker thighs to be of great appeal even though hers weren't that thick. We found it interesting and even made a game of this when in public, playfully pointing out people who fit different aspects we liked and rated them. We trusted and loved each other. I never felt she would go after those guys, nor did she have to worry about me chasing other women. We loved EACH OTHER. And if she had a mental fantasy about a guy in her alone time? SO WHAT!? There is no such thing as a 'thought crime'. I'm not going to get mad at her for rubbing off to a hunk she saw that day, nor would she get pissy I rubbed one out to a thick thighed chick I saw earlier that day. At the end of the day, we wanted each other. No one else. Life is too short to get petty. If someone has chosen you to be with, it has to be for a reason. If you don't know what that reason is...you're failing in the relationship and need to spend more time with your partner and spend less time worrying about meaningless 'wandering eyes'.

[@thexnijxnij]

I like your approach. To put 100% of the blame on the female who gets upset is pointless. To ignore a natural inclination is also pointless. But, we should not insult males by pretending they do not make conscious choices, e.g. that their head and eyes move and they are powerless to prevent it. That is painting them with the same brush as animals. Men throughout history have leveraged their brain and body to accomplish great things, from holding their breath for a very long time, to training for years to replace their natural instincts and become great boxers, the list is endless. If a man voluntarily chooses to be in a relationship, he can also *voluntarily* choose to train his natural inclination and make different choices. He may choose to do this because of the impact on his partner. That's about as American as it gets: freely choose how to live and if something doesn't work for you, work hard to change it. And if he doesn't want to...that's his choice as well, and the results that come with that course of (in)action.

[@pepitojudeallen797]

Collin Shorette TLDR

[@BolterTUBE]

lol me and my ex used to rate girls on the beach

[@QED_]

+Bolter21: You know what your ex was, then (?) She was an "awareness multiplier". She understood that it's the awareness of things in Life that makes them pleasurable and that by acknowledging awareness and riffing off it . . . she was increasing both your pleasure and her own. "Ex" (?) Too bad. Why not give her a call (?) Share this comment with her. You TOO can be an "awareness multiplier" . . . for her (!)

[@BolterTUBE]

+greenrate I wasnt rating boys cause it was hard but I knew her type and we stopped dating three months ago and we are still good friends - which is amazingly surprising. Maybe one day...

[@QED_]

+Ariesticnig: (LOL) That reminds me of the research that was done with Women which revealed that they consider 75% of Men to be less than average good looking. Which of course makes no sense . . .

[@kieran1a2]

+greenrate It makes perfect sense if you understand hypergamy.

[@RamirezHD]

+Bolter21 Lol my ex girlfriend used to get so hyped around miss universe and she would invite me to watch miss universe to rate the candidates together.

[@Name-fk8zk]

I remember a guy I was with who told me about a 'really attractive girl he saw the other day' and described her as if she was aphodite. I have nothing against her, and I'm glad he was honest, but I can't lie and say I didn't feel my heart break because of it. I got over it quickly but you're never really safe from these things.

[@elijaha138]

"I got over it quickly" LOL!

[@deepdiaghram]

Could you tell me how? Because I've been very hurt about this too.

[@TheSyngirl]

This would hurt me a lot too honestly.

[@junegerber4028]

You are an idiot for not leaving him!!

[@junegerber4028]

@@deepdiaghram You don't "get over" these things! Looking and lusting = adultery! Leave any man who can't keep his eyes in his own court!! Where the mind goes so goes the body!! kzbin.info/www/bejne/eniXpZWDrq12jLM

[@bradreed2001]

Thou shalt not commit adultery? Jesus said even thinking of another woman explicitly is adultery

[@Beaubacon]

I don’t think Jesus said that

[@borderingonnothing]

Really interesting how the Bible is mentioned with things relating to LBGTQ, abortion, etc, but everyone seems to ignore this?

[@RedRoseSeptember22]

@@patchouli9 yep you did, I'll pray for you to get the help you need.

[@the8u9]

Uh, when you're looking at a bikini clad woman, you don't automatically hump her in your imagination, you know. You just look, quickly take it in, be impressed/not impressed, then move on. There's no adultery there. However if you're doing a total headturn, then that's disrespectful to your girl, yet still no adultery unless you actually imagine it fully and can't get it out of your mind. Jesus had incredible foresight, he was never silly enough to tell men to not look at other women ever like how you're describing. Don't hurt his reputation with such a near-sighted interpretation of his wise words. The catechism does not teach it so.

[@Nick-xx2xz]

Beau Bacon “But I say to you that everyone who looks at a woman with lustful intent has already committed adultery with her in his heart.” Matthew 5:28

[@nate2396]

He's right but I'd never stare at another woman or say anything I love my woman to much to hurt her heart. At the end of the day I want her happiness. What's a vacation if ur gonna hurt each other

[@lifebeginswithaseed]

Nathan Thorson that's really sweet.

[@AlphabetCookie]

Nathan Thorson Thank you

[@cleopetra87]

Nathan Thorson well said! You're a true man,

[@thepainkiller4939]

Nathan Thorson Did you not see the video? You HAVE to look at them, but I assume that you just look sparingly and with more stealth?

[@BieberShawtyx3]

get me a man like this

[@TheRockSplitter14]

Can I get an Amen?

[@bernardcornellisvanmeijere4375]

Amen.

[@raffydu]

Amen!!!

[@BigGator5]

Amen!

[@Alexander_Isen]

Amen!

[@born2burn1]

Amen!

[@fayeskelly1633]

My problem has never been wondering if he is unsatisfied, or looking for another mate. It's more so so many men have told me when they see a woman they find attractive they think of having sexual acts with her. Boyfriends, male mates, any guy I could sit down and just have a conversation with have all told me this. I guess I should appreciate the honesty, really. But it still stings a little knowing what he's probably thinking when he sees a pretty girl. It makes me more sad than angry.

[@rudrashakti108]

I’m sorry but it’s actually not difficult to avoid looking at other women. If I have a girlfriend that’s what I do out of respect for her, and, if I am in love with her, it’s really not difficult anyway.

[@the8u9]

I am someone who is similar, but I think there is a difference between guys based on how far you've bought into the sexual liberty of the west right now. Since I'm sexually conservative, I don't lust or look as much. If you're the opposite, I suppose it would be a bit tougher?

[@alicemorales-urteaga4363]

Come on people we are all human. Women do it and so do men. I think this guy makes a lot of sense IMO.

[@noahross3642]

Alice Morales-Urteaga yup

[@saradanser894]

Alice Morales-Urteaga, This is a DISGUSTING COP OUT. pornography is a CANCER that has DESTROYED PEOPLE'S MINDS, AND HEARTS! I am a female. I am extremely visually driven. I CHOOSE not to look at people LIKE OBJECTS. THEY ARE SOULS WORTH MORE than being meat to stare at. Immodesty is EVIL. I don't believe ANYONE should be in the equivalent of a bra and panties (bikini) with anyone other than their spouse, in private. We are NOT MEAT to be drooled over!!!!! And YES- it is *absolutely* POSSIBLE FOR A MAN TO CHOOSE, WITH HIS FREE WILL, TO NOT LOOK AT WOMEN- ESPECIALLY AS OBJECTS!!! My husband is the most righteous person I know. He does not do this. EVER. I would divorce him if he did. If other people don't care if their significant others DISRESPECT THEM by looking, AND disrespect ALL WOMEN by looking at them as MEAT/OBJECTS- everyone has Free Will.. They can CHOOSE to allow others to disrespect them. Their choice. I would never tolerate it. I'd rather be divorced with a bunch of kids & pets on an off grid, sustainable, organic farm than share a bed with someone who not only disrespected me- but who disrespected all women by looking at them as OBJECTS instead of PEOPLE WHO HAVE SOULS

[@jafyl2705]

Sara Danser I feel sorry for your husband...Goddamn man.

[@chickofmusic001]

Jafyl get over yourself

[@mytmouse57]

My wife is secure enough to not get worked up when I look at other women. However, I glace... I don't stare and slobber. I also don't mind her watching "Magic Mike."

[@Tyler_W]

You're right. Something that people (mostly women it seems), are not making the distinction between "looking", a reflexive reaction inherent to the male sex, and "ptolonged ogling". I don't necessarily think ogling to a certain extent is entirely wrong, as the same rules apply that Ken probably won't remember her or compare her to his partner, but there does come a point where if your partner has a little or a big problem with you intentionally going out of hour way to willfully and constantly eye a bunch of other women, that is the point at which you should respect and honor your partner's wishes.

[@jnanashakti6036]

+mytmouse57 I am consistently curious as to why this has to boil down to anyone's security? Also, security in a relationship, I have found personally, is directly related to the relationship itself. Your comment confirms this - you don't behave in a way that would question your loyalty, and therefore she feels secure. It's not the other way around.

[@mytmouse57]

Tamber Hepner Yes, I like how you put that. However, one of the things that attracted me so strongly to her in the first place was the fact that I could tell she was secure and sure of herself. I knew there wasn't going to be any games or drama with her. I had previously dated the insecure, jealous type. It wasn't fun -- just as I can imagine it isn't fun for women to date an insecure, needy, jealous man.

[@bahbahblacksheep7546]

I agree it's the length of time. I don't mind until it gets well past 60 seconds and it's during the whole GD trip. Then I say you're welcome to go to talk to her! If he's paying more attention to her, that's The only time anyone should be angry. It's rude to a point. It's like when you don't look at someone on the eyes while talking. Some of this shit is rude.

[@onlyhalfbad333]

You do realize woman check men out as well, right? This whole "checking out other ppl" goes both ways. Both men and women are attracted to other men and woman.

[@a.b.5321]

I’m married (16 years) and my husband and I both look at other people. We are respectful about it. We don’t go on about the other person or even mention we noticed them. Naturally we both like looking at attractive people, but for us, respect is important. I think I’ve only once actually caught my husband looking and I would say it would be about the same for me. We aren’t going to ogle; that’s just rude and disrespectful. We’ve actually found that being honest about the fact that we find other people attractive has strengthened our marriage. Because at the end of the day, we are each other’s “whole package” and we know that no one can compete with that, no matter who we see walking down the street. I know that I am his everything and he knows that he is mine. Anyway, just agreeing with you OP! Lol! I feel women are conditioned to not acknowledge that they do this, and videos like this don’t help.

[@saradanser894]

Mel B. This is a DISGUSTING COP OUT. pornography is a CANCER that has DESTROYED PEOPLE'S MINDS, AND HEARTS! I am a female. I am extremely visually driven. I CHOOSE not to look at people LIKE OBJECTS. THEY ARE SOULS WORTH MORE than being meat to stare at. Immodesty is EVIL. I don't believe ANYONE should be in the equivalent of a bra and panties (bikini) with anyone other than their spouse, in private. We are NOT MEAT to be drooled over!!!!! And YES- it is *absolutely* POSSIBLE FOR A MAN TO CHOOSE, WITH HIS FREE WILL, TO NOT LOOK AT WOMEN- ESPECIALLY AS OBJECTS!!! My husband is the most righteous person I know. He does not do this. EVER. I would divorce him if he did. If other people don't care if their significant others DISRESPECT THEM by looking, AND disrespect ALL WOMEN by looking at them as MEAT/OBJECTS- everyone has Free Will.. They can CHOOSE to allow others to disrespect them. Their choice. I would never tolerate it. I'd rather be divorced with a bunch of kids & pets on an off grid, sustainable, organic farm than share a bed with someone who not only disrespected me- but who disrespected all women by looking at them as OBJECTS instead of PEOPLE WHO HAVE SOULS

[@a.b.5321]

Sara Danser Wow. Clearly we see this whole thing very differently. Have a great day!

[@torp747]

Jesus Sara Danser... please do go off grid so we won't have to read shit comments like these anymore.

[@Samuel-I]

I bet Sara is a real peach to live with.

[@w1ndchas3r86]

throwback to when my ex sent me this because i caught him... i broke up with him LMAO

[@user-id2nv9tk4g]

As you should

[@rajyavardhansingh4491]

Bruh

[@WannabeMarsanach]

I don't think women will ever fully understand that just because a man is with them, all other women don't suddenly become unattractive. If he says he doesn't find other women attractive, he's lying. If you make him say he doesn't, you're worse.

[@Tyler_W]

Exactly. He's either lying through his teeth or he's potentially gay. Women don't cease to be attractive once you latch onto any one woman in particular.

[@WannabeMarsanach]

Jennifer Leonard That's a rather accurate description of women in a relationship :P

[@BardicLiving]

+Toron Yes and no. If you love the person you're with then they're "attractive" in a way that goes beyond what anyone else could possibly be. It goes far beyond the physical.

[@Dennan]

+BardicLiving yes ofc, but that happens when you love them and make family and such, but it dosent change the fact that he still finds other women attractive, but what women have trouble to understand is that outer apperance only goes abit, most men arent as shallow and women think they are. you could put a million naked perfect women infront of me and i would not touch anybody , couse i love my wife more then apperance.

[@WannabeMarsanach]

***** they are still noticed, just not taken heed to.

[@radiantjet418]

I was married to a gorgeous puerto rican girl that I loved very much and I still love to this day. I would find myself looking at other women without even noticing it. But That never changed how I felt about my wife. I love her. But she always accused me of wanting to leave her and I wanted to cheat on her. I NEVER wanted to do these thing. Well she ended up cheating on me and hurting me. I left her because I could not trust her anymore. I still love her very much but I can never trust her again! Even tho she cheated on me and hurt me pretty bad. I still love her! But if you don't have trust, you can never have any kind of relationship.

[@seeDiersoilcrossrowds]

I think you got to build the foundation of a relationship on something solid not sand. Truth,Trust, communication and individual space are a great start. I had a similar situation.

[@DuplicitousDark]

rAdiant Jet gud for you. besides when you take them back they wont respect you.

[@Suiton1]

rAdiant Jet "she always accused me of wanting to leave her and I wanted to cheat on her." She was projecting, that was what SHE wanted to do.

[@aaryas6821]

rAdiant Jet Males who look at other women are the reason females cheat. I never looked at males out of respect for my boyfriend. I used to look at attractive males before him. After I found him looking at other females, I lost the love I once had for him. Why? Because there was no respect. He couldn't do the same thing I did for him. I am now strongly considering breaking up. I saw a couple at the beach and the only thing that man was focusing on was his wife and kid. I could tell he really loved her. It was neither INFATUATION nor LUST. It was LOVE. Anyways, I am glad you left a cheater. Though, I do believe that when you cheat with your eyes, you are cheating with your heart. Females, just like males, are programmed to look at attractive, strong, males. Yet, I have never cheated on my boyfriend with my eyes. Double standards are not cool. Don't expect a female to be emotionally invested in you if you are going to invest your eyes on someone else. Either way, was not right of her to cheat at all. You'd expect someone to leave the relationship first and THEN date. Shame on her. Sorry to hear and I'm glad you're going to move on from that. Just remember though, cheat with your eyes, you cheat with your heart. A female won't invest her heart and soul into you after catching you do that. I've seen males who don't. They exist. It means they have respect.

[@jimenasubietaprevost9843]

Priya Desai Yup

[@ren52]

I don't cheat, I've been with my wife for over a decade, but what can I say, we're animals.

[@bruharry1]

Jon Hartman true

[@TheNirzer]

You and me baby ain't nothin' but mammals...

[@charlottefreed3813]

What a load of garbage. Translation: “I want to lust after other people for small snippets of time, even though I’m in a committed monogamous relationship. So I’m going to make up reasons for why I can’t help it, and excuses like I can’t even remember it later.” So weak.

[@Live-Life-Freely]

The problem with this presentation is that it needs to be presented by a beautiful woman. A man describing it sets of the "oh he's just covering for a guy" alarm, in women.

[@PokemonTrainerVince]

That's actually a valid point.

[@friendshipwhiskey155]

Actually, no

[@cooldepot4378]

no because he is trying to explain the male point of view

[@samuvisser]

But.. the entire point here is man are different and women can never fully understand how we work. Would be weird if a female is explaining that, would even disprove the entire case

[@christirose6813]

Not necessarily.

[@demetriajones81]

I'm a woman and I'm visually stimulated by men and their legs and other attributes that make them attractive. I also know I'm not the only woman who feels this way. Both men and women need to work on viewing each other with respect and not as sexual objects. Both genders should maintain respectful eye contact or bounce our eyes away from enticing areas which reduces uncomfortable glaring. We all should correct our inappropriate objectifying thoughts and keep inappropriate statements from coming out of our mouths that would devalue the worth of a fellow human being.

[@enzorossi9853]

Why is starting devaluing the worth of a human being?

[@SedateGaming123]

@@MSBowen-pk6ww the video explains that its not mens fault and believe me i always try to not look at any women or their parts let me tell you i dont remember any attractive stranger womens face till date

[@theodoros_iosifidis]

Technicaly we are objects

[@s.g.3898]

Was chatting with a guy in a quiet pub simply because we were the only ones there. The woman behind the bar actually called my college a couple days later to try and get a hold of me. I too am fed up with women treating me like a piece of meat. Been married near 20 years and it's a pain in the backside. That was last week. This crap happens too often.

[@Matthew-um5kt]

The problem is that we ARE sexual objects to each other. Maybe we should stop denying that other people make us curious and possibly stimulated. If you are in a relationship and keep having this issue, either you or your relationship are not ready for the commitment!

[@garrettfornea1088]

I don't think Solomon was still fearing God when he had so many wives and concubines. The Bible specifically says that they turned his heart away from the LORD.

[@comicsans1689]

Having too many women was literally his downfall.

[@fazalalikhan9263]

Prophet Solomon never turned away his attention from ALLAH even he had hundreds of woman at his service. He did constructed a place of worship where no one can enter . QUR’AN and HADITH in Islamic literature , relates to Solomon as pious and learned of ALLAH and his commandments . Bible will never put question against the character of prophet of ALLAH except that it was altered by Jews to legitimise their wrong doings and cruel intentions . I’m a Muslim and I believe KING SOLOMON WAS PROPHET OF ALLAH FROM THE PROGENY OF PROPHET JACOB .

[@Apuscus]

He have these amount of woman mainly for diplomatic connections with other nations (whom these women came from). His downfall came quickly later.

[@jasoncompoh2238]

For anyone think that Matthew 5:28 would say other wise, read this article to see what the original scripture actually meant with that verse, or look up “what is lust biblical gender roles” biblicalgenderroles.com/what-is-lust/

[@conneradams1503]

@@fazalalikhan9263 You do realize that the Bible had all of this written out about a thousand years before the qur'an existed, right? All Muhammed did was try and change the history behind the Bible.

[@angelofembers8271]

This is 100% acurate ! Assuming that you're talking about a man that's mature and/or can ACTUALLY control his urges ! Alot of these chumps today don't understand what the word control or loyalty or integrity even means anymore !

[@RedRoseSeptember22]

Sad but true, I got lucky with my man ^_^ he's too busy loving me to even notice other females.

[@laurawhite9822]

Man a lot of the women commenting on this are such hypocrites! You mean to tell me that you have never once: called or thought another man was attractive or hot; drooled at a buff guy at the gym/beach/pool/etc.; stared when a "cute guy" in a movie or show undressed or removed some clothing; read romance novels and though or fantasized about the male. Yet when a man does it, he is thought of as evil and in the wrong.

[@dekippiesip]

+Laura White good comment!

[@heehoopeanut420]

yeah, that is true. I just don't like how this guy compared the two.

[@danielbroderick7609]

+RiceBalls888 And I bet you remember a few of them. Serious question: Can you remember the last hot guy you saw? Because I absolutely have no clue whose ass I saw a few minutes ago

[@SykoSparx]

+rafi sarhan It could have been but I don't remember.

[@johngorman7139]

+Laura White Right on the money and it does makes men feel insecure sometimes as well. As all insignificant things however, it is fleeting and doesn't matter in the long run. Human nature is strangely foreign to human beings. Lol

[@Scorpion-fq2jt]

Ephesians 5:3 But sexual immorality and all impurity or covetousness must not even be named among you, as is proper among saints. James 1:14-15 But each person is tempted when he is lured and enticed by his own desire. Then desire when it has conceived gives birth to sin, and sin when it is fully grown brings forth death. Mark 7:20-23 And he said, “What comes out of a person is what defiles him. For from within, out of the heart of man, come evil thoughts, sexual immorality, theft, murder, adultery, coveting, wickedness, deceit, sensuality, envy, slander, pride, foolishness. All these evil things come from within, and they defile a person.” If you all want Christianity taught in all schools then you learn it!

[@pbonfanti]

This was one point what made me drop religion, if we are created by a god , he created our desires and urges, and is full hipocrisy punish us by the failures we were designed with. He don't admit own incompetence, and the recall (noah's flood) didn't help either.

[@marovahauhulh7054]

This is why Jesus died for us. God knows very damn well how stupid amd evil we are. Hence creates a way to heaven. Not through good deeds but through Grace.

[@onegirl1750]

@@pbonfanti humans never had that until he devil tempted adam and eve into sin. He wiped the Earth with the flood to wipe out all the bad people, but since the devil had already planted the seed of evil in human hearts, he couldn't wipe them out again because he made a promise to Noah that he would never do that again

[@lrr2319]

@@pbonfanti God created and formed humanity without sin and gave commandments, rules and laws to be follow in order to control wrong desires and urges.

[@Teddy_Roosevelt_]

Yes! Fellow Christians!!

[@Dredayne]

Thing is, if my boyfriend saw me starring at a bunch of dudes he would get upset. He would ask me if thats what i really want because when it comes down too it, if you look long enough for me to notice you are starring and if you are starring its more than a 1 second attraction.

[@nickpurcell8615]

Landrey Fleetwood wtf? Did you not even watch the video. Plus that’s a pretty toxic relationship you got there.

[@Dredayne]

Toxic Relationships are based on one forcing the other person to accept behaviors that the other finds unsuitable, like actively checking someone out, and then blaming their gender instead of trying to understand why you are upset and change their behavior. So, no, we are fine. Yes, I did watch the video where, even though it really hurts the other partner, this man explains how okay the behavior is. But you know, whatever makes you feel better about your wandering eyes.

[@m.o.e4206]

Landrey Fleetwood You need a upgrade hun

[@DarkWandererAU]

Your boyfriend sounds insecure

[@cmntkxp]

@@DarkWandererAU may be he is a faithful honest minority person and can't do trade off

[@cinnamonroll2101]

Translation: I want an excuse to look at other women and then gaslight my partner saying their the problem when I refuse to talk about it and find a solution together

[@TiggertheCat2004]

Exactly

[@TiggertheCat2004]

I feel like if you’re in a happy mutual relationship, you wouldn’t look at other women like that, because you’re happy with what you have and not focused on others

[@charlottefreed3813]

Yup

[@NotANoob27x7]

Can anyone explain *why there are so many fat guys in fedoras* in the comments? wtf

[@Samahbaker]

and they all seem to brag about their gentlman-ness

[@lightfreak999]

They're reddit trolls

[@Juppah4u]

You can get an extension if you use Google Chrome that removes spams like that, its called Hide Fedora and it actually works

[@TheTurrettesGuy]

It's a meme, ya dip.

[@animehunter4830]

shitty reddit jokes

[@ball1524]

Okay I hear it everyday and I'm now going to rant. "Men only want sex" these words is cough at everyday when I hear them. These words almost all the time come from women who regret having sex with someone. Women act like its men's fault that they had sex and it's his fault that now she has to deal with it. I have a question though. If your against having sex and think you'll regret it then why did you INDEPENDENTLY DECIDE TO HAVE SEX(excluding criminal sexual encounters). You can't blame men when he asks you and you go along with it. It pisses me the hell off when I hear these words and how its men's fault. Women want sex just as bad but don't show it except when they are with friends.

[@ThiefKingofLegend]

You should tell em men only want sex if that's all they've got.

[@MegaMackproductions]

that's just silly, everyone knows that feminists can't make their decisions independently. that's why they have male allies! so they don't have to make decisions!

[@MegaMackproductions]

Erin Hood oh i know that!

[@ILikeTheRain123]

+MegaMackproductions you are so clued up on that historical and global movement! amazing that you managed to meet every feminist there is or has ever been. Good job!

[@MegaMackproductions]

never said that. its called a joke, have you heard of it? and for the record I have no problem with the first feminist movement. But the second and third wave feminists are for the most part were and are female supremacists. I am sure there are plenty of feminists who are good people but 90% of them are feminazis. although I suppose it could be a very vocal minority as well. Tell, what are your thoughts on the movement? what do you stand for?

[@kylewilson5060]

tl;dr - It's not that simple and certainly ain't that harmless for men to be staring at other women all the time. As a man, I wouldn't label this very true. Just based on the fact that so many women are out there, if a guy allows himself to stay looking, he'll just keep looking cuz there will always be another woman to look at. This can lead to dissatisfaction with his own partner as he sees on many women something his own partner doesn't have. Then he looks it up on the web or wherever else and gets furthers his taste for it & his deepens his awareness of his partner not having it... fast forward and we've got ED, not beautiful anymore partner and overwhelming desire to stray... which statistically happens A LOT, though most ppl will say it's totally messed up & the last thing they want to happen.

[@adamcvik6082]

“You have heard that it was said, ‘You shall not commit adultery.’ But I tell you that anyone who looks at a woman lustfully has already committed adultery with her in his heart. If your right eye causes you to stumble, gouge it out and throw it away. It is better for you to lose one part of your body than for your whole body to be thrown into hell. And if your right hand causes you to stumble, cut it off and throw it away. It is better for you to lose one part of your body than for your whole body to go into hell.” ‭‭Matthew‬ ‭5:27-30‬ ‭NIV‬‬ Ladies and gentlemen, PragerU, spreading “Judeo-Christian” values.

[@ToyedTaiyaki]

Okay but what if im gay does this apply to me too orrr

[@JNun-pr8rh]

@@ToyedTaiyaki go nuts brother

[@DarthVaizard]

People also don't seem to understand that all men are not stimulated visually in this way.

[@peronkop]

+Leo Then this doesn't apply to them. This isn't a video about men in general, it's about men who are visually stimulated.

[@josephmurray5529]

+Leo yeah maybe they're blind

[@Tyler_W]

The video speaks in statistical generalities. There are always exceptions to every rule, but as a general rule, men are primarily most stimulated through visuals (any visuals, not exclusively of a sexuality nature) than not.

[@gilbet]

+Leo Are you saying some men are not stimulated by a woman visually, or reach a point where they aren't anymore? Or are you saying some men are normally stimulated visually by other women at the beach, but suddenly aren't stimulated by them if they are with a woman they feel stimulated by and feel strongly about? And would that latter scenario just be when they're on their first year honeymoon phase of the relationship, or is that something that can last for years for some people?

[@dekippiesip]

+Leo I think most are. Only some can hide or ignore it better than others. It's just about willpower. Like if you see a nice cookie, your instinct tells you to eat it, but if you are well disciplined you can still resist that urge. Same goes for looking at others.

[@ManOfDeath567]

Women are attracted to men's physical appearances all the time. But other than that, Prager is spot on.

[@nunyastockson5901]

True. But not to the same degree.

[@SlickCJL]

Nah it's not the same at all. They are attracted, but they aren't physically aroused.

[@LoneStarVII]

Yeah but for men attractiveness is much more of a factor.

[@LoneStarVII]

Man: "She is topless this is great" Woman: "Why is he naked in public?"

[@ConspiracytardHunter420]

They are but they don't stare as much or as often as men will. If they did, it would be a known issue. Instead the known issue is the men staring at women, so bad in fact that this video was made for it.

[@6Horrorible6]

My boyfriend sent me this and I apologized to him for every time I got upset when he looked at attractive women. Thank you for the video, that was a really nice lesson.

[@mjsbiggestfan1997]

If he was 100% satisfied with you, he would keep his eyes on YOU. A wandering eye leads to cheating sooner or later.

[@kiwi4998]

So having instincts that have been developed over millions of years, which can overpower rational thought for as long as they see them directly is a 100% guarantee he'll cheat, that is what your argument is. I really don't think so, please go back to your whiteboard of trolling

[@6Horrorible6]

we have been together for almost 2 years now, and we have looked at some people, that happens :D I sometimes got upset when he commented but now I know that doesn't mean he'll run away from me one day, because he's still with me long after looking at this girl *shrug*.

[@mjsbiggestfan1997]

+James D Because I am.

[@mjsbiggestfan1997]

+James D And I'm staying that way so I won't get cheated on and left for someone better than me AGAIN.

[@Lucy-fy5bi]

As a woman this isn’t why women don’t like it that men look at other women. ITS BECAUSE THEY SHOULDNT BE LOOKING AT OTHER WOMEN PERIOD

[@Pierredirects]

Billions of other women on the planet, and he's supposed to blind himself because of your insecurity - got it!

[@Lucy-fy5bi]

@@Pierredirects if you’re faithful to your wife then you shouldn’t be gawking at other women especially in front of her. Maybe you shouldn’t be begging half the planet to be okay with cheating

[@mikemurray7595]

where can I get a student loan so I can go here?

[@parker4544]

same

[@100kby35]

Btcjam.com

[@felixabc802]

Can you get me one too? And a trip from Sweden to 'murica?

[@AndrewShepherdLEGO]

No, don't get a student loan. No no no no no no

[@VegasViking420]

Most everyone in the comment is missing the point: just because a man looks at another attractive woman doesn't mean he doesn't want the one he's with.

[@sensate444]

Glass The Juice Sure. He wants her. And he wants the ones he looks at also

[@killyflorris6975]

I went to a beach in california and it was truly a test of my self-control... it turns out I have none.

[@Namen3]

I disagree with the claim men instantly forget attractive women. I never forget.

[@Namen3]

Men are by nature polygynous so if you love your man, you should know what he is. If he is monogamous, you should appreciate his profound sacrifice.

[@Namen3]

@Hans BILAL Sounds depressing. You probably need some more adventure in your life.