Healthy relationship after the unhealthy ones

[@bill4632]

People make the mistake of only giving 50% into a relationship. Then wonder why it doesn't work out. The man and woman each have to give 100% toward the relationship. There has to be communication and reciprocation, mutual respect.

[@phoenixschoolofalignment]

@bill4632 absolutely! Relationships require intentional action as well. They don't just "work", both have to work together. 💜

[@tiaraariel1]

What exactly is it that a person used to unhealthy relationships is grieving upon getting used to a healthy relationship?

[@phoenixschoolofalignment]

@tiaraariel1 many things - especially the version of themselves they thought they had to be in that relationship. All the unhealthy beliefs, ways of being. Grief is just loss - even the ideas and knowing that they were deserving and in the relationship thought they weren't. All the things they put up with. It's necessary because of what grief does - grief deactivates active emotional charges so it's natural to go through all the memories and feel grief. 💜 hope this helps!