Hear my voice | Sexual harassment- Zem.World

THIS VIDEO MIGHT NOT SUIT ALL VIEWERS!!
this is not an happy video, and I debated long enough before making this video and even more before deciding to post it.
But I believe that this is an important mater and things need to change!
I was "lucky" in this situation
But I won't let anybody told me that what I went trough was "nothing". It was REAL
I've been hurt, scared and I've been disrespected.
My feelings are true, and I deserve respect!
I have the right to say NO, I have rights over MY body
This video is about a real problem that needs to stop
We need to stop rape culture
we need to stop blaming and shaming the victims
Stop teaching girls (or victims) that they brought it on themselves
Hear my voice!
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[@matt-nn7vu]

you have gone through so much, and i’m so sorry for what happened to you. you have every right to say no. and i hope you realize now that you were not at fault for any of that. you don’t have to do anything you aren’t comfortable with. your voice is everything. i’m proud of you for being able to talk about this, it is a very hard thing to talk about to so many people. i do hope that you are able to overcome this, although you can’t forget about the situation or him. i hope you’re able to move on and get through the worry and fear. your story, just because you weren’t directly forced into intercourse, doesn’t make it any different from other stories. he touched you in a way you didn’t like. he took advantage of you. he didn’t have your consent. consent is everything, and i’m so grateful that he didn’t continue. you’re very strong. and don’t ever forget that. you have so many people that love and care for you! we are all here to help and support you! don’t be afraid to talk to someone. i know how hard it is to talk about a situation like this, although i have not been in your position. it is so much better to vent than bottle it up, and again, i’m so proud that you were able to share all of this. we’re here for you. you’re an amazing and talented person. don’t forget that. stay strong! - matt

[@xEmyxc]

Your message is really touching me, thank you so much for your words! When I think about this situation that happened to me, I am still having a lot of mixed emotions but I did move on and I was able to learn from it. I will never forget, and this shaped me in a certain way but I am trying my best to not let it overcome me. It has been difficult, still is, but I will keep working. I am also very grateful that he didn't pursued what he had started and I am glad that other people see that my story is valid. I am also trying my best to show the best of me and keep a bright smile on my face but I thought that this was an important matter and that it needed to be shared. Thank you so much for being here for me xxx Em

[@hagaaelsayed6211]

Emy you're so brave to share with us this we will always support you and I'm sure that the people who hurted you are fake and don't deserve to be your friends

[@xEmyxc]

Thank you so much!

[@Ghostfacepeachy]

I feel bad for you and I am so sorry this happened to you

[@spooky3652]

This is so horrible and absolutely unacceptable! I really hope that you're alright. I don't know what else to say... It's just so frustrating to hear that some people think that such a behavior is okay.

[@amaodisse]

Gosh... that almost made me cry. I’m so so sorry for you. Stay strong. We’re here for you. Keep telling your story. Something has to change. Be strong!

[@xEmyxc]

That is exactly why I am sharing my story! I'll stay strong, thank you for being there ♡

[@amanelisa1705]

I’m so sorry that happened to you. You’re experience is valid no means no. I’m shocked and hurt that people still make excuses for these pitiful excuses of men who try to force themselves on women. It doesn’t matter nor should it have even been a factor in why he did what he did. The only reason that he did those things is because he’s a pathetic man-baby who doesn’t seem to understand that when someone says no they mean what they say. You are so brave for coming forward and sharing your experience with us. Thank you so much Emy, I wish you well always ❤️

[@xEmyxc]

Thank you for everything xxx

[@V1v1sta]

I’m sorry that happened! I got sexually harassed 2 times online when I was 7. Its awful that being raped,sexually harassed etc Is common. This world needs to be a better place. I hope you recover from this tragic incounter.

[@giovannapegoraro551]

I feel so sorry for you... Thank your for telling your story...I know that this is hard,i ve passed throught an abusive relantionship,i can imagine your pain. It will help us to be more conscious about everyone. Humans can be really evil, thats why we should always be alert even if its a member of your own family,your "friends",well we never know the people's true intentions..Or their madness to achieve their goals

[@xEmyxc]

I am sorry to hear that you had an abusive relationship and I hope that you are well now and that you are doing fine. Things really need to change and I'll fight for it!

[@giovannapegoraro551]

@@xEmyxc thank you,i am doing well,i broke my conections with this person 2 years ago,now i fell really good,but...He s kindy crazy,nowadays he is still trying to talk with me, he creats a lot of fake accounts and try to add me on my social networks. Gosh,thats why you cant date a stalker xD,in this 2 years,i ve been so afraid that he could exposure me in any of this accounts,but fortunately he didnt do it. Unfortunately,after these things, i never had cofidence with anyone again,thats sad,but i am trying to forget it,i know that the world has a lot of good people that we can trust too,and we have people like you too,that had passed throught this kind of pain,we are not alone. Anyways, good lucky for you! Never give up,you know,everyone has it ups and downs in their lifes, we always should live well and free, no one will stop our lifes!

[@carlagiammarinaro]

I'm so sorry about what happened to you.. You don't deserve what happened it must be so traumatic for you even if you were that close to be raped.. Don't listen to the others who's saying that "it's normal" and stuff because there is nothing normal about being raped. Your body is yours and to no one else. You have all my support.

[@xEmyxc]

Thank you so much dear, it took me a while to finally understand that I wasn't the one in fault in this situation... But now that I am aware of it I'll keep fighting for my rights

[@euphoricloona3006]

Unfortunately, this is something that happens... a lot. My mother and a close friend of mine were not so lucky... my mom doesn't speak of it much and said that she didn't tell anyone because she thought she wouldn't be believed since it was done by a family friend. My friend, on the other hand, was not believed by her parents but she will not stay quiet about it because people need to know. I am so sorry that you went through such a terrible thing. Stay strong Emy! It may not be easy, but you have many who have your back! We have only talked once but Im still one who will stand by your side!!

[@xEmyxc]

I didn't talk about it for a long time because I was feeling ashamed of myself, I was feeling dirty. And since that guy was a co-worker I thought that people wouldn't believe me. At some point I even believed it was my fault that it happened to me. But telling my story and talking about it made me realize that this kind of behavior is not okay and I will fight for this.! I am. Sorry that people you know had to go through that and my thoughts are with them! Thank you for your words!!

[@euphoricloona3006]

@@xEmyxc Of course! You're an amazing person, please don't forget that! ^-^

[@meganmariesenpai3400]

I’m so proud of you for telling your story❤️ your story is valid

[@xEmyxc]

Thank you ❤️

[@cupidmeoww]

I’m so sorry this happened to you but I am also one of the “lucky” people who didn’t get raped I was almost raped by my ex boyfriend... and when I told my friends about it they said “It’s not rape if he didn’t orgasam in you” it’s awful that it happened to you and as another victim it sucks when people tell you that it was your fault why didn’t you say no maybe he didn’t hear you... and I feel like they think it’s okay to say things like this because they might believe that it’s a right thing to say in that situation but it isn’t and I do wish that there is a stop of blaming the victims that it was their fault that they were sexually assaulted