Heartbroken. My sister has stage 4 cancer.

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SJ Strum

SJ Strum

2 жыл бұрын

For those of you who have listened to our podcast you know how much my sister means to me. I can’t fathom a life without her and we’ll fight for every treatment we can for her and support for her little girls x
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@ireneparkinson4878
@ireneparkinson4878 2 жыл бұрын
My daughter had advanced stage 4 ! She’s all clear 6 years now , Good luck 🤞
@SJ_Strum
@SJ_Strum 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you Irene!! I hope I can tell that same story x
@alisonhopper6724
@alisonhopper6724 2 жыл бұрын
Stay strong and positive. My mam was diagnosed with bowel cancer at 79. She's now 87 and line dancing 3 times a week. You can do it.
@gerberfamify
@gerberfamify Жыл бұрын
What stage was your mom dx in? This determines (for the most part) the outcome.
@DiDi-bm5dt
@DiDi-bm5dt 8 ай бұрын
Sadly she passed away
@emmamulholland4858
@emmamulholland4858 2 жыл бұрын
So sorry to hear this, sending love and prayers. I knew a lady who was diagnosed with bowel cancer aged 50, she survived it and lived until she was 101!
@theeggtimertictic1136
@theeggtimertictic1136 2 жыл бұрын
She didn't have chemo then and still survived ... That's great!
@reku743
@reku743 2 жыл бұрын
Truly heartbreaking news 💔 The podcasts have brought me so much joy and your dynamic as sisters is beautiful. Praying for you as a family x
@jeribranscombe7319
@jeribranscombe7319 2 жыл бұрын
In September of 2017 I was diagnosed with anal cancer.May of 2018 I was told they got all the cancer.August 2018 I had a routine scan and found out it spread to my liver.I had surgery in September 2018 and I'm now cancer free.Stage 4 doesn't always mean a death sentence. Stay positive and you will beat this.So glad I came across your video.Lots of love and prayers to you from Ontario, Canada 🇨🇦 xo💗
@AlexaLikes
@AlexaLikes Жыл бұрын
How are you doing? Was it squamous cell? I'm always looking and reading to find anyone in even a remotely similar condition to my loved one. Fellow Canadian from Montreal.
@godschild3640
@godschild3640 Жыл бұрын
@@AlexaLikes. Hi darling , I have stage 4 non small cell lung cancer Adenocarcinoma ,, i’m wondering how fast it will metastasized to the brain or other parts of the body and unable to find out but I pray for all the people that have cancer and pray that you’re not in pain and pray to God that you have pain medicine, so I have no pain medicines How are you doing? How was your family? Are you still alive? Are you in pain?😢
@kemilamccall7595
@kemilamccall7595 2 жыл бұрын
My sister died of liver cancer that started in her colon. She was chronically constipated. You and your family are in my prayers. Stay strong and remain faithful. I am a firm believer in medical treatment and miracles. God bless you and your family.
@shilohivy4590
@shilohivy4590 2 жыл бұрын
I’m a cancer survivor. Stage two breast cancer, I will hit my first milestone in June (five years). I made a close friend in treatment. Different cancers she died in October. I’m gutted. I also have a cousin who had been in remission for five years. So fight my sisters. I’ve seen miracles happen. I will hope this for you.
@carolemoores8070
@carolemoores8070 2 жыл бұрын
Go with what the Dr's tell you to do. Treatment today is excellent. My husband has just been through rectal cancer and my brother through spinal cancer. Both still here and plodding on. So, stay strong lovely lady ❤️
@dianebaker5243
@dianebaker5243 2 жыл бұрын
♥️
@RavensFoodPorn
@RavensFoodPorn 2 жыл бұрын
@blonde761
@blonde761 2 жыл бұрын
So sad to hear this news but feel encouraged the doctors are treating to cure. You both are strong, beautiful women. Keeping your family in my prayers, I hope you’ll update us as you go along. xx
@queenjulianalovesherfatban2064
@queenjulianalovesherfatban2064 Жыл бұрын
I have quite intense health anxiety and I know that unfortunately you can't control who/if you or family/friends get cancer, but I can't even describe how upset and emotionally sad it makes me, knowing that ppl get taken away from the world from stuff like this 😭💜
@joancalamezzo3209
@joancalamezzo3209 2 жыл бұрын
The love between you is beautiful. Thank you for spreading awareness. I never had a single symptom but was diagnosed with stage 3 bowel cancer at in 2020 at age 57. Mercifully we become courageous when we get news like this, without even trying it wells up in us... I’m sure you know what I mean. So then, wonderful sisters, I pray you (your dad too) receive healing and comfort all along the way.
@ChloeChloeify
@ChloeChloeify 2 жыл бұрын
Ugh I am heartbroken to hear this. Sending so much love. The dynamic you two have on the podcast is my absolute favorite.
@teresebaskett2111
@teresebaskett2111 2 жыл бұрын
I can't even imagine how hard this video was to make, but your amazing and so strong for doing it to help others. Sending big hugs to you and your family x
@kirstycat
@kirstycat 2 жыл бұрын
Praying for you, sending a huge support hug and love and light toward you Naomi x Praying for all your family too. My mum had bowel cancer, it was rough but she survived and is thriving cancer free now 10+ years! I can understand the heartbreak and grief, praying for healing. x
@SJ_Strum
@SJ_Strum 2 жыл бұрын
Ahh this is wonderful to hear thank you xxxxxx
@helenharper5193
@helenharper5193 2 жыл бұрын
Shocking news, and thank you so much for raising awareness and sharing the realities of what you’re going through. My dad had the same cancer and he never explained truly what he was going through so this was so helpful for me to understand how he was feeling at the time. You are both such lovely souls and deserve to have each other during this difficult time. ✨
@lisatowan4536
@lisatowan4536 2 жыл бұрын
As someone who is battling stage 4 bowel cancer, and whose father who also battled it, my heart goes out to the whole family. I appreciate you bringing awareness to the cause. Sending love and prayers your way.
@Eltoria
@Eltoria 2 жыл бұрын
Oh lovely I send you so much love and positivity! You WILL get through this. I heard bowel cancer is one of the most treatable cancers. Thank you for speaking about this, you are so brave xxxxx
@SJ_Strum
@SJ_Strum 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much - we really hope so xxxx
@cerysrennocks8332
@cerysrennocks8332 2 жыл бұрын
I can completely relate to the anger you're feeling SJ, I had a huge amount when my Dad had bowl cancer. You're right Naomi, it's one day at a time, one foot in front of the other, attending the appointments and finding joy wherever you can at a really shit time! Much love to you both xx
@artvid-1915
@artvid-1915 2 жыл бұрын
I feel so awful for all of you, just sending "huge" love and support, I can't even imagine what you've been going through, you're so brave and strong for doing this, lots of love for you both ❤️❤️❤️
@sambradley3179
@sambradley3179 2 жыл бұрын
I’ve been having some of these symptoms lately and have been brushing it off as no big deal… just made an appointment to have it checked out. Thanks for the video, and stay strong!
@naomiadamsn6022
@naomiadamsn6022 2 жыл бұрын
I am so so pleased don’t be scared. It’s for the best. Sending you love follow the page and keep in touch @survivingsupportingsisterhood x
@sandrasmith5943
@sandrasmith5943 2 жыл бұрын
Be brave and best wishes x
@amieclancy3647
@amieclancy3647 2 жыл бұрын
Hey, Thank you for making this video. You are both incredible. My 2 year old son was diagnosed with a wilms tumour in July, he had his kidney/tumour removed and then 8 weeks of chemo and thankfully was declared as in remission in November. What you said about showing up rang through and made me cry because everyone facing cancer is fighting for their lives, my little boy Beauden though brave and strong was very lucky in his battle. His staging plus how the operation went we’re all in his favour and he is no better nor worse than a child who’s battle may be harder to fight or who may not win. All we could do was show up for him. You will get through this, I have no doubt. Sharing your story is inspirational. Thank you so so much. Amie, ireland x
@SJ_Strum
@SJ_Strum 2 жыл бұрын
Sending so much love amie - it’s such a cruel disease - the fact children go through this just is so painful to imagine. Sending love to you all xxx
@amieclancy3647
@amieclancy3647 2 жыл бұрын
@@SJ_Strum thanks. We’re very very lucky to be out the other side, the fear is there that it will come back, scans etc but i count my lucky starts every day to be in the position I am. I’ve seen things that I’ll struggle to recover from. I know it could be so much worse. I hope ye’re doing ok. We’re all behind ye x
@krissywelten8834
@krissywelten8834 2 жыл бұрын
This came as such a shock to me. I am so so sorry to hear this. I will be keeping you in my thoughts ❤️✨ and always hoping for a recovery!
@helenturner8374
@helenturner8374 2 жыл бұрын
I’m so sorry and sad to hear this. You’re amazing for making this video. Sending all my love 💜
@desola17
@desola17 2 жыл бұрын
I’m so sorry for what you’re going through. Sending you lots and lots of love, prayers and positive thoughts and energy xxxxxxxx
@abbiemarsden9889
@abbiemarsden9889 2 жыл бұрын
Sending you all the love and support I can, youre both such wonderful people and I'm so sorry x
@stunningjunk
@stunningjunk 2 жыл бұрын
Sending prayers and love to your whole family!
@zoepaterson8785
@zoepaterson8785 2 жыл бұрын
Omg my heart! I'm so sorry to hear this. Sending my love to your family x
@MrGolnaz86
@MrGolnaz86 2 жыл бұрын
Just loving you guys. Stay strong and positive ❤️
@MK_Nay
@MK_Nay 2 жыл бұрын
Praying for her and her/your family. Sending you love and hugs 💕
@sarah-janedunn4678
@sarah-janedunn4678 2 жыл бұрын
I'm so sorry to hear this. Sending love, strength and hope X
@ANNtique
@ANNtique 2 жыл бұрын
Sending you so much love, courage, strength, and healing ♥️
@hertsmumma7150
@hertsmumma7150 2 жыл бұрын
I’m so sorry to hear this, sending so much love to you both. Well done for raising awareness and sharing what you’re going through 💗xxx
@emmilyn362
@emmilyn362 2 жыл бұрын
I wish you a lot of strength and love and prayers! Thank you a lot for sharing this.
@doucetandjones
@doucetandjones 2 жыл бұрын
I am so sorry to hear this news, I can't imagine how hard this must be to process. Sending you both so much love and support!
@Ragdollcatlover
@Ragdollcatlover 2 жыл бұрын
I can’t imagine how you’re feeling. Sending love and all the strength in the world to all of you ❤️
@mckaylamccullough9440
@mckaylamccullough9440 2 жыл бұрын
I'm so sorry to hear this, sending you guys all our love and hugs from my family to yours💗 you both are amazing for making this video to raise awareness, such strong women! ❤️
@mandymorrow5473
@mandymorrow5473 2 жыл бұрын
I'm praying for both of you, her for healing and you for peace!
@kelle30
@kelle30 2 жыл бұрын
So sorry to hear this! Loves and prayers to you both. 🤍
@joannameadows9703
@joannameadows9703 2 жыл бұрын
I’m so heartbroken to watch this. So sad but also lovely to see your sisterhood. Sending so much love ❤️ xxxx
@livedwards5235
@livedwards5235 2 жыл бұрын
i’m so sorry to hear about this. wishing naomi love and healing and love to the rest of your family
@supersparkley123
@supersparkley123 2 жыл бұрын
Prayers for you, your dad, and your family! Sending Strength, love, prayers, and healing light! 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻❤️❤️❤️
@OmiiGosh08
@OmiiGosh08 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for raising awareness, sending you strength and all the support! Xx
@TheMaciWainwright
@TheMaciWainwright 2 жыл бұрын
I’m so sorry girls. I feel like I know you guys. I’m sending all of the healing vibes your way. All my love from Nashville, Tennessee.
@skylarandersson4029
@skylarandersson4029 2 жыл бұрын
Heartbreaking. Sending you all so much love and positive vibes. So great that you're raising awareness through your ordeal, you're so strong ❤️
@mojomaniac23
@mojomaniac23 2 жыл бұрын
I’m so sorry that she is facing this challenge. Sending so much love and many prayers to you all!
@Geeeee217
@Geeeee217 2 жыл бұрын
Sending all of my positive vibes to you and your family! I think it’s an amazing and brave thing to be able to talk about and put out there, awareness is key… I personally had no idea what any symptoms or anything about it
@KCH-vn1kb
@KCH-vn1kb 2 жыл бұрын
Sending so much love and support to you both, and to your entire family. I can't imagine how hard this is, your desire to help others through this process is so inspiring.
@honorcollins6962
@honorcollins6962 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for making this video, I’m sending you love and support through the internet ❤️
@lidijaroseconsidine8050
@lidijaroseconsidine8050 2 жыл бұрын
Sending as much love as possible. You’re both so strong ❤️
@courtney-leighoakes7474
@courtney-leighoakes7474 2 жыл бұрын
My heart goes out to you both. Love and support you from afar. You've got this, Nay! ❤️
@annekadawkins3492
@annekadawkins3492 2 жыл бұрын
Sending all my love❤️❤️ you both are so brave to film this video and talk about it whilst it's so raw and painful, especially with your dad aswell. Your sisterly bond and your strength is so inspiring. You're both amazing, as mums, sisters and women xxx
@beckywyatt4137
@beckywyatt4137 2 жыл бұрын
Sending so, so much love. Thank you from the bottom of my heart for doing this video, both of you xxxxx
@maybaby13x
@maybaby13x 2 жыл бұрын
I’m so sorry to hear this. Your podcast has brought me so much joy and I’m sending lots of love to both of you and your extended families x
@emma7804
@emma7804 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for raising awareness ❤️
@HitGirl20
@HitGirl20 2 жыл бұрын
Sending you huge love and prayers for healing. It is so beautiful to see how you are showing up for yourselves and your family, and using your constrained time and energy to hopefully help SJ's audience also get the help they might need. Just gutting news, but you are amazing.
@egrant2164
@egrant2164 2 жыл бұрын
There are no words. I'm so sorry. Thank you for raising awareness, my friend just got diagnosed with the same and I had no idea what the symptoms until I heard from her so I know you will be raising awareness for so so many people. Thinking of your wonderful families in this impossibly difficult time.
@fizzyhog
@fizzyhog 2 жыл бұрын
You two are incredible. Naomi, I am sending you so much love and strength! I will be following along and wishing you well every step of the way.
@keira9107
@keira9107 2 жыл бұрын
I’m so sorry to hear this. Sending love to your whole family. No pressure to post often just do what you can when you feel like it. What a beautiful strong woman your sister is.
@tiffanygallaher7557
@tiffanygallaher7557 2 жыл бұрын
My heart goes out to you. Your relationship as sisters is a beautiful thing.
@emmajlz363
@emmajlz363 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you, I just went and looked up the symptoms so I hopefully be aware in future. Will be following along ❤️ “you got this 💪🏼”
@sophiehickinson3643
@sophiehickinson3643 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing this and helping others. Your love for eachother is so evident and it's so wonderful you have eachother at this awful time. Sending all the positive vibes ❤️
@cally__
@cally__ 2 жыл бұрын
I’m so sorry, this is heartbreaking; I’m sending you all my love ❤️
@meganmahon5974
@meganmahon5974 2 жыл бұрын
Thoughts and prayers are with you! So heartbreaking 💔
@rowanclark3550
@rowanclark3550 2 жыл бұрын
all the love to you and your family going through this ❤️❤️ you aren’t alone
@masukamagambo4236
@masukamagambo4236 Жыл бұрын
Love to see the support and sisterhood. Prayers to you from Minnesota. 🧡🙏🏾
@beccad1028
@beccad1028 2 жыл бұрын
My heart goes out to you Naomi ❤️ I will be praying for you, your strength & your family x
@meganairey7769
@meganairey7769 2 жыл бұрын
Sending you both all my love and will be praying for your whole family as you go through this 🙏 you’re such a beautiful inspiration. Thank you for being so brave and sharing this to create awareness 💗
@abbymcdonald8778
@abbymcdonald8778 2 жыл бұрын
I feel so grateful for this video in a way I can’t explain. You should be very proud of yourself for being so open and vulnerable xx
@Jbird54247
@Jbird54247 2 жыл бұрын
Your bravery, candidness and resolve is so amazing to see and it really will help so many people. Thank you. I hope, from the bottom of my heart that you are cured and live a long and happy life. Sending love to all of you and your families. Xxx
@anniehowell6266
@anniehowell6266 2 жыл бұрын
I can’t believe it. Love Naomi’s character from your podcast. Praying for you Naomi and SJ and your families 🙏😍♥️
@MissEricaCourt12
@MissEricaCourt12 2 жыл бұрын
I‘m speechless. Sending so much love and strength.
@pinkynbaby
@pinkynbaby 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for making this. So heartbreaking and I’m so sorry. I hope you’re treatment goes well xx
@aimeewhite06
@aimeewhite06 2 жыл бұрын
This has broken my heart, I couldn’t imagine going through this with my sister. You are both so brave to talk about it, I wish you all the love and luck in the world xoxo
@hollyanderson89
@hollyanderson89 2 жыл бұрын
I’m so incredibly sorry that you’re going through this. Sending you all the love, strength and solidarity imaginable 💛 Your sisterhood is so beautiful and powerful and you both are such a source of joy for so many people - I hope you know just how very magical you are. I don’t doubt for a second that this video will find it’s way to someone who needs it most and it will become the catalyst that helps save their life. Rooting for you every step of the way 💛 xXx
@melissaf3018
@melissaf3018 2 жыл бұрын
So sorry for this heartbreaking news, the family strength you have around you is amazing. So much love to you all
@Peppermintytea
@Peppermintytea 2 жыл бұрын
I've listened to your podcast from the beginning - sending love and healing energy to Naomi, SJ and the whole family. ❤️
@charmian99
@charmian99 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for sharing this - It is so important that we raise awareness about these health issues, and that we show support for those affected. Thank you. Naomi, you are such a ray of light. Your humour and character has brightened my day through the podcast so many times. My heart is breaking to see you in pain, but I am so happy that you have loving people in your life to be there. I wish you and them all the best, and you will be in my thoughts.
@rachelstrachan1796
@rachelstrachan1796 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for being so open about what you are going through and symptoms. Sending all my love and well wishes for your recovery
@jordantaylor8614
@jordantaylor8614 2 жыл бұрын
Praying for you all. Such a huge fan and I love you both! Thanks for such an immense amount of grace and bravery and vulnerability. Naomi thank you for being you and Sj thank you for being you :) much love and support from a forever fan
@MrsTabamon
@MrsTabamon 2 жыл бұрын
Naomi, my aunt also had stage 4 bowel cancer at your age 15 years ago; she recovered and has been happy and thriving for many years. Like you said, a lot has improved in the medical field and you have the best family support around you, so you're the best possible position
@ejharv3y
@ejharv3y 2 жыл бұрын
Sending you all so much love and strength ❤️
@raquelweber3287
@raquelweber3287 2 жыл бұрын
I'm so sorry you have to go through this. You're incredibly brave and strong ❤❤❤❤ Sending lots of love and support to you and your family, I'll be praying for you ❤❤❤❤
@sarahlovesdonuts9601
@sarahlovesdonuts9601 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for so bravely and generously sharing your story. It is striking how much harder it is to witness the sadness and grief than our own suffering. I’m sending my loving to you all.💗
@abiboyce6971
@abiboyce6971 2 жыл бұрын
So sorry to hear this. Absolutely heartbreaking. You can get through this! Sending love to you and all of your family. So good of you to raise awareness to help others xxx
@carlalumley04
@carlalumley04 2 жыл бұрын
I’m so sorry ❤️ sending so much love to you all at this difficult time. Keep ‘showing up’ and taking each day as it comes you’re doing amazing ❤️❤️❤️
@paulinecorfield3496
@paulinecorfield3496 2 жыл бұрын
I get my results tomorrow, had all the tests, now for the results. So good that you have your sister with you. I hope I am as strong as you xx
@SJ_Strum
@SJ_Strum 2 жыл бұрын
Hope the results were ok Pauline x
@Jorieke13
@Jorieke13 2 жыл бұрын
Hey... just wanted to say that I hope you're okay❤
@paulinecorfield3496
@paulinecorfield3496 2 жыл бұрын
@@SJ_Strum thank you, because the prep wasn't very effective, I have another colonoscopy Friday, they are still convinced it is cancer but want another biopsy. The good news from all the scans is that they have caught it early and it hasn't spread. So still a bit of a waiting game to find out the treatment plan. I feel very blessed. This has been down toy very astute GP. I have been on extended prep this time but am still constipated, am hoping the rest of the prep does its job. I am at a loss to understand why things aren't moving so to speak. Thank you for taking the time to ask about me, you are all in my thoughts a lot, your honesty about the whole process is inspiring. Thank you xx
@mackinzielizabeth872
@mackinzielizabeth872 2 жыл бұрын
heart wrenching news i love listening to the podcast while cleaning and hanging around the house praying for everyone involved 💔
@lexij.5063
@lexij.5063 2 жыл бұрын
I can't begin to imagine how you both must be feeling right now. Sending all my love to your family.
@indirajane
@indirajane 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for raising awareness. I'm praying for your beautiful family. Stay in the light ❤️
@melanie_s_powell
@melanie_s_powell 2 жыл бұрын
I’m so sorry to hear this. I’ll be keeping Naomi and her sweet girls and family in my prayers. ❤️
@sophiemurphy_vocalist
@sophiemurphy_vocalist 2 жыл бұрын
Two very brave women. Such a shock to see this video, thank you for your strength in sharing and considering others in the same boat. So generous and strong of you both. xx
@gemap4762
@gemap4762 2 жыл бұрын
Stay strong. Thank you for raising awareness.
@CR-fb6ib
@CR-fb6ib 2 жыл бұрын
Oh Nay, this is heart breaking news. All our hope and prayers for you! We've loved you in the podcast. ❤️
@clairejohnston8125
@clairejohnston8125 2 жыл бұрын
You two are so lovely. I'm sending love and support. You have such an amazing bond that you allow us to share. Thank you for sharing this. xxxx
@eeleye99
@eeleye99 2 жыл бұрын
I can see how much you love and support each other in this video. Wishing you healing and strength.
@abluesfornina_
@abluesfornina_ 2 жыл бұрын
sending you both so much love and praying for total healing for Naomi! 💛
@crissawills
@crissawills 2 жыл бұрын
This breaks my heart 💔 I really love you both. Sending you prayers, good vibes, lots of love.
@avi4989
@avi4989 2 жыл бұрын
Gosh how heartbreaking for you all. You don’t deserve this struggle. Sending so much love to your family. Get well soon x
@eml9551
@eml9551 2 жыл бұрын
I can’t imagine how difficult this time has been for you, but you are both inspirational for even ‘showing up’ as you say…keep being you girls, we’re all here rooting for you ❤️❤️❤️
@emillythomas9161
@emillythomas9161 2 жыл бұрын
Sending you so much love and strength. You are so brave doing this video and raising awareness xxx
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