Heartbroken

[@ChristianThibibdibbedib-lx4su]

Heartbreak seems to have made you even more beautiful

[@Hauntinggaze]

Heartbreak fucking sucks

[@Jacobx7]

Although I can hear Jay’s voice when reading the subtitles in my imagination, I still do miss it

[@thetwobrothersgarden]

your a person going through a real human experience. the pain is real. pain doesn't last forever. try to do things that bring you happiness, even if its small.

[@BoothTheGrey]

I like this new format - no speak but just your calm, serious, beautiful face... and some text. Sorry that you are "rejected" but... that's something almost everybody gets into a few time in the life. It's really hurting and so absurdly intense. I am really sorry for you. But it would be the best if you try to move on - as hard or even impossible it may sound. Especially when this is something you never experienced before in this intensity. Try to let out your emotions. Cry into your pillow - scream into it. Let the pain out. It will decrease slowly. And don't try to think to much - especially not in terms of "right" and "wrong". As long you don't kidnap him and try to force him... almost everything is OK. But moving on and accept that you had bad luck this time would be the best, although it seems so hard. And feel yourself one step closer in becoming a normal human being 😎 One personal sidenote: There are plenty of people who NEVER had a love affair (or even long time relationship) with somebody they fallen in love with. Many have relationships to those they "like"... but never really had such an intense feeling. You are young. Take your time. And you are a beautiful woman. Men are rather easy "built". Yes - there are many men who just can't get closer to you because of life circumstances (like a teacher?) or there are still some men that just don't feel attracted by you. But many definitely are! Finding an intense love affair is a bit like dice rolling. It's a statistical thing. Its luck. This time you had bad luck. Maybe next time again. Maybe the time after again. But you will VERY likely have a lucky hit if you don't give up. Wish you all the best 🙂

[@RandomAccessMemoryloss]

Sorry to hear about that. Sending you virtual hugs 🤗 🤗 🤗 🤗

[@yusuffulat6954]

It's easy, just go up to him and confess all your feelings to him. Simple :)

[@brandonmunson9781]

I know that you're heartbroken. But it will get better even if you don't believe me. Time heals all wounds.

[@allynflinchbaugh4570]

Romance is overrated. I've had marriage; I've had girlfriends. I've seen it all. Happiness is overrated. You want to know what is UNDERRATED? Serenity. Logic. Peace. Solitude. Being alone without being lonely, which is a superpower. In 2017, I found myself accidentally ending up with two gf's (long story). I had to break up with one. I ended up breaking up with the one that I liked the most. Why? Because I realized the only reason why I liked the one more was because she lived closer and I saw her more: cognitive bias. The feelings weren't rational. This will sound cold, but I came up with 42 criteria on a spreadsheet, pre-weighted them and then scored them side by side and had overall score for each. I chose the one with the higher score, which ended up being the gf I didn't have as much emotional attachment to. 6 weeks later of the one I broke up with trying to get back with me, she raged and said she was going to "marry herself" (apparently called "Sologamy"). So, I dodged a bullet by ignoring my emotions and using logic instead. I then examined my life and found every time I ended up miserable, it was a result of following my emotions. Every time I ended up with a victory or ended up content, it was a result of using logic instead of emotion. Nature wants you to be emotional, so you can just mindlessly breed to create more cannon fodder for the Samsara. I want more for myself, than that.

[@brickproduction1815]

It's not right in the first place because he has his duty as a teacher

[@altrovic815]

Why? It's not like we're talking about a highschool setting. They're both adults. If he were her boss I'd get it, but a teacher? What power does a teacher have over an adult student?

[@brickproduction1815]

​@@altrovic815it's ethics adopt by all teachers. You are not supposed to have an intimate relationship with your students. People go to jail for that

[@altrovic815]

@@brickproduction1815 Do you agree with these laws? If you do, could you explain the logic behind them? I'm not trying to take a piss out of you, I seriously want to understand. I'm not glorifying these kinds of relationships, they can become an obstacle in the studying process for sure. But what is there to be put in jail for, I don't get it

[@JulesOcean]

@@altrovic815 The teacher is there to teach all students. For a teacher and student to enter a relationship creates a sort-of "workplace situation". Relationships are delicate, and should be handled in personal time, as one little thing can cause major ramifications, dealing with feelings of the heart and all. Clearly by this video things are already weird, and it will impact not only the overall teacher's mood, impacting his ability to teach the rest of the students, but also impact his mood with her, impacting his ability to teach her directly. From her side of view, she will now think of him, the what ifs, the "what is he feeling for me" etc, everytime she goes to class, and will impact her ability to focus also. That is why there are ethics about teacher/student relationships and why it is frowned on. It is very much the same dynamics of why you should avoid co-worker relationships at the workplace.

[@brickproduction1815]

​@@altrovic815if you get into such a relationship, it could turn into something else and that's where the law steps in. It happened before and it was bad. Very bad

[@manzanasrojas6984]

Is he maybe insecure about what you do and conflicted in his feelings? Maybe im reaching, but ive seen that often.