Hello Hubby, S1, E105: Honesty (Jessica Reedy)

Jessica has received many messages from women questioning the purpose of my show. Having an expectation, they have expressed their disappointment in the “WHY” the show is important. And so, allow her to take this ONE TIME to give the full meaning of "Hello Hubby". I hope this answers your many questions and gives you a better idea of my who, what, when, why, and how.

[@Hopeful999]

“How many of you all have seen a hint of good in a man and pulled on that and tried to stretch it to cover the entire man when the majority of him was not ready?” This is going to be good!!! 🔥

[@ashleygroves4764]

THIS!

[@jjaned8684]

This was so good! 1. "Fake is not fun, it's exhausting." 2. "Every time I show up authentic, I glorify God." 3. "Be Yourself." 4. "If you ride in my car, don't touch my radio."

[@debbiee.d1117]

"It's not the waiting that's important it's how you wait" yasssss

[@OeGrantAccess]

Sis you are here for me and thousands of women! As a married women myself I see the single me in all these conversations. Marriage is not a magical pill that fix us. Even being healed you never know what’s still trigging until your spouse does and do something and BAM! Sis I see the God in you and he definitely place you on this platform to help many women in waiting, even those who are no longer waiting, I pray for every women who are afraid to ask the question. Continue being your authentic self. Love all that your doing❤️

[@Mirror_My_Ambition]

WHERE IS THE LIE.......

[@jenniferstallworth2327]

I knew your angle from your first guest and I appreciate it because these conversations aren't being had. Sis, do what you do. Go in Grace. I am not going anywhere. I look forward your episodes!

[@candacieamsterdam4857]

Girl don't even bother justifying yourself. Just do you.

[@mariewoody7033]

For Real for Real

[@GetUpGetFitGurl]

Well said Jessica! Authenticity isn’t appreciated anymore.

[@CBtalks8554]

Jessica Reddy you are sitting on a GOLDMINE digging deep into the Treasures of a man's mind so that they can seriously get themselves healed. I was so impressed with you hanging in there with your second guest trying to get him to express himself. I am Praying for you and this Podcast. To God be the Glory for the Work He has assigned to you. 🤗💞👋🙏🙌

[@dellashanice]

This is most definitely the podcast I never knew I needed.

[@ErickaJ954]

I'm sayinggggg 😭

[@indyimean]

Me too!!!!! Omg I love this!

[@iamangeladiane533]

You are doing a great work. WE..... "your audience" are enjoying the podcast, learning, and laughing! I pray you stay encouraged! 🌹

[@IAmMonicaDenise]

Someone else’s desires has nothing to do with Jessica’s wants and needs. These are all real conversations that need to be had. If people like it Amen and if not Amen.

[@CoachKarenOliver]

Amen

[@donnastclair2883]

When I first saw you on Dear Future Wifey podcast I was automatically drawn to your authenticity and your candor. This whole platform for you is new and as you learn moving forward just KNOW there are those of us that support you...me included. I applauded your courage to be honest about your life before us. I'm riding with you my sistah! Sending love and hugs your way ❤

[@andreahayes524]

This podcast inspires and encourages me on SO MANY LEVELS as I continue to surrender my life to the King Of Glory! Praise God for your journey Jessica❤

[@justvibinwithtaneshapeace]

your vulnerable side is amazing... your gangsta side is dope....shine the light of Christ....be intentional... be authentic ✌🏾♥️🦋

[@MiaJaNet]

Oh my goodness I absolutely love you Jessica. This podcast is amazing and I truly enjoy watching and listening to you. I can't get enough. Keep up the great work.

[@AlisonSpringer]

“If you get in my car...don’t touch my radio.” 🤣 I like that.

[@BeautifulMendedPieces]

Aww pooh, I love you, im on the ride. I can't lie I was a little uncomfortable with the last guest but it was because he looked so familiar, he looked so much like all of my past experiences that turned out bad. Sometimes we have to be put in uncomfortable positions to see clearly. Thanks for being unapologetically you.

[@promisegrace2248]

Yes I could even watch because the way he was acting I run from men like this

[@latashataylor7806]

Sis, forget the negative. You are blessings in my life. Cause I want to know too because i am rising long as well. Let's talk about sis. Your are doing AWESOME

[@MizzWiggy]

Finally someone said it!!!!!! “We don’t all wear God the same” Love ❤️ it sis! Thank you, thank you, thank you!

[@mjencolour]

Your energy is so awesome and I adore you for real. Everyone ain’t you and that’s ok! ❤️❤️❤️

[@moniquedependable3782]

God morning family. Glad your here learning with me. Hi Sister Jessica. Glad your back doing another episode. KEEP BEING YOU PLEASE. Okay, so now I’m straight listening. Ask the questions I need answers too as well.

[@tamarranelson6188]

Your Podcast is right on time for the season that I am in right now. Your story is so relatable and I thank you for sharing. There are women out hear that appreciate your story and the manner in which you deliver it.

[@makebacunningham6795]

That part beloved!

[@coreyhaga2623]

Girl ask the why ! I’m on this journey with you ! I want my discernment to grow stronger ! Don’t change anything Your Boaz is real , He is waiting to hold you when you cry 🥺. Much love from Oregon 🕊🕊🕊🕊🕊🕊🕊🕊🕊🕊🕊

[@wmenofdestiny]

I think what is beautiful about a good podcaster is being YOU! It’s not the degree, the experience, it’s you. The audience wants REALNESS. We want to hear the dialogue and banter. Laughing and all of that. Even the background/producer laughing and adding their 2 cents makes it so real. Keep doing you! ❤️

[@verytangi9572]

“Let me be myself”... In your tears, jokes, laughter, questions, firmness, and who you are in all authenticity; I see myself. I need you to be yourself. Your journey and your testimony are helping me to finally feel free to let me be myself.

[@bettyecallens8871]

Hey Jessica, saw you on LRW’s show singing with Cassandra Roberson and I tell you I break all the way down 😢❤ touched my soul in a place l did not know existed in me. ❤❤❤❤l’m 84 years old and have known GOD MOST of my life love love you Jessica🌹🌹🌹keep doing what you do‼️

[@ohwalkiry8159]

Girl!!! Now i love you even more....People will love you for you, or hate you for the same reason. God bless you Jessica you are the outspoken truth we all hide in our head.

[@twren100]

I want to tell you that you are doing a good job. DON'T STOP! These conversation are for those WHO NEED TO HEAR IT! This is your truth and you are walking in it! Thank you for having those "uncomfortable" conversation because we need to have more of them. The bad is just important as the good! Healing, understanding and enlightenment never comes through perfection! So its ok to not be perfect!😉 Just keep swimming ~Dory😘

[@candacesmith5572]

Proud of you be yourself people will always have something to say. You're too holy, not holy enough, talk too much, don't talk enough. I have experienced the freedom of being me in my thoughts, spiritually, and emotionally. I refuse to go back to bondage and being oppressed by the views of others. Keep going, keep growing Jessica. High five from me virtually social distancing. Lol Jessica why you start crying making me start?

[@ReignH2o_kd]

For such a time as this! I am riding with your full transparency and growing with you. Never dim your light!

[@tstephens9178]

"As much as you feel the need to tell me how much I'm not be careful that you are not what you are saying I shouldn't be." It's so much easier to judge what is at someone else's front porch when no one can get to yours. Been a fan and rooting for you since Sunday's Best. Keep being authentically you Ms. Reedy

[@andreamorris3462]

You are enough Jessica!! Do you! Laugh, cry, have hard conversations to continue to grow. I am here for it and ultimately I pray your waiting is rewarded with a beautiful love story and a 💍. Love you ❤

[@ms.sashaonline3441]

Honey!!!! When I say you shining!!!!! This is what it looks like to be a woman who God is invested in! You walk thru this life with confidence, sureness and grace! Keep rockin! We need it just…like… this!

[@Bold4Christ]

Jess YOU ARE SIMPLY AMAZZZZING!! I lovvvve that you don't get on this camera acting as if you know everything and are all put together. You are authentic and REAL. One thing people need to learn is that God WILL NOT bless who you pretend to be!!! He will ONLY bless the real you, the one He knows. We cant hide ourselves from Him but we can hide ourselves from people.....He see's the real us, knows the real us and LOVES the real US. He did NOT create us to be counterfeits. Keep doing you sis and if they don't like it, they can click unsubscribe and keep it moving. I love God with EVERY bone in me but that doesn't mean that I cant go from Holy to Hood in two seconds......I'm human. WE ARE ALL HUMAN!! But the beauty is, He knows that which is why He sent Jesus to save us and carry the burdens for us. Gods love is not based on how many commandments we can keep and how many good deeds we do. We are saved simply because of HIS GRACE. He loves us unconditionally no matter what we do. This is why people need to read their Bibles instead of trying to read other people. SHUT UP!!! Ok, I'm done lol. Love you Jess, God bless.

[@curveyqt]

I love your podcast...How open and honest you are being. And the healing work you have gone through. The laughter is a byproduct of healing. Keep smiling and laughing and loving.

[@chrissydaniels3352]

You’re first video broke me down fr crying big boohoos (in a good way) and every video since has given me such clarity on me and my new Godly journey. I’m a single new mother getting to know the new me and knowing that I can do this abstinent thing until my husband finds me and I thank yu sooo soooo much!!!! ❤❤❤

[@EthelRLee]

You don’t need my permission, but you have my permission to be your “Authentic Self!” Keep swimming towards the deep!

[@AVHarriott]

Same here!!

[@virtuous_committed]

Jessica, one thing I have learned in this life and you have learned it quickly, you cannot please everybody. I am so sick of critical and cynical so-called Christian people always talking about "you ought to do this", "you should do it like this", " you ought to do it like", let them step in your shoes for one day and let's see how they would conduct their podcast. Guess what that's why they don't have one, because they don't have the balls that you have to get up there and say and do, with the grace that you have. With that being said, I encourage you my sister because you are more bold than I am, because with my personality type I wouldn't have the patience to sit there and endure some of the conversations, LOL. However I do enjoy listening to the conversations that you have with the different guests so therefore you be encouraged and you keep moving forward and those that don't want to hear let them gon bout their business. Because you said it best you are not for everybody.

[@Phyllisdaven1234]

Thank you for being honest and relatable.

[@mirandaparram5127]

This was absolutely beautiful Jessica!! Simply beautiful! Thanks for your vulnerability and showing your heart ♥️! As you are healing yourself know you’re healing others. I’m glad I’m able to experience this journey with you.

[@erikacrotts4029]

Jessica you are so amazing! I adore watching you and ever word you speak is so real and I feel like I’m already set free in a lot of ways just from finding you in the last 24 hours and binge watching your videos, keep being you girl! You’ve already changed me for the better in such a short amount of time! 🙌🏻

[@tarathompson3033]

Jessica your honesty and transparency is truly remarkable, you are fearless. You don't need to explain yourself to ANYONE. People will always talk, they crucified Jesus and will have no issue doing the same to a person in the public eye. Keep being yourself and doing what you are called for. Good work.

[@terricacole78]

Thank you for being YOU and so honest with us! You have such a beautiful and loving spirit. You are you and thats enough. Blessings to you on your journey ❤️

[@gracious2gf]

Jessics, watching you evolve in your life's journey from a place of authenticity, and unapologetically is refreshing and inspiring. I'm subscribed and here for the ride.

[@mildredbailey6988]

Hi Jessica you are truly a God sent. I feel I’m in the same place you were in. God separated me from everyone except my daughter and grandsons to get my attention. At first, I was like “God why I’m I feeling so alone”? However, I realized I was not alone. He was holding me still to show me I had HIM. I too was brought up in COGIC, but didn’t do everything right. But now after all the years I just want to be right in the sight of HIM and with that being said HE’S STILL WORKING ON ME. So thank you Jessica thank you and keep letting GOD USE YOU. ❤ be blessed.

[@Cmarcellusboc]

“Raw….authentic and honest….flaws and all”…… this woman is my FAVORITE!!!!! THIS is exactly what life is about!!! This is exactly what God wants for us…. THESE are the conversations we are SUPPOSED TO HAVE!!!! for decades, “Christians” have wanted everyone to fall under this umbrella of “traditionalistic” ideals that have only pushed other people away from “Spirituality” !!! When we truly embrace “transparency” then and only THEN will we make a difference in this world … whether or not that’s what we’re looking to do…~SELAH~

[@patricebrown777]

The very area we need strength, we are tested in. Your authenticity makes this space an oasis. Your voice is so tranquil. Continue to flourish, beloved Jessica. Love you, sis. Big hugs (from a 'skinny girl')!! :-) xxx

[@christinehenry3817]

Jessica? Jessica, you totally said everything I’ve been thinking & licit, but didn’t have the words to describe it. I thank you so very much. I’m so happy that you’re being used in this way. Keep on going. Much love & appreciation. 🙏🏾💖

[@leondrajohns]

Thank you, this was definitely needed…I swear it’s like your reading my journal…these words are confirmation for me…it’s like I already knew what TMH was showing me was truth but I was still struggling with the courage to implement it…your candor and genuineness showed me I have to be me unapologetically ❤🙏🏾

[@jacquelineroberts3443]

You have given me so much peace. I haven't thought about myself in a very long time. Please keep being honest and free to being yourself

[@joannaed77]

Girl, each time I come here…I leave laughing and crying. I love you. Please don’t stop doing what you’re doing. You’re a part of my journey…I need you♥️.

[@latricagillis8560]

Thank-you Jessica Reddy for this follow-up. It shows a high level of awareness and communication. At first, I felt some kind of way about how the 2 guess you had were interacting with you. I expected they will have a higher level of respect. I also had a particular lens in which I was looking through; one of regard and distinction. Then, I thought, there are so many perspectives on how and why men think and the way they behave and interact with women. This is informative and useful information. Now I REALLY know what questions to ask and observation to look for. I want the best for you and ALL the women experiencing their waiting season. I am looking forward to what God has install for you and ALL of us. Keep planting the seeds. 💜💜

[@charitylashai6253]

We are here for all of it Jessica!!! Keep sharing... we love it!

[@irenesanders3873]

I love you being you Jessica! In fact you’re helping me keep in mind that it’s okay to make mistakes and be yourself. Blessings we’re covered. 🙏🏾

[@Quiettiger8]

Keep being transparent Jessica! This is so needed!

[@nuquiche]

I love your show. It is EVERYTHING I didn’t know I needed. It seems every sentiment I have you speak. I am learning so much, being reminded of things, and growing. Thank you!

[@mimimontoya401]

I love you Jess!!! I needed this!!!!

[@TraciAnnMoore]

Thank you for your transparency and vulnerability. Be you as only you can. This is your journey and you've chosen to share it with the world. It can be exhausting. I applaud you. 👏🏼 Those that you are meant to reach and touch, you will!!!

[@tamaraharrison2517]

Way to be your authentic self Jessica! Proud of your growth and your willingness to let God continue to mold you while using you to speak some life into us. For those of us who have daughters, nieces, friends, sons and nephews, that show spoke volumes of what we don’t want our sisters to fall for. Neither do we want our sons to be! Keep planting seeds and trust God to give the increase!

[@PRINCESSLUV22]

OH my goodness I love your music and then I saw your interview on Dear future wife and I fell in love your personality and truth. I recieved from you that you are showing us a reflection of ourselves at different points of our lives. Your podcast will help men understand us. I'm glad to see something like this to help women look at themselves. I've made so many bad decisions and I don't want those coming behind me to make the same bad decisions. Keep doing what you do. We can continue to glean from both your podcast and Hello Wifey podcasts. May God open our ears and spirits to receive what HE has for us so that we can STOP making the wrong choices.

[@michellehammitt9765]

Girl, I listened..I saw the red flags that we try to fix, over look, think it will change. The reason your here is for those who need this platform. Thanks for putting yourself out there to help others. God bless you keep doing you. I like your Honest Self.

[@deejames7031]

I loooove you & I am so very thankful for THIS platform!! I appreciate your ability to be BOLD & stand in YOUR truth! I am rocking with you til the wheels fall off!!❤😘

[@denisebell4864]

Jessica please please continue to do what you are doing. I absolutely love you and your transparency and authenticity. You have given me guidance in my own journey of singleness. So thank you thank you thank you! ❤

[@jacquic.3590]

You don't have to apologize for being unapologetically you! Keep doing what you're doing. Many of us are on the journey with you and are learning along the way. Thank you in advance for all of the insight given and lessons learned. Looking forward to your upcoming episodes!

[@kristyl.9140]

You are doing a great job, sis!! You definitely have my support!!

[@a_social_introvert]

Thank you Jessica for your honesty. I look forward to your podcast, your authenticity and you living your truth.

[@margueritepierre519]

I just started watching your podcast and saw the interview with Marquis (sp)and I cringed the entire interview because it was the interview that my 20 year old self needed. In my early/mid thirties whew Chile. Been there done that and let me tell you how God literally changes you internally and opens your spiritual eyes to discern a man of his caliber. Thank you for following the steps of the Lord and being honest and true to yourself. We don’t need just the healed version of you, there ware young women and girls who needs to see these raw interviews. I appreciate you sis!

[@MasculinityUncovered2023]

👏👏👏👏👏👏👏 I’m so proud of you Jessica for stepping out of your comfort zone!! Keep letting God use you sista. Your light is shining and there is nothing anybody else can do about it! Much love. ❤️🥰🙏

[@judycrumbly914]

Jessica I thank God for you being willing to allow us to see your journey lived out loud in order for individuals as myself who is also on my journey and see so many similarities in you like myself cause I am also walking in my element of being open honest and transparent! I am proud of you too

[@joyh.729]

You’re doing a great job Jessica!!😘 Thank you for your candor!

[@riverwells5151]

I just subscribed Jessica. To your intial questions, I have, I have. I have! Thank God for His grace and deliverance. Jess- be yourself because your so beautiful in spirit. We see you Sis!!! ❤❤❤

[@LEM19284]

I know you’re in the right place for such a time as this. I’m supporting and growing right along with you! Unsolicited Show idea: have you thought about writing a note about what you’ve learned at the end of the show? Something that helps guide you (us) to right and better decisions? It may help us all to watch that process play out in real time☺️♥️

[@iamangeladiane533]

Also! I wanted to say I am proud of the fact that you owned your story and journey!!! No one can beat you with that because you told your story first! I have so much respect for your for that! You should feel empowered by the freedom you have yourself and so many others!!! 🌹

[@jackiebrown293]

Jessica I just love your honesty. So many people try to sugar coat and run away from honest conversations and wonder why so many people get stuck in situationships and entanglements. Keep doing what your doing. I've been married for 17years and it has helped me ask questions I never thought about and things I can teach my daughter and nieces of things to look for in a man and questions to ask. I love your show. Let God use you.. God bless you.

[@ulricka2131]

We are here because sister Jessica is authentically, unapologetically awesome and relatable❤🌼. Everyone else, please turn to the left and never come back👋🏾👋🏻👋👋🏿

[@lethabor]

This podcast is just 😫🔥❤ You're making raw, authentic and honest fashionable again.

[@lesacharna8987]

We knew what it was when we seen your first interview on Dear Future Wifey! I expected nothing less and I’m here for it! Loving this podcast so far. You know the warfare is going to be crazy, that’s how you know you’re making an impact ❤️

[@mitchella5954]

I love your spirit young Queen! Keep doing your work! "Come ride in my car, but don't touch my radio." You tell 'em! 😂💯

[@captionsofgrace]

Glad that this hoped up on my video feed. I ministered in a litigural dance I created to one of your songs. I'm thankful that you are being authentic. I'm loving your growth.

[@ladiesofiron]

I Love you Jessica!!!🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽 Keep going sis! Authenticity At it’s BEST!

[@vs0063]

Loveeeeee, " Don't touch my radio, enjoy the ride." Facts. We all have a journey and the beauty is nobody's journey is perfect. But, it ALL works together for our good. Love you sis! I'm 51, and your wisdom and ability to articulate your path, at the young age of 34, hmmmm, this, this is going to carry you far on. Believe it.

[@edgeweb8269]

Thank you Jessica! I thank God for your truth, honesty, authenticity, and journey. My faith is most definitely strengthened from this podcast!😊😊😊

[@laurenjones6585]

Thank you for being your authentic self and standing in your truth. As each interview happens you will find your flow in the podcast in your timing. You were given this platform for a reason.

[@ticiayocum7121]

Hey Jessica! Awesome message! Keep doing what you're doing! I can relate a great deal to your messages! So if you haven't blessed anyone else with your podcast, you have blessed me!!!😍

[@annywalessa6433]

Beautiful! This was a whole sermon. Thank you so much for your honesty. For me, the conversation with your previous guest highlighted the importance of respecting others' process without compromising my values, not getting in a relationship hoping to change the other person's beliefs or habits, and believing what they say. As you said, we get so stuck in our "rightful - super religious - quick to judge" ways that we want to fit God in our restricted vision. I'm guilty of that but I'm also working to become better as I want to be a vessel of God’s love and light to His people. So I thank you for your obedience and courage. Stay blessed 🙏😘

[@DMDNLove]

The SAD part...Some still couldn't and won't be able to hear you, even after this!!! Great epiode! I don't know you but I am proud of you! - You don't know where I started, so you can't effectively judge my now!"

[@areawestrealty]

Love you Sis for your honesty and being you. I’m looking forward to the journey God has for you- and I as I walk with you.

[@alawrence1029]

You Podcast is exactly what I need in my life right now. Thank You😊

[@nicolelee4837]

Love you sis!!! Every episode!!! Keep up the GREAT WORK🤗🤗🤗🤗

[@Lyfe_of_Antoinette]

I absolutely love this!!💕

[@darrylpurvis7842]

Giiiirrrrrllll!!! First of all, YOU SO CRAZY! 😂❤ Second, I don’t see a “fail”. I’m sure you’re far past this whole thing, because I see this is from last year. I just felt impressed to share my heart and be an encouragement. Prosperity and favor to you! #youdabomb! ❤❤❤❤

[@vashtiab209]

Girl Dooooo YOU! I enjoy the authenticity! And u are hilarious! Keep doing what u doing. I crack up on your shows and learn alot abouy myself and how i handle things.

[@Clipsports111]

You are doing great. It is conversations that need to be heard

[@QueenRoseExp]

✨Sis, I love your energy/vibe, jokes, your songs and your interrogations!🤣🙌🏽. You’re dope & I love this podcast! Thank you for showing up! 💜💜💜

[@moniquedependable3782]

Jessica, I replayed about 1 billion times. Numbering my replies to each point you were making as to respond correctly. But there are a couple of things that said it all. I truthfully from my whole spirit (coming from a healed, strong, 54 yr old LEARNING/GROWING) child of God. 1. Do not defend yourself or YOUR podcast anymore... you said what it was before ep. 1-there’s no need for that anymore... you’re loved! 2. When you said “as much as you feel the need to tell me how much I’m not” REFER BACK TO BULLET #1.... your loved!!!!!! 3. Please Jessica I’m asking you strongly as I’m defending my younger sister and if your 34 or younger my child( my oldest is 34) PLEASE GID 1st and Jessica 2nd as you’ve shown you are! You Are loved.... 4. God tells us in his word- I’ll find it for you if needed- NOT to walk (look like) in our circumstances (“I” don’t believe just in fasting) You said it when you said The God who began a good work in you (us) will complete it. I am who GOD says I am, and you (we) can do and be what God has ordained! So from me to you, and a few more stronger healing women who watched your podcast today. Guard your heart- no more tears. And do you everyday all day. We, me, you, us all have to grow and learn. So let’s get back to it. I love you to life and all the women here who are trying their best with me to let you know it’s going to be ok. You were not the only one who gave their heart away. I appreciate you trying to find out why you. Hell I wanna know why me. I know I’m a great woman and a damned beast when I can be.... So I still don’t get it. Healed and almost whole. Love you lol sis. So come on with it,

[@chandralinton7147]

Amen! Amen! Amen! I love it ! Love you!!!! Thank you sis, being you!!!❤️🙏❤️🙏

[@janetbrown337]

I love you for being transparent.. 💞

[@nubi688]

Hi Jessica, you are amazing and I appreciate you. Thank you for being honest and authentic, never change for no one. This was a great video and I thank you for sharing You with us. Have a Blessed day.

[@danabrown7610]

Great job!! I enjoyed your transparency and your truth👏🏽👏🏽Sending you love and a big ole juicy hug 😂😂😂💜

[@kierrajones8378]

I love this podcast, your sense of humor, transparency and voice. You are necessary!!! Imagine how many women will be healed, from your Testimony! Keep doing what you are doing!!!

[@angelabutterflylove26]

Thank you for being honest and open. Thank you for just being the person that God made you! I struggled through life being a people pleaser and now I can honestly say that I am being the person that God wants me to be. I had to learn to love myself and be okay in my skin, just the way God made me. Your podcast has helped me in so many ways and I thank you for sharing yourself and allowing God to use you! God bless you!!

[@sebrinamuhammad3460]

I just learned about Jessica Reedy and let me just say, she’s a blessing to me in many ways.