HELP; My Wife is Abusive | Navigate With FFA | Funke Felix-Adejumo & Kingsley Okonkwo

Welcome to Navigate with FFA: Episode 1
In this Video Watch Funke Felix-Adejumo & ‪@KingsleyOkonkwo‬ as they share mind-blowing insights into the causes, & effects of abuse and how to heal from it especially as a man (or even a woman).
- about -
Funke Felix-Adejumo is a Transformational Coach and the President of the Funke Felix-Adejumo Foundation. She is a Female Enthusiast and Philanthropist. Her unique unction and utterance has endowed her to the hearts of millions of people that have listened to her at conferences and seminars around the world.
She has a great passion for womanhood with a divine purpose on earth “Honouring God and Blessing Humanity”. This vision has transformed into many works such as the established Grace Orphanage, the construction of the Children’s Hospital and other great works that God is doing through her.
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[@nikeb9325]

I stopped listening to your messages in the past because the focus was more on women doing everything to please their men. At the time, I was trying my best through the help of God, loving, praying,sacrificing and submitting to him. Things grew worse, he became so entitled and abusive. Some people are narcissist, they take love and kindness for granted hence the need for a balanced teaching so that victims can know that it is not their fault, the other party has his/her baggage eg anger, ego, poor upbringing etc. I am so thankful to God that you are addressing some issues with men now. Our culture has focused too much on putting the success of a marriage on women, making some men to neglect their responsibilities. This is a balanced message. No man or woman should abuse their spouse. Marriage is for love not for abuse. Thank you Pastor Funke , thank to Mr Okonkwo, you did an Execellent job. ❤️👏👏👏

[@ronkeogapha7907]

I agree with you, this things do not work with a Narc.

[@amarachichima7981]

Thank you very much for this. What you said is exactly what I'm going through.

[@faithbishop1444]

If you choose to marry wrong, then you will find yourself having to submit to him. Actions = Consequences

[@unstoppable1850]

When you marry the wrong person your life’s purpose can never be found or achieved. You become a wanderer from one end to another. To marry wrong will keep you in a shank and bubbles. So don’t just marry for the sake of getting married because your family is mounting pressure on you.

[@omoyemiolaitan5758]

You are indeed a loaded man of God. More anointing in Jesus'name. May the Lord uphold your home till the end in Jesus'name . May God bless you and your home the more in Jesus'name.

[@folasadeobiogun-okesola1861]

I wish I could like this message million times. God bless you, Rev Funke and Pst Kingsley.

[@stellau2223]

The ongoing trail of Jonny Depp and Amber Heard is so relevant to how women abuse men. As amber told Jonny“ who will believe you”

[@dsmith9709]

She also said. ....... A man"

[@ujuo8087]

Pastor K you are one in a million, filled with so much wisdom. God continue to bless you we need more people like you. 👍🏾

[@asaforfaith1136]

My favorite coaches on board.... I love you Pst Kingsley and Mama Funke... I'm a better wife and Mom because of your teachings. Thank you so much for availing yourselves for God to use you to bless the Body of Christ...Love from Cameroon🇨🇲

[@xave2023]

Wow Cameroon my country. Yes ooh. We love them from Cameroon. Can't wait to have you all in Cameroon some day 🙏🙏🙏😘😘🇨🇲🇨🇲🇨🇲

[@chisomnnedimma4849]

Mummy...... I m almost crying... My life is better because of you and my Mother.... I ve learnt to forgive, love and care unconditionally

[@nhyiraamaamponsah5732]

Pastor K, God bless you for your balance counsel. Most counselors forget that this thing called marriage from beginning to the end is a two way affair. They are quick to tell women what they should do and forget to give the same counsel to the men. They make it look as if everything hangs on the shoulders of women that is why majority of women die in silence but that isn't the case at all. In fact, they should give biblical counsel so that both parties do not suffer out of ignorance of the Word. God bless you Mama Funke.

[@estheradedeji9488]

Mama FFA good morning ma. You are a blessing to this generation.

[@wrparent_child]

Oh my goodness! This is loaded. I have to listen to this video over and over again. Thank you Pastor Funke and pastor Kingsley. More grace and inspiration in Jesus mighty name

[@deas555]

Two of my favourite Mentors!!!!!!! I have learned so much from both of them. Thank you so much.

[@helenosemwonta2293]

Pastor K. You are a professor in marital issues. God bless you forever in the mighty name of Jesus Christ Amen. Kudos to you mummy for bringing him to teach us.

[@BGG_AfiaElias]

8 times Apostle Paul asked for the churches to pray for him. Pastors should know that they are humans and should seek advice and counselling to deal with weaknesses. This doesn’t make them less anointed. God bless.

[@beckywilliams5172]

Waoh!! You’re too much sir. Your descriptions about women are on-point! God Bless your home🙏🏽

[@mfonisoette-umoh4511]

Pastor KO is so loaded and so profound. I completely relate with everything he mentioned. God bless you Sir! My husband and I would love to have a counseling session with you

[@josephineiqwiro7717]

I bless God for making me listen to this, my eyes of understanding have been opened. Thanks for FFA and I bless God for this vision.

[@deborahnetworkintl8903]

Watching from USA. We have been adding you videos to our abuse movement.

[@khairathaliru5226]

Woah! Thank you Mama. Thank you Pastor K. This session is loaded! We'll grounded! Really knowledge packed! Thank you ma'am for all that you do

[@TikiNtundi]

Wow....i have no words mom/MOG . Blessings to you and your family. More grace sir❤️

[@emekaokonkwo6857]

Wow! So insightful. More grace Mama FFA and Pst K

[@helenebihor5488]

Wonderful great an so happy the church is dealing with topics Thanks mummy funky and pastor Kingsley You are an embodiment of wisdom We appreciate you both

[@paulineelotowa5791]

Chaiii Pastor k, your brain is loaded, and the smiles and laughter...pastor M is blessed. And mama..hmmmmmm it's just the manner of talking with paused for me...making her speaking Soo clear. Love you guys to the Moon and back

[@oluwaseunabegunde9938]

God will bless Pastor Kingsley Okonkwo more and more and more. This is the only balanced approach I have seen on air. Abuse should not be "feminized". I love you more with this Pastor K.

[@perpetualchimechefulam4316]

I give you 3 thumbs up pastor Kingsley 👍👍👍❤️🎂 You are full of God's wisdom. Diligence, you have indeed given yourself up to persistently studying on the word. And that's the big problem of most abusive men, because they're not teachable and not ready to learn anything.... Same are too jealousy when their wives are pressing hard to learn and improve her status .... God Almighty will perfect this efforts you men and women of God are putting to reshape our society.... I celebrate you all Sirs and Mas.....🙏🙏💕❤️🌹

[@ingridblagrove9044]

I'm just touching a little part of the marriage thing here, to me for those who don't want to leave a marriage that is abusive have marriage has an idol. Pride has taken over sound mind and sound judgement.

[@patiencezarwie3581]

Wow, you are a wonderful coach pastor K, thanks so much, indeed mommy you are a blessing to the generation

[@mimijoshua8611]

Pastor Kingsley Okonkwo 🎉🎉🎉 I celebrate your Anointing Sir 🙏🏽⭐🎉

[@immyemmy7058]

This has been an eye opener for me. Thank you Mama Funke and Pastor K!

[@evangelistjulietigiehon5422]

To pastor Kingsley Okonkwo 7 gbosa for you.... GBOSA GBOSA GBOSA GBOSA GBOSA GBOSA GBOSA 👍🍀

[@dinaanderson1775]

Wonderful discussion!!! Timely topic. Blessings and Love to Mama Funke & Pastor Kingley

[@divinetalks194]

This is wow 👏 thank you pastor Kingsley and Pastor Funke God bless you

[@hannahhaven6130]

This is amazing platform, discussion, wisdom and teachings. Blessings and thank you to you Ma and Ps K.

[@rodamproperties5414]

Wow......this is so instructive thank you mama and pastor K

[@lukongnjodzeka4286]

My favorite coaches pastor K and mama Funke. I thank God for the day our parts crossed. More Grease and wisdom as I save relationships❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@dinaanderson1775]

Woman need to manage emotions diligently especially with attachment. Men need to manage thier sexuality intentionally. 👍

[@dinaanderson1775]

Self control is the fruit of the Holy Spirit.

[@princessbee2522]

God bless you Pastor you nailed it thank you for saying the truth

[@graceakinsuroju4850]

Love my life marriage coaches@mum Funke,Pst K and Pst Mildred....indeed you are a blessing indeed to the church.Thank you all for being a pillar to succesfull Marriages.God Bless you All and help your homes too.Can't love you less.❤️❤️💖💖💖👏👏👏👏👏

[@chinezemadu3843]

Wow Pastor K always delivers 🙌🏾. God bless you sir for your wisdom and knowledge

[@akinsad]

Thank you very much ma and sir, this powerful, more grace to you sir and ma.

[@amyrose3166]

Amazing! 👋😀🤩🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾God bless you ma. A very big thank you Pastor K

[@nusiratamodu3057]

This man of God is too loaded too professional

[@iamsosasmama]

Awareness is key. Talking about this is creating that in Nigeria. I cannot say it enough, abuse goes both ways. Wow P. K & his wife are truly great blessings to Nigeria. I love how they integrate psychology and faith. That's basically what it is.

[@llsss777]

Exactly knowledge of psychology is essential

[@zitangmenyele518]

Wow Wow. Thank you mama Funke for bringing Pastor Kingsley on your Channel, I recently discovered his wife, Pastor Mildred and I ve come to love her as i watch her chennel too., so much truth and wisdom nugutts. OMG, now Pastor Kingsley, thank you for this sharing this much truth and wisdom. I wish all young married men to hear this. God bless you mama and Pas Kingsley.

[@josephinemutiso8599]

My best coaches,you are a gift to us the body of christ,thank pastor K and mama Funke

[@evangelistjulietigiehon5422]

This is incredible 👏🙌 I am really blessed with this program mummy Funke I love you

[@peggyebose9744]

This is massive and explosive. God bless you abundantly in Jesus mighty name.

[@clairevernyuy5827]

Oh my God, God bless my two favorite marriage coaches. This is just soo amazing.

[@precious5581]

Pastor K. Thanks for sharing. Sometimes the beating is not physical but with the mouth. It is so bad you lose every self confidence and you don't believe anything good can come out of your life again.

[@LGMI9]

Thank you my relationship and marriage counsellors. God bless you both for the good work. We are learning alot from you all.

[@Kitmus73]

Wow!!!!! Deep wisdom emanating from this man of God. Bless you Sir.

[@augustaisidore530]

Wow pk you are loading with wisdom. You explain it very well to our understanding I learnt a lots and blessings by this. More grace to you sir, Rev funked God bless you for this program it save us thank.. More love to both

[@fredrickstephen2299]

Can't wait to listen to (7) seven things men can also provide in the family not only money that is one thing in 7 things PST k thanks allot

[@kachiugoani874]

I don rewind tire!!!! Pure, Priceless wisdom!!!

[@dinaanderson1775]

Why do women abuse Men ??? 🦻🦻 1. Reacting to emotions that have not been resolved 👏👏👏 powerful points shared

[@dsmith9709]

What he hasn't said if women grew up seeing their mother abuse their father they mimic that behavior.

[@igrowingrace5548]

👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 what an expose’ I concur 💯💯💯💯 I wish I knew Pastor K before in my life - he is an expert and great teacher & counsellor Thank you Rev Funke for bringing him today

[@richardpaul1337]

Wow this is wisdom!!! More grace pastor Kingsley

[@paulnicholaspsalmistnick3397]

These 2 great minds on one topic? Wow! I am being blessed and enlightened

[@ochanyaekahinu2264]

Wow that's awesome, mama God continue to bless you o, PST Kingsley, God bless you

[@nathanparke9871]

Viewing from South Carolina U S . I love you woman. Of God.

[@lenutj]

God bless you for speaking the truth, We need this now

[@veronicatawo6796]

You are a great blessing to these generation

[@pauladery942]

Waaw! waaw! waaw! God bless you Pastor, I have learnt a lot today too.

[@olawunmikolawole]

God bless you ma for bringing pastor K,he is so loaded.

[@omolaraoguntibeju9399]

this is Soooo powerful thank you pastor kingsley

[@nyamahdunbar3821]

Two of my favorite, blessed people.

[@eriloseyifunmimotunrayo8203]

God bless you pastor k with more wisdom, knowledge and understanding ijn

[@conycharles4650]

wow, well said, God bless u all , Mama Funke and pastor K.

[@BeautifulSoulDawn]

Very powerful..God bless you all.🙏

[@sewwhat5749]

I really needed to hear that this man of God spoke a book and renewed my mind my every thing I never knew that God could of use a MAN in such a capacity to heal my heart I felt loved once again I felt bless I felt that God still love me and that he still Care about women even when you feel like no one cares and understand what you are going through thank you man of God I pray that you continue to do what you are doing to bring relief to us woman even when I thought a man was the last person I would hear such a word from I'm glad that I came across you channel sister and pastor I too was mad with her one day when o hear her spoke about how woman should love these men who is men of God and yet they are controlling and abusive yet they preach hell fire and brim stone leaving their own family hungry for days but yet living on the phone for hours talking to people about God's love not talking to their own family at home what a double standard my soul needed to hear this word I was at my wit's people grew tired of hearing my story they would listen But couldn't help me Why you ask he is a minister and people loves him he loves to talk and he is well like by people people loves him i thank God 🙏 that you came woman of God and man of God it was too much for me But what a big relief I got today May God continue to use you both in Jesus name Amen and Amen I Thank you once again

[@Nia-Kenia]

so glad men are speaking up. leave the marriage and take your children with you. they don't deserve the abuse either.

[@dynamicogoagbaye2659]

Really Blessed... Thank you ma

[@elizabethwilliams-ohanaka17]

God bless you mama, God bless you pastor K.

[@hephzibahu.emereole2093]

God bless you now and always mama FFA

[@nusiratamodu3057]

Mummy God bless you ma for this wonderful messages

[@irinensame8305]

Fantastic session 👏

[@hannahglover6514]

I pray my future husband comes across these powerful message

[@unstoppable1850]

Everything in Nigeria is about prayer. Why can’t you send it to him instead of prayer.

[@theunbeatableendy4544]

@@unstoppable1850 I'm sure she hasn't met him, don't talk about Nigerians in such manner

[@simplyunice8623]

Pst K n mummy may God bless you both I love you people ❤

[@hopemuna3817]

I love 💕💕 ma'am God almighty continue to lift u high

[@abellawenyou4185]

Thank you pk and mama ❤️

[@kwashiworofficial33]

Wooow very insightful

[@oluwakemiadele6293]

God bless you mama and pastor k. I am so blessed

[@christianmediatv8250]

Mummy I love ur teaching alot, I need to have a show like this with u, u r my mentor , I pray to meet u smday

[@emmanuellaijeomaodiri5658]

i don't even know what to say...GOD BLESS YOU MA , PASTOR K..AH..GOD BLESS YOU

[@nkeshaesther7848]

Blessings our pastors❤️🙏

[@marym4508]

Thanks you

[@shirleyodey3069]

God bless you pastor Kingsley

[@eriloseyifunmimotunrayo8203]

God bless you momma, and God bless pastor kay

[@shirleyodey3069]

Pastor Kay,am so so greatful

[@thisbloomingroomwithcoachc7782]

I will have to disagree with Pastor Kingsley when he says men cant sit still to learn as the reason they dont turn out for men conferences. I would say its about value and in some cases arrogance. If the conference was about money' I bet you the hall would be full' because most men have linked man-ness with having money while assuming that just because they are MEN they can keep a woman at home This is where our society needs a mindset change' so many women are not seeking finances' but friendship and companionship.

[@jenniferashley3130]

God bless you ma and pst k

[@Loice_A.18-21]

Mama and pastor Kingsley O.

[@gamaliotv]

Mehn, Pst. K Is good! Thanks to Pst. Funke for all you guys do.

[@angiegrace1028]

Undiagnosed mental illness is overlooked most of the times but can be the root cause of certain behaviors. I like the fact that PK brought it up. In developed countries, we can easily have access to statistics to validate that theory but I would be interesting to check if researches or studies were conducted in some countries in Africa.

[@AtalkwithRichi]

Sorry my sister / brother, Africans dont have time for that, they dont even believe in such and wouldn't make any research at all, its a pity

[@ugochiadiele5019]

God bless you Pst K.

[@divineceleste.m]

Pastor Kingsley Okonkwo 🙏

[@helenebihor5488]

Awesome

[@gbemielizabeth8720]

Pastor Kingsley you are amazing. I can say; you have done well. Thank you! God bless and your family🙏🏽

[@evelynomoigui4534]

God bless you Pk

[@victoriathompson8992]

Good morning ma you have be doing a wonderful work though am not your followers and don’t agree with most of your teaching but this time I can’t hold it but to say thank you ma well done and more grace. Love you

[@maydvicky3316]

Lolll what part of her teaching dont your agree with her

[@simiO711]

There are certain things I don’t agree with. There are narcissistic and manipulative women just as they are men. Women that abuse their husbands don’t necessarily do it because their husbands offended them. Some of them are just mean and manipulative and would even abuse the nicest of men.

[@angiegrace1028]

You are absolutely right. On the other hand, PK was referring to the cases he encountered in consultation. If you refer to the research on the subject, you will realize that there are many factors and predispositions that lead some women to abuse their partners and others in general. The subject is so vast that PK cannot go into it in such a short time.

[@maydvicky3316]

I guess you dont understand ur gender, no woman will abuse a nice man except his a pretender, nice outside but terrible inside. Most men are manipulative and dont care about dear wife feelings.....is alot

[@simiO711]

@@maydvicky3316 go and watch shows like deadly women and snapped. Then you will know some women are complete narcissist and serial abusers. They will humiliate even the nicest of men, lie and spread rumours about them and kill them when these men try to run away from them. Go and do your research and come back to comment.

[@simiO711]

@@angiegrace1028 I agree with what you said. I only disagree with the fact that most women abuse their husbands because their husbands did something bad to them in the past.

[@lebogangm234]

Yes there are such women and he acknowledged them but said they are just a fraction, mainly due to childhood traumas. I guess the question is, being a narcissist and manipulative, is it a genetic or acquired trait? If acquired then yes it makes sense why we have more narcissistic men than women, because as he said women are able to listen, learn and adjust their behaviour while men learn by seeing. Do we have enough male role models for men to see “learn” from?