Her Man Her Rules Woman Warns Her Friends To Dress Modestly Around Her Man - VIRAL VIDEO

[@ElizeNicole101]

I dress modestly all the time and yet men will try you still.

[@nwalden5744]

Right

[@kikic7637]

True story

[@Shinemodel]

Exactly. Men will screw mud if that's all what left lmao

[@SmileySaidIt]

They will do a dead body, so idk what these insecure women are talking about. You do not have to be dressed provocative to get a reaction from a MALE.

[@Mandy-dw9wm]

I think she’s talking about people dressing crazy… some people do the most.

[@JesziAnii]

He not your man if you gotta worry about others women’s clothes around him 😂

[@alexemerson9886]

YEP!

[@beyondallreason-du4pq]

Exactly 😂

[@beyondallreason-du4pq]

What's funny is she thinks that will stop him

[@samantha9644]

I feel like that man must have cheated on her with a friend 👀

[@a1ntcry1noveru]

And she took the man back and blamed the friend probably

[@kiaspann3024]

I feel the same way, but thts her man her man her man 😂😂

[@Shay-rx4xu]

Yup that's y she has trauma now

[@Shay-rx4xu]

R trust issues when he broke it

[@AmberColeman-gq1wn]

And she still trusts and wants him regardless of the possible betrayal but hates women or female friends.

[@noblemishnowrinkle524]

She literally said that she doesn’t care if he is undisciplined or is a womanizer. 🤷🏽‍♀️ Choose better.

[@Lets_have_some_sense_]

This is outrageous. The woman is desperate!!!!

[@niratomas579]

I’m the type to show up with an abaya and hijab and when she’d say “sis you Muslim now? You’re wearing an abaya???” I’d say “girl I’m Muslim around your man since he’s so undisciplined!” You gotta show people their ridiculousness!

[@TenaciousDeeDee]

Ughhh, social media out here giving stupid people way too much confidence!🙄

[@grahamcrackerjay]

😂😂

[@nobullzone8394]

I swear they be eating them gangster.Cookies with no critical thinking skills or accountability in insight!

[@Havonna8251]

Hilarious comment 🤣 🤣 🤣 😭 😂 😂 😂

[@teresam5199]

All I hear is a bulldog barking

[@shawndraa.h1888]

💯

[@tammykinstrue9849]

Girlfriend needs to address the disrespectful friend that crossed the line directly instead of hollering at all of Tiktok.

[@nwalden5744]

Hollering bad like damn did she wanna fight us

[@Just999Me]

Honestly...and it's not even about disrespect. She is insecure because he has probably done something in the past to plant that in her head or some guy in her past.

[@Campaign-gx8ty]

That part. Loud AF like someone care. Raising her own blood pressure w

[@SharenaHartley]

If he is in a relationship he should have discipline

[@Str8Sweetness]

It gives... your man gonna fall for the bait no matter what.

[@lyfewithfena843]

Most men do

[@niratomas579]

I would show up wearing an abaya and hijab and ion wanna hear nothing about it!

[@prudym1469]

"This is why I dont have friends who dress inappropriately" so why are you this heated on the internet?? Was she cooking up scenarios in her head and accidentally pissed herself off?😂😂😂😂

[@Shay-rx4xu]

She said she didn't have friends at 18:28 but said that's why yall go through wat they go through at 18:05

[@nwalden5744]

Right

[@cjwilliamsvi]

Accidentally pissing yourself off is hilarious. 🤣🤣🤣

[@l3zfrancais]

lol 😂😂😂 sounds like it.

[@IAMGROOT4EVA]

I used to do this when watching Iyanla, Fix My Life. That show had me pissed off about situations that didn't even pertain to me 😂😂

[@alivanessa134]

I remember being a kid it was a rule you don’t wear shorts when men come to visit 😅 so if you know they are a risk why are you bringing them around ? It’s similar to what this woman is projecting

[@blossom1290]

And men wonder why the world look at them in such a way, men need to tell others that they can control themselves ,are they will continue to get look at like animals , that cant control themselves, a man is suppose to keep his eyes to himself, and women should dress proper too,🤷‍♀️

[@Laoriginal718]

It’s the possibility of them being a risk. You can’t put anything past anyone.

[@Arike-c3q]

Oh but jeans and sweaters? Be for real ma’am

[@alivanessa134]

@@Arike-c3qGive me a break😂 I dress modest sometimes I dress sexy but in a classy way and men still approach me lol

[@Shay-rx4xu]

It doesn't matter what you wear they know what is underneath look at women in hijabs n all even when I was 5 they harassed me saying I had on diapers just so they can try n check cause I'm thick asl so they tried to disguise it as y she still wearing diapers n this was cousins

[@jupitersOpulence]

When you have good friends, this doesn’t even have to be said.

[@alivanessa134]

Men look regardless and they all cheat

[@somebodycomelistentothispo7217]

It’s the man, not the friends. She’ll figure it out.

[@monicawitherspoon6627]

Exactly. Reevaluate your "friends" if you have to say this.

[@AmberColeman-gq1wn]

If you are a secure woman, and not ignorant or competitive- then this wouldn’t be an issue. If you were dealing with a trustworthy male, you wouldn’t have to worry about this. If you have to warn your little girl female relatives , of how to dress or how to move around a man you’re with… then maybe you need to be single until you can deal with men who aren’t predatory.

[@KiaTellyce]

Right! I don’t think she’s wrong. There’s a time & a place.

[@Arike-c3q]

Her attitude and tone is definitely giving insecure and don’t trust my man 😃😃

[@sherrillegilbert396]

Her tone is giving ( I’m a man). Real women don’t do that ijs

[@Shay-rx4xu]

Naw thats that ny tone honestly u have to be from here 2 understand

[@sherrillegilbert396]

@@Shay-rx4xu I know exactly how we sound off but it’s giving what I said lol

[@Shay-rx4xu]

U can wear a potato sack they know wat is under it u seen how studs dress they still get harassed

[@TOFFEETASTICC]

You can wear a school uniform and still be harassed too. Women like her are dangerous. 😕

[@nwalden5744]

Thank you finally someone said Thai

[@s.tiaira9081]

I get what she’s saying but it’s giving insecure. Don’t wear lingerie around your friends boyfriend but if you think I’m going to dress like a nun at a function because your man is there🙄 I had a roommate like this! Her man basically lived with us and she expected me to dress like a nun when I didn’t even know he was there! Like sis he’s not on the lease! If I want to wear a sweatpants and a sports bra to grab some juice I will!! Also she should never go to a rave or a festival with a man😂 she’ll have a heart attack.

[@nwalden5744]

He don’t pay no bills he would kiss my ass

[@niratomas579]

I’m petty af! I would actually wear an abaya and hijab like a Muslim woman JUST to make a point!!!!

[@dinahnicole3519]

All this is giving INSECURITY!!!!

[@Shay-rx4xu]

More so trust issues honestly

[@ОльгаЛещенко-м3э]

Tell us you don't have real freinds, without telling us you don't have real friends🤣

[@Shay-rx4xu]

Lol I just said we r her friends

[@Shay-rx4xu]

She said it at 18:28 2

[@nwalden5744]

Thank you that’s what some missing like

[@nwalden5744]

@@Shay-rx4xu😂😂😂😂

[@Shay-rx4xu]

@@nwalden5744 lol

[@ahanaghana1084]

The second she said “female” I immediately tuned out

[@Carmen698]

I am confused if she doesn't have friends that don't dress inappropriately why is she even having this rant? Its a non issue in her life, All her friends dress appropriately so why is she in her bed screaming about made up scenarios? I can't believe all these fictitious women in my head are dressed inappropriately around MY man. At this point is there even a man?

[@sinovuyobudaza7167]

The friends are fictional, and so is the man😂

[@KayGee_yt]

😂😂😂😂😂 CARMENNNNN

[@ONEOFAKINDSISTAH]

She just wanted to go viral. 🙄 No real self-respecting woman is going to dictate to her supposed friends what they can and can not wear especially with this energy. She just wanted her moment on social media because if a man wants to cheat he’s going to cheat regardless of dress code.

[@SmileySaidIt]

Yup, super corny

[@AmberColeman-gq1wn]

Thank you. “Her man” will still be willing to pick the friends or any other woman regardless of her outfit .

[@VanessaThomas-o4j]

Yes those people even look in that crutch area to see how fat it is and the woman is fully dressed😂😂

[@alinasmith5737]

Not just that but why would you try to stop a guy who wants to cheat form cheating? Where's the logic? For me, the quicker I know he's trash the quicker I can take him outside. I dont wanne waste my time with a guy who wants to cheat. Cheat and we can be done.

[@PHOENIX980567]

She admitted that she didn't have friends. Women without female friends are a huge red flag. In my experience, the majority of them are very male centered

[@gamiegirl4078]

And every time a woman goes this hard for a man they always get embarrassed by that same man that they be caping so hard for 🤡

[@erikaarnold4780]

Start the clock! He will be all on social media embarrassing her SOMEHOW.... in 3-2-....😂

[@mama-nono3652]

She should check out a past exhibit called "what she was wearing". It was an exhibit of what people were wearing when they were SA. It included baggy T-shirts, old robes, jeans, onesies (!)and diapers (!), burkas, etc. It didn't matter what they were wearing! If a man is rachet, a predator, not the captain of his "ship", he cannot even be trusted around his own family members. A dog is a dog.

[@niratomas579]

This. I purposely bought an abaya and hijab JUST to make this point! I would show up to the function looking like a Muslim woman! Then she’d ask me why??? I’d respond “I’m only Muslim around your man since he’s SO undisciplined! I need to be completely covered around him sis! That’s what you told me!”

[@sakuraesther6309]

@@mama-nono3652 Why would you compare rape and sex between consenting adults who are in committed relationship to other people???

[@mama-nono3652]

@@sakuraesther6309 Because it goes to character, morals, values, not the power or force dynamic. Because it goes to what CAUSES someone to violate a bond, a commitment, a trust. Is it really what someone wears around you?

[@brookew2403]

Someone clearly hurt this woman. I think she found out in the worst way that a friend wasn’t a friend.

[@Shay-rx4xu]

True my sister slept with my man I don't tell her how to dress cause a man gonna do him regardless

[@tripleb1960]

Or her man wasn't her man? Y'all are delusional 😂

[@sakuraesther6309]

@@tripleb1960 Both of you are correct

[@saralee6710]

When has a sweater, and jeans ever stopped a man from hitting on a woman? Also, your friends reflect you, and your values. So, if she's there in a mesh dress, and thong, you hang with women who wear that, and know/support their values. That's on you. Why do they need to become brand new, because you have a boyfriend? Does he never leave home? Is she running around the neighbourhood with burkas to throw over everyone she thinks her man might be into? Are there no beach days, swimming pools, or hot days in general? Just don't have friends who do not already enjoy a daily sweater and jeans in all weather, and stay home with your man who needs constant supervision to ignore other women.

[@nwalden5744]

Per the rape museum that is open clothing don’t mean shit

[@nwalden5744]

Preach

[@shani.ninety]

So true

[@niratomas579]

I would do her one better and wear an abaya and hijab!!! 😂😂😂😂

[@ineedhoez]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@nwalden5744]

Why you have your uncle and cousins at your house if they sexualizing a child ?

[@Zanie234]

Exactly. My mom never made me get dressed if a uncle or male cousin was visiting. Underwear and all. My mom didn't want to make me feel uncomfortable with myself and her brothers and my cousins were not predators. That helped too.

[@Im.2co0l]

ummm she’s a bit hostile.. I kinda felt like she was abt to swing on me through the phone🤕😩🤣🤣

[@peacecC]

Same omg 😂

[@lisad6773]

Lmaoooo 😂😂😅 fr me too!

[@artbygilik]

But why is she telling this to the internet? Go tell your friends if that bothers you that much 🤷🏻‍♀️we’re not hanging out with her or her man. And yes, why be either someone you can’t trust?

[@dday3322]

🎯🤦🏾‍♀️

[@srideout91]

I wouldn’t be surprised if she lying and she doesn’t even have a man. She is just making up a story for attention.

[@OItsSasha]

With so much emotions too😂😂😂

[@Shay-rx4xu]

Cause we r her friends us n the voices in her head

[@OItsSasha]

@@Shay-rx4xu 😂😂😂

[@grahamcrackerjay]

She's from NY. And honestly if my partner catches feelings for my friend thats kool. Ill move on to the next. My friends are beautiful, and i am not policing them. Shes wild!

[@nwalden5744]

My real friends are real friends for a reason and they bad they would never do that we don’t have the same types so if he purposing them find ima move on

[@shanaleasha6550]

Right, replace the man…Simple. These women be way too emotionally invested in these men it’s ridiculous

[@niratomas579]

@@shanaleasha6550they don’t realize that the men weaponizes their insecurity against them! If your man KNOWS you feel this way and he ain’t shhh, he will drag her through hell and back and do the VERY thing she hates!

[@ineedhoez]

Agreed.

[@Lets_Talk_About_it_Luv]

She’s either from New York or Jersey. anyway, she needs to have several seats.🤦🏾‍♀️

[@Shay-rx4xu]

She is

[@ybrmmusic]

Definitely giving NYC 😂

[@xshesyourqorqeousxx3]

She’s deff a Brooklynite. Us Queens girls don’t talk like that. 😂

[@AJ-yb4vp]

You should dress appropriately when entering into a couples home. Some people really don’t understand that because we now go outside almost naked. The ladies energy was off putting so I think that’s the main issue. I won’t hang around people who don’t align with what I’m speaking of so I never have this issue.

[@sibbster9606]

Of course, but that is not what she said. She said invited out, which indicates being in public.

[@eveharris30]

Yes, make all your friends wear sweaters with jeans.

[@niratomas579]

@@eveharris30 Nah. I’ll do her one better…. I’m the type to show up with a burka JUST to make a point!

[@ineedhoez]

Agreed.

[@uok6216]

Even though I'm Muslim and dress modestly anyway... around most people lol. But her energy is like she's talking to an enemy, not friends. If you're speaking with so much vim it's beyond a dresscode issue. She needs to not be passive aggressive and deal with that "friend". Also, this might be a stretch. But it reminds of when toxic/abusive mothers tell their daughters to not dress a certain way around their fathers/stepfathers or become angry at them and see them as competition. Instead of addressing these weirdo men. Anyway, sis needs to chill and not anyone rob her peace.

[@veganbutterfly3652]

I used to wear shorts on a hot summer day. A few times while in the grocery store. One occasion I over heard a lady talking to her "man" about me. Because he was looking at me. Society as a whole objectify women's bodies.... that is the real issue.

[@nwalden5744]

Right

[@T-Laydie]

So she can't take her man to carnival or the beach. Got it. 😂

[@niratomas579]

Or outside in the summer or spring🤣

[@bcynical]

This really made me mad because growing up, around ages 13-16, my cousin made me wear winter coats, covered from neck to below my knee, whenever I had to go to her house. And I had to go to her house a lot! It made me so self aware, awkward and insecure for a time. Your insecurity is NOT my problem and when done like my elder cousin did to me, it's abuse! Go find yourself some confidence, maturity and re-evaluate your friendships!

[@niratomas579]

This is EXACTLY why I purchased an abaya and hijab…. Forget jeans and a sweater…. I’m covered from head to toe…. Now what???

[@MagickMix]

I will NEVER be in a romantic relationship with ANYONE I cannot trust completely. The moment something is done to shatter trust, the relationship dies and I move on. If you can’t trust your friends, drop them. If you can’t trust your man, drop him. Period. You don’t get to make dress codes for other adults. Just stop with that nonsense.

[@ItsMrstoyouboo]

Home girl checked out and started tweaking. She was cursing her friend out. She raged out on camera 😂😂😂😂

[@am-harris7458]

My Man, my man, my man!🙄🙄🙄

[@TeaLeaf222]

Nah, you can't dictate what another grown adult can wear. Just make it easy for everyone and don't bring your man around your friends. I like to wear as few pieces of clothing as possible at home. When I had roommates if their men came over it wasn't a big deal for me to go to my room and stay in my bra and panties or I'd put on a t shirt and bottoms. I know how men stare, it is what it is. I do know I can't expect anyone else to do what I would do. 🤷🏿‍♀

[@Shay-rx4xu]

Regardless of what we where they know wats under it they better be happy I have on clean clothes r showed up honestly I'm at that point in life where Idgaf

[@nwalden5744]

Gag is men look even when you have sweats on clothes don’t even matter anymore tbh

[@TeaLeaf222]

@ very true. On several occasions I’ve been s. violated I had on jeans and a tee. The context is I’m not giving a man that isn’t mine a free show to my goodies. He doesn’t deserve it. I also know what it means to be a real friend and would never want to put a friend in the weird space of thinking I’m trying to be amusing in that way to someone she’s entertaining. I have enough sauce to get my own knuckle headed man lmao.

[@nwalden5744]

1. I’m grown and ima dress in whatever I spend my money on. 2. If she can’t control her man to control himself then get a new man and work on who you’re picking for a Partner. 3. Sounds to me like she’s insecure and needs no friends.

[@niratomas579]

At this point, her man is a predator

[@msnikkiwunderful]

Sounds like her man cheated on her because the way she is going off. Suprised she has any friends

[@RDCFemmes]

When I go to someone's house and they live with other people: their parents, their children , housemates, husbands...I dress appropriately. But that woman is wrong

[@lostintranslation57]

Why is she yelling at social media about this. She needs to be talking to the friends that walks around with her thong out. If that is her friends daily outfit than you choose her like this. If she is just wearing this around your man then she is not your friend. If your man is looking at her in her normal outfit then he isn’t your man no matter what dress code you give her.

[@BENZ_ASMR]

She says “she’s not insecure while proceeded to project how women be on a woman’s man” girl if you can’t trust your friends and you’re man then that’s a you problem, also she’s probably one of the friends that cuts her friends off for any small thing but gives that man so many chances🤣💀

[@niratomas579]

ATP, her man sounds dangerous!

[@VixxKong2]

I bet she's the type to start a fight if the waitress or the cashier is "too nice"

[@Tariyasha]

Or…..she don’t bring her dude around when it comes to her friends?? 🤷🏽‍♀️

[@niratomas579]

Exactly! Respectful men will even remove themselves from the girlie hangouts

[@veganbutterfly3652]

She needs to save and direct that energy for her man.

[@honorbluelovelyful]

I say dont bring ya man around ya friends.. and truthfully if a friend respects you she would dress appropiately anyway...stop hangin with ppl who beg for attention and you will be good

[@OItsSasha]

Why so much shouting and anger?

[@danielle7127]

People from NYC are unintentionally funny 😂😂😂 I laughed a little too hard when she got mad forreal.

[@SylisDaGoldenPeach]

I don’t care how my friends dress around my man cuz I know he truly cares about me and me alone . The crazy thing is I know a woman with 2 teen daughters from a previous relationship who allows them to wear tiny shorts and belly shirts around her husband yet complains when her friends come around and are wearing it , I think it makes no sense cuz what’s the difference???

[@blah7834]

Just have friends that are equally yoked with you. Also a lot of married women don’t dress modestly either and be on the flirty prowl.

[@KMarie33]

My dad cheated on my mom with her best friend. Her friend would call our house when my mom was at work knowing my mom was at work to talk to my dad lol. That was just a trash friend though, but my dad was more trash lol

[@zynedibee]

She mad cause he folding like a lawn chair anytime a woman comes around 😂

[@niratomas579]

😂😂😂

[@Laoriginal718]

I would dress appropriately/modestly regardless. 🤷🏽‍♀️ She’s right. But she also seems like the type that would blame the woman and not hold her man accountable if he cheats. Also…..she’s from NYC. I know cuz I’m from NYC. 😂

[@a1ntcry1noveru]

Right about what?

[@dday3322]

🎯

[@Shay-rx4xu]

East coast gang

[@AmberColeman-gq1wn]

Yeah y’all tend to be delusional up there. lol… ain’t nobody got time for that. The woman she’s talking about probably just has a pretty face and a cute shape she can’t really hide.. and this weirdo is jealous.

[@lea1luv]

I honestly agree with her too, and at the same time she would def need new friends. I wouldn’t want a friend being half dressed around my bf, I don’t even think it’s an insecurity thing just a respect thing (depending on circumstances like if she was cheated on). Also, she is very male centered she would be quick to blame the woman. 😂😂😂

[@lezlieanne21]

That woman is so male centered that she's already making excuses for why HE would be cheating. She is definitely going to catch him cheating, squabble up with the woman and then take him home to cook his dinner. Sad. And nobody should dictate what other people wear unless its a health risk or something lol

[@niratomas579]

This. Her man knows this about her and I bet he weaponizes it against her. Once you show an “ain’t shh” guy your insecurities, they will weaponize it against you!

[@peacecC]

Why is she screaming at us?! I don’t even know your man 😂 she needs to address her friend directly cause someone pissed her off omg😂 , this felt personal

[@niratomas579]

Now I’m scared of her and HER man!

[@RiCCil0V3]

Unpopular opinion, I agree with her to a certain degree. 🤷🏾‍♀️

[@sunnysunshine6271]

Me too, I have seen quite a few wedding videos, where girlfriends came half naked to outshine the bride.

[@PA-vq2jt]

That’s on you though. How will you protect their lustful minds and they exist the door? Your job will never be over, you’ll be tired and stressed and they will still leave you… get therapy!

[@sunnysunshine6271]

@@PA-vq2jt Get some grammar lessons, because you clearly like your own comment lol. Who the f....can even understand this comment 🤣🤣🤣

[@q-onxy7095]

The lady in the pink bonnet is hilarious 😂😂❤

[@PHOENIX980567]

Agreed

[@marissa._]

And this is why I REFUSE to support "all" women! Another "my man, my man" pick-me! I've encountered people like her before! The same ones who will quickly accuse you of being "jealous" and "bitter" that you don't have a "man"/relationship while they, themselves do! Who TF does she think she is to tell ANYONE how TF they're "going" to dress?! Be so ffr! You CANNOT STOP a man from cheating! If a guy wants to cheat, he's going to find a way to cheat! REGARDLESS of how the woman is dressed!

[@niratomas579]

I’m indulging her and showing up with a burka🤣 Now what?

[@pmonpl]

Why is she so angry? Why not talk to the friend who disrespected her and her man. Why are we in this?

[@l3zfrancais]

Why is she soooo mad and aggressive. 😂😂😂😂 the aggression towards women is crazy. Like is she okay?

[@CBean94]

She’s loud because she’s speaking about a specific person and it’s irking her. Her man tried it and she’s pissed about it but clearly she’s not leaving. Calm down and get a new man if he can’t be trusted

[@amandaford8730]

Tell me your boyfriend is a cheater without telling me he's a cheater. 👀

[@KayGee_yt]

"Your man" is not the center of your friends' lives. If they dress sexy it's probably because they liked their outfit. If there is something going on you need to re-evaluate who you surround yourself with and your relationship. Trying to tell people how to dress is beyond goofy

[@taunyb5429]

Shes doing too much. However, my friends don't even need to ask. I don't wear revealing clothes around my friend's man. And some of yall scandalous. 😆

[@munchkineatsalotvent9899]

Exactly i don't do that either ,you see how other women like to play stupid like they don't know where she is coming from let hxes keep being airheads.

[@chocolateprincess8543]

@@taunyb5429 I wear what I want to around my friends man and they do the same.

[@taunyb5429]

@chocolateprincess8543 Glad that works for yall. Doesn't work for me. I was raised very different than this current culture. I'd never have my buns out or whatever around someone's partner. I move with class, but that's me.

[@chocolateprincess8543]

@ Me and my folks aren’t insecure so we don’t have those issues.

[@taunyb5429]

@@chocolateprincess8543 No ma'am. That's why I always say I was raised very differently. It's just being classy and feminine. I'm a beautiful woman. That alone makes other people feel a way. Maybe that's where it comes from, but those are just my views. I don't dress like a street star anyway, so there's that...

[@marilynseptember21]

We Nigerians will say, address who you want to with full chest instead of talking around the corners.....that man has said oh your friend looks great in.....

[@dbest1831]

But that’s why Nigerian men cheat on their women like crazy, no respect . Them and Jamaicans. Ya love to be the cool girlfriend whole time inviting him around the same women he will cheat on you with. Like cmon

[@dbest1831]

Nigerian men cheat the most and have secret families. I don’t think you should compare .

[@carenasmith7]

If i have to require a dress code for my man, then we cannot be friends. Thank God i dont have these problems by choosing my friends wisely. Clearly someone has hurt this lady and betrayed her. My friends and I respect each other.

[@erobinson5942]

Why have friends if you think they will sleep with your man. Just don’t have friends. Problem solved

[@VixxKong2]

I said it in another comment section, but I'll repeat it here: Even if Megan Thee Stallion was coming over, I'd expect my man to control HIMSELF out of respect for ME. I'm not telling anyone to cover up so my man behaves right. Also, a dude could literally wear nothing but some shorts, and absolutely nobody would tell him "Cover up, I have a wife and daughters here!" Double standards.

[@Chowlife]

That women is BROKEN

[@Rinslet_Eve]

so what does she do when she is in public with her man and people dress however they want 😂😂😂😂😂😂 yall gunna be hermits and stay inside. like be for real

[@bluebutterfly5062]

If you don't like they way your friends dress, don't be friends with them??

[@Campaign-gx8ty]

I agree with modesty, but for a woman to feel the need to control my actions over some dude that likely has self control issues…she would have to go-with her man.

[@HaahmayanShaalManasseh]

I dress modestly all the time I went into Aldi’s and the security guard hit one me for actually being covered 😂 said I’m not like the rest of these women like you can’t win 🤣‼️👀

[@ineedhoez]

😂😂😂

[@nwalden5744]

Why your MAN on an outing with friends !

[@niratomas579]

This. Seems like the type to bring her man to a girls night out

[@veganbutterfly3652]

Her energy is just rude and negative... She wouldn't be my friend, my friends are cool. I wouldn't be around her with or without her man.

[@charlene5293]

A sweater 😂😂😂she on some crazy shit

[@niratomas579]

Forget a sweater! I’m showing up in a burka🤣🤷🏽‍♀️

[@00st307-m]

4:19 sadly i’ve known pick me women desperate for male validation that would do this 😬 they aren’t my friends anymore

[@Laoriginal718]

3:57 you don’t have to be half naked to look your best. That’s something that alot of females today fail to realize.

[@snatched.4513]

THISSSSSS ! These girls have no morals or common sense

[@taunyb5429]

Many ppl don't know how to look their best without their tatas and butts out.

[@seekinghimdaily92]

You’ll probably get chewed out in this comment section for this position… *agreed.* 😏

[@dbest1831]

A lot of women are insecure! Thats why they dress half naked all the time.. attention

[@eveharris30]

Yall pickmes are funny, calling women females.

[@HmmmReally]

Perhaps dress coding your friends is the least of your problems. Check the integrity of your man.

[@lovelyscorp79]

The only reason i have a problem with this is because why are you the only one with a man at the function? Why are you bringing single women around your man? If its a big gathering where aunties and mamas show up then they will dress appropriately. But i never would never go out on the town with my bf and single girls. Either we all going out with partners or we all going out single. Or its just me and my man. Its low key giving i want to flaunt my relationship to these single girls. I may be tripping on thatblast part but it doesnt add up to me how she finds herself in that scenerio to begin with. NYC! One of the burroughs, like Brooklyn or Queens. Even possibly nassau county, westbury has at lot of city transplants. Edit: that yall too free in this country ran me hot. She meeds to humble herself and clock it. Im gonna stop right there. But she tried it.

[@Arike-c3q]

So because you have a man all your friends should too or you won’t hang around them/invite them anywhere cause your man there? Okay ma

[@lovelyscorp79]

​Dont be slow. Stop it. Why would I come on here and complain about a woman policing "other women" because of her man, and police women who dont have partners? Thats hypocritical. And ive never been that in life. Its common sense. Either the outing calls for partners or it doesnt. A night on the town with your friends and your man means someone is getting ignored. If im out with my man, im into my man. Thats where my attention is. If im out with my friends then my attention is with my friends. Trying to do both makes no sense. Its not what secure grown ups with limited free time do. ​@@Arike-c3q

[@dday3322]

🤌🏾

[@Arike-c3q]

Ok ma

[@niratomas579]

How much do you wanna bet her man purposely does this to get her mad???

[@SmileySaidIt]

Exactly why I’m not friends with women who center men. I don’t care if that’s your huzzzband, I’m wearing whatever tf I want to wear. If my fashions can take your man away from you, why are you with him???

[@samanthayates8812]

I'm noticing it's all single women that don't get it. That's interesting

[@SmileySaidIt]

@@samanthayates8812I guess. I mean we were all in a relationship at one point lol. Being single doesn’t change that. It’s a personal issue, not an external issue.

[@samanthayates8812]

@SmileySaidIt And there are women out there that will put up with anything just to have a man and / or friends. People know spouses and friends be looking and or thinking in the back of their mind..."would I?" And that's amplified by clothing and behavior

[@niratomas579]

Women who center men are EXHAUSTING. Sis, I wore a burka! Now what???

[@mariamafofana9019]

The way she kept saying “My MAN” and “Respect my MAN” was annoying. Women like her and their glorification of their men can be toxic. However, I understand her point of view of her female friends need to dress appropriately in front of her man as a sign of respect to her. But if the type of friends that she has are the type that she knows that usually wear skimpy and revealing clothes then why even complain. If this issue was a concern for her she should have made friends with women who always dress modestly and elegantly. Women who always dress modestly would understand the assignment no need to make a public announcement of them needing to dress appropriately.

[@ineedhoez]

Exactly. If you feel this strongly about modesty and appropriate dress, associate with women who already share your values on this issue.

[@Dolliko]

I had a friend like that. She starts to date a dude and cuts me off her life. I was glad though cause something was becoming fishy with her behavior and she was acting weird. This was one of my best friends I invested a lot of time and afford in the friendship. Later I found out she had told everyone that I was interested in his bf, which was outrages, cause I disliked that guy a lot but was trying to say nothing. I never wore revealing clothes or said anything inappropriate. but she ruined my reputation. Ladies, be aware of women like the one in the video and run away them them.

[@kimmycookie3]

She has friends??? Talking like that? I get wanted people to be modest but don't be friends with women like that. Or don't invite them around your man. Tf I do not like her tone of voice. Baby girl is pressed.

[@IJN.OK1]

Yo same exact question popped up like who is this woman's friend. I was like she can't be serious. how old is this bird because when you 40 who TF policing my attire. like beech go get a leash for your nicca for he wanders off.

[@dday3322]

😂

[@Shay-rx4xu]

She said she didn't have friends at 18:28 n ppl from the eastcoast talk aggressive

[@IJN.OK1]

@Shay-rx4xu okay. I'm from the East Coast and I don't speak like that. This is not a East Coast thing. This is a New York thing. People from New York have very assertive tones of voice. This girl is very aggressive, and there is a very big difference between somebody being aggressive and assertive. New yorkers are predominantly very assertive people. Example, if you were talking too loud assertive, people may ask you to lower your voice. She may tell you to shut the f*** up. There's a huge difference here, LOL and not for nothing. This girl is really aggressive and because she is physically attractive or appears to be physically attractive. It just makes her look like a very ugly person. For her to get on the internet and talk crazy to folks so she doesn't know so there's a big difference now, all of us, east coast, people speak the way that she speak.This is a new york thing

[@kimmycookie3]

@@Shay-rx4xu that girl wasn't talking aggressive she was shouting and taking her anger out on anyone who who watch the video. Sounds like she's need some therapy

[@chauntill]

🤣😭🖐 Its very much insecurity! I see why she has no friends. " she's screaming my man my man but if he was so good he wouldn't be ogling your friends" 😮🙄

[@onlythelonely93]

this is a new level of insecurity i had never witnessed

[@niratomas579]

You can bet her man knows this and weaponizes it!

[@duchesseebene1273]

No need to chastise all of the net for your man and that friend's perceived slights towards you.

[@jazzy1935]

As a New Yorker, I know my people😂She is definitely from the Bronx or Brooklyn...we keep it a buck. I agree with her to a certain extent and the same rules would apply if my friends are coming to my parents or family gathering. Luckily for me, I don't keep friends that dress sleezy. We keep it classy💅

[@dracodior6175]

I don’t even like my homegirls men no way 😂😂

[@niratomas579]

This! Her man does not even seem to possess the qualities a woman would find attractive! They think everyone wants their trash.

[@sybilnubiazudelo9427]

She wouldn't be my friend telling me how to dress. Get a man & friends you can trust & you wont have this problem or this conversation If I had friends (which I dont want nun) they can dress how they want. If my man is too weak of a man that he can't be around a woman dress sexy then thats not a man I would want. She entitled to her opinion but my opinion about her is that she need no friends. She just need to make her man her friend & stick with her man & man alone cause she sound delusional 😆 (who traumatized her)

[@sj5218]

The message was lost in the delivery. I understand what she’s trying to say though. Not saying she’s right or wrong, to each its own. You said guess where she’s from, lol that’s not hard at all, New York people stand out

[@SteganDaMallion]

Nah. I am not policing what my friends choose to wear. Their bodies their choice.

[@mcnoodles3010]

She sat up here and screamed and hollered at this for several minutes about shit that doesnt even affect her cause her friends are like that.

[@simplyv2123]

WHEW!!!I never wanna be this unaware chile!!!She talking bout she had us pressed when she's still on that 2nd video as hot as a texan summer!She should've had that phone call or send that text message instead of yelling at us😂😂

[@alexemerson9886]

Her insecurity is coming in HOT right out of the gate. If your friends are scamming on your partner, they're not your friends. That's not a wardrobe issue. If your partner is scamming on your friends, that is *also* not a wardrobe issue.

[@kejean12]

If you have to tell your friends how to dress around your man, one, you need better friends and two, you need a man who knows how to control himself. If he's gawking at other women, then he's the issue. You can't control how people choose to dress and what are you going to do out in public? Step to strangers? If he's got a wandering eye that's on him and you if you choose to stay with him.

[@niratomas579]

At this point, her man is a danger to women! I would show up with a burka and tell her “I’m scared if I don’t cover every inch of skin, your msn will attack me!”🤣

[@LordFrankieTheCat]

She from NYC. I understand modesty but dictating to adults is whats not working for me. The people you surround yourself with, tell others who you are. If your friends are dressing explicitly is because they were already comfortable doing so around you and the friend group. Since you gots you a mans now you tryna act like you are modest/demure and mindful of how you present infront if your new man. She giving me reformed ratchetchick😂😂😂 You are an adult stop yelling on the Internet and get new friends.

[@verda_renee]

I mean common sense I'm not going around a friend's man showing body parts and nudity etc but she's dragging it talking about jeans and a sweater only. Girl...🙄

[@MsBrown-ey2sc]

Oh lawd, don't go to the beach

[@Oneofthenailas]

It’s because it is not a thing. Just go cry and grieve and move on from those friendships ma’am.

[@_AMD24]

I agree with the young lady in the glasses and turban 💯

[@rn2787]

This is why I never cared about my ex going to strip clubs during a birthday party or whatever. If he was going to cheat, he didn't need an incentive and bouncers ain't letting you touch the strippers. Men need to start being held accountable for their own behaviors, not the women they use as an excuse. If your friend is just dressed sexy that doesn't mean she wants your man.

[@nwalden5744]

We not upset though…. She IS! 😂😂😂