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The Tea on NPD and Relationships

The Tea on NPD and Relationships

Күн бұрын

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@danielleholliday7519
@danielleholliday7519 2 жыл бұрын
He got it so wrong! I'm at peace now... He will always remember I was the one that got away....
@toniwilliams9817
@toniwilliams9817 2 жыл бұрын
Same here ❤
@teedy1boy
@teedy1boy Жыл бұрын
Correct on all points
@Lillian-z7c
@Lillian-z7c 4 ай бұрын
Me too.. He was getting ready to do a full blown devaluation. I kept telling him I would call him right back and NEVA did. Now he belongs to the ages. He reached out in my blocked box saying he's being the bigger person, after a whole year of NC. What a loser. The door 🚪 is closed 🔐 forevermore. TGBTG. ❤😊🎉
@tjenkins76
@tjenkins76 2 ай бұрын
@@toniwilliams9817Yaas!!!
@fosterjanine5112
@fosterjanine5112 Жыл бұрын
Karma will come back to them tenfold! What you bring out is what you will get back and that is how the law of the universe works! Foolish people!
@pamelajett3099
@pamelajett3099 Жыл бұрын
We were not victims but saviors for the narc. Their last chance to get it right!!!!! It's down hill from here!
@fridachanel8234
@fridachanel8234 5 ай бұрын
In Jesus name!
@annesworld4007
@annesworld4007 4 ай бұрын
Amen
@pocahontas4583
@pocahontas4583 2 жыл бұрын
They really don’t believe you’ll actually leave them. Especially if you stay with them a long time trying to “fix” it. They think they can get away with anything and you’ll keep putting up with it. That’s why the one I’m dealing with still won’t leave me alone because he can’t get it in his head that I truly won’t take him back this time.
@erickla7796
@erickla7796 2 жыл бұрын
Block him or restriction order
@Phyllis-zx8om
@Phyllis-zx8om 5 ай бұрын
They push you away, but wont let you leave. smh
@golnazabaee599
@golnazabaee599 2 жыл бұрын
He never thought I would discard him. I was the nice, sweet, kind woman he tried to have an affair with. When I called him out after realizing he is married and is a serial cheater and playing me for a fool, I could feel his silent rage under his calm and indifferent exterior: sort of like "how dare she cuts me..."
@donaldbeach1401
@donaldbeach1401 2 жыл бұрын
She left 5 times married for 5 years and then served me serpentine papers a week later I served her divorced papers we been divorced since October 19th, no contact since, waiting for something to happen, not sure what's going to happen Don,
@sylviaamodeo7090
@sylviaamodeo7090 Жыл бұрын
Wow, that's deep. I'm happy for you if you're out for good!
@mbrowne5105
@mbrowne5105 2 жыл бұрын
Oh, he thought he knew me so well. When he discarded me a second time(yes, I know), I slammed that door, bolted the lock, blocked him, and he hoovered the mess out of me for a year and a half. I never responded. He can KMA, lol. I feel so victorious. Victims , you can do it! They never saw it coming when they encountered you. Don’t EVER go back and stay gone. Thanks Telsha!❤️❤️❤️
@jaschadaniels9688
@jaschadaniels9688 2 жыл бұрын
"Backwards Walking Giraffe with the curly Wig"!!!!!!!!!!!! The way I just SCREAMED!!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
@TheTeaonNPDandRelationships
@TheTeaonNPDandRelationships 2 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@happyhealthyblessed
@happyhealthyblessed 2 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@icalotdonthide2646
@icalotdonthide2646 2 жыл бұрын
Me too 🤣🤣🤣🤣
@sonjaguillory4247
@sonjaguillory4247 2 жыл бұрын
I paid close attention to my narcissist I did not tell him none of my business he told me he couldn't figure me out
@johnmoya2826
@johnmoya2826 2 жыл бұрын
Sometimes you have to give up on people. Everyone that is in your life is meant to be in your life, but not everyone is meant to stay there. AMEN !!!
@tjenkins76
@tjenkins76 2 ай бұрын
OOOH That’s Good!! Sis!! I love the way you said that!! ❤❤❤AMEN AND AMEN 🙏🏽
@Marianpowellmiddleton
@Marianpowellmiddleton 2 жыл бұрын
I was with that bird for 23 years; I walked away from everything, home, clothes, and all (THANK GOD, MY 3 CHILDREN GROWN AND MOVED OUT OF THE HOME). Answered the hoover a week later, and that clown said, " All you had to do was chill until I calmed down. (I ALWAYS DID YEARS AND YEARS. I SAID TO MYSELF NOT TODAY) He argued all night long about something so stupid, taking my keys and who moved the scented candle. I Got up, dressed, took my nursing uniform, ID, SCHOOLBOOKS WALLET, file box, and laptop, and jetted, just like that. Boom! But God blessed me with all I lost. HELLO! GOD IS FAITHFUL AND TOOK MY POWER BACK. I THANK GOD DAILY FOR REMOVING THE FOG AND SHOWING ME I AM LOVED AND I AM WORTH IT. LEAN ON HIM, AND YOU WILL SEE THE LOVE I HAVE FOR YOU; READ HIS WORD IN THE BIBLE, YES!! YES!!, THE REVELATION WAS REAL. I THANK YOU, TEA, ON NPD; YOU ARE ALWAYS ON "POINT"
@berylfacey5376
@berylfacey5376 2 жыл бұрын
I totally understand you about being in a fog. Only people who went through it get the meaning!!!
@christafisher8533
@christafisher8533 2 жыл бұрын
Dang. Good for you!...on self preservation. The Good Lord always provides & he rewarded you b/c you were no longer blocking your blessings. 💞
@Peacealways247
@Peacealways247 2 жыл бұрын
I don't care if you've been married to them for a split second, as soon as you see the behavior, plan the departure. Know that GOD is your provider, your savior, your tear wiper, your comforter, your keeper. God wants us to want him FIRST. If that person is acting like they are your savior...bayybbbaaayyy you got to get up outta there! God will restore better than what you had with them fools. Make your exit plan quickly! Keep on moving don't stop no!
@treshasstarr1513
@treshasstarr1513 4 ай бұрын
Proud of u
@tjenkins76
@tjenkins76 2 ай бұрын
I’m SOOOOOOOOO HAPPY 😆 and Proud of you 👏🏽 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽HUGGING YOU ALL THE WAY FROM DALLAS, TX❤❤❤ YOU ARE TRULY A BLESSING!!!
@tonjajackson9209
@tonjajackson9209 2 жыл бұрын
Exactly and the fact that he watched his mother stay with his cheating father until the day he died. And his aunt stay while her husband had outside children and openly ride young women around town. She still there today. Smh. So the other day I was thinking back how he use to ghost me to be with a back burner. The Lord told me "Now the ball is in your court, you do the ghosting. Permanently."
@louisemorgan6410
@louisemorgan6410 Жыл бұрын
My Ex Hysband cried the day I walked away from him, he cried crocodile tears ( he went on holiday with his new 'girlfriend 3 months after i left him). 5 months later, he came knocking on my front door (I rented out my house while we were married) I opened my front door, looked at him without expression, not a single word passed my lips, I softly closed the door. He stormed off. Two weeks later, he came again, I repeated the same. He didn't bother again . That was 5 years ago.
@AlmightyAmbush
@AlmightyAmbush 2 жыл бұрын
The biggest part they missed! We not with them ppl anymore. 😂 Classic
@kimberlys347
@kimberlys347 2 жыл бұрын
Right! Like, I left them and I’ll leave you too!!!!! They are so stinking entitled though they think you’d never actually do it.
@monteblazilla7776
@monteblazilla7776 2 жыл бұрын
She had to find out the hard way, gone now! Finally took my power back🙇🏾‍♂️
@teedy1boy
@teedy1boy Жыл бұрын
@turquoisepearls4817
@turquoisepearls4817 2 жыл бұрын
That’s right! Execute that exit plan and leave in silence.
@SoSpecial16
@SoSpecial16 2 жыл бұрын
They try and FAIL repetitively.. ❤️❤️❤️
@antuancooper6716
@antuancooper6716 3 ай бұрын
You are absolutely right 💯💯💯✅
@rhondacooper7957
@rhondacooper7957 Жыл бұрын
In my humble opinion a narcissist think by abusing the victim will keep that victim in a toxic relationship with them (dead wrong) narcissists are wicket demons. 😈
@KimberlySherice6851
@KimberlySherice6851 2 жыл бұрын
And you can't make them see your value or anyone else. I tried and felt worn out. Never AGAIN. Doing the right thing with the wrong man.
@susantodd7169
@susantodd7169 2 жыл бұрын
He is happy I’m gone He never hoovered me I really think he is so proud and full of himself . I am not important to him- just a commodity. He has been through a woman every year! The law of RECIPROCITY- I BELIEVE IT WILL OCCUR! I don’t have to fight to prove anything- like the saying goes, the rotten fruit will eventually fall from that tree! That mask will fall off - can’t fake it forever.
@CoachCreesh
@CoachCreesh 2 жыл бұрын
He'll be back! Be prepared to resist the hoover. Block him and remain NO CONTACT 💯💯💯
@amirjones1934
@amirjones1934 Жыл бұрын
I won a court decision for child support ...and I dont pay child support , she did this , and ran off with the new supply, but now karma has smacked her in the face...the narcissist, wanted to control me (via) child support, before moving on with her new supply, now the tables have totally flipped ...and I walked away untouched... I totally destroyed her...I had to walk away from her , and our son and her whole family.
@drypshunee8428
@drypshunee8428 2 жыл бұрын
I am so blessed to come across your channel! I have recently ended an on off 15 year hell of a situationship with a narcissist who mentally, physically, and financially abused me. He topped the icing on the cake by getting my daughter’s god sister pregnant and allowing me to find out via social media. He still blamed me. I have left for good, went no contact, changed my number, block his number, blocked him on social media, blocked his family on social media, and sought counseling. He has tried to contact me through email in which I have not responded. Thank you for this channel. I have binged watched.
@Breauxmann
@Breauxmann 2 жыл бұрын
“Now that it’s late, let it stay late” Girlfriend got it wrong. Vengeance is mine says the Lord, I will repay. “You got it wrong, it’s gonna stay wrong.” God had my back the whole time. Keep it moving!
@johnoulds3003
@johnoulds3003 2 жыл бұрын
WOW!!! I told that A-Hole with a crown what my X wife did to me. The cheating did mess me up. The big one is..She did the same thing my X wife did to me x10. She told me she would never do that to me. I saw the red flag but over look it. That 3rd yr I gave up and kick her out. Thank you!!! Just miss her 2 kids that's all. They had nothing to do with it. Thank you so much for your wisdom 🙏 and help!!!
@romesaluckett3980
@romesaluckett3980 Жыл бұрын
You deserve better! We all do.
@clusterbfreekaryn7685
@clusterbfreekaryn7685 2 жыл бұрын
He couldn't believe after 33 years, I barricaded the door, arranged bed at the Veterans Shelter (during Covid 19 lockdown 2020) & divorced him. He really did look like a blonde Chinese crested! 🤣 😂 😆
@janiced.hatcher1272
@janiced.hatcher1272 2 жыл бұрын
When you can see them for the leg dragging, bugged eyed, hunch backed, drooling, nonhuman, diabolical, franken- creatures of the most unclean, dwelling inside of a person, then your seeing right.
@Msbrittanyhoney
@Msbrittanyhoney 2 жыл бұрын
I sent screenshots and screen recordings of the narc ex tryna get back with me lying & disrespecting his new supply that he moved in with just a month after I kicked him out. I haven’t heard from him since 😂😌🙌🏾
@reginaldharrigan9962
@reginaldharrigan9962 2 жыл бұрын
A duck w combat boots & a cape!!!! Lmao 🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣
@TheTeaonNPDandRelationships
@TheTeaonNPDandRelationships 2 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@2009bobbs
@2009bobbs 2 жыл бұрын
I even told him that I never back track with any exes...the bird must have forgotten!!! Love you Telsha. Happy Thanksgiving
@zaylinstar8883
@zaylinstar8883 2 жыл бұрын
That’s what I said! It’s even recorded lol I literally say “DONT DO IT.. I WILL leave, and when I leave…. I DONT come back.” He laughed in the video, thinking I was joking. Till them divorce papers finalized and I left and stayed in a shelter for 7 months and now have our own home. 2 years going lol 😂
@bronwenw6384
@bronwenw6384 Жыл бұрын
He did not forget. He just truly believes that he's in utter and complete control of you. To the point where you can NOT say no to him. They are utterly deranged and it's that old sense of entitlement that comes into play. They literally believe that they own you, like some toy they get to put away and come back later to "play" with. Idiots
@angelinaalexander5910
@angelinaalexander5910 2 жыл бұрын
Even when they know you know, they just keep on with their BS. My ex telling me that my daughter and her kids are doing Thanksgiving at his house this year and "we love you and you're mad at the world" GTFO 😠 I would never go to his house for ANY HOLIDAY grandkids there or not. That would be like the scene from the movie Soul Food when Vanessa Williams had the butcher knife 😂 Hell to the NO!
@karriesaunders8597
@karriesaunders8597 2 жыл бұрын
Yeah,I was told go round to his mother's and sort this out,there is nothing to sort out,he told me and his child he was coming home and instead,he didn't pick up the phone and apologise for being abusive,then set up a whole new family with a single mother with three kids by God knows who. Disgusting. I'll never go into his mother's house,she was a witch to me and after I was faithful and loving to her son. She can stay away from me.
@shortluv700
@shortluv700 7 ай бұрын
😂😂
@sandygoddard7478
@sandygoddard7478 2 жыл бұрын
The narcs take us empaths for fools
@myblessings1000
@myblessings1000 2 жыл бұрын
👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👍🏾🙏🏽💜🥰!!! Excellent message as always. Thank You Sis Telsha🙏🏽😇🥰. No we are NOT alike... what was never considered is that I HAVE the capacity to cut you right off and never look back. The abuse was my closure. #IMGOOD #Goingon16monthsNC☝🏾🕊💪🏾👏🏽💜
@chrisgaddy8672
@chrisgaddy8672 2 жыл бұрын
The first thing I could've done was to analyze the signs and behavior she kept displaying. The second thing was go to You Tube and searched for answers, this would've saved me 5 years of hell. Had I known then what I know now, the first try would've been the last and final try. Thank you and all the life coaches up here given us knowledge and insight on this serious issue. It's clear now.... I'm awake and aware!!!
@joycebrown4776
@joycebrown4776 2 жыл бұрын
What he thought that I was foolish, but in the end it really was him that was the fool. Because never will he find another like me. All that he did he really dug a ditch for himself to fall into it. He did not realize who I really belonged to, it sure was not him. He didn't know that GOD had my back, that's way he had to move on, because I much better than what he could ever imagine.. and he was never was up to my standard and could keep up. Once you leave never go back to that, it's a loser. And you will never prosper with that at all. They really don't have anything and don't want you to have anything. Please do not let them come back. It's just like putting a rope around your neck hanging yourself.
@KittyLewinsky7
@KittyLewinsky7 Жыл бұрын
So true! They never paid attention to the part where we say we left our exes lol silly!
@baileyb8619
@baileyb8619 Жыл бұрын
“These backward walking giraffes with the curly wig.” I said it! I am dying over here. You are truly incredible. Hysterical and oh so brilliant. OMG that sentence took me out.
@gwendolynharper6048
@gwendolynharper6048 2 жыл бұрын
Yessss ,I saw that giraffe with the curly wig after 3yrs and 2yrs no contact he showed up at my brother's home going repass 🤬but God zipped my lips and as he rambled for 8 min hugging on me saying how much he loved and missed me ,he thinks of me ever day ,he finally has this moment and he doesn't know what to do with it blah blah blah ,and I looked at him like he had 3 heads and never opened my mouth and walked away ,I wasnt nasty but I wasnt nice he had the ordasity to grab my face like he was gonna try and kiss me ,that's when I backed all the way up and bounced ,he never once came inside to acknowledge anyone and give condolences, and had the nerv to say I was hoping I'd see you hear,so that's all he came for ,praying that I gave him nothing to feed on ,I feel good and it didnt set me back,in fact I feel stronger ,and ....he looked a mess and didn't smell nice ,Thank God I'm Free
@spiritualone1
@spiritualone1 2 жыл бұрын
Bamm !!! Queen. You know that’s Right✊🏽✊🏽✊🏽. All my past DV/Narc situationship I told him about didn’t prepare him to believe that I would never go back to him. Every situation prepared me to become stronger and stronger because I know unconsciously that I could never allow this. The Narc did his thing to me but I did my thing. No Contact. I know if I ever went back the pain would defeat me. Also if I went back I would lose my self Respect. You are on Point 🎯🎯🎯 Thank you Queen❤️🙏🏽
@Paykatdiamond
@Paykatdiamond Жыл бұрын
💯💯💯
@folasaderoyal
@folasaderoyal 2 жыл бұрын
Woo!! This is so true!! And they STILL never learn from their mistakes!! That part! (your voice) lol
@leniecelewis3415
@leniecelewis3415 2 жыл бұрын
I haven't had contact with that Narc for 2 months he sent me a text saying sorry for disturbing you but are you up am like it's 6:30 in the evening Boy Bye I didn't Answer the hoover
@aalexnavas
@aalexnavas 2 жыл бұрын
You need to block him..
@CoachCreesh
@CoachCreesh 2 жыл бұрын
@@aalexnavas FACTS!!! They know if they're not blocked, they have a chance. They're so sick!!! I even had to block the DEMON in my email; they're disgusting🤮🤮🤮 Now, he dream hoovers. They're so WICKED😡😡😡
@peacefaith560
@peacefaith560 2 жыл бұрын
IKR!! he sent me a photo of him at his moms gravesite...boy bye, she been dead 2 yrs!!! blocked n deleted
@christinalyles5619
@christinalyles5619 14 күн бұрын
They really do think everyone is exactly like them. One night after cheating, he came home and wanted to beat up a stranger he saw in the parking garage cuz he thought I had cheated with that guy 🙄. So happy to be free!!! 🎉♥️🎉
@snatchedinthe6ix
@snatchedinthe6ix 2 жыл бұрын
Let them stand on it & keep moving forward. 💯 Thank you for this video today.🙏
@pamtaylor256
@pamtaylor256 2 жыл бұрын
Girl, you're Preaching to myself and what I did that aligns with what I had to do. You verified that I took the right path. You've validated that i did the right thing for me. It was God's revelations that helped me to see 👀 🙏 the truth. I was hurt, but I'd rather be hurt than be in that relationship. We can get over hurt and heal, but misery is MISERABLE 💔. God showed I would have been MISERABLE. Thank you LORD.
@sharicorbitt2111
@sharicorbitt2111 2 жыл бұрын
You still speaking nothing but truths.🙌🙌
@aalexnavas
@aalexnavas 2 жыл бұрын
Beautiful video, you are right on the money with your content. These clowns never think you going to get tired of the mental abuse, physical abuse, etc.. My revolving door was shut 4ever 5 months ago..
@BriWells426
@BriWells426 Жыл бұрын
Wild that i have that same hoodie on today and I found this video. I remember plotting my escape in my head. I remember the night the ish hit the fan, I was so calm and composed when I told that person they would never see me again. It shook them to the core. That mask melted instantly and I saw what a sad, scared and traumatized child they truly were.
@aaronrichey583
@aaronrichey583 2 жыл бұрын
Exactly. All of her exes are still in the mix. She told me she was friends with all of her exes. The supply corral. I won't be there after this last time. Working on me. Thank you for sharing this!
@JoannA-sweetly
@JoannA-sweetly 2 жыл бұрын
Love your comments, duck with capes, frogs with helmets, backwards walking.....🤣🤣😆😆🤣🤣🤣
@TheTeaonNPDandRelationships
@TheTeaonNPDandRelationships 2 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@BillRWare
@BillRWare Жыл бұрын
​@@TheTeaonNPDandRelationships I'd kill myself if I visited a zoo filled with the animals you describe 😮
@sandrabrouwers5797
@sandrabrouwers5797 2 жыл бұрын
Hi Telsha. The Narc i was involved underestimated my intelligence until i show him who i am.I was studying him quietly and i was the winner at the end of his game.He taught he is going to milk my finances but was wrong obviously.I was the one playing cat and mouse games with him and never got a cent out of my pocket.He never knew my Love has clear glasses on lol and could read him like a book with me been the protagonist Hahahaha.The movie end up him been high and dry went he left me.I was soooo relieved when he pack and go.Shoooo i was a unqualified actress 🤣
@Noah_Noahh_
@Noah_Noahh_ 2 жыл бұрын
SAME SAME SAME🗣🗣🗣 that whole part🗣
@eye-leenlove
@eye-leenlove 2 жыл бұрын
Facts!!!! This woman is a Savior!!!!
@Cali001
@Cali001 2 жыл бұрын
Another whole Word… 🙌🏽 Com’on saints. Let the church say Amen 🙏🏽
@gsincorp
@gsincorp 2 жыл бұрын
MY Sista, My Sista, I must confess I’m totally embarrassed and completely hang my head in shame that even up till recently knowing that she’s with another supply have allowed myself to lead to crumbs of affection and the back-and-forth behavior to continue putting myself in a position to rely on false hope; I asked everyone out there who has experience this thing forgiveness for this foolishness that I’ve allowed!! from the bottom of my heart thank THE LORD for your channel and for you and the way you are relentless when preaching the gospel on standing up for the fee as well standing against these Narcissist! I’m completely broken and discouraged and I know I am, and rightfully so, indignant with the Lord silence and appearance that he allows these demons to really skip along happily through their viciousness! my experience has been absolutely horrendous! 18 years of marriage, serial and I mean serial cheater three children 13, 15 and 17. Truly DEMONIC, literally left us for dead! They have Absolutely no remorse , the intermittent reinforcement multiple supplies push poll back-and-forth, my GOOD JESUS...This Narcissis was raised and propped up as a princess I’m gonna tell you right now no empathy whatsoever no self reflection and the list goes on and on that’s the extent of her trauma although she claims she was molested as a Young teenager which I totally get.I have never and I mean never met anyone so treacherous so cruel so invalidating so emotionally verbally psychologically spiritually abusive not to mention manipulative to lengths that surpasses all understanding! BETRAYAL is her first last and middle names!! Oh, did I mention financial abuse?? She sabotage everything and I mean everything! I put her through school, I was still in the gap to maintain the household while she was fired from every one of her 10 jobs! Please forgive my indignation and anger but these people appear to have no souls the soul that they have are completely dull from having any empathy whatsoever! The thing that’s difficult is she’s amazingly beautiful and the exterior and very academically gifted! But I must say I am decimated because I’ve been drain of everything that I have and somewhat turned into someone I don’t even know at times I don’t mean to digress but not to mention the drug use and alcohol abuse I mean the list goes on and on and on so to sum it up being a single dad and having to interact with these people is heart wrenching! The most evil of it all is win they with the new supply acting all happy but then try to keep you around pretending like they may have an inkling of a change of heart and then only two and I mean the very next minute change up on you and treat you like you never existed😞😞😭😭😭😢😢😢😢😢😢
@tzee7945
@tzee7945 2 жыл бұрын
Ya not alone I've been there. It took me a long time to realize but it's so true like she said How can someone that don't value themselves value you💯
@gsincorp
@gsincorp 2 жыл бұрын
@@tzee7945 That’s right. You know what makes it hard is that These entities set up in church and clam they love God they show even Darren new supplies Waymore love and affection even though they’ve only known them like a matter of months and it’s hard to wrap my mind around that it’s hard to wrap my mind that someone can be so callous and soul remorseless unfortunately for my feeble mind it’s just so hard to understand because I don’t think I could ever be like that in my worst sinfulness
@SimplyMynz2683
@SimplyMynz2683 2 жыл бұрын
Gerardo you are worth more than somebodies last choice. If you can’t be the first then, that person can’t be your first. Even though it hurts…. keep moving forward. Cry about it and get into the word of God. He will strengthen you. Believe me it’s so many women that wants a good man including myself. So heal, empower yourself with the word and live to love again. Don’t fall for the same type of women and don’t hold back your love to another bc of your past. God bless you keep smiling and find your peace. 🙏🏾💜
@gsincorp
@gsincorp 2 жыл бұрын
@@SimplyMynz2683 God Bless you soooo much for your encouragement and prayers through my horrendous dealings with this dark person; gives me strength to crawl towards hope.. 🙏🏽🙏🏽❤️❤️
@jodypoe9643
@jodypoe9643 Жыл бұрын
Hang in there. Get therapy, it helps. I'm praying for you! IT WILL GET BETTER! Hang on to Jesus..even if its the thread on the hem of His robe!♥️
@latishanurse7643
@latishanurse7643 2 жыл бұрын
My past is behind me i living my best life with my God Very GOODBYE NARC Thank God for JESUS. I am not Going Back Forward Ever BACKWARD NEVER. Give them the element of suprise and LEAVE.
@aishamill1364
@aishamill1364 Ай бұрын
❤❤❤ That's why the narcissist is alone now I left and took my power back after five years I am not going back Iam rocking with Jesus 🙏 now Always have
@Samantha-cp1qm
@Samantha-cp1qm 2 жыл бұрын
This message was so on point, right down the line of my thinking today.
@csrrodriguez78
@csrrodriguez78 Жыл бұрын
I would pay, pay per view prices to watch how bad my narc would abuse the downgrade supply. He's insecure, low self-esteem, 5'4, fat and he laughed at me when I was crying over my ex to come back. Now I'm laughing from all the knowledge and knowing I was grade A and I'm healing and gone strong on my No contact.
@cherietheresa
@cherietheresa 2 жыл бұрын
I am thankful and grateful for receiving your message! Thanksgiving Blessings ❤
@imabeloveddaughter
@imabeloveddaughter Жыл бұрын
They come to steal kill and destroy, the be ravenous wolves
@dkskskjfndlddimitrapsychar1675
@dkskskjfndlddimitrapsychar1675 10 ай бұрын
I wish I would of see this video a lot earlier. You speak the truth and your powerful words of wisdom has saved my life. Listen to Telsha everyone, do not let those hound dogs back in your life, they're poisonous to to your soul...I thank God everyday for letting me see the light and pull away.
@2educateall819
@2educateall819 2 жыл бұрын
He thought he could get a baby with someone else after 24 years of Marriage. Divorce me for her. And when that didn't work out. I would take him back! WHAT? WRONG!! THAT WAS A VICTORY!
@TheLotussong
@TheLotussong Жыл бұрын
Don’t let them poison your future 😊? I am presently in what was once the future ….. by now I am so pickled and poisoned that even my shadow started looking blue these days
@pocahontas4583
@pocahontas4583 2 жыл бұрын
4:35 YES! This right here. One of the biggest breakdowns of our marriage was him accusing me of the most disgusting things that I would never even think of. I know people always say it’s usually the one accusing that’s actually doing it but I really could see it once I got out of it. Had a new woman lined up and was admitting it within days of me moving out, yet still trying to snoop and saying he “knows” I have a new man, which I didn’t. But he assumed I did because he got someone new. Even conversations, he’ll treat me horribly, get revenge and describe what he did and say I did it when all I did was have someone get revenge on me. Call me harassing me, but tell me to stop bothering him but he’s calling me. It’s just SO off the wall.
@kellyshepherd4425
@kellyshepherd4425 Жыл бұрын
Now am being stalked‼️ because he can't handle the consequences of his actions he did to me what the first narc lie about and wondering why I Don't Want anything to do with him
@heatherporter8386
@heatherporter8386 2 ай бұрын
You need to do a video about how they say they’ll never come back and it’s completely OVER
@truth8027
@truth8027 2 жыл бұрын
Yes M’am .. they got it wrong because the past is not coming back to poison my future..
@baileyb8619
@baileyb8619 Жыл бұрын
See, this still baffles me. I ended the relationship after 1year. He was stunned. But I never spoke poorly of any relationship…barely spoke about my previous, which was not terrible. But part of me wonders if I was an experiment, a mystery, because he knew I wanted to be married some day. He future faked that fur the whole year while picking fights, etc. no horrible words or physical abuse but just awful Demonic attached energy. I felt like a million bucks when I walked away and told him he wears a mask and is a liar. But this journey of healing and processing all that he did is brutal. I’m 5 months out, and no looking back. But again, this is all so baffling for several reasons. These entities are smart and have their own reason for each person I think…
@leandraherring1824
@leandraherring1824 2 жыл бұрын
FAMILY THESE FROGS NEED LOVE TO 😂😂😂 THANK YOU TELSHA 💖💖
@dmuzik3740
@dmuzik3740 2 жыл бұрын
“They miss the fact that you’re not even with the last person” 💯💯
@Phyllis-zx8om
@Phyllis-zx8om 5 ай бұрын
Thank God I found out long time ago that my husband was a narc, and I planned to get away from him, it took some years, he did not know that I gave it to God.
@leandraherring1824
@leandraherring1824 2 жыл бұрын
FAMILY I HAD TO REPLAY THIS VIDEO WHEN I WAKE UP AND GO TO SLEEP AT NIGHT THIS VIDEO NEEDS TO HIT MY SPIRIT AND SOUL LOVE YOU QUEEN TELSHA 💖💖
@charleneterrell
@charleneterrell 2 жыл бұрын
Request to submit this video to the US Supreme Court.
@WomanofGod-jc4cj
@WomanofGod-jc4cj 7 ай бұрын
CHECKMATE
@EffectivelyFree
@EffectivelyFree 11 ай бұрын
God always provides a way of escape gon keep getting it wrong
@kieshaspady4923
@kieshaspady4923 2 жыл бұрын
To Everyone Else Have a Happy Thanksgiving
@CoachCreesh
@CoachCreesh 2 жыл бұрын
Happy Thanksgiving 😊
@777JESUSISLORD71
@777JESUSISLORD71 Жыл бұрын
When i saw him eating oatmeal every morning for a year,i should have known my x was a creature of habits. Bad habits. They are repetitive ,and have no power to change for the better
@shirleygonzales5284
@shirleygonzales5284 2 жыл бұрын
Chinese crescents! That always makes me laugh. Thank you Ms. Beautiful Telsha!
@Flokix4
@Flokix4 2 жыл бұрын
I reject he's hoover for the first time in 3 years, i neverrr get so fast another hoover, 2 days later🤣. normal he be silent for two weeks or longer, when i was begging him to stay. Yess the game of chess is on. I win, end of the matrixx.
@sandramorris7864
@sandramorris7864 2 жыл бұрын
I sure did tell him too much cuz that was his ammunition to abuse me. but i had sense enough to leave .
@ninath13
@ninath13 2 жыл бұрын
Me too Bye 🐔🐔🐔🐔
@peacefaith560
@peacefaith560 2 жыл бұрын
yessss!!
@juliahaymer
@juliahaymer Жыл бұрын
The narcissist tried to set me up to fail a few days ago. I haven't seen him since we split 5 months ago. He is already engaged to another supply. I ran into him I just spoke and he wanted to start a conversation asking me how I wS doing. He talked about how his condition was getting worse with Lupus, then he asked if it didn't work out with the new supply would I come back to him. No I'm not and that shut that down. I will never put myself in the position to even speak to him again. I thought we could be adults but the narc is a narc. I feel stupid that I even talked to him now.
@alicejohnson8386
@alicejohnson8386 Жыл бұрын
Oooooh my sister, you nailed that I told that fool that my exes must have bumped their heads. So when he tried it he had me messed up! BIRD!!!😅😅
@Redeemed1983
@Redeemed1983 2 жыл бұрын
A huge thank you to you, Joy, and Solomon for helping to break the grip of the mind control and spiritual blinders from my childhood programming so that the Lord could make my mind free this morning of all the negative self-talk that had kept me bound for decades!!!!
@Ms.T-s3k
@Ms.T-s3k 9 ай бұрын
I refuse to be abused by anyone I was like that way before the narcissist he kept breaking my boundaries so that fool had to get gon fr 8 months no contact avoided 3 Hoovers when I'm done I'm completely done
@christineMaccallum-uo3qx
@christineMaccallum-uo3qx 4 ай бұрын
Whe you see a lion yawing dont ask if he is hungry 😂😂😂😂
@life-rethought
@life-rethought Жыл бұрын
mine was a 3 strikes you're out. in less than a year married. high financial stakes for me to pull out. but I excepted all the stuff in world was not important. and blessing began the day I ran away.
@1010QUEEN7
@1010QUEEN7 2 жыл бұрын
Happy Thanksgiving he never did anything right in his entire life
@goodmorningsundaymorning4533
@goodmorningsundaymorning4533 2 жыл бұрын
Backward walking giraffe's with the curly wig 🤣🤣 😭😭 🤣
@aprilhottinger
@aprilhottinger 2 жыл бұрын
Why is my x still delusional about us getting back together ?
@Flokix4
@Flokix4 2 жыл бұрын
Because they are addicted to people.. for your supply.
@CoachCreesh
@CoachCreesh 2 жыл бұрын
He's not delusional. He's binding you to him 🤢 REBUKE those word spells in Jesus name!
@weireffie29
@weireffie29 Жыл бұрын
I see it so proud of his recent new supply and arrogant with pride. Present a look of reality post honeymoon new supply very drama and turnoil on every end. New supply seen crying and depressed wandering what to do and reality of being used.A despare weak soul unable to handle this mad men and soul tied with frustration. A hope for the love bombing again but trapped.
@christineMaccallum-uo3qx
@christineMaccallum-uo3qx 4 ай бұрын
Four years sista 🙌🏾🙌🏾 hallelujah 🙏
@HuricaneChampagne
@HuricaneChampagne 2 жыл бұрын
the past with the narcissist! you can’t allow them to poison ☠️ your future 😊
@gabriellemaes4078
@gabriellemaes4078 2 жыл бұрын
Hi! I always feel like the world is a much better place when I see your face. Thank you thank you thank you.❤️❤️❤️🙏🙏🙏
@eringobragh7
@eringobragh7 Жыл бұрын
I divorced a Narcissist after 12 years, left a Psychopath and gave the last Narcissist the discard of his life! The last one didn’t know I’d already got rid of two pathologicals so he thought he was cocky playing his mess with me and that I’d never leave. I know the patterns. Not today Satan, not EVER!! All 3 had tried to come back into my life. No way baby, I’m good 👌🏼 I have a good memory. Those clowns think time erases everything. I hold no grudge though have wisdom 🙏🏼
@Lil-Ice21
@Lil-Ice21 Жыл бұрын
It took me 15 years to get rid of my ex narcissist that I have children with he was treating me really bad medically and he still tries to treat me bad when i don’t take his stuff
@hurricanemuscle
@hurricanemuscle 2 жыл бұрын
Amen sister
@Sarah-sq4zz
@Sarah-sq4zz Жыл бұрын
I always told him the reason you always get caught is because you always being sneaky with the stuff that you do I started watching his every move I knew when he was texting someone hell I knew when he was lying but I just let him keep talking so when the final discard happened I welcomed it because I knew that this time around was the final time next month makes a whole year of no contact of any kind whatsoever and it was the best thing that he could’ve done for me was discard me I thank him so much for it cause when I finally left I left for good cut all forms of communication I even got rid of everything and everyone that had some type of relationship to my ex narc friends family whoever it didn’t matter y’all was connected to him I removed them all from my life best decision ever
@Deakkon_and_the_Diplomat
@Deakkon_and_the_Diplomat 6 ай бұрын
SWOT analysis had me 💀 😂😂😂 Marketing 101
@JoannA-sweetly
@JoannA-sweetly 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you! Happy Thanksgiving and may God continue His blessings on your life & family! So glad this last narc tried me! God thru your & others msgs WOKE ME UP!
@marymccormack2317
@marymccormack2317 2 жыл бұрын
Yes so right.he never expecting me to run not walk. 😭☀️💯
@aprilhottinger
@aprilhottinger 2 жыл бұрын
Telsha girl your Matt fall lipstick looks so good and I love your casual look 🤩
@marklewis1884
@marklewis1884 Жыл бұрын
I’ve been stupid for years 😢
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