How To Love Yourself Unconditionally: 9 Real Tips

[@Chawlachawla-xg5uk]

1Accept ur flaws 2 own ur decisions-ap kisi ko khush nhi kr skte-sbse phle apni khushi sukoon prblm inlife peaceof mind 3 avoid toxic ppl- 4 always be those whose uplift u 5always do thngs that makes u happiness-logon ka km h apkk depress krna 6 forgive urself 7 believe in urself love urself 8 be kind with ppl

[@arshiailyas1120]

Every point is very good , ap boht acha bolti hu Allah jaza khair ata kry ap ko ameen

[@Qurat.haider]

Thanks a lot sis main bht depressed thi ab bht acha feel le rhi Hun Allah pak aap ko or aap ki family ko hameaha Khush or abaad rkhy hansta muskurata rkhy ameeeen

[@herfablife]

Thank you so much 😊

[@THE_RAYS_.]

Asalam u alikum!.just read Serat of Prophet Muhammad(peace be upon him)you will find answer of every single question.

[@habeebskitchenhyderabadivl3053]

Subhan Allah 👍🏼

[@syedbubby7899]

Hum sub ko aap ki vdoz sy seekhnay ko bohat Kuch milta hy MashaAllah Mola salamat rakhay aap ko sister Ameen

[@maliknoman3768]

Salam. Anti apki batain bht bht bht zyada achi hoty hain.M.pehlay bht strss lety thy apna khyal b ni rkhty thy.apko sun k mjay bht skoon mla ab apna khyal rkhna b start kr dya.Allah pak apko iska ajr zror dega. Allah apko bht si khushyan de (Ameen

[@Its_me.89]

Sister your vlogs are therapy for me ❤❤❤

[@herfablife]

I'm honoured

[@niazkhan4387]

Sabse pehle to apki ammi ko meri taraf se respect and salam...kasam se ajkal jo tips ap shear kar rahi hain ye sab kuch mere sath ho chuka ha or me kal bohat heran howi k apne bi yahi sab face kiya howa ha..aj jo apne 3 point bataya, bilkul meri ek jethani esi hi ha lakin abi ek month ho gaya k mene us se fasla barha diya ab zara sakoon ha mujhe, wo mujhe sabke khilaf bharkati thi or mujhse hi jealous hoti thi isliye mene usko avoid karna start kar diya ab wo khud hi mana ho gai ab wo nahi ati mere room me...zindagi me kuch log ager naraz hote hain to matlb ese log to me kehti hu k ye mere haq me behter ha zara sakoon hota,ese logon ko naraz hi rehne den...

[@humeraseemi3805]

Assalam alaikum ma'am, im from India, you are such a positive lady, iam learning so many things from you .Thank you so much❤❤❤❤❤

[@herfablife]

Waalaikum assalam! Glad you’re finding the content helpful. 💖

[@IksszAhmed]

Your words made my day ❤Allah tala apko jza dey sehat dey amen

[@herfablife]

Aameen

[@Sanakhan-bu8bd]

aapko sun kr meri ghisi piti zindagi me dheere dheere bahar aane lagi hai, m Sana tazeen khan from india

[@yasa3753]

sister your videos are so good and amazing and encouraging positive, I find your channel recently, stay blessed.

[@herfablife]

Thank you so much 🙂

[@hirahanif492]

Very nice mam apki video dekh k bht acha lgta hai positive vibes ati hain

[@vloggingwithzubi767]

AP ki video se boht positivity mil hn Allah pak AP ko sehat dy Ameen Suma Ameen ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@farhatrizwan9636]

Bilkul pasand aya mam. . . Keep growing 😘

[@herfablife]

Thank you so much 😊

[@kamranslifestyle1286]

Beautiful vlog may Allah bless you and your family dear sister

[@herfablife]

Thank you so much 😊

[@bawarchidunya]

Mujy buhat maza ata ha sun kar del khush ho jata ha main apny husband ko kahti hon itnay gor say tu ap b nahi dekhty jetni gor say ye urtin dekhti hain 😂😂😂😂

[@katchra]

Simple question? Why do i need to "love" myself? Why not love others?

[@farhanabegum6877]

Aslkm Mam👏👏👏👏 very much help full and inspiring 😂Allah aap ko or aap ki family ko humesh khush or kamyabe ata kre amen to Rabi... ❤❤❤ Dua me yaad rakhe jazakallahu khairah 🎉😊

[@saniairshad1647]

Ma shaa Allah Allah apko Ajaar Dy mjhy bht acha lagta hai ma bht Shok se dekhti hon ❤ Thanks a lot

[@herfablife]

Welcome

[@Nasir-pt3dd]

Meri piari aaaammmiiii k sath mai b aise bet k daikti ti ..... itna khush hoty ty hum aik sath..... ALLAH apki ammi ko sehat dy lambi zindagi dy . Meri piari ammmiiiii jan ko ALLAH janat ul firdos mai ala se ala behtreen maqam ata kry .. ameeeeen sum ameeen.... ye waqt pir nhe ata ..... buht lambi judai hai ... buht sakht ..

[@herfablife]

Thank you so much 😊

[@serene2121]

Inspirational,keep it up!

[@ayeshasaleem2105]

U r doing great job dear ❤ Very nice topic

[@herfablife]

Thanks a lot 😊

[@haniakhan140]

🥺🥺 Itne motivation milte he apk vdz se.

[@herfablife]

Jazakallah

[@asifahsohail7988]

"Main aap ko aik baat btaoon" is my favourite dialogue ❤

[@herfablife]

hehe

[@attiyaahmed4152]

Please make a video on how an Introvert can improve herself.

[@herfablife]

Sure

[@asmaasma290]

​@@herfablifeyes lazmi plzz

[@amazing56789]

I just love your vlogs

[@amazing56789]

Please daily esy vedios upload kare me ap ka 1 vl0g kahi dafa sunti ho

[@princessalice5633]

V informative

[@moonkhan12345]

Veryyyyyyyy good vlog May Allah pak bless you and your Family lots of love sister

[@herfablife]

Thank you so much 😊

[@sanashaikh499]

Thanks a lot baaji your words has motivated me may allah bless u

[@herfablife]

Thank you so much 😊

[@MahamMaham-m4z]

Ap bhout achi batytain batati hn jo ko sun kr hamat milti h

[@herfablife]

Thank you so much 😊

[@sairasaraf854]

Your vlogs are very beneficial.❤

[@HolloJanu]

Mughe acha lagta ha me time me apke vlogs dekhna sokoon se 😂

[@MuhmmadMahar]

I am Hina ma abottabad sy ho AP or video bhot achi a bhot kuch sekhny ko milta ha

[@rubinashaik1908]

Dear its good topic I liked it very much

[@meimoonaharshad5180]

Hello. So my baby sleeps for her afternoon nap and my four year old girl and me sit together for lunch and watch one video of yours together almost daily now. So while I learn plenty of things, my girl is always super entertained to listen to you and always apnay matlab ki baat nikalti hai. 😂 For example, when you gave example of be realistic with kids and don’t scold them when they don’t put cushions properly, she interpreted it like this: so she always making a house with my sofa cushions and I’m always telling her to put it back. And obviously I get upset sometimes due to inconvenience of the mess and all. So she’s like see mama, Erum aunty says let kids put cushions anywhere they like and don’t scold them when they make slide and trampoline of the cushions 🤣 And today from this video when you’re talking about ‘forgiving yourself’, she’s like see mama you should say sorry to kids when you scold them. It’s very cute how she finds something from every video and she even talks about it all day. Tells her father in the evening too. It showed me a side of her I didn’t know before. My video suggestion if it’s possible for you: please make a video with children as your target audience. Tell her directly about things like ‘help your parents’ ‘love your siblings’ etc etc. we as parents and teachers in school teach them all the time but I feel like in this digital era, they would love it more. Esp my daughter would love listening it from you as she’s so attached to your videos. Also today she was asking k aunty lives alone? I told her no she has her family and kids. She said oh they’re at the park maybe then

[@herfablife]

hehe cute

[@akifshazia1968]

VERY NICE ,IM GREAT FULL ,KEEP IT'S UP,BEST WISHES TO ALL OF U

[@herfablife]

Many many thanks

[@shllshockers9033]

Yess plz dear continue such vlogs😊

[@herfablife]

Sure 😊

[@bintehawa8424]

I love your videos love your positive vibes mera boht Dil krta aap se milne Ka recently shifted Islamabad from Karachi

[@Azraimran-d8y]

Beautiful vlog may Allah Blessing always you.❤

[@herfablife]

Thank you so much 😊

[@niharikadev9437]

Mam mere hubby bhi 3 yrs k liye bahar hain beta 9 m hai ek 3 m bade kids ki wajah se hum nhi shift ho pa rhe Mai apni 16 yrs ki marriage m akele nhi rehi but 8 months se kids k sath akele hu Delhi m as a single living pe ek vlog banaiye aur apna personal experience zarur share kijiyega Mai to sab sambhal chuki hu but miss him a lottt kabhi kabhi mental breakdown ho jata h

[@shinewithtammana5054]

I just watch ur 1 vlog randomly ... I subscribed you... Just love ur work ...

[@herfablife]

Thank you so much 😀

[@Ali-l5g9c]

Allha.ap ki Ami ko sahat wale. Lambe zandgi da❤❤

[@anumamjad5766]

Allah bless you ❤️ you make my day 😊

[@herfablife]

Thank you very much

[@Cute_girl7860]

jazaka Allah. mai ne khud ka khayal rakhna shuru kar diya h

[@herfablife]

thats great

[@mrs.virani1371]

Very useful talk...keep making such videos

[@herfablife]

Sure 😊

[@fareedanoman3220]

ہم دنیا میں اللّٰہ تعالٰی کی رضا اور اطاعت کیلئے آۓ ہیں آپی مرضی کرنے نہیں ۔اللہ تعالیٰ آپ کو دین کی اصل سمجھ اور دنیا میں آنے کے اصل مقصد سے آگاہی دے آمین ثم آمین ۔

[@memmonamasood8867]

Is ghr ke videos bhot ache kpron juton wali interesting nhe hoten then ye style bhot acha dakhne ko dil krta

[@herfablife]

Thank you so much 😊

[@zafarowr]

Assalam u Alikhum Kasi hain App Main apko boht fallow kerti hoon her tra se App ka volog bohat bohat bohat bohat bohat bohat bohat bohat achy hote hain MA SHA ALLAH 😍 se kal first time main ne comment kiya App ka kal ka aur Aj ka volog ne mujy major ker diya ka main Aap ko comment karoo All volog very nice MA SHA ALLAH 😍 Love from UAE 🇦🇪 ❤️

[@herfablife]

Thank you so much 🙂

[@junaidanwer3516]

Salam to ammi every point is heart touching specially last ponit informative vlog MashaAllah Allah bless u amin

[@herfablife]

Thanks a lot

[@saminayaseen4334]

I m so depressed in these days. Ap ki baton se muje bht motivation mila thanks Mam

[@herfablife]

Jazakallah

[@HomemakerMehak]

Just amazing 👌😊

[@herfablife]

Thanks a lot 😊

[@glamewithmomna3332]

Beautiful vlog may Allah blessings always with you

[@herfablife]

Thank you so much 😊

[@saniaayesha5745]

V good content.. JazakAllah

[@herfablife]

Thanks!

[@bjs6394]

U r right mam.. mere sath b yahi hua he.. mene jaldi me ek galat fesla kar liya jiski saja 3 sal se bhugat rahi hu... khus b nahi reh pati kyuki bar bar wahi baat yaad aati he k esa kyu kiya? kyu jaldi me fesla liya? na liya hota to aaj esa hota wesa hota... aapke vlog se motivate to bahot hoti but thodi der k liye.. kuch waqk baad wesi hi halat ho jati he... its very sad f me... 😢😢😢

[@herfablife]

AJ Ka vlog dekhna ap . It ll help u

[@bjs6394]

inshallah

[@sadiawaqar6506]

I new but bht aachi video h bht kuch seekhny ko mila

[@herfablife]

Thx

[@cookingtips2908]

وعلــــیکم اســـلام ورحمـتہ اللہ وبرکاتہ ماشاءاللہ ہمیشہ خوش رہیں ڈئیر سس اللہ پاک ہم سب کے لیے آسانیاں پیدا کریں آمین ثم آمین یا رب العالمین اللہ پاک سب کی ماوں کو سلامت رکھے اور انہیں بہت سارا سلام بھی

[@rasberryshomecooking]

kindly give description about irani products you bought!

[@rasberryshomecooking]

place or site from where you bought!💞

[@artsandcraftsbyzahida]

Beautiful sharing!

[@herfablife]

Thanks for visiting

[@pollytheparrot8929]

I wish I had a mom like you... Just luvvv you🩷❤❤❤🤗😘😘

[@haleemasaeedarathore6541]

Show your mums pic would like to meet her ❤

[@beenishnazir1028]

Plz make videos on how to start KZbin channel.. How to record videos, edits it in detail... You are an inspiration❤...

[@herfablife]

Sure 😊

[@shllshockers9033]

MashaAllah as always best vlog❤

[@herfablife]

Thank you so much 😊

[@shllshockers9033]

Point 3 is sooo true😊

[@herfablife]

🩶🩶

[@haseenabanu9512]

Hello, assalamu alaikum Maine na abhi kuch dino pahle hi aap k videos dekhna shuru kiye hain and I feel good thank you so much u r so sweet n kind achcha lagta hai aap ki baatein soon k jazakallah

[@herfablife]

Thank you so much 😊

[@MUHAMMADABDULLAH-ky5sz]

Best vlog..... U r so sweet....❤

[@herfablife]

Thank you 😊

[@sadafshahbaz2377]

Amazing Is topic pey bat kerain hum apna confidence level kis terah increase Ker sakty hain

[@herfablife]

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[@HifsaKhan-hw2gv]

Very nice sharing 👌

[@vlogistan1621]

Beautiful vlog may Allah bless u

[@herfablife]

Thank you so much 😊

[@afsheensultan1256]

Very nyce vlog, Mashallah

[@herfablife]

Thank you 😊

[@shamaillahahmed4357]

JazakAllah khair for such a lovely vlog

[@herfablife]

Thank you so much 😊

[@IksszAhmed]

Please ye zroor btaen ap itni strong inside and out kesy hain kab huin?apki baten sun k i feel a diffrent person❤

[@herfablife]

Watch today's vlog

[@shllshockers9033]

As always best vlog❤

[@herfablife]

Thank you 😊

[@BushraMumtaz-c6q]

Fvrt vloger heart touching Allah bless you

[@gulnazafridi4034]

Woooww such a surprise ...

[@herfablife]

Thanks for liking

[@handembroiderybysam]

MashaAllah beautiful vlog❤

[@muhammadehsan7440]

Enjoy ur time with ur mom👍

[@susham4211]

Erum please mujhy daily routine ki diary likhna sikha dain... Plz Mery Liye Dua karain..

[@khansafarooqi9048]

Great ma'am 💕

[@herfablife]

It's my pleasure

[@Cookingrecipes-sb9rf]

Very nice video 👌👌 well said

[@herfablife]

Thanks a lot

[@nasreenakhtar893]

Bohat achi baatain khartee hai From uk

[@herfablife]

Thank you so much

[@tdhkids5594]

Please share how to take care of money plant in water?

[@zoonioneeb9377]

👍👍👍Plzzz teenage girls k liay stylish sy top wghera ki dress designing videos b share krn .

[@herfablife]

Will upload soon

[@MAli-rh2my]

Sister your videos are so good and amazing positive and good feeling

[@herfablife]

Thank you so much 🙂

[@hiratahir23]

MashAllah very nice ❤

[@risebrothers]

Great❤

[@VloggerSyedaFatima]

JazakAllah sister ❤🥰

[@nazworld1.0]

Nice video Ma shaa Allah ❤❤

[@bawarchidunya]

Mai aap ka vlog daily Dekhti Hoon aapki nail polish wali story main ny apni daughter ko sunaeye Aur meri daughter ne bataya ke Us ki class Mein Ek Ladki nail polish Laga Ke I to class teacher ne us se poochha ki aap ny nail polish Kyon lagaiye app ny namaz nhi parhne hoti phir aos larki ny bola miss meri tabiyat theek nhi hai phir miss ny gusse se bola ky app kia nail polish laga kar sab ko batana chahte hain ky app ki tabiyat kharab hai........... App ny bilkul sahi kaha log har baat per app ko kuch na kuch Kahenge app ko bas ignore karna chahye aise log

[@herfablife]

Agreed

[@saimairfannasiri1211]

Erum, please make a vlog on toxic people you cannot get rid of, who scare the hell out of you, and who only want to bring you down. I specifically mean mentally, physically and emotionally abusive and torturing husbands who constantly threaten and blackmail their wives, who treat them like slaves and stomp on them like cockroaches. What if there is no option but to stay and bear everything? Like you die every single day, every single minute. Also talk about mothers in law, and sisters in law, who always openly or sneakily, make you look bad in front of your husband or/ and the world? Please answer and please explain in you vlogs. Thank you.

[@zilehuma1570]

Jo sisters in law apny ghr k bjay maiky bhagti hn unka b bnain vlog plz

[@sitarah]

so true, thank you for sharing ❤

[@herfablife]

You are so welcome

[@shainaslifestyle3267]

Asalamoalaikum sister MASHA'ALLAH beautiful vlog. May Allah bless u and your family best wishes from Saudi Arabia 🇸🇦

[@herfablife]

Thank you so much 😊

[@sarahsachedina1555]

Good content keep it up.😊

[@Nasir-pt3dd]

Koi achi c moisturizer cream bata dy daily use k liye dear

[@herfablife]

sure

[@raniabbas786]

mai kb se wait kr rahi dear apke vedio ka abhi just aaya 😊

[@herfablife]

🩶🩶🩶🩶

[@muhammadmuntaha596]

Lgta p biryani lover hn...❤

[@herfablife]

my son

[@style7651]

Jazak Allah

[@HassanAli-uf2zm]

Ma ap k sary vlogs dakti beautiful blog

[@herfablife]

Thank you so much 😊

[@Newme2023Tilidie-kf9pm]

Aoa sis I jus watched your video and even my Dadi lived until 100± years she used to apply so much oil on her head

[@herfablife]

That's great

[@memonagull408]

Lovely vlogs❤

[@herfablife]

Thank you 😊

[@sunithamenon3669]

I startedto watch your vieeo recently i watched some of them about meal plans and some abt how to put negative people away how you changed your way of life after 16 years . Next day o told my maid also then i called up my children who are abroad and tolf abt your video and today i sawvyour video of 9 points to take care of ourself was good and as i am alone and i dont have my parents and i was cheated by people whom i trusted that made me depressed and now as i get old we get more depressed and i miss my parents and i lost my confidence slowly i lost it now can you guide me plz plz as a good frined .i tried to start so many things but noone to help me plz

[@sarahsaif5462]

Very nice Irum

[@herfablife]

Thx

[@hayakhan927]

Api koi isy video bana lu please k jis ki Shaadi ho Rahi hu koi tips and tricks please api

[@herfablife]

Sure