Heritage Day | Sacrifices!?

[@zukinombembe795]

No Not at all sisi you aren't sacrificing anything I watch and I've watched all your videos you do all that you do because you want to and you love your husband together with his family, also as Sihle is saying your in laws never dictated or forced you into wearing a specific way except for the time you were a newly wedded makoti. Bayathanda ukuphuma ecaleni abantu kamnandi you are a free spirited well brought up child. Ndiyanithanda kakhulu bantwana bam. GOD bless your marriage

[@heathermbambeni529]

Giiiirl, do you...i love how you embrace our Xhosa culture, and i can tell you love it too, no one forced you. I'm sure those are white bitter people who are commenting such, We love you Kunge❤️

[@TembisaLuhabe-ww5yv]

This is your brand continue bcs its unique

[@bongiwesokopo402]

You are a reflection of how you grew up and how respectful you are my baby. Keep it up. Well said nyana❤❤❤

[@nocawe9990]

You are the best Makoti qha bby. You respect your myeni wakho's culture. Keep it up Kunge❤

[@nazleyleilalimbada-moodley3862]

Your understanding and outlook is great. Its veru clear that you both love and respect eachother. ❤

[@Siphosenkosi-z1x]

Bayathanda ukuthetha abantu. Do what makes you happy my love. uyathandwa ndim molokazana! 🥰🥰🥰

[@YouTuber11111]

Yes, traditionally a woman would adapt to the husbands culture. You genuinely aren’t “sacrificing” you are adapting as it is said the two become one, you have chosen to become ONE and you choose to respect his family just as your husband would have to respect your family when he visits your family. I respect you for fully taking in your new culture in addition to what you already know. 💕

[@thembenitshabalala2658]

You are not sacrificing anything wena Khungi. When a woman marries, they marry into that family so you do what is done in that family. People will have opinions about what they don't know, keep it up wena Makoti we country, I love it for you🎉

[@bevvanderheyde933]

I feel it's very important for you to do what makes you both happy. It's also being mindful and respectful of your husband's culture.Enjoy your journey together.its a learning curve and it's love in action

[@jessiemokwena1950]

Haters always showup when they start to see somebody winning, they will confuse you. Aslong as you are not forced or uncomfortable ❤

[@sesanamkhonto7861]

I am watching you on TV, keep it up Makoti, your channel is Educational more informative i have learned lot of things from your channel.

[@NokuphiwaPopi9945]

Ohh sthandwa sam❤ mna am proud of you for honoring and embracing your husband's culture, which has now become yours too. I'm certain that your husband does the same with your culture. It is clear that you're doing all that you do out of love and respect and that you are happy🥰 Losing yourself in a marriage has nothing to do with cross culture. Many women have lost themselves sama culture relationships. That was the expectation back in the days (referring to Xhosa culture specifically), when women had no say and decisions were on their behalf. I for one had to heal from experiencing that through my family and people close me so that I don't look for it in every marriage I see. We tend to get triggered as people and project our fears and concerns on others. You have nothing to worry about City Makoti. The concerns may not be about you even. Ndiyanithanda ke bantase kakhulu❤

[@thembikunene4531]

I certainly love you both for ensuring that ypu show the LOVE ❤, acceptable and Tolerance of each other and cultures. I would say Afrikaner and Black culture is not far different. So to name a few Afrikaners r into culture (identity, language), cooking food from scratch, femeli oriented etc just like Black people. 🙏🙏🍁❤️💞⚘️🌷💖🇿🇦🇿🇦

[@thinalengolo4224]

There is a huge difference between embrace and sacrifice. All you have done Makoti is to embrace. We love you ke sana. Please dont end a video without saying "umnyeni wam" 🙈😂❤️

[@mandumakhanya4979]

So cute❤

[@MogomotsiBodigelo]

Luv what u a doing and how much you value your marriage. ❤❤

[@PortiaNogemane-e3b]

I love how u imbrace ur husband culture ❤

[@bongiwesokopo402]

We love you babies❤❤❤

[@lynettenene9218]

Stop listening to people who don't know what they want do things that you want and like you are doing right at the moment embracing your husband's culture you're good makoti with brains to me I love you ❤💋

[@ThobekileMbhele-vf6bu]

I love u makoti u r so respectful❤

[@xinyorixahumba6307]

Dont overthink. You have a lifetime to learn about each other, and to grow in love for each other.

[@mapokienofotyela2336]

People will always talk Kungi subahoya sisi just enjoy your marriage no Mnyeni wakho

[@LumkaMfino]

Ohhh i love u sana lam with everything that u are n doing❤❤

[@lulamamahonono9965]

❤❤❤❤ people will always talk makoti don't listen to them you are doing great as a married woman you have done nothing wrong. In short, you love, respect, and embrace your husband's culture

[@nqabadiniso3098]

❤❤❤

[@JaninePersens]

Well said Sihle

[@nokuthulatiyo1109]

Don't mind those people Khungi u are now a makoti to the Xhosa culture and u part of us we luv seeing you rocking your husband culture, Don't even listen to negative comments we luv u sis Khungi

[@NonhlanhlaTshabalala-o9g]

Bangenaphi my daughter is married to Afrikaans too.❤❤❤❤❤

[@maggiemofokeng5270]

You are perfectly fine, respecting Umyeni wakho and his family. I see you doing out of love. The people who say that they are most probably not married or not following their status as a married woman❤

[@yeoworld]

Fascinative and instructive. 🎉❤

[@VuyaniCekete]

Go ahead Makati with yr husband.culture I like the respect u have 4yr in-laws ND u show that ulove❤yr husband ND her family ❤u darling what's yr new name of Makati?

[@TheCityMakoti]

Kungentando 🥰

[@VuyaniCekete]

@@TheCityMakoti oww my God u bless wena Angel do u know KUNGENTANDO is God grace I LOVE YOU VERY MUCH sthandwa sam u respect our culture more than us

[@sphokazingcongo2950]

People will always talk sana🚮🚮they bored me ke sana, do not mind them Babes do what you want to do for your husband home

[@tammyfray1477]

People clearly do not watch your content attentively enough because not once have you ever demonstrated any sense of loss to your personhood through your open embrace of your husband's culture. People with their comments must relax

[@vuyokazimaxhala2360]

❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@EuginiaKlaasen]

🎉🎉🎉❤

[@didirm8683]

😍😍😍😍😍

[@mphethilesithole9614]

Hhaybo bayakubhedela no sacrifices basile bafuna ube umakoti ongekho ryt emndenini yhu abantu

[@MissSlenda]

Don't mind what people are saying because if you decide not to wear traditional clothes, people should've said you are disrespectful and don't respect the husband's family. Just continue to respect your in-laws and wear your traditional attire because that's how a wife has to look when visiting her husband's family. Continue to be old school is beautiful and respectful leave that modern makoti's to do them and the rest of the people who got something to say leave them like that. I respect you for being a respectful white makoti to your in-laws because they should've said yeah you are white, and don't respect your husband or his family