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@Iamsujant2 жыл бұрын
SUMMARY: 1:17 Be Authentic 1:48 Don’t Be a Troll 2:20 Live in the Moment 2:40 Bathroom Wet Wipes 2:46 Listen More,Talk Less 3:08 Good Posture 3:47 Develop Positive Routines Ad: Tiege Henley 5:34 Be Kind,Show Respect 5:58 Dress Appropriately 6:19 Cologne: Less is More 6:50 Assume People Like You 7:11 Set Goals 7:34 Read 7:44 Bring A Gift 8:17 Cultivate Meaningful Friendships 8:35 Open Doors 8:41 Take Chances 8:59 Only Worry When Necessary 9:26 Choose To Be Happy 9:47 There are No Rules
@hespokestyle2 жыл бұрын
Cheers.
@Durandalite2 жыл бұрын
I like the "assume everyone likes you" tip; I don't think I've heard that before but it's definitely true. Reminds me of something I try to do as much as possible which is, when you greet someone, give a smile. A full one, with your teeth. I think it's helps set a nice comfortable tone.
@hespokestyle2 жыл бұрын
There you go!
@RealMenRealStyle2 жыл бұрын
Great video!
@hespokestyle2 жыл бұрын
Glad you enjoyed it
@Fellowrser2 жыл бұрын
Out of all the men’s lifestyle channels, I can genuinely say you are my favorite !
@theadsheep2 жыл бұрын
The fifth point importantly shouldn't be interpreted as "don't talk, listen" but as "first listen, then talk". To ensure effective and correct understanding of new information, it is vital to communicate and to try to formulate it yourself actively.
@hespokestyle2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for chiming in!
@adstix Жыл бұрын
I guess everything can be summed up into one word - CONSIDERATION! Consideration or empathy for others! It impacts almost everything else positively!
@hespokestyle Жыл бұрын
Indeed!
@faridmahnad49852 жыл бұрын
Look who’s back!!! P.S.: the glass is always full. Half of it might just be air, but it is always full.
@hespokestyle2 жыл бұрын
LOL. Love it.
@r.vazquez78802 жыл бұрын
Sage advice Brian. Many of those I learned in military service and they apply in civilian life as well. Thank you for the opportunity to comment.
@hespokestyle2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for chiming in!
@ollu42042 жыл бұрын
Hi Brian! Long time viewer but first time actually commenting Thank you so much for these rules. It actually made me think a second time about me and what i do on a daily basis. It might sound small but for me, this video helped alot more than people will understand. I actually wrote down the ones i felt like was something i can improve on, and considering the 20 points in this list, it was more than i wouldve liked, however now i feel like i got a headsup on where to start improving myself!
@hespokestyle2 жыл бұрын
Fantastic! I'm so glad to hear that and please don't be a stranger in the comments!
@jc-ux7sy2 жыл бұрын
Rule #1, never slap someone onstage
@MZiyadF2 жыл бұрын
Rule #2 Don't talk about my wife
@hespokestyle2 жыл бұрын
LOL
@hespokestyle2 жыл бұрын
Ha
@matthardman-zimmerman56252 жыл бұрын
Hold doors for men too. Hold doors for everyone!
@mrchaudhary.072 жыл бұрын
Every time I watch your video you engaged me in such a way that I feel like I'm having a live conversation with you. Please post videos most often. ❣
@hespokestyle2 жыл бұрын
I'm so glad! That's great and I really appreciate that.
@HSelasije2 жыл бұрын
Great advice, thank you.
@michaelkearney79232 жыл бұрын
About 12 years ago I decided that if someone asked if I wanted to do something I’d never done before, I would say “Yes”. Like going to a pro hockey game. In any case, I’ve never been disappointed by the new experience.
@hespokestyle2 жыл бұрын
Good way to be. Thanks for the comment.
@matejkincl Жыл бұрын
Watching this video at 17 really motivates me to take action towards being a high quality man.
@Larry-qz3es2 жыл бұрын
A gentleman should be wary of his reputation daily. It can take years to build and be destroyed in a short period by his actions and words. We all have to keep conscious of the people with who we surround ourselves.
@hespokestyle2 жыл бұрын
Always be vigilant. Thanks for chiming in, Larry.
@DrJLF2 жыл бұрын
Smooth transition on the video sponsor, very smooth!
@BadMannerKorea Жыл бұрын
It's tough to make and keep friends as you get older. I find that I have had many acquaintances, but very few stand the test of time.
@donalisgossipboy2 жыл бұрын
Open doors for everyone always look behind you it is the modern age after all
@hespokestyle2 жыл бұрын
Haha
@nikolai33772 жыл бұрын
Thank you Brian! Your videos have influenced my dressing sense and my personality development as well. I feel more confident and comfortable now. Huge respect! 💙
@hespokestyle2 жыл бұрын
Fantastic! So happy to hear that!
@Thiago-qt3tw2 жыл бұрын
Great Video! You and Demetrius Levi are the only lifestyle KZbinrs that I need to follow. Please keep the excellent work!
@hespokestyle2 жыл бұрын
Wow, thank you! Appreciate the support!
@danielduggan54052 жыл бұрын
Always nice to see a video from you, Brian. This some very good advice. Thanks, as always.
@hespokestyle2 жыл бұрын
My pleasure!
@anthonyieradi27532 жыл бұрын
Great advice and reminders for old-heads like me.
@cheng19912 жыл бұрын
Thank you, sir. I'm 31 years old now and I can say that most of these rules are very true. About the last one, there is an old saying in China:“闻道百,以为莫己若者,我之谓也。” Which means a man knowing a lot of rules&reasons to think that nobody is better than him. But in reality, there is always something to learn, and more importantly, one need to live by those rules and make them your own , not just knowing them .
@Javi_C2 жыл бұрын
As always, well said! Thank you Brian!
@hespokestyle2 жыл бұрын
My pleasure!
@outbrakeu Жыл бұрын
As always, great video Brian.
@canagil Жыл бұрын
Valuable content, cheers to you man
@hespokestyle Жыл бұрын
Appreciate the comment.
@teenoso40692 жыл бұрын
A gentleman opens doors for women and men and is a gentleman to both
@hespokestyle2 жыл бұрын
Indeed
@michaelrocha7382 жыл бұрын
Great advice, good video 👍 keep up the quality content. Love this channel
@ronm65852 жыл бұрын
Great rules Brian. Thanks for sharing.
@hespokestyle2 жыл бұрын
You bet!
@gabrielramirez28232 жыл бұрын
Great video Brian! 👍
@hespokestyle2 жыл бұрын
Many thanks, Gabriel!
@FrantzSaincyrАй бұрын
I just found your video today it s really good. Thank you so much.. So I see you don't mention any good perfumes.
@markgonzalez9108 Жыл бұрын
Love the Video, Great Content As Well. I also get Ralph Macchio Vibes From You.
@vajihullahbaig75042 жыл бұрын
As always, loved your video. Thanks Brian! Have a nice day :)
@hespokestyle2 жыл бұрын
Thanks! You too!
@Barrymorgan2 жыл бұрын
Thanks, saved for future reference!
@hespokestyle2 жыл бұрын
Awesome!
@clintony30002 жыл бұрын
One thing I hate is my joints get really sore sitting in one position for a long time, so I have to shift around and often cross my arms to make my back feel better. I hate it because I know I look closed off, even when I am really engaged in the conversation.
@hespokestyle2 жыл бұрын
Thanks so much for sharing!
@saizn9sr2 жыл бұрын
I love this channel; some great advice
@hespokestyle2 жыл бұрын
I appreciate that!
@rolandbujeiro422 жыл бұрын
Love your channel brother. Great content 👍
@hespokestyle2 жыл бұрын
Glad you enjoy it!
@savesnine2 жыл бұрын
Unrealted to the video but I'm extremely jealous of your VC with the guilloche dial :) beautiful grail watch
@hespokestyle2 жыл бұрын
Thanks!
@marcocastro59212 жыл бұрын
Excelent video, Bryan. Greetings from Costa Rica.
@hespokestyle2 жыл бұрын
Hello there!
@Quanic20002 жыл бұрын
I'd like to elaborate on #2 Don't be a troll. Don't be a troll who uses a fake account, with a fake name, and fake profile picture. Which ties with #1 Be authentic. If you have something to say, say it, and deal with the consequences. If what you say makes you feel you need a fake account to say it so nothing can be traced back to you, you probably shouldn't have said it.
@hespokestyle2 жыл бұрын
Well said. Thanks so much for chiming in!
@rafael-rossi2 жыл бұрын
I appreciate the Tiege Hanley approach, simplifying things for those gents that are not into skincare. However, I doubt there is real quality to their products against better brands that are more backed-up by use and research. And considering taking care of your face is worth the investment, I don't really see the point in TH besides the simple and straightforward approach for those that do not know routines for skincare.
@hespokestyle2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for the comment. Tiege has worked for me, which is the reason I feel comfortable promoting them.
@rafael-rossi2 жыл бұрын
@@hespokestyle Please consider doing an update on your current skincare routine/products. I started using Aesop based on your recommendation a while back. By the way, great content, keep it up. =)
@LilMonty2 жыл бұрын
Great advice
@hespokestyle2 жыл бұрын
Thanks!
@robday32962 жыл бұрын
A really great list.
@hespokestyle2 жыл бұрын
Glad you enjoyed it!
@RileyTech2 жыл бұрын
What brand is that shirt? Love the texture.
@alimahdavi22762 жыл бұрын
Nice video Brian! Thanks for the points. However I noticed some things; in this video you look a little bit tired, speaking slowly and drained. I don't know what's happened, but definitely take care of yourself... Take a day off, stay hydrated, sleep enough. It's always a pleasure to see you! Sometimes I watch a video of yours just to watch you talk, you're that levelof charismatic. Best wishes, Brian!
@hespokestyle2 жыл бұрын
LOL. Thanks for the comment. I deliberately delivered this video with this cadence.
@alimahdavi22762 жыл бұрын
@@hespokestyle Aha nice! Happy to hear that. Best wishes✌
@hespokestyle2 жыл бұрын
@@alimahdavi2276 Are you the same dude who said I look tired in my last video? Because I definitely was in that one!
@VictorLazarBdn2 жыл бұрын
Hi Brian. Thanks again for this super content. Following your 9th point, I'd like to know more about the shirt you're wearing in this video, absolutely beautiful! Where does it come from ? Best Victor
@hespokestyle2 жыл бұрын
Thanks, Victor. The shirt is from our shop: hespokestyle.com/product/denim-dress-shirt/
@VictorLazarBdn2 жыл бұрын
@@hespokestyle Thanks 🙏 Will definitely check it out.
@robbiemacgregor58002 жыл бұрын
I bet 3:07 caught everybody of guard
@hespokestyle2 жыл бұрын
How so?
@robbiemacgregor58002 жыл бұрын
@@hespokestyle We were all definately slouched in our chairs while watching
@hespokestyle2 жыл бұрын
@@robbiemacgregor5800 LOL
@DanielMartinez3162 жыл бұрын
16. Open doors for other people.
@hespokestyle2 жыл бұрын
Cheers.
@DanielMartinez3162 жыл бұрын
@@hespokestyle have a good day, sir.
@CanalOtro2 жыл бұрын
Bidets > Wet wipes
@yuvrajbirsingh39662 жыл бұрын
Who wants to see morning and night time routine as well as day in life? Maybe your new home tour.😉
@hespokestyle2 жыл бұрын
Good idea! We're still getting settled. Been focused on getting the studio set up.
@yuvrajbirsingh39662 жыл бұрын
@@hespokestyle Sir, congratulations on your growth. Thank you bear I’ve learnt a lot from your channel.
@VernonHuss2 жыл бұрын
I wish I had acquired wisdom at less of a price.
@hespokestyle2 жыл бұрын
It's sometimes the best way to learn.
@carltrotter76222 жыл бұрын
700th like :)
@oskartheme52332 жыл бұрын
20 just recognizes rules are contextual.
@hespokestyle2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching until the end.
@makistudio15922 жыл бұрын
👍👍👍
@hespokestyle2 жыл бұрын
Cheers.
@karthikrajah86802 жыл бұрын
first
@hespokestyle2 жыл бұрын
PEACE!
@aaronsung62082 жыл бұрын
I broke 3 of the 20 rules just by watching this video, as a youtube troll lying on the bed on my phone all the time until my eyes hurt. I enjoy being a troll sometime because holding onto the refine confident gentlement image all the time is hard, I need somewhere to release some of my inner trollness, and i would rather do it to internet dudes instead of real life friends.
@TheSultan14702 жыл бұрын
Hmm
@walterbishop36682 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣 be a troll or be trolled 😈
@dr.jokkrr70852 жыл бұрын
Third
@hespokestyle2 жыл бұрын
:)
@alexsagirov20202 жыл бұрын
Second
@hespokestyle2 жыл бұрын
Boom
@alexsagirov20202 жыл бұрын
@@hespokestyle that’s right . Thanks for comment. Have a nice day