Three Strangers Share Their Secret - Hey, Stranger! #1

[@tiah8630]

I really hope we get an update on the first guy. You can feel he's a sweet guy, but you can see the pain in his eyes. I pray he finds peace. I just want to hug him! Much respect and sending prayers to you!

[@user-gl6kz2qm1x]

I feel the same way . He is so strong and so so sweet and I want to give him the biggest hug. I have ptsd too buddy. And ist has gotten sooo much better through a lot of professional help. Now i enjoy life deeply. You are Not alone in this and if you get Help it gets better Step by step. How are you doing?♥️ please be Kind to yourselfs everyone

[@colleenthompson7709]

He needs to understand he went through so much in the military. He deserves help because he was protecting us. He looks tired in his eye's too. He does seem very sweet.

[@Mystik805]

I agree! You can feel it and if you look into his eyes confusion, and loss… I hope he heals himself. I give him healing blessing.

[@micheleroth1091]

You said exactly what I was thinking! I'm praying for his healing🙏❤

[@chrisgaddess3661]

I’m such a wuss compared to the first guy

[@akzu-_-2156]

the amount of times he says im sorry breaks my heart

[@ianmax5263]

I think there are so many people suffering after war. There needs to be more help after deployment. He’s afraid of being weak, but is suffering horribly. I hope he managed to get help

[@zvw444x3zefa]

Sending the man in the military peace and love.

[@bettebarbosa8130]

His name is Joey. He was a family friend, my oldest sister’s best friend. He would babysit my siblings and I. He was so positive and gregarious. He was called up to war. When he came back, he was not the same. He rarely smiled and didn’t seem to fit back in to his “normal” life. He moved to Texas and I never saw him again. Over the decades that have passed I would think of him, I can no longer pull up an image of his face in my mind. The first gentleman’s story brought Joey to mind. I wish him love, peace and light. ❤️

[@raythornton8578]

As a two tour veteran of Vietnam Please let the first man know that there is nothing to be ashamed of admitting that you have PTSD. I was diagnosed with it over 18 years ago. It’s a long road but it can become something that you can live with. And know that every combat veteran has your back. I salute you brother.

[@michelechapman9974]

I'm from a military town and unfortunately there are so many enlisted and retired military that do not get the help they deserve. I truly wish the best for this incredibly strong young man.

[@angielinajord3486]

I just want to let the first guy know.. I'm in NC and I'll just sit and listen to him. I'm a Nurse I hear these stories often and if he is able to respond. Let me know if you want to talk!

[@maryannhope8276]

God Bless you. I have the utmost respect for nurses. Godspeed ⚘

[@rubyrose3553]

I really hope the first guy gets to see and talk to someone about his experiences he’s so strong and it’s so unfair that he has to go back to the army

[@liha810]

Soldier should be allowed to furlough for PTSD.

[@jamesdeclan7538]

Yah it's disgusting

[@ericstranz]

I just wanna hug the first guy ! You can tell he’s making the best out of his situation bless his heart may he find peace

[@trippingwithpippy2317]

That first guy.. I wanted to reach through the screen and hug him and tell him how brave he is to open up about this. I hope he comes back on here in a few years with a success story.

[@sunshinelavender1663]

“Keep distance away from people… NOT because of covid” I felt this so hard. My heart breaks for him and so many other vets or people who have PTSD from a traumatic experience. Since the pandemic I feel anytime I tell people “I don’t do crowds” they all think of Covid

[@yellowbmblbee]

Thoraya's an empath...a spirit of love and light in human form. Her intense reaction to his story LITERALLY hit her as though she witnessed it herself.

[@Sharklee4]

What's interesting is how he seemed much lighter as she took on his pain, as though it was being lifted from him.

[@LaureninGermany]

@@Sharklee4 finally someone who understood him and didn’t think he was weak.

[@autumngrace8541]

More HSP high sensitive person, and empath is just one of those that come with.

[@heatherwright3953]

As a military veterans wife I will just say look up how many military members commit suicide I was on a base that showed thos numbers in spades. Yes they are also not able to get a tatoo unless its from a shop the federal government has on list that has been apoved . They can not get into a bar fight because it is destruction of GOVERNMENT PROPERTY if they do they could get in trouble. If you look deeply enough you will find out that they had or have a old law that said that they are only able to have sex in the basic missionary position . They are put threw training in ways like but not limited to gassing them with no mask to see how long they can handle it and how well . But what gets me is that OUTSIDERS are not using the tools of the net to really talk about all of this . Yall still have no idea what these men women and yes kind of children go threw when they become uncle sams grunt. Let them come for me I have no more to lose . Once you sign on the line they OWN YOU . Ask a active duty military member what they think of there " leader and chief ." This is the words in some order of there choice that you will get back . " I can not respond to that at this time .Which if you look into " double speak " and k ow our government almost mastered it also know it leads to power yes but a VERY SICK kind of power . This female equity mess in the military is going to lead to a female and male driven draft some day soon because they do not have there quota of human shields . People can get angry but at some point facts must be faced . Once you sign on that line you never stop being in the military its like a mob. You can get out on a mental but it takes a lot and you will be treated more or less like a prisoner you will not be allowed to vote or have a gun . They take away your privileges like a bad kid . I told my husband about this youg man and he said his advice as a person that served for 10 years in 2 branchs because his first love USMC told him after he got out the first time that they would take him back but he would have to start all over so he went to the army and they left his rank and never put him infront of the promotion board until the very end of his time by then he was unwilling to do it again . He is at 80 % now because of his mental mess they made . His advice is report everything see doctors its the only thing that will save you later but get ready for the words like " Dust the sand out of you lr a$$ and .ove on pu$$y . Fine go see the med . Your pathetic. " He went threw it all and a bag of chips . The tears are very real for him and all the billions of the other brothers and sisters in that very inhumane mob . They pushed the mob out of control and adapted some to them because they did not want competition. I hope the young know document it all so you have proof to use against them later when you apply for your percentage later in your life. You will have to . Also watch out they like to make dependents medical records just go away. It is not so easy with there properties records. Keep documents yourself. To those thinking about joining I say go to a VFW and talk to these people freely first . You will hear grate pride fear anger and hate . All for good reason . Go to anyone but a recruiter. They are just sales men. Eyes open mind watchful and watch your head and neck back to the wall it will not hurt you as much as your bosses have and will . I just wish more old veterans talked more to the young . Then maybe things would be different but I do not think so because before the age to sign up people are to young and think they know everything then facts set in but by then it is to late .I am so sorry for your pain sir.

[@autumngrace8541]

@@heatherwright3953 What is sad that people get in not knowing that they are not valued individually, matter of fact, once you wake up to the truth of who you are, you wouldn't join. Those that are in do it for their own needs to be met, and or believe they are doing something for the country, but when you realize that you are just a tool,and could easily be asked to go against those you are there to protect. Things are changing and it isn't yesteryears energy and maybe never was, just a delusional perspective we chose to believe.

[@sksk-bd7yv]

To the soldier and the saint: Thank you. I have ptsd from medical trauma. Last night the fever and pain came back. These videos have always made me feel calmer. To hear the soldier describe ptsd, how hard it is to get help... When the world is only fear, threat and danger - how can I let my guard down? How can I speak about what I fear to those I fear? Seeing this make it easier to talk to those doctors. Thank you.

[@tonymendez6640]

It absolutely broke my heart seeing the first guy struggle SO hard the entire time just to talk cause he is so rattled with Anxiety.

[@peepeeweenies1440]

I couldn’t imagine. Genuinely. To be on edge everyday is so tiring, I can tell. Fear is nothing, until it’s constant.

[@windiespraise]

I almost drowned at 7 yrs old and a man appeared from a distance away, got me out of the water, set me down on the sand and walked away. Never saw his face, and he never said a word.. and I never got to say thank you. I looked back at my family and they were carefree as per usual with no me in sight. Thank you sir, whomever you were, I appreciate you sooooo very much to this day and will never forget you. ❤️💕 Thanks Thoraya!

[@testy5098]

I was a sickly child and my mom would take me to KFC after my my doctors appointment. We went and ordered a meal that came with a toy but they ran out of the one I wanted and got a set of playing cards instead (pokémon at that time, this was in the 90s haha). I was disappointed, but a few minutes later the cashier who took our order came up to our table and handed me the toy from their displays and exchanged it with the playing cards which made me so happy. I will never forget that feeling. I never knew her name but I was glad I was able to thank her. I was a kid and it meant a lot to me. Because of her, I am reminded of how kindness really goes a long way and I'm always set on passing it on to honor the kindness she showed me. ♥

[@paulverhage5625]

I get why Thoraya was crying when talking with the first stranger, the soldier with PTSD. He exudes so much gentle, honest kindness. He's obviously been through so much and still manages to keep going. I hope he finds the peace he so richly deserves.

[@realDesertRat]

First guy - doing what you did here was brave af. Getting that out of you is exactly what you needed. Hope you're finding peace today. Love you, brother.

[@mallieess]

I couldn't stop crying for the man at the beginning, I watch this and and get angry that the government justifies doing this to people

[@qwandary]

I can't believe they won't let them leave when they have PTSD, probably because they all get PTSD, but that's disgusting. It's allowing them to be mentally harmed beyond repair and maybe dying. Fucking vile. He's got such a long contract too.

[@thefriendlypsychopath3894]

You do know he volunteered to go to a foreign country to kill men, women, and children, to steal and control that country's resources on behalf of the American government, he knew what he was doing. That's what he signed up for.

[@avatargrady6045]

@@thefriendlypsychopath3894 it’s not like that for some people man. Keep an open mind. I have friends that didn’t really have a choice to go to the military. These are human beings too, your no better for talking down to him.

[@thefriendlypsychopath3894]

@@avatargrady6045 So you're telling me I should feel sorry for him for killing men, women, and children and stealing their resources because he was forced by the government against his will to do it? And I'm no better for calling him out on his decision?!

[@avatargrady6045]

@@thefriendlypsychopath3894 Nah u can believe whatever u want. I’m just pointing out he’s just as human as you and me and deserves just as much respect. We don’t know what he did over there, it’s obviously not anything he wants to do more of and he seems more than willing to turn over a new leaf.

[@vani519]

It is not just “opening up to a stranger”. It is HER. She is so special. And I wish that she would someday know that she is changing so many worlds. And to the first guy (I am commenting while I’m at this part of the video), those who look “down” on ANY mental stuff that is going on in anybody, are NOT RIGHT with their opinion. They might better get informed and educated about these things. Thank you.

[@FireBros33]

To the first man in this video, you are not weak. You are probably one of the stronger men ive ever heard speak in my entire life. Opening up about stuff like that, is insanely hard to do. I appreciate that you shared. I hope you seek out the help you want to, and I hope it’s more than you ever hoped for.

[@sheispower4595]

The constant apologies🥺💔 I'm so sorry. I hope the first guy feels much better and is in a better place😭❤️

[@elizabethwoodyard8241]

This is absolutely heartbreaking that he's so stuck in fight or flight mode I can feel his anxiety through the screen! I really hope that he got professional help and he feels safe again.🥺

[@jazzminelizabeth]

That soldier is so strong, I can't believe he doesn't cry. Wow. It's hard not to cry for him.

[@fernandaaguilera9053]

The first guy broke my heart, seeing 10 months later hope his well and almost back home

[@chickenmama823]

You can see the pain in his eyes. This just broke my heart ♥. I really hope he got some help.

[@lisahinton9682]

It's been two years since you had the first guy in this video. I am just now watching it and I am hoping the two of you kept in touch. I am stunned he does not cry in this video - I certainly cried for him, yet he doesn't cry telling the story of what he's experienced. What an incredibly strong man, and I so hope he has sought out counseling, and is doing better nowadays.

[@esthermacharia5001]

The second guy was such an icebreaker from the first one. Wiping my tears and laughing.His voice...so calming. Love and hugs to the first guy. I really hope he found help. He's so brave.

[@rebeccastandard7922]

The first guy is so sweet. I pray he gets the help that he needs and finds someone that he can talk to about what he needs to get off his chest. Lord give him strength!

[@raquellefloch5805]

The first guy just deserves a non stop line up of meaningful bearhugs....I just hope all the wonderful truths that Thoraya told him ....help him thoroughly! Such a sweet human being!

[@sylviacarlson3561]

I hope this first man talks to his family about his PTSD. It's important. He's a lovely man and Thoraya is such a wonderful woman.

[@BonsaiRaygun21]

My dude at the beginning was hurting. I just got out after six years as a medic, I can relate. I know I should go to therapy or talk to someone, but taking that first step is hard. I never would have even considered it when I was still in, he's right when he says that you get shit on for going to behavioral health. Hope he gets out soon and can get to a place where he can talk to a professional

[@amber76OH]

thank you for your service. I'm not a fan of government but I'm the BIGGEST FAN of all the men and women who give themselves to serve our country. it's one of the most selfless things, so brave. my heart goes out to you, and I hope you have been able to speak with someone to help alleviate some of the weight you carry 🙏

[@DestinysPookie]

I'm binge watching Thoraya's work and the first man's story made me so sad. I've been crying throughout videos, but the crying through his story is different.

[@RaezofSunshine86]

It's so horrible what our veterans and soldiers have to go through and the things they see and have to do. I can't believe they still make you finish out your contract with a metal disorder. Horrible they have to be injured to be discharged. I really hope that youngman gets the help he needs and deserves. 😢

[@petra4950]

I hope the first guy got the currage to seek help with a professional therapist ❤ I hope he continues talking about his feelings because I believe that is the most powerful thing you can do for your health.

[@sheispower4595]

It's Thoraya getting so emotional for me 🥺❤️😭

[@Nxyphoenix]

Thoraya is definitely an empath , angelic heart as well. This type of thing happens to us a lot , strangers telling us their life stories etc and feeling comfort . It’s great to show this in focused way though, because it also shows a lot of people are a lot more open, genuine , capable and relatable to eachother , despite outside differences. Beautiful and powerful.

[@MarmarValenz]

Ugh the first guy just touched my heart ❤️❤️❤️ those grey eyes just made me wanna hug him and make him feel better 🥺

[@shousharnyxxxx3590]

That young man needs to say NO.... a devine being and someone who is dearly loved and needed

[@ItsFreshItsAnne]

Did an update happen?? Anyone else feel a deeply powerful connection between these two?? Absolutely unadulterated beauty. Thank you for being willing to be vulnerable. ❤️

[@alabamajenny8751]

Dear sir, you are so strong! PTSD Is nothing to be ashamed of. We all have things, but what you went through was no simple feat. Thank you for your service. I hope you get the help you need. Start with a Doctor or Therapist. I have a therapist! It is ok, it is a normal response. Please know you aren’t alone. You are home, safe and sound. Please get help. It is so helpful just to talk. Just get it all out! Thank you 🙏🏼 Im so sorry you feel the effects of PTSD. God bless.

[@1699ArunjeetSINGH]

Nice words

[@solarmoon8781]

You'd be a great therapist, thank you for doing these videos 💗

[@Secjdd]

The first guy, made me cry 😢 god bless and thank you for your services❤️

[@lindboknifeandtool]

One thing about combat veterans is that they’re friendly and love to talk. I’ve talked to a few. Very intense. You can tell they can’t find anyone to relate to usually. They’re hard nuts to crack, but carry some serious humanity.

[@joycejones5881]

War forever changes! He has the help he needs at his finger tips, he needs help taking the first step to see a doctor and a therapist. Keeping secrets is a time bomb. I pray he comtinues to open up.

[@pinkeeluvr]

Sending love and prayers to the first guy stationed in North Carolina. You can tell he’s a guy with a beautiful soul. I love his sweet and nervous laugh. Just looking at his eyes I can tell he’s so sweet 💖

[@Monii_btw]

my heart completely broke for the first guy. you can see hear the trauma and pain in his voice. there’s countless soldiers who are experiencing the exact same thing, yet our government won’t fund and give these soldiers the resources they need. Thoraya handled it so well and she navigated such a painful conversation for him with so much grace.

[@WhiteHope47]

I hope we’ll get some news on this brave young man and how’s he’s doing.

[@thisismystorykenya9243]

Don't worry thoraya, people cry because they care, It's really lovely what you do and it has inspired me big time

[@averagej8732]

I wish I could do this. Something as simple as a conversation can change a life. I love this.

[@itsmeangelica179]

Me too

[@mekawwi]

Thoraya, Thanks for making the world a better place. You are so kind and I love you 💐

[@moohHa22]

Oh my gosh, I’m only 8 mins in to the first story and I so badly wanna give him a HUGE hug!! You poor sausage! (A British affection, in case you’re not sure what I’m saying lol). You are not weak!!! It is completely a human response to be traumatised over living in those conditions. I’m so sorry you’ve not got anyone in your life to support you, you’re wounded and need healing. I’m so sorry you’re struggling, I know I’m a stranger but I’m so proud of you for carrying this weight on your back alone. You are not weak, you’re human and hurt. Please stop apologising for having your feelings, there’s nothing to apologise for. All the warmest concern and well wishes to you, my friend x

[@wickedbunny2020]

The first guy is amazingly strong. It’s been a year and I hope he is safe,healthy and healing because anyone that has had ptsd I have cptsd or something idk but nonetheless it is SO hard to go through. Sometimes it’s unbearable but I just smile

[@lulu8803]

I’m still waiting for December to come around so he can join the podcast again and tell us more about himself and his life. I really hope and wish he is getting better. Stay strong! (For the first guy)

[@ralitsamladenova]

Literally came back half a year after to check if there is any news, I hope everything is fine 🤞♥ I hope we hear from him next year

[@lulu8803]

@@ralitsamladenova I hope so too😭😭😭

[@anonymousjedi7063]

Everyone needs to cry now and then.

[@itsHeatherKay]

I just love this guy. I’m going to pray for him to find peace. We love our service members!

[@Samuel-ke1wu]

To the first man. Thanks for sharing. You are a very brave man. I grew up my life around men with your eyes. You know what I mean if you read this ever by that. Not that you need to be told it but thank you for all you sacrificed and those next to you sacrificed. Even when you didn't have to but you did. We're honored you walk among us. Even makes me feel safer people like you still exist.

[@joshuagriffin4375]

You can see the extreme pain in his eyes. Our country has not only failed it citizens, but they way they fail the men and women who protects us is sickening.

[@andregourdine8353]

The VA has programs to help the young man. I am a vet and was in the 1st Gulf War. I have been diagnosed with PTSD as well. Being in the the military you are required to be strong. Him being on guard all the time is a symptom of PTSD. I also am that way and it is tiring. Having to keep your head on a swivel at all times is exhausting. Even downrange or at peacetime or at home it doesn't go away. You are meant to to be called weak if you seek help. You're supposed to suck it up and press on. But there are resources that he can use for help and he won't be looked at as weak. A lot of military people suffer from this.

[@BIANCASHEKO]

Yo this made me cry when you said I wish I could make u feel better I felt the same way

[@ramyasharath8952]

That was very emotional But being at a stage where you cannot speak for years and you pour it to a stranger it's a great relief... I really wish the first guy seeks help and lives a better life... you are not weak you are the strongest...

[@artteacherforlife]

I know that this video was uploaded in May but I am in North Carolina and my husband is currently going through PTSD therapy. There is a specific therapy called EMDR. It has gone surprisingly well. I can see a slight improvement in my husband. I have names of therapists that do this therapy. The way it works is events are pulled up and the therapy allows the patient to experience those events but not view then as being still in these events. Let me know and I can give him some names.

[@RoadWarrior48]

Bless you and your husband’s journey! Hugs!! Former Vietnam and police officer wife! 💙💙💙

[@kanthraj9735]

❤️❤️🙏

[@Groundedsquirrel]

EMDR works. It's amazing.

[@ITSG2370]

TMS works more greater and has very minimal side effects

[@katherinemcveigh118]

That first true man of strength and power. Bless your soul young man.

[@relife2932]

Thoraya…thank you for this one! Thank you for connecting with this man on the emotional and social level that you did. You allowed yourself to be a conduit for his healing…for the beginning of my healing. I’ve been suffering from PTSD from growing up in a home full of domestic violence. I literally FELT this interview. All praises to the Most High but also praises to you for being who you are. Thank you. ❤

[@PHE4_]

Thoraya is doing amazing work.

[@Jewelmind]

Yes, she is amazing

[@adenabroxton1716]

My heart goes out to the first person, the soldier. He is strong and courageous! I’m a therapist and my previous clientele was working with military personnel and their family members. I wish there was something I could do to get rid of mental health stigma. The labels and politics don’t help. It’s why I have a love hate relationship with my profession. Despite, his previous experience(s), I hope he seeks professional help and gets the support he needs/deserves. 🙏🏽 Thank you for your service.

[@alanaaites8292]

I know exactly how the first guy feels. Although smoking and drinking isn't a good way to handle it. I hope he gets help. He can get medically discharged for PTSD, but the other guys would treat him badly until he got out, but he could definitely get a honorable discharge. It's hard for anyone who has been through trauma because the normal people don't understand.

[@QueenB2022]

I am glad the second stranger made me laugh after crying 😭 from the first guy. What are a good arrangement 😍 I hope the first guy comes back felling much better. I hope his heart heals from all the traumatic events he faced 🙏🏽

[@najrenchelf2751]

Sharing joy is double the joy, sharing sadness halves the sadness... ...talking about your issues with literally anyone is a form of therapy! *so long as they are willing to hear you out :)

[@freespiritwithnature4384]

PTSD is very real. Thank you. I hope he gets help because nobody deserves to feel that pain.

[@mommadeenaa]

Hey have you kept in touch with the first guy? I remember when you first uploaded this, and actually I thought about him the other day that’s crazy this popped up..

[@RM-di5bp]

You are amazing Thoraya for doing this!!! I hope this sweet dude ( 1st person in the podcast) will find his peace♥️ it is absolutely disgusting he had to go back ….

[@vanessa6236]

Awwww I'm crying. Your crying. No you are crying were all crying. But seriously this is some real ish

[@mariianiitavanegasvillegas1999]

The first guy, my heart, I feel for him, salute.

[@roseodonovan6979]

I got chills when he said there's no way out for people with PTSD. It's extra sad that I have a hunch the way his peers reach to therapy has something to do with the military branch he's a part of. I've heard that certain branches are supportive and take mental health very seriously. I hope he finds peace and more open minded peers.

[@JoaoCosta-ly1sw]

I’m at a very lonely place in my life right now and watching these videos help. It’s like I can connect and befriend these people through their stories. Humans really are amazing creatures, so much depth goes into each individual life it’s crazy.

[@1kitts]

To the first guy, God's got you! Blessings and peace on your journey.

[@ndobbins58]

His story reminds me of my son. I will pray that this young man will get help. Crying is a hard emotion but it helps heal. I love your channel!!

[@CathyHautz04]

Thoraya you are so kind and beautiful person to this man who really needed to talk and needed a friend. I pray this man finds help and peace. Love you both 😘

[@innerpeace1979]

It's almost the first person's birthday again and I hope you guys get to meet, talk, celebrate and heal a little more soon!!

[@christinemathies7236]

Great job giving strangers a voice. I love your work and look forward to watching more!

[@azzzrafr537]

Can you PLEASE update us on the first guy

[@Nicole-yk4bu]

Not enough comments about the second guy. What a great story from both of these people, but the second one really stood out to me. Pay it forward, always. Good deeds come back to you, like he said. ☀️

[@Jewelmind]

Yes, he has a wonderful spirit, good humor

[@shikij8337]

I loved the way Thoraya can't control her emotions totally coming from the strength it took from the first guy in the military suffering from PTSD. The fact that he has to be ok in a not so ok space that causes him PTSD. It was hard to hear that he still has to serve despite his condition. The fact that he could be so brave to step out of his anxiety, by totally crushing it in that moment of his segment literally revealed the giant of a person he really with all the unbelievable strength it took to bear all of that out. I really hope Thoraya stays connected with him, and that her reaching out makes him feel like that is a safe space to respond. Light & Love to him and all those who need it. God bless 🙏🏼

[@anonymousjedi7063]

It's so odd, I can feel the sincerity of these conversations. Like if I'm actually feeling some of the feelings that is in the air. Trippy. Almost as if there is a spirit that reaches out to me through the phone and it grabs me inside. I can't explain it. It's very strange indeed.

[@olivianeumann8443]

this comment ✨✨ i feel the same way, like your soul can’t help but connect with it.

[@milkahwambui4693]

He is a strong man a and it may not seem okay right now, but it gets better. I pray he gets someone to talk to professionally. Its not easy to get a therapist but once you get a good one, its worth it. Thank you for sharing.

[@merg1011]

I didnt know that the first guy is required to go back even with his PTSD. I hope he is well but its really not fair. Let God keep you safe wherever you are.

[@AM-qr4ys]

I am going to pray for the first guy. My heart breaks for him - may god bless him. T you we’re beautiful the way you spoke with him. You are perfect for this. ❤️

[@bodhindia]

I hope that the first stranger, the one from the military, reads this. To feel the pain with the loss of someone you cared for and then to be sent back without any support, without any therapy is wrong. You deserve more than that. I hope you know that after this video you have thousands of people sending love and support your way. But, as a survivor of a lot of trauma, I encourage you to find a therapist and heal your self. Big hugs.

[@naomihernandez4823]

Thoraya has a beautiful soul.❤️ I love her videos.

[@biggino4476]

I came back and I hope this guy is out of the military living a happy life. I would love to know what's up with him. He is a strong being. I also hope he seeked help. I've never seen someone more broken. Keep it up king, you have all my respect. And the fact that he didn't break down to tears. From now on, whenever I picture the percect example of a proper male, I'll always picture this guy. What a fucking unite. Salute brother.

[@qwandary]

I'm only 5 minutes in and I'm crying. The first guy's pain and anxiety is so strong and he's fighting so hard to get his words out. He's obviously been wanting to share these things in a safe environment for so long; he's going right in there, which will be great when he can get a therapist. He deserves to feel safe and not hypervigilant, and he deserves to feel strong, he also deserves to be/feel weak without it being a bad thing. We are weakest when we are fighting the hardest battle and showing our utmost strength. I don't think strength and weakness are opposites in exclusion to each other, I think both sides are part of a balance, like Yin and Yang. You've shown your strength more than enough, now you deserve others to be strong for you, and I hope you get that good sir.

[@kajixp]

Hi Thoraya. I find it very admirable how open, respectful, and kind you are. It is very difficult finding the right words when somebody tells you about their struggles and hardships. Especially with the first guy you were so respectful and calming. You found exactly the right words to reassure him and help him feel comfortable, and when you weren't sure you always asked him, if it was okay what you were saying. I have mad respect for you and like I said, I really admire that about you. I appreciate you and what you do. Keep up the great work! Much love, A Stranger ;)

[@kitkatzen4830]

Rewatching, and there’s still seven and a half months to go before we see the first stranger again. I hope he’s doing well right now :(((

[@amber76OH]

I just watched this episode for the first time and I've never been so happy that it's almost December. I sincerely hope he's OK and that he'll reach out to Thoraya to chat when he gets home 💛

[@hannahhernanadez8606]

Thank you for putting her on my feed💕I love what she is doing! God bless all the people willing to open up and the ones who aren’t ready, just know there is always someone out there willing to listen💕💕 take care :)

[@1699ArunjeetSINGH]

good words

[@followerdesigns6680]

God bless the first guy!! He is so strong, I hope gets we’re he feels comfortable to talk to someone. He is not alone so many of my military friends and family struggles with it.😢my son struggles with it and he has never served but we had 3 close family members die within a month apart of each other. He was close to all of them . He was a great football player for his team before all of this . He loved to cut up and laugh about everything. He was a happy kid that made good grades. After this he stayed to his self , he quit football cause he didn’t want to leave the house , he failed his junior year. It was so tough 😢. With the up and up he got help and he got a girlfriend for a year now !! He is happy, he laughs life is good!! ( no pharmaceutical drugs either) he just needed help. Thank you for having this channel!!

[@barbaraveloz1730]

I wanted to hug your 1st interview so many times. My heart goes out to him.

[@lynnie7700]

Thoraya, The young man at the beginning breaks my heart. Please give him a hug for me when you see him again.