Hey Violet - Guys My Age (Official Video)

[@jessiepaege]

tHE AESTHETIC AND EVERYTHING ABOUT THIS VIDEO AND SONG AHH

[@zaradaudi911]

jessiepaege JESSIE HI OMG

[@user-xn7gj6py9p]

jessiepaege OMG HI MERMAID MOM

[@elaineshur2319]

jessiepaege aaa Jessie!! ILYSM

[@sloanew8044]

jessiepaege HI MOM ILYSM

[@isabellaserrano476]

jessiepaege mommmmm

[@bellbarreiros9561]

damn this song really brings out the worst about my daddy issues

[@HWest-lh7kf]

I would like the comment but it's at 69, and I'm a childish 15 year old soo... (Update, I can like the comment now🎉)

[@shayjegaruban7879]

painfully true ;(

[@mercedesroberts4680]

No joke here 😂😂😂

[@bellbarreiros9561]

@Sam707BFBC yes, there is something deeper going on: the fact that my dad didn't care to meet me until i was like 8, never wished me a happy birthday in 16 years, talked shit about people i love and was never actively present on my life lol KAKDKSKDKD 👁️👄👁️✌🏽

[@moonstarzz]

@@bellbarreiros9561 don't worry, my real dad left me when I was born for alcohol ❤ and my step dad stole from my family and the place he worked at. He has been to jail multiple times, as I was maybe 6 when he did. Um so yeah, that's my life

[@hannabeeshive]

This is my life's song damn, WHERE HAS THIS GIRL BEEN ALL MY LIFE

[@21secndsatthediscbtsastro39]

The band but okay

[@ricardowill6663]

Ikr

[@SneakyChopsticks93]

jongin is mah baby I got you, hit me up 😁. I like cigars, a good scotch, and keeping it classy. Give me a chance?

[@cindywang50]

i feel ya, the song makes me feel some type of way

[@jiminslefteyebrow6984]

KPop.

[@kyleethepanda]

The angst this song gave me at the ripe age of 14 is amazing. Came back at 18 and Its a banger still

[@Lifesuccsalways]

Same

[@_alt.b1xch_827]

Same I’m like yeah…

[@jessicastafford9253]

Myn was 15 then came back now at 20 and still hits 😭

[@princesspuffin8334]

This band is literally full of the most attractive people i've ever seen omg my gay heart

[@SierraMWymer]

That drummer tho...yum!

[@Theorderseriesfan]

Lol

[@yousraammachi9087]

You haven't seen many attractive people I guess

[@devinkujawa1604]

Am I the only guy that actually likes these chicks? I feel like it’s just lesbians.

[@devinkujawa1604]

Well, look wise lol

[@HobiDuck777]

Me, 2018: Guys my age don't know how to treat me.. Me, 2020: *lesbean*

[@vgb3590]

Exactly

[@moonshroom5632]

You know even though I'm a lesbian, it's still the same... CATE BLANCHETT PLEASE GIVE ME ATTENTION

[@kulturalkontrariankomedy]

Lol same

[@roxyyoungblood134]

Asf

[@usernameschecksout]

Same asf

[@shellymcclure8523]

I'm obsessed with this song. I heard it on the radio and had to look it up

[@Mariahlamb]

Me too!

[@jimbartlett5432]

mee to

[@ariadnamezanomontero4290]

me toó 😂

[@nguyenthaiquynhanh]

Dо yоu knоw what YOUR mаn is thinking? twitter.com/2b221f57eb75c29b8/status/804693412402241537 Hey Violеet Guуs Мy Аgе

[@livhnimartin6487]

Shelly Mcclure same here ❤

[@mymch-c3x]

HAVEN'T HEARD THIS SONG IN YEARS SO NOSTALGIC also I'm not forgiving any of you for not making this song more famous

[@dannyboy4929]

I know!!! I just came back to this song after like 6 years of not hearing it! But hey 44million views is pretty good

[@ElizabethNicoleSchwartz]

this video is just so aesthetically pleasing and i love that about it, bless.

[@marcsario1004]

same lmao

[@altheachuw]

same. aesthetic than my ig feed 😂

[@mishazaheer9254]

yess

[@jalisawright166]

yasssss

[@lorrdel8629]

your comment is so aesthetically please too, cause there's no caps and the grammar is perfect

[@user-zb6jr6vs6n]

She looks like a mix of Lucy hale and bebe rhexa and her voice is like a mixture of Melanie martinez and Halsey which gives me the chills

[@jazzytheytber1528]

JIshwa Dun and Tyjo are my cell mates ikr

[@hopemccullock8004]

Freaking yes

[@TiaraonCamera]

Such a good description

[@saanim.5600]

JIshwa Dun and Tyjo are my cell mates yess omg

[@rainmoon6644]

JIshwa Dun and Tyjo are my cell mates yesss

[@Just.here.]

I would love it if someone made a mashup of this and "teacher's pet" by Melanie Martinez

[@kimberleywilliams7802]

Oh my gosh that would be freaking amazing

[@kosmicznyorzeszek7849]

YES

[@pls_hush2004]

Welp you know that someone can be you.

[@mikimikamoka7259]

@@pls_hush2004 see I had the same idea as them but I can't do it because I'm big dumb and dunno how to lol

[@YoMamaIsSweet]

I was just thinking that!!

[@mariahgray7475]

i was 12 when this came out now i'm almost 17 😭 the concept of time means nothing to me anymore, i miss this era so much when this song was popping everywhere. anyways i'm so proud of how far the band has come, can't wait for the second album

[@MEl-qt8hc]

samee except i was 10 when it came out and now i’m almost 18, but i miss this era of songs

[@alexandriasalazar8522]

I'm 25 years old and guys my age STILL don't know how to treat me. 🤣

[@Theonlyjustkat]

Alexandria Salazar same 🙄 Little tip from someone who has dated up to twice my age: age doesn’t matter majority don’t know what they’re doing if you find a good one hold tight 😂

[@katrinamareen]

Teach them

[@luzalbarez1798]

Okay....lol

[@psychomami4415]

Alexandria Salazar can’t even agree more

[@friedonions]

Maybe you don't know how to treat them xD

[@PIPSCHTICK]

I'll forever call this the Sugar Daddy song

[@TheCuteWetRat]

P I P S C H T I C K yeeeah buddy 😎😎😎😎

[@salimahgriffin6712]

More like the Sugar Baby Anthem

[@nomdeplume2213]

Haha im sure its a banger in strip clubs.

[@3llevate]

Nah it's that Lana song... "West coast".. shiz, "Ride" also has reverse cougar energy!

[@sodacurt]

Or the “groomed anthem”

[@juliazieba5253]

I love the aesthetics of this music video - the colour palette, its sweeteness, cotton candy and neons, this combinations is soo pleasant

[@crystalhunt5226]

I cant believe it has already been so long since I was obsessed with them. I was like eleven, and this song came up on autoplay and i listened to it often and then i became conpletely obsessed with all of their music. and then better by myself came out a while after, when i wasnt as into them anymore, but I still loved it. I cant believe it's already been 2 years since that song came out. time goes by so fast when your life is uneventful.

[@musicswimsbacktome6201]

it’s a great song, but PSA for teens, older people can and will use your naivety to their advantage. Be careful!!!

[@musicswimsbacktome6201]

Bright Lilly I feel like these kind of songs portray the younger girl as empowered but they don’t show the implicit imbalance of power that comes with these types of relationships.

[@mattmfg3138]

So true!!

[@awhellyeah12]

That’s a good psa

[@jessicah9311]

💯 Relationships with large age gaps can be very toxic due to the imbalance of power and experience. It should be a HUGE red flag if a man in his thirties, for example, claims he has anything in common with a girl under the age of 18.

[@dinodino5602]

++

[@avrilmadueno1804]

Me after realizing that all my celebrity crushes are old enough to be my father

[@lorna4980]

mood

[@NA-vf4kc]

My celebrity crush is clint eastwood😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@samipute]

I'm a straight dude but Robert Downey Jr. and Jonny Depp still look too good

[@AutumnParisPets]

🤣

[@Hazyla]

Coochiejuice 4lyfe ... I have a crush on Mia talerico 😂(don’t worry I’m her age)

[@voicedbilabialtrill2514]

I remember jamming out to this after having broken up with my then boyfriend who was my age. I went on to date older dudes who turned out the same, if not worse. It's not about the age but the person or the characteristics that you look for in a dude. Maybe this will inspire someone to take a look in the mirror and ask yourself if you subconsciously keep on looking for the same kind of person who is not a good match for you. I know it helped me figure some stuff out.

[@mceluv7130]

I wish others thought like you do. Age is not the key it is character. You can be in love with a man that is 10 years older So what as long as he is a good man.

[@J3diMindTrix]

it's about character, people are often drawn to the same type of persona pretty much regardless of age difference like a moth to a flame .. setting on a path to failure cause it's what feels familiar .. and it never works out .. sad to see really females are being groomed from afar now, even music like this is directing them to older men (the ones that own the record companies and promote the music - maybe even write the songs) - it's a win for them, who else benefits? nobody.. there are guys out there, attractive young band like this telling other girls not to bother with them is part of the problem, all that this is trying to achieve is sugar daddies probaly married with kids having a young plaything to manipulate.. if you know someone who can't see how tacky that is then maybe they just need counselling for daddy issues - did he walk out from young, that lack of father figure whilst growing up manifests in all kinds of confusing ways for different people.. also girls need to stop expecting to be showered with gifts and treated like a bank account (easier for older men more established in life) and seek some relatable emotional connection instead.. this is just an extension of objectifying women and now it's even coming from women (i dunno if the band wrote the track, it looks pretty manufactured to me) aimed at younger women to make them susceptible to creeps as if being older is automatically a bonus no matter who it actually is .. yet another ad campaign by the mainstream propaganda machine If you never give anyone your age a chance, or give up after 1 or 2 bad experiences, obviously you're not gonna develop the social skills to build a relationship with someone your own age and then this song seems like the answer

[@lisatrif1498]

Gotta start with the way you view yourself like me I was use to abuse I was putting myself down didn't love myself...so the next dude seen right through my exterior knew they could take advantage of me. Now it's different I'm a beast I got a feisty side that little boys would consider me a bitch but a real man wouldn't be scared!

[@dukewhistler]

J

[@Ky40291MJ]

As Taylor Tomlinson said " i quit dating losers..... yeah no one realizes how hard that is...." love her to death

[@chidieberenwadike4165]

I can't be the only one who comes back to this. It brings back memories ❤

[@estre7]

ive been obsessed with this song for years

[@snazzypants5985]

Same bestie 😂👌

[@mikaelablacconeri9575]

I swear she said "cause you hold me like a walnut"

[@xx_itsky_xx1395]

Lololol

[@purple_wolfie_]

Who doesn't want to be held like a walnut..? 🤔

[@amandar273]

Someone said that when the song first came out and I've never been able to hear anything else lol.

[@abbaboobee]

😂

[@ashleigh7362]

Stop this madness

[@tessa4383]

everyone in this band is attractive like, goddamn so beautiful

[@genoevegriffenbay3469]

Yeah in their own nice way.

[@g33k0f9x]

uhh no, the singer is hideous

[@emeraude4831]

+g33k0f9x Oh my god, I think you need your eyes checked. Are you experiencing blurry vision or dizziness?

[@g33k0f9x]

yeah because I have a photo on my profile?

[@emeraude4831]

+g33k0f9x sure that must be it

[@chidieberenwadike4165]

I can't be the only one who still comes back to this. It brings back those memories ❤

[@dominikamaciejasz8698]

I'm in love with the girl that's playing the drum. Just WOW. She's stunning and got that something in her eyes. Never seen something like this before.

[@bailarinaMiri1]

Dominika Maciejasz I agree

[@emilyg8016]

Dominika Maciejasz Yahs Nia is gorgeous!

[@beatrice7901]

Dominika Maciejasz ikr she's so gorgeous and talented♡

[@mikaylapoggi8743]

Dominika Maciejasz Nia slays my life

[@lindseylohan24749]

Dominika Maciejasz I agree omg

[@chewbaccamcclain7662]

Her outfit is so cute

[@randomvids7536]

trinity sowers yeah

[@angelesmendez3651]

ikr !!

[@pelincansu6475]

Yeahh😍😍

[@eXcommunicate1979]

Cute? It's fucking hot.

[@helenaadeline291]

Haha no

[@leannzhen8203]

*daddy kink has entered the chat*

[@vis6d]

Oml there's a comment above yours saying *daddy kink anthem*

[@avainspires6958]

XD

[@Bramon83]

Indeed. 👌

[@ilovejupiterr]

LeAnn Stark 0-0

[@marissasouders7329]

Are you related to Tony Stark in any way, if so I am sorry for you loss

[@brianjankowski7292]

Love this song. Before my sister passed away this song came out and I brought my phone over to her house and hooked it up to her Bluetooth speaker and I remember the day that the chorus or the music started and as soon as that beat hit she got the bouncing around in the kitchen cooking dinner and she started brushing her shoulders off and bopping around and she said turn it up so now when I hear it it's a good memory even though sometimes I break down into tears

[@missyowl1373]

0:19-0:35 gives me goosebumps, love the whole song but that beat at the start 😍

[@avinauwu4227]

Fuck that part is literally my fav it's sooo good 😮🥺🥺🥺🥺

[@isabellalunenburg2621]

HER HAIR IS GOALS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[@bweep5406]

Issie x her hair is lit

[@MikaylaMinecraftproductions]

Issie x yassss

[@mariavictoriarojasricciard6395]

Issie x the whole band is goals

[@Iriwatf]

I remember when this first came out I was afraid to like it just in case my mom figured out I did. HAHA

[@bababooey6222]

SAME LMAO

[@ahhwe-any7434]

I was thinking the opposite before I read this. As the mom.

[@pixiefairy0455]

3dolla SpicyRamen I didnt know what the song meant at the time but now it's another story😏

[@notready7132]

8 years later and still a banger

[@biancaavallone5610]

Nobody: Me falling in love with Robert Downey Jr who is 54 years old:

[@euphoria.yunjin]

relatable 😂

[@martynakowalczyk1445]

This is how it really be 😍

[@SierraMWymer]

One of the best examples how cool never ages...

[@Ari-sw9ef]

Literally me but with Johnny Depp

[@biancaavallone5610]

Ariyana Kennedy 🤤🤤🤤

[@subscriberswithoutvideos-si6pp]

I HATE MYSELF FOR HEARING THIS UNDERRATED SONG SO LATE:( BUT IM GLAD THAT I DID IT NOW:)

[@rheasantosh4796]

Same

[@subscriberswithoutvideos-si6pp]

@@rheasantosh4796 okay)

[@mehek7598]

SAME GIRL

[@daludna]

same, girl, same

[@subscriberswithoutvideos-si6pp]

@@daludna omg

[@eddi8371]

This is "aesthetically" pleasing. (Is that how you say it?)

[@gabiworldlife6188]

I think so...

[@NexusKin]

Yes!

[@dd-yy4yc]

Asssss

[@cassiejohnes3360]

@@dd-yy4yc lol.... assssss????

[@ririchiyou]

Nevaeh Hunter I’m choking on air. 😂

[@JRockG123]

The beats on this song are absolutely sick AF! Love it!

[@DonRobertson82]

and she is sooooo hot!

[@JRockG123]

@@DonRobertson82 have you had a chance to check out Dua LIPA or Ava Max? Those two are absolutely adorably gorgeous as well?

[@-VoDkAsVengeance-]

"Now I'm out and wearin' somethin low-cut" the shot looks like she has a turtleneck on

[@jmr6595]

True

[@haninm583]

Twigpalm - it’s a choker if you look closely

[@KillerKikyo5]

I think low-cut was referring to jeans

[@lovelily6239]

Yea

[@Mmm-xh3if]

It's just a song

[@fab4809]

Okay so this is "Rena and the backup band" Why can't I see or hear the other members? If I hadn't known them I would think this was a solo song. it doesn not sound like a song by a band. I really like the song BUT for a solo. The other members deserve recognition because they are as talented as Rena is. Literally the camera didn't focus on anyone faces except Rena. No one sang a line except Rena. The should all get their solo lines. They have amazing vioces. Everyone wants to see and hear their favourites. This is a BAND. I wouldn't be surprised if all the new people think of this as a solo song.

[@tundesimon564]

some of them already did

[@ellashambo]

Ever since the new ep it has been Rena and frens not hey Violet and I hate it

[@xoxoctobervods]

Starr Little i agree. But Miranda and Nia did sing backup and it shows in some parts of the video. Maybe not for long but it still showed.

[@saradavis377]

Rena does almost all the vocals, but Miranda and Nia sing backups. This is the studio version, but when it is live all of the band is a lot more involved. It's not as electronic live. Also, if you follow them on their social medias all of the band gets attention and is credited for the song equally (except maybe Iain since he is new). I agree that many people only know Rena but that's because she is the front woman, but that happens for a lot bands. People know Luke from 5 Seconds Of Summer best because he is lead vocals and the front man. The front man/woman is always going to get the most attention. I'm happy for Hey Violet. They're finally getting the recognition they deserve with their new sound. It didn't work with alternative rock. It just didn't. I personally wasn't a fan until the Brand New Moves EP. I believe they have big things ahead for them.

[@pixiestrikes]

Fab shes the front woman you know how paramore or tonight alive they always focus on hayley or jenna? since rena is the front woman shes the one they focus on bc shes the lead.

[@MaryJaneOctane]

As someone in an age gap relationship, I can totally relate. Guys my age don't know shit... Healthiest relationship I've ever been in 😍

[@bradenballentine6158]

Mary Jane Octane same. I'm 19 and my gf is 17 and she loves it cuz she says I'm wayyyyy more mature.

[@Wtnd911]

lol im 19 and my man is 29 almost 30. two years isnt that much

[@MaryJaneOctane]

Braden Ballentine No offense sweetheart but 2 years is not an age gap. I'm 29 and my man is 51. I'm not knocking your maturity level. You could be an old soul. Glad you're happy!

[@21secndsatthediscbtsastro39]

I'm sorry but I can't help but laugh at when someone says 'my man'. I just laugh my ass off.

[@MaryJaneOctane]

21secondsatthedisco lol why does it make you laugh so hard?

[@XenaReigns]

This song doesn't feel the same after you grow up 😞

[@lil_lara1174]

guys my age dont know how to love me me; gives the 35 y/o indian dude in my dms a chance

[@kitkat2263]

😅😂🤣

[@simonelinda8252]

im dyin’ HAHAHHAAH

[@alexmontoya1953]

Thats cute😊

[@joeschmoe435]

What about a 78 year old white boy like me baby?

[@luisarouge4568]

Feel You. Doing it right now xD

[@ispeakfactsoops8427]

When you break up with your 12 year old Minecraft boyfriend for a 12 and a half year old Minecraft boi

[@cassiejohnes3360]

@@vxera2973 🤣🤣🤣

[@lalalalayyy4247]

Vxera lmao

[@exaggeratedswagger7485]

Vxera 💀

[@zzvlog3140]

Tae💖

[@redrosie5324]

Vxera that’s BTS Taehyung actually

[@kirstywade554]

the drummer is gorgeous I'm in love

[@isobellaaustin]

she is nia, who is rena's (the lead singer) sister :)

[@p_iss]

kirsty wade same

[@kirstywade554]

Isobella Austin ah thank you!

[@Bloomnr]

i know right

[@emmablossom2458]

That's Nia she's Rena's sister the pink haired girl they are beautiful I love them alot

[@MyrnaPerez-zi8pu]

Who’s here 2024?

[@penguindevil]

It was 7 years ago... Still new for me 😂

[@pinkbutterfly413]

was this song written by aria montgomery

[@coco-de5vj]

pinkbutterfly413 I swear Aria Montgomery is a character from pretty little liars? Lmao

[@mzziie]

pinkbutterfly413 I just understood what you meant lmao

[@akisiat]

IM DEAD LMAO

[@madinazahid829]

bahahah

[@crystalhobii7304]

pinkbutterfly413 lol 😂😂😂 i understand now 😂😂

[@jamie3592]

This sounds like 2009 music blended with mainstream now. I likeee itttt boi

[@samirasadiqi3281]

James Chew same

[@nicolesmith1676]

I was just thinking this!! I feel like I am way too old to be listening to this but I can't stopppp lol

[@anairamlps8346]

Lyrics I haven't seen my ex since we broke up Probably 'cause he didn't wanna grow up Now I'm out and wearing something low-cut 'Bout to get attention from a grownup 'Cause you hold me like a woman In a way I've never felt before And it makes me wanna hold on And it makes me wanna be all yours Guys my age don't know how to treat me Don't know how to treat me, don't know how to treat me Guys my age don't know how to touch me Don't know how to love me good Guys my age don't know how to keep me Don't know how to keep me, don't know how to keep me Guys my age don't know how to touch me Don't know how to love me good All he ever wanted was to go down What we supposed to do with all his friends around? (yeah) Smoking weed, he'd never wanna leave the house Got an empty cushion on that sofa now Told him, "good luck with the next one" Maybe she'll be just as immature Gotta thank him, he's the reason That I'll find out what I'm looking for Guys my age don't know how to treat me Don't know how to treat me, don't know how to treat me Guys my age don't know how to touch me Don't know how to love me good Guys my age don't know how to keep me Don't know how to keep me, don't know how to keep me Guys my age don't know how to touch me Don't know how to love me good So I'm never going back (never going back, never going back) No, I'm never going back (never going back, never going back) Guys my age don't know how to treat me Don't know how to please me, don't know how to read me Guys my age don't know how to touch me Don't know how to love me good Guys my age don't know how to tease me Don't know how to leave me, don't know how to need me Guys my age don't know how to touch me Don't know how to love me good So I'm never going back Don't know, don't know, don't know (don't know, don't know) No, I'm never going back Don't know how to touch me, don't know how to love me good So I'm never going back (never going back, never going back) No, I'm never going back (never going back, never going back)

[@nivesrosy]

The way this song had a grip on me when I was a teenager...now everything turns out to be painfully true👀

[@alexahernandez2951]

I saw this the day this came out but this song is gonna blow up so I'm here to leave my mark

[@alexalemkua7460]

noice name, I think I've heard it somewhere but I don't remember when..

[@Carol-dg7ww]

Same!!!!!

[@bobbyjoesdiary9991]

It never blew up

[@bucknerd]

You better clean that up afterwards.

[@comingtotank2764]

I listened to this song for the first time back in August of 2016 when Hey Violet were the opening acts for 5sos, and suddenly I've loved them since.

[@valeriyaaanka]

No one: Literally nobody: All 15 y/o girls:

[@Andrei-bl6mm]

13y/o*

[@reggiexp69]

yeah even 12 years old but mainly 13 years old talking about there ex didnt know how the thread her right. or what ever. grow the fuck up..

[@squidink5338]

Dont come at me like that

[@Trappedinglass]

@@squidink5338 yo lol i feel u m8

[@reggiexp69]

@Deathmations you are 12? since you replied to my comment :)

[@shannondaylie563]

Daddy issues anthem

[@victoriagiarrusso9563]

Shannon Daylie What about the song daddy issues doe?

[@nikscerniss6429]

can't have daddy issues if you don't have a dad 😎

[@gayanimeweeb1305]

IM CACKLING

[@Meloxts]

Evija Cernisa Oh shit-

[@denyalea7735]

I just listened to the song anddd i understand now

[@neon8881]

this song got me groomed

[@Gabriella-ho6np]

this song made me want to hit up my old chemistry teacher

[@shaner15]

Gabriella Beauty same

[@glm557]

Gabriella Beauty Lmao did you pass on spelling?

[@blackbird5381]

Gabriella Beauty lmho 😂

[@andyandfriends7882]

Gabriella Beauty i think you need to hit up your old english teacher

[@shelly123mm]

Did not expect that bass int he begin yesssss

[@NotAnotherKuromi]

The drummer has awesome hair.

[@su5990]

I thought she was a guy and I said "damn, he is cute." then the camera focused on her and I was like 'wtf?!"

[@NotAnotherKuromi]

Azra Su Akbaş Then did you think 'damn she is cute?'

[@allthingsgirlymarie]

Sammy Ariel NIAAAAA😍😍

[@su5990]

​@@NotAnotherKuromiI found my comment and I actually want to to say, turns out I'm a lesbian 🗿 I started to date with girls like right after this MV 💀

[@lilliana4821]

so tumblr, aesthetically pleasing. This song is liiifeee right now. I'm glad i found her. 💜

[@rozzycruz4654]

Aaliyah Marie same here

[@zoeperreira7499]

Aaliyah Marie her? dude, their a band, not just her

[@lilliana4821]

zoe perreira *they're

[@zoeperreira7499]

Aaliyah Marie oh shit 😂😂 soz

[@SarahHeald]

6 years ago!? Damn. Time flys fr

[@nightvisions8]

Teenage beans like me, listen up: Like older people, whatever. That's not really something to be ashamed of, it's your preference, fine. But DO NOT go after them. It's unsafe and you can get very hurt. Always wait until you're eighteen or older. I just wanted to put that out there.

[@sierrajade7875]

ALSO. Beware of guys significantly older than you. There's a reason women their age won't date them. And even if they're totally normal, generational gaps pose a pretty big obstacle. Not saying it can't be done, but it's hard to relate to someone that much older or younger than you.

[@24karatramen93]

true - love who you want but be careful. i personally think that you can date older guys at whatever age as long as you're both mature and prepared for the relationship. and also make sure you're not being manipulative and/or manipulated, cause that happens a lot with big age gaps

[@xotbirdox]

Sierra Jade As long as you're 18 though, it doesn't matter. Like I get that with teenagers but people who aren't minors should be able to date anyone that is also of age. Honestly, I totally disagree with the whole "you won't be able to relate to each other" thing. My parents are 18 years apart and they were together for 23 years and raised two kids, including me. Personally, I usually date women around my age (I'm 20) but I love older men. Men usually have to be at least 5 years older than me for me to be attracted to them, idk why but that is the way it is for me. My boyfriend is turning 27 in December and even though our age gap isn't as big as some others, it's still there and I don't think that it affects our relationship in any way. I tend to be attracted to men that are anywhere from 25-70, no joke. But I am completely of age so it shouldn't matter imo.

[@kylecorreia4919]

@@xotbirdox Sounds like my ex gf..if they are pushing 60 she's into them. It's called "daddy issues".

[@xotbirdox]

@@kylecorreia4919 Not always. Some people literally just like older men and that's it. That's the only reason that they pursue age gap relationships. I don't have any daddy issues at all and yet, I love older men. My dad died when I was young but before that, he was a wonderful father and loved me and my brother to death. You shouldn't make presumptions about people. I literally just find older men hot, there's no deeper meaning to it.

[@Adriana-gr4ug]

** Dates guy 2 years older ** *listens to song on repeat for a week*

[@vanessap6403]

I actually have a classmate that is 2 years older but who cares 😂

[@katacerepinko3150]

Dates boy one year older Quotes this song for days

[@bethferris7768]

Bella Tan that is literally me right now😂😂😂

[@germantennesseean8438]

*18years older lmfao

[@Scar...]

StarHaze Galaxy My mom is 41 and my dad is 37,4 years older....

[@hailey5037]

I'm 20 and all men my age act like they're 16. So this song resonates with me 😂

[@jsuispastiktokeusehein]

When I was in middle school, the boys from my school acted like 2 year olds so I could relate too 😭😂 I'm in high school now and fortunately guys my age are more mature

[@ghofranelaouar1164]

The guys of my college are so childish...

[@jessa9877]

I've dated guys 10+ older than me (they were in their 40ies or more). Some of them act like kids still.

[@chloeraeburn2434]

Same

[@TheBackroomCollective]

I'm 44...how u doin 😘🤔😉

[@BubbleBrainQuotes]

7 years and still listening to this song

[@Black_Ryze]

Seriously, the drummer is so ridiculously cute...

[@lestatangel]

Carol Tucker yep she's fine

[@G_Ray3553]

Carol Tucker agree

[@clairethebear918]

right

[@n_azuniga6110]

Its a girl

[@laciewilliford2505]

Agreeee they're all hot asf.

[@marissao1510]

*listens to this song Dates a guy that is a month older *Me "I'm such a rebel"

[@jessehacker570]

I met the drummer once at a party, she is so amazing!

[@stephaniep.2990]

I forgot the name of this song so I legit put 'aesthetic song about older men' and this was the first one that popped up.

[@ajeel1961]

oo kaay LOOOOL AND LANA DEL REY "Summer time sadness"

[@luluhamstrings]

Jasmine YasmineFatima summer time sadness is about her friend who committed suicide

[@fatihahh5194]

@@ajeel1961 u mean Lolita by Lana del rey?

[@kennethrichards8457]

Ruined this song

[@claireg1202]

😂😂

[@gabbage_yt8435]

0:18 *Cause you hold me like a wallnut*

[@ashruowo]

Gabbage XD

[@Paula-nu5cb]

Am I the only person that hear "woman" not "wallnut" ???

[@teresaolalde3473]

Pauline Lov LMFAOO I DID TOO I thought she just liked the way people hold walnuts?? but it’s “woman” lmaoo

[@hewwo659]

Lol

[@vis6d]

I hear a mix of women and wallnut ;-; *wallman*

[@AmetafJohora]

rly like this song, even tho i've never listened to a hey violet song b4.

[@scarlettnemethova]

Ametaf Johora samee

[@theroyalbeauty5660]

Ametaf Johora same

[@kaylabowers4159]

Ametaf Johora same

[@taniaa8584]

Ametaf Johora same

[@valcati1489]

Ametaf Johora me too

[@veee.n134]

Ong I keep coming back I love her songs sm she's so underated

[@Sofia-yw3yg]

Omg I've never heard about her before WHY? this is so good omg I love this

[@livebreathenightcore5517]

Sophia Sunhill yeah it's a band

[@diana_pires_xx732]

Sophia Sunhill its a band

[@staticpalms67]

It's a band. smh :/

[@Sofia-yw3yg]

Uhm okay, you don't have to tell me four times in a row... She's the one that stood out to me

[@Sofia-yw3yg]

Can't give a compliment these days without being corrected, smh.. I kind of JUST discovered THEM

[@lauriechapdelaine3572]

i'm 20, but always crushing on 30+ years old ppl

[@Eros13adios]

Gimme ur email

[@lauriechapdelaine3572]

but i'm not single lmao

[@Eros13adios]

@@lauriechapdelaine3572 Liar..You know you wouldn't mind a 37 yr.old side man😉...lol..jk

[@Eros13adios]

@@lauriechapdelaine3572 Who says we gonna hook up right away, anywayyyyy.. Don't you trust yourself to chat up with men without falling in love with them???...lol..jk

[@venus5562]

the guy who’s replying to you is a clear reason why older men are SOMETIMES predatory or controlling...

[@latteemiele2018]

I posted this on fb and my crush (mid 40s) started flirting with me. But he controlled/manipulated me thinking I was young and dumb. Be careful of older men, ladies...they want to use and abuse you...not all men tho. I'm way happier with my boyfriend who is 2 months younger than me. He just gets me and respects me as an equal. I feel like this relationship is healthier.

[@EskimoHugz]

my boyfriend is 2 months younger than me too.... are we soul sisters???? 😳 also, thanks for pointing out the dangers of dating with an age gap without generalizing. advice done right 🖤🖤

[@pixiefairy0455]

Latte & Miele if you don't mind me asking how old were you at the time ?

[@menace2819]

Well said

[@jinni2001]

@@pixiefairy0455 fr..not to be rude tho

[@anabitch6737]

Xgg

[@ionlywanted1thing]

On repeat, on repeat, on repeat This is too good and too real, i love it

[@rebeccawisniewski02]

This video is the definition of Tumblr

[@mintfudgecupcakes]

Rebecca Wisniewski lol so true....

[@stellawonder7993]

Rebecca Wisniewski Weird you think this is Tumblr? because I imagine a long ass essay and linked case studies to prove why the lyrics shouldn't be taken to heart. Still a hot song.

[@sethbrown3213]

Rebecca Wisniewski best comment all day.

[@sarahs8733]

#tumblr #grunge #artsy = hey violet music videos

[@milliepantaloons6801]

A .H PRODUCTIONS I can't get this song out of my head.............

[@sydmorphia]

are we ever gonna get an album bc I'm tired of waiting when we get amazing songs like this but not an album full of them

[@976evll_]

just download the album on spotify

[@kellyngxyen]

drunk uncle syd they're working on an album that should be out next year

[@kellyngxyen]

HEYITSADRIANA 1000000001 they dont have an album yet

[@sydmorphia]

HEYITSADRIANA 1000000001 they don't have an album they only had EPs

[@escapist11]

Ok. I would do the video like this: A woman, early to mid 20s. She's dressed to go out and she's not at a typical club, but instead a posh venue. Tons of hot older men, dressed in nice suits. They're all vying for her attention respectfully. Lots of slow motion shots, luxury clothes, hand made cocktails.

[@kavya_0118]

Oof yesss

[@TheLionheartCenter]

Damn you shouldve directed this fr

[@98izzark69]

Basic

[@asdfghjkl33998able]

Woah Nice one

[@womang3821]

What about the "guys my age" element" on the way there she passes men her age lusting for her smoking weed around her etc ?

[@notsurebutwillbe]

Nostalgia hits

[@annngoc1363]

damn I'm addicted in this song. it's so good

[@winterycold]

Literally so good! I love the production of the sound!

[@CrystalIvyVampire]

I like her hair, it looks really pretty

[@ispeakfactsoops8427]

She’s so pretty and I’m out here looking like a cereal box

[@janineb2563]

It's okay, cereal boxes hold amazingness. What else could you really want for breakfast?

[@jennyumm89]

I can stare at a cereal box for hours.

[@imbored6932]

Army

[@irajohnson7824]

At least you don't have beanbags for thighs 😂😂😂

[@Kauftea]

@@irajohnson7824 but beanbags are so comfy.... What else is a better chair?

[@emmaleemeadows2600]

this song is intoxicating

[@kaitlenn11]

'Cause you hold me like a walnut

[@ladylalazarus]

Oh my! XD Thanks for the laugh!

[@josephinepike3358]

Kaitlyn Lewis omg I heard that too and I laugh everytime lmao

[@kaitlenn11]

josé queso cheese dip omg yes every time

[@leahmusiclover5157]

I thought that to lol😂😂

[@lillyannloopbert9389]

Kaitlyn Lewis what does she even say

[@ymke464]

GUYS MY AGE DON'T KNOW HOW TO buy me pizza and leave

[@Kik0318]

lmao lol same

[@mgthegreat9387]

This Is My Life In A Quote

[@bonitaadcock4062]

Ness yessss

[@uma5336]

bro i watch this everyday

[@Leonardvondelray]

I swear modern women are all the same

[@babyabri9750]

painfully relatable.

[@michaelmusser7451]

Abrienne W would you get married sexy I want to OK

[@taylor3233]

...just hearing this for the first time.but This is literally now the theme song for this very chapter of my life. Yes. Just so yes!

[@bettycat4832]

Love this. It feels like I'm the only one who still listens to this band and everyone else grew up and forgot about them, so it's cool to see a new fan.

[@lillyb4209]

What happened to the other members?? :/

[@edson99100]

Currently Phan Out

[@mirandamayteavilaolivares9191]

Currently Phan 0

[@preciousnamjoon4312]

Currently Phan HEY PHANDOM, they changed, I guess, now it's all about Rena

[@lillyb4209]

Aesthetic 5SOS interesting.. AND IM IN THE 5SOSFAM ALSO

[@preciousnamjoon4312]

Currently Phan AYEE :-)

[@smoker2979]

if Hey Violet ,Melanie Martinez and Halsey made a song together that would be great

[@chrispayne750]

Not necessarily. Often times those "all star" collaborations end up not as good as the bands on their own. Plus I think Hey Violet is slightly above Halsey and Melanie anyway.

[@jazzywinterscampos4966]

i dont think Halsey would fit in with Melanie and Hey Violet but yeah

[@haileyissad6456]

Oooo and Billie Eilish😱❤️💯👌🔥

[@Jesse-ew6rn]

Minus halsey, then im in

[@Jalh_s]

Lana del Ray instead of halsey I'd say, cause of the genre and stuff

[@oenonetan9551]

Is it just me that this music video has the riverdal vibe and aesthetic??

[@oenonetan9551]

*riverdale

[@carlie972]

Yeah! Just more pastel

[@sierrajade4587]

It also goes quite well with the ridiculously attractive dads theme, eg. Hiram and FP. But yeah, the lighting is and visuals definitely have a Riverdale vibe.

[@haleybowkley5150]

YES

[@smutoys]

This was the song that made me a fan of Hey Violet all those years ago. Crazy the band is now getting ready to close up shop.

[@deloreanjustine2795]

this video and everyone in it has me dead oml , but is there a demogorgon in that wall tho?

[@deloreanjustine2795]

this is aesthetically pleasing :')

[@tm-jz5ge]

yasss ST

[@xoxokimmy9680]

stranger things spin-of

[@oliviasun412]

delo.182 YES

[@justajameme5448]

Yess

[@SuperbLyricsOfficial]

She kinda look like Bebe Rexha

[@lalalala7191]

OMG YOU'RE RIGHT

[@ellashambo]

SuperbLyrics THATS WHAT I WAS THINKING OMG

[@avrianahandriany5237]

exactly same as what i thought at first

[@marketavopatova2149]

And kinda like Melanie Martinez :)

[@---to4dt]

ARMY BITCH YAS

[@yukikanegawa7470]

If this goes mainstream I was here before it happened guys I was here this whole time

[@niinakalsi3591]

Me too

[@5sosfantrash664]

yuki kanegawa same

[@light8174]

Same

[@allison1061]

Same

[@ashleyfrith5854]

same

[@natashamerline]

Ah my anthem once again

[@rocklesson86]

Personally I think maturity has nothing to do with age, but who you are as a person. I know some older men who can be just as immature as younger guys.

[@catzaj415]

You are like the smartest person here!

[@rocklesson86]

I would not say the smartest. I am just tired of people saying that older men know how to act versus a younger man. Some girls say they do not want to wait for a man to grow up, but new flash, we females still have some growing up to do too.

[@minutemuse]

Exactly! Thank you.

[@DronZizzle]

It's a combination

[@rocklesson86]

DronZizzle To me it is not a combination. I don't look at your age to see how mature you are because everyone is different.

[@jordyn4690]

I love the way she just plays with the microphone at 3:11😂

[@TheWeeknd2011]

Jordyn I was at that part when I read this lol

[@kaylekilpatrick5487]

Same

[@NoahWeisbrod]

Jordyn damn, that's hot...

[@WorldsMostWated]

i might be the only guy that likes this song the beat is fire

[@jacksonreed6464]

You're not alone

[@isaiahjairam2794]

A. Jackson Reed your not the only guy who loves this song though lol

[@busta4296]

Nah...I don't really gives a damn about lyrics.. Its all about this DOPE ASS BEAT!!

[@missmommabear9411]

Skull Face it's awesome some guys like this song lol

[@sellize2167]

This song is amazing

[@tijanaself897]

finally i can say i am an early fan of someone i seriously like this and fuqboi a lot

[@deontabowen4800]

Crybaby & tøp they used to be called Cherri bomb

[@tijanaself897]

Deonta Bowen i know but they still are quite unknown

[@NoahWeisbrod]

This song is currently at #25 on Billboard's Top Pop Songs chart. www.billboard.com/charts/pop-songs

[@tijanaself897]

Noah Weisbrod i know but they dont even habe a half a million followers on insta whulst when i started liking tøp they had 4 million

[@NoahWeisbrod]

Crybaby & tøp They're neither huge nor unknown. This is the band's second time sitting at "almost pop-stars." (The first time being when they had a song on the Avengers soundtrack back in 2012.)

[@djjta1234]

love this Halsey/Melanie/Kiiara vibe. Just made me fall in love with this band even more 😍

[@lizispittle6294]

omgg it reminded me of halsey too!!!

[@Jedwabisty598]

When some make a certain music He or She of course has to be compared to a pathetic Halsey. Like seriously.

[@livebreathenightcore5517]

thi b no. Nothing like melanie

[@intertwined5626]

sugar daddy anthem

[@kylecorreia4919]

Exactly LoL

[@kylecorreia4919]

I'm in my mid 30s I'd NEVER date a GIRL in her 20s..I don't need a daughter.

[@goldenmemes51]

@@kylecorreia4919 you should read black dragon blog then

[@kylecorreia4919]

@@goldenmemes51 why?

[@xennial80sxberner]

@@kylecorreia4919 That's more of a little sister than a daughter bro (I'd say over 15 years is when it gets more like a parental age difference), but I agree. Why would any guy want to be a sugar daddy? Wouldn't it just make you feel prematurely old? MILFs are way better lol

[@chxerry.x7537]

"['Guys My Age'] came up because we were talking about past relationships and about how guys can just, bottom line, be super immature," she said. "And that goes for girls too." "I know it's called 'Guys My Age,' but I really think that the crux of the song is not necessarily about age, but also maturity level - because a guy can be a few years older, or in his 30s or 40s, and can still be incredibly immature or not know how to treat someone else like they're a priority," Lovelis continued. "So I definitely think the idea of the song is definitely more about maturity level rather than like, 'I need a 50-year-old in my life.'" [Laughs]

[@mceluv7130]

I totally agree. When I say I want an older guy doesnt mean hes 40. I like older men like 5 to 10 years older cause they are more mature in mind and wonderfully more in body too. I like my strong handsome men. :)

[@mihiduli4055]

true, I know younger guys than me that are more mature than older guys,so it's more about mentality

[@chrissyholman2947]

Remember ladies, your man will be 50 one day...

[@victoriakathleen01]

​@@chrissyholman2947and statistically he's less likely to find you attractive once he gets to that age, because women tend to be attracted to men closer to their age, whereas older men start preferring young women 🫠

[@Aj01110]

It's been a few years since I've listened to these guys and I wanna ask, who the fuck is the guy on the keyboard thing.

[@laurens494]

Iain Shipp. He is also the bassist.

[@jamlesszb6448]

lol

[@MT-wg4pi]

Not relatable I can't even get guy

[@ilikebts4374]

Mary 2000 get urself a kim taehyung

[@kyoka1528]

Mai Trinh Oh my god so true for me lol

[@babylinaxx]

ilikebts get ur self a yoongi lol he’s perfect

[@radve.1262]

I realised I have a daddy kink because of bts smuts and this song. *_and i oop-_*

[@stefania6444]

😹😹😹OMGG ARMY