Highly Sensitive & Misunderstood

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Candace van Dell

Candace van Dell

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@silentgrove7670
@silentgrove7670 4 жыл бұрын
Basically how I feel most of the time. I don't even want be around people much any more because there is just no point. It is like I speak a different language that almost no one can understand. I have been feeling very angry lately from all of this. I wish this anger and disappointment can be resolved. Hello Saint :P
@jaycreativenyc1582
@jaycreativenyc1582 3 жыл бұрын
You’re not alone.
@AllthingsBaaba
@AllthingsBaaba 2 жыл бұрын
Thought it’s just me
@PicklesAndPizza
@PicklesAndPizza 2 жыл бұрын
Definitely not alone been going through this my whole life no matter HOW logical I am or no matter how small i want to do something im literally misunderstood its crazy to me literally makes me not want to be around ANYBODY
@animezae
@animezae 2 жыл бұрын
I feel you. I ask myself “am I speaking another language?!” very often.
@JoanneWhitlock
@JoanneWhitlock 4 жыл бұрын
I knew that I was experiencing things differently but blamed myself because I was unable to communicate my feelings or thoughts to others in a way that resonated with me - let alone made any sense to them. I've spent years improving my speaking skills only to realise that some people still don't get it. I'm happy with what I have learnt but you are right, that feeling of something wrong with me if others don't 'get it' persists. It's an interesting idea to think of it as emotional intelligence and that maybe it is not possible for them to 'get it' even if I was a master communicator!
@michelled5655
@michelled5655 4 жыл бұрын
This is very helpful! Saying „I feel/see things that other people cannot“ sounds so freeing! Thanks for sharing that perspective 🦋
@angelabeasley3415
@angelabeasley3415 3 жыл бұрын
As I watch this video, I began to weep. It's the first time, in a very long time I felt understood. I am embracing being an empath and the ups and downs of it all.
@karentruzman1522
@karentruzman1522 4 жыл бұрын
This happens to me SO much. I have tried to explain that to my family and they still make me feel so misunderstood and judged. Dont know what to do anymore, i cant have more relationships like this and they are too close
@iamgraci_
@iamgraci_ 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you, sometimes I really feel like a failure and a burden. I use to wonder as young as 6 if I'd be better off dead, then I'd think about the pain I'd cost my family and I'd talk myself out of anything irresponsible.
@marsbtubesocks
@marsbtubesocks 2 жыл бұрын
You would not be better off dead the world would not be better off without you in it. And I'm so glad you have the self talk to remind yourself that. Definitely not alone in relatibility,I know for a fact your family would be crushed If something happened to you.
@EvenStarLoveAnanda
@EvenStarLoveAnanda 4 жыл бұрын
I never felt that there was something wrong with me. I always knew there were lots of things wrong with the world and most other ppl. They are completely crazy. Including my mother and father and my sister. I moved to the other side of the planet when I was 20 just to get away from them. Yet even today I have to deal with them. And on the other-side of the world in the USA I have found even crazier ppl. So I have lived alone all my life. And when I am alone there are no problems. Alone = All-one
@EvenStarLoveAnanda
@EvenStarLoveAnanda 4 жыл бұрын
@Freedom Essence Welcome to the Club. Where are you from? I am from Hungary.
@EvenStarLoveAnanda
@EvenStarLoveAnanda 4 жыл бұрын
@Freedom Essence Well, as one loner to an other, we can chat sometimes if you want. I have this WhatsApp group "We Are Infinite Love", you can join and keep in touch. Just use this link to join! chat.whatsapp.com/CSJrX0ClP6L4RI528ewbX6
@ameliarose6648
@ameliarose6648 4 жыл бұрын
I feel so blessed to have found these videos. its scary how much I resonate..
@LisaSmith-yb2uz
@LisaSmith-yb2uz 4 жыл бұрын
I agree 💓
@stephaniesomera8695
@stephaniesomera8695 Жыл бұрын
For me it's feeling like I can't do or be myself for fear of my motives being misinterpreted as sexual. So I usually can't look at others in the eyes for fear of them misinterpreting me.
@LisaSmith-yb2uz
@LisaSmith-yb2uz 4 жыл бұрын
I NEED TO USE MY PAST PAIN for PURPOSE (but I cannot pay💰 to find my way to SPEAK MY TRUTH, so I’m trying to WRITE MY BOOK 📖 ) 👍💓
@agent_exodus
@agent_exodus 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for validating this. Feeling other peoples shit and trying to resolve it for them in order to feel better. Exactly. Absolutely exactly.
@agent_exodus
@agent_exodus 3 жыл бұрын
And i must be wrong because no one got me... whew... wow.
@r.ivangriffin2190
@r.ivangriffin2190 3 жыл бұрын
Legit thought she was holding a teddy bear till it moved.
@ryandsetfree
@ryandsetfree 2 жыл бұрын
Same!
@SpiritLives
@SpiritLives 4 жыл бұрын
I am working through this. Ty for the video!
@deanmoulton8994
@deanmoulton8994 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you Candace, it feels as if we are evolving into a second consciousness. Great video!
@weirddiary6456
@weirddiary6456 4 жыл бұрын
I'm a 15 guy and I know nothing is wrong with me, I just feel really misunderstood. I'm for example sensitive for energy. Others energy are ao strong and it envelops me and drains me. I tried explaining to god damn psychologist that I'm sensitive to energy and I get drained. But they just ignore it and say: "It's a part of add. Take medication." They didn't even dive deep into me. They just saw the logic stuff. They just put me on medication because I have bad grades. My iq is 133. 99th percentile. I think holistic and it's difficult to learn through analytical thinking. I have never been understood by anyone. And the psychologists never understood me. I hate my father. They didn't even envolve emotions. How on earth are these morons just gonna put everyone in a category and say think black and white? That's anti-psychology. These bastards!!!!
@weirddiary6456
@weirddiary6456 4 жыл бұрын
This video awakened by deep hatred and rage. Thanks so much. (This is not sarcasm) im not a psycopath I just like when emotions come up to surface it's so releasing.
@DigMinistries2911
@DigMinistries2911 2 жыл бұрын
Will empaths ever have someone who genuinely love them? Not the type of love that loves just because of what we can do for them, but actually LOVE the person?
@emileerosebollwinkel2052
@emileerosebollwinkel2052 4 жыл бұрын
Amen! Thank you Candace you with your healing/coaching have helped me & my sisters as well. I'm so happy you have found your calling because it is helping me find mine. Universe bless you 💛💚💙💜❤
@madonnahooper9641
@madonnahooper9641 4 жыл бұрын
This puts everything in a nutshell so clearly. Thank you for this, Candace. You are such a gift to me and we HSPs. 💞🐕🐕🐕🐦
@Johnnyo1300
@Johnnyo1300 4 жыл бұрын
It’s deeper than that. Growing up as a little boy in foster homes I was always told I was too sensitive. First thing you think of as a boy when you’re told that is your week. And as a baby boomer you weren’t supposed to show weakness men don’t cry etc. so you need more than validation these children need to understand that it’s just like The color of their hair and it’s good to be sensitive it’s good to care it’s OK to cry etc. validation only goes so far action speaks louder than words I could go on and on I love what you do I just discovered this today never even heard of the term until this morning and I live with this my whole life in a way you wouldn’t believe! I’m curious do other highly sense People have trouble eating plants and vegetables I can’t stand them even fruit just can’t stand it never understood that either don’t know if one has anything to do with the other thanks again
@cosmosbaby7604
@cosmosbaby7604 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this video! Resonates 100%. Send you lots of love!
@btlfilmmedia9514
@btlfilmmedia9514 Ай бұрын
How to survive in a ruthless world being sensitive is not easy
@johnbehneman1546
@johnbehneman1546 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much!!!! We speak the same language.
@CharlotteLeguy
@CharlotteLeguy 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much! It resonates a lot!!! 🙏🙏🙏💓💓💓
@aliciaclare6771
@aliciaclare6771 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for this. It resonates so deeply!
@sportsamania
@sportsamania 2 жыл бұрын
Love you thanks candace
@whitneyupton7974
@whitneyupton7974 4 жыл бұрын
Yes. Wow.
@larsstougaard7097
@larsstougaard7097 4 жыл бұрын
Just what I needed to hear. Thanks ❤
@jillhill5421
@jillhill5421 4 жыл бұрын
Happy mother's day
@arjunmrao4039
@arjunmrao4039 4 жыл бұрын
Thumbs Up and Likes and Kisses to The Dog in your Lap
@wintersnow6816
@wintersnow6816 4 жыл бұрын
Thank You Precious Soul 🌹🍀 Amen! ;0)) This does make so much sense, thank You ;0)))
@ashaneg
@ashaneg 4 жыл бұрын
Cheers beautiful Lady 😄
@kneesoxjonze806
@kneesoxjonze806 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you 😊
@reneemohadeb9505
@reneemohadeb9505 4 жыл бұрын
Great video!!
@james7767
@james7767 4 жыл бұрын
Amen!
@whatkeepsmeupatnight33
@whatkeepsmeupatnight33 4 жыл бұрын
thank you 🙏
@Cbessette
@Cbessette 4 жыл бұрын
Candace I want your opinion ! So, I am definitely a highly sensitive person. But I have high anxiety to the point that I've been having panic attacks since I was very young. Being so sensitive to sounds around me and my sens, it gave me a lot of bad energy and anxiety. I also cry a lot, but im not really depressed, just very sensitive. I started medication for my anxiety, thinking that it would also cure my "crying". My anxiety has disapeared BUT I do still cry a lot. I was disapointed at first about that.. Although medication may seem like the bad option, it was the best one for my case. YES I still cry and YES im still very sensitive. But now I feel a lot less anxious and ready to work on my journey, work on my self esteem and work on loving my sensitivity... I hope one day I can become strong like you. Sending love from Québec Canada !
@silentgrove7670
@silentgrove7670 4 жыл бұрын
I cry a lot also for all kinds for reasons. Its okay to cry as a way to express how you are feeling. I was crying earlier today watching a video of some kind. Oh I cried yesterday watching a netflix show when a woman told a man she loved him. I cry when I am sad, I cry when something moves me. I cry when I am happy. Its okay. Ontario :P
@allthingsfashion86
@allthingsfashion86 4 жыл бұрын
Thanks beautiful
@sanchigulati2599
@sanchigulati2599 4 жыл бұрын
Oh my god where were u all my life
@silascochran9705
@silascochran9705 4 жыл бұрын
Hi Candice yes as it turns out I am the family scapegoat it sucks to be judge by people you couldn't hold a candle to your compassion but I am an angry man and a force to be reckoned with😁🏝🐊🙏 amen my niece likes your Channel but she has narcissistic traits so when I talk to her I feel her frustration she loves me I love her but we do not communicate well because as I said I am an angry man and I have dealt with pain Beyond imagination that's no s***
@feelingfeni4798
@feelingfeni4798 4 жыл бұрын
#ILOVEYOU
@halitst1
@halitst1 4 жыл бұрын
Your dog is so cute 😀
@MissPixel22
@MissPixel22 4 жыл бұрын
I need help with dark night of the soul
@yoginyoga6176
@yoginyoga6176 4 жыл бұрын
Carina Chandra Lopes
@hpaek59
@hpaek59 4 жыл бұрын
❤️🙏
@pinkglitterbunny6484
@pinkglitterbunny6484 4 жыл бұрын
YOU GOT A DOG
@parispeony23
@parispeony23 4 жыл бұрын
Your dog is so cute 🥰🐕 💝
@lila2144
@lila2144 3 жыл бұрын
Does anyone know the race we saw such a dog like hers in the woods today
@21stcenturyhippie42
@21stcenturyhippie42 4 жыл бұрын
Hsp?
@MrMrutube1987
@MrMrutube1987 3 жыл бұрын
Little tip.. your speaking to over sensitive people and as a 34 year old man who doesn't quite feel like a man .. referring to me as a kid doesn't help.. just saying.. please ignore this comment tho I'm very misunderstood.
@MrMrutube1987
@MrMrutube1987 3 жыл бұрын
However I do actually appreciate the fact you've tried to help. So please ignore my outburst and please take on board I appreciate what u do.
@aerinlynn1665
@aerinlynn1665 4 жыл бұрын
Stealing content and ideas from Inner Integration and calling it your own? Super shady. Self-serving shysters shouldn't be trying to heal others.
@rm-016hx7
@rm-016hx7 4 жыл бұрын
HEY THERE SUNSHINE I REALLY WANNA KISS
@behabtwa
@behabtwa 4 жыл бұрын
thank you 🌱
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