Hindsight is 20/20 - Odd One Out

International (non-UK) Version
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[@doesitmatter_YT]

The original is only viewable in the UK now so I made this version as an international edit. Nothing major has changed if you've already watched the original. Hopefully, this one will stay available internationally.

[@marissa2075]

THANK YOU, I've been trying to watch it but I can't cuz I'm not from the uk

[@phoenixmoon3]

thank you for this. Its so sad that people really are so picky with us women about weight. she has Curves and she's beautiful!

[@whoami23358]

Just letting you know that I’m currently watching in South Africa and it looks it’s available here

[@kaylaj6512]

Much appreciated

[@juliannealvaran6506]

Thank you for this ❤️ i miss jesy

[@23brathan23]

What annoys me is that she was never fat, she was a normal realistic weight for someone of her age. I remember the X factor days and all the vile comments I would see on Twitter. I honestly think she is so strong and feel sorry that behind closed doors she was suffering.

[@sugerbabev1978]

23brathan23 i always thought she was very pretty & looked beautiful.. i can’t believe people can be so cruel😰

[@melanie5757]

23brathan23 she literally has an amazing figure and people call her fat??? WHAT

[@izzysmith2356]

I mean I think I am fat but all of my friends are just like no your not your 13 and you way 75 that’s not fat

[@pan.nanana3044]

And even if she was indeed fat, they will NEVER have the pass to mentally abuse young people.

[@louise7542]

@xxaleenazxx an unrealistic weight is like supermodels who starve themselves or edited photos on social media. Weights that most people will never have and aren't very healthy to have

[@aj-qb6gh]

"Imagine if you had a giant and it held you in the hands so you could just go to sleep" omg. She just wanted someone to scoop her up and protect her from the world. I'm so sad rn. There was nothing wrong with her ffs. She didn't deserve it. Leigh crying makes so much sense now, she almost lost a sister.

[@mlcls]

😭😭

[@tassianeramosramos8061]

This absolutely breaks my heart

[@jxstadri]

It's just so upsetting that Jesy had to go through this and eventuelly still does...

[@darrencawston4503]

Ye the ferst time i had seen Leigh criying i wud of thinked she was just emoshhonall but now i conected the dots the reson she was criygin was cos she almost lost a sister. Wow

[@shreyakundliwal4237]

Good enough hits differently now.

[@SA-ft4gu]

Yeah it does

[@jxstadri]

It does...

[@sakshimaheshwari8683]

And The Cure too.

[@kamcalste]

Who else is here after the announcement that Jesy left? :( So heartbroken. I hope she heals. I will forever hate the world for what it did to her.

[@gigglyfitzgirl]

X Factor is trash for recording and airing that intimate moment between Jesy and Jade. 😤

[@myshrm1]

cant believe they lied to her and said it wasnt recorded...raging

[@darachamcglynn]

When was that ?

[@ScarletRain613]

I honestly didn't know that clip was recorded without their knowledge until tonight. That's so shitty. Possibly illegal, and if it isn't illegal, it should be.

[@leylamay727]

NNNNNNNO

[@mishaa9563]

@@ScarletRain613 I don't think they'd be able to do that now due to GDPR rules.

[@colerdlades]

Jesy was never "fat". I find it crazy that people could even say that about her where as other women with a similar body type, such as Jlo, Beyonce, Niki Minaj, are all praised for their curves.

[@violettbellerose1173]

it's the tone-deafness for me with this comment. I'm tired and done.

[@sajitanair5739]

Girl groups are most targeted. For no apparent reason unfortunately.

[@zeynabbbb]

Even if she was fat, she still didn't deserve all the bullying. She's a human being.

[@tiaravalentinodoll]

The bigger issue is.. even if she wasn't fat... she would still be bullied and still be tormented. NOBODY deserves this type of bullying no matter the body type.

[@paigestation8229]

As someone who used to suffer from really bad depression, seeing clips of her just trying to smile whilst the girls are happy and bubbly and saying she was envious of their happiness was like looking in a mirror. It really does take all of your energy to try and put on a brave face and it’s so exhausting. I’m gutted she’s left the group but I truly hope she can take time to heal now

[@WhatFadesAway]

I got into Little Mix really late, started liking Bounce Back and then all the other songs, and when I saw Jesy I just thought like okay she's the sexy sultry one of the group (they're all georgus, Jesy just gave that vibe off to me).. And like shortly later the documentary came and I was so shocked by all of it.. By the internet and how it could be.. I hope Jesy and the girls are happy now and living their best lives now

[@kat_the_ot]

Same. I only got into Little Mix this year and I remember thinking how unique Jessy was. Like I just could not take my eyes off her! Also she is fucking gorgeous. The documentary just broke my heart and made me love her even more. She is by far my favorite member. I mean I love them all but her most.

[@captainbubblebath3330]

Same! I only really got into them this year, and Jesy always gave off the "sexy confident" vibe, like the kind of commanding presence when she walks in the room kinda thing. Learning about all the bullying she went through broke my heart - No one deserves that kind of abuse

[@abbigailbausch5645]

Same. I got into them this year. I wish they were less underrated in America.

[@annastone]

I was a harmonizer since 2012 and I remember all the hate towards Jesy from my fandom, directioners and anonymous people but I never understood why. She’s beautiful, funny, incredible woman. I feel so bad because I never defended her, I never laughed or shared the pictures or tweets but now I’m so angry at myself and others. I just wish I could protect all of them.

[@valmar01]

It makes me so sad. I've been a fan since DNA. I can't believe that all this happened behind the scenes and she never showed her pain. Its so weird because while I was jamming out to their songs Jesy was probably having a panic attack or some shit. I would've never thought this strong, brave, beautiful and funny woman was going through something like this. Now that I have gone and am still going through depression I can relate to some of her pain. Stay strong Jesy, we love you.

[@blink-pu3gh]

Shout out to those haters of Jesy... You should have put your feet on her shoes and see if you can made it until now. We love you Jesy no matter what they say. Don't mind what they say,we always got your back.

[@ScarletRain613]

To be completely honest, I would never have the sort of strength that she has to prevail through all this nasty shit, even if I had the best friends she does. Those girls are legitimately blessed to have each other. My older sister is the Jesy to my Perrie, and our best friend is the Jade to our Pesy. Sadly we haven't found our own Leigh yet, but we'll find her soon.

[@lisamarieaasheim3654]

The strongest and the prettiest girl i know! She just deserve all the best!❤ it makes me so sad that she has had to go through so much, she is the nicest person on earth!😢💕💕💕 LOVE Jesy!!❤

[@cnlyrics2321]

8:50 Perrie to Leighanne is a moment I’ll never forget

[@makotopark7741]

And now she has left because she tipped over the edge, pushed by continuous trolling and hating... it seemd like people didnt learn from Odd One Out

[@gigglyfitzgirl]

Goodness this brought up all the emotions again 🤧

[@mah9116]

can we talk about how supportive jade has been for her?! i need someone like her in my life

[@emilysian8532]

This world can be so so hard , and some people are such trash . My heart aches 💕💕

[@palak7420]

I am a normal mixer...I always cry watching this

[@lamhierue]

Im literally sobbing 😭😭😭 Jesy is the most beautiful, talented and the strongest woman i've ever looked up to, she deserves all the love and appreciation and so much more ❤❤❤

[@sophielou2929]

The fact that she was going through all of this and her performance skills were still 10 times better than a lot of the biggest pop stars is incredible and sad. She just deserves so much more

[@ldjsjsbdvsns836]

I always cry when I listen her suicide attempt

[@nutelltah4627]

I'm not a massive fan of little mix but as someone who watches the xfactor, there was never one point in my youth where I looked at her any differently. I've always looked upto her for her voice and I've always thought she was so beautiful like the other girls. People have such unrealistic expectations of people, she is just so down to earth and a sweetheart. I wish I had said how much I loved her back when they debuted but I was like 8 years old so I never knew of these issues

[@user-go2rh9yg8i]

uggghhh I really hate that she went through this. She is such a genuine person, but I am glad she grew and became one with herself. Such a queen !

[@joydoesstuff8471]

Why you gotta make me cry like this again and again 😭💔.

[@scarlettlight7175]

Man, it’s even harder to watch this now💔💔 we love you Jesy thank you for everything you have done for this band. Your health is so important and you have to do what’s best for you ❤️

[@seductivelady55seductivela34]

Jessy dont mind them jealous people . Ur beautiful woman . keep ur head up high and keep positive .

[@BlueGlow26]

Good Enough and The Cure always gets me teary eyed

[@keeperofkeys3186]

Love it. Jesy. You are strong beautiful and so inspiring. Love you.❤❤❤❤

[@michime7860]

I'm grateful to jesy for coming out and mentioning all this 😭 she's so strong!!!

[@LeticiaSantos-mk9ld]

I've been a fan of them for 5 years and I watched some of these live interviews and I had no idea what was really going on. it breaks my heart! Jesy never deserved it!

[@lily3376]

Explains why the girls get so emotional through good enough

[@aoife5800]

I honestly always liked jessie the best i always thought she had the best personality and looked the prettiest

[@kg_xo4673]

Never was much a fan of little mix but seeing these videos and seeing how supportive they are for each other has made me a fan. They have true genuine love for each other unlike some groups. Ps my daughter was born to no more sad songs😍

[@svevachiavaroli3348]

When I first saw the documentary I cried my heart out. Looking back I realised that a few songs had a new meaning, her facial expressions and stuff. She was so fucking talented and wonderful and I wonder how people could be so mean trough a girl that was just living her dream. She deserves the world.

[@larahiwa5121]

I don’t understand why did people hated her for her waight she’s a singer not a model she’s making music for ears and not for eyes 🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️

[@ginasmith2976]

Weight... but true

[@tiffanyprobus6363]

Unfortunately looks matter to many people... And waaay too damn much. Doesn't matter if you're a good person or not as long as you're skinny. 😡

[@castagnabrothers4273]

@@ginasmith2976 so what

[@ginasmith2976]

@@castagnabrothers4273 They just spelled it wrong. absolutely no hate to jesy.

[@ginasmith2976]

@Becca yeah, i don't understand. i know if i could've back then i would've been shouting i love you everyday every hour.

[@poorvithakur8268]

I swear! Jesy is the strongest person alive , she is so genuine and i am so proud of the LITTLE MIX. I hope u guys never split and stay together forever. #mixerforever❤️

[@davidwilliamson5020]

When they first won x factor, I always thought of Jesy being the one who could really sing, and the prettiest one

[@charlottet6755]

I'm crying! Jesy is amazing, kind, beautiful and such a role model for all of us! It is so sad to see her so sad! 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

[@Emily-xf2fz]

I love her, doesn't matter what❤

[@ttylerdurrden]

She is a remarkable woman, a role model and more than beautiful. All of them are so beautiful and stunning. I'm happy that she found herself and that she is in a happier place. Go on Jesy, you are amazing ♥️🙏

[@deebabes6141]

I never heard of them until their black magic song, and Jesy immediately was my favorite.. I follow them now and Jesy is still my fave.. I didn’t even know that this was happening behind closed curtains 😪 So proud of the woman you’ve become Jesy ❤️

[@nataliejones8308]

I don't give a shit when haters are pulling Jesy down. I mean that is not called for. I had suffered depressions and panic attacks but Jesy saved my life. Hearing Jesy saying these things just breaks my heart and would tell every single haters 'You have made a horrible choice making Jesy feel like she's not herself'. I want Jesy to be happy and not worry about the hate comments. Whenever she feels like she wants to start over, it's her choice. I want her to feel like she's loving herself and making everyone laugh. She's my idol and I love her

[@amiguelaguirre7839]

I love you Queen Jesy 💛💛

[@jlew3275]

I wish she could see how beautiful she has turned out to be , and that she has always been .

[@JudeAussie]

Beautiful inside and out. Sweet, kind, compassionate, talented, amazing and strong. The complete package. Haters have nothing better to do than hide cowardly behind their computer screens pushing people they don’t even know to the point of suicide. They’re nothing but pathetic POS who should all be name and shamed.

[@princesskwik8637]

The Lord's spirit lives in you Jesy. Use it to light your candle Darling. Keep inspiring. #YouAreBlessed

[@macksworld3265]

princess kwik I noticed the account that posted the video loved every single comment except for this one

[@princesskwik8637]

@@macksworld3265 well lucky me. It's a good thing I don't Post for likes. I just post truth. That's all

[@doesitmatter_YT]

@@macksworld3265 I didn't heart it cause I don't believe in God. It's not a diss at princess kwik. They do and that's great but I'm not going to endorse something I don't personally believe in. It would be insincere and lessen the meaning for people who believe in the sentiment of the "Lord's spirit lives in you". Also if this is the only comment you saw not hearted on this video, you didn't scroll down far enough.

[@palcada]

I always knew Jesy was going through hard stuff because I was going through the same issues. It feels like we are helping each other grow and heal.

[@jasmineroseabdulaziz9343]

Jessy is strong I love u jessy❤❤

[@mikeykm1993]

People are either extremely cruel or they do not understand what words can do to people. How people can be so cruel is beyond my comprehension. Poor woman went through hell for absolutely no reason other than other peoples complete and utter ignorance.

[@emorylamar]

Jesy is one of the most beautiful souls I’ve ever saw and the fact people criticized her for her beauty the X factor should’ve stopped the hate and made her feel like a million bucks

[@molly9420]

I ❤ you Jesy

[@jayekisses]

I’ve noticed now she covers up her tattoos way more than ever with her sheer long sleeve shirts. I wonder if she got some of them when she was at her lowest & now that she’s over come it she doesn’t want to see them again? Or is just growth with style

[@doesitmatter_YT]

I don't think so. Most of them she got in 2016/2017 esp the ones on her arm.

[@jayekisses]

doesitmatter well the ones I’m talking about r the ones on her arms

[@doesitmatter_YT]

@@jayekisses Right, that's why I don't think so. She was at her lowest in 2013/2014 when she attempted.

[@aryahharrison1718]

This broke my heart. I’ve always compared her to a doll one of the Bratz I had growing up because of her big buggy eyes I love! She’s such a strong kind person and her insecurities only make her more beautiful to us all! I’m so proud of her!

[@sesebiss7252]

She deserves the world she inspires me so much I love her a lot she inspires me to be confident and happy with myself I love you jesy and you are one of the reasons of my happiness ❤️❤️

[@zaynebsumar10]

Who's cutting onions in here?

[@goprocallumandotherthing3821]

she is so beautiful ❤❤

[@danica_s_love_sunsets]

Dear jesy Nelson I really do now what you are going though and I just want to say that you are not the odd one out because there are a lot of people who love you in the world but you just don't know it and there are a lot of people who care about you because every time I watch little mix music videos I think wow she is the prettiest women I have ever seen in my life so always remember you really butiful just the way you are🌺🌷🌹

[@jaedasmalls2227]

Jesy you are beautiful. I look up to you because I was bully because of the way I look. I wanted to end life. I still feel like that. Please continue to go and sing your heart out. Do what you love. I love to hear you and everyone else sing. Even though I’m not from the uk I still listen to your music and it makes me happy.

[@lifeofsheila4041]

Now she's goals for me😍

[@applerapple3446]

Here is an easier way to skip the suicide part 4:01

[@liseevant520]

Ill cry , it hits different now ...

[@ellenpatriksson2483]

This is a little of topic but I just LOVE her clothes, like I want all her clothes they are so cute and cool

[@emmabrown868]

Beauty is in personality and kindness. You are a talented woman and if you didn't exist then my life would never be full. :) Don't worry! I Love you Jesy!

[@ayshabegum3721]

Jesse you are so brave and beautiful,truly amazing to put up with what you did and come out on top.other band mates are also amazing,how they tried to lift her up

[@dianneescalante8614]

Just sad that Jesy need to go through this. Stay Strong Jesy! Stay Strong Little Mix!! #LittleMixMySpiritAnimal

[@jakeemdear7391]

I love my queen jesy

[@belencampos341]

Now it does have so much sense when the girls cried at Good Enough at the Salute Tour... I want to hug them so bad.

[@Anacardiff]

People can be really bastards, I mean, let's suppose you don't like this girl, but, why would you actually attack her online? I mean, that's just sick. It breaks my heart to see her suffering like that, it's so unfair. She's young, talented and beautiful, but... depression is a monster. But in this case, the depression was caused by mean, horrible people, why? This girl don't deserve that...

[@djfhfh]

I understand how she feels. I was always bigger and taller than my friends im 5 foot 10 and really curvy. Grown men used to shout horrible things out the car windows at me as i walked to school with my friends. , one time they threw a can of coke and it hit me in the face and give me a black eye.. The worse person was a 25 year old in my street i was 14, he tourtured me 😔 he was the most nastiest person ive ever met. Im still terrified ill walk past him in the street even tho im a married mother of 2 now. All because i wasnt petite and blonde like my friends.. I almost starved to death in 2010 😔 people are horrible i still suffer to this day because of it but i have recovered from aneroxia.. Ive never wrote that and spoke of it untill i watched this documentary

[@NativeEastLondoner]

@@djfhfh Wow. I am half an inch taller than you and completely relate to what you are saying. I starved myself too. I was always the big one. I lost so much weight that I looked like a lollipop. Everyone panicked but I couldn't hear them. My dad repeatedly said I looked like a skeleton but I was just happy to not be called big anymore. Now I am an overweight, married mother of two. I don't know if I will ever have a completely healthy relationship with food - I always eat either too much or too little.

[@djfhfh]

@@NativeEastLondoner in overweight too to be honest ive never really admitted to Myself that i do suffer with binge eating disorder 😔 my new years resolution is too stop putting myself down, stop comparing myself to others its such a waste! I would love to lose 21 pounds but i know from experience at that weight i look like a skeleton. I wish my frame wasnt as big as it is, i get so many compliments on how big my hips are compared to my waist and i know people mean well but it makes me so sad i dont want these huge hips it makes me look so wide. I hateeee my legs, anytime i wear a skirt people say how long my legs are but all i see is these giant veiny wobbly horrible legs, fashion models dont help, i looked at them as a young teen and thought that was what i needed to be as a tall woman, i think we need to start seeing the good parts and embracing the parts we dont like untill we do, because constantly bullying yourself is not right♥

[@MarathonHG]

I always felt Jesy has a special quality that made the band stand out. They are all fantastic girls and singers...but she had something...that made it all work. They wouldn't have been as successful without her. Good to hear she didn't give up, but a shame she didn't enjoy it. Tough journey...glad it's all come good.

[@selenachokr7968]

Courage and strength to Jessy, all his family and all those around him too 🤲🏻✊🏻💪🏻🙏🏻🥺😭😢😥😓🥰😘💋❤♥️👑

[@gigglyfitzgirl]

Thanks for uploading this again. Hopefully KZbin won't be a jerk and delete it.

[@christiantreid]

I pray for Jesy so much! I hope she’s ok! We love you Jesy!

[@ImBenGee]

after watching this, good enough now makes so much sense

[@asjeable]

LOVE YOU SO MUCH JESSY! YOU'RE MY ROLE MODEL AND YOU ARE THE MOST BEAUTIFUL AND FUNNY AND STRONG WOMAN I KNOW! ALL THE LOVE FOM HOLLAND! (people who say these things to you have only one brain cell, remember that, hope you read this) I suffer from depression, so i know how you feel. ALL THE LOVE COMING YOUR WAY FROM HOLLAND XXX

[@asjeable]

WE ALL LOVE HERE, DON'T WE?!

[@tiffanyprobus6363]

Ughh I know all too well with years of being bullied for weight. Many people don't care if you're a good person or not as long as you look good. 😡

[@terecee1204]

I just want to give her a huge hug and tell her she's beautiful.

[@neszelmaemaciado2130]

♥️♥️♥️

[@shaylazeno5321]

Jesy you are beautiful and strong don't let anyone tell you different if they do they are jealous of you because you are so beautiful

[@kaceywillamson9606]

Jesy is so so pretty like don’t hate urself cause u are acc so worth it in this world no one should fat shame you, u are who u are, don’t let anyone change that like and this goes for all the others girls,, there just jealous they can’t be a stunner,,

[@bettyjones8363]

Jesy, you are so beautiful, inside and out. Ignore the cruel trolls with their sad lives

[@denisesmith4813]

JES Y FOR EVER

[@phionaniwagaba4817]

Jesy 😭😭😭😭I love you 🥺shame on you bullies.

[@pan.nanana3044]

I always shed the tear when I go back to the time when I have absolutely no idea that Jesy is depressed and is s**cidal. I want to hug her and that bit when Perrie said Jesy wants someone to scoop her up and watch her sleep ❤️

[@gorgeymix7273]

hits different now she left the group

[@Dragnet5]

Jesy is gorgeous and deserves to be cuddled

[@MATT-dw3lu]

Shes gorgeous if you saw me as a teen I was covered in acne shes been very brave ! As they say it's hard to please everyone but easy to piss them off !

[@leahkassidyslife1420]

I’m genuinely crying I’ve done the exact same things as her

[@literallyaduck530]

Hey, i hope you feel better and happier now. Just so you know, if you need somebody to talk to, i will be there

[@millywalker4803]

I hate the fact people made her feel like this as she said she should have been living her life to the fullest but she couldn't because of some people she wasnt even fat she looked beautiful x

[@princessnyracorpuz6363]

I know I’m kinda late, but I really wonder, why people need to jugde? What’s the point? It doesn’t make them prettier. They don’t even know who that person is. Why are they judging? Just to gain attention? Attention seekers?. They didn’t realize that it’s really affecting that person. If I’m on Jesy’s situation, I’ll do the same thing. Cause I feel the same feelings she felt. Why would they judge people just based on the physical appearance? It really gets on my nerves. Jesy don’t deserve those hates and she will never deserve it. She deserves love. She deserves REAL fans. Only a real fan understand her stuggle, that’s why were here for you Jesy, we love you so much!😍❤️

[@Cersilaria22]

I absolutely adore these vids youve made , they are heartbreaking but show jessies progress , it brings tears to my eyes, there amazing girls and i cant BELEIVE the comments that people made about jessie its vile .....they deserve the worst in life and hopefully KARMA will repay those evil people xxxx

[@fellanefnaf3960]

I knew jesy was getting bullied before this because I had a friend and me being an obsessed mixer I decided to introduce little mix to that friend ..and the first thing he said was like why does that girl look like that ..she doesn't fit blablabla and i was so mad ..stupid people

[@hollymcgrath1337]

It's funny because I would always look at Jest and think she's the definition of beautiful and i always wanted to look like her. Shes gorgeous stunning like Jessica Rabbit

[@kaymarie252]

i remember seeing all the negative comments during the Xfactor days and im pretty sure i wrote a comment defending her saying that she had a larger chest then the other girls which made her look 'bigger' then the other girls and it really annoyed me that i even had to write that to defend her when she didnt deserve the hate in the first place.

[@lydiaxx3927]

Jesy is so strong

[@auroramarieclaire4898]

Watching in 2021 omg it makes me cry... I know how it feels to be cast out, I know how it feels to be compared, to be criticized for the way you look and to think you're not good enough. I totally relate on so many levels and this is my first time in my life to actually relate to a celebrity.

[@prestonsaysheckno]

2:57 highlights her breaking point

[@cringefacegrande9694]

thx for making this :) is there a possibility you could make a video of jade protecting little mix like checking up on the other 3 when there upset and stuff?

[@doesitmatter_YT]

I'll look into it!

[@victoriamcintyre3772]

But she is so gorgeous inside and out, and always has been. If she ever sees this, Jesy please know that you are amazing, and beautiful and we all just want you to be happy. Xx

[@mafiadog2246]

Victoria Mcintyre pass the sick bucket

[@victoriamcintyre3772]

@@mafiadog2246 lol ok troll. Back in your sad little cave

[@mafiadog2246]

Victoria Mcintyre truth hurts you pathetic, fawning, cringe worthy fuckwit. Ps fuck off.

[@powergirl4736]

@@mafiadog2246 You're the one who's not welcome here xD why would you watch a video you're not interested in? Thanks for the view anyway :)

[@v1kasaurus]

In America, ty for this

[@rubymay4012]

I love you girls