Hoarders Aren't Just Messy, They're Trauma Victims

Meet Julie. Julie has had a lot of trauma in the past few years which has triggered some hoarding. She grew up in a hoarded home, but actually kept a clean and tidy home for the most part up until a few years ago when she had multiple traumatic events occur. Hoarding was one of the ways she dealt with the trauma. Find out more about Julie's particular case and even hear straight from her some of the things that she has been struggling with.
This is the first in what will be a series of videos of this home as we go through and declutter and clean different areas of the home.
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[@DonnaJoyMaker]

Bonnie's mom here. This has been quite the project. I'm glad I could help my daughter clean.

[@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp]

Me too! Thanks for your help, mama!🥰😘

[@kateavedissian3273]

You are amazing! I miss my mama. So glad B has you!

[@johnkelly9451]

I can see where Bonnie gets her hard work ethics and determination from. Enjoy seeing you both help eachother and your exchanges together are just wonderful! You are an amazing mom and raised an amazing daughter! Thank you both for helping and helping the viewers too!

[@carolynkuehn574]

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[@kristinehuggins4389]

I think what your daughter is doing for all of these wonderful people is so admirable. She quite obviously cares with her whole heart. I suffer from PTSD and a lot of childhood trauma that I’m working hard on with a lot of help and I think for me the one constant on my journey is the complete absence of any kind of judgement because in reality, no one wants to be at risk and now at 39 and having severe degenerative disc disease and 2 botched spinal fusions and more surgeries to come. No one chooses trauma. We all deal with things in many different ways but at the end of the day we are all humans. I absolutely love watching these videos for what your daughter does and you as well ❤ but it also helps to not feel so alone. Very inspiring all the way around ❤ you’re all a true blessing

[@lisathurston8265]

It was My Pleasure working with you. You are such a sweetie to help this person out. I would love to come and help more. Can't say thank you enough for the opportunity. Like Bonnie says please be kind in the comments. She really needs the help. She is a sweet and kind person. Send Love and Hugs Not negative comments. 💞😍😘🤗

[@jonfen1657]

Mean people can just suck it. ;) You did a great job!

[@keljo2041]

You are a mega cleaning machine 😊 I’d want you to clean my house, trouble is I live in England ! Good job Lisa ❤

[@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp]

Thanks, Lisa! It was fun working with you! You're a powerhouse! We'll do it again soon!!💜❤️🥰

[@Ilovebirdgag]

you two have the golden arms

[@cat-mum-Jules]

We'll spin kick em out of the room! 😂​@@jonfen1657

[@madzabinga8382]

It never ceases to amaze me how a small group of women can come together and help change another woman's life for the better. This is the definition of Girl Power! We all need support and understanding from others and this was so wonderful to see. You rallied around her and lifted her up with your help!

[@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp]

🥰🙏

[@Tobyszia]

People really criticize how you clean?!?!! Wow I’m always in awe of what you accomplish.

[@leashy1204]

IKR!!!!?💕🌟💕🌟💕🌟💕🌟

[@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp]

Yup, it's weird. At least for every criticism, there's at least 2 to 300 other people who are very encouraging.😊❤️

[@TamaraSanchez-kg2cd]

Love to watch you & listen to you explain the what, why & how of your process. In this video I loved that you had help. It's a lot to do for one person. Your mom is awesome. And, Lisa. It's fantastic that you gave her the chance to help a person also.

[@angelarothbauer8096]

I find it weird that they criticize- the whole concept of helping others seems to escape these people

[@cherylkoski-pe8gw]

Me, too!

[@catspyjamas7944]

I’m one of those people who have a “trauma timeline”. Once things reach critical mass your nervous system basically goes into partial collapse. I actually started mysteriously fainting at random times without medical explanation. I almost had to give up driving because I’d be found passed out in car parks. Anyone standing in judgement of people like this lady have probably not walked a mile in her shoes, or they have had sufficient support around them that they were able to cope just enough to get through. I get it. The human body and psyche was never equipped to endure unending high levels of traumatic stress without periods of recovery. I’m doing much better now but my heart goes out to everyone fighting for their survival. Bonnie, you are truly a blessing to humanity.

[@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp]

I agree with your statement about the human body and psyche not being "equipped to endure unending high levels of traumatic stress without periods of recovery." Very well said. I'm so glad you're in a better place and I hope "Julie" can get there. If you are just starting this series of her house, you will see by the last one that things did not end up very well as hard as we tried, but I'm still holding out hope she will get the therapy she needs to truly deal with this disorder.

[@JustJ-Me]

I so agree with you ❤️‍🩹

[@JustJ-Me]

​@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp I typed a comment, but wasn't sure if you'd see it. @ 10:45 may I ask where you got that pod/ how I may contact them?

[@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp]

@@JustJ-Me It was through a company called Velox, but I think they may just be Utah-based. I'm sure if you Google "storage pod rentals near me," you could find something similar.

[@sarahlewis7820]

seems this poor lady has had very little support, physically or mentally. you are an angel in disguise.

[@sherim132]

Im surprised how many perfect people there are in the world that they can judge people so harshly. I think its great that people like Bonnie, Mack, and Barbie and all the others have created a community to help people.

[@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp]

😊❤️🙏

[@annwilliams6438]

Also have a look at another channel in this circle of cleaning angels: Coline Cleans. She is in Holland.🇳🇱

[@CorneliaBoot]

@@annwilliams6438coline cleans

[@megwolff58]

One of the most important concepts you mentioned and demonstrated in this video was the idea of compassionate "companioning." Three generations of women being present to help another woman who is suffering. It used to be common in communities, but not so much these days. I was deeply moved to see it in action again in this video. Thankyou to Bonnie, Mum and Lisa.

[@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp]

Yes, I'm learning that is a big part in helping these individuals. They need to feel listened to and understood before they can really trust you enough to actually help them. I think so often people would come in and just toss everything out because it's not valuable to them, but that just re-traumatizes the person to whom it is valuable to. It's sad that so often their voice has not really been heard.

[@tracymarierobles4471]

I like watching videos like this where people are helping other people clean and declutter their homes. I feel I get inspired to clean and declutter and organize my own home

[@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp]

Thanks, Tracy! I'm glad it inspires you. 😊❤️

[@HeatherStevens-go5ry]

The fact that you are willing to take on such a huge job with so much compassion is inspiring. That kitchen looks fabulous! What a great team effort. :)

[@marinaroper6922]

I have a friend that has hoarding issues, she allowed to help her once when her older daughter was getting married and she wanted a small Gathering at home. I couldn’t understand her, but I remain quiet and help her. She did had a couple of traumatic events in her life. Thank you for helping me understand her better.

[@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp]

Of course. It is a hard thing to understand and I still don't completely get it, but I'm trying.

[@4455thor]

HUGS for Julie. Life is hard and sometimes we fall short. I stand all amazed that you were able to ask for help. And thank you to all of your helpers. Have a great weekend. ❤‍🩹

[@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp]

Absolutely right. We ALL fall short somewhere. That's what our Savior is for. 🥰🙏

[@4455thor]

@@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp I most certainly know how hard it is to ask for help. My clothing has been in disorderly heaps for AGES. But tonight we (my hubby and I) grabbed a BIG trash bag and filled in all the clothing that I no longer wear (nor do they fit), but they were too good to trash. So tomorrow my friend gets TWO big bags of clothing to look at. (And I told her another friends name who can take, what she can't use). It feels SO good.

[@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp]

That's so awesome! It DOES feel so good!

[@emaleighadamslyle9099]

I don’t think it matters how you choose to clean as long as the outcome is the same, there may be faster methods or methods that are better for the enviroment but for messes like this… as long as it gets clean and improves the owners quality of life who cares how you get there. Thank you for being so willing to help people clean up their homes, I’m sure it brings them such relief!

[@NewJerseyLaw]

Worth the wait! Bonnie, STOP! being so apologetic about yourself. STOP!!!!! You are a force of nature, as is your Mother. The welcome addition of your helper looks like the beginnings of an army!

[@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp]

Was I? I actually don't remember being that apologetic in this one, but it's very possible. Still getting that confidence. Thank you for your kind words!💕

[@mollybradshaw9336]

True. Never complain, never explain.....no need.

[@lauralaforge558]

​@@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wpyou're doing a million times better with the not apologizing.

[@MsNdrstd1]

your mom raised a winner

[@debralaforest9274]

You and your mom are amazing and “Julie” is great for asking for help. As Mack says, even if they regress they had a period of living in a clean, orderly space. Such a blessing!

[@crazycatlady1111]

It amazes me how you are able to sort out all that chaos. It must feel really liberating and a bit weird for Julie to have so much more space available. I work as a social worker and I have seen my fair share of flats in more or less catastrophic states, I wish there were more people like you! I know how hard it is. ❤ (And yes, I often helped my clients to start the process of decluttering and cleaning. Especially the younger ones who are often quite clueless about keeping their flats in check or how they can conquer their laundry, dishes and overall stains.) I loved doing that and I always tried to get my hands on these clients. 🥰

[@diane7546]

Good Lord Hun. You worked and scrubbed your fingers off. Hoarding disease runs in my family. My Mother was a hoarder and her Mother was too. I have a sister that is buried alive. Alot of people don't understand the disease. I'm not sure I fully understand it myself. Thank God I didn't inherit that gene. I'm more of a "Clean Freak" since growing up in a situation like that. God bless all of you for helping this lady and her husband get some kind of order back into their home. You guys did some detailed cleaning up in there. 👍👍🫂❤

[@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp]

I have decided it is up there with schizophrenia as far as one of the worst mental disorders. It really disrupts so many things and, not only is it usually caused by trauma, but it can traumatize all of those involved in the hoarder's life. I totally understand going the exact opposite direction growing up in a house like that and yet I also understand how that just becomes the norm and you just continue living like that. It's such a difficult thing to treat and so sad to watch what it does to the hoarder and their family.😔

[@thechickincharge1073]

I would have to wear ear plugs to be able to cope with her incessant talking. Just what you've shown makes me feel total panic!! Just the talking, not the stuff. That is amazing that you do her laundry. You never cease to amaze me! As I've gotten older it has been harder to keep the amount of things under control, so I understand with trauma how it can consume. I pray this will make her feel amazing! Great job!!!

[@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp]

Yes, honestly, all the talking was hurting my brain. 😬It has been better the last couple times I've been there as I have been working in the basement and more by myself or with one other person.

[@intherockies]

​@@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp Would wearing noise canceling headphones (when the noise becomes too much) help? Maybe something you can try 🤷🏼‍♀️

[@jeanchecefsky3791]

Whos the other lady?

[@hushhush85]

@@jeanchecefsky3791 that's Bonnies mom☺

[@LaToyaPlansLife]

I agree. Even with the video being sped up is driving me crazy 😮 God bless you for helping her ❤

[@Elizagrace9]

Bonnie, thank you for being so open in sharing the isses you had in school with your shyness. Your emotion in talking about this brought tears to my eyes. 😢 I know many of your followers empathize with you. That time of life could really be challenging!! Thank you for your work and service to orhers in need!! I love watching you.💖

[@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp]

Thank you so much!

[@mariaalvarez8385]

Your helper is a very good cleaner. She is a keeper. Great Job ladies!

[@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp]

Agreed!!

[@maryscott7685]

I appreciate the way in which you handled this cleaning. Hoarding is a very debilitating mental health condition.

[@jenniferknowles7219]

I think you have a super power in real life Bonnie. This is going to make the home owner feel great. When you have a messy or hoarded house it really weighs heavy on your mind and self esteem. You are very inspiring! ❤👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏

[@CaroleCanada]

I think it’s so important when the homeowner is involved with the cleaning. You all did such a great job!

[@deborahallen5162]

I give you enormous credit for being able to handle the chatter. I would not have been able to do it. Way too much stimulation for me. You are a blessing

[@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp]

I was actually losing my mind a little bit with all the chatter. I had to make other arrangements the other times that I went over there to make sure that I wasn't surrounded by so much talking. It was kind of necessary those first couple of days just because we had limited room to work in and a lot of people helping, so just discussing how to do things was necessary. It wasn't easy though.😬

[@oderstein9368]

It's so awesome that she got the help now and not later. Yes it was a really bad situation but from what I've seen so far, you could still save a lot of stuff. Had she waited longer you might have been faced with walls and mountains of her decomposing belongings and much more biohazard

[@themomvlogger1856]

Y’all helped this woman out in a huge way. Very admirable 💜

[@MickeyC321]

Great work! The “trolls” will find their way to try to spoil something that is working. Such sadness and ager resides in them. BUT, you rise above them because, they will never understand true goodness.keep on keeping on. I understand completely working quietly. It’s therapeutic and calming. You are wise to accept help in certain situations in order to get the job done. Bless you.

[@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp]

Thank you! I think next time I work there, I'm going to try to pick an area to work on with some earbuds and music on because I definitely have had a lot of anxiety with all of the constant chatter while working there, but I knew it was kind of necessary especially in the beginning to have that much help and that much input from the homeowner, but now that I know a little bit about what our goals are, I feel like I can work a little bit more on my own and get a lot of organizing into categories done.😊

[@dweamy1]

I really admire you, I would not know where to start ! Thank you for helping Julie.

[@angelinatesta3918]

Sad,lonely,isolated,my heart hurts for these ppl they surround themselves with how they feel inside 😢 I hope she feels better now

[@marybedy9760]

Had to pause this one twice - once to dust my living room furniture and once to clean my entry way floor. Thank you for getting me off my behind! And thank you for what you are doing for others. You make a difference.

[@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp]

That's the best reason to pause a video.😄 I love that it motivated you! I also will put on one of my favorite cleaning channels while I am cleaning to casually watch and listen to because it helps to motivate me. It's kind of like I'm cleaning with a friend.🤗❤️

[@johnkelly9451]

I carry my phone around with me while dusting room to room while playing cleaning videos and set phone on mantel, hutch ect... great company and motivation and get to watch in between dusting pictures and knick nacks ect., folding laundry, doing dishes, ect. , I end up looking for things to do to finish a video! tks Bonnie! (Mack, Barbie, Mira!) (Coline too!) You each have your gifted Super Powers that motivate us, but you are all incredible making the transformations happen! Gives us all hope looking at our weekly, daily, monthly, yearly messes and awesome cleaning tips too!

[@dianamarzano8445]

LOVE ALL YOU LADIES !!! THANK YOU SO MUCH 🥰💖🙏🌹🌹♥️♥️♥️

[@wendyduwe3995]

Loved this video. I think Julie is so brave to put her life out there and to face her trauma. Julie if you read this, you are making progress. I am so glad that you are taking control of the trauma. I struggle with depression and grief. On bad days I give myself 5 - 10 minutes to feel my feelings and that is all I give it . It is still deep down inside, but I am able to function better than I could before. Love and hugs.

[@ErocasEclecticEphemera]

Never worry about the ones that criticize...you are doing great things...i am new to your chanel and i am binge watching as many as i can ...it motivates me to get my place done

[@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp]

Oh, thank you so much! I'm glad you're here!

[@Cindy-cq8zr]

Wtg Mom! She was a great help! I miss my Mom everyday.

[@colinecleans]

Wow, Bonnie! You really upped your game with this cleaning! What a tremendous amount of work. 💪The living room looked so much better. And you even did the laundry! 🫶 Your mom has such a young spirit and a loving heart!! 🩵 I hope Julie will feel a sense of relieve after this. 🩵 Love X Coline

[@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp]

Thanks so much, Coline. 💜I think we wore her out this last week, so we may need to take a break this coming week and then get back to it. I certainly wouldn't mind the break either. This has been a big job. But I also don't want to lose momentum, so it's a tough call. I guess we will play it by ear.😊

[@s-potter]

The seemingly subliminal “call 911” made me giggle. Wonderful job as always!!

[@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp]

Right?!😄

[@Wolfnettles]

I think you ladies are really wonderful.❤

[@karencaudill8148]

I love how you spray the dishes and soak them in the huge totes.

[@bonnieknighton7296]

It's amazing that there are people who take time out of their life to watch an entire video and then make the effort to craft a snarky, hateful remark. Who has the time for such negativity?! Oh, they didn't actually watch the video? They just scrolled, saw a few seconds with an imperfect situation, made a snap judgment, and then allowed themselves to feel superior by leaving an ignorant uninformed comment. Well, I am not sure who I pity more, the person who hateful or the ignorant. Well, it's not the home owner because she's got Bonbon on her team! Great job Bonster and great job Home owner, so proud of you both.

[@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp]

Yep, you described perfectly the type of scenario that I envision when people leave negative comments. I never feel bad for deleting those remarks because they didn't even take the time to watch the video and I can tell from their comments. So...buh-bye! 😊

[@innovativesolutions2428]

God Bless you guys for helping without judgement.

[@traceywood5948]

Amazing work! Love your heart and compassion ❤️

[@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp]

Thank you so much!

[@rhondalockrey9592]

It must be so hard for people to reach out for help but wow would it be life changing for them to have a fresh start! Fantastic job as always!

[@irenea2006]

Wow, 72 years old. Impressive energy. Way to go.

[@jenniferjohnson7955]

You have a gift that you share free. What a joy you are to others 😊

[@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp]

Wow, thank you

[@linayoung4595]

So much hard work! So many details! Wow!!! What an amazing group of women you are 😢

[@Duma39]

Wowza!!! Great job everyone !!! 👏🏻 I got exhausted just watching ya’ll !

[@faithsmith7431]

Thank you all for helping this homeowner.❤

[@lisaschreiber2893]

while I don’t really understand why someone would leave a hateful comment, I am super excited you are there helping her ❤❤❤ kindness is always so motivating

[@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp]

Thank you, Lisa.😊❤️

[@susanseale6363]

thank you for helping those that haven't been able to help themselves but are brave enough to ask for help and start anew. You're truly a blessing.

[@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp]

Thank you so much!

[@alwaysthesleepless1]

That kitchen looks brand new. You all did a fantastic job well done and keep up the good work.

[@caro75003]

The vinegar versus black mold was like a miracle! Here in Japan I struggle with black mold everywhere, I will try, instead of the harsh chemicals I usually use. Good job ladies on this amazing cleaning

[@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp]

Yes, I only recently found out that vinegar and even hydrogen peroxide are some of the best things to kill black mold.

[@patgrant3741]

You are so kind to help people get back on track, organized and in comfortable home. Your mother is also amazing to help you with this.

[@conniezepszeps2535]

Bonnie you and your Mom are so kind to help Julie, she will remember you forever! Not many people would do all that you did for her. The world is a better place because of you and what you do.

[@debbiebreen6276]

Hi I'm new to your channel, Thoroughly enjoyed the process, Julie is a lucky lady to have such wonderful help.

[@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp]

Thank you so much.😊

[@SandraNelson063]

I send hugs to Julie. I've been there. Its hard, but she'll get there.

[@danellaweatherly8145]

Watching your video was informing and uplifting. I was glad to see your message about about respecting the hoarder no matter what. Often people tend to belittle those who have this issue. Please do have more voice overs explaining what your methods are : example gathering plastic bags in one place in order to recycle later or gathering all tagged clothing to go through later, all other clothing to be washed , boxes ??? I hope you “get my drift”! Looking forward to more shows.

[@viviennejordan215]

You two are So Wonderful to Help this dear lady out. God Bless You. 😊

[@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp]

Thank you so much!

[@bevharley8074]

You are truly doing God's work Bonnie, and of course your mom and your helpers too 🤗

[@kevinritchie9227]

It is very kind of you to help out 'Julie' so she doesnt lose her home. Its a shame some people dont understand this condition and can only be negative.

[@Fallen_Angel63]

So awesome. That oven now needs shades to look at now. So shiny!!❤

[@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp]

😄

[@mrsminiverblue]

Julie is a very brave lady facing a very difficult task. ❤

[@debby891]

Bonnie, you and your mom make an amazing team! Great job as always❤❤❤

[@LaurelChinnRealEstate-Fairfax]

Love mom saying…shouldn’t we put the stuff with tags on in a separate bin? She’s in my tribe. Lol

[@LaurelChinnRealEstate-Fairfax]

Bonnie, I saw a cleaner use a pool noodle to fill her dish tubs. It worked! It’s like a faucet extender!

[@debby891]

@@LaurelChinnRealEstate-Fairfax 😂

[@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp]

Aw, thanks!

[@lindacallis9941]

It is wonderful that the lady you are helping is feeling well enough to help, you and your mom are the dynamic duo! Great job

[@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp]

I know. I'm amazed that she's able to go as long as she does on the days that we are there cleaning. She did overdo it last week and she sent a picture of her very swollen foot that evening. I felt bad. Since then, we are trying to force her to not be moving and all over the place. We try to bring things to her to sort through instead.😊

[@homemadefromtheheart1377]

I just subscribed to your channel. I watched a couple of your videos. I enjoy watching your videos. You are such an incredible person and you remind us that we need to be patient with one another. As our friends or family work through different issues. I love the way you interact with people. YOU ARE SO AMAZING!

[@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp]

That's very nice of you. Thank you so much! I'm so glad you're here!🤗❤️

[@katrinat7936]

Amazing job! As you said, it is difficult to understand hoarders, as it is a mental disorder, but it is great they can have your help!

[@jenniferknowles7219]

One thing you can be sure of is that messy people or hoarders do not want to live like that. It’s just overwhelming and it’s hard to make decisions where everything should go. The clutter is part of their disorganized mind. (. Speaking about myself here. Not really a hoarder but very much a clutter bug. Also many work long hours and are exhausted when they get home.

[@socalsal627]

I'm such an introvert that I think I would get so irritated and overwhelmed if people tried to talk to me while I was cleaning. So I think you have an extra superpower to be such a thoughtful, friendly person while still doing such hard work! ❤

[@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp]

There were definitely times that my brain wanted to explode with all that was going on around me. I just would take a break and walk outside for a few minutes to decompress. The first couple days were definitely the hardest because there was a lot of trying to figure out how to best tackle this with limited space to move stuff and so it was pretty chaotic with us all there in the same area. The last couple times I've been there, I have worked in a separate area away from a lot of the chatter so that I could get in my zone and just do my thing.😁👍

[@sarahwilks2413]

What a transformation. Amazing job, can't wait for the next installment. TFS xxx

[@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp]

😊❤️🙏

[@shelleymays8529]

I think it sounds like squirrels in the background, during the speed up time, so I like it😊 I've discovered Zep products lately, and I really like them, too.. The toilet bowl cleaner is great. Your mom is awesome. I like how you organized the dirty dishes in tubs, to clear off counters, in order to clean everything.. We are all on our own journeys. What we learn along the way Is what matters. We each have our own weaknesses and strengths. Thats why we need never judge. We should Be kind to ourselves. Julie being able to talk to your mom throughout this and your understanding of their plight, will go far into the help that's needed. Both in cleaning and validating her trials..Well done everyone.😍

[@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp]

Thank you for your very sweet comments!🥰

[@ruthiezophia7118]

That was a cute jacket of her mom's. I'm glad she kept that.

[@landraliebling5699]

You are amazing!! It’s unbelievable that people get on here and say unkind things to you!! They need something better to do! You are phenomenal, and so kind!!! You also have a great sense of humor and I love your laugh and giggles!!!! ☺️☺️☺️ Thank you for being a cleaning angel!!!! 😇🩷👏🏻😍🤩💜

[@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp]

Thank you so much!!😁❤️🙏

[@debbysouthworth5606]

Thanks to you she is taking down the physical manifestation of her emotional walls. It's never easy for these folks to do that after multiple traumatic experiences. And the subliminal 9-1-1 call was a perfect description of where Julie was. You and your mom came to her rescue. FYI-I noticed that she shops at Winco. They have barrels for plastic bag returns right at the entrance to the store. At least they do at my store.

[@alannahwatts5778]

You were so patient. That looks like a very long but rewarding process.

[@prymodee6723]

Thank you for everything you do, Bonnie! I follow your channel for a long time and I watched you help so many people (including Mira from Peeling away the clutter - she is amazing!) and I'm amazed by what you do for other people!

[@MaryEavey-dc3sk]

I like watching Mira too

[@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp]

I appreciate it!🥰

[@Greatbiggrandma]

Hey sweet lady! It’s the 71 yr old great granny again. I’ve never seen you do it but I learned to never use window products on glass fireplace fronts ( probably the same for oven doors). They will cause the glass to form an iridescent like film. Kinda like gas on water. No way to reverse it!! Thankful for that advice many years ago!! Also I subbed for the maintenance man at the post office who was taking a vacation. His biggest point he stressed was never to use Comet or Ajax as they are too abrasive and scratch surfaces! Love watching you clean. My back keeps me from activities I see you do!! Love to you and your mom and other helpers!!

[@johnkelly9451]

Ty for the tip... I have iridescent on my fireplace glass doors forever now! I've finished glass off for years this way. At least I know why now! I will be sure to pass this along to others! Thankyou!

[@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp]

I didn't know that. I'm sure many people have ruined their fireplace fronts by doing that because it is, after all, glass. Who would have thought you can't use glass cleaner on it? I'm trying to remember if I have ever done that. I don't think so as I usually just wipe it real quick with my dusting rag after I have dusted everything else. Thanks for the tip!

[@RoseofSharon3]

Bonnie, I’m telling you. You are a blessing to so many and your mom and helpers too. And did her dishwasher not work?

[@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp]

Thank you! And, no, her dishwasher didn't work. I forgot to mention that in the video. They really just use it as a drying rack.

[@WendyKris]

I hope this person gets through it well because I know what mental illness is, my mom had it and I have it. Prayers for recovery ❤

[@mjs.2000]

Wowza.😮 That was a tremendous amount of work. What a fantastic job. You're all such a huge gift! Bless you for your service

[@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp]

Thank you so much!

[@kellydevault7163]

You are really a beautiful person. And a blessing for us people who need your help. God bless you.

[@freedomforusa1658]

I use to clean, 9 years as a career, I love what you do. Keep up the great help and enjoy each day! :)

[@leashy1204]

I went to your channel and sub'd!! I want to watch you draw & stuff!! I love art, painting, collages, coloring, drawing, etc. So your channel looked liked sonething I might like!!👍👍💕

[@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp]

Thank you!

[@toni5431]

Wow this is a huge overwhelming task to take on Bonnie. I admire you greatly for getting stuck in and helping this lady to recover her home whilst also retaining her dignity. She recognizes her problems and is taking the necessary steps to heal. I am glad she is accepting your help and not feeling like her voice is ignored amongst the many others. Maybe that's why she's so chatty with you all, because she feels heard for a change. Well done to you, your mom, your helpers and the lady herself!

[@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp]

Thank you so much!

[@rebeccaashton5390]

Bonnie, your Mom, and helper did an awesome job. I'm sure Julie appreciated all your help. It looked great.

[@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp]

Thanks so much

[@Janneli2024]

I would love to here you talk about your cleaning plan like first I’ll pick up the rubbish then bag majorly of clothes etc great the owner is helping 👍🏻👍🏻

[@nelliemccarty5625]

I absolutely appreciate the work you do. I learn from watching and listening. My brain is a little different and you and Mac have helped me see some important things about myself. I always thought I was a “slob” but I also knew that wasn’t the right word. I’ve never been dirty but messy…. I’ve struggled with clutter my whole life. Child of a hoarder who never really had anyone to teach me…. I tried to do better with my own kids and cleaning and messes and clutter- thanks Marla the Flylady. But I still have a way to go

[@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp]

Thanks for sharing!😊

[@marloespeters8404]

A big 🫂 for Julie ,her daughter and for you and your mother ❤

[@suecorrigan1216]

It's amazing how other people think they have the right to criticize when they are not out helping others like you are!! You're a saint and don't ever let anyone tell you otherwise!! ❤️❤️

[@tammyz.677]

Awesome cleaning video. Terrific help by all cleaners for this family! 💜

[@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp]

Thanks so much! 😊

[@traceybrowne5646]

I think you are a wonderful kind person, what you are doing is a gift to those who needs help for many different reasons, I live in UK I wish I could find someone like you over here i need help so if u want to come to UK I would welcome u with open arms, I love your videos ty for sharing with us but mainly ty to the person u are help for sharing ❤ xx

[@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp]

It seems like I need to come to the UK. You're about the 5th person who has said they would gladly welcome me to come help them. Maybe I need to tour the UK and clean some houses there.😄❤️

[@KatMayeux-fd5it]

Amazing clean for this lady! Your Mom is a treasure ❤️

[@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp]

Thank you so much!

[@cat-mum-Jules]

Bonnie your mum is awesome ❤. It's true that keeping active physically and mentally is the best. They say use it or loose it. I've lost some due to a medical condition but I do as much as I can. I've always been on the go! It was amazing to see the transformation of the living room. And doing this with the home owner rather than over taking is definitely more helpful. It gives them the control and I think that helps them to keep it from getting out of control again. Great job everyone, and Julie you choose a fab name 😉good morning from England 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁥󠁮󠁧󠁿💞

[@denagreenway8383]

You bless so many and such a inspiring person. I am so glad you delete negative messages, only positive comments are needed. I truly appreciate your kindness in dealing with your clients.

[@PatsySpoonemore]

God bless her! I know, first hand, what trauma can do. My only son died 2 years ago come September, and his wife and daughter are living in a similar situation. You are inspiring me. Thank you!!

[@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp]

That's so tragic. My heart goes out to them. I can't even imagine.😪

[@timetochange3002]

I’m almost 71 and I think your mom could run circles around me as the saying goes. 😂 in fact I have someone help keep my home clean every two weeks. Getting on my knees is a big deal lol. 😁Thanks for another great video and all your hard work getting it to us. ❤️

[@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp]

Even getting on my knees is painful and I'm 46! She is having a harder time getting up from that position, but she's still doing amazing!

[@ginas.1110]

Loved seeing your mom working alongside you. She's awesome!! And so great of Lisa to help out.

[@AngusHenry09]

Your mom is quite the go-getter, I see where you get it. Once again you and your merry lil band of helpers are doing wonderful, kind, caring things the Beautiful Mess way, love it !!! ❤❤❤ It was definitely worth the wait Beautiful Bonnie. This is that old lady from the live, Angus is my cat. 😂😂😂 Hope this lady can heal properly and go on to have a great life.

[@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp]

Oh, yes! I remember saying, "Angus?" on the live because I wasn't sure if I was reading it correctly because I figured you were female, and that just didn't fit. That makes sense now.😅 Well, I'm certainly not going to call you "that old lady from the live."😁 So, what is your name?

[@debbysouthworth5606]

The thing I love about Dawn Power Wash is that a) it doesn't damage wood as it cleans and b) everything smells so good after you use it!

[@user-yn7on7ou8n]

Wow, Bonnie! Good thing you had help. Awesome, as always.🙂👍🏻

[@SousChef77]

Thanks for the video Bonnie. I am so sorry you had to spend so much time on the editing, etc. We do appreciate all of your hard work. Blessings dear one.

[@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp]

Thanks so much! It has been a rough couple of weeks, but it's finally out.. haha! Thanks for the support!

[@ZestyAqua]

Seriously, God bless you. For some reason, I used to love cleaning was my go-to for stress, then got very sick, something flipped. Right now, have 2 rabbits indoors. I love them very much with their hay completely overwhelmed having a hard time with their area to keeping the house clean. Watching your videos do help! Idk if you'll see this comment older video saw you were struggling keeping up and hoping this channel would fund your gift as well as help support your family. This society the psychology behind money is messed up. People are priceless the money is literally made-up numbers from thin air. You just being kind helping someone struggling for free is amazing yet, in this age, discouraging too. Rare to find people like yourself when in reality should be reversed yet, isn't. Seeing you and a few others work so hard to try to stop an eviction, the reality in here needs a yard sale way too much. The fact you helped at all is wonderful. Was uplifting and inspiring. Thank you for sharing. It would be lovely to have a friend like yourself. It's an honor to even see a glimpse. God bless you and yours.

[@marriedagain2008]

I did miss you last week. That kitchen transformation was awesome. Did anyone else notice that burn spot in the microwave resembles a dog? Great job girls!

[@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp]

I hadn't noticed the burn spot looking like a dog, probably because I was so focused on the burned center looking like an "outty" belly button.😁

[@_BO.]

I 💟the sign on the wall 'Be Bold Color Outside The Lines' 💯