Hollywood's Darkest Bombshell

Hedy Lamarr was often called “the most beautiful woman in the world.” Really, she was so much more than just a pretty face. There was her illustrious Hollywood career and her second act as the mastermind behind the groundbreaking technology that led to the invention of Wi-Fi. With all that, you’d hardly think that she would have the time for such a scandalous personal life-but this brilliant bombshell had a dark side, too.
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[@HedyForFunLamarr]

As a communications engineer for satellite comm, Wifi is Direct Sequence Spread Spectrum (DSSS). GPS is also DSSS. DSSS methods are highly mathematical, and were invented by a PhD in Electrical Engineering. I am a PhD in Electrical Engineering and worked in both DSSS (GPS) and Frequency Hoping Spread Spectrum for satellite communications. Hedy's invention is Frequency Hopping Spread Spectrum FHSS. It is brilliant. I love Hedy.

[@raylopez99]

I recall some other spread spectrum patents were kept secret by the US government for a while...I once had the occasion to review the patent application file of one of them after they were declassified. As I recall from memory, the WWII Germans first came up with a form of Spread Spectrum (I almost wrote SS which would have been confused with the Nazi party) using rotating disks. Fascinating stuff and why you can get a signal from WiFi SMS text despite a signal-to-noise ratio of 1000:1 (60 dB). And as you say Lemarr was a pioneer co-inventor for frequency hopping SS as opposed to Time Division SS. Sadly, like most pioneer inventors, she got nothing for it financially except fame (a study by the Columbia economist William Nordhas found that pioneer inventors typically get less than 5% of the market value of their pioneer inventions).

[@andrewmiller4885]

Beauty and brains, a rare combination. Looks like Miss Lamar had them both ,... in spades.

[@TAMIKKOBEASTY]

I received an undergraduate degree in Geospatial Intelligence and have also invented AI technology used in social media platforms. She has highly influenced every aspect of my life. Nobody but inside circles know the inventions I am responsible for... because my entire life was hidden by commercial dance and modeling. I use her as a reference for all of my final papers and case studies. She is legendary. The Strauss Howe Theory predicts that roughly every 80 years there is a great paradigm shift that happens between technology and pop culture. From her introduction of Frequency Hopping to my first AI donation to DARPA...it's literally...80 years. ❤. One day it will be commercialized. 🏆.

[@jegsthewegs]

Yes, but that's old news isn't it, about old Hedwig🤣

[@l.b.3148]

​@@melianna999really? That is your take away? 😒

[@KDSima]

My mother has never liked me. Sent me to live with my grandparents when I was a baby; then took me back when I was seven. Told me I was a miserable child no one could care for. Now, at 85 w/ dementia she is nice, loving mother. Weird trip.

[@diane4537]

Sounds like she should be left in the home. You own her nothing.

[@megbes2193]

Sorry to hear your mom was awful---I hope your grandparents were better.

[@p.g.3419]

My mother also behaves badly towards me, she even hated me, then, guess what... she wasn't my mother, I discovered that that little monster wasn't my mother! Everyone knew!

[@allcatz]

My mom wasn't a demonstrative person. No hugs or words of endearment. A few years after my father died, she started asking for and giving me hugs. She even said she loved me ( words I never dreamed I'd hear from her). Only to find out she had dementia.

[@rhondamcknight2596]

Sorry to hear your mom was awful when you were child and now with dementia is sweet. That's a blessing. My mom was sweet and fun when I was young. As she aged she had dementia and we didn't get along. By her late 60s she had dementia and now Alzheimers. She transition between normal and mean.😢

[@Tucholsky59]

She lived nearly her whole life in the USA. But when you listen to an interview with Austrian reporters, she still spoke the soft, typical Viennese dialect, without any american accent. Thank you for the very interesting documentation, greetings from Vienna.

[@alexisfrancis8562]

She was Jewish.

[@melianna999]

Ladies name Hadwig are very intelligent. Seems not many these days have this name.

[@Tucholsky59]

@@melianna999 Hedwig was a quite popular name in the German speaking countries between 18 - 19. century. Today nobody names his baby Hedwig. And yes, Hedy Lamarr had a brilliant mind.

[@melianna999]

@@Tucholsky59 Hedwig was also popular in my european country since King Jadwiga. /Yes, she was King in 14 century/ In 1930's this name was very, very popular. Unfortunately not very popular in recent years. Personally I love this name.

[@Tucholsky59]

@@melianna999 I just googled and found the history of Hedwig from Poland (Hedwig from Anjou). youtube enlarges my knowledge 🙂

[@afquan9211]

I love Hedy Lamarr for her comment about how to look glamourous: "Stand still and look stupid." This is a woman with a wicked sense of humor and intelligence.

[@bluewren2]

That would probably work if you looked like Hedy Lamarr?

[@afquan9211]

@@bluewren2 God yes. Extraordinary face and figure. There's a photo of her with her favorite jewels--a strand of pearls--and it's breathtaking. One book said that "strong men would swoon when Hedy Lamarr walked by." For sure!

[@carolnahigian9518]

love her: Genius!! helped WIN WW2...

[@afquan9211]

@@carolnahigian9518 Isn't it wonderful that she combined such a high degree of beauty AND brains? Her frequency hopping invention was maybe 20 years ahead of its time and then helped make WiFi and cell phones possible.

[@wendytravis6427]

I can’t love anything about a woman who would treat a child the way she treated her eldest.

[@BeeDee05]

Unforgivable treatment of her son James. He grew up without connections to his siblings. Never mentioned in his mother's will. He hurt her feelings? He was only a child. Hedy Lamarr, a beauty that was only skin deep.

[@someone3187]

Another commenter mentioned that the son did a DNA test and in the end it was revealed that he wasn't her biological son. So, this is a bit confusing.

[@BeeDee05]

@someone3187 Whether a child is biological or an adopted child, they are still your child. Imagine the hurt he must have felt.

[@RockChick63174]

​@@BeeDee05you have nothing to substantiate your assertions.

[@maryc.dalton1284]

Kids suffer from broken marriages, indifferent parents. The state of our society should be evidence enough.

[@BeeDee05]

@bellabunnell3174 Since watching the video, I have been reading up on this subject. I stand by my comments. A parent is an adult, a child is child.

[@joanmaciel416]

My cousin was raised thinking he was adopted. It turns out he was his dads biological son from an affair. He lived his entire life with that lie. He was only told in his 40s by his moms sister and after his dad was dead..he lived a troubled life..his soul knew

[@JaneAustenAteMyCat]

That's so sad 😞

[@logiciskey7]

That is awful 😢

[@Mehki227]

We're black. My aunt had an affair with a white guy and have birth. She married black man. Everyone tried to tell my cousin that this man was his father when physically, everyone could see he wasn't. He looked white. We could all see how messed up it all was and the stepfather was particularly strict with him while indulging his biological son. Finally, later his wife found his father's family. The dad was dead, but the family invited his wife and him to visit and he met his uncles and cousins and finally he was at ease. No idea why people tell these kinds of lies. The kid knows. Everyone knows. You just can't keep those secrets. It's actually cruel. 🤷🏽‍♀️

[@KateG-s8c]

Yes it's cruel very cruel - we are entitled to know who we are

[@Planet820Claire]

I have a half brother who was to a insanely slightly different story. After the dad died the sisters took him aside and told him, the truth His mom was pregnant and ended up marrying our dad. Everyone said she favored the mom. Carried our dad's name. Then another brother came looked just like our dad. At 40, they told him. Their mom, our dad got divorced [I know my mom knew the truth.] The sisters were from the next man she married, turned out, was his biological father. Yet no one told him. The mom had passed earlier in life. I really believe, they should have told him the truth.

[@dmcgill9360]

Great narrating. Enjoyed this 😊

[@deadwalking100]

Thank you, very interesting. Especially her inventions which were eventually used.

[@npadiscoveryy]

I love Hedy Lamarr for her witty remark on how to look glamorous: 'Stand still and look stupid.' She had such a sharp sense of humor and undeniable intelligence. Truly an extraordinary woman!

[@wulfdean]

I'm totally obsessed with your golden age female stars videos, please please please do more of these early female stars of Hollywood. The way you tell the stories is unsurpassed by anyone on KZbin 100% the best

[@Factinate]

Thanks for your kind words!

[@lorettat6356]

I remember reading in the newspaper many years ago (maybe late 80s or early 90s?) that she was arrested for shoplifting.

[@edemontfort9482]

Yes but she had some sort of mental problem. Kleptomania where she didn't remember stealing. I believe she was developing dementia. How sad because she had a genius IQ.

[@JustMe-uu3bh]

it is said that shoplifting is a cry for attention and perhaps she was lonely, had no one, (she was pretty elderly) and would go shopping and "lift" things but most likely could afford everything she took - it wasn't like it was food she took so I think she just was lonely. I felt bad for her. sometimes when you are beautiful, people are mean to you and hate you just for that, it can be anything, so I value how gorgeous and smart she was and while she made mistakes for sure (who hasn't, right?), I still love to watch her. she wasn't trying to attract with "sex" either.

[@tarey05]

Across the spectrum, Hedy Lamarr greatly resembled Vivien Leigh and Elizabeth Taylor in her youth and Natalie Wood as she grew older. Her childhood trauma was overwhelming, as her relationship with her mother was very cold, uncommunicative, rigid, and based on jealousy. This may account for her crises as a mother herself.

[@MadonnaGrogan]

Agree did what was done to her, sad

[@fannyissac7398]

This is not true, I ended up being the exact opposite of what my mom was....you can choose to be what you want, what your conscience tells you. Just because you grew up in Hell doesn't ever stop you from creating Heaven for your children

[@AnnaMarianne]

​@@fannyissac7398Sure, but if your childhood causes you to develope a personality disorder, well, you're going to have that peraonality disorder for the rest of your life. A good therapist might help you live with it and guard your behaviour, but the problem still stays. It's like a tree that has grown crooked - it will never straighten up again, even if the conditions change.

[@christineriche6752]

Hurt people hurt people😥

[@michellepotter5763]

​@fannyissac7398 just because you were able to break through your trauma and do better doesn't mean its,not true for others. Don't take it so personal, no one's talking about YOU. That's the damage your mother did to you, you don't feel seen or heard to this day or you wouldn't make it about you. Get over yourself. Keep your trauma to you

[@Blgenx]

👑MH I feel your rawness. Thanks so much for sharing. 25k coming soon 🎊 🤞🏼

[@heliotropezzz333]

Sometimes in her younger days she looks rather like Vivien Leigh and when older a bit like Elizabeth Taylor.

[@bluecolor1600]

Nah, she always looked like herself, overrated Lamarr!!

[@heliotropezzz333]

@@bluecolor1600 Overrated in what respect, looks?

[@heliotropezzz333]

@@johnlang1933 They look so similar. They both look great. I wouldn't be nitpicking about looks like that, and Hedy had brains though I understand that some men don't like women with brains.

[@rachelcookson3492]

Some of the photos they used are actually of Vivian, not Hedy.

[@marinalahana6958]

Far more beautiful than either. I saw her films as a youngster

[@catherinecarella2928]

Her 2nd son did an interview. He said it was always about her. I don't think there was much of an emotional connection from her to her children. You can view this interview on KZbin

[@sarahalbers5555]

Thanks for that. Sounds very interesting.

[@harrymills2770]

Ben Franklin was likewise disengaged from his family. Renaissance man, mover and shaker in the world and history. Just nothing left for family. This happens with people who do great things. Ideally, they marry a great support person.

[@albertmarnell9976]

@@harrymills2770 I remember Ben Franklin very well and used to like him until I found out what you just wrote. So he married a whore! Marriages are SICK!!! What was so great about what he did? Did he cure cancer or stop a war? I'm so sick of show people. My mother used to call them circus freaks.

[@theresamay9481]

Same thing with Barbara Stanwyck and Mary Pickford. Must be an occupational hazard

[@ElizabethRussell144]

What good is beauty or brains if you're a narcissist?

[@billstory8034]

An interesting story well presented.

[@bellyarty]

Her poor children. Especially the first one. What awful deceit.

[@tommoncrieff1154]

They were very different times, especially for women. Illegitimacy would have damaged the boy’s life and summarily ended his mother’s career, and may have also terminated Loder’s. Obviously something went very wrong, but at one point she did get them all three back together and made a family, if only for a moment. It sounds like they were all estranged by the deception to the outer, judgemental world. It was not uncommon. Loretta Young got pregnant by Cary Grant and appeared later with an adopted daughter. Most gave the children up or had risky terminations.

[@kanderson-oo7us]

If you read the comments, there was no deceit - it was the practice to put adoptive parent's names on birth certificates, and DNA proved that James wasn't biologically related to Hedy.

[@rrj3110]

So quick to judge! This is a very small account of her life. We’ll never really know why she had to make that decision. This actually happened more than people realize around that time for many different reasons. Her son holds no ill will towards her and they reconciled before she passed away. He’s been very well taken care of. There are so many things in life that aren’t always understandable. This was a highly complex and beautiful woman, highly sought after and basically invented wifi among other things that weren’t mentioned. May she rest in peace ❤️

[@justtired123]

​@@rrj3110where did you get the info they reconciled? I have never read that. I was also under the impression he was left out of the will

[@diane4537]

@@justtired123 I read Hedy didn't have much money?

[@billmalone5050]

Human beings are such flawed, imperfect and incredibly complex creatures.

[@Arnsteel634]

Treating a child like that is a little more than flawed

[@tracy5721]

And sometimes just plain evil.

[@smythharris2635]

The great writers of the past have already explained this.😅

[@sharonpollock9543]

That we are ❤

[@diane4537]

You don't have to be a creep! Straighten out!

[@gregparrott]

Very brief but tastefully constructed biography of an exceptional woman. The discovery about her 'adopted' son was a shocker.

[@gregparrott]

@@amoxzi Interesting. I looked that up to confirm what you said. You are correct. Thanks for the correction. I'm surprised this documentary missed this detail.

[@susanc4622]

It seems that Hollywood celebrities have always been pretty mucked up.

[@pohjanakka4992]

That career, and the place, certainly seems to attract a certain type. And then surviving in that place further seems to favor people who either already have or can develop qualities that fit that "certain type". Self centered, willing to do whatever is needed to get what they want, a big part of which seems to be being the center of attention. It's not a healthy type of culture. Before they though at least tended to pretend being more normal, these days it's more like they are trying to make the rest of the world accept their culture as the normal one. And a lot of them these days seem to be raised into it. Have you checked how many of the current movie stars are from families who already were in one way or another connected to that industry?

[@IHeartQuilting2]

Personal lives of the top actors are always mucked up because it impossible to balance work-life and staying on top. Some succeed in personal life only because of tremendous support from family.

[@tamsintarshish3905]

No more than regular people. They are just on display.

[@shaunmorrissey7313]

It's a narcissistic nature of wanting fame

[@JudyThomas-c2v]

Everybody is "mucked up" because everyone is imperfect. Jesus Christ is the only perfect person to walk the earth. 🙏😇

[@rogersmith4834]

Hedy & George did achieve their inventions, but controversy continues about them coming first or with what success. Whatever stories prevail today, due to inept management, they failed to get patents, and never saw any true reward. Aside from this, it was often repeated that when Hedy walked into great venues filled with people, entire rooms fell silent, the guests stunned by the presence of her beauty.

[@5Gburn]

Hddy Lamarr and George Anthiels did, in fact, receive a patent for FHSS ("Secret Communication System," US patent 2,292,387A). The patent expired in 1959. It is true that she never received compensation for the invention--she and Antheil donated the patent to the US Navy.

[@HedyForFunLamarr]

It is jaw dropping beauty. Her patent is quite good, even more so given a she had no formal training in engineering. I've read her patent, appreciate her cleverness, and actually worked on the FIRST frequency hopping spread spectrum system realized for Milstar satellite communications.

[@cisio64123]

Lana Turner said in her memoir Ciro's nightclub was made for entrances and the most memorable entrance for her was her Ziegfeld Girl co star Hedy Lamarr. She said she was at the popular nightspot when Hedy at the height of her beauty walked in looking like a goddess with that beautiful face framed by thick wavy black hair , a cape draped around her from chin to toe and a fabulous solitaire diamond attached to the middle of her hairline on her forehead. Lana said she was enough to make strong men faint. She later discovered the secret that Hedy's hairdresser secured that very real diamond to her forehead with very fine black wire that was woven into her hair and the diamond secured to the wire in the middle of her forehead with glue.

[@roberttreasure1986]

There are plenty of photos of her and she is attractive, but only goddesses carry such prestige, and she was no goddess.

[@carmenl163]

I see an average looking woman. But beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

[@casame]

I heard she was known as one of the most beautiful women in the world, and, judging by this film she was absolutely gorgeous!

[@feleciamorris3197]

No one person can satisfy that description...she, in fact, in that classification of most beautiful among beauties.

[@melianna999]

But...Robert Taylor was called by Film Magazine more beautiful than Hedy Lamarr.

[@francesswenson1763]

O😅

[@JaimeTaylor-lf1dd]

I don't see it, pretty at best to average

[@kirstenkim5011]

​@@JaimeTaylor-lf1ddme too , she's not all that

[@RafaelSoltren]

She died in Altamonte Springs Florida.. about 22 years ago

[@michaelle8384]

I live 20 minute from altamonte spring

[@RafaelSoltren]

@@melianna999 gee thanks Mr corrector

[@tracyh.8611]

How could someone so smart and talented choose so poorly when choosing husbands?

[@JustMe-uu3bh]

when you feel bad about yourself or feel unworthy.........that's what happens. or you see the inequality of your own parent's relationship and repeat it. all the same............feeling bad about yourself......

[@johnlang1933]

…”lucky at cards…”

[@Echo-tk8pz]

@@johnlang1933Perhaps, that type of man was what was available at that time, in her social circle.😊

[@helenstillman-dk7jm]

Was paid2 marryin an arms dealer is a gd way2 b privy2certain stuff

[@changeintheair9648]

@@JustMe-uu3bh Also film studios would push people together.

[@stjohnbaby]

I worked with her daughter Denise,in Seattle in the 70s.Shes an artist in LA,I believe currently.

[@MeganTyler-db2zq]

I highly recommend watching Stephanie Harlow’s video on Hedy. So much was left out of this story. Some of the most fascinating details too.

[@nancyvillines4552]

Mel Brooks was trying to get permission to use her name in Blazing Saddles. She held out and finally said, $1,000,000. He said pay whatever she wants. 😊

[@TheNester.]

"It's Hedley!" 😂

[@nancyvillines4552]

@@TheNester. 😂😂 😂 Good one.

[@sarahalbers5555]

What a great line! Love, love, love that movie.​@@TheNester.

[@TheNester.]

Actually @nancyvillines4552 she originally sued Mel Brooks for $10 Million but settled for $100,000 out of court

[@johninlasvegas]

Mel would never willingly offer $1M 😂

[@caroliner2029]

How could Hedy have been such a genius in some ways, but so obtuse and cruel regarding her precious son James, who was born out of wedlock and lied to his whole life, AND made to feel rejected and unloved? She cared about children overseas, but not her own sweet little boy? I don't understand it. The loving bond we (can) have with our children, and the deep joy we experience with them in our lives, is one of the Lord God's greatest gifts to us. There are few joys in life to equal it.

[@therockbottom5]

Maybe he stood as a reminder of her misdeeds, and having failed early on in his life, felt even more irrecoverable shame.

[@saturnslipper]

She had all the signs of being completely selfish (a narcissist). One sign: They give their affection quickly, and withdraw it just as fast for the smallest misdeed, often cutting off people permanently. I know this mental disorder well...my mother and sister were both narcissists. 😢

[@thuneeby2092]

@@saturnslipperI came here to say this. Screams Narcissist to me

[@MaternalUnit]

@caroliner2029. Beautifully said. Now I've teared up for James! I hope he had a happy life as an adult. I'm grateful myself to have had a mostly ordinary life with my husband and daughters and now first grandchild. They mean far more than celebrity ever could.

[@elizabethf8078]

Pretty doesn't matter. .She always made my skin crawl.

[@JuhiSRK]

She lived in Altamonte Springs, FL (near Orlando) for a time. She got arrested for shop lifting "personal care" items in 1991 . I thought it was sad. At least the judge took pity on her.

[@laurinnnn]

She was quite old at the time it was a package of underwear. She took one pair out and went in the bathroom to change them because she had wet her pants, and she had them in her purse and forgot. She had her assistant with her and she said that Heddy totally forgot. I think the drugstore wanted to create something they could’ve easily let her go. I believe it was Alberts /CVS. I live here in Orlando and was here at the time that it happened. It was shameful to do that to her. PS she was living in Casselberry, Florida, close to Altamonte

[@FoundSheep-AN]

Wow That shows that world’ s glory and success and beauty is all fleeting … like dust… only God remains

[@clairelivefreeordie2551]

​@laurinnnn from what you described, the police didn't have to make thst public knowledge...almost like they were intentionally trying to shame her which is quite cold considering her age + no prior record.

[@jamesredman1263]

​@@clairelivefreeordie2551- once in a police report it becomes public record.

[@Mehki227]

​@@FoundSheep-ANit doesn't exist, but yeah youth and beauty are fleeting.

[@changeintheair9648]

It always amazes me and saddens me what Hollywood and the music industry does to beautiful/handsome talented people. I seems to almost always destroy them.

[@Jenny-nz8fb]

It does this to women not men!!

[@lumarei1]

Because the whole industry is demonic.

[@JustMe-uu3bh]

or maybe they are trying to find something, adulation or love, something they don't have inside...........to be loved, maybe. we all want or need something, right?

[@maggipetty7047]

I can only imagine how difficult it was for an intelligent, beautiful woman to find a man that would appreciate her many talents.

[@kimberlygilliam6112]

Based on how she treated her first son, I wouldn't be so quick to assume all the blame was on the husbands. Also, she chose these men, again and again. You can be booksmart and dumb about love and relationships.

[@melianna999]

@@kimberlygilliam6112 She was cold woman.

[@KevinSanderson]

​@@kimberlygilliam6112 Hedy had her issues with men (none matched up to the memory of her late father) but she was reportedly wonderful to the adopted son James when he was young and he said so in interviews. His younger sister and brother loved their mother but were typical rich kids. Hedy told a friend she was afraid she hadn't warned them enough about the harder times after MGM. The problems with James all started after he started going to Military schools and Chadwick's kicked him out for his behavior. He became a trouble maker for about 4 or 5 years according to the chauffeur. Then he took a liking to his teacher and her coach husband. If he lived with them he could be with his old friends where they taught. Hedy was against it but James went on about it and finally Hedy gave in. It was his decision to move in with his teacher's family as he had become jealous of his little sister Denise and baby brother Anthony. Hedy continued to pay for his education until he went into the Air Force. He went on trips with his teacher and her family overseas. Hedy set up a trust fund for James and gave him real estate investments. Sadly the people who actually knew them are gone and you have tabloid reporters and worse filling in nonsense. Denise and her late brother Tony didn't know the details but bits and pieces. Hedy had been hurt by James rejection of her. She had fought for him after the split with cheater Gene Markey when the Children's Society wanted James back after the divorce. You have to do a lot of digging to find out what went on. Sadly her longtime friend Patrick Agan didn't get his promising bio of Hedy published before he passed. He was going to get things cleared up. There are a couple articles of his online where he straightens out some things and corrects stuff from her ghost written auto-biography from the late 60s. The producers and narrator of this video should correct the bad attitudes and mistakes.

[@maryleung1425]

​@@kimberlygilliam6112Hedy was 17 years old in her first movie ...and the director was aperv....plus she was married at 18 ...when u were that age ...how mature were you at that age ...yes Hedy did some questionable things ...but her choice in men clearly wasn't good ...she really didn't have good role models of how a husband should treat a wife ...chose the same type of man over and over ...so I wonder how she got along with her father ...they say daughters marry men that have traits like their father ....

[@pianoreigns]

You're not going to find a decent man in that world

[@poetasintierra]

She made inventions, as a hobby, during her spare time... that put a smilw on my face. Such a stunning Inventor!!!

[@capoislamort100]

I remember her in Samson and Delilah 1949, also a very intelligent woman. It’s sad what happened to her towards the end!

[@capoislamort100]

@@bluewren2 did you also know that she was an inventor? She contributed a lot to aviation.

[@ninamoores]

Terrible film .Samson with a strong American accent

[@diane4537]

@@ninamoores The film was decent. I enjoyed it.

[@JustMe-uu3bh]

@@ninamoores nobody noticed. I didn't. look at Terminator 2, a robot with an Austrian accent, did we care? no. or in Predator. both great movies (not for kids though).

[@annewelch-uk1of]

If not for WiFi, we wouldn't have cell phones. Too bad she never had the patent in her name. The Hollywood men controlled so much back then.

[@ria1636]

It was patented in her name which is mentioned and shown in the video.

[@melianna999]

Can you imagine life without cell phone?

[@vickiepaul8258]

Men period controlled everything back then, those were very different times. If he wasn't head over hills for you, you might be in trouble. 😢

[@Monicablackbelt24]

So she’s to blame for our digital prisons! Thanks Heddy!

[@Dancestar1981]

She was an engineering genius too

[@PatriciaMonti-y9m]

It was Tesla's invention. She stole it.

[@christinaheagy4602]

​@@PatriciaMonti-y9m I thought Edison stole Tesla's inventions???

[@gwae48]

Could double for Vivien Leigh.

[@patkern185]

I see a young Elizabeth Taylor, too. What a handful those three would have been! 😮😊

[@sarahalbers5555]

I think she has a number of different looks. I can see a Vivien Leigh and Liz Taylor for sure. And the dreaded mistake of plastic surgery.

[@caraqueno]

And, a dead ringer for Joan Bennett, who was married to Gene Markey before he married Hedy Lamarr.

[@bluecolor1600]

In your dreams maybe! Vivien is in a league of her own! Lamarr is very overrated!!🙈👎

[@brittalbach416]

Vivien Leigh was a $corpio too and so was Gene Tierney who I also thought resembled Hedy. And Elizabeth Taylor was born with moon in scorpio. This astrological sign is famous for being sultry, secretive and persistent, meaning they dont like to give in to the power of others. Of course every person is influenced by other planets too

[@moonlightdancer5495]

She was such a beauty with brains

[@annamossity8879]

Sadly, it sounds like a wounded heart.

[@diane4537]

@@annamossity8879 Sadly, Hedy ended up mostly alone. Very sad.

[@VitaInDC]

If Hedy Lamarr had been a man, no one would care or even looked into (his) personal life with his marriages, children, and the scandal. They would have been praising his amazing genius invention despite not having advanced degrees, and how we benefit even now. I'm sad she had to go thru the double standards women endured and the extreme sacrifices she made to avoid getting ending up as a target in a witch hunt. I'm nearly 70, and I remember that back then, being single and having a baby out of wedlock was a guarantee to becoming an untouchable and socially isolated in your community & place of worship. She did what she had to do with her first child, sad that it is, just too bad she couldn't tell him sooner, but after so much time had passed, she probably couldn't imagine how he'd handle it. And I'm sad that her brilliance, her sheer genius, was put on the back shelf so often. But I'm proud of her that as a woman, she did not let the sexist, abusive monsters & idiots of her time snuff the life out of her.

[@juliafox52]

My comment was deleted. Oh, the irony. Still not allowed to state an unwanted opinion. In a nutshell, I said shame has its place and the pendulum has swung entirely towards the push for women's self-gratification at a high cost to all.

[@juliafox52]

And, for the record, I raised my sons to be gentlemen. Unfortunately, there are virtually no girls their age who are anywhere near to being marriagable. Body counts and STDs are ripping to shreds our society and boys are being given the blame!

[@mylamberfeeties875]

Maybe the Bible would have been a good place to get life advice and not hopping bed partners. Many many many did just fine had wonderful happy lives then again they were not sleeping around spreading death to others

[@Dm10999]

​@@juliafox52from the way you talk it's not a wonder you raised incels

[@Martyisruling]

Hey Victim-DC. No one did talk about it, until now. It's not well known. So, she's just like all those men, in that regard. Sorry to take away a victim card claim from you.

[@Daria_Morgandorfer.]

My cousin was an actress in the 40s and knew Ms.lamar they worked the Hollywood cantine together and did spreads in magazines together..in 44 ..lamar was a pinup along with my cousin Linda Darnell.. and they were both voted most beautiful women in the states by life pretty cool..i think they're both pretty ..😊i was born after my cousin passed but learned about her from my grandpa and his dad...lamar was lucky to escape Germany when she did heddy was Jewish and good for her helping her family and the Ally war effort

[@renb6133]

Your cousin, Linda, was very beautiful & a really good actress. It was incredibly sad how she passed in that house fire. That’s a family lineage to be proud of & she also seemed to be a very nice lady.

[@melianna999]

Linda Darnell had some Cherokee ancestry trough her mother.

[@jamesorkathleenmckee7566]

Hedy's ancestors may have been Jewish, but she was baptized and raised Catholic.

[@HedyForFunLamarr]

Actually, Hedy said herself she was not Jewish, but was branded as such. Her features are very delicate.

[@esau5530]

It’s a shame you missed out on knowing your cousin personally, I love her movies.

[@cedartrees131]

It sounds like, against all odds, Hedy Lamarr was a SURVIVOR. She used every opportunity to stay alive and thrive in a man's world. Beauty and brains. Good for her.

[@bernadineward5265]

No. She was a terrible mother. Children should be loved and protected

[@lauraf4176]

She literally abandoned her child

[@gissyb1]

No she neglected and abandoned her child. Horrible unsuccessful woman

[@anonview]

​@@bernadineward5265 You can be beautiful and smart, and still be a horrible mother. Those two things aren't synonymous. Heddy was beautiful. She was also smart. She just wasn't suited to become a mother.

[@cathyyoung3285]

​@@lauraf4176oh come now. Millions of men, famous or not, abandon their kids. How many famous men have done the same? Yet she is vilified and men are not.

[@cristinesaunders2428]

She was so beautiful. I remember Johnny Depps song he played with the late Jeff Beck, called "Hedy Lamarr." It's quite a good song.

[@Gullvivas]

[@kristykewl69]

I love that song.

[@SuperATVC]

He's gross. Can't enjoy anything with him in it anymore.

[@p0llenp0ny]

​@@SuperATVCBecause...

[@luluspeers3110]

Epstein flight logs ​@@p0llenp0ny

[@katherinefitzpatrick446]

She was also a scientist who greatly assisted the Allies. She helped the US Navy to frequency hop to circumvent the German jamming of Allied torpedoes.

[@AngieMacLean]

Helped? They took it & never compensated her for it. Could you even imagine what that invention is worth now…

[@marieg595]

Did you watch the video? They told this story

[@nineteenfortyeight]

Yeah they turned it down

[@cottoncandykawaii2673]

>"Her sixth and final marriage...THANK GOD" I died😆

[@KevinSanderson]

Some Tabloid Stuff - James' birth certificate was the standard issue with the legal parents listed. Adopted children's birth parents are not listed on certificates from privacy rules and to protect the child. James didn't know that. And seemingly, too, the tabloid press who spread the misinformation. James was adopted, he was born in Los Angeles the weekend Hedy and Gene Markey were married at a palace in Mexico. That marriage was in the New York Times. There were no photos of a pregnant Hedy until 1945 when she was very pregnant with Denise. Later DNA tests proved he was not biologically related to Hedy and John Loder according to sister Denise Loder answering a question in a video here on KZbin. James left of his own will out of his extreme jealousy about his baby sister and brother, to live with a teacher's family in Redondo Beach until he was 18. After his few years of being a troublemaker kid (he was prevented from living at the military boarding school after some trouble he caused), Hedy supported James' education for many years and gave him a trust fund with real estate investments. She tried to stop his leaving but resigned herself that was the only way he'd be happy. He later was in trouble as a police officer in Omaha in 1969 allegedly shooting, without warning, a teen African American girl in the back of the head followed by riots but was set free by a jury in a case disputed by many. He also had falsifying an arrest on his record when he was a security guard in 2000. He died last year at 84 according to a memorial posted by a daughter.

[@iwasanangryyoungman]

I am not surprised. With a mother like that, James couldn’t obviously have become a doctor, lawyer or accountant

[@robbpowell194]

😶

[@rhondasisco-cleveland2665]

Wow

[@robinfitz9508]

Thank you, Kevin. Good to know👍

[@KevinSanderson]

@@robinfitz9508 You're welcome

[@tamra8485]

According to Wikipedia, even though he found documentation that he was their out of wedlock son, a later DNA test proved he was not biologically related. So what happened? Was there a son born out of wedlock? Did they adopt the wrong child? What is the real story here?

[@evelynzlon9492]

The DNA results were probably falsified because she was Hedy Lamarr.

[@Violetbunnyfish]

Someone else said that it was customary for the adoptive parents' names to be on the birth certificate, not the kid's biological parents, so he was not actually her biological son.

[@tinabeard582]

That is true now. When I was adopted, my birth certificate was changed.

[@tamra8485]

@@tinabeard582 thanks for this, that is a logical explanation.

[@lesfleurs9781]

Later DNA testing proved that he was not her biological son

[@mslady1592]

Strong, powerful women seemingly have a difficult time finding men to love them and accommodate their aspirations of true love

[@MelodieKate]

Mostly because men do not suffer brilliance and beauty in women - it makes them insecure.

[@PatriciaMonti-y9m]

They all seem to have unreasonable expectations of others and over-inflated opinions of themselves, like most celebrities. Everybody look at me!!!

[@mslady1592]

@@PatriciaMonti-y9m There's delusional and then there's the women I'm referring to who are who they are in their element and unfortunately miss the fact that their expectations of the men they fancy to be worthy of them and their expectations to simply accommodate their wants and needs to love and be loved is the delusion unless they find a real one who is solid and the exception to the rule

[@roberttreasure1986]

Back then, strong men played the provider role, and would not know what to do and lose their sense of purpose, if that was not needed.

[@mslady1592]

@@roberttreasure1986 strong women don't take away from strong men that's the misconception. In fact the right man makes a strong woman comfortable in her femininity and out of respect for him appreciates him being dominant and taking the lead and embracing him doing his manly things. Some men actually like the masculine tendencies of their women and wouldn't allow it to emasculate him or take away from him or his purpose because he's solid within himself and their relationship

[@Vates104]

Hedy Lamar was complicated and brilliant in many ways. Certainly a fascinating person.

[@hanselpollack4075]

Perhaps, you thought it uninteresting, but when Hedy Lamar was in her later fifties, she was arrested for shoplifting at, of all pedestrian places, May Co., now Macy’s.

[@betinablueyes]

I don't know, and don't care. If you can't prove it, don't say it!

[@robiny.4395]

LOL! I worked plain clothes security in Beverly Hills at Robinsons, later Robinsons-May Co. I was stunned how many people we would arrest who were famous or were married to famous people, because they were bored.

[@schoomzer]

The last years of her life were the most tragic. She lived by herself in northern Florida, and she was in poor mental and physical health. She wandered the streets aimlessly and had dementia.

[@betinablueyes]

@@schoomzer that is so 😔 sad

[@truther001]

@@schoomzer Typical of many who had been used up and thrown to the curb by Hollywood.

[@Rendosian]

It’s reported that he was in fact not her biological son. There are conflicting reports that he did a DNA test and found out he was not hers.

[@albertmarnell9976]

My godbrother was adopted and and was left half the estate along with his non-bloodline sister when the parents died. Their mother was the president of an adoption agency. She understood children fairly well but was homophobic which turned me off at times. Born in 1920, most of the generation older than I was really F-d up. For her time, I loved her but even the elite of most of the generation of most of the 20th century was really F-d in the head!

[@xen7219]

Finally someone said it! I was confused when the creator didn't mention it in the video.

[@quiltgal5444]

He says it at 7:48

[@chas.5009]

Did you hear about the blonde who just found out she was pregnant with twins?? She said doc, are you sure they're mine.. 😅

[@carolmcln5028]

@@xen7219he says she adopted him around the time when she was getting married to her Hollywood husband (#2?).

[@Hello-b9c]

She was such a gorgeous lady and I was only got to see two of her movies. One was with Victor Mature and the other with Bob Hope. Thank you for sharing their stories with us all 👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼

[@WhirledPublishing]

Awesome summary of her life.

[@williamandrews4251]

Maybe not so dark,just fragility and humanity.

[@nickelliott1174]

They left all the dark stuff out. Read up on her, it's not good.

[@maxinebaskerville6020]

She was brilliant and used terribly in her lifetime. She should have been a tremendously wealthy woman from what the military STOLE from her. Couldn't possibly give a Woman credit for something that spectacular. SO Damn typical....

[@trace7771]

I have a cousin that was adopted. When she was 18 she asked about her real parents. That was when she found out that one of her aunts was her real mother. She was born during the sixties when her real mother was partying, doing drugs, and having multiple sex partners. A pregnancy while being single was considered immoral and shameful, so her sister adopted the baby.

[@elisabethmoser4195]

Great story. You have a soothing voice...easy to listen to😊

[@douglasturner6153]

That's similar to what Loretta Young did. Had a daughter secretly by Clark Gable. Then after 2 months "Adopted" her.

[@TheNester.]

Her daughter was 19 months old when Loretta adopted her. In Hedy's case that son was NOT her biological son, DNA later done proved that.

[@sarahalbers5555]

That happened more than once. Merle Oberon did the same thing.

[@squarebear619]

Was *sxlly assaulted by Clark Gable. Fixed that for you.

[@betinablueyes]

Times were different then. She would have been crucified

[@lauramcgowan3740]

These stars used children as props (like pets ?)

[@markstevenson8209]

What a tragic life she lived, every man she married was the wrong man 6 times in a row. It seems every time you hear about the personal life of these famous movie stars it is always tragic and sad.

[@melianna999]

She loved herself only and sometimes ...a new man for a while.

[@Censoredbyfscists]

Or was she the wrong woman? Math says yes.

[@tommcfadden5232]

She was common denominator in her six marriages. It’s more likely that she was the problem and they were the ones who chose poorly.

[@AnnaMarianne]

Sounds like she was the problem. Everything I learn suggests she had some kind of cluster b personality disorder, created by her loveless childhood.

[@mandymckeown8625]

Narcissism is one hell of a drug 😮

[@maryhelen1011]

Wowie. That’s so sad about her first son. Amazing about the wireless invention! I loved this video. Thank you! ❤

[@dkirk5814]

Intriguing story, wonderfully narrated.

[@lindabrennan4455]

She was absolutely gorgeous but it seems like she had a miserable life and she was cruel to her eldest son. 😢

[@dianawatton7570]

Surely she had her reasons for abandoning her son or whatever it is she was accused of doing.

[@skatefan9495]

@@dianawatton7570 What reason could there be? He was only 10 or 11. It's actually illegal to abandon a child.

[@KevinSanderson]

@@skatefan9495 Hedy did not abandon him. This is a poorly researched sensationalized video. James was a wonderful baby and Hedy fought to keep him when Gene Markey cheated on her and they divorced. The Children's Society wanted him back but Hedy fought them and won. After Hedy marriied John Loder, he enrolled him in Chadwick's a military boarding school and then James changed and turned into a troublemaker and that continued for the next 4 or 5 years according to Hedy's long time chauffeur. Early on when he was about 8 he caused trouble at the school, and Chadwick's would no longer allow him to live there at night and the weekends. He later decided he wanted to live with his teacher and her husband, a coach, and they taught his old friends from when he got in trouble. Hedy fought it but James wouldn't let up. He was 12 by then and Hedy thought he'd be happier. She talked with him and James said it was his choice to leave, he was jealous of young Denise and her little baby brother Anthony. So he moved in with his teacher's family in Redondo Beach. Hedy continued to pay for his education for years, set up a trust fund, and made some good real estate investments for James. He was sure not abandoned. He long benefited from her high dollar MGM years. He stayed with his teacher's family, went on trips with them, and he eventually left them at 18 and joined the Air Force. He went from the Air Force into police work in the midwest and wound up in Omaha. He responded to a call in 1969 and the kids ran. Without giving warning he allegedly shot a teen African American girl in the back of the head. His partner had to wrestle him to the ground to get his gun away. There were riots following. There was a white jury who set him free but the case is still debated in Omaha. In 2000 he was working as a security guard at a casino and he was charged with filing a false report which stayed on his record. He passed away recently at about age 84.

[@Solitude11-11]

@@skatefan9495Do some reading on the situation, it’s not exactly how it is briefly depicted here.

[@Maderlololohio]

​@@skatefan9495 please read a few comments up about the issues w adopted kids. Normally ofc you r right and heard that her other kids complained about her as well. But apparently he became a crook cop among other bad things.

[@johngalt97]

Hedy Lamarr in 'Come Live with Me', co-starring with a young James Stewart, is absolutely gorgeous. She didn't seem to be able to do much with her hair, but her face was second to none.

[@cehaver]

I just feel bad for her. She did so much. She was pressured to be a mother. I’m also sorry for her adoptive son, but holy hell did she go through the worst of anything I can imagine. Poor kid, poor Hedy. This is just horrible.

[@FoodFreedomUSA]

She wasn’t pressured to be a mother. Women are born to be mothers. She was self possessed and narcissistic and obsessed with being a beautiful star instead of a wife and mom.

[@zzzbbbooo]

He was a child though!

[@autodidact537]

She was also known as: "The woman with the perfect face."

[@MsYugiboy]

its kind of sad how smart people tend to be bad at relationshipps alot of the time. I feel so bad for james!! I want to know what happened to him!! and how she was as a mother to her birth children?? they are all siblings

[@nickelliott1174]

She sued them after the movie Blazing Saddles came out, but only got a very small settlement.

[@kathybishop6623]

Why ??

[@pedanticradiator]

​@kathybishop6623 there's a character in Blazing Saddles called Hedley Lamarr who keeps being called Hedy

[@marinalahana6958]

She was most certainly the most beautiful woman who ever lived, in my opinion. No woman since has equaled her breathtaking beauty. Once you saw her, you'd never forget that face.

[@lynntownsend4457]

Bet Joan Crawford didn't agree

[@windwatcher11]

Similarly, Marlene Dietrich, Liz Taylor, and Vivian Leigh. Unbelievable faces. Probably even more so in person, without the flattening effect of the camera.

[@vickiepaul8258]

Gene Tierney was right up there with Hedy and Elizabeth. They could have been sisters😊

[@traypaquette7887]

When I was younger I had pictures of all the beauties of the Golden Age of Hollywood. Heddy, Veronica Lake, Vivien Leigh, Elizabeth Taylor, Norma Jean, Judy Garland. They covered my dressing room.

[@hag_13]

maria félix

[@katjagolden893]

She was gorgeous! She also looked a lot like Vivian Leigh. They could have played sisters.

[@Tony32]

Great storytelling , I wasn't expecting the plot twist at the end.

[@bcsurvivor4713]

6:12 Barbara La Marr's cause of death, pulmonary tuberculosis and nephritis at age 29.

[@truenokill]

Who is barbara?

[@speakwell.840]

?​@@truenokill

[@billmalone5050]

How can a woman who was so determined, motivated and intelligent make such boneheaded choices in her personal life ?

[@deborahlatham645]

I have done the same things regarding men. Not a good judge of character when I was younger.

[@nicolejennings8389]

Happens all the time

[@bwenluck9812]

@bill If people were more honest with themselves and others, none of us would make mistakes in relationships....

[@AlvaSudden]

Lamarr and composer George Antheil patented their "Secret Communications System" in 1943. It used a piano-roll to switch among 88 frequencies to make radio-guided torpedoes harder for enemies to detect. They donated the patent to the U.S. Navy. I would call Hedy Lamarr a patriot. So what if her personal life was messy.

[@mirrlamp]

"Her sixth and final marriage, thank God" 😂😂😂

[@donnajohnson9279]

I laughed at that, too. This narrator has a great sense of humor😂

[@ws5397]

Tesla invented frequency hopping- her joint patent used a mechanical synchronized version.

[@andrewmiller4885]

YEP, you nailed it. Tesla, the unsung hero and genius of almost all of 20th Century technology, while others walked away with the prizes, fame, money, and accolades, for Nicola Tesla's work, and inventions. An absolute travesty of injustices in this world.

[@jegsthewegs]

​@@andrewmiller4885Tesla was robbed and bullied by the Americans. Greedy robbing swines. Just like they hid and whisked away the evil German. Von Brown in order to commandeer engineering secrets. Wicked Greed.

[@andrewmiller4885]

@MegaBeanandCheese A kleptomaniac? Wow I did not know that. Did she squander all her money? Although with that issue lack of money isn't always the problem.

[@M5TABBYCAT]

I 😊thought she invented sonar.

[@heidibee501]

With almost every bio of famous people (especially in show biz) l see the same relationship dynamic. I think it is partially because of the transitory nature of their employment, and also their propinquity to an array of attractive individuals, that their unions are doomed. Influenced by the excitement of their movie roles and their own looks and fame, they don't allow those romances to settle into a comfortable, placid affection once the marital dust settles.

[@susanhoneycutt5610]

@heidibee501 there are of course exceptions. I can recall 4 marriages / relationships that span more than 20 years and some upward above 30. It is rare, yet when common values and life ethics are a part of the foundation, even stardust marriages survive.

[@lazyhomebody1356]

And...they don't want repetitious day-to-day lives! They get used to living many lives on camera

[@lazyhomebody1356]

​But then you find out that the actor had many, many affairs...😢@@susanhoneycutt5610

[@Chiller11]

My belief is that acting requires sequentially inhabiting other characters rather than developing an understanding of who a person him/herself actually is ie a grounded sense of values and realistic sense of one’s place in the world. A person drawn, often obsessed, with the acting profession is often motivated by the suppression of their own emotional underpinnings and substituting the artificial emotional arcs of their adopted characters. It’s uncanny how many film stars had suffered from emotional traumas in childhood or adolescence. In addition the physical beauty required for success as a leading actor/actress, particularly among women engenders a fixation with the superficial and fleeting elements of life. That plus the additional traumas meted out to young women by the Hollywood system does not create an environment for balanced grounded emotional development.

[@lazyhomebody1356]

@@Chiller11 Yes, and a person who bases their self-worth on their beauty, regards others the same way, judging superficially.

[@juliec4750]

I think some of the photos in this video are actually of Vivian Leigh, who played Scarlett O’Hara in Gone With the Wind.

[@loricourtland8909]

Love your channel and your videos❤

[@Factinate]

You are so kind

[@JanEdwards-c1u]

But they all the same dynamics !

[@loricourtland8909]

'eake

[@angrysilence1234....]

"THAT'S HEDLEY!!" "You sh*tkicker!" 🤣😂😁

[@justagirlsd3000]

I like this. I knew nothing about Heddy Lamar. She introduced immigrants from Vietnam to lget certificates in nails. She’s the reason why we have so many Vietnamese salons. I see them reach the American Dream.

[@carolmcln5028]

Actually, that was Tippy Hedren.

[@heythave]

Yes, it was Tippy.

[@denisebiely5998]

She looks so much like Vivian Leigh, it’s unreal.

[@shirleydelehanty3466]

Girls usually are attracted to men that remind them of their fathers. Interesting to know what kind of man her father was. If there was a cold distant relationship, it made sense that she kept on trying to get love from a surrogate that she never got from the real thing. If you haven't ever known love, you can't give it.

[@tarey05]

She had a close, loving relationship with her father. Her mother was very cold, distant and jealous.

[@scented-leafpelargonium3366]

Hedy Lamarr often quoted a poem by Kent M. Keith that her mother used to read to her: PEOPLE ARE ILLOGICAL, UNREASONABLE, AND SELF-CENTRED. LOVE THEM ANYWAY. IF YOU DO GOOD, PEOPLE WILL ACCUSE YOU OF SELFISH ULTERIOR MOTIVES. DO GOOD ANYWAY. IF YOU ARE SUCCESSFUL, YOU WILL WIN FALSE FRIENDS AND TRUE ENEMIES. SUCCEED ANYWAY. THE GOOD YOU DO TODAY WILL BE FORGOTTEN TOMORROW. DO GOOD ANYWAY. HONESTY AND FRANKNESS MAKE YOU VULNERABLE. BE HONEST AND FRANK ANYWAY. THE BIGGEST MEN AND WOMEN WITH THE BIGGEST IDEAS CAN BE SHOT DOWN BY THE SMALLEST MEN AND WOMEN WITH THE SMALLEST MINDS. THINK BIG ANYWAY. PEOPLE FAVOUR UNDERDOGS BUT FOLLOW ONLY TOP DOGS. FIGHT FOR A FEW UNDERDOGS ANYWAY. WHAT YOU SPEND YEARS BUILDING MAY BE DESTROYED OVERNIGHT. BUILD ANYWAY. PEOPLE REALLY NEED HELP BUT MAY ATTACK YOU IF YOU DO HELP THEM. HELP PEOPLE ANYWAY. GIVE THE WORLD THE BEST YOU HAVE AND YOU'LL GET KICKED IN THE TEETH. GIVE THE WORLD THE BEST YOU HAVE ANYWAY. 🌸🌿 THE IF

[@Carol120454]

This sounds like something a narcissist mother would say. I should know, I had one. Continuing to love them and other toxic people will drain you dry, and it never makes a difference. It's a losing game. If you want to be mother Theresa go ahead. She is said to have written something like this. I tried it for years, it didn't work. I was miserable. As a result, I no long accept toxic people. They will not have a place in my life. My own mental health is more important.

[@scented-leafpelargonium3366]

@@Carol120454 I had a horrible mother too, but you paint Hedy Lamarr to be complete evil. She was a great inventor and believed in doing great things for the world, that's why she chose those words so aptly. She did not write them, but every word of it is true. It is called The Paradoxical Commandments. Her life was a paradox, but achieved very much that was good. You can view the glass half empty or half full. People will turn against you forget, all you did that was good, apart of course from anything that might be viewed wrong, as you truly prove. I am terminally ill so mental health is important too, and I have Hedy's poem in a frame in my bathroom and it encourages me and makes me feel better every time I look at it. It's not toxic.

[@lauridorrance1305]

@@scented-leafpelargonium3366 great poem

[@theire483]

Do Ida Lupino next

[@gitana8281]

Is there a full documentary about her? I would love to watch it! I love her movies. I remember watching Algiers with my father. ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ Don’t ever let a face fool you! She had brilliant inventions and ideas! 👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏🙌🙌🙌

[@Diamondjane54]

I wouldn't judge the woman. As a lady of Hollywood give her credit she faced insanity little of us know. Life is brutal for all of us. She gave the best she had.

[@IntoTheSunset369]

How can someone marry so frivolously and have no emotional connection to her children 🤷‍♀️

[@mandymckeown8625]

Easy when your a narcissist

[@catofthecastle1681]

Some people aren’t cut out to be parents! But when society tell you it’s the supreme calling of any woman, you can be influenced to try something you really shouldn’t! It really sucked for this child, I’ve been a foster parent to many neglected children, but maybe society should quit interfering in other people’s lives! I thought the US had gotten past this, but now it’s back again! Just as some need glasses or crutches, not everyone should be a parent!

[@Cobbmtngirl]

Wow, I didn’t know she was an inventor. Sure couldn’t pick a decent husband. Sad she never told her son the truth about his parentage.

[@shakesalegsometimes9575]

Oh yes, I did enjoy it. Thank you ☺️

[@marksstudio]

Is everybody that naive to think that a genius woman growing up in those turbulent times, having to prove herself at every turn would be perfect? And then she discovers ground breaking tech that is literally the basis for everything we use today? Have some compassion for a woman that would leave 95% of us in the technological dust. Really man. Anybody here perfect, without sin? I think not, and I'll be the first to admit it.

[@moebanshee]

Well said

[@carbine5378]

What’s that got to do with her mothering skills?

[@marksstudio]

@@carbine5378 Everything. You don't see that?

[@catcat9582]

If she can mother the other two just fine she could have done the same w her 1st

[@marksstudio]

@@catcat9582 You sure of that? Without knowing anything other that the short?

[@truecynic1270]

Wow, this woman had, and was, EVERYTHING. Beauty and brains.

[@changeintheair9648]

But messed up. Whether biologically or result of Hollyweird.

[@nannem9716]

I have been a huge Hedy Lamarr fan since my childhood. I still am. However, no person "has EVERYTHING" or can be "EVERYTHING". She was a flawed human just like everyone else. In fact, maybe a lot more so than most people. It's also interesting that you define "EVERYTHING" as "beauty and brains" with no mention of heart or soul.

[@hairyape3935]

No heart

[@truecynic1270]

@@nannem9716 Well.........alright...........I should reword my comment........She had what I do not have - beauty and brains....and 'everything else." Thank you for correcting my written intent...And YES, I didn't include heart and soul because YOU'RE RIGHT ! I made an important error!!!!

[@truecynic1270]

@@hairyape3935 Yes, apparently so , SO I stand corrected - my mistake.

[@toniacassetta5766]

Was t she one of the actresses auditioning for Scarlet O’Hara in @Gone with the Wind”?

[@JeantheSecond-ip7qm]

So James was “adopted” by both his biological mother, then his biological father. The olden days were nuts.

[@susanstancliff2937]

Thank you!❤

[@ameliab1298]

I’ve always thought she was absolutely stunning just like my favorite, Vivien Leigh, and I heard about her invention. It is so sad she went from man to man and didn’t give her children that attention. It’s a very lonely and empty way to live. Thanks for the story.

[@sleepywater]

Hedy Lamarr's story must be told!

[@voceval1]

When you examine photos of Hedy, as a child, and photos of her son James ("adopted") side-by-side their resemblance to each other is uncanny. The lips, nose and chin makes him look so much more like Hedy than her other children.

[@kanderson-oo7us]

And yet the DNA tests confirmed that he wasn't related to her biologically. It's almost as if appearances aren't proof, and people will see what they want to.

[@voceval1]

@@kanderson-oo7us That's not what's in question here. Have you done and seen the very likeness?

[@kanderson-oo7us]

@@voceval1 No, because I don't care whether their baby pictures happen to look similar when the DNA proves they aren't related. Perhaps that's what made her choose that baby in the first place, but it doesn't change the story.

[@kanderson-oo7us]

@@voceval1 You putting adopted in quotation marks demonstrates your agenda to promote a false narrative.

[@voceval1]

@@kanderson-oo7us No one is disproving anything and a promoting a false narrative. Bloody hell Mary. If you "don't care whether the baby pictures happen to look similar" go jump on another thread, move on and be gone with you.

[@alexandrae5346]

We know now that doctors ignored women when they had health issues. Calling it "psychosomatic" in that time usually masked severe abuse. It was legal to rape a wife. A teenager boy would often automatically take the male view as women had no rights once married. Any "taste" in men could end up abusive. With women being told they were required to have a man, the pressure to find one, even a shitty one, continues even today. The fact this all came out after her death has more to do with women not being believed and shamed like they were lying on top of the abuse they put up with.

[@deborahdean8867]

I dont know about Heady, but to generalize about poor wine and,all of them getting abused is RIDICULOUS. You're freaking brainwashed by political feminism. Raised by hillary clinton maybe? Abuse is still the exception and today its WOMEN who cause 70% of the cases, not men. In those times, it was LESS.

[@betenoireindustries]

​@@deborahdean8867absolute nonsense and bullshit. 😂

[@deborahdean8867]

@@betenoireindustries it looks like KZbin removed my comment, so I have no clue what you're referring to. But I do know 90% of the feminist stereotypes are false, propagandized by politicians to direct the population in a specific direction. The one thing that lead to women's liberation was the pill. Not women as worker bees for industrial labor.

[@J-zr9lg]

The countless numbers of lovely young women reaping the horror show at the mercy of effed up males.

[@julietcunningham852]

Male power! Back in the day, what was a girl to do. But she tried!!!!

[@KarmicSalt]

what? The way she treated her kids was just how she treated her husbands. She was the violent one

[@schoomzer]

@@FindingFyNyth Why should women be compromised simply because they want a career in the arts?

[@namewitheld2568]

She was in charge of her own life. She married men she thought could help her.

[@windwatcher11]

I'm not so sure about this. I have a sneaking hunch she may have been narcissistic and emotionally unavailable, choosing immature dudes that could make her look good. It takes two to tango; I doubt she was innocent in any of the personal wars she waged. She was obviously capable of cruelty.

[@aiden3627]

These stories are all so sad, these amazing people went through horrible things

[@charlieconnelly5514]

Excellent 👍

[@user-xr5sv6ug2d]

The woman did what she could consider the quick twists and turns; but “disfigured” she never was!