Home Diaries | Cozy winter nights, getting my life together & hosting a dinner

[@miguelcastilho7454]

I's normal to feel burnout in this time of year!!! Benji rest and slow down (like you have been doing) if needed! I don't speak for everyone, but i have a feeling that your viewers are all awesome sweet people who understand that everyone needs a brake time to time! Love your videos and how comforting they are! its enough to know you doing OK! Rest and thank you for your videos!

[@melodyemay6402]

What perfect advice! My sentiments exactly:)

[@juultje222]

Sincerely wondering how someone can go through seasonal burnout/depression while living somewhere where it's warm and sunny all year through

[@remsan03]

04:12 That goodbye kiss and hug. Oh, my heart.

[@kirstenwongie]

Jihao's mystery tropical leaves are called "ti leaves" in hawaii they bring protection are also a big part of wrapping foods that are slow cooked underground. They also make gorgeous arrangements with anthiriums and ferns

[@twittwit1227]

omg we use banana leaves to wrap food in my country (Sri Lanka) it tastes so good!

[@johncedarleaf224]

Today’s video was just so sweet. I’m not sure what it was, but it just hit in the heart. I think it was the first time in a video that I saw you two kiss, when Chris left for work, and it actually brought a tear to my eye.

[@sujammaz]

i know right? i know public display of affection can be difficult and there are many cultural rules about it, but i personally really like it and especially when i feel for the people involved, which i definitely do after at least two years of watching this channel 🤗

[@edwynnflores]

Aw I loved how Theo started to Dance with you he’s such a cute dog😊

[@elysekeeney]

If you find a where the ants are coming from, you can put peppermint oil on their trail to stop new ants from following them in. Ants leave a scent trail to lead other ants in. Also in front of the windows and doors if you're not sure where they're coming in!

[@aaanti]

didn't know that. i always put cinnamon. they really don't like that. but peppermint oil sounds less messy.

[@xk_monster]

Mint also works! Try putting them near any cracks.

[@gordonissocoollike]

What a great little film. Every new one exceeds expectation i love Theo. And Chris. Both are charming souls

[@mrstawb]

this one made me tear up, beautiful mundanity & a home so rare & full of love. grateful too be cosy too

[@90skid97]

Awesome, I'd love to see a train travel vlog. As someone from the Nordics I totally get your seasonal depression but I have to say looking at you guy's place it looks like paradise even in December. Fresh citrus fruits from the garden and sunny days. Idk if I could ever feel down if that was my winter. Amazing place/house you guys live in.

[@PhotoRam405]

have you ever seen trains plowing snow?

[@myinsulingardenbyniniday4398]

That looks so elegant of a dinner party in a small house! The touch of brown table cloth has added to the elegant style. You have such an aesthetic talent in you. And, hot pot is my fave especially in the winter!..😍❤️

[@anavidreader277]

I love the way all my fav people on yt watch each other’s videos haha! The library decorations are so cute I wish I’d had a school librarian that invested :)

[@sarak5312]

whose channel was that??

[@ruvarashemafofo]

benji is literally so comforting ❤

[@elgardellenbogen1093]

Fürsorglich und liebevoll … so entspannend ihm zuzusehen

[@ProjectIsac]

Thank you for this lovely video, Benji. I've been feeling down for a few weeks since I lost my job in November... I'm trying to give myself the time I need to figure out what to do next. This video was so comforting ❤

[@PhotoRam405]

make videos lol

[@kikikoko3266]

I don’t know you but every time I see you I feel calm, serene! So, I wish you with all my heart the happiness you deserve!!❤

[@ginaleebennett]

I ❤ how special your relationship is with Chris. So exotic and unique is the arrangement of the hot pot decor. Coming from a Asian family, hot pot is our go to for cold nights. I might need to step it up a notch on the creativity 😊. Happy Holidays to you, Chris and Theo!

[@hritika535]

I am sorry but I am kinda new to this channel so am not sure, are Chris and Benji just roommates or are they like together or something?

[@dakota683]

That sweater hack is actually so smart I’ve just been folding them and it takes up so much more space

[@victoria4]

Theo raising the roof has me sobbing 😭😭 so cute

[@nami_morimori]

benji's vlogs are literally so comforting and sweet T T

[@Iivinginfiction]

theres always something about the colder and gloomier weather that just makes us more tired and less motivated. We are human beings in reality and winter months are always what i call hibernation season, and its a good reminder to slow down as the year closes. i know the feeling of random spurts of lethargy or even just feeling down about being down, or uninspired. but i try to remind myself it will leave soon so i try not to overthink it and just let it be

[@UnfurlWithYu]

hey benji :) hearing you talk about feeling rather tired in winter times i just want to share something beautiful i just learned this year, which is that nature reflects and reminded to me that winter is a time to retreat and rest in order to recharge for the next season of spring comes around. so i started to see and take mother nature as an example to remind me of what season phase is present and allow myself to do the same as mother earth of retreating and not being as outward productive and active ^^ basically what i wanted to say is allow yourself to feel tired and hence rest more in this season, nature around us is showing us, it's natural :) much love to you benji

[@Itsme3487]

Beautiful and peaceful video as always, hope you start to feel better Benji, I feel better when I watch your videos so thanks for that🫶

[@iancampbell168]

Your videos always bring me a sense of peace no matter what you’re filming-that dinner party looked amazing! 🙂

[@blueyomogi]

Those are ti leaves...you can wrap food and cook in them (bake/steam) -

[@critiqueofthegothgf]

takes a while to get out of a slump sometimes. glad you're being patient and kind to yourself. :) take as much time as you need, we are all so grateful for these vlogs, I know I am. they help me out more than you could ever know. thank you

[@AMCvanTuijl735]

❤❤❤ for the three of you, from Holland. Love, Anne.

[@ruralangwin]

You will love the Coast Starlight! Keep your eyes open for waterfall on west side at Dunsmuir. BTW Dunsmuir is still a rail road hobo town!

[@twittwit1227]

this video alone healed me so cozy and warm vibes!

[@civilizeddiva]

11:16: Oh my goodness! That is the “Dad’s back” dance.

[@kimchistamps]

i do the same thing when i get overwhelmed, cleaning just feels like a good refresh!

[@sleepiiie]

6:40 rabbits foot ferns are my favourite!!!! i have one and its pretty little but im in LOVE with it and i love its cute little feet!! they grow super fast and also grow amazingly with moss!! you're so lucky to get such a big one that is amazing!!!

[@civilizeddiva]

14:40: Thank you for sharing. Wishing you, Chris and T a peaceful winter holiday, Christmas, or whatever you celebrate.

[@lorraineyanez4301]

Missed you ❤. My Sunday morning routine is to clean the house, then have coffee and look for Benji content. I m jealous I can't keep a fern alive 😫.

[@kellypatterson4412]

What a quaint and charming life you'd built. I'm so sorry to hear that you've lost this. 💔😢

[@jo-marpartida2765]

I love the captions, fonts and overall style of this video!!

[@MrTsnead]

Love your videos! They are so relaxing! Wishing you and Chris a very Merry Christmas and all the best in 2024!

[@Echo_blu]

Those are really pretty plants. Yes, definitely get out of the house, maybe volunteer at shelter or a little sude job at a nursery will help get you out of that funk. I really enjoy your videos and thanks for sharing the sweater tip. Have great hoilday and Merry Christmas

[@rachelelisegreiner-or8pq]

Just came here to say this too! maybe consider volunteering at a community garden, or something along those lines? Love your content, and hope you're able to rest and do what you need!

[@skeletonnewroman4277]

Watching this gave me some of the drive I needed to finish some chores I've also been putting off for a while, some for months, including repotting some of my plants. Thank you for sharing, my plants are grateful!

[@spiderflux]

Nice relaxing video as always. The tip about the sweater was a bonus, I've been folding my sweaters for a long time so they don't stretch out and they take up alot of space that way. Why I never thought of draping them over the hanger I'll never know, but I'm glad you did.

[@mwilliamanderson]

Hot pot is so much fun and the best part is everyone gets to eat exactly what they want! The shorter days and weaker sun are hard for a lot of us. Hope you feel better soon.

[@mchl3669]

You, Chris and Theo were meant for each other. Thank you for sharing your lovely family with us. 🥹

[@Nickk1996]

This is how i complete my weekend. Watching Benji's videos😊😊

[@annwiltshire1644]

I'm sorry to hear you've been struggling. For what it's worth I find your videos very soothing and calming for my mind. Love your aesthetic - both interiors and within you. Kia kaha from New Zealand.

[@BLANKU2]

I use the lavender scented Swiffer floor wipes to keep ants at bay and also ant traps. I had them bad this summer for some strange reason. I also use peppermint oil to keep spiders away because I too cannot when it comes to bugs.

[@lin7374]

Enjoy the coast starlight!! I used to just take it between portland and tacoma, but the whole coast trip is supposed to be super beautiful. My pro tip is that the wifi is always horrible/nonexistent, so be prepared for offline activities!

[@T_Greer]

It’s special that you can share moments like this with us. No need to apologize have a great christmas and we look forward to seeing you when we see you

[@ginar3398]

Always have the most wholesome sweet videos!! What a really great group of people around you too!❤ seeing well done film/vlog like this it’s what makes my harder days a little lighter. And I swear something must be in the air because this last month (arguably month and a half+😅) things have been so exhausting!

[@mariekath2672]

Wow, I did not know that Christmas trees are so expensive in the US. 😮 In Germany they are like half the price.

[@iyone7]

Your videos are always a delight to watch, and so relaxing.

[@craftandcookSG]

I love the chill vibes of the vlog!

[@spiraliz4]

I'm so happy when Benji posts a video, it's literally heaven❤❤

[@elizabethlacey7708]

Sending good vibes, positive thinking, and tons of love your way!!!!

[@civilizeddiva]

4:05: Buy a Cricut, Chris. You will love it and make wonderful decor for your library (within school guidelines of course)

[@vaevz]

chihuahuas are sooo sweet 💚🥬🌲

[@startpage717]

One of my. Favourite Artist!...

[@courtstapleton]

make sure you add fresh water to your tree stand every day! they drink A LOT :)

[@susangladstone357]

Winter is a low energy time of year - it’s good to let yourself lounge/rest more ;) - hey thanks for the sweater hanging top :0

[@larsstougaard7097]

Wonderful home and plants 🪴

[@civilizeddiva]

1:05: Hey, T🥹 4:36: 🥰

[@kellypatterson4412]

Another sweater tip... You can blow those shoulder bumps out with a warm blowdryer.

[@charleshicks912]

What a beautiful Christmas tree y'all have thanks for sharing Merry Christmas guy's hopefully y'all have a amazing Christmas and New years 🙋☕🎣🏳️‍🌈🧑‍🎄

[@vlong7112]

My 3rd grader loves DogMan!! There's a really cool series we discovered this year that she also loves! Legends of Lotus Island! The first two books are out and the next two will be released next year 📖🪱

[@toni4647]

the dinner table looked to die for omgggg so artistic!!

[@carmichealful]

I love watching your videos as I work on things around my house, it feels like a friend keeping me company. Thanks for sharing

[@StuffedAvocado]

Sorry for the burnout! It happens! Take your time! I hope you two bought a tree stand with a reservoir in it. You need to keep that tree hydrated so it can last through Xmas! 🥰 🎄

[@1423607]

Omg. Watching you and Chris buying an Xmas tree brought me back to my first time with my current partner. We've been together for nine years and it was so sweet to be reminded of those sweet moments, like that meal you have with your unadorned tree, quiet imagination taking foot. 💕

[@doneecemcneil7826]

Hi edagdwg thanks for sharing your party enjoyed seeing the way you and friends have nice time enjoying each other life is soooooo real a forever fan Linda j. Peace

[@novelette2551]

Peppermint oil ....for ants....soak small rags with it scatter around the spaces or room where you see ants..insects hate it... Use a good strength oil order from health store

[@edna8714]

No worries Benji Ive been feeling the same this past month hopefull this week is my last busy week for the month. Take your time and relax. ☺️

[@rosierose1167]

🌲🥂🎁☃️🌲🎅 Happy holidays Bengie, Great video & I was happy to see Chris & sharing a meal ;& putting up your Tree 2gether🌲 Your Social Dinner looked like fun as well. Till your next video, take care my friend, have a fun week & be Safe, Covid is back!

[@698.45hz]

your videos literally bring so much comfort! take time to rest and keep doing all the little things you enjoy the most! happy holidays to you three 🤍🤍🤍

[@erikaskaar]

I appreciate you posting such intimate moments❤ I find such joy and I wish you, your partner and friends all the best in this year and the next❤❤❤❤

[@adrianawins5452]

This dinner looked insane! The eatable decorations blew my mind 🤯

[@acheronix]

Feelings of burnout/low-energy are quite common in Southern California in the winter. Despite abundant sunshine, the problem is that it rains mainly in winter over there, and water flows in underground rivers beneath the city. These underground rivers induce 'geopathic stress' zones which causes issues for people living above them-from decreasing energy/health and attracting insects. In the ancient past, dowsers would check for these zones and advise people where to avoid building homes. Fortunately, there are some cheap solutions. People find using shungite rocks help to neutralize the negative energy. Wearing small pendant, or putting a piece hanging on the wall or hidden under the bed will work. If you put it under the bed make sure to put it inside a dog-proof container so Theo doesn't treat it as a chew toy. You don't need a large piece. Shungite can be found at any reputable healing/New Age store. You should see your energy returning to normal quickly, and the ants will disappear as well.

[@elijahstone2432]

You should put the tree on the round table.

[@catherineatkinson1729]

You could set the tree on your small round table. It would have a greater presence without taking up more room!

[@mariahhhhhhhos]

You are definitely inspiring me to host my own little dinner parties in the future when hopefully my husband and I have a house

[@sylviagutierrez7676]

Another cozy video,✨a beautiful dinner with friends ...💚the 🎄 Enjoy the train trip, 💚🌱🌵🌿💚

[@Gre_tel]

Here in germany this tree would cost less than 20$/€ 😳 also, I enjoy your videos so much, benji!

[@amyleianne8038]

1:14 Is the music from Wind Waker?!

[@bean9452]

I love the new editing style!!! Watching your videos is always so relaxing

[@khool_girl]

Always makes my day when I see you post !!

[@blah4055]

New subscriber here and I am just compelled to express how LIGHT & floaty I feel having found your channel. ahhh.🌿

[@rociosasmay]

I love Chris, he looks like my son Milan. Even he has similar energy and expressions ❤❤❤❤

[@sallyb3]

I am new to your vlog and enjoy it tremendously. 🎶 music is so soothing along with your narration ❤❤.

[@butterfly_decal]

Idk who makes me smile more: u, Chris, or Theo.😊

[@janinebesa4678]

aw, that's so sweet .. continue posting videos and thank you for inspiring us

[@doneecemcneil7826]

Hi edagdwg God blessed you both enjoy your life together life is soooooo real a real fan Linda j. Peace

[@bigben1986]

Such an elegant dinner you hosted. I love it!!!

[@Manggag]

This is all so comforting and cute

[@mkas291]

Theo is just the cutest! Love your Christmas tree, its a perfect size

[@iolaani]

3:10 hey Benji!! Awesome video! My absolute favorite videos are chill ones where you just talk to the camera. Always prioritize your mental health 😌. I just wanted to point out here, this comment could come off as sexist and outdated. It could also offend some people, especially women :). Just letting you know. I know you didn’t intend it to come off this way. Also!! I love your yoshitomo Nara book

[@civilizeddiva]

2:17: beautiful, 2:18 2:40: Impressive

[@redae7710]

the train ride looks sick🤤 Hope you'll do a video on it

[@PhotoRam405]

trains are the best

[@lorrainemaccarelli4655]

That little Theo is so cute. I've been really pushing myself to keep busy so as not to feel down. Not sure if it's the time change. It gets dark so early.

[@robweberdesign]

Happy Holidays!🎄 Thanks for sharing!

[@Woollylovesbicycle]

love you benji and also your little family crew❤🎉

[@leannegander796]

Thankyou, a beautiful and relaxing vlog ❤

[@cindycastellanos8687]

hugs to you & theo

[@pman2916]

Glad I'm not alone in feeling burnt out.