HOMEAFFAIRS PLEASE ALLOW ME TO DIVORCE/AM TIRED

[@zintlepakade1635]

Yoooh cthandwa Sam ndava kabuhlungu coz someone that I know whom he used to help ppl with challenges has now retire this year. Sending love and warm hugs strongs bbe

[@zamooch]

Approach a lawyer in SA Nons, they need you to be divorced in SA also for home affairs to process it on their system. Your Lawyer may be able to use your Finnish decree to apply for a decree in SA so that you don’t have to attend in court.

[@LindaSerumula-xk4cn]

I tried with the lawyers but I did not get help pls where can I go it's been 8 years now trying to get help

[@user-wo5qo6ji7l]

Mama I totally understand your frustration. Divorce things are very draining .Especially if you and that person are looooonnngggg separated. I hope all get sorted my love. Phephisa all will be well ❤

[@WNdaba]

Thats why I opted and will still opt for double barrel, so that my surname will always feature. Nonetheless see if you can apply for SA divorce decree ( high court in Pta ) . Submit both old and new ID and then submit in person in Pretoria. These branches will hardly help you.

[@iamsamajobe_]

I think you need to get a South African divorce papers and it is not that difficult they give you papers to fill in and submit them to the small court. Tricky part is that you need your partner to sign those papers and it is easy uma kungekho amafa ningenazingane futhi. I am talking from experience, within 2 weeks everything was finalized!

[@LindaSerumula-xk4cn]

I wil also try that thanks

[@anitatumeka1466]

My dear I understand your frustration. I had changes on my name. Dha had to give me confirmation letter, I'm telling you it was I had committed a new crime that they never heard of. Or the person giving that was suddenly absent. And I got warnings from the generation we are healing from that I'll regret what I did. This and that she doesn't even know me. I talking about Home affairs in SA 😮

[@Positive_vibes1982]

Nonsi sisi, only a lawyer can rescue you in this situation❤️

[@zintlemfolozi]

My brother in law is in his 50s Akana ID we have been trying ivele ingaphumi ngok bathi we need to apply for birth certificate coz akaveli kwi system

[@sinazom9010]

Why did they even let you apply for Id, without birth certificate??

[@sfundobuthelezi5435]

Same situation with my mother, she doesn’t have id

[@bongythwala9840]

Hawu manje ey niyangithusa ,but in my side i understand Why ungeke u regster a business cc washadela e finland not in SA .i understand why benza njalo vele uma ushadele phandle kuba ncono if ukuba wamlanda lowase Finland nashadela e SA ,it a long thing cc lena ifuna ummeli,kuba ncono if indoda yakho nisakhuluma niyakwazi ukubambisana nihamba ama embass nenze kube easy

[@fikiswamkil9524]

Home Affairs does acknowledge documents from other countries, but they must first be translated by a recognised 'translator', angisakhumbuli babizwa ngani exactly.. then the document must be appostilled.. bese ihanjiswa e Home Affairs.

[@piniratshwene4574]

Inefficient Nonsi... They don't care nxa sies... No inservice for employees

[@mantelekhitsane8935]

I'm so sorry mama 😢I understand you pain right now, please find a lawyer 🫂🫂🫂🫂❤️💐

[@dikeledihlabangane3854]

Dr Aaron Motsoaledi is the minister of home affairs Nonsi. Just write to him

[@pearlnyawoza7765]

you need to file for divorce also in SA. You may need a lawyer for this. Embassy also can assist they do have home affairs office. Askies mama❤

[@LindaSerumula-xk4cn]

Thanks Wil do so

[@onelisankwenkwezi3289]

The issue with your situation is DOMICILE they wont know at home affairs because they dont really know technicalities of legal aspect of divorce . Apply for divorce in court then produce the decree from Finland then you will be issued with South African decree

[@sinazom9010]

You need a lawyer here in South Africa to advise you on what to do in this case…. Kindly use a known law firm to avoid being scammed

[@ZinhleCsanda]

Into yakwa Government nje cc eSA iyinkinga kuyenzeka ungasizakali uphethe izinto eziright.. Kuya ngokuthi muntu okusizayo umfice ekuyiphi mood

[@sbongiles2675]

Yhooooo angihleki sisi😂😂 it's the way you narrating the story hle

[@GloriousSamkelisiweMqadi]

Unfortunately that is how it works with divorce in South Africa. You need to go to court in South Africa and they will handle the divorce for you, but putting it in the system can take years for me it took years until I had to pay someone to assist. Home affairs kusebenza imali khuluma no my brothers uyabazi bakwazi konke lokho but imali phambili.

[@briandejesustofa3708]

That’s strange. In Cape Town it takes just about weeks for it to be on the system.

[@TheMiaOrange]

I got divorced in the USA it took years starting with legal separation. The process took years, I worked with a lawyer and we had the papers rejected multiple times because the courts kept changing the paperwork regularly and then the judge wouldn't sign off on it due to not asking for child support. Then the judge left adult courts to juvenile and we had to meet with her there. Then my lawyer became a judge and the new lawyer was rude to me. The final court date, I missed due to being stuck in rush hour traffic but the rude lawyer stood in for me. What a mess. The marriage took about 30 min total due to being Nevada USA. Then there is all the paperwork I still need to submit due to name changes when I try to get career licenses etc.

[@zuzuh5755]

It's sound complicated.Someone told me that in some countries in Europe,you can get married but still remain with your surname. They have a choice of changing surnames to hubby's or not. I think having that choice,I wld never change my surname. Did you get married in SA and went to register marriage in SA. I think that causes more problems.

[@TheMiaOrange]

@@zuzuh5755 we actually traded names which was confusing. I got married in the state of Nevada USA and divorced in Oregon USA.

[@sisandaslife]

Don't do it no Home affairs use a lawyer and you can do it while you in Finland .Do you still have contacts with your X because bazomdinga avume naye mna ndabane lucky ngoba wavuma waya futhi to sign while I was in US then the lawyer sent it to me via DHL

[@GloriousSamkelisiweMqadi]

You really need to divorce in South Africa nami the person I got married to was no longer in South Africa naye engasekho but ngaya ecourt but o my brother bazokusiza

[@LOLOZN]

Approach the high court to divorce in SA sothat you can get the necessary decree that will enable you to be assisted by HA.

[@yolandelyle]

Omg,.........I am done with dealing with South Africa. Even now,I still have my South African passport. I originally got my divorce in Finland. I have the papers to prove it. But when I asked my aunt in South Africa to go to Home Affairs to get my divorce also legalised as I am South African,but not living in South Africa,........my goodness,......it was like hell, for my aunt! They first told her that she is standing in the incorrect line. When she eventually went to the correct line,.......again they told her something else,that was needed with my paperwork!!!!!!! Omg,............I am glad that I will NEVER LIVE IN SOUTH AFRICA AGAIN!!! NEVER! GOVERNMENT IS SO MESSED UP!!!

[@bongythwala9840]

Why wena uthumela u Anti eyndaben zakho zama Divorce akuthunyelwa it your issue mele uzihambele wena wehla wenyuka buza mina cc

[@zuzuh5755]

So if you divorce outside SA,you also have to take those divorce docs to SA to be legalised? Did you get married in SA or Finland? What if the marriage was out of SA? We learn everyday yooh! Goodluck sis.

[@ZoeJamila]

Rather get a lawyer that you will pay in SA rather than going there use that money to pay the lawyer. He/she will send you and your ex husband papers to sign and send back. It will be easier if you both agree and not contest anything

[@queenzikhali-jd6hm]

😂😂😂 I like the way you talk.put ur hands down 😅😅

[@bongythwala9840]

😂😂kuyaliwa

[@LindaSerumula-xk4cn]

I wish I could talk to u mayb u will help me I'm exactly in the same situation,and I have b been struggling for many years until now😢😢😢

[@zuzuh5755]

Yooh! So you guys dont have embassy in Finland 😮😮. I wondr why. Did you get married in SA or you got married in Finland,and went to register your marriage in SA?

[@Simpletee02]

Write an email to that minister of home affairs attached all relevant documents explain the wholesituation cc the manager of home affairs u went too

[@user-qu9bt3ru8y]

Nonsi kumele uthole ummeli ozochazela ukuthi yenzenjani.

[@ayandazenzile5951]

The consistency ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@hlulanithetsongaprince]

Why are we getting married if you have to go through this? Married is a scam yes God said we must get married but that was said in the 13BC. Marriage it does not work guys it comes with so much stress.

[@lungilembuyisa8566]

Uphi u x yena ngeke yn akwazi ukukusiza?

[@bongythwala9840]

Vele mele baxhumane not ukuthi azenzele yedwa kuzoba nzima vele ,manishada nisayina ama embassy nindawonye akube njalo namanje

[@lubanzimbuli1907]

The quality of your cam today 👌👌👌👌👌👌

[@lindiwendlovu6475]

Haybo home affairs do your job please cz nihlanyisa uNonsi nw no kuwrong😂😢

[@user-oi1bq3ps4z]

😢srry babe...

[@WNdaba]

Ntombo Clayson is not a Minister 😂😂😂😂😂😂 He is in International Relations and not even a Minister.

[@carloslouw4498]

This is not funny 😢!

[@WNdaba]

@@carloslouw4498 to you, it's not. To me it is. I cannot have an online mother moulding my behaviour. Get away from me satan.

[@user-vp4se5mz5v]

❤❤❤❤hi nozy I'm your fan

[@user-je6yf6mo5b]

I think when you here in South Africa go straight to Pretoria home affairs

[@bongythwala9840]

True awuyi e home affairs kuhanjwa ama embassy kulento I home affairs into yokugcina ukuhambisa ama phepha 😂

[@daisydlamini3583]

Bafunukudizelwa laba

[@tembamy]

What goes around comes around,

[@sutushome748]

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[@akhonaakho6753]

😂😂😂😂😂😂kodwa wena ❤❤❤

[@bintudlamini6965]

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[@SindySithebe]

Hi Nonsi yathandwa❤❤❤❤

[@SindySithebe]

Wish you all the best in yr divorce in SA

[@frenchmakoti]

Home Affairs nkosi yami 😡😡😡😡

[@bongythwala9840]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂i promise i will not get married with a foreign 😂😂😂😂again

[@thandomzolo7649]

😍😍😍

[@user-uq2xq8rd7l]

Hy Nonsi ❤❤❤

[@nele6947]

How old is Nonsi?

[@deswants1317]

I can’t believe I cried watching this

[@zamazwidenxumalo5984]

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[@user-op7hr3xg9w]

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[@ayandajijana1146]

Sorry Nonsi 😢😢😢

[@zamakhanyile2991]

😂😂😂😂😂you not promising kuthi ngeke usashada kodwa ungihlekiselani Nonsi

[@sibahlesiyabonga6546]

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[@MrsEngelbrecht]

I know sa home affairs it's a drag

[@girliemtshali7229]

Sorry Nono❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@zuzuh5755]

Did you change yr surname to yr ex hubby's after marriage?

[@girliemtshali7229]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@marjorykunaka7676]

Did you change your name back to your maiden name

[@josephmuhepa]

😂😂😂😂😂 your neighbor works from home yet you are screaming 😂😂 mara Nonsi

[@lindiwendlovu6475]

😂😂😂😂ay

[@thumaboikihloele5747]

AYINOLUNGA NGOBA inambars zakho

[@Mimi-gj1fq]

Your neighbour now knows how it feels to live in africa😂🤣😂you are dealing with idiots yhoo!!! How can gettin a divorce thats already done be so impossible to get..weird

[@thobekamadlala4928]

@home affairs please help

[@Babynonja]

South african HomeAffairs 🚮🚮🚮🚮

[@bellangcungama7986]

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[@user-oi1bq3ps4z]

😢srry babe...

[@bonisilemthembu3782]

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