The Struggle Is Real, Why Women Do Not Talk About This?

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[@MariaMoseley-tz8cf]

To anyone on here suffering from menopause: up your magnesium, reduce sugar intake greatly and try yam root cream. I found a wonderful Australian nurse on here named Barbara O'Neil and studied her seminars. SOooo helpful for my hot flashes, night sweats and weight Flux.

[@mylifesjourney...sharonkar7802]

I just found Dr. Barbara O Neill recently as well and what a blessing her videos are. I just bought some yam root cream too. Using it for a week now.❤

[@MariaMoseley-tz8cf]

@mylifesjourney...sharonkar7802 I have been using the cream for 2 months. I cannot express how grateful I am to Ms. O' Neil. I went from an internal burning hellfire randomly occurring 24/7 to just warmer than my 48yrs of always freezing... I think I'm normal now🤣 I use the cream on my upper chest & neck in lieu of my old moisturizer 🤷🏼‍♀️

[@pattymiles2688]

Barbara ONeill is awesome!!!!

[@gwhln]

Agree, ladies

[@marybethglaser2185]

I am going to check her out. Thank you for sharing.

[@joanacker917]

That was the sermon at mass this morning! The priest said when you are suffering and can’t control it, the only thing you can control is your DISPOSITION!

[@aproverbshome173]

Jesus gives us self control. Yes such a hard thing to go through.

[@sandrasykes3026]

In February 2005, I was diagnosed with Hodgkin’s Lymphoma & began 6 months of chemotherapy. At the end of chemo, I was cancer free; I also discovered that menopause was over! I remain cancer free today. God is good!

[@normatrewhella9003]

I’ve spent years, sending parcels. It was one of the things I enjoyed. It was something an aunt from 75 years ago did for my family, and I carried it on. That’s why I love to see the parcels you get. Memories.

[@marybethsmith6458]

When you share your presents, you also share your joy.

[@redemptionroadfarm9763]

You read my mind Tessie..I suffer from chronic anxiety and panic attacks..I do not want to take narcotics so I deal with it and it's hard but you let me know I'm not alone in this .thanks

[@Madonnalitta1]

Try aromatherapy, they won't stop the panic attacks but it'll make you feel good afterwards. My daughter has them and I always have citrus essential oils at the ready, as she loves the scents.

[@mamadoom9724]

I’m right there with you. I suffer from anxiety and panic attacks but I just live with it the best I can because I do not want to be medicated.

[@christinesmith4706]

Great video Tessie. You look lovely in that shade of pink. It is one of my favorite colors. ❤

[@heythere2364]

Tessie, you are such a wonderful, pure soul. You've made me a better woman just by watching you! 😊

[@decdavey6470]

Postmenopause is freedom!

[@sheilas3666]

Thanks for sharing, Tessie. I hope talking to “us” via the camera really does give you comfort & a sense of talking with friends ❤️. Those days are long gone for me, but I had to smile as I related to your comments about “bones creaking, eyes not working as well, and brain fog!” Plenty of all that around here! 😂 Bless your heart…take things easy more often. Give Hubby a chance to pitch in - he’ll appreciate the opportunityto pamper you 👩‍❤️‍👨

[@tamimercer476]

Hope everyone is enjoying their sunday😊

[@LookOnTheBtrightside]

You too! 🌻

[@pr9764]

Hope That You Are Enjoying Your Sunday Too Tami, Blessings, Andrea

[@Dean12346]

Im 54 as well and I have been going through all this right along with you. And I want to thank you so much for being open you are such a support for me! It can be very lonely. I appreciate you!🙏❤️

[@PaulaFlatt-vt1pz]

Wonderful to watch you open your gifts. There are some very giving, caring and generous people still left in this world. I’m happy to see it. The heart jars are so cute and unique. Perfect for your herbal tinctures.

[@sarahkelly7825]

Loved your singing an old hymn that I grew up singing with my church family!!

[@jodiclements6123]

This menopause is not for the weak😂

[@carlagorman3631]

Old age is a blessing not everyone reaches

[@carolh4941]

Hi Tessie oh my my hot flashes have been happening to me now for 15 years and not stopping. I don't sleep , depression, weight gain sometimes anger. This last year has been the hardest for me. I thought by now I would be coming out the other side but no not yet. Thanks for sharing with us and please let us know how your doing from time to time.

[@saramurillo-garcia2301]

I went into full blown menopause in 2014 due to cervical cancer treatments 🤪 boy I had the same symptoms 👆 I still go through the symptoms though they have lightened up a little bit after 10 yrs 😂😉😂

[@ritafirestone761]

I was thrown into menopause when I had a complete hysterectomy 46. I am also diabetic. They both brings on hot flashes. Also I have night sweats. Having babies change alot of hormonal and female issues. I have learned recently in a Bible study that very negative people can really steal your joy. I have distanced myself from them and I find myself feeling better and happier. I am 67 and mornings are hard moving at first. If I had 1 year to live like a friend of mine who was given that diagnosis. I would want to mend any fences I may have hurt someone, and see my family. My greatest joy tho would be knowing I would be with Jesus and my family in heaven.

[@Dance_poetry_nature]

Tessi, I am going through it right now. No, it may not be menopause at the moment, but I am going through a lot in life right now. I am dealing with severe PTSD and almost every day I have anxiety and racing thoughts and anger. I feel very unsteady on my own two feet. Yes, I'm going to therapy literally every day. Yes, I am taking my medication every day. Yes, I am talking to my friends and family and my support system, but sometimes all of that doesn't feel like enough... But when you sang the song "count your blessings" it made me realize I am blessed and that this won't last forever, I just need to be patient with myself. Thank you so much for your video. ❤❤ Blessings to you and your family.

[@WillowsGarden]

Hi Tessie! Wild Yam helps with menopause. I got it at the health food store and it works wonders. Have a blessed night everyone!

[@pr9764]

I Am So Glad That Wild Yam Helped You Willowsgarden 🙂, Wishing You A Blessed Night Too! Andrea

[@WillowsGarden]

@@pr9764 thank you Andrea and I hope you have a blessed day!

[@saramurillo-garcia2301]

Such lovely gifts 😌👏👏😌 aww!!! You really do help so many people!😇🫶🫶😇 I just turned 54 on January 29th 😁 we are the same age !!🥳

[@mylifesjourney...sharonkar7802]

I'll be 54 February 25th. Same age ❤

[@owen4248]

Hello Everyone Welcome to Tessie's Channel :-)

[@hollyj2925]

Hello 👋

[@tamimercer476]

Hi owen😊

[@owen4248]

@@MichaelR58 Hi Michael 58 :-)

[@owen4248]

@@hollyj2925 Hello Holly J :-)

[@owen4248]

@@tamimercer476 Hi Tami :-)

[@tammykriskie2233]

Beautiful Sunday Blessings Tessie 😊 I used to get hot flashes and night sweats but they seem to have left. I do get brain fog and had it this morning as i was getting ready for church. So hopefully that will leave soon .. I love your videos tessie. And your actually Therapy for me. You've helped me more than you know. God Bless You Tessie and the joy you bring to us everyday. Have a Blessed Night ❤

[@DisabledandPrepping]

I'm so ready for spring too I am so sick and tired of being stuck inside. I have been stuck inside for I can't even remember how many months.

[@rosalynnecole23]

Oh Tess! You hit the nail right on its head. Menopause is no joke. My mom went through menopause and never said a word. But me, i am very different. Thank goodness i dont have mood swings or hot flashes but i have several other symptoms. You and I are in the same boat. But honey, we will win! 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

[@patti8732]

Yes I understand, I don't have anyone either. My Sister and best friend passed away last year and this has changed me so much. We could bounce things off each other, we had fun and laughed a lot. You know what's best Tessie, you can share so many things with your sweet daughters.....don't let that opportunity go by. tfs Have a great week!

[@squeekymelissa73]

Going threw the same hot flashes have stopped now losing my hair didn’t realize that would happen also not taking any medication did start taking collagen ❤

[@owen4248]

Good Morning Tessie, Sisters, Brothers, and Friends, Wish you all a wonderful blessed Monday filled with Gods Joy and Happiness :-) Remember to pray for one another and for all around the world :-) God Bless You ! Love you all :-) Keep smiling be safe :-)

[@KerryJames-l6z]

It good to keep busy

[@Trisha0413]

Thanks for sharing about menopause I’m 48 and think I might be coming into it. 💕💕

[@BethGrantDeRoos]

Love your silver heart. ♥ Counting one's blessing is Biblical! Interesting thing about menopause is me and my sisters all had a different experience. I breezed through menopause, where they each had it harder. For me I chalk it up to eating more plant based, with some fish, as well more physical exercise including doing weight bearing workouts. And making sure we stay hydrated, which is why I drink more water. 🙂 You shared how your husband is lifting weights. Which is why I really encourage you to do weights also for healthy bones, because women who are pre or active menopause often need extra calcium, and weight bearing workouts seem to help our bones when it comes to calcium absorption. 🙂

[@melissaveldt8198]

I went through a hysterectomy at 24 because of severe problems. The doctor told me I needed a hysterectomy on Wednesday and my insurance wanted a second opinion so I went there on Friday the same week and then I had surgery on Wednesday the following week. Then I had breast cancer at 40 so that threw me further into mental pause I am now 56 and cancer free but the hot flashes are horrible at night to the point I wake up in the middle of the night just pouring sweat and often I have to change clothes because of it. My mom is in her 70’s and she still suffers from hot flashes.

[@pr9764]

Praying For You Melissa. One Line Stands Out 'I Am Now 56 And Cancer Free' -- PRAISE GOD -- PRICELESS! I Am Thrilled For You Melissa. BLESSINGS, Andrea

[@janicew6222]

Blessings to you on this Sunday.

[@HumbleServant-uy9xe]

Ty Tessie for being an open book!

[@lisabinkley592]

Love our Tessie ❤

[@Nakona0062]

Thank you Tessie for this video. I am going through some health challenges right now and would appreciate your prayers. Not knowing what is going on is not fun but God is there and I am so thankful. Blessings

[@kimberlystone3987]

Ditto my friend, I’m right there with ya.. I’ve got it all right now, the only good thing from it is Is the wisdom…. The wisdom is awesome ❤❤

[@mylifesjourney...sharonkar7802]

We are your family Tessie❤ I don't have any parents or in laws or grandparents left either, but I have siblings, a husband and sons and grandchildren. Being a true Believer in Yehusha takes most people (friends and family) out of your life. We are blessed to know Him. I like your promise at the end of your videos recently but I always add "Yah willing" for you, as you know He is in control of all things. I keep you in prayer to continue seeking His truth for He is coming real soon. Love and blessings ❤️ You are definitely feeling His joy and shining brightly for Him. 💐⚘️🕊

[@georgiabell3640]

Good evening Tessie and friends ❤many blessings

[@owen4248]

Good evening Georgia Bell blessings :-)

[@pr9764]

Good Evening Owen 🙂

[@owen4248]

@@pr9764 Good evening P R :-)

[@kimberlystone3987]

Happy Sunday Tessie ❤

[@AmandainChrist88]

I was waiting on this talk thank you sister I’m going through it early I’m early menopause at 36 and I’m having a hard time . I have auto immune disease and family history of early menopause so I’m going through what women in my family did . It’s hard very hard . It started with night sweats than missing cycles and after I started missing cycles the night sweats stopped I hope they don’t come back but I’m still in the early phase .

[@hollyj2925]

My health steals my joy, chronic pain and going to drs too much! Getting surgery on my cervical spine can’t wait to feel better, lovely gifts love the Beatrix potter and jars. Menopause hot flashes me too, took natural progesterone and estrogen was a lot money so stopped, I had weight gain. I did lose 40 pounds recently hoping to keep it off, I crave sugar it’s a battle for me. Thank you for talking about menopause! I really enjoyed this video!

[@joanacker917]

Hi Holly I have a friend dealing with spine issues. She’s already had one fusion. I wouldn’t wish that pain on my worst enemy. I hope you feel better.❤️

[@normatrewhella9003]

I feel bad for you. I’m going through that right now. I pray you get some help

[@hollyj2925]

@@joanacker917 thank you.

[@hollyj2925]

@@normatrewhella9003 it’s awful isn’t it, I’ve always been an active person and bam my health issues started out of nowhere,

[@hollyj2925]

@@normatrewhella9003 praying for you as well 🥰

[@owen4248]

Tessie, I feel for you I don't have those type of flashing though I do have night sweats at time staying positive is key to get through most anything that comes I have those days that I don't feel like doing anything today was one of those days it can be hard but I get through the day coming to your channel at the end of the day helps me greatly and your right it can affect everyone in the family if your not feeling well nice gifts those jars are nice :-) Love you my sister :-) God Bless You and Ken :-)

[@joanacker917]

Also for menopause two natural things that will help you are: wild yam cream that contains natural progesterone and vitamin B 1.

[@melindareyes7128]

I slowly started at the age of 38 and went flew blown as soon as I hit 40. It has been a roller coaster. Worse was dealing with chronic fatigue, bad hot flashes and panic/ anxiety attacks. Someone mentioned that flaxseed helps in menopausal symptoms'. I tried it and haven't stopped taking it. The flaxseed has helped tremendously with the fatigue and hot flashes. I am six years into this unpleasant journey. I too try to do everything as natural as possible. I am still trying to work on the anxiety which is not as bad as it was. Thank God. You mention that we are your therapy, I have to say that watching your videos has been my therapeutic healing journey . You may not know it , but I believe you are a blessing to us. God bless you and your beautiful family. Thank you so much for making this video on this topic.

[@rebeccazody1278]

Love the song. Great topic and outlook

[@owen4248]

Good Evening Tessie, Sisters, Brothers, and Friends, Be sure to hit that like button Tessie will appreciate it Greatly also be sure to watch all the ads :-)

[@owen4248]

@@MichaelR58 Good evening Michael 58, Stay safe and healthy my friend :-) YAH Bless !

[@pr9764]

Good Evening Owen 🙂

[@juliewebber2749]

Good evening Owen

[@owen4248]

@@juliewebber2749 Good evening Julie Webber :-)

[@SherrylJones-bz5wv]

Did it first bc I know the video will be very satisfying!!

[@peggyaustin5238]

I never knew I went thru menopause. I never had one hot flash. My doctor did a blood work and said I was done with menopause.

[@Pausereflectandbreathe]

Thank you Tessie for sharing your wisdom! I am dealing with menopause, mood swings and just tired. I feel guilty for relaxing because there’s a lot of things to do but my body just want to rest and watch youtube videos that gives me joy. What I noticed is that there are times of the day that I have the energy to do things and times that I just want to enjoy resting. I also want to learn so many things and youtube videos helped me to learn new things like cooking good food for my family so we can eat healthy and save money at the same time. I also garden and want to learn from other gardeners in youtube. Now I am declutterring, donating, organizing and also want to practice more sewing projects. Mindset is very important. I need to change my mindset to be grateful for what I have and kind to myself and to others. Nice video Tessie! God bless you! ❤️🙏

[@JerzeyGypzy]

loved the song ty for singing that today

[@owen4248]

Who Loves Tessie Time :-)

[@carolynlee8948]

Of course. ❤

[@pr9764]

ALWAYS ❤

[@laurakuehlke1320]

🙋🏻‍♀

[@SherrylJones-bz5wv]

I do, I do, do!!! 🙏💞🙏

[@juliewebber2749]

I do

[@smc7929]

You are so correct. We need to allow ourselves to rest without guilt.

[@kathyhullinger1585]

So much wisdom again spoken here. As a cancer patient I have been living with the great advice you have shared. We have to find joy each and every day. Thank You

[@pr9764]

Hello Kathy,🙂 It's Great To See You Here! Yes Indeed, We Have To Find The JOY in Each Day -- And We Usually Don't Have To Look Far Do We! Praying For You, Andrea

[@renehemmy6330]

We sang that song at church Sunday. Surely a good reminder to us all to remember we are blessed.

[@kathysnavely1802]

I too am an orphan. I miss my mom, dad, and my sisters so much. I would love to talk to them. Thankfully I will see them heaven. I do however have my husband and my best friend. 43 years on Wednesday. I am truly blessed!

[@tamervin]

Going through surgical menopause is ridiculous. Total hysterectomy in 2009, I think I am through the worst of it. It was so severe at times. I wish you a better time than I had.

[@lindawamsley5227]

Thank you Tessie for reminding me to count my blessings! I sure need that while I'm suffering from plantar fascitis and bronchitis, because things could be worse! Lucky for me I went through "m" like your mom did almost 18 years ago! I was just talking to my daughter about this earlier today and how I never get hot flashes after all these years!❤

[@dianebinns9905]

I am so glad mine is over. I remember the hot flashes. They were so bad. I thought jumping in the shower would help. It was a nightmare. I thought my skin would burn off my body. Or have 5 quilts on me and still be shaking feeling cold. That lasted over 8 years. Now 60 and a free woman to a point. Still can't close eyes standing. (Want to drop) Kidneys over working. And diabetes and arthritis. But I am really happy. With my hubby and my dog Pumpkin. Also, son, but he lives 18 hours away. Life is good! Well, Tessie, I hope you still feel good. We are all going to get this done! Love ya ❤

[@thevanhyfte]

Beautiful singing voice. I haven't heard count your blessings in several yrs

[@tkcompton2]

When I went through menopause, I didn't have hardly any symptoms. I had small hotflashes for a short period of time but that ended. But they were still doozies! I wanted to be natural and not take any medication as i feel is is a natural transition for women. That is my own personal opinion for me. I do have vertigo but I don't think it was associated with menopause but my vertigo is so bad that I can't stand and I feel like I am going to fall and I am down for a couple of days from it. But I am good now.

[@kathylaferney5740]

I am almost70. I had a partial hysterectomy and went through all the typical symptoms of menopause. The hot flashes werethe worse! God made us all different and we all have different experiences. Ithoughti was over all this menopause but all my symptoms have RETURNED! I have learned we can have menopause symptoms in our 70,s and even longer. I too try to appreciate the health i do have and i count my blessings. You inspire me to be as grateful as you are and find happinessin the small things in life as well as the great blessings God gives us.

[@mrobinson1013HHA]

Bless you Tessie! I appreciate you and don’t feel so alone! I have been going through menopause sine since I was 30 due to cancer and I am now 51! Menopause is a roller coaster

[@virginiamaciuleviciene606]

Hi Tessie!

[@tammyasbury8392]

Yes it’s ok to relax. Life is to be enjoyed! It’s a blessing.

[@ashtonstout7375]

I’m so glad you decided to continue sharing your gifts! I absolutely love seeing you open them.

[@dianehall5345]

Good evening Tessie- When I was young, I was Tom boy. A little female Dennis the menace. There were no lumps in my oatmeal. Then my mother told me the facts of life and I was indignant! I did not want to change. Seems we ladies have to deal with ever changing events in regards to our bodies. Menopause was a relief in spite of all the ups & down. Now I feel that steady continuity I had at 10. It allows me to be more grounded and devote myself to my art. I just feel more grounded in general. Sorry you are currently on a bit of a roller coaster. It should pass, along with the fog and mood swings. Hang in there ~ Diane

[@kesmarn]

Tessie, many prayers for you as you deal with "The Big M."! I think you're right in saying that each woman has her own experience with this transition. It has always struck me that most of us are pretty understanding with girls in that (roughly) 10 to 13 year old age group who are starting their periods. We know that there's going to be moodiness, pain, a learning curve, etc., etc. as they go through a pretty big change in their bodies and their lives. Menopause, naturally, is kind of like going through the whole process in reverse. A totally natural biological "thing." And yet sometimes we can be kind of hard on ourselves (and some of us (not you!) on others!) My prayer is that you can just give yourself permission to rest in bed in the morning after you've had one of those 10-hot-flash nights! The 11th Commandment (last time I checked) is not "Thou Shalt Not Rest." Nor is is followed by "Thou Shalt Not Stop Smiling." I always worry a bit when I see (well meaning, I'm sure) comments that say "The best thing about videos where you open gifts is that you smile all the way through them." I completely understand why youngsters want the adults around them to smile constantly. It makes them feel that the grownups are in a good mood and they're "safe." But as kids get older, they (fingers crossed) should start to notice when dad or mom are having a rough time and cut him or her a little slack! So sorry if this sounds kind of "babble-ish"! I guess what I'm trying to say is that you have the right to feel the way you feel -- which (on some days) -- can be pretty crummy! And you really shouldn't have to fake feeling jolly if for anyone! 😀

[@bonniethiessen5506]

I lost my mom when i was 6 years old. I was raised by my grandmother. I didn't know about menopause until 7th grade in Home EC. I figerd out my menstrual cycles out and kept track of things through watching my aunt. I figured out when she went through menopause. I did have a hysterectomy, but when i went through my menopause, I had hot flashes, mood swings and I demanded my doctor do something. I got much needed help and even though I still have hot flashes I am okay. Thank you for sharing your experiences. ❤❤

[@trudymaenza9672]

I had more problems during Perimenopause which lasted at least ten years, Menopause lasted only a couple of years, but I didn't go through any depression, no grumpy, my mental acuity didn't change, just mostly had hot flashes during Perimenopause and regular Menopause! But I did get cold easy and more arthritis

[@jacquelinepaige-hammond3548]

I am 75. I remember those days. It is not easy. Hang in there TESSIE ❤

[@beckyshook3526]

I remember talking to my grandma when she was sixty eight I said how are you doing grandma? She said well I can't clean the closets like I use to me being Young said don't worry no one looks in the closets anyway....now that I am that age I know now exactly what she means I think until you experience something you don't fully understand you can be compassionate and feel like you understand something but that is life and it's experiences. I have fibromyalgia people I knew had it had pain and such I would try to do my best to understand but boy when I got it I had lots more understanding of it. I figure we all have something and yes counting our blessings for sure. I got hot flashes then they left and then came back but now it is like an alarm clock six am one hot flash I never had them as bad as others or I think I was just so happy to have those painful periods end that I didn't mind as much anything else. So now it is my turn to not be able to clean the closets as well.

[@pr9764]

Well Said Becky -- Until We Experience Something We Can Never Fully Understand 😊. Blessings, Andrea

[@sunnyday4589]

What a heartfelt video!! Lov d it! The only thing I’ll tell you is that I’ve been done with menopause for 20 years but ever once in awhile a hot flash will hit me out of the blue and I’m like “Where’d that come from?” The amazing thing is they never hit me when I’m cold 🙄. Thank you for sharing 💕

[@coffeecupconversations]

Menopause steals my joy! No mom or grandma, and no two people suffer through it the same. Mine was horrible for 7 years! I had the dizziness for years. Now I can't lose weight and have crappy digestion. It is depressing. Do more of these videos please!!!

[@johnettehaines6291]

I also made up your honey Mustard recipe a few days ago. I used some of it for our family Sunday dinner this evening and they loved it, even my 23 month old Grand-daughter.

[@ashtonstout7375]

Thank you for sharing your experience with menopause, Tessie. My wife is in the early stages and I feel for her.

[@FrugalForty]

Thank you for the encouragement. I started peri menopause in my late 30s. Was definitely a shock when I finally figured out what was wrong. You’re right, gotta count our blessings and check our perspective. I wish you all good health!!!

[@inkheart1954]

Amen Tessie count your blessings 😊

[@glendaverheul9821]

Tessie thank you for sharing your journey in life❤I to am alone I just lost my last elder my aunt last January 😢 but I strive to still find joy in my life❤ thank you I so enjoy your videos❤

[@daniellecarney1487]

I went into menopause at 42, directly after having my second child. At 57, I’m still in it, and the symptoms DO change, become more manageable, etc; I, like most others, have also had health issues over the years, and two of them have been really bad. By comparison, I can say that menopause is a breeze. I can also say, “Thank God I’m not going through that illness anymore!”. “ Count Your Blessings/See What God Has Done.” Thank you for the reminder, Tessie!!!

[@ElizabethFinn-kt7ye]

Thank you Tess!🌈🌸🦄🦋👵

[@deedeetravels969]

We also have to be mindful of stress. There's "good" stress and there's bad stress. Ridding ourselves of negativity is wonderful for the mind body and soul. I am healing from major dental surgery. I had a lot of vertigo or dizzy lightheaded spells. So far after surgery, I haven't experienced any. Yay! not sure why but I'll take it. Great video Tessie ❤❤❤

[@joannemathews8394]

Thank you for sharing your gifts! You are a very special woman.we may not have all of our family anymore but! We still have our children. And can make our own memories with them for them to carry on. I know how you have shared your family with me and many others and your children seem to be as lovely as you. So keep on making memories! Love you Tessie.you have taught me so much ❤

[@jillcaldwell4519]

It's always a joy to watch your videos. Menopause is trying to steal my joy. I'm not going to let it. Thank you Tessie

[@karenwills-hj3nk]

what a blessing ps i liked the longer video .

[@malindagosnell6533]

I am 55 and have been having hot flashes for 16 years. I have learned to deal with them. Dr. said it will never go away if it's still happening. So, yes count your blessings that it will be mild and quick.

[@normatrewhella9003]

Can’t even remember menopause. I’m 83. Now the arthritis and pain part of my life, plus living alone. My daughter sent me a journal and it’s going to be a grateful journal. There are always things to be grateful for.

[@pr9764]

You Are SO RIght-- There Are Always Things To Be Grateful For Norma🙂 That Was Very Kind Of Your Daughter To Give You That Journal! I'm Sure That You Will Be Able To Fill It With Ease. Blessings, Andrea

[@kathysnavely1802]

God Bless you sister!

[@normatrewhella9003]

@@pr9764 thank you, Andrea.

[@normatrewhella9003]

@@kathysnavely1802 thank you

[@kimberlylholt]

Menopause for me was not bad. Thank GOD.

[@kebbasda]

Love your stores and this topic is a good one too. It’s a journey we’re all on as for me I also have no idea. Mother had everything removed at 35. I’m 49 and still having regular periods… Good give us all strength 🥰

[@carolynb2457]

Great gifts Vernie-so sweet of you

[@foreverflowers7753]

My mother had a hard time with Menopause. I have been lucky. I do have brain fog and I do have times for hot flashes. but not bad! Thank you for this video. I appreciate someone speaking so honestly about something that was TaBOO for so long.

[@juliewebber2749]

What cute little jars , they looked like they were little heart shaped ones. Us girls do go through a lot. I guess it makes us stronger. Have a great evening everyone.

[@nitamay3534]

I've went through menopause I don't have hot flashes at night anymore but when I was I'd have a fan on and a spray bottle at hand, I don't take any hormone medicine either. My husband and I have almost been married 40 years no kids ,his parents have passed I was very close to my in laws, I never knew my biological father, my mother passed years ago,your not the only one without parents and grandparents but we'll see them again someday, I don't let not having them here on earth dictate my happiness I have my church family and other friends.

[@smilyblue5605]

Your video with you and Hubbie,remind me of the saying( two peas in a pod!)😅 this video is so wounderful ,perhaps those watching might be a little more understanding of what it can look like and how some would be , able to help the ladie's in thier lives.,(men as well)during thier midlife- crises."Human nature",love us all!❤

[@Rainstorm1301]

Loved seeing your hubby in the last video! Looked like you both had a good time!

[@carlagorman3631]

I'm blessed I went into Menopause early and I've had no symptoms that I've noticed.

[@normasawyer3870]

I can identify with you on this Tessie I go through a lot of the symptoms bad feelings hot flashes cold sweats dizziness nausea but I try not to let it steal my joy and I’m also in a lot of pain daily from my arthritis but I keep pushing on I really enjoyed this video you gave me a lot to think about today thank you blessings Tessie ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@lisahartz9334]

I had the same thing, tons of flashes, went away and sadly came back!!!! Would just love to sleep through the night without covers on covers off

[@kathleenglumpe8554]

Blessings to you , Tessi

[@LovesJESUS]

I am 71 and still get hot flashes. Not as bad as when I was younger but like clockwork between 6:30 and 7:00 pm every night I need strip off my housecoat. HOT HOT HOT 😂 I had partial hysterectomy at 35 but I still have my ovaries. I also have vertigo, once you it, it comes and goes all the time. If you have Jesus you can keep your joy in spite of your trials. Amen count your blessings!

[@pr9764]

Brilliant Video Tessie 🙂 Personal Experience Has Taught Me That Going Through Menopause Can Be Hideous! However, If We Only Had A Year To Live, I Am Certain That Those Symptoms Wouldn't Seem Any Worse Than A Cold! It's All About Perspective Isn't It. COUNTING MY BLESSINGS Is Exactly What I Am Doing.😊 GOD Bless, Andrea

[@mamadoom9724]

My mom and grandma didn’t notice anything different during menopause either. I didn’t get so lucky. I get hot flashes and I honestly think menopause is giving me my mood swings so I feel bad for my poor family. I’m looking forward to being through it and not having to deal with periods anymore. My mom and grandma both stopped getting periods at age 43 and I’m 43 now so I think it’s right around the corner for me. Here’s what I do to prevent idleness on those days that I wake up tired and lazy. I spend some time writing recipes on recipe cards. Then I laminate them and put them in my recipe box. I wish you the best tessie. You are so sweet and down to earth and your channel makes a positive difference in my life.