Hometown diaries ☁️ doing things that make me happy: crocheting, F1, music and seeing friends

[@ytmanagerhasan]

Your weekend sounds delightful, filled with activities that bring you happiness. Wishing you continued moments of self-love and a fantastic week ahead! 💖

[@patidzwigon_]

Thank you 🥺 Have a great week!

[@ytmanagerhasan]

Thank you too❤️

[@vkoivula]

It's OK to sleep and be in the bed. But I know it's annoying to get up super late. I just try to think I needed that and also my cats like sleeping. Except if they are hungry and need me to wake up.

[@patidzwigon_]

It is okay to be in bed and rest whenever you need it! I know the difference of resting and being in bed simply because I’m avoiding doing something else or I’m afraid to fully feel how I am and I’m just distracting myself. I love to stay in bed whenever I need to rest. Sometimes I just need a little booster to get on the right tracks again 🫶🏻 Thank you for sharing!

[@vkoivula]

@@patidzwigon_ I have ADHD/ASD and I think I know a little bit what you mean. Personally for me it is not always easy to make this distinction. For example technically I would probably almost always have energy in my system to go out from my house or for example to study. But then having the mental capacity, mental energy and realistic possibility to get my brain into that state is a little bit different thing. Also as you well know all this is part of the procrastination loop. I mean both what I say and "guilt tripping" about being lazy. So then I try to evaluate what I am able to do on longer time scale and try to not care too much if I just cuddle with my cats for one whole day. Because I actually might need it in order to be able to do constantly on longer time-scale. But at the same time I still agree what you say, because one part of me is thinking that. But in the end on the long term I have actually done quite much stuff, probably even more than average neurotypical. At least if evaluated in terms learning different things that I am actually interested in. Even thought I feel still it is maybe 5% of what I could do lol without buggy brain :D Currently I am studying radio amateur stuff and it is very hard for me to force going through materials. By no means take this as definite advice or suggestion to think like this. This video was just suggested me very randomly by KZbin algo and I thought to write you, since I have similar thoughts and struggle with procrastination guilt tripping. I don't know you at all, but some ADHD/ASD procrastinators can be then very effective when they can concentrate on stuff. If you look for example some non-neurotypical people who have achieved great things.. many of them still suffer from impostor syndrome etc. even to the point of ending their lives. So I am not sure that, even if one was able to configure brain into being super-effective and achieve all stuff, it would make non-neurotypical person happy or feeling accomplished for certainly. At least I would not put my money on it, so it is not do-or-die for me. Also sorry English is not my native language and I didn't check too well for typos or grammar as my siamese cat is super demanding atm :D :D

[@patidzwigon_]

@@vkoivula Thank you so much for taking your time and writing such a long response 🤍 Procrastinating is something I’ve fought with my whole life honestly. I’m a lot better with it now though. Give your cats some love form me! 🥺

[@vkoivula]

@@patidzwigon_ I will. Happy to hear you are improving!

[@sourcandy0325]

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[@patidzwigon_]

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