HONEST Q&A | How we met, what did our parents think, how to convince asian parents of moving abroad?

[@jessandseb1040]

Hope this is interesting for you 😁 Let us know if you have any other questions or any suggestions on topics we should address in our next videos 💜 Thanks for tuning in!!!

[@EricSchaffner]

Really like the video and content--thanks for sharing. As a North American (of German descent), married to an Asian lady, I can appreciate the cultural differences and interests. Perhaps it's just me, but I welcome candid opinions and perspectives. Germany and Singapore are two of my favorite countries to visit for many reasons. You're an adorable couple... best of luck!

[@mayaangelou3791]

💕beautiful couple 💕 thank you for such a lovely video!

[@jessandseb1040]

Thank you!! ☺️

[@berndgaal7689]

You are the perfect couple!!!!

[@jessandseb1040]

Awww thank you!!

[@TGP75]

A topic close to heart, thanks for sharing!

[@jessandseb1040]

Thanks!

[@robertzander9723]

Servus guy's and good evening. You both are so sweet and adorable together. That was a wonderful video, very interesting to listen to. You guys have a very interesting story to tell. I'm looking forward to hear more. Thanks for doing this.👏👍

[@jessandseb1040]

Thanks! :)

[@berndgaal7689]

Glückwunsch Sebastian!! Eine sooo hübsche, liebe, intelligente Frau findet man nicht alle Tage!!!! Ich finde, Ihr passt wunderbar zusammen!!!!!

[@jessandseb1040]

Herzlichen Dank! Ich bin auch mehr als glücklich, Jess gefunden zu haben.🥰

[@r.k.3013]

I've been waiting for this for a long time. :) Overall, it was very interesting. Da habe ich schon länger drauf gewartet. War wirklich sehr interessant. Eine Frage die mir für´s Q&A spontan noch einfällt. Für uns Europäer sieht Jess definitiv sehr hübsch aus. Frage dazu: Entspricht sie dem Schönheitsideal von Singapur oder wie sieht dieses normalerweise aus?

[@jessandseb1040]

Danke! Ich kann die Frage jetzt nicht allgemeingültig beantworten. Jess wurde/ wird des öfteren angesprochen und gefragt ob sie Model sei. Das liegt m.M.n. an ihrer Figur und Größe. Aber da Singapore so viele Kulturen und Nationalitäten beheimatet ist es schwer zu sagen "das ist das eine wahre Schönheitsideal in Singapur" 🤷‍♂️

[@someutubeusername]

You are a great couple 🙂 Keep respecting each other

[@jessandseb1040]

Thank you!!! :)

[@MetalBere]

Super cute video

[@jessandseb1040]

Thank you 🤗

[@Kosty19]

To admit faults and apologize for them so You can get over it and start fresh and new is not only part of german culture but probably also rooted in the christian culture in europe where its about confessing sins and getting forgiveness by God. So even if most germans are not very religious any more today, that concept of admitting mistakes is still part of the culture, also in school and work, so mistakes can be corrected and won't cause bigger problems in the long run. Here in germany we also have no cultural concept of "loosing face" like in asia.

[@torbenjohansen6955]

sorry ruted in the christian culture. Like the churtch admitting they have done something wrong!!!!!!!!!!!!! Honestly i think its a "new" thing in europe and its only a few hundred years old.

[@jessandseb1040]

Interesting view! I don't know, but I guess confessing was part of our ancestors lives. Also being responsible for two world wars, I guess we have learned to be sorry ;) but ultimately it took me personally some time to grow and admit to mistakes...

[@nic6208]

Maybe I missed this information but what do you both do for a profession and do you both work at the same company ? Thank you

[@jessandseb1040]

Thank you for your question! No I don't we've shared this Information. But we are both working in the (extended) Insurance industry, although for different companies.

[@berndgaal7689]

Wondering how she could a visa without getting married!! By the way she can show her feelings in a such beautiful way!!!

[@jessandseb1040]

The good thing is Germany has many kinds of visas, such as the work visa. Which Jess currently holds, it's not permanent, but usually gets "re-approved" as long as you still have your job and Made no trouble with the authorities :)

[@wora1111]

Parent's reaction to foreign partner: I am a (German) father of two girls about your age. My wife never liked the idea of them having a foreign partner. The reason is simple: She did not want them to live on the other side of the world once they settled. Current situation: Mission accomplished. One boyfriend is Austrian, the other of Italian descent, both living and working in Germany. So it is not the other side of the world :-)

[@jessandseb1040]

Haha thanks for sharing! :) I guess that is every parents fear! I'm glad Jess' Parents have accepted her choice :)

[@uliwehner]

@@jessandseb1040 i guess we did that differently then. i moved to the US and my wife is american, my sister moved to Switzerland, and her husband is Portuguese. it is more difficult especially now with covid, i can't see my parents easily, or my now 100-year-old grandmother. still moving abroad is a unique opportunity in so many ways. where you move is probably not even that important. I always thought i'd move to spain or italy, instead i moved to Atlanta :)

[@berndgaal7689]

are you married yet???

[@dellamonte387]

Singapur frau hahahahaha. Good luck to you mate. You should know what i mean hahahahaha. Ask singapore men why they have 2nd gf or mistress in vietnam, thailand, malaysia amd Indonesia. Good luck to you man hahahahaha