HONEST TRUTH ABOUT VAN LIFE: Sometimes It Sucks

[@OverlandingSophia]

Wow 🥺🥺 I really, really didn't want to upload this video. It felt vulnerable and icky. Ben gently persuaded me to. Because I was rambling a bit, essentially I felt that everything - life, work and travel - got a bit much and in a van there's nowhere to escape it. A friend said 'sometimes you just want to get off the ride' and that's THE best way to describe it. To say I've been overwhelmed by the love and support in the last 48 hours is an understatement. I thought maybe a few people would get it but I didn't expect almost every single comment to be full of compassion, understanding, depth and kindness. After 4 years I still try and reply to every comment and by now, many of you feel like genuine, online friends. This just cemented that feeling and as gushy as it sounds I really feel wrapped in love, there's no other way to say it. Reading these comments has been a bit of a reality check to get out my own head and not worry so much. Thank you to everyone who has taken the time to write a comment, I will get back to all of you even if it takes me a while 🥲Now let's get back to business shall we?! xx

[@carolyncarson1671]

🥰💞💕♥ one for each of you in your little land yacht :)

[@WildCosy]

Honestly I would get burnt out so much more easily and quicker than you so don't be worrying about getting burnt out, overwhelmed and home sick. I think there aren't that many people that could really do what you do for such a long stretch. It all looks great from the outside and from the comfort of their homes, I'm sure some people really believe that they would just be loving every second, but the reality is that it takes a lot to do that on a long term basis. Also Ben is right, at least for me, I watch for you guys, I want to see your experiences and feelings on things, I don't care if not much happens in a video, I just love you both. I just travelled to Scotland for a week, then back home for one day and then to Amsterdam for three days with work colleagues that I've never met before and while I had tonnes of fun, I'm super burnt out from just that, so I feel for you and I hope you have loads more awesome experiences in the future! Also I really feel you on missing out on the food Chesca, that would be my main priority 😂

[@deborahcurtis1385]

When I was backpacking I'd sometimes get overwhelmed, and simply check into a hotel for a few days. This meant I was able to unwind, have a bath, wash my hair and generally reset the internal mechnanism. This might not be as easy in terms of van security, but something to consider anyway.

[@privatename8228]

You may feel worried that we are bored but I need to say that I am sitting here in Nova Scotia Canada feeling completely privileged to be "driving" the beautiful back streets of small town Mexico solely because you have invested all your time, energy, money to show me these sights!! That is a gift! No boredom here...just excitement and appreciation! Thank you!

[@suewellings4500]

I would ditto that comment as a fellow Nova Scotian

[@JB-kd5uv]

Same here - as an Ontario friend.

[@christine4670]

Yup! Well, said!(Also from Nova Scotia lol)

[@sprinterviews]

same from Lake Placid 🤙🏼

[@wallytimmins356]

@@christine4670 Same from Manitoba. Never bored you guys. Just have fun and don't worry about us.

[@TREADtheglobe]

This is why we love you ... honesty, love and courage - you four are adorable, and YOU should be proud of stepping up on the adventure highway everyday, working behind the scenes, in front of the camera and everything in between - you are fearless fecking explorers living YOUR dream and sharing that IS enough, love, hugs and dog snogs to you xx 😘 Marianne and Chris xx

[@OverlandingSophia]

FFE's!! Love you guys to the moon and back a million times. Thank you for the chats and the laughs and everything in-between. We love you xxx ❤️ xxx

[@cathygillies7271]

Being an older retired lady who has never tried van life, I thank you for providing so many beautiful adventures for me to enjoy. Even the 'boring' days are interesting to me! Take a good rest in a quiet spot to re-charge and you'll feel right as rain. Sending you hugs from Nova Scotia. Hope you get back here to visit us again!

[@TKPAWARRIOR]

Always remember it's not the trip it's the journey! The two of you share one beating heart which will always overcome anything and complete your life's journey wherever that may take you together.

[@OverlandingSophia]

Thank you 🥹❤️

[@JB-kd5uv]

Thank you for being so real. As much as you think we may be “bored”, I assure you I am so NOT bored. You and Ben are such lovely humans. So many emotions go along with this time of year and with this kind of adventure. We got you and love you - no matter what content you choose to share. Cheers to you both. Xoxo

[@OverlandingSophia]

This is just what I needed to hear. Thank you so much for the kind words and the support, it's much appreciated ❤️ xx

[@malimish]

We stayed a night at rocazul as well. It is a really weird place. The lake is pretty polluted, especially on the edge so going in the water we were told was a bad idea.

[@OverlandingSophia]

Yeah the whole lake is badly polluted. When we were parked up towards the end we saw this neon scum on the shoreline!

[@malimish]

We always say that mexico to the US is what turkey is to Europe. The migration history, the friendly culture, and especially the food. Turkish food has influenced Europe the same way Mexican food has for the US. Germany's doner kebab is our mission-style burrito from California!

[@OverlandingSophia]

Yes!! We are feeling this too. The sights, the sounds, the smells... it's all so familiar but also new. Now I'm craving a kebab 😂

[@marybennett5724]

I have said it before and I'll say it again because I truly mean it.... it is SO refreshing to see authenticity. What you're doing is fun and amazing but also HARD and exhausting. My happy place is the trails in BC and even watching last weeks episode made me feel overwhelmed, let alone being there. I will continue to watch your journey and as a subscriber, I don't want you to feel any pressure to make it "fun". I much prefer your honest take on how it's going. PS go to picnic snacks are peppered salami, cheese and bun or egg salad pitas with pickles. Much love being sent your way.

[@OverlandingSophia]

Thank you Mary, appreciate you so much! Thank you for the endless support and love, not just this week but always ❤️❤️❤️

[@kathleenlovejoy9755]

Great video as always. No matter the content, or how “creative” you feel like it is (or not), we always look forward to and love watching your videos each week! Life isn’t always glamorous, nor does it go smoothly, but sometimes it brings peace to others, knowing we all have similar challenges and feelings as we go through life. Thank you for sharing all your “ups,” as well as the “downs.” Take whatever downtime you need for yourselves

[@OverlandingSophia]

Thank you Kathleen, means a lot to hear that and I’m relieved to hear the downs are appreciated as much as the ups. Sending so much love, thank you for being on this journey with us ❤️ xx

[@carolyncarson1671]

Thanks for keeping it real. As Ben said, we do watch for you both - all your ups and downs, hits and misses, joys and challenges. Super enjoyed your journeys this vlog, decidedly more frustrating for you than for the viewers, though we feel for you! The views of the lake with the boats and the horse were beautiful. Good to see where all the expats hangout too. It is completely evident that you two give it your all. I loved Ben's descriptive visual demonstration of the traffic weaving in and out and always love his little dance moves ;) Siempre pa' lante

[@OverlandingSophia]

Thanks so much Carolyn, 'more frustrating for you than for the viewers' is something I think I need to remember! Haha I just need to capture his singing on camera now 😂 xx

[@carolyncarson1671]

@@OverlandingSophia can't wait!!! 🙂

[@martinhall5263]

Thank you for being so honest and open. I am a firm believer in showing all aspects of travel, the routine, the challenges and of course the enjoyment. People use u tube videos to plan their own travels and if all they see is beaches, smiles and awesome parkups they are not witnessing the reality. You both make excellent, informative videos and I for one look forward to the weekend when I can track your experience and progress (and learn from what you both have encountered ). Excellent work guys and big thanks.

[@OverlandingSophia]

Thanks Martin, appreciate this a lot ❤️🥹

[@GilbertManse]

We were only saying last week, "they never show the parts of vanlife that test your patience!". So, don't stress about adding the shitty times too! all of us who've done any length of time away living in a van know how frustrating it can be at times.. big van, small roads, where can we park, disturbed night's sleep, water, solar, gas etc.. BUT you continue to bring us honest and entertaining videos each week which we really enjoy watching (we've stayed watching you from the start so you must be doing something right!?). So give yourselves a break and don't feel bad if you are homesick sometimes! take care and love to you both.

[@annemackle3625]

Before you said how you were feeling I was thinking how brave you both were. Travelling through different countries not knowing what to expect from one minute to another as well as different customs and language. It must be overwhelming at times. And no matter how much you and Ben love each other being with someone in a small van with no other rooms to chill out in and no one else to talk to must be difficult and frustrating. Your video was just as good as any and we do watch for you and how your day goes ,good and bad. So keep on keeping on and take more time to yourself. We'll still be here watching and admiring your strength. X

[@notseamus]

Oh guys. My heart goes out to you. It’s tough sometimes, we’ve only been going 6 months but already recognise some of the more challenging aspects of this life, that you mention. Anyway, this video was far from boring. I don’t think you could make a boring video even if you wanted to. What you’re doing is far too amazing and truly inspirational for that to be the case. Stay strong, and ride that rollercoaster for all its worth. Safe in the knowledge that the community you’ve created on your channel, is with you all the way 💪

[@OverlandingSophia]

This means everything, thank you so much for the love, support and encouragement. Means more than I can say 🥹❤️ Xx

[@orchidhouse297]

I understand the homesick bit, and the constant stress of where the next water, fuel, food will be found. What you need is three or more days in a hotel. The space, the food cooked for you and no washing up, a glass of wine with every meal is as good as a rest. Experiencing different cultures is exhausting, mentally as well as physically; all the new sound, sights, smell, architecture, costume styles, etiquette. Having travelled in many countries for twenty years, it was nice to travel in Europe for a rest. Love your all content.

[@vanlifetipstech]

We know probably more than most the emotions you guys are feeling. We were trapped in Baja when the pandemic hit, so when we went to the main land and started interacting with bigger town and cities or was just crazy. And then a month later, our one month old engine replacement failed and we were stuck by ourselves as all our friends set off. It was super tough. You will always find ways to get through those times, because there are so many wonderful experiences and people to meet on this kind of trip. We were so excited about chilling out after we arrived in Chile, but now we have a major clutch/gearbox problem. We had really hoped that we'd be able to enjoy Christmas this year, last December our Mexican resuce cat Lizzy disappeared and we never found her. But now we're both worried we're going to be stuck in a garage at a Christmas, waiting for parts 😭 This trip really teaches you how resilient you can be, so hang in there, more good times are coming ❤️

[@bonniea.haritonma8395]

We love traveling with you on your adventures, and we will stay by your side so to speak for the low points as well as the highs. Part of what is so good to see is your gentle, humorous, and loving relationship with each other no matter what happens. I try to be a better partner with you two as models! Also…bought hummus today and brought out the Meyer lemon olive oil. Great combo! 😊

[@kathybelanger2092]

Thank you for sharing your true authentic selves with us. Your videos are incredible, and I love everyone one of them including when you share the low parts. Sometimes a little rain must fall in order for us to see the most amazing rainbows. Take all the time you need to recharge your batteries, we will be patiently waiting. No pressure, but oh so much love to you both.

[@OverlandingSophia]

Thank you Kathy, sending so much love to you. Appreciate the message and the kind words more than I can say ❤️ xxx

[@MoonRiverTravels]

Aww, bless you Ches, Ben's right, we do watch to see you guys, to feel connected, and to show our support for you guys and what you're doing. Thank you, for sharing the hard as well as the good, it's important to remember the reality of life as it is, not what soc. media likes to pretend. As a famous fictional Canadian would say, 'tomorrow is a fresh start, with no mistakes in it' and sometimes that's all you can do. Know when to stop, reset, and go again. Take care, know we all love you guys, and the videos are ALWAYS incredible! Massive love to you all! xx

[@OverlandingSophia]

Aw I was hoping that quote was from Anne of Green Gables and it was! 🥰 Thank you so much Kit, for your love and support always! Sending bug hugs and so much love xx ❤️

[@pt93music]

This was one of your best videos. The vulnerability you shared was very touching and believe me, we watch for you two. The journey is just a bonus.

[@no_worries_van]

Take a break if you need to! We won’t be mad😊

[@NigelOrmsvik]

Anyone who can rescue two dogs and give them a secure wonderful life are heroes in my book, but with any up in life there's always a down, and you both deserve a break somtime. Keep safe 🤗🤗🐶🐶🇬🇧❤️

[@ianpiggott]

Well, I loved it, 100% as usual. Can’t wait till next week.😊

[@OverlandingSophia]

Thanks so much 🥹

[@NaickKim]

We feel you guys on the hard bits of van life. Sometimes it can be rough, but that is okay too. It is part of it. You'll get back into your groove .

[@alicebrewer8838]

Sending hugs Jess , you & Ben both look as if you need a rest it must be exhausting ❤❤ Always love the content of your videos, no need to worry we are all following your journey whatever that entails . Hugs to River & Scout too ❤❤❤❤

[@OverlandingSophia]

Thanks so much Alice, we do definitely need a rest. Christmas is just around the corner so think that will be the perfect time to unwind. Sending hugs xx ❤️

[@kellequist3195]

Take a deep breath and don’t be so hard on yourself. You two have great content and are “real” human beings. We know it isn’t always perfect and life isn’t always perfect for anyone. Living in a van with no down time and two dogs has to be terribly stressful for anyone. Thanks for your honesty. You are good partners to each other. ❤

[@OverlandingSophia]

Thank you so much, so very true! ❤️ xx

[@pitched_up_wanderers]

Thanks for sharing the highs and lows. You are showing the true realities of living in a van. The genuine feels you get from selecting a place in a map and spending the journey wondering if it will be OK is real. You are then on edge when you get there when you scope it out, checking it is safe, and if you can stay there. We're loving that you're showing what we really experience travelling in a van. Don't worry that it is boring at all, we watch it for the day to day stuff and the touristy bits. In fact, our favourite bit was the gas fill-up in this video. ❤

[@elliemacdonald9857]

❤ Don't ever apologize for being human ❤ the content in all your videos is fantastic. I feel like I'm on the journey to,keep doing what you are doing. BTW, 10-20 cm of snow is forecast for tonight in Nova Scotia, let winter begin.😮 Stay safe ❤

[@OverlandingSophia]

Thank you so much Ellie, appreciate your love and support each week. Eek for the snow! Do you think you'll have a white Christmas?! ❤️ xx

[@karenrobinson2071]

Don't beat yourself up Chesca, we're here for your ups and downs. It is all part of life and although we don't want to see you overwhelmed, we want to see all facets of your journey. Your videos are never boring, we just want to see where you are and what you're both up to. Big hugs xx

[@OverlandingSophia]

Means a lot to hear this, thank you Karen ❤️ xx

[@paulhickson132]

Don’t worry we love your weekly videos, no matter if shopping looking for gas etc or visiting a town, you are both entertaining and we love to see all aspects of van life with you and the dogs. Love to all ❤xx

[@theawfulangler]

There are so many highs to vanlife, but it's important to show the lows too. Whilst you're putting these videos out for us all to enjoy, never lose sight of the fact, THIS IS YOUR TRIP! Enjoy the journey, bask in the culture (when parking allows 🙊) love the highs, and support each other through the lows. Whatever/whenever you decide to post, we all appreciate the effort ❤

[@billmarshall8152]

I love you guys. Seen every single video and can't wait each week for the next one. Boring?...Not on your life. Such an adventure. I feel like I'm right there with you. You are such a nice couple.

[@OverlandingSophia]

This means everything, thank you so much 🥹🧡 xx

[@ClewleysOnTour]

You’re right to show the real side of vanlife. Some channels are all rainbows and sunshine… but we don’t watch those. Keep at it. It’s ok to get van fever. Sometimes we just park up to ‘chill’. Stay safe folks.

[@packingourtrunks]

HI guys. Well, what can we say!? We have been following you two for so long now, we are absolutely emotionally invested in your journey. You were part of our inspiration when we were building up to going full time in our van and we love our weekly half hour with Chesca & Ben (and River & Scout) as we sit in our van, watching you in yours! We're so pleased that you shared this video in its entirety because it shows that, yes, fulltime travel in a van is like living the ultimate dream, but some days it is massively overwhelming. So, thank you as ever and please feel our happy vibes from afar as we wish you safe and happy travels. Nicky & Kevin x

[@miacollins1570]

Australian viewer here, you are the best KZbinrs. Your boring is new to me. Post what you want, when you want don't feel pressure from the algorithms! Love Mx

[@OverlandingSophia]

Sending love Mia, thank you so much for this ❤️ xx

[@markp7745]

Your vlogs are never boring. Never think they are. Your journey is amazing and it's bound to have its 'not so good times'. We have a van ourselves and although we only travel for holidays we often have a day when things get a bit much, especially on a longer trip and the weather is pants. Stay positive and keep up the great adventure. Yes, take a week out without posting a new video, we'll still be here when you're back. ❤

[@182britania]

Its the reality that you bring that makes it special and endearing, thats what brings us altogether on a Sunday night,just watching BEN sweating driving on those roads made my weekend 😂😂, take care all of you ❤

[@finlay25]

Hello there Please don't stress on your content as we just love seeing what you are up to and how you are feeling. I have followed you both for ages and love tuning in every time. Keep happy xx

[@lindataylor6093]

Chesca (and Ben) your vlogs are never boring. Keeping it real is good. I felt your sadness, trust me, you know I know 😢! You don't stop, I couldn't do it! As you travel down you are hitting every senses and its overload, as you say. Yes agree. Time out is needed, somehow. You are both doing an amazing job and love you for what you do for us. Take care. You smash it every single week ❤

[@dianoroveri8089]

Love the picture of cuddling the dogs. With Scout looking on suspiciously!

[@mrcorey]

Thank you for sharing. I don't think that I'll ever be able to do what you two do and its so awesome to vicariously travel with you and experience what you share every week. I look forward to every single video you produce and you never let me down. If you ever stop, I think I'll eventually understand. But, I want to thank you for sharing your life and your dogs with us. You never disappoint. Ever.

[@OverlandingSophia]

This means so much to us, thank you so much 🥹 ❤️ xx (no plans to stop anytime soon, despite the tears in the vid! )

[@sharonaddison809]

Oh Ches, It's normal for life to not always go the way you want it. Take some time off from uploading these videos - we can miss a week or two. I LOVE your travels, and always look forward to Sundays, knowing I'll see your lovely adventures but your health and mental wellbeing is far more important. Like Ben says, you need to take more rests, we will always be here for you even if we don't see you every week. And anything you post is interesting, even if it just filling up with petrol and getting water. Just enjoy these amazing moments you are creating xx

[@bcklmk_irl]

Hey you 4,.... the whole situation of feeling out of place and detached from everything and just not knowing what and where, is an essential part of van-life. I always felt, it is a vital part of it, and when you come out of it on the other side, you learned so much about yourself and grown with it. I found myself several times in that situation, when all the park ups where shit and i simply felt lost. BUT, waking up the next day is always a sense of achievement to being able to managed it. The main reason i like your videos is, that it is honest and also has exactly those moments of park up search and desperation in it. Keep doing what you do!!!!

[@denisecafferky2248]

Awwww Chesca 😢. Don't be so hard on yourself. Your vlogs are never boring. I love seeing the reality, the highs and the lows. Hope you're feeling better x

[@OverlandingSophia]

Thanks Denise, needed to hear this! ❤️ xx

[@crivensro]

I love your authenticity and the immediacy when watching your videos. You take us with you on this travel and I do appreciate this very, very much. Just be.... Big hugs and snowy greetings from Switzerland 🥰

[@HayleyandJake]

Road tripping Mexico isn’t for the faint hearted! You’re doing a difficult thing and sometimes it doesn’t go to plan. We’ve had many days/weeks similar to yours as well. You’ve got this! ☺️❤

[@mikecarroll6261]

Hi Guys, I don't normally comment, but I have been a fan of your content for a while now. To be honest, I think I'd enjoy a full video of just the dogs playing every week. While I love all of the unreal locations you get to, for me it's checking in on my favourite couple and their 2 beautiful dogs this week to see what's going on. It's the day to day stuff that keeps me here. I'm sure you could post a life of beautiful vistas every week and have no struggles, but that would just be BS. While no one likes feeling down, you are keeping it real and honest. Please don't be so hard on yourselves and remember you owe us nothing. Love you guys.

[@OverlandingSophia]

This means so much more than we can say, thank you Mike. Needed to hear this, and appreciate the kind words. Sending love from all of us ❤️ xx

[@jamesjohnson5341]

We watch to see the 4 of you on your wonderful adventures. Some days are diamonds, some days are stone.....we love you....James ❤❤❤❤

[@Kim-c7z8x]

I have been following you guys from the beginning (we are Brits living in Nova Scotia Canada) The reason I enjoy your videos soooooo Much...is be use you are both real!!! Keep on doing what you're doing...See you next week as usual xx

[@KarlGillcrist]

Sending positive energy to both of you!!! We all have days when things pile up on us and we understand your concern about the content but you don't have to wow us every week just keep it" real" we're here for the journey not just the great moments.Take care of yourselves and stay safe...looking forward to whatever comes next Karl from eastern Canada

[@OverlandingSophia]

Really needed to hear this, thank you so much Karl. Sending love ❤️

[@kimbeaney6747]

Never a dull moment eh? Thanks for my Sunday afternoon treat watching my favourite English explorers🌎❤

[@OverlandingSophia]

Love you Kim, thank you so much ❤️ xx

[@patriciapratley6773]

Ben is such a sweetheart. Sometimes we feel overwhelmed. Listen to your body and do take some time out on a regular basis. ❤

[@OverlandingSophia]

He’s a gem ❤️ thank you xx

[@Michael.lesser]

You guys are just so lovely trough good and hard times. Thanks for sharing your journey with us with such transparency ! You guys have all of my/our support and love .

[@OverlandingSophia]

Means so much to hear that, thank you ❤️ xx

[@jimpeters8278]

Please do not aplozise for saying what you said I have followed alot of vanlifes over the last few yrs as i am sure much of your followers have so we have all seen the struggles that they have gone thru .It is part of the life you choose n show on youtube.Your comunitybecuase we love watching the adventures // wil always watch n enjoy whatever you decide to show us .

[@PaulHowcroft]

Thank you guys for brightening up my day here in England where the rain is non stop. Chesca your videos are fantastic you put such a lot of information in them , please keep them coming.

[@dianabellamy1706]

Life is never straightforward, no matter where you are or what you live in. So we know exactly where you’re coming from and hey sometimes we need these sort of days to make changes and get off that treadmill for while. And just for the record, we’ll never be disappointed by any of your videos! 😊

[@sallybiddick]

Sending the biggest hug for you!! Its no wonder you experienced overwhelm. Life is ALOT no matter how you live it. Be gentle with yourselves. As others have said, we are all happily coming along ( feeling honoured to do so) for every aspect of your trip. No cherry picking, not only is it all part of the overall experience its really informative for those of aspiring to do this one day. Off to order my merch now xxx

[@IanB-cd9pe]

What a lovely video and thank you again for such content. Real and gritty through the good times and bad times. The good times are always tat much better after the bad times and life is often a bit of a rollercoaster. As vanlifers ourselves we enjoyed, if that's the right word, of seeing the challenges of getting propane and water in Mexico. Thank you also for your talk about the difficulties and the way that you two work together and balance each other in difficult times. Thank you. Good luck for the next phase of your very exciting journey.

[@annmarielatimer7889]

I appreciate your realistic content. Traveling comes with setbacks and wonderful surprises. Give yourselves some time to breathe and no worries about your followers. I'm here because you two are real and fun.

[@OverlandingSophia]

Appreciate this so much, thank you thank you ❤️ xx

[@ianlowe481]

I imagine just travelling all the time would be exhausting, let alone working and creating content. That is why I am sitting on my sofa watching you two. Take breaks for sure, you have a good following who will still be here when your break is over. 🤗

[@gerrynieves-dwyer4138]

Thank you for sharing your vulnerability. Honestly, I watch the videos for the two of you and the dogs and your interactions . Life is an adventure. There are ups and then there are downs. And it’s never boring! You are both doing an amazing job, which many people would not have the courage to do. I appreciate and thank-you!

[@OverlandingSophia]

Can’t thank you enough for this ❤️🥹 Sometimes we lose sight of things and this just reminds me why do this. Appreciate you a lot! Thank you xx

[@HazelEvans-r3k]

Life can throw these kind of days up and get you down. I can understand as having lived in different places in the world. Don’t beat yourself up about showing us things aren’t always perfect. You are doing amazing.

[@sarawarrener2193]

Chesca we are here for the good, the bad and ugly. This is your real life and it’s your journey and this will be all part of your memories. You don’t want to forget the hard and sad times. We are grateful that you take us along with you. Sending hugs❤️❤️❤️

[@OverlandingSophia]

Appreciate this so much Sara, needed to hear that. Thank you thank you, sending hugs ❤️

[@russellbelliveau1694]

It must be hard at times I can’t imagine! You guys work very hard to live day to day, work and make content which is a lot more work. Your videos are never boring I watch every minute and I’m intrigued by your day to day. All the best and safe travels. Sending warm thoughts from Nova Scotia ❤️

[@reneebarnes2050]

I just love your longer videos :) They are very enjoyable and peaceful to watch. Your music selection is so well fitting. It is truly a pleasure to watch and follow along the journey with you. Safe travels! ♥️

[@OverlandingSophia]

Thank you so much Renee, appreciate this a lot 💕 xx

[@gigistrailsandtales7203]

My husband and I will always watch your content…we are here because of you two! Please take care of yourself….breathe! I honestly don’t know how you do what you do!!!! Sending love from New Brunswick Canada💕💕💕💕💕

[@OverlandingSophia]

Thank you so much, love to hear this. Sending love to Canada! ❤️❤️

[@rachelsimpson4488]

Your videos would NEVER be boring! I love watching your videos whatever you are up to! Take some take to yourselves, we will all be here for you when you return xxx

[@OverlandingSophia]

Thank you so much Rachel, means a lot ❤️ xx

[@carlbebbington730]

Hope you’re feeling better now Chesca, you’re videos are just great, even if it’s filling up the gas, getting water, and rain. You are both great and seeing everyday life with its ups and downs is just … well how life is, but I felt for you all the same.

[@OverlandingSophia]

Thank you for this, when everything gets overwhelming it’s hard to see the wood for the trees. Appreciate the support and encouragement, thank you ❤️

[@robyn58727]

Well done for pushing through, finishing and posting this week's video. Big hug to you 🤗The result is not boring at all, it's real. A warm comment of encouragement to you both!

[@OverlandingSophia]

Thank you so much, appreciate this a lot 🤗 xx

[@Relyse]

You guys are amazing. Definitely here for you and not how much you can cram into the videos. Take care of yourselves and thanks for bringing the world to us.

[@always.wondering.wandering]

Always keep it real, the good the bad and the ugly. Life isn't a day after day of good times, there's going to be the ups and downs and somedays you will feel it more than others. It's good you shared this with us, kind of like therapy, right? Do take time off once in awhile, don't worry about the channel, we'll always be here. Thanks for sharing with us today, great video and good subject matter. Take care now.🤗💌

[@johncranwell3783]

Don’t worry at all about sharing the low bits, that’s life and everyone experience is it…. I really love what you share from the high to the low and all the bits in the middle…. I’ve done a bit of van life, not on the scale that you two are doing it, but I to have had my low points during journeying too… taking a break and chilling out really does make a difference and I’m glad you did that…. Keep going even if it’s just meals, wheels and bed…. Blessings to you both and lots of love from North East Wales🙏❤️

[@kendean1065]

No worries! We are all along for the "real" ride and adventure. We want to see what these places you travel to are really like. If we wanted the studio produced all happy, beautiful and sunny vacation videos we would look up the department of tourism! We want to see the highs and lows! Your travel videos are hands-down the best, most entertaining and educational I have ever watched! I am actually excited with anticipation to see your next video when Sunday rolls around! So either you guys are doing it right or I lead a very dull life!😂 Especially enjoying Mexico as we have been along that coast a few times and absolutely loved it. I have learned that van life isn't the non-stop vacation people think it is. If you need to take a break, by all means do so. We will be here patiently waiting. Thank you so much for sharing your adventure with us!

[@aSC_na_kolenke]

Guys, sometimes you need to rest. We understand you and will always be ready to wait for you to get in shape. Good luck to you and easy travels

[@baublesanddolls]

Oh, Sweet Chesca, no need to feel bad about your content, or ever leaving parts out! It’s all beautiful. We all watch to see the good, the bad, and the frustration. After all, you’re human and we enjoy every bit even when you’re driving and shopping. I like those videos just as much as any because they’re real.You two are troopers for doing what you do. I can’t imagine, as I’d lose my mind, so feeling overwhelmed at times is perfectly normal. I found it frustrating at times driving for weeks, staying in hotels, eating in nice restaurants, etc. My husband (now ex and not from the drives lol) would get under each other’s skin just from being together 24/7. It’s natural to get frustrated and have meltdowns. I love your videos and realize all the hard work that goes into making them. I can’t imagine doing that while cramped in a van, working full-time, looking after two dogs, and everything else. Sometimes I think I’m going to watch and you’ll just say you’re going to stay somewhere for a month just to take some time off. Maybe that’s what you need. I can imagine how frustrating and overwhelming it can get, not to mention how exhausting it is. The two of you do amazingly well. Please take time to look after yourself first because burnout is no fun. Hugs from Nova Scotia, Canada 🇨🇦 We’re getting a bit of snow this evening. 🥰 🤗

[@samanthalangley4859]

Thank you for sharing the entire journey, the good, bad and ugly!

[@leebennett9984]

This is a true reflection of van life you say what feel you do what you feel not many can do what you guy's do .. Happy and low times you will be fine keep punching you know it is worth it..x

[@TheonaYates-qz6hr]

Good on you for keeping it real. Thoroughly enjoy your weekly updates.

[@paulhayes9765]

Great video guys. I think Ben is right. You both need to relax and recharge your inner batteries. Get well and be safe. Looking forward to your next adventure video. Cheers from Nova Scotia.

[@OverlandingSophia]

Thank you Paul, a recharge is definitely in order ❤️🙏

[@Roblynch5550]

Hi, Mrs Rob here, life is a roller coaster what ever you live in, say it a castle, house, caravan, igloo, tent. We all have those days, weeks, and being a Virgo, like me, we have them more, as we are caring souls. Enjoy December guys. Safe travels. ❤

[@thetravelduo_]

Hey guyssss, finally caught up with all your videos after being away. Tequila looked SO fun, sorry to hear you had a rough day, remember your memories/happiness comes before KZbin deadlines/expectations always! Your subscribers will always be here as you are the best at what you do, lots of love xxx

[@anna-mariemarinelli3186]

Scout staring out the window while you pet “other” dogs was priceless!! Thank you for sharing “real” van life. Life is not Instagram no matter how much we wish it was. You have every right to be down. You have every right to be homesick. Hell people who live in sticks and bricks break down from their everyday routines and pressures. Do not apologize for it. I watch you for you four, good days and bad. You guys do amazing videos, even when just driving around. It is a rare video where I am not smiling or laughing and enjoying you being you. Take time whenever you need it, be that skipping a few weeks or flying home for a visit. We will wait for you. Walk and travel in peace, my friends. ❤️

[@chassherman1091]

We so get this, we've finally gotten to Cali after a month of near continual movement and visiting with friends and we just feel exhausted. We're storing the truck here to fly home to NZ next week to earn some more money to allow us to continue our adventure and it may be a year before we get back. We've seen and experienced so many wonderful things over the past six months but I often feel like it's not what I expected travel to be; it's often so hard to reconcile expectations with reality....We love your videos and we have so much respect for how much work it is to create content ! Your future vlogs will keep us sane while we're back in "normal life" longing to be on the road again !

[@davidfahey1100]

Great authentic video. Life is not the mountain top it is the journey there. Wishing you both the best and a reminder to always check the whole of your wellbeing. ❤

[@angela23]

I love watching you two and the doggies get up to whatever van life brings your way-I appreciate your rawness and realism. I'm always watching from my van in British Columbia, Canada! 🇨🇦

[@OverlandingSophia]

Absolutely love this, thank you Angela 💛 A van life inception! xx

[@tracymorrison1584]

sending you all a big hug from rural Saskatchewan Canada; moved here from Ontario in September . Love your travels and new adventures. Wish I were you guys and just see new places, meet new people and experience new beautiful things. Don't ever change or feel nobody wants to watch; I do and look forward to your video's every week.

[@OverlandingSophia]

Appreciate this so much, thank you Tracy 🥹 💕 xx

[@idroppedthepomelo]

Thank you for sharing your true feelings. We are in the middle of our van build and be haven't even staryrd van life and we've had issue after issue with the van itself and the build. I feel myself getting frustrates that everyone seems to get it so easy and we're here struggling our way through, working from pay check to pay check trying to finish. I really appreciate you being honest and real and showing that you are only human and no matter your style of life, troubles have to be faced and mental challenges overcome. Lots of love to you both ❤

[@OverlandingSophia]

You know what, one of the hardest times in my life was our second van build. They are incredibly tough. They demand so much of you physically and mentally, and you’re usually doing them to a schedule in your spare time. They’re expensive with costs that appear out of nowhere and it’s so easy to run yourself empty that you have no energy to deal with things when they go wrong (which they always do). It really strained our relationship too because we had no time or energy for anything else. They are not for the faint of heart and I want you to know that just by doing a van build you’re doing amazing! Take it day by day and I promise it will be worth it, even though it probably feels like it will never end, it does. Keep going and take breaks when you need to, you’ve got this 💪❤️

[@vanbertha7376]

Night cap done....NICE ... I spent 3 years full time in my camper van around Europe....so I know how you feel from time to time... it's not always easy.... You're doing a great job 🍷

[@parag1970]

Been watching your journey from the start and as amazing as most of your vlogs are I’m also here for the lows to experience through your travels the realities of the bad days…after all most of us on here aren’t brave enough to do what you’re doing. ❤

[@rogertaylor2924]

You guys are amazing......We all have our bad days....We would watch you driving around all day and it's always so interesting...even the little back street.,.. Nice to see Ben taking good care of you .

[@jasonworgan2856]

Love you guys. Nice to see you being honest and true to life. We all have our ups and downs,at least you are honest. Keep smiling.

[@OverlandingSophia]

Thanks for this Jason 🥹 xx

[@bootss.9642]

We are loving all your adventures and no matter if your itinerary works out or not for a day here or there it is just fascinating to see the real life of Mexico (or other places in other videos) in places so different to the well known cities and resorts. Yes Ben is absolutely right that we watch for the two of you and of course your adorable doggies. I do understand when travelling and not having a place booked and trying to find something it is very stressful even when we have been in more developed areas on our travels. That picnic is one of our favourites and DH was salivating over the bun since we haven't found that type for a few years in the stores here after they were available for years. I usually take something simple like a chicken salad sandwich, tuna sandwich or with crackers instead and some pickles. Also have done a veggie bowl and some fruit with cheese and crackers. Our adventures are much shorter than yours so we are content with something light and quick to prepare. We stay out of fast food places that way. 🙂 Hope you get to spend time somewhere where you will be able to zoom with family and friends over the Christmas holidays. Remember don't just make it about one day because that causes so much stress as well. Took me a long time to come to that realisation. Take some time out for yourselves because it just boggles my mind what it takes to complete a week's video. It is a lot of work but we do really appreciate it. Sending 💞 always from BC

[@stephenbiddall1290]

We love your films and adventures, but mostly we just love sharing in your lives. Thanks for sharing so much with such honesty. X

[@OverlandingSophia]

This is really amazing to hear, thank you so much ❤️ xx

[@philipewer3752]

We always enjoy following your journey! Keep on keeping on.

[@charlotteanddavestorey6553]

Take a break , relax , if it’s any help I’m a long distance lorry driver have been for the last 25years , I know how you feel , been away from home all the time etc , you both are doing amazing , park up and take a couple of days off , catch up on your sleep , and relax . Your videos are amazing, and I know you both work hard , I for one truly appreciate what you do , loving the videos , I think we will all still be here if you take a week or two off . Sending you all the best and a very merry Christmas where ever you both are .

[@OverlandingSophia]

This means so much, thank you for the woods of understanding and encouragement. Think a nice, chilled Christmas break is in order! ❤️ xx

[@kevincowin3217]

Anything you guys do is great to watch no matter what you do it is just great to be with you all on your journey.

[@OverlandingSophia]

Thanks so much Kevin 🥹🧡

[@Wiccanglen]

Like everything in life, you got to take the bad with the good. Ride the way, and you'll see the Rainbow 🌈 at the end! Be good to yourselves ❤

[@marcn5733]

I'm glad you included the bit where you were feeling down....so many people trying to portray that life is like Instagram is unhealthy for everyone. I'm sorry you felt that way. Here's to better days ahead!

[@art_istic2933]

the busy action pact videos are good but the calm just going through the motions of life videos are so relaxing, we love watching you for you and how entertaining and fun you are even if your just in the same camp spot and doing some vanlife admin. take as much time as you need over Christmas and get some well ernt rest. if you stay in one spot for the next 2 months or if you go to outer space it will still be just as engaging, bacuase you 2 are so amazing and inspiring to watch❤

[@OverlandingSophia]

Can’t thank you enough for this, it means so much to hear that ❤️🥹 Can’t promise outer space van life just yet, where’s Elon when you need him?! Xx