35 years ago, just like you i came to Malaysia for a tour. After staying here for a week, I met a Tamil girl in a small town called Pusing in the state of Perak. I got married and settled down in Malaysia. I learned to speak Tamil and other local languages. My wife owned a rubber and palm oil plantation and I opened up two grocery stores and a small plastic factory. I hope all indian nationals don't do the same mistake. Just leave Malaysia after tour.