[HOT CLIPS] [MASTER IN THE HOUSE] How was Dr. Oh's heart prescription? (ENG SUB)

Instead of proposing solutions, try to understand where...
Ep. 191
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[@danicaz1163]

As a Return of Superman fan, I believe Donggook raised his kids wonderfully though. He knows when he is in the wrong, and personally, for Jaesi to confidently say what she said knowing that her father is listening is testament to her confidence in her parents love for her

[@jiecao9323]

It's weird, isn't it? I thought TROS about fathers/parents and children. This scene or moment is supposed to happen in TROS, it doesn't matter how old the children.

[@Xhin229]

Yeah. If Donggook was a bad dad, Jaesi wouldn't even dare to utter her honest thoughts and feelings because she would be afraid to be scolded or punished after.

[@Fartsquad_]

@@jiecao9323 age does matter, the concept of TROS is seeing dads taking care of their baby children without the aid of mothers for like a day or two. Once kids hit a certain age, they become more independent. Especially kids approaching close to pre teen years such as 9 or 10, do not want their parents to be hovering over them anymore. Korean kids also mature pretty quick, I’d say. At that age, they probably don’t want to be even be filmed for days like that anymore as they actively go to school and have many friends. It’s only YOU that want to keep seeing them.., please consider their lives too.

[@telletubby8070]

@@jiecao9323 not necessarily. because jaesi and jaeah were already really mature for their age when he first joined TROS and they helped a lot. like A LOOT in taking care of the little one. So it will kinda lose the purpose of him joining TROS to take care of his children without the help of another family member. Besides by that time they were in the pre-teen age so they probably chose not to be around camera that much and I remember they did have a lot of school/outside school activities so they probably didn't have time as much.

[@deifeodora1291]

She's really confident for saying all of that despite her father being next door.

[@Kristine_Claire]

i can't never do it lol i would cry my eyes out cos my parents always twist my words and won't understande me

[@maryalthene]

@@Kristine_Claire i could relate to you

[@sakura17618]

that actually shows donggook is a good father because she wasnt scared to tell the truth

[@prensesavera3038]

I’m glad she did and I’m glad her parents knows about her twin asking her to stop doing sports

[@yoursnatchedwig2856]

Mine will just lie and say i got victim mentality and i should be grateful 😂​@@Kristine_Claire

[@citizencrichton4142]

I like the way Dongkook raises his children its called tough love and it prepares them for the real world where its not a fairytale. That sibling jealousy that's in every family. It's normal to feel that way at some stage in your life. Also its normal for children to be closer to one of the parent's just like in my family i love both of my parents but i'm closer to my dad but yeah love this beautiful family. The older girls are growing fast in to beautiful young ladies.

[@joaen]

as someone with a twin, i hope all parents watch this. on a brighter note though, jaesi is rlly expressive and i hope jeah is too but if they both are able to tall abt their concerns woth thwir parents, then I'd say dongook and his wife are doing great. i hope they keep the energy for seola and suah. and also for daebak.

[@Maltcandyxp]

I wish both kids could come. Both have their struggles but I think Jeah is the kind to figure out her problems by herself. Like the counsellor said, they are indeed very different.

[@itzkeithnicole]

when jae si said ''yes we have another group chat'' without their dad HAHAHA lol

[@min_6964]

Actually I already felt whatever she said here when I watch tros when they are both playing tennis with their father. I saw how happy she is for her sister achievements and how her father praised her sister and she was always at the back or side of her sister while her father always focused on her sister but I'm very proud of her at that time because she keeps smiling even though I knew deep inside she's jealous on her father's attention with her twin sister.

[@franchescawong5484]

Jaesi"s complaints (i dunno the fitted word) are valid but I just cannot ignore the bond that she can openly share it even thought she knows appa was at the side. That's a good parenting for me .. i so love this family since then and couldn't be more proud of how they are doing today ..

[@imankamaruddin]

How can jaesi not shed any tears and here I am bawling 😭😭😭

[@izzatulrosli8367]

I know right she is literally my personality 😭

[@jas4330]

I was abt to comment this 😂 Her dad even has watery eyes

[@cahles6679]

On dongkook's side, he was always away from the family when he was a pro and his career is indeed so very long. I understand that it will take time for him to understand all of his children especially that his two older daughters are going thru puberty( which is the most complicated stage of maturation).

[@eclipse4195]

i love this :( having an open and honest relationship with your asian parent is literally so hard. im so jealous to see healthy parent-child relationships

[@nusaibaamina4128]

I've watched them since they started TROS, & I think the issue is that Jaeah has always been confident of her passion & has her future kinda set out already, & since it's sport related her parents (esp Donggook) are extremely proud of her. Jaesi I noticed didn't seem to have a set life goal, at the beginning of TROS she played tennis with Jaeah, then another time she was suddenly into modelling instead. It's good that she spoke up about her feelings, she's still young so she has time to figure out, and now her parents know to focus on helping her finding her goal too.

[@kikieydolce9256]

"When someone wants your empathy it's mean that they want u to know that they are struggling even though u may not feel the same"

[@dedemo4192]

Its really interesting to hear her side and feelings. It would also be interesting to hear her sisters side too. I'm sure they both have insecurities especially since both of them have amazing talent. Modeling and sport. I'm sure they both have things they feel from each other. I agree that the dad should have paid equal attentions to the girls but since we're seeing one side we shouldn't forget that her sister may also feel the same about different things.

[@alyssa6215]

Showing that she can tell her concern means that she was raised well, I think Dongwook knows when he is wrong and will try to fix it after they fall more about it

[@LilacMist]

I’m glad that dr oh was there to explain and break things down for them. Years ago when Dong gook’s family came out on TROS I had already felt the attention was unbalanced on both sets of twins, dad was more inclined towards Jaeah and Sua, but mostly on his son Sian. I felt that Jaesi might have been left out because dad was trying to groom a future tennis player in her other twin, just like he conquered football. I hardly saw many interactions between Jaesi and him so I assumed they weren’t that close, but here I’m surprised to know that she communicates the most with him. From what I see, Jaesi is more of an explorative person who has many interests, and with such people they’re prone to indecision and messiness. I’m the same and I appreciate Dr oh for speaking on Jaesi’s behalf because she’s still at an age where there are many things she could be but doesn’t know how to explain that. It’s somewhat true that parents tend to support children who show persistence, makes them think that you really want this and are not the half hearted sort, so they invest more in you. Jaeah’s trophies became his pride and accomplishments, his daughter is something to show off to the world, and being an athlete himself he will naturally be more proud of her. Because they’re both in sports, they’re competitive, they’re consistent and hardworking types. That’s probably why Jaesi felt closer to her mom and didn’t confide in her dad, it’s something that concerns bias which is hard to talk about. That also shows the distance between Jaesi and dad, even though they communicate the most, he is unaware of her feelings and struggles. Although I think dong gook is a good father, there are many areas where he can improve on, and the fact that they have a separate group chat is an indication that he’s not doing things that the women approve of. But I applaud him for taking the time out to come with Jaesi and listen, men don’t often know how others feel so it has to be directly spoken for them to understand. She grew up feeling less loved and sad, so if you don’t put equal attention on your children they might turn to resentment/jealousy/hatred. Talk more with them to build the relationship, to show you care, to listen and not give advice unless they asked for it. Sometimes people just need you to be there, not tell them what to do. Jaesi also has to learn that dong gook can’t always agree with her thoughts, if something isn’t right then we can’t expect others to side with us no matter what we are feeling, there are reasons for things turning out the way they did.

[@melanalacson9163]

Very well spoken I agree with you so much

[@Blackhairmlssimp]

whatttt? haha I actually felt different from you! I felt that he payed more attention towards the oldest of the sets of twins Jeasi and Seola. Since Sua was most outcasted of the playing with her sister and brother. And Jeasi is more extrovert than Jaeah so DG clicked more with them

[@88Jaq]

Dr Oh's words are so refreshing.. Jeasi and Jeah grow up beautifully... at their age, it's common to feels like that.. feeling need of attention.. jealous with each other..and they are having a hard time to express their feelings especially to their parents.. i can relate to that.. Jeasi is a strong girl to keep her feeling.. she is being considerate when her father giving more attention to Jeah.. i hope she open her heart more... as for Donggook.. all of us know that he is doing a good job being a father.. being a father of five is quite hard especially when u tried to give same attention fairly.. but sometimes the kids feels differently..

[@thelmatejero3651]

I'm tearing up while watching. Love this family since TROS. I respect donggook and his wife, I believe they're doing a good job raising their kids. It's not that easy having many kids, you really need to know them because they have different personalities (I have 2 boys that's why I know it 🙂), so you really need to have communication, understanding and respect to your kids as well. ❤❤

[@jakethehud]

I like Dr. Oh's analogy of the sun and the moon, when describing the differences between Jae-ah and Jae-si. Like the sun and the moon, they are both important, but who can say which one is more important. They each have their own strengths and ambitions. I believe Jaesi is still searching for hers. Dr. Oh is absolutely right. Whoever has the problem should solve the problem and they should be listened to, and have their concerns understood. I found this video very enlightening. I've watched quite a few of their shows, and had no idea that Jae-si felt the way she does. I can see where, as an outsider, I could miss this side of her, but not to have her parents, or her twin, taking notice, makes me sad. They are a great family and I'm glad this has come out in the open. It's an eye opener. Dong-gook should remember this advice, from Dr. Oh, when dealing with the younger twins, Seol-ah and Soo-ah.

[@Pitapat819]

so i guess he's saying that jaesi is more talented but she doesn't have the mentality to be a pro... i wonder if that grit is something that can be developed though? once she finds something that she really likes... knowing dongkook from seeing him on Let's Play Soccer though, I get why he'd relate more to jaea

[@pinksone8153]

Dr. Oh is so great at her job! Too good. That was a good lesson to learn.

[@telletubby8070]

Jaesi did a great job in communicating her feelings despite knowing her dad is next door. And I bet Jaeah have her own baggage to carry. It breaks my heart knowing that she actually asked Jaesi to stop doing sports because she felt insecure. It's not easy knowing someone, let alone your own twin is better than you in doing what you love the most especially when Jaesi's passion didn't lie there. I hope she could talk about her feelings to her family as well. But Jaesi is a really great big sister. And I understand DongGook's perspective on Jaesi wanting to try a lot of things since he's lived most of his life as an athlete. Considering an athlete is a career which needs to start as early as possible whilst other careers have bigger room for trials and errors. But kudos to him for still supporting Jaesi in trying all the stuff she wanted to try tho. It's not easy to raise 1 kid, but he did great in raising all 5. The fact that Jaesi can express her feeling well with her dad next door shows how much of a 'safe place' her family is for her. And I love how Donggook is consistently always trying and fixing himself to be a better father even tho he's already a great father himself. All of his kids grew up beautifully.

[@hyeranabi2784]

the use of "moon" and "sun" is the best way of explanation I've heard... crying my eyes out when its not my worries😭😂

[@lollilalay24]

understanding really is the key. Whenever i tell my dad im stressed or struggling, he'll respond "go for mind over matter" 🥴 like yeah easy to say but hard to really act on it.

[@serqsdps]

I want to hear JaeAh side of story too and I'm sure she also has a different perspective of the same issue

[@cms8735]

She can be a model with her pretty face and height!! p.s. Dr. Oh’s explanation was so great, like that sun-moon comparison? Just wow. 😭👏🏻

[@itsmeaubrey]

this is what i want my child to be. aside from them to be able to do the things they are passionate about, i want my future kid to be able to express him/herself with no hesitation. kids today esp teens need attention more than they want to admit. they want to be heard. good job on parents who are able to raise their kids like this because i know it's sooo hard. tbh, i felt awkward when they were asking jaesi those quesitons but i guess it needs to be addressed

[@beverleyanderson8705]

I think Jaesi could be a presenter on a children’s TV show. Her English is very good and she interacts with her younger siblings do well. I would love to see her read a story again on world book day in English . 🇰🇷🥰🇬🇧

[@ThumbelinaV]

So good to see them after a long time. Jaeshi have grown so much and she is beautiful as always. Dong Gook is a good father, he wants to understand his daughter and give his best.

[@jeevithaganesan6628]

He is really a supportive dad if not jaesi cannot express these things easily when her dad is next door

[@rivergal57]

I still believe LDG and his wife are doing marvelous as parents. It's not easy to raise 5 kids, 4 of which are twins. I just hope Seo Ah and her twin will get the same support from their parents to whatever they choose to be in the future.

[@user-ze4di8kz2v]

Parents love should not be tied with child performance. Sucess is finding work which brings joy to the person, so it takes time to find it, making progress slowly not doing for external validation but for love of it Go jaesi❤️

[@sriharshini4442]

True

[@purplenaviolet]

I'm so touched, i really like their family since Tros. Since i was a kid I can't never open up about all my concerns to my parents and now i'm 25, i suffer from anxiety issue.

[@sabrinaaa2364]

My character is the same as Jaesi, when I'm in a tiring and difficult situation, I just wish there was someone beside me saying "it's okay when you don't feel fine, you are strong, you will be fine".. then hug me, that simple.. I feel jealous of Jaesi, because she can confidently talk about her feelings. If it was me, maybe there would only be tears 😅😅

[@originaldiary14]

A usual big sister little sister thing that happens when they are closer in age. Younger will work harder to prove that can be as good as their older sibling while the older sibling usually is naturally talented but not persistent

[@Tinnevelly]

This hit a nail to my head, I gave up easily with arts while my sister is working hard to get at my level and now she exceeded that. Now my interests are still changing and I’m jumping from one thing to another.

[@FaithfulMel]

As a twin myself I feel sympathetic towards jaesi ❤️

[@lydinspear1121]

She can be an actress just like she wished for

[@Kdrama430]

I really relate it because all the time my sister gets all of attention from my parents because she was smater and do well in anything and i’m like her side kicks all though i’m very happy for her but sometimes i don’t know why I’m crying though its funny

[@user-nt8jp8os9j]

actually i also noticed this when i watched tros episodes featuring them. even tros editors were focusing more on jaea. kudos to her tho she better than me i would have bawled my eyes out ㅋㅋㅋㅋ

[@Kay-ji3wr]

When he said "you want to be the sun or the moon" 🤣🤣🤣

[@joovnkaa]

Im bawling my eyes out watching this idk😭😭😭

[@nneena_]

Jaesi so pretty 🤩 i think one day she will become model and actress cant wait to see that!

[@justaninfiredperson]

Its true tho donggook is a good dad. The way a man interacts with his kids and kids interact with him says it all. And jaesis concern is also valid

[@kunabubbles8035]

Wow this show is amazing! N I thank this family to come on this show that we r not alone. Thank u.

[@kakiablue3703]

ahhh jaesi.... she's thoughtful like big sister with many siblings..... she should consider everything

[@moninaysvlog]

Omg shes so pretty. Keep your modeling it suits you so well❤️💜

[@biyuwu8894]

I cried watching this. She said exactly what I needed from my parents as well.

[@Kdrama430]

I don’t know when the counsellor says about jessi i felt like i want my parents like them I’m crying man I don’t know why i felt like someone will understand what i felt

[@maretalynda3499]

English will pop up if you click Korean caption

[@jigeumneomuhappy4401]

@@maretalynda3499 thank u for telling this🥰

[@juandelacruzii486]

Yup Dr. Oh made me want to watch my teenage girl (a new survival show for those who want to become idols). She is amazing at her job

[@ijakamarul9658]

as a twin, myself.... i'm really really understand her situation... 🥲🥲

[@sarahxxxx5800]

I love this kind of content ❤️

[@afajardo774]

Lee Family has really a special place in my heart💕

[@amirahnadiah5879]

Jae si just like me. Every day is different

[@pamalavea2257]

I find they each have.their own thing she is fashion/modelling where as jaeah is sports. When they do modelling jaeha is in the back ground when it's sport jaesi on the background

[@FluffyCloud_-1407]

Wow it's really hit the spot

[@Pitapat819]

i like the advice... just like with any other relationship, the parents still have to tailor their parenting to the person that their specific child is becoming as an individual. So it's very important to know WHO each child is, and to also be aware of the parent's own personal biases that could be leading to comparison... the way he talked about the twins, it does seem like there is comparison there with one of them coming out better in the judgment.

[@outresru7751]

I'm also the same age as the twins and even I have a twin sister. I love to make artworks, explore different styles, I like photography, I make sketches and I'm a little bit calmer than my twin. She suffered a lot last year on her own because she was feeling all these insecurities which I didn't know until this year beginning. People always ask us who's more smarter or naughtier than the other and stuff, and since I'm very talkative I used to tell others my opinion of her as if I knew what she exactly is and that hurt her a lot, we had a lot of misunderstandings. And I was a bit more popular because of the art I made and the photos I took and even my guests all praised me a lot and asked if my sister also did these stuff. She had identity crisis which no one could identify. She found her love for poems, films, fashion,etc and we don't share the same interests. We are like the Sun and Moon, who rely on each other but we are unique in our own ways. No one apart from twins knows what it means like go have their own identity, people don't see us as individuals but "the twins". After a lot of fights, we talked everything out and along with my mom and brother's help, we have a very very healthy relationship with each other and family too. I think these misunderstandings only led me to be where I am today, I can empathise with others too and understand my problems better too.

[@itzkeithnicole]

finally there's english sub

[@annyeongkyungsoo93]

jaesi looks like suzy and jae ah looks like kim goeun.😍😍😍

[@leenab4978]

I love this family so much..... Seen the so much since the return of Superman

[@lakshikarajendran3778]

She’s so honest and extremely elegant.God she’s the best

[@kikieydolce9256]

To have a good relationship with others the most important things is to know yourself because if u don't know yourself u'de blame others when the relationship doesn't go well

[@pc3116]

I use to make excuses not to attend weddings as was not interested in discussing my grades and my cousins were brighter. I still do because am single ,so worried not being able to answer questions

[@itsmeaubrey]

family reunions is not always something good to look forward to for some reasons. reasons like this one

[@mozaic_maroon]

Lee Donggook is National Daddy, he rise his children in conservative way, and his children growth in normal environment.

[@uwuwu6635]

I feel like Dongook is closer to Jae ah but her mom is closer to Jae si.

[@Loriani93]

its funny cause when they were on another show people were complaining that donggook wasnt paying enough attention to jaeah and that he was closer to jaesi😂

[@cozylim7598]

@@Loriani93 yea ikr!!! Like how he is so ha ha ho ho w jae si but with jae ah its more like solemn and sportsman-y xD i guess its rlly based on how one frames things and perspectives~

[@snowwhite3478]

Funny how he caught himself in the act haha but this is the reality, for sure he only have good intentions, and sometimes when we do have good intentions it’s hard for us to admit that we need correction. or we need to do it differently, but it’s normal and as long as he is willing to be better, he’ll eventually get to accept, and deal with it.

[@btsfanclub2278]

I hope you guys should invite sian too... He also need to express his problem and feeling too in front of his father

[@kunabubbles8035]

Jesus! Where have I been? I love this family!❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️always had these family on my mind. N wondered.

[@dimiiguite6895]

They should have invite her sister too then we can listen to both side story

[@Pitapat819]

it's not a comparison contest though... it was about her being able to express her own feelings and that those are valid.

[@liveinthemoment9384]

@@Pitapat819 true.

[@orpahongcas621]

when "we all lie" suddenly play i thought someone's calling me 😂😂😂 its my call rington 😂😂😂😂

[@nina4347]

she should be a model, very natural beauty

[@mayday7246]

But rn they both have gain attention in different fields, jeasi in fashion, model, jaeah in tennis

[@hasnatan4809]

Me and Jaesi has the same personality. We tend to like alot of things but give up easily

[@awesomebiggy1220]

Jaesi is really pretty 😍💕

[@vohue8622]

Dr Oh is my idol and I want to become a psychologist like her

[@afreenk4825]

Donggook shouldn't use fillers on his face,age gracefully

[@Msztyllachara]

he use fillers?

[@Blackhairmlssimp]

i think he is just aging well? Now he doesn’t have to restrict his diet

[@mahisharma5261]

But for my personal it's true parents should encourage their every child equally but if jaea do a little more hardwork then it's normal to appreciate her more..... Because it's not academics this is sports on international level.. Everyone enter with their fullest strength and capacity and if you still win 1st prize means you work more harder and dedicatly and only end results matter..... So with jaesi point of view everything she said here is true we all felt that way parents compliment other sibling but as a third person view or as doongook pov he is right being proud of winner

[@shebacolina5579]

Dr. Oh is always in TROS

[@jenesaisquoi7097]

I understand what the counselor is saying about being persistent and all of that. But like the girl herself says she gives up on things easily and she’s equally not settled on what she wants to do that’s alright. And her parents still support her in whatever she wants to do/be. But when one is also fully invested in one thing why not also equally keep on encouraging and supporting the child. It’s not asif he would see any negative stuff in jaesi but he would also have to support the other as she needs to keep learning and is in a competitive position/ sport . Even though every thing in this world is like a competition

[@fss1439]

She suit to be model artist etc, she is so pretty

[@rosemariedecastro5480]

She grew up so pretty

[@ckylaunnie8447]

Lee donggook is so handsome 😍 i follow him since TRoS...

[@lovexo9]

Jaesi is so pretty 😍🤣

[@clarisseabella]

11:24 Jaesi is so pretty 😊💙

[@user-zi9cw1qr5w]

재능있는 사람이 노력까지 하면 대박이죠. 성공 길이 열리는게 더 쉽죠 내 보기엔 집에서 제시가 재능이 가장 다양하고 제일 이쁜 거 같음

[@nabihaanisa6479]

Jaessi is sooo pretty

[@mrunmayeekelambekar6315]

15:51 that's something really important an almost every one need to learn this😅

[@fullmoon3085]

I wonder what the other twin must feel now that the whole world feels she told her sister to stop playing. How will this effect her mental stability in playing. I think this is not a very nice way of solving young people's problem.

[@bbgui]

Honestly, I feel she can keep this among to her families, voice out to them not through TV platform. Feels that it doesn't reflect well on both her and her sister?

[@bluecloud8831]

Saya pun ada masalah yanv sama seperti Jae Si. Terima kasih memahami saya

[@mics7316]

I feel like I'm also getting a council i had the same frustration as jaesi. Because all this time i thought i was a failure for not having a thing that i really want to do in life. As jaesi, i also like to explore especially in arts but, after while, i want to try something new.

[@samanthadabu3005]

NOW I WANT TO BE DONGGOOK’S CHILD 🙇🏻‍♀️

[@amilinksoshibpbts6920]

wow i need a therapist like her

[@ayssu3796]

I wonder if Jaeah is also jealous that Jaesi is better at sports even tho she’s not serious about it.

[@itstime6114]

On the ground ! I love

[@haruharubukid]

we need engsub ASAP!!😭😭

[@maretalynda3499]

There is engsub. You should click Korean caption then Engsub will pop up

[@onetwothree8359]

@@maretalynda3499 I never know that 😭😭I thought it's Korean sub

[@donatellavalentini1030]

Che bellissima famiglia

[@jas4330]

17:06 Sun or Moon, both will shine. Just in different time. I wanna meet that one, to whom I can freely express my real feelings and how I see the real me.

[@eherawr]

she's so pretty freakkk wahhh im in love hahahaha

[@mielcornberrymommyatin170]

Please provide english subtitles for us foreign fans of LD family.

[@natsura9728]

there's English sub

[@heyitschika]

i want dr oh in my lifeeeeee