How Black Moms Apologize When They’re Wrong

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Jay Nedaj

Jay Nedaj

Күн бұрын

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@denisiaberthia7906
@denisiaberthia7906 2 ай бұрын
The hiccup cry takes me back 😂😂
@simsbgcfreestylestudio
@simsbgcfreestylestudio 2 ай бұрын
Took me all the way out 😂😂😂
@user-to7up1dl3d
@user-to7up1dl3d 2 ай бұрын
Lol
@Willirene-xl5bd
@Willirene-xl5bd 2 ай бұрын
Hilarious 😂😂
@crystaldiamonds0
@crystaldiamonds0 2 ай бұрын
💯 😂
@Daniela-tr8se
@Daniela-tr8se 2 ай бұрын
Chhhhhile the extension cord takes me back 😵
@arinaewallace748
@arinaewallace748 2 ай бұрын
They hate to admit to their wrongs.
@Laylabrooklyn-o2l
@Laylabrooklyn-o2l 2 ай бұрын
Fr like
@Leviengland2025
@Leviengland2025 2 ай бұрын
And do
@highsourjamapple9141
@highsourjamapple9141 2 ай бұрын
Right, like just say sorry
@atyourdadshousetoday9006
@atyourdadshousetoday9006 2 ай бұрын
Yep. I'm grown, and my mom is still like that. Gifts and dinners don't mean anything to me anymore. I need to hear an apology.
@twincesseszeigler4366
@twincesseszeigler4366 2 ай бұрын
Agreed.
@anarchist_parable
@anarchist_parable 2 ай бұрын
If my child throws water at a woman and she melts, I'm buying them ice cream. Out here vanquishing demons 😂
@sharianiles4845
@sharianiles4845 2 ай бұрын
lmao
@magicallyme96
@magicallyme96 2 ай бұрын
Ok?! Unda di blood!! 💃🏾
@Kateria1864
@Kateria1864 2 ай бұрын
Amen 🙏
@roseydot
@roseydot 2 ай бұрын
The way I screamed after reading this 😭💀😂
@ninad.7152
@ninad.7152 2 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@Princessofthedrk
@Princessofthedrk 2 ай бұрын
That shaky crying broke my heart. A testiment to your acting!
@virginiagross5836
@virginiagross5836 2 ай бұрын
Breaks my heart
@carolleeames6659
@carolleeames6659 2 ай бұрын
Fabulous!
@ladob2011
@ladob2011 17 күн бұрын
Right, it's acting and I was crying for him😢
@Kaydengardner-cil
@Kaydengardner-cil 2 ай бұрын
It’s the “let me calll let me call let me call let me call u back” THE STUTTERING 😂
@gemlayne1400
@gemlayne1400 2 ай бұрын
I was born at night, 'in back of a club'....but certainly not last night 😆🤣🤣
@mraeofSunShine
@mraeofSunShine 2 ай бұрын
😂😂😂
@vanessaandreatta9098
@vanessaandreatta9098 2 ай бұрын
That line!!!!! I will recycle it 😅
@roxcyn
@roxcyn 2 ай бұрын
That’s so funny 😂.
@bunskero
@bunskero 2 ай бұрын
im slow what does it mean
@roxcyn
@roxcyn 2 ай бұрын
@@bunskero - it’s a play of words on the saying “I was born but not yesterday.” “I was born at night in the back of the club but certainly not last night.” would mean the same thing but you’re saying your mom is a str*pper at the club and that’s where you were born. The original phrase means I’m not stupid. 😂
@Fairyfeet2
@Fairyfeet2 2 ай бұрын
Black moms never apologize they just make you your favorite food and be nice for a day😭
@shiannafoxx
@shiannafoxx 2 ай бұрын
Emphasis on *a* day
@aaronyork4005
@aaronyork4005 2 ай бұрын
Literally 24 hours then back to hell
@ronellepatterson4176
@ronellepatterson4176 2 ай бұрын
I ain't even get that🤣
@trina7274
@trina7274 2 ай бұрын
It’s the same 50 years later ya’all…. My moms is 87. I still get anxiety when she grabs her purse…. Pretty sure that wooden spoon is in there somewhere. That purse is like a portal to hell 😂😮 I’ll say something like (when we put shopping) “I know I’m thirsty” (it’s 95 out) and she pull out half a stick of stale gum…. She say “this’ll quench your thirst”…. And I still say “yes ma’am” and I chew on the stale gum that be tasting like perfume and Ponds cold cream….. no thirst was quenched on that day…. Or ever with that gum 😂😢😮 Love to you all ❤️💕🙏🏼
@arinaewallace748
@arinaewallace748 2 ай бұрын
@@Fairyfeet2 then back up on some bs again.
@nicasinclair7609
@nicasinclair7609 2 ай бұрын
30 years later "Why do my kids hate me?!"
@zeehighness9310
@zeehighness9310 2 ай бұрын
Correct ✅
@Morgan313
@Morgan313 2 ай бұрын
Now I understand why my parents hate the way they were raised and tried different 😢
@shiannafoxx
@shiannafoxx 2 ай бұрын
THIS. How y'all wondering why none of your kids like you when you were emotionally AND physically abusive???
@nicasinclair7609
@nicasinclair7609 2 ай бұрын
@shiannafoxx RIGHT. My grandmother is like this. She tormented her kids and me. Now I don't talk to her and she's clueless as to why.
@shiannafoxx
@shiannafoxx 2 ай бұрын
@@nicasinclair7609 It’s that generational trauma/abuse. My parents decided to continue the cycle instead of breaking it
@ari.t_it8
@ari.t_it8 2 ай бұрын
Then when you done getting whooped it's a 'Stop crying before I give you something to cry about' LIKE YOU WANT ME TO BE STRAIGHT FACED WHILE YOU SMACK ME WITH A SWITCH? 😭😭😭😭😭😭
@TrinityTwo
@TrinityTwo 2 ай бұрын
@@ari.t_it8 that part
@Randompersonyouhaventmet
@Randompersonyouhaventmet 2 ай бұрын
Exactly 😂
@MeditativeManifesting
@MeditativeManifesting 2 ай бұрын
Yes as asians, my mom was the same way.
@rosiesante
@rosiesante Ай бұрын
and then when you don’t cry and keep a straight face, they’re going to have a problem with that too 🫥
@TrinityTwo
@TrinityTwo Ай бұрын
@@rosiesante that part
@Elianomaly
@Elianomaly 2 ай бұрын
I’m a Black mother and I decided before my child was born to let everyone know that there would be no continuation whatsoever of the abuse I experienced. And when I am wrong in conversations I apologize. My heart goes out to all the people who have never gotten an apology from their abusive parents. 💞
@ladyliberty5771
@ladyliberty5771 2 ай бұрын
Sadly, I apologized when I was wrong with my kids. 3 walked away, no contact. My Mom, who I had a terrible relationship with, yet kept her in my life, told me to NEVER apologize. She said it handed the power over to them. My conscience is clear, but my heart is broken. I'm not sure which would hurt more.
@FreeYourMind590
@FreeYourMind590 2 ай бұрын
​@@ladyliberty5771 You should have listened. To your Mother that is and not some psycho blabble.
@ladyliberty5771
@ladyliberty5771 2 ай бұрын
@@FreeYourMind590 agree to disagree.
@seanluzdeluna8153
@seanluzdeluna8153 2 ай бұрын
​@@ladyliberty5771your mother sounds like an abusive narcissist. Only narcissists say shit like "never apologize", even if they're in the wrong.
@rhondafitzgerald6199
@rhondafitzgerald6199 2 ай бұрын
I do not feel abused, nor would I ever accuse my mother of abuse. My mother is a strong black woman that raised four children on her own and raised them right! She is the reason I and my sister graduated from college and are productive members of society. All of her children love and emotionally support her in her elder years as she did for us as children . I feel we need to use a mix of old and new parenting, yes we can show our kids that we are human and make mistakes, but we must remain in control of our home and the rules in it and they should respect that at all times, especially if they pay no bills and are cared for , guided and loved.
@brittneywoolfolk3695
@brittneywoolfolk3695 2 ай бұрын
Im a black mother and I apologize to my child💪
@Boogeyman1435
@Boogeyman1435 2 ай бұрын
A lot of us learned how NOT to parent being kids.
@sharianiles4845
@sharianiles4845 2 ай бұрын
same and i guess i'm one of the few who's mom apologized also. I know however, that my mom SPECIFICALLY raised us doing the opposite of what my grandmother did. We had love and affection and RESPECT AS PEOPLE from my mom as far back as i can remember. Are there times when it was 'what i say goes' in her house and in mine? yes of course, because a 5 year old is 5 years old and sometimes you don't have time to explain levels of shit to a child that small, but i've always given my daughters the chance to have a voice and to point out where i am making a mistake or just plain show me a different side.
@stacieharris5640
@stacieharris5640 2 ай бұрын
I apologize to my children, too…straightaway!
@yardleyj9391
@yardleyj9391 2 ай бұрын
You are a different generation. I apologise too, my parents' gen, did not.
@Queen_Sakura
@Queen_Sakura 2 ай бұрын
Congratulations you're a decent mom 🥳
@irogt
@irogt 2 ай бұрын
She offered everything, even an island, but an apology... and it's too real. I read a sentence once that said: Never trust an adult that cannot apologize to a child.
@63rambler66
@63rambler66 2 ай бұрын
Wow. I didn’t know there was any need for that expression, but it’s good advice. And he showed her the extent of his pain by being too traumatized and scared to be around her even for those fabulous gifts.
@gojosgirl6487
@gojosgirl6487 2 ай бұрын
And a Disney Land trip!
@colchicine1
@colchicine1 2 ай бұрын
She was apologizing, but not with words, but with actions . Remember the ole adage, Actions speak louder than words!
@rayeeiffel480
@rayeeiffel480 2 ай бұрын
@@colchicine1Ok but it wouldn’t have taken much for her to say “I was wrong i’m sorry baby” and then proceeded to show she was sorry with the actions.
@May-m4n
@May-m4n 2 ай бұрын
@@colchicine1 No. Children especially need too hear the words
@joycerichardson1810
@joycerichardson1810 2 ай бұрын
Girlfriend's voice in the phone always kills me! 😂
@nncitygirl
@nncitygirl 2 ай бұрын
YUP! Me Too! Hilarious!
@chadniradavis7446
@chadniradavis7446 2 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@letsbereal9455
@letsbereal9455 2 ай бұрын
Ba, ba, ba, bye!
@janaadams497
@janaadams497 2 ай бұрын
Same!! Almost sounds like if Fat Albert was in a woman's body 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@joycerichardson1810
@joycerichardson1810 2 ай бұрын
​@@janaadams497Alberta!
@deadoralivefan12
@deadoralivefan12 2 ай бұрын
This was hard to watch and I wasn’t even whipped as a child 😭 My heart goes out to the ones that were.
@ActuaIIyCookie
@ActuaIIyCookie 2 ай бұрын
This actually used to happen to me and when she tried making up for it i would always be hesitant about it bc that’s not the way ur supposed to apologize…
@lilacliyenoys3485
@lilacliyenoys3485 2 ай бұрын
My mom or dad would beat my butt with and the threw me in my room to cry myself to sleep afterwards or if I was doing something my mom didn’t like I would get pinched hard I don’t like my mom so would try to force her religion on me and then when I say I don’t want to go she would try to guilt trip me my mom is worse than my dad
@naanbread7896
@naanbread7896 2 ай бұрын
My mom almost killed me once lmao
@jorami4838
@jorami4838 2 ай бұрын
​@@naanbread7896 that's.... Not funny...
@Editsandcmbyn
@Editsandcmbyn 2 ай бұрын
My grandma tried killing me multiple times
@SmellTheLilies
@SmellTheLilies 2 ай бұрын
I’m a black mom and I apologize to my child. Not all of us are emotionally immature.
@rdadhender7464
@rdadhender7464 Ай бұрын
Exactly
@ObeyMyGayy
@ObeyMyGayy 14 күн бұрын
This! I had to be the one to break the cycle. I refuse to give into the generational curse. My daughter deserves better.
@NotUrFather479
@NotUrFather479 2 ай бұрын
I hate when parents believe teachers without any proof and I also hate when teachers believe students without any proof, or don’t let students defend themselves.
@jahlilsingletary-mask7021
@jahlilsingletary-mask7021 2 ай бұрын
My 8th grade ELA teacher was like this..."I don't wanna hear what anyone else did. Tell me what you did." I used to hate that and it makes no sense cause that's how the wrong child gets in trouble. Only reason I ain't get in trouble was because another adult said he saw what actually happened.
@raemo1377
@raemo1377 2 ай бұрын
My kids teachers hated me because I would tell them to do their job while my kid are in their care and stop calling me . Talking about she wouldn't make eye contact mofo what 😮
@vanessaandreatta9098
@vanessaandreatta9098 2 ай бұрын
As an only daughter of a single mother, even if I am not black, I witness these kind of nonsense. Teachers were always right no matter what
@stitches318
@stitches318 2 ай бұрын
I remember moving to a new high school and the biology teacher pulled me aside and said she had seen me and my sister smoking outside. I denied it and the teacher doubled down. Finally I said "Call my mom" who knew me and my sister were very against smoking. The teacher backed off but never apologized. She was obviously trying to intimidate me or something because she clearly made it up that she saw me and my sister smoking. Now maybe if she saw someone smoking that looked like me that could have been an honest mistake. But someone that looked like both me AND my sister? Come on now.
@newagehero9605
@newagehero9605 2 ай бұрын
@@stitches318yeah that’s extra not you adding unnecessary details 😂
@Intruderjuice
@Intruderjuice 2 ай бұрын
My mom don’t apologize she just asks if I want dinner 🌚
@notbutters
@notbutters 2 ай бұрын
SAMEE😾
@THE_MANDSTER
@THE_MANDSTER 2 ай бұрын
Just apologizing with dinner 😭
@highsourjamapple9141
@highsourjamapple9141 2 ай бұрын
That's their way of apologizes 😭
@Laylabrooklyn-o2l
@Laylabrooklyn-o2l 2 ай бұрын
Lucky my mom just tell me to go to my room
@sdeal709
@sdeal709 2 ай бұрын
@blueberry_sticks
@blueberry_sticks 2 ай бұрын
black moms and apologizing in the same sentence??? that’s crazy
@highsourjamapple9141
@highsourjamapple9141 2 ай бұрын
Fr we all know they don't say sorry 😭
@SilyneThomas
@SilyneThomas 2 ай бұрын
That part lol😂
@hittrennathompson8286
@hittrennathompson8286 2 ай бұрын
😂
@AmberColeman-gq1wn
@AmberColeman-gq1wn 2 ай бұрын
I always apologize to my son and articulate the issue thoughtfully.
@ajstudios9210
@ajstudios9210 2 ай бұрын
Asian moms are the same apparently. It seems like all POC kids can relate to this.
@marcanthonysalon
@marcanthonysalon 2 ай бұрын
I apologize whenever I'm wrong. It builds trust and helps children understand that we're all fallible. They deserve the same respect that we do.
@JGlass-os5th
@JGlass-os5th 2 ай бұрын
I am a Black mother and admit when I’m wrong AND apologize!
@jazminbendaw5701
@jazminbendaw5701 22 күн бұрын
Yes mam me too... No problem taking accountability
@rosabella4440
@rosabella4440 2 ай бұрын
I never see the beard bc the acting is so spot on 😍
@CynthiaSchoenbauer
@CynthiaSchoenbauer 2 ай бұрын
And the walk from the back is so culturally feminine.
@cassandraodle4794
@cassandraodle4794 2 ай бұрын
Facts
@kat35lulu88
@kat35lulu88 2 ай бұрын
I'm focused on that wig!!!!😮
@SevenTailedWolf72
@SevenTailedWolf72 2 ай бұрын
Right! And I always forget it’s the same person he acts so well I think a multiple actors.
@nessrach6207
@nessrach6207 2 ай бұрын
Fr fr
@Gachamaker-cl9ng
@Gachamaker-cl9ng 2 ай бұрын
I feel bad for dookie😢
@gemlayne1400
@gemlayne1400 2 ай бұрын
Me too ☹
@joannabusinessaccount7293
@joannabusinessaccount7293 2 ай бұрын
@@gemlayne1400me three.
@NikitaHunt
@NikitaHunt 2 ай бұрын
Yeah this is fucked.
@amgooder
@amgooder 2 ай бұрын
I had to take a dookie😢
@davidalvarez4633
@davidalvarez4633 2 ай бұрын
​@@gemlayne1400 Me three 😔
@Dwip_po_po
@Dwip_po_po 2 ай бұрын
My god the door slam, the hits brought PTSD omg
@StephieGsrEvolution
@StephieGsrEvolution 2 ай бұрын
Yes 😓
@lorilyons-pq4wz
@lorilyons-pq4wz 2 ай бұрын
That was too rough😢
@lizrich_von_schwartzman
@lizrich_von_schwartzman 2 ай бұрын
And u screaming, asking them to let u go and saying u sorry 😭😭. Awoke some deep-rooted memories I thought I had locked away for good
@that_random_bunny6152
@that_random_bunny6152 Ай бұрын
Real shit
@lorad.722
@lorad.722 2 ай бұрын
«You want to take a trip to the Bahamas, I buy us a island out there, you know something, just a little som'» 😂😂😂 4:00 🤣🤣🤣
@keepXonXrockin
@keepXonXrockin 2 ай бұрын
That's a harrowingly realistic portrayal of child abuse, god damn
@ActuaIIyCookie
@ActuaIIyCookie 2 ай бұрын
Real
@ActuaIIyCookie
@ActuaIIyCookie 2 ай бұрын
@@boyblue3270 personally I used to want 2 kids but my bodies nervous system reacts by making me pass out whenever I get stuck by any sort or needle, and during pregnancy I would have to go to checkups and they would have to give me needles and iv needles where they leave the needle in my hand and I would pass out 😭😭😭. So no kids for me 🤗
@birdsascarnage
@birdsascarnage 2 ай бұрын
Felt triggered...shit happened to me as a kid once but my mom only apologized 25 years later smh, but that shit still was traumatic extension cord and all.
@morningivy
@morningivy 2 ай бұрын
​@@birdsascarnage My brother ate a special chocolate bar made for my younger cousin that had his picture printed on it. I was 5 and he was 8. My aunt brought us all out in the morning (me, my older brother, and my other older cousin) and asked us to confess. My brother and older cousin insisted they didn't do it. I also said I didn't do it but I wasn't able to defend myself as well because I was 5. She was on the phone with a relative who convinced her to tell me I wouldn't be in trouble if I just said I did it. And naive as I was, I believed her, even though I didn't do it. And she whooped me while my older brother watched and laughed. My brother didn't admit to it until years later. For many years after that I was a pathological liar, until I eventually grew out of it in my late teen years.
@birdsascarnage
@birdsascarnage 2 ай бұрын
@@morningivy I'm so sorry to hear that and what a horrible thing to do...and to a 5 year old? My goodness I hope you are better now 💜
@dobees8183
@dobees8183 2 ай бұрын
This is exactly why so many of us grow up with deep resentment towards our parents. But that's ok, I'll be choosing my mom's rest home....
@StephieGsrEvolution
@StephieGsrEvolution 2 ай бұрын
Mine isn't even getting help with that.
@km4336
@km4336 2 ай бұрын
Lmao 🤣
@chatellemc
@chatellemc 2 ай бұрын
I h-o-l-l-e-r-e-d!!🤣💀🤣💀🤣💀
@mylyfe4382
@mylyfe4382 Ай бұрын
😂😂😂
@frakoton
@frakoton 7 күн бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@mars.b1edits
@mars.b1edits 2 ай бұрын
ik it’s supposed to be a funny video but the screams of getting beat actually made me cry..that awoke some of my trauma ngl..
@rayeeiffel480
@rayeeiffel480 2 ай бұрын
2:37 him breathing like that and barely even being able to speak almost made me cry ngl. Took me back to when I was a child :(
@channelle13ful
@channelle13ful 2 ай бұрын
Yes it is suppose to be a funny video but I hate « seeing » kids or grown people being beaten, i think you can discipline your child without beating 😢, at least that’s what I try with my kids . U take care 🫂
@true4585
@true4585 2 ай бұрын
Same 😕
@JoiannePayne
@JoiannePayne 2 ай бұрын
Agreed!
@Doodle_Inky
@Doodle_Inky 2 ай бұрын
It didn't make me cry but it did make me sad for a bit :/ the video was still good tho
@DaringDasher
@DaringDasher 2 ай бұрын
Not the teacher being the wicked witch of the west 💀
@danielmcpherson799
@danielmcpherson799 2 ай бұрын
Lol fr
@halo-august3452
@halo-august3452 2 ай бұрын
😂
@icyhotpot
@icyhotpot 2 ай бұрын
I'm not even black but the whole apology scene with the saying no to their offers and the hiccup cry always made me cry😭. Always the bribes and we felt for them in the moment but it follows.
@ianthaprosper7898
@ianthaprosper7898 2 ай бұрын
I was brought up like this but I broke the cycle with my son. He is 21 now and very protective of his good mommy.💕💕💕
@Meow_Vibes888
@Meow_Vibes888 2 ай бұрын
Thank you ❤
@MXRX
@MXRX 2 ай бұрын
adopt me
@ianthaprosper7898
@ianthaprosper7898 2 ай бұрын
😂
@igbo_girl
@igbo_girl 2 ай бұрын
This got me in my feelings. Just say "I'm sorry" !!!!!!! I told my husband we aren't parenting the Nigerian way. We will apologize to these kids and no whopping like we were trying to implement capital punishment. Makes me sick!!
@rahelkamber4839
@rahelkamber4839 2 ай бұрын
Love that! I think being physically violent to a child should only ever be done in an absolute emergency situation. I think a lot of people are traumatized from their childhood and don't even know it.
@THE_MANDSTER
@THE_MANDSTER 2 ай бұрын
help the teacher got melted 💀🙏🏾
@highsourjamapple9141
@highsourjamapple9141 2 ай бұрын
Teacher overacting now 😭
@THE_MANDSTER
@THE_MANDSTER 2 ай бұрын
@@highsourjamapple9141 fr like what ‼️
@lilbabiisis
@lilbabiisis 2 ай бұрын
⁠@@highsourjamapple9141right bc why you melting😭🙏
@allenchen2633
@allenchen2633 2 ай бұрын
@@lilbabiisisshe was the wicked witch
@THE_MANDSTER
@THE_MANDSTER 2 ай бұрын
@@lilbabiisis like how did sum water make you melt girlll..
@cloudysupreme9859
@cloudysupreme9859 2 ай бұрын
Abusing and traumatizing your child after something they didn’t do and then not properly apologizing is SICK work 😭😭😭
@corvettetate7557
@corvettetate7557 2 ай бұрын
Umm this was just a skit but you don't have to get mad so MB I don't wanna be in ur business or nothing but still don't get mad over a skit
@MorrisB1971
@MorrisB1971 2 ай бұрын
Must be from the 2000s and beyond. It was discipline not abuse for the most part back in the day. Problem is y'all got these kids telling y'all how to discipline them and being their friends first and parents second
@Robertoni7
@Robertoni7 2 ай бұрын
@@MorrisB1971 I’m before 2000, it was always abusive. That’s what help make an aggressive abusive culture of people.
@christopherbrown5409
@christopherbrown5409 2 ай бұрын
​@corvettetate7557 the skit is based on reality, though, so... yeah.
@IGot7RevtinyArmyStayOnceBlink
@IGot7RevtinyArmyStayOnceBlink 2 ай бұрын
@@MorrisB1971you wonder why these kids were violent asl 😂 it’s y’all mindset the newer gen is now having to fix and learning the best ways. It isn’t over night. Y’all couldn’t unlearn the slave mentality but we are trying .
@PeanutGallery89
@PeanutGallery89 2 ай бұрын
My mother BELIEVED in apologizing to us! As a parent myself I know its important to be humble with children, because she showed humility with me, and she was a black mom!
@Treythedragon
@Treythedragon 2 ай бұрын
My best friend used to send me your videos to cheer me up. He is no longer here anymore. I still come on here to keep my head up high. Thank you for the wonderful memories with my buddy.
@whispermcgaughy7251
@whispermcgaughy7251 2 ай бұрын
There's no apologizing,just your favorite food and no being on punishment.. 🤷🏾‍♀️ This took me back!
@Cravenn5
@Cravenn5 2 ай бұрын
Momma is 🔥 lit with the rainbow 🌈 hair 😂🤣🤣❤️
@notbutters
@notbutters 2 ай бұрын
Frrrr she pulling it off well😭😭
@notbutters
@notbutters 2 ай бұрын
AND THE NAILS TOO 💅
@highsourjamapple9141
@highsourjamapple9141 2 ай бұрын
The hair and nails are so pretty 😭
@delphinecastleberry
@delphinecastleberry 2 ай бұрын
That part!!!
@Amani534
@Amani534 2 ай бұрын
Black moms hate to admit they wrong they just be like “I’m going to the store you wanna come” or “I got food on the stove come eat”
@paulg6527
@paulg6527 2 ай бұрын
I'm Filipino and filipino parents are the same way.
@peytonsassafrass2207
@peytonsassafrass2207 2 ай бұрын
Why did I have damn tears in my eyes watching him trying to stop crying, aw hell I'm to invested in this show😅😅😅
@Hart2HeartPupslove
@Hart2HeartPupslove 2 ай бұрын
This was my mother growing up never admitted she was ever wrong always took us shopping or to the movies to buy our love and her forgiveness
@BibaSenana
@BibaSenana 2 ай бұрын
There was no sorry...no apology....that's shame. . Then parents r suprised that children hate parents when they r getting old .🤦
@yardleyj9391
@yardleyj9391 2 ай бұрын
Agreed
@Gabey28
@Gabey28 2 ай бұрын
Right.
@snail2074
@snail2074 2 ай бұрын
This is why children shouldn't be beaten. Parents can't apologize for something that makes them fear them more than they respect them...
@JiwooBaek
@JiwooBaek 2 ай бұрын
​@@snail2074 Exactly. I also simply find it undesirable to have a relationship containing fear with children. Fear can lead to long-lasting trauma, especially with children. I find it better to have a beautifully nourished relationship built of respect and morals, where discipline is taught verbally rather than violently. I uphold the quote: "Do not commit an action you can not apologize for if wrong, Do not feel fear to apologizing if one has commiting a wrongdoing." It is overall a better experience for both the parent and the child to maintain a positive and mutually respectful relationship. I find it immature for a grown person to be unable to apologize.
@cherylbattle4146
@cherylbattle4146 2 ай бұрын
Shidddd. I would have took that Disney World trip!😂😂
@tanyapeterson7873
@tanyapeterson7873 2 ай бұрын
Give me the Bahamas trip 😂
@cherylbattle4146
@cherylbattle4146 2 ай бұрын
@@tanyapeterson7873, OK. Me too!
@Natasha-uz9je
@Natasha-uz9je 2 ай бұрын
Fr fr lmao 🤣🤣🤣
@Natasha-uz9je
@Natasha-uz9je 2 ай бұрын
​@@tanyapeterson7873But you see how she offered Crab legs OR McDonald's then when he went for the crab legs she was like oh I was hoping you said McDonald's 😂 If he said Bahamas she probably would've offered something different like Tropical smoothie cafe 🙂 she's too funny 🙂
@tanyapeterson7873
@tanyapeterson7873 2 ай бұрын
@@Natasha-uz9je 🤣😂 yupp that's messed up 😁
@msnorringtonsims6536
@msnorringtonsims6536 2 ай бұрын
I got lucky. My mother was never afraid to listen, admit to being wrong or to apologize. Because she was my teacher and how the hell was I gonna learn to take accountability if she didn’t do it herself ❤
@melbaelba5706
@melbaelba5706 2 ай бұрын
​@@HannadayFLOYes. Not everyone has parents that hold themselves accountable. Very fortunate indeed. Smh.
@TrinityTwo
@TrinityTwo 2 ай бұрын
that part
@msnorringtonsims6536
@msnorringtonsims6536 2 ай бұрын
@@HannadayFLO thank you, I know. Whenever my mother compliments me on being a good parent, I always remind her “well, I learned from the best” ❤️
@justjessc
@justjessc 2 ай бұрын
4:27 the singing and harmony jay😍😍😍😍😍
@islahartel9304
@islahartel9304 2 ай бұрын
There’s a difference between abuse and discipline. Discipline is about learning. There’s a lesson. Abuse is about punishment and fear. Also, threatening a child is almost always abusive. Learning the distinction is very important.
@bonsaio815
@bonsaio815 2 ай бұрын
The word "apologize" does NOT exist in a black mothers vocabulary 😭😭
@kathy671
@kathy671 2 ай бұрын
Doesn't exist in an Irish mother either,. I'm 47 years old and I can STILL feel the ass whoopings from my childhood! My mum was never wrong, even when she knew she was!🤣🤣x
@kerrylarry8110
@kerrylarry8110 2 ай бұрын
Child they ain't gone tell you they sorry 😂😂
@annjones9635
@annjones9635 2 ай бұрын
This must be a universal thing; my German mother was quick with the belt and wouldn't say sorry if she was wrong either.
@Kattywagon29
@Kattywagon29 2 ай бұрын
I am so sorry to see how many people in the comments saying that their moms don't apologize. I wonder if any of the black moms in the comments apologize to their own kids though? I know that I went out of my way to be a different parent than what I had when I was growing up. Being able to apologize was on that list. Not spanking out of anger was another. Don't get me wrong, I did spank my kids, but not like what happened in this video. A spanking is not the punishment for everything. If you do that, then it loses it power. I learned that when I was younger to the point where I would decide to do what I wanted because a spanking was just fleeting pain. Most activities/actions that got me in trouble were fun for much longer than a duration of a spanking. 😄 Therefore, I was very judicial in my spankings and was very clear about what earned one when they were little. As they got older, then I got to be creative with punishments and I am sure my kids will tell their kids about those events. LOL
@lpa4058
@lpa4058 2 ай бұрын
​@@Kattywagon29I'm a mom and I'm black. In have apologized to my kids when I'm wrong and I never spanked my kids. Didn't need to...they were well behaved.
@puppy1584
@puppy1584 2 ай бұрын
Bloody hell, seeing his upset body and tears I felt myself well up! 🇬🇧
@notbutters
@notbutters 2 ай бұрын
The acting is always on point❤
@K8mt
@K8mt 2 ай бұрын
Ikr! And the wigs always match the personality 😂
@notbutters
@notbutters 2 ай бұрын
Fr sometimes I forget the beard is there sometimes..it’s that good🙏🏽
@highsourjamapple9141
@highsourjamapple9141 2 ай бұрын
I would watch a movie if he was acting in it 😭
@DementedEscape
@DementedEscape 2 ай бұрын
So happy I could talk to my Black mom. I remember her fondly now that she’s gone.
@janellemendoza3903
@janellemendoza3903 2 ай бұрын
Omg...that acting is dope...and he answers so politely...Mama...😂😂
@dIxIklo85
@dIxIklo85 2 ай бұрын
Politely?! I would much rather think it is fearful but okay
@IStoleYourBreadLmao
@IStoleYourBreadLmao 2 ай бұрын
Anyone else get that refreshing feeling of relief after they just narrowly avoided the belt whooping?
@highsourjamapple9141
@highsourjamapple9141 2 ай бұрын
Yeah, let out a sigh of relief 😭
@thunderj1015
@thunderj1015 2 ай бұрын
Lucky for her he didn't call 911😂
@JadaCarlton
@JadaCarlton 2 ай бұрын
lucky
@yolandaponkers1581
@yolandaponkers1581 2 ай бұрын
I’m genuinely sorry you have to know that feeling. I truly am. Sending you a big hug. ❤
@magicallyme96
@magicallyme96 2 ай бұрын
OMG 😳 YES. sadly it didn’t seem to make me “behave” more I just found more ways to be sneaky. That shit is traumatic..
@Barts90
@Barts90 2 ай бұрын
I was saying STOP STOP because I knew she was allergic. 🎈 😂
@sonquatsch8585
@sonquatsch8585 2 ай бұрын
hilarious
@mr_demby
@mr_demby 2 ай бұрын
Screaming 😂😂😂😂
@bethcushway458
@bethcushway458 2 ай бұрын
I'm a 48 year old white woman from the UK and my mum still acts like this🤣🤣🤣 She went ape shit at me the other day for no reason, walked out of the room then came back half an hour later with a roast chicken and a smile but no apology!🤯😂😩
@chadniradavis7446
@chadniradavis7446 2 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@margaretigiebor7444
@margaretigiebor7444 2 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@kathy671
@kathy671 2 ай бұрын
Are we sister's by any chance, cos I swear your my is my mum?! 🤣
@Leavingthisacc
@Leavingthisacc 2 ай бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣.
@CynthiaSchoenbauer
@CynthiaSchoenbauer 2 ай бұрын
My mother would apologize for a beating by looking for me under the bed and calling me to dinner. ... sweep it under the rug!
@jasonmeckes5311
@jasonmeckes5311 2 ай бұрын
2:25 “Ok gurrr ba ba ba ba bye ba” 😂😂😂
@jdogdizzy12
@jdogdizzy12 3 күн бұрын
This took me downnnn 😭😭😭😭
@bravemoon2124
@bravemoon2124 14 күн бұрын
My heart broke when I heard that beating behind the closed door 😢 too real. I’d never do this to my kid. I prefer to believe the kid and punish him later if I realize he lied, but not like this, this is too harsh… damn… that simple IM SO SORRY I DIDNT BELIEVE YOU IT WILL NEVER HAPPEN AGAIN would be the only thing that poor lad craved to hear! 😢😢😢
@JawbreakerXD
@JawbreakerXD 2 ай бұрын
It's crazy how accurate this is. I told myself the cycle is coming to a SCREECHING HALT if I'm ever blessed with children.
@WillowMurdock
@WillowMurdock Ай бұрын
And just because of that, I pray you are Blessed with children 🤲🏼🥹
@nurarobinson7789
@nurarobinson7789 2 ай бұрын
That’s why you shouldn’t be so quick to whip your kids! Love all of his skits by the way!❤
@Leavingthisacc
@Leavingthisacc 2 ай бұрын
yuppp .
@MargrietS
@MargrietS 2 ай бұрын
you shouldn’t whip them at all.
@IGot7RevtinyArmyStayOnceBlink
@IGot7RevtinyArmyStayOnceBlink 2 ай бұрын
@@MargrietSthat part a lot of them older ones aren’t ready for that convo yet tho 😂.
@tarynthewriter3583
@tarynthewriter3583 2 ай бұрын
@@IGot7RevtinyArmyStayOnceBlink Meh. You gotta get one butt whooping in so they don't turn out like Donald Trump. With all that mouth, he CLEARLY never got popped as a child! 😂
@lifehelp535
@lifehelp535 2 ай бұрын
3:14 Love you Jay!!! Poor Baby 😢 Just applogize Mama.
@CynthiaSchoenbauer
@CynthiaSchoenbauer 2 ай бұрын
And give him a hug.
@happymaskedguy1943
@happymaskedguy1943 2 ай бұрын
Beware of people who don’t apologise. Their narcissism stops them from admitting they were wrong.
@susanking3974
@susanking3974 2 ай бұрын
No one should ever beat a person that way with such a weapon! 😢 That's bizarre! My parents were firm, with stern discipline when needed, & we all six toed the line, but that's just too much.
@aundreanaphiffer3572
@aundreanaphiffer3572 2 ай бұрын
2:30 it’s the crying for me 😂
@THE_MANDSTER
@THE_MANDSTER 2 ай бұрын
It’s Literally me when I’m at the hairdressers house and it’s been like 3 hours 😭
@janethenry3259
@janethenry3259 2 ай бұрын
That would have been me😂
@dani83red
@dani83red 2 ай бұрын
😂😂😂 The hugging himself crying on the bed stutter talking, nailed it!
@Alain7896
@Alain7896 2 ай бұрын
They really do everything EXCEPT say sorry.
@GLGC688
@GLGC688 2 ай бұрын
The way I had to skip past the whoopings. I really hope parents are learning not to abuse their kids these days. That shit was traumatic.
@jessicabarrios4174
@jessicabarrios4174 2 ай бұрын
Such a good actor.. I legit forget that YOURE NOT A woman OR A little 12 year old boy! 😂❤
@jermaine1545
@jermaine1545 2 ай бұрын
Why mama just can’t say “I’m sorry?”…phenomenal acting as usual and very accurate of our mamas
@kevindrake4529
@kevindrake4529 2 ай бұрын
I love the friend that Momma talks to on the phone. Hilarious. And here’s something that I always think is cool about these vids: my own mom was VERY similar…so we all have more in common together than we realize sometimes. My mom would do exactly this…not believe me, get mad, and then never apologize…but she’d ask if I wanted to go to the store and get something. Or she’d make food I liked. It’s crazy to see these Momma videos because it’s like how I grew up too despite being from a different background.
@Issy2226-c6p
@Issy2226-c6p 2 ай бұрын
A parent treating a kid like that can set them up to be abused by others, while believing they are loved. Awful
@kevindrake4529
@kevindrake4529 2 ай бұрын
@@Issy2226-c6p you’re not wrong
@BlueLiminality
@BlueLiminality 2 ай бұрын
@@Issy2226-c6p Exactly. A kid like that grows up, gets into a relationship where they are yelled at or hit, but its okay because the partner brings flowers afterwards.
@donnastewart760
@donnastewart760 2 ай бұрын
The way they say I ma call you back girl 😆
@ashleyleigh28
@ashleyleigh28 2 ай бұрын
Hilarious whenever the mum says “And your ass is STILL lying” 😂
@relic46
@relic46 2 ай бұрын
My parents & grandmother did this too. Extension cords were used along with "I'm going to let you pick your own switch & it better be equal to the one she carried
@ItsB.E.N.I
@ItsB.E.N.I 2 ай бұрын
Lazy parenting
@SpotTheChicken
@SpotTheChicken 2 ай бұрын
Is no one gonna talk about how amazing that transition was at 1:38
@veronicaatkins4417
@veronicaatkins4417 2 ай бұрын
Did she say do you want to go to your favorite store the Walmart ? Lol
@raemo1377
@raemo1377 2 ай бұрын
Yep 😂😂😂😂😂
@earlaweese
@earlaweese 2 ай бұрын
*Wal-Mart ain’t bad, though.*
@NEthericLuxuryCandles
@NEthericLuxuryCandles 2 ай бұрын
My son loves Walmart !! Lol ❤
@malstarrainbow
@malstarrainbow 2 ай бұрын
I’m weak at the Bahamas and Disney world offers!!! 😅😅
@_HELLOKITTY.._
@_HELLOKITTY.._ 2 ай бұрын
The water balloons got meee✋🏾✋🏾😹😹
@Cherizar555
@Cherizar555 16 күн бұрын
I'm black, too, and I grew up among a generation of parents (as a whole) who would never say I'm sorry to their kids. They weren't bad parents; they were just taught differently. For those who did experience hearing their parent (s) say I'm sorry, more power to you!!
@malstarrainbow
@malstarrainbow 2 ай бұрын
That 1:20 brought horrible flashbacks to me. #asswhopped 🥹🥲😟
@rapunzelrose68
@rapunzelrose68 Ай бұрын
Same 😢
@dominoproduction7083
@dominoproduction7083 Ай бұрын
Same
@Cat3465
@Cat3465 Ай бұрын
I know right 😭😭😭
@LuxuriousLenay
@LuxuriousLenay 2 ай бұрын
Lmfaoo the impression of the woman on the phone was too hilarious for meeee😂😂😂
@betterthanemril988
@betterthanemril988 2 ай бұрын
Sounding like a great value version of Maya Angelo 😂
@missmamas23
@missmamas23 2 ай бұрын
“I’m so serrous- ser-ser-seriousness” 🤣🤣🤣🤣
@payt00n
@payt00n 2 ай бұрын
That took me out 😭
@xoticenigma6297
@xoticenigma6297 2 ай бұрын
She offered to buy him an island in the Bahamas after giving that child straight up PTSD 😂
@rominn2184
@rominn2184 2 ай бұрын
LOL ain’t that right.
@lindadunlap4281
@lindadunlap4281 2 ай бұрын
This man is Genius! He had me in tears! So glad her abused son got her in the end.
@SarahForbes-wm4gk
@SarahForbes-wm4gk 8 күн бұрын
“Her ass did melted” lol 😅😅😅😅😂😂😂😂
@jasmines6468
@jasmines6468 2 ай бұрын
Teacher done melted. Got damn
@emeraldkaysgarden
@emeraldkaysgarden 2 ай бұрын
*"Oh !I was hoping you were going to say McDonald's "* 😂😂😂 Momma, sorry, but not crab legs, sorry 😂😂😂❤
@twincesseszeigler4366
@twincesseszeigler4366 2 ай бұрын
2:37 The crying part is the most realistic to me.
@rere2tact
@rere2tact 2 ай бұрын
real
@jenniferdaniels2413
@jenniferdaniels2413 2 ай бұрын
"Oh, sh*t..." laid me OUT.
@iheartshaneandjeffree
@iheartshaneandjeffree 2 ай бұрын
All the KZbin awards in the case. Much deserved 🖤
@cookwithnita909
@cookwithnita909 2 ай бұрын
“I was hoping you was gon say McDonalds” 😂😂😂
@jacobsgrl1
@jacobsgrl1 2 ай бұрын
Not do you want me to buy you an island 🏝️😂😂😂😂
@Wtfpurelunacy
@Wtfpurelunacy 2 ай бұрын
I make a concerted effort to apologize to my kids when I’m wrong cuz I hated getting in trouble for nothing growing up.
@kittenface8577
@kittenface8577 19 күн бұрын
The voice on the phone always cracks me up in these,when the mom is talking to her friend 😂
@phillippia
@phillippia 2 ай бұрын
Getting hit between words as Mom is narrating the beating…this is true life. Memories. 😂
@iheartshaneandjeffree
@iheartshaneandjeffree 2 ай бұрын
The voice on the phone 💀💀 I cannot breathe lmao
@jackieprasek179
@jackieprasek179 2 ай бұрын
I love the pouty way you say Mamaaaa😊
@JadaCarlton
@JadaCarlton 2 ай бұрын
There's never an apology....
@CynthiaSchoenbauer
@CynthiaSchoenbauer 2 ай бұрын
No parent ever apologizes anyway. There is too much of a backlog to even get started!
@prettyinpinky5937
@prettyinpinky5937 2 ай бұрын
My heart is broken for Dookie!
@karenbrown4294
@karenbrown4294 2 ай бұрын
I am a white , middle class, 50 year old woman from England in the UK. Bloody hell, I love these videos ❤ they are so real, but so funny
@lyricplayzz
@lyricplayzz 2 ай бұрын
"I was born last night at the back of a club! But certainly not last night!" 😂😂😂😂
@dianetate5274
@dianetate5274 2 ай бұрын
Girl I just had a flashback 😂
@blackdiamond696
@blackdiamond696 2 ай бұрын
The teacher got melted with water? Guess she never take a bath.😅😅
@DR3itmatters
@DR3itmatters 2 ай бұрын
Wicked witch of the west!! That's what I went by when I taught lmao😂😂😂
@andreaharris4683
@andreaharris4683 2 ай бұрын
I'm CRYING
@darryljones7100
@darryljones7100 2 ай бұрын
That is so funny because it’s so real!!! Well done. I needed a laugh. Losing loved ones ain’t easy. Thank you.
@angelallave7207
@angelallave7207 2 ай бұрын
Ok why I almost cried . Every time he said mama
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