How Couples Meet? Data from 1930 to 2024

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@DataIsBeautifulOfficial
@DataIsBeautifulOfficial 4 ай бұрын
The turbulence of data in 2020 and 2021 was largely influenced by the global pandemic and the restrictions on freedom of movement during this period.
@mm-1965
@mm-1965 4 ай бұрын
Wróć do poprzedniego podkładu muzycznego.
@Manorainjan
@Manorainjan 4 ай бұрын
What I basically see ist the decline of the family. 😞 The fabric of society is falling apart in the USA. Good visualization of a sad development. Any other statistics that can visualize the "devide and rule" tendencies?
@ExtradaemonYT
@ExtradaemonYT 4 ай бұрын
Can you link to the data in your description? You can say "Based on a paper from X", but if you're not providing the paper how are we supposed to know how accurate it is?
@coledakers6127
@coledakers6127 4 ай бұрын
1:36
@FRN2013
@FRN2013 4 ай бұрын
How do you define "couple" here? Married? Long-term dating? Just started dating?
@libertycommentator
@libertycommentator 4 ай бұрын
I’ve never seen Internet Explorer go so fast before!
@DataIsBeautifulOfficial
@DataIsBeautifulOfficial 4 ай бұрын
lol
@Carpediem0781
@Carpediem0781 4 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂Hilarious and so true
@eironn__
@eironn__ 4 ай бұрын
That took years tho
@rayzersharpp
@rayzersharpp 4 ай бұрын
@@eironn__delete your comment plz 🙏
@eironn__
@eironn__ 4 ай бұрын
@@rayzersharpp womp womp
@loboeningles4641
@loboeningles4641 4 ай бұрын
I matched with a woman on a dating app, and we grabbed lunch together. The next day, she told me I was a great guy but there wasn’t any chemistry. But, she thought I’d be perfect for her sister. So a few days later, I went on my first date with her sister. Eight months later, we got engaged, and this summer, we got hitched.
@macperaltasantiago
@macperaltasantiago 4 ай бұрын
That’s awesome & congrats! She was a great wingman!
@fedem14
@fedem14 4 ай бұрын
damn engaged after only 8 months??
@elChiwi21
@elChiwi21 4 ай бұрын
Bro, it’s too early to get married with that person. You need more time to know about her, not only 8 months
@Chris-bz9pg
@Chris-bz9pg 4 ай бұрын
@@elChiwi21you talk as if you knew anything about them. Don’t give advice on a situation you have no clue about lol
@OuterSpace90
@OuterSpace90 4 ай бұрын
Wow that alley oop was better than Jordan. Nice!
@leviathan4579
@leviathan4579 4 ай бұрын
In 25 years couples meeting via Internet grew from 3,5% to 61%. Its crazy in which a short amount of time the internet changed our lifes forewer.
@shockenfreude
@shockenfreude 3 ай бұрын
forever and for the worse. the internet was a mistake.
@annanowak9620
@annanowak9620 3 ай бұрын
​@@shockenfreudeit wasnt a miatake. I am glad it was invented
@BlackRose369.
@BlackRose369. 3 ай бұрын
​@@annanowak9620nah, only a handful can deal with it responsibly. The rest should go back to church.
@BlackRose369.
@BlackRose369. 3 ай бұрын
​@@shockenfreudemost peo0le have weak strength of character and tge internet proved it.
@sire_99
@sire_99 3 ай бұрын
​@@shockenfreude yes
@titanfall3084
@titanfall3084 4 ай бұрын
Guess I need to switch to Internet Explorer
@DataIsBeautifulOfficial
@DataIsBeautifulOfficial 4 ай бұрын
haha good one!
@futureferrarimusic
@futureferrarimusic 4 ай бұрын
Its Edge now so everyone can start Edging!
@WoWGeleto
@WoWGeleto 4 ай бұрын
IE RiP is replaced by Edge.
@An_ony_mous
@An_ony_mous 4 ай бұрын
It's Edge. 😂
@CantastorieStonato
@CantastorieStonato 4 ай бұрын
Best comment ever. I switched browser and in a day I found the love of my life XD
@discountinuedchannelarnaud8392
@discountinuedchannelarnaud8392 4 ай бұрын
Gotta pay respect to the 0.01% of couples who met online in 1981
@DataIsBeautifulOfficial
@DataIsBeautifulOfficial 4 ай бұрын
Mad respect to the ones who were sliding into DMs before the internet even knew what it was. True digital love pioneers!
@uuuultra
@uuuultra 4 ай бұрын
that was the beginning
@aussiewanderer6304
@aussiewanderer6304 4 ай бұрын
They planted flags so others could lay pipe.
@yamahamer89
@yamahamer89 4 ай бұрын
Nerds
@BDKing-hh7pk
@BDKing-hh7pk 4 ай бұрын
beginnging of the disaster.
@JamesMThayer
@JamesMThayer 4 ай бұрын
Met my wife while hiking. She slipped while climbing a waterfall and I caught her :)
@consistentialist
@consistentialist 4 ай бұрын
that is so beautiful. doing something that shows your courage and your care for others even when you don't know them 😊
@o_KingOfKings_o
@o_KingOfKings_o 3 ай бұрын
This sht is more romantic than the titanic
@sunflowerpainter
@sunflowerpainter 3 ай бұрын
My boyfriend saved me while a man harassed me at the train station !! You guys entered our lives by saving us, that's quite amazing ;)) Wishing the best to you and your wife !!🤞🏻☀️
@XeenimChoorch-nx8wx
@XeenimChoorch-nx8wx 3 ай бұрын
@JamesMThayer Are you guys King Salmon or pink salmon? Not many animals can climb up waterfalls! Gives new meaning to Roe v. Wade
@oscarenbeta4793
@oscarenbeta4793 3 ай бұрын
Im going to cry this is so beatifull😢😭
@poketopa1234
@poketopa1234 4 ай бұрын
I’m very surprised by the low percentage of folks who meet in school or college
@DataIsBeautifulOfficial
@DataIsBeautifulOfficial 4 ай бұрын
More opportunities elsewhere these days.
@mandisaw
@mandisaw 4 ай бұрын
Even in the 60s/70s onward, if folks met in HS or college, they'd still get married after graduation. "In School" here means teen marriage, and that's been declining across the board for decades as both women & men got more access to job/social opportunities & education. You also have to figure that college only had a brief period where the gender-ratios were pretty even (mid-80s to mid-00s), and that still doesn't apply to all schools. Most folks are straight/cishet, so if there aren't a lot of the desired-gender folks around, then maybe you can date, but the pickings for long-term relationships are few.
@nopmonhatman4012
@nopmonhatman4012 4 ай бұрын
Bullshit, bisexual or homosexual sexuality were always a minority even in present society when it comes to even relationships. Top Colleges also always had a minority enrollment requirements and biases, ask how many people in America met in college? Not that much cause everyone is too busy getting laid instead of being responsible (40% of babies are born out of wedlock), humans are merely animals and animals were never responsible even with better education opportunities.
@williampilling2168
@williampilling2168 4 ай бұрын
​@mandisaw The criteria here though is meet, not get married. I know people who are married and met in high school, but they certainly didn't get married in high school. Heck, I met my wife in high school, and we re met years later on FB.
@snjezanakristo6048
@snjezanakristo6048 4 ай бұрын
Men don't go to college nowadays, which is embarrassing how they lack ambition because patriarchy has given them all the power and opportunities and they are too lazy to use it, but would rather live off a woman.
@unjust7156
@unjust7156 4 ай бұрын
Awesome, now I wanna know which one of those categories had relationships lasting the longest.
@DataIsBeautifulOfficial
@DataIsBeautifulOfficial 4 ай бұрын
Good question!
@mandisaw
@mandisaw 4 ай бұрын
That analysis exists - no correlation. These are couples generally, not only marriages, but whether/how they end tends to correlate more with age at marriage, education/income level, family-size, and over a time-scale like this, generation (in terms of what the legal/social context was). Interestingly, in the 1930s-90s, way more people casually dated and formed couples apart from marriage than now, even if they didn't/couldn't live together. In the 2000s, you get less of both casual dating *and* couple-formation, and more of the folks who actually do form couples tend to live together and/or get formally married.
@achi_top
@achi_top 4 ай бұрын
Online dater teens in 2024 break up 3 times a month 💀 Yet they don't care Or at least that's how my online friends are like.
@achi_top
@achi_top 4 ай бұрын
@@Braingore-de-Rais it aint
@sandasturner9529
@sandasturner9529 4 ай бұрын
Good idea
@davidwright1115
@davidwright1115 4 ай бұрын
While this graph shows how couples now meet, what it fails to tell you is the percentage of people actually entering into relationships has actually plummetted….namely due to the internet, ironically
@DataIsBeautifulOfficial
@DataIsBeautifulOfficial 4 ай бұрын
That's the theme for another video.
@That_Russel_Pup
@That_Russel_Pup 3 ай бұрын
Yeah, I swear while I'm in High School with no dating experience (mostly bc my parents will let me date after collage) meanwhile these fun sized Middle schoolers have more ex-bfs/gfs than both my parents combined 💀
@thenewmuslims9421
@thenewmuslims9421 Ай бұрын
@@That_Russel_Pup and they have already tasted many ex gfs and bfs lol.
@Fankas2000
@Fankas2000 13 күн бұрын
We are going thorough a new filter. A large percentage of the current population will never reproduce, leaving the next generations to be more adapted to the always online age.
@umaguria1384
@umaguria1384 3 күн бұрын
and it also became globalization, where communication connects the entire world the number of foreigners marrying foreigners has increased dramatically I am from Brazil, I was surprised that many people here have dated argentines, colombians, chileans and other border countries, the internet is very powerful It seems very interesting to me, you can choose the lifestyle and culture that fits your profile, the internet does this for you It won't be long before polyglots become common in 2040 and it will be useless for curriculum
@PabloGonzalez-hv3td
@PabloGonzalez-hv3td 4 ай бұрын
People used to lie if they met on the internet as it was considered embarrassing.
@maboilaurence8227
@maboilaurence8227 4 ай бұрын
I Mean so was buying stuff online before Ebay and Amazon got popular, everyone was super afraid it was all scam, especially in Europe.
@sirsnypz
@sirsnypz 4 ай бұрын
i still find it hella cringe if you do that and im gen z
@IVANAFRANCISCASKORIN
@IVANAFRANCISCASKORIN 4 ай бұрын
Me, here. I met my ex boyfriend vía Facebook and i lied to my family saying that we met by a common friend
@Grass_rock-kb7gi
@Grass_rock-kb7gi 4 ай бұрын
​@@sirsnypz The fact that you think it's cringe is insane
@dm-jf5uu
@dm-jf5uu 4 ай бұрын
It was I knew a woman back in the day she met a guy online she talked to him for 2 years online when they met he looked different and was weird.anyway I used to think of how weird it was to meet people online it all happened in 2000
@cahoros8244
@cahoros8244 4 ай бұрын
I had just played a concert at the local presidential library where he was a guest. He passed me in the halls and said, “If I could whistle, I would,” which was his way of hitting on me. I laughed it off, we didn’t chat, and I went on with my day. A few weeks later, he showed up at the rehearsal space as a new symphony member and introduced himself properly that night. Since then, we haven’t gone a day without talking. It’s been 17.5 years.
@jacobhultberg586
@jacobhultberg586 4 ай бұрын
disappointingly, a woman with the mindset of now would have just scoffed at him and moved on. because she knows she can meet 30 other, more attractive guys online.
@mandisaw
@mandisaw 4 ай бұрын
@@jacobhultberg586 Telling jokes (which is what he did) and having a shared interest/profession (which they do) are both still great foundations for a friendship or romance. First step is having some basic understanding of women as people, which you might be lacking.
@jacobhultberg586
@jacobhultberg586 4 ай бұрын
@@mandisaw no, I'm just bitter and deluded from seeing and reading too much bullshit online and from having a shit life.
@mandisaw
@mandisaw 4 ай бұрын
@@jacobhultberg586 Online != Reality, thankfully. And life has an ebb & flow, it can be crappy for yrs, then good for yrs, and back to crappy. No need to weather the waves alone, get some help if you need it - good luck to you brother.
@smithsunleashed
@smithsunleashed 4 ай бұрын
@@jacobhultberg586so what dude? That’s how different people respond to others.
@landonhagan450
@landonhagan450 4 ай бұрын
Crazy how online is so prominent despite being so horrible. Convenience is a helluva drug.
@Jurgium
@Jurgium 3 ай бұрын
I mean, it's only considered horrible because of the online experience itself. Once you're in person, it's no worse than meeting randomly without someone setting you up.
@radawz
@radawz 3 ай бұрын
​@@TheShanoGamerPlaysThat's the fault of people and society and not of the apps though. Online dating isn't perfect by any means, but if someone needs to get incentivised with anything else than the prospect of meeting a potentially compatible person (for friendship, a bit more of that, or an eventful relationship), which is already there with any forms of meeting - online included -, then I would point the finger to that person's ideas and intensions. Some amazing people out there to meet even with the help of online options and they tend to be the ones who aren't faking who they are, who don't hate on the apps, but instead enjoying the date from the get go and actually make an effort to connect with another human being. Then afterward it's just a question of compabiltity, circumstances and life goals. Which of course still makes dating a challenge, but that's normal I would say.
@stewiegriffinfan18
@stewiegriffinfan18 3 ай бұрын
@@radawzthe issue is that 80% of women go for 10% of men
@larrycoleman9513
@larrycoleman9513 3 ай бұрын
@kathleencove True. You can find out alot about a person by doing a google search, asking them, or asking about them through other people.
@declaracionespolemicas
@declaracionespolemicas 3 ай бұрын
​@@stewiegriffinfan18 Men admit to swiping right on every single woman in dating apps because they're that desperate to hook up, yet complain when women have too many options and are forced to get overly selective😂 What do you expect when you contribute you create the problem?
@bridgecross
@bridgecross 4 ай бұрын
Watching "In Bar" climb steadily through the 50s, 60s, 70s, 80s, then rapidly dropping around 1990. Yep.
@yashaswinikrishnan1878
@yashaswinikrishnan1878 4 ай бұрын
what do you think is the reason
@EmisoraRadioPatio
@EmisoraRadioPatio 4 ай бұрын
Because “bars” like those no longer exist. Now they blast music and sell really expensive drinks.
@yashaswinikrishnan1878
@yashaswinikrishnan1878 4 ай бұрын
@@EmisoraRadioPatio im sorry im a person born in 2004. how else are bars supposed to be? i have no clue
@EmisoraRadioPatio
@EmisoraRadioPatio 4 ай бұрын
​@@yashaswinikrishnan1878 Bars used to be places where working--class people hanged after work, knew the bartender and other attendees over many years. They talked about their lives, cracked jokes, had deep and not-so-deep conversations. Sometimes even formed their own sports teams. It was kinda like a club. The music was people's conversations; no blasting music, so people could actually talk. Drinks were a lot cheaper; you could spend hours there, several times a week. Not as much drugs like today. It was the working man's place. One of my uncle still has a close circle of drinking buddies from a bar; they've known each other for decades and are like brothers.
@AlbertBalbastreMorte
@AlbertBalbastreMorte 4 ай бұрын
​@@yashaswinikrishnan1878 social hubs, with regular talking.
@dimalisovyk5277
@dimalisovyk5277 4 ай бұрын
Omg. Percentage of online meets surprised me a lot. I expected it to be big, but not so much
@DataIsBeautifulOfficial
@DataIsBeautifulOfficial 4 ай бұрын
Smartphones.
@mandisaw
@mandisaw 4 ай бұрын
You also have to compare against the # of couples formed in that year. More of the population paired-off in prior decades - many folks now don't even date, let alone form couples.
@marcosfraguela
@marcosfraguela 4 ай бұрын
Also, that percentage seems to be still growing!
@dulnithdewasurendre4202
@dulnithdewasurendre4202 4 ай бұрын
I'll say its not this high. Its just a survey so not completely accurate, and I believe other methods have higher percentage that shows in this video
@uuuultra
@uuuultra 4 ай бұрын
online is for peeps with no rizz 😂
@katarzynap.7434
@katarzynap.7434 13 күн бұрын
I met my husband in hospital in 1985, one day after I was born :) He was 8 and came to the hospital with his dad, my dad and my brothers to see me - our mums were best friends :D
@DataIsBeautifulOfficial
@DataIsBeautifulOfficial 13 күн бұрын
Oh wow
@DressingUpDollyLady
@DressingUpDollyLady Күн бұрын
frickin awesome. I smiled right away when I read your comment @Katarzynap
@_UPRC
@_UPRC 4 ай бұрын
I just sat here watching the whole video, staring at the bottom intently, and saying to myself, "Waaaaaait for it... waaaaaait for it!"
@DanielaBodoh
@DanielaBodoh 4 ай бұрын
Same 😂
@borstenpinsel
@borstenpinsel 4 ай бұрын
"Weird, how people didn't meet online... oh we're still in the 60s"😅
@cutelilbanana
@cutelilbanana 4 ай бұрын
😂
@alyssajones4368
@alyssajones4368 4 ай бұрын
For real 😂
@Depressedweeboo
@Depressedweeboo 4 ай бұрын
And boi then it went FAST
@DarkManBeatzUrFace
@DarkManBeatzUrFace 4 ай бұрын
Feels boring meeting someone online id rather meet them in real life
@aim-for-greatn3z947
@aim-for-greatn3z947 4 ай бұрын
Well... good luck cold approaching in this feminist climate 🤣🤣🤣🤣 Funny enough all my personal success was cold approaching but those times women were different
@helenefrench4275
@helenefrench4275 4 ай бұрын
I could not agree more. It s so superficial :( Trust yourself and let love come to you.
@Conetc
@Conetc 4 ай бұрын
Who cares as long as you meet the most amazing person in the world
@Li_Shorts_Ent
@Li_Shorts_Ent 4 ай бұрын
@@aim-for-greatn3z947you sound stupid and pressed. 😂 women leveled up and now men don’t have such easy access and they have things to prove because women now have rights and jobs😂 we can fend for ourselves 😂
@Li_Shorts_Ent
@Li_Shorts_Ent 4 ай бұрын
@@aim-for-greatn3z947you are an idiot 😂
@1f3rn
@1f3rn 24 күн бұрын
I tried online dating for about 13 years trying to find a relationship. Today I'm 38 years old and still single with no kids. You see a lot.
@Fouilla
@Fouilla 21 күн бұрын
الله يدبر رزقك لاتقلق
@flouserschird
@flouserschird 4 ай бұрын
This video explains why I’m still single. Using 2012 mindsets and data in a 2024 world. 😢
@elmoworld850
@elmoworld850 4 ай бұрын
I do too. I've had bad experiences using dating apps.
@germanmadness
@germanmadness 4 ай бұрын
Just go outside and touch some grass you will definitely get a girl in some way or somehow.
@GamingAndCollecting7
@GamingAndCollecting7 4 ай бұрын
You must be have 16-18 years or student with this comment. Better be alone, when you alone you have small problems, no stress with various quarrels and have a lot of time for yourself! Girls in this time is like a child when you are with them. Other things you do with a girl at home (in private) are disgusting in real life, they are not as they are presented on the Internet. ☑️☑️☑️
@MiguelAngel-vt4ge
@MiguelAngel-vt4ge 4 ай бұрын
Online dating sucks
@seth3491
@seth3491 4 ай бұрын
Dating apps used to be considered cringe. Now they're they norm. And the average man is going to have a terrible experience on them. Dark days ahead!
@xenius7770
@xenius7770 4 ай бұрын
It's so sad to see online meetings being the monopoly.
@A.I.P519
@A.I.P519 4 ай бұрын
Agreed!
@cosmikpowa3133
@cosmikpowa3133 3 ай бұрын
I don't get it : / Not only is it way easier to communicate and call quits early on if you see red flags, you can become intimate with way more varied and like-minded people, while without it you could become stuck searching forever in the limits of your own neighborhood. As far as stuff online goes, this seems like one of it's positive parts.
@ZealousWins
@ZealousWins 3 ай бұрын
Well, people around me suck. So what else can I do...
@theCatsitter878
@theCatsitter878 3 ай бұрын
It is!
@elbladel
@elbladel 3 ай бұрын
Now show the data of how many children are being born and we'll see the correlation 🤭
@StickToTheWallGuy
@StickToTheWallGuy 15 күн бұрын
Me and my girl met 2019 at church and its going great❤
@luk4422
@luk4422 4 ай бұрын
This depressed me. Am I wrong or is online dating so disgusting for me alone?
@Timico1000
@Timico1000 4 ай бұрын
What's disgusting about meeting online? Met my wife in 2001 via "Chatworld", then in real life some weeks later. We're now married for 19 years.
@RoobehTunes
@RoobehTunes 4 ай бұрын
It's not for me either!
@Kim-e4g4w
@Kim-e4g4w 4 ай бұрын
I prefer to meet people face-to-face just like humanity has done for generations. No wonder we got a MAJOR depression wave with people being single against their choice. Social media is a curse. I hope we can return to the old ways when people talked to each other and have laughter and fun together.
@Timico1000
@Timico1000 4 ай бұрын
@@Kim-e4g4w I don't know what you mean. First contact was online, a short while after that we phoned several times and three months later we met in "real life". Without the online chat we never would have met in the first place. And as we are both quite introvert we probably would have stayed singles, maybe our whole life. I don't think that this would have be better than meeting your partner for life online.
@King_gurgler
@King_gurgler 4 ай бұрын
Because it goes against tradition and god
@thesimcololiofficial
@thesimcololiofficial 2 ай бұрын
My mom accidentally entered my dad's personal website while she was using a computer in the university's library. My mom then used the info on that website to emailed my dad saying she was impressed by his website. A year later, my mom graduated and traveled to my dad's city to work and met him. 6 days later will be my parents' 20th wedding anniversary 🎉😊
@DataIsBeautifulOfficial
@DataIsBeautifulOfficial 2 ай бұрын
Awesome!
@ianimations1656
@ianimations1656 4 ай бұрын
This just made me depressed
@luk4422
@luk4422 4 ай бұрын
Same boat
@EdKolis
@EdKolis 4 ай бұрын
Would be interesting to add a "still single" bar to the chart! I'm sure you're not alone...
@libervitaexaltis4551
@libervitaexaltis4551 4 ай бұрын
True. I dislike online dating and apps and was still holding out hope that I'd meet someone somewhere irl Then I realised there's actually nowhere to meet people anymore.
@ianimations1656
@ianimations1656 4 ай бұрын
@@libervitaexaltis4551 I'm right there with ya dawg, I live in a town with a population of 1,100 and the average age here is in the high 40's. The only regular social event happening around here is church.
@reza0310
@reza0310 4 ай бұрын
Same...
@ДОМЗАМИЛЛИОН-н1л
@ДОМЗАМИЛЛИОН-н1л 4 ай бұрын
We met through World of Warcraft, where we raided together. Eventually, we decided to meet in person. We've been together for 12 years and married for the last 5.
@NightTimeDay
@NightTimeDay 4 ай бұрын
if the data went back far enough, traditional raids would be surpassed by WoW raids as a means to find a wife.
@MAGNETO-i1i
@MAGNETO-i1i 4 ай бұрын
Whats a ride?
@ripandtear
@ripandtear 4 ай бұрын
ah yes, spoils of war. "Traditional raids"...​@@NightTimeDay
@ripandtear
@ripandtear 4 ай бұрын
@@angelmihaylov6888 edgelord, have you never attended a wedding? What part of til death do us part that's so hard to understand ( He said along the lines of "how do you guys stay together for that long, I could never")
@maryn4150
@maryn4150 4 ай бұрын
so cute
@danielaf1487
@danielaf1487 3 ай бұрын
I met my husband online in 2003, when only 5% of couples met that way - WOW, we were kind of pioneers, I had no idea! 😅
@DataIsBeautifulOfficial
@DataIsBeautifulOfficial 3 ай бұрын
Trendsetter vibes!
@danielaf1487
@danielaf1487 3 ай бұрын
@@DataIsBeautifulOfficial - Yes, and we didn't know it at the time! We just thought maybe the internet offered more opportunities of meeting new people than common friends or work. 21 years later, we're still married and have a teenage son and daughter!
@DataIsBeautifulOfficial
@DataIsBeautifulOfficial 3 ай бұрын
You basically beta-tested online dating and ended up with a lifelong subscription, plus two bonus members.
@danielaf1487
@danielaf1487 3 ай бұрын
@@DataIsBeautifulOfficial - 😆❤️
@olivier7774
@olivier7774 4 ай бұрын
Proud to be an online dating veteran! :-) I was webmaster of a very small French site back in 1999 (the internet was not at all widespread in France at that time), and it was through an email about my site that I met the woman who would become my wife. 25 years later she is still there!
@erikpetersen-chinguacousys1943
@erikpetersen-chinguacousys1943 4 ай бұрын
yeah also an online vet here, too. I met my first girlfriend online in early 1993 (via BBS). I got to know her through the BBS and phone calls and became quite enamoured, without having ANY idea of what she looked like. (There was no way to send pics or photos.) We finally met in person and, well, there was no physical attraction let's just say, and it didn't last very long. According to the data in the vid, I guess I was less than 1% of people!
@TaxingIsThieving
@TaxingIsThieving 4 ай бұрын
What did she say?
@momohime1513
@momohime1513 4 ай бұрын
Quel était le nom du site (ou juste sur quoi portait le site si tu veux garder le nom privé :p) ?
@kelmadeit
@kelmadeit 23 күн бұрын
another online vet. We met in 1997 still together 27 years later.
@leonel9110
@leonel9110 4 ай бұрын
I have no friends this explains everything
@gabrielblaquart9852
@gabrielblaquart9852 4 ай бұрын
Go out 🙏
@N0Xa880iUL
@N0Xa880iUL 4 ай бұрын
​@@gabrielblaquart9852 No
@DanielEarlester
@DanielEarlester 4 ай бұрын
Got a computer though 😉
@An_ony_mous
@An_ony_mous 4 ай бұрын
​@@DanielEarlesterI have a computer but I'm afraid of men pretending like women on those apps. That's horrible. 😅
@psychoterrorV
@psychoterrorV 4 ай бұрын
​@@An_ony_mous you're kinda delusional. There is not so many people that want to make bad things to you.
@elchevy85
@elchevy85 12 күн бұрын
I met my girl on a plane. I spotted her at the airport in the check-in lineup. We made eye contact and parted ways. Without knowing, we were assigned seats in consecutive rows. When the plane landed, she handed off her phone with her number. I'm so proud of having a real story and not falling into the online bullshit.
@Manabook-vf9cg
@Manabook-vf9cg 9 күн бұрын
Awesome man I’m happy for you 🙂‍↕️
@Bunnybananabunny
@Bunnybananabunny 4 ай бұрын
Wait... 60% of couples meet online?! That doesn't seem right.
@paul4381
@paul4381 4 ай бұрын
Yeah I didn't realize it was that much. Never got in a couple tho so I can understand why they end up doing this xD
@emmalinemay
@emmalinemay 4 ай бұрын
I think in that year. So 60% of couples who got together in 2024
@peerless77
@peerless77 4 ай бұрын
dating app propaganda. just look at the share price of match group. it fell off a cliff, back to 2017 levels. they likely fund biased studies to keep their shareholders happy. but the data is fake leading to poor profits from their dating apps as not as many people are using online dating as they claim. Then their stocks get sold off crashing the price back to reality.
@An_ony_mous
@An_ony_mous 4 ай бұрын
In India all arranged marriages happen through matrimonial websites online. 😂
@kevtb874
@kevtb874 4 ай бұрын
It's 2024. 10-15 years you would have been right. Pre Covid you would have been right Before smartphones became the norm you would have been right. Before online dating grew and became an accepted social norm you would have been right. Times change. Just like how people get hooked into social media apps because you have to in order to keep in the loop. The same is now the case for dating. If 50% of the dating pool are using dating apps you have to play the game or miss out.
@EviLlDucK
@EviLlDucK 4 ай бұрын
I met my girl in the church in 2024, very low chances but worked :)
@dcookou
@dcookou 4 ай бұрын
Good place to be regardless. God bless!
@TaxingIsThieving
@TaxingIsThieving 4 ай бұрын
Wow!
@shanewright4650
@shanewright4650 4 ай бұрын
Oh wow. That's great.
@MetalSlimeDrummer
@MetalSlimeDrummer 4 ай бұрын
How did you make that happen? I feel a certain kind of way about stepping into a new church congregation, going there for my faith, then sweeping up one of the cute girls as a dating prospect.. how do you even ask out a woman at church when you’re both there to worship god? Or is this not a Christian church youre talking about
@EviLlDucK
@EviLlDucK 4 ай бұрын
@@MetalSlimeDrummer Yes, it is a Christian church, Catholic... We met while we were serving in a spiritual retreat, and a good thing in Brazil is that people make friends easily when are in the same context, so we made friends because we were in the same working function... after 3 days I started to feel something more than just friends for her and I decided to tell her what I was feeling... Her first reaction was saying are you crazy? hahaha, she wasnt expecting that... Then I started talking about other things and later on I asked her again, and this time she said that she felt we had a connection, but if it was for us to get along, we must prey before, then I took her phone number, we started to talk to eachother everyday by Whatsapp and video calls, and then the feeling started raising on both of us, we went out on a date and then we are together now! But I strongly believed that its was God who made it happen, I preyed very much for God help me to find someone to be with!
@thebmkav
@thebmkav 4 ай бұрын
Amazing insight. Next do a representation of the same categories, showing not only how couples meet, but whether they stick together/get married or whatever yardstick represents "success" in a relationships vs simply how they met.
@ndbeauty74
@ndbeauty74 Ай бұрын
Нет корелляции, интернет лишь способ знакомства, а на пару влияет слишком много фактов.
@elsinaattheworkshop
@elsinaattheworkshop 17 күн бұрын
​@ndbeauty74Yeah but catfishing is a huge thing on the internet so there's a lot of breakups since you can pretend to be a different person online but not in real life. A vid from the 2000 or so till now would do.
@stripstick
@stripstick 4 ай бұрын
Where's the "random encounter in person" option? 😢
@ifpjvl
@ifpjvl 4 ай бұрын
Sucks
@mandisaw
@mandisaw 4 ай бұрын
It gets attributed to whatever you were doing at the time - if you were bowling, and met someone new there, you'd say you met while bowling (bar/entertainment). Generally folks aren't just standing around waiting for random encounters, like Pokemon LOL
@Kayther33
@Kayther33 4 ай бұрын
I found a girl with a ❓ on top of her head, i talked to her and after some missions became my girlfriend
@germanmadness
@germanmadness 4 ай бұрын
Not happening 🥲
@stripstick
@stripstick 4 ай бұрын
@@mandisaw Oh yeah, so where does met in a bookstore go? Met on a bus? A grocery store? There's a lot of situations that don't fall into the categories in the video. Like meeting your gf actually playing PokemonGo lol
@TheCuteLittleDoggy
@TheCuteLittleDoggy 4 ай бұрын
Our parents always taught us never to talk to strangers, yet here we are.... going to meet strangers from the Internet 😂
@josiestubbs4468
@josiestubbs4468 4 ай бұрын
I’ve been thinking that for ages 🤣
@AScholarsVlog
@AScholarsVlog 4 ай бұрын
Xd
@aurora6920
@aurora6920 4 ай бұрын
This is why I am scared to go on a date with a stranger I met online. You don't know who you are letting into your life and giving personal details to (by personal details i meant like job, area you live in etc)
@AScholarsVlog
@AScholarsVlog 4 ай бұрын
@@aurora6920 Agreed 👍
@doompunk64
@doompunk64 4 ай бұрын
@@aurora6920if you do meet someone online, pick a public place like a mall where there’s no readily available alcohol around and you can pick what food you want, if you don’t trust them.
@Yoghurtmale8
@Yoghurtmale8 4 ай бұрын
Imagine being the 0.01% that met on a dating app in 1981
@Birdsandphotos
@Birdsandphotos 4 ай бұрын
As much as an introvert I am, I could never meet and date people starting online. My first gf I met in college earlier this year. In person is much safer imo, more realistic, allows you to be yourself, and helps you become more confident in yourself.
@moonamoonz
@moonamoonz 4 ай бұрын
I'm a introvert woman, and i believe the same. It feels so weird online, i just can't be myself, i need to put a persona to seem more enternaining than other women because men have multiple options on just a swipe on the screen. I fantasize about meeting my boyfriend irl, just meeting somewhere and clicking.
@Birdsandphotos
@Birdsandphotos 4 ай бұрын
@@moonamoonz Even if it may be harder to go and talk to people as an introvert or have more trouble with conversation, I prefer it. I think it’s nicer and gives you a better idea of who you are speaking to if it is in person. Online, many can edit their pictures, and alter their words to make people swipe on them. I like to be myself and it makes me happy to be myself and have someone who enjoys that, and is happy with who I am.
@KaisTheFireWarrior
@KaisTheFireWarrior 4 ай бұрын
Online doesn't mean dating app. Some people "met" online in any capacity and eventually met up in person than became a couple.
@quickpstuts412
@quickpstuts412 16 күн бұрын
@@annaairahala9462 People nowadays confuse introvert with social anxiety and shyness. You can be an introvert and still enjoy meeting people face to face. You just don't need a lot of social stimulation in general. A lot of people today who claim introvert actually have antisocial issues....especially with the emergence of social media.
@chelsea7755
@chelsea7755 4 ай бұрын
Im so glad i met my husband in middle school. I met my husband at 12, dating at 15 and married at 32. I love that I was able to see / experience my husband as a boy and grow up into the man he is today.
@aparna907
@aparna907 3 ай бұрын
You and your husband in the dp.....Cute together ❤
@ccrow3355
@ccrow3355 3 ай бұрын
You dated for 17 years?
@mrbloodylordbaronsamedi.9937
@mrbloodylordbaronsamedi.9937 Ай бұрын
Yeah right the mr perfect guess you are one of those who hide the truth all couples yell at each other that is the truth
@Typingram
@Typingram 20 күн бұрын
Damn either you're lying or you were dating for 17 years. Why not get married earlier then?
@elsinaattheworkshop
@elsinaattheworkshop 17 күн бұрын
​@@TypingramEconomic reasons maybe, it's not exactly family friendly
@Roareyknocks
@Roareyknocks Ай бұрын
Met my wife at church 2 years ago, we’re a rare breed!
@ledzeppelin1212
@ledzeppelin1212 15 күн бұрын
Yeah...who gets married within two years!? 😂 Only kidding. Similar thing happened to me.
@Roareyknocks
@Roareyknocks 15 күн бұрын
@ because when you know you know!
@tiny8961
@tiny8961 4 ай бұрын
He was my upstairs neighbor, and his dog went after mine. We’d been crushing on each other for months, but I’m a runner, so we only met briefly while he was pulling my dog out of his dog's jaws. I was super pissed and wanted him evicted. Then I accidentally matched with him on Tinder, and he sent me this sweet apology letter. It’s been three years now, and neither dog gives a crap about the other, so we’re moving in together.
@tomsmith5584
@tomsmith5584 4 ай бұрын
My wife and I are the oddballs that met in Church.
@DataIsBeautifulOfficial
@DataIsBeautifulOfficial 4 ай бұрын
Heavenly match!
@fenggula7890
@fenggula7890 4 ай бұрын
Better than online
@FRN2013
@FRN2013 4 ай бұрын
I wonder if the decline in such church encounters has led to the increase of divorce.
@sanipine
@sanipine 4 ай бұрын
@@FRN2013 aren't you the one who met his wife online? 🤔
@FRN2013
@FRN2013 4 ай бұрын
@@sanipine yes. So? I'm asking a question about correlation. I'm not saying other methods of meeting are intrinsically good or bad.
@MavetSomnus
@MavetSomnus 4 ай бұрын
Crazy to see how families become more and more distant with these graphs too
@Joecortez6925
@Joecortez6925 16 күн бұрын
I wonder if it was high cause of arranged relationships or because people actually helped out their struggling family members
@HoV326
@HoV326 4 ай бұрын
1:15 Internet: "Allow me to introduce myself...!"
@daviarcherbr1613
@daviarcherbr1613 3 ай бұрын
And suddenly it started sucking out all the other percentages as if it were fresh orange juice
@rex-racer
@rex-racer 4 ай бұрын
“Online” just perched down there, ready to strike 🦈
@Roblox_mrtomas
@Roblox_mrtomas 4 ай бұрын
150 likes and no comments? Let me fix that!
@cannedcatfood
@cannedcatfood 4 ай бұрын
😂
@S.Hodaya
@S.Hodaya 4 ай бұрын
I met my wife online 18 years ago, when we were teens. We were just pen friends, the best friends out there, and now for a year we are married. I didn't imagine this scenery when we first met!
@juanyepez2837
@juanyepez2837 4 ай бұрын
This is a frightening reality, many people meet without truly knowing each other in person and end up forming emotional bonds that, with luck, will have a prosperous future.
@Gudgurl28
@Gudgurl28 4 ай бұрын
I was thinking the same. Maybe it’s easier to meet people but relationships don’t last anywhere near as long as they used to
@ZealousWins
@ZealousWins 3 ай бұрын
Well, people in real life often suck. So the Internet is a good way to filter out the morons from people who actually care.
@annaairahala9462
@annaairahala9462 3 ай бұрын
Huh? It's the same online or offline, you obviously don't know a person before meeting them. And meeting someone online doesn't mean your immediately getting together with them in person either.
@ResilientWagon-692
@ResilientWagon-692 2 ай бұрын
Right? And stay both kiss-virgins and sex-virgins.
@elsinaattheworkshop
@elsinaattheworkshop 17 күн бұрын
​@@ZealousWinsNot at all, ppl can hide their true self on the internet way easier than real life. Ever heard of catfishing?
@yasminmj92
@yasminmj92 4 ай бұрын
I met my husband at a burger eating competition in Hackney, London. 😁🍔
@DataIsBeautifulOfficial
@DataIsBeautifulOfficial 4 ай бұрын
Love at first bite!
@arthurmorgan9559
@arthurmorgan9559 4 ай бұрын
was joey chestnut there?
@TheLongQuiet10
@TheLongQuiet10 4 ай бұрын
HA!!
@dulnithdewasurendre4202
@dulnithdewasurendre4202 4 ай бұрын
Damn
@jacobwatson1406
@jacobwatson1406 4 ай бұрын
Crazy how people use to commonly meet their dates as Neighbors and in Church that seems almost unheard of today.
@ArjunMKotari
@ArjunMKotari 4 ай бұрын
God , just give me the comeback of life like the way Internet Explorer did in this video
@DanielaBodoh
@DanielaBodoh 4 ай бұрын
1:37 I feel like quarantine had something to do with the sudden increase in online dating…
@DataIsBeautifulOfficial
@DataIsBeautifulOfficial 4 ай бұрын
Definitely
@stokastixx762
@stokastixx762 4 ай бұрын
Yep and cowork dropped
@bandicam-ss8fn
@bandicam-ss8fn 4 ай бұрын
no shit
@yepdontcarebud
@yepdontcarebud 4 ай бұрын
Eh it was the inevitable course either way.
@nv7213
@nv7213 4 ай бұрын
The bar also dropped significantly
@unknownghost535
@unknownghost535 16 күн бұрын
Church got reduced to 2% man that's wild
@tullaris07
@tullaris07 4 ай бұрын
It appears relationships based on circumstance have decreased over time and relationships based on choice and freedom increased.
@DataIsBeautifulOfficial
@DataIsBeautifulOfficial 4 ай бұрын
Cool way of thinking
@BlackDeath12345
@BlackDeath12345 4 ай бұрын
Illusion of choice
@tullaris07
@tullaris07 4 ай бұрын
@@BlackDeath12345 nope, scrolling through online dating apps or feeling free to date around gives you more options than your parents or hometown picking someone for you
@red40...
@red40... 4 ай бұрын
That isn't a good thing in my eyes
@ziggybadans
@ziggybadans 4 ай бұрын
​@@red40... I agree, it means people get obsessed with finding the perfect person for them rather than going with somebody who may not seem perfect on the surface but actually are once they get to know them.
@musicplaylists6718
@musicplaylists6718 4 ай бұрын
I got really surprised by online being so high, thinking "online relationships aren't actually that mainstream/common right?" and then I realized it included dating apps and websites and it made a lot more sense
@kathleencove
@kathleencove 3 ай бұрын
It probably includes dating apps, websites, people who met on the chat of their favorite video game, discord, webinar classes, the whole enchilada. People are working remotely and going to college remotely online now too, so that probably contributes tremendously to people seeing it as just another way to meet someone. If you can meet your future boss or client online, or even a baby to adopt from another country, why not your spouse?
@oscarenbeta4793
@oscarenbeta4793 3 ай бұрын
What does "via family" mean?
@kathleencove
@kathleencove 3 ай бұрын
@@oscarenbeta4793 😂😅 Pretty sure they mean meeting people through recommendations by family members, acquaintances, friends or coworkers of family members. Not… the other thing 😂
@Haruzak1
@Haruzak1 3 ай бұрын
​@@oscarenbeta4793you get introduced through your parents or brothers/sisters or cousins or uncles/aunts
@josephreynolds8095
@josephreynolds8095 12 күн бұрын
The fact that “in college” is less than 1% is shocking to me
@dwhitty25
@dwhitty25 4 ай бұрын
Some couple met "online" in 1982...would love to hear that story.
@smilealwaysnatasha3423
@smilealwaysnatasha3423 4 ай бұрын
I had a teacher who met her husband in eharmony - I felt bad cause dude had so many health issues that I felt he knew before getting with her tbh. They were an older couple
@plastique45
@plastique45 4 ай бұрын
@@smilealwaysnatasha3423 There was no web sites as we know of today before the early 1990's.
@plastique45
@plastique45 4 ай бұрын
@@smilealwaysnatasha3423 In those days, early BBS (kind of like forums) existed between some universities. It's probable a few girl nerds where on them and met guys that way.
@DataIsBeautifulOfficial
@DataIsBeautifulOfficial 4 ай бұрын
First bulletin boards I guess
@TheVincentKyle
@TheVincentKyle 4 ай бұрын
And I thought it was weird when I did it in the late 90s, damn.
@MewDE
@MewDE 4 ай бұрын
I was born in 1993 and have been using the Internet since 2007. Since then, I've spent many hours a day online on my computer. I've always been told that you have to go out to meet people. I'm now 30 and still single. I would have thought that 25% would find each other online, but I didn't think there would be that many. It only helped me a little 😔😢
@Kayther33
@Kayther33 4 ай бұрын
My brother was born in 1996 and now is married with a girl that he met on eden eternal
@Biozene
@Biozene 4 ай бұрын
​@@Kayther33Insensitive
@snk4023
@snk4023 4 ай бұрын
I was born in 92..same story..😢
@billjones642
@billjones642 16 күн бұрын
Whenever you read a comment that says they got a girl, just imagine her as obese. Stops any jealousy.
@Meta-sis
@Meta-sis 18 күн бұрын
I am concerned at the amount of people who met via family in the beginning.
@Adamssocool
@Adamssocool 16 күн бұрын
why
@quickpstuts412
@quickpstuts412 16 күн бұрын
Are you inferring they're related? LOL
@meizhongbai
@meizhongbai 4 ай бұрын
But for the group of people that go to college I wonder what the percentage is for on line vs met in college.
@mandisaw
@mandisaw 4 ай бұрын
Folks who go to college are more likely to not couple-up until later on. They might date casually, but even those who marry their college sweetheart will do so after graduation. That was true even in the 80s & 90s.
@lukashenrique4295
@lukashenrique4295 4 ай бұрын
​@@mandisaw I'm gen Z, I thought college would be the best way of finding a partner because so many people I know of have found their partners in college. I had one too at the time. Coworkers still date each other, I find it very common. There are other places to meet people like music lessons, art classes, other gatherings, etc. In response to OP's comment, Online is probably bigger considering we're not just talking about young adults.
@benjaminglazer7217
@benjaminglazer7217 4 ай бұрын
In 1994 my parents met online. That was 1% and change. In 2019 my long term gf and I met freshman year of college. That was 2% and change. How the world has flipped.
@MariaSydneyacww
@MariaSydneyacww 4 ай бұрын
I met my husband in 2014 at a bar. We got married in 2020. I actually approached him at the bar. I often hear women say that they are waiting for the right one to come up to them, but they won’t make the first move. I always tell women to make the first move. Men can also be shy :)
@OceanChild87
@OceanChild87 4 ай бұрын
'Met' my husband in an online forum in 2006. 2007 we got engaged and 2008 we got married, 16 years this year in November ❤
@Giganticshrimp
@Giganticshrimp 4 ай бұрын
How do you meet in an online forum? 😅
@OceanChild87
@OceanChild87 4 ай бұрын
@@Giganticshrimp 'Met' ...fill in any word you think describes the situation better, I don't mind 😉
@TomLehockySVK
@TomLehockySVK 4 ай бұрын
"Online", unfortunately my only way how i ever met someone, dating aps, facebook, and now i feel all this online garbage just sucks and i have been single for over 5 years with no luck :(.
@ifpjvl
@ifpjvl 4 ай бұрын
You are not an isolated case, this is the time when people have fewer boyfriends, the internet destroys everything
@Kayther33
@Kayther33 4 ай бұрын
Why dont you go to meet and greets?
@TomLehockySVK
@TomLehockySVK 4 ай бұрын
@@Kayther33 They do not exist here.
@raajushawarma9367
@raajushawarma9367 4 ай бұрын
Keep coping buddyboyo
@LynnMooney
@LynnMooney 4 ай бұрын
I met my future husband at my first part-time job back in 2015. We were friends for about two years before we started dating in March 2017. Married in Fall 2019 and we've stuck together like velcro.
@DataIsBeautifulOfficial
@DataIsBeautifulOfficial 4 ай бұрын
Nice Nintendo collection you have there!
@LynnMooney
@LynnMooney 4 ай бұрын
@@DataIsBeautifulOfficial Thank you! Both my hubby and I are gamers. 😊 First job was at my local videogame store.
@RichardDay-n2o
@RichardDay-n2o 4 ай бұрын
That's horrible, people don't socialize anymore...internet and social media is just a disease...
@DataIsBeautifulOfficial
@DataIsBeautifulOfficial 4 ай бұрын
Sometimes it's nice to unplug and find meaningful interactions face-to-face.
@SaojChess
@SaojChess 3 ай бұрын
What are we doing here
@olaf-chan-728
@olaf-chan-728 3 ай бұрын
​@@SaojChess ?? im here cause there is no cool place to socialize ???
@oscarenbeta4793
@oscarenbeta4793 3 ай бұрын
The truth is that it is something bad, because social networks are already quite bad and manipulate our vision of reality, it is more than obvious that a relationship based on that does not end well.
@Cal-fb7we
@Cal-fb7we 3 ай бұрын
Says somebody from the internet on a social media site
@randyorr9443
@randyorr9443 4 ай бұрын
I met my wife through a very very tiny dating club add in the local newspaper back in 1986.
@nostera5142
@nostera5142 3 ай бұрын
I don't know how accurate this actually is, but internet skyrocketting as almost the only means to meet anyone feels legit and terrifying at the same time.
@waynegrabert6839
@waynegrabert6839 4 ай бұрын
I think there should be a tenth category for "other," such as, meeting at a health club, at the beach or a park, at an event like a concert or convention, etc.
@mandisaw
@mandisaw 4 ай бұрын
From other datasets, I think that "Bar" really means "social activity outside the home". It could be anything from bowling to movie club to volunteer work.
@tashka8849
@tashka8849 4 ай бұрын
@@waynegrabert6839 agreed ;) mine was at a park :) craziest part.. I envisioned or wished I could meet someone at that exact park years before. Totally fated.
@kathleencove
@kathleencove 3 ай бұрын
@@mandisaw Likewise “neighbor” can be pretty broad. They don’t have to be literally right next door, but if they go to the same gym as you, chances are you’re probably from the same neighborhood or at least the same city and met in a neighborhood you both frequent.
@EdKolis
@EdKolis 4 ай бұрын
When my wife and I got married in 2015, our wedding photographer mentioned that a third of couples met online like we did. I was surprised it was so many. I guess we hadn't seen anything yet!
@EarthHarukiOfficial
@EarthHarukiOfficial 10 күн бұрын
I met my partner on discord. However we started out as friends ofc, we talked, got to know each other more and started getting closer and became best friends! I used to friendzone him all the time until on 2024(this year) February 10th he confessed to me. I was in shock and i was flustered. That moment was when i realised that i did indeed liked him romantically however i didnt figure it out. Soon we'll be celebrating our first anniversary❤ I cant wait for it to happen
@Bulby1234
@Bulby1234 4 ай бұрын
1:10 Internet:- sorry guys I was filling up gas ⛽😂
@alistacramen9799
@alistacramen9799 4 ай бұрын
2012 met husband online. Married 10 years now, with 3 kids.
@scorpionfiresome3834
@scorpionfiresome3834 19 күн бұрын
Shoutout to those who met online in 1981, patient zeros of their time.
@OneEyedKing
@OneEyedKing 4 ай бұрын
That’s really depressing so many ppl prefer meeting online now
@DataIsBeautifulOfficial
@DataIsBeautifulOfficial 4 ай бұрын
It can be a downer, but trends shift and genuine connections still happen.
@vuviper
@vuviper 3 ай бұрын
It's just how it happens. Not that it was their preference, necessarily. They probably tried all the other ways, too.
@mufmager
@mufmager 3 ай бұрын
True, online is way harder because there are more options for women , thousands of options
@OneEyedKing
@OneEyedKing 2 ай бұрын
@@DataIsBeautifulOfficial I’m surprised cold approach doesn’t even make list
@DataIsBeautifulOfficial
@DataIsBeautifulOfficial 2 ай бұрын
@@OneEyedKing I think its popularity is exaggerated by movies.
@Sophie11dec82
@Sophie11dec82 4 ай бұрын
Met my husband online in a chatroom in 2002. Still together. One daughter.
@priasco4139
@priasco4139 4 ай бұрын
Was it common to meet your future partner online back in those days?
@Li_Shorts_Ent
@Li_Shorts_Ent 4 ай бұрын
@@priasco4139no
@yepdontcarebud
@yepdontcarebud 4 ай бұрын
​@@priasco4139very very rare in 2002
@billjones642
@billjones642 16 күн бұрын
You're commenting on a video showing the data for that.... ^
@meghnasingh1121
@meghnasingh1121 4 ай бұрын
I met my better half where i went for tuition He's actually a friend of my ex (who cheated) but didn't know this friend would be the one for me The dude literally was rejected when he first confessed but still loved me anyways It took him two years of hard work and trust gaining to get me in a relationship with him and i dont know why i rejected him in the first place Definitely he's the best decision I've made❤❤
@ayatokirishima1218
@ayatokirishima1218 4 ай бұрын
I met my boyfriend this year in college, didn't know that was that rare nowadays 😂
@jacklazerJSCV
@jacklazerJSCV 4 ай бұрын
Maybe it is because not much people go to college
@jacklazerJSCV
@jacklazerJSCV 4 ай бұрын
That's my hypotesis
@ensco7
@ensco7 4 ай бұрын
These are couples of all ages, right? So how many years do people go to college? There's your answer.
@DonVito_
@DonVito_ 4 ай бұрын
​@@jacklazerJSCV you clearly didn't qith those stellar spelling skills
@markusleydolt27
@markusleydolt27 4 ай бұрын
That's because fewer men are going to college. In fact the majority of the college dropout rate is made up by men.
@yddemper5517
@yddemper5517 4 ай бұрын
The fact that you choose the IE logo for the online category is a chef kiss to the meme culture. Indeed meeting online is the last one category that came into discussion ahahahah
@williamdrum9899
@williamdrum9899 12 күн бұрын
Watching online overtake the rest was the scariest part of this
@anthonyumphrey519
@anthonyumphrey519 3 күн бұрын
For real. Never met anyone online. Never had a good experience with it. I'm 30. Didn't know it was that popular.
@babyblutube-s5j
@babyblutube-s5j 4 ай бұрын
I’m so glad I met my wife before the internet and social media destroyed life.
@astridkjellberg
@astridkjellberg 4 ай бұрын
@@waynegrabert6839this is actually pretty awesome and a good example of social media's good sides. however it doesn't really cover up all the bad things it does to society. internet was cool until like 2018.
@bethesdagamer7971
@bethesdagamer7971 4 ай бұрын
On the contrary, I would have never met my wife if it weren’t for the internet.
@d_strong6556
@d_strong6556 4 ай бұрын
​@@bethesdagamer7971 Your wife is Todd Howard?
@mandisaw
@mandisaw 4 ай бұрын
Internet is okay, but mainly as a route to connecting with other folks with shared interests. I think the problem is that people don't know how to interact socially, period, and everyone is too afraid to meet in-person.
@alyssajones4368
@alyssajones4368 4 ай бұрын
​@@mandisawThey are, I've witnessed it with my own eyes. I caught up with several friends a few weeks ago in person. Nobody said anything, except for casual greetings. But after a while, they would pull out their phones. I was so pissed off.
@winnie_shen
@winnie_shen 4 ай бұрын
I hate the internet. Too many people who are shady or just acting a certain character to met their goals …… Also many manipulative people prying on the vulnerable people desperate for emotional support. Not to mention straight out lying on their profile. Also many people looking for side chicks too. It’s harder to play a double life if you can meet someone in a workplace or social setting with other people. I hate this internet trend and will not be going back anytime soon
@DataIsBeautifulOfficial
@DataIsBeautifulOfficial 4 ай бұрын
But those are the same people who have been shady in real life even before the Internet.
@winnie_shen
@winnie_shen 4 ай бұрын
@@DataIsBeautifulOfficial that’s true. But the internet makes it harder to expose their lies and motives
@larrycoleman9513
@larrycoleman9513 3 ай бұрын
@DataIsBeautifulOfficial Exactly. Your going to meet the same crummy people in real life. They are the same. It is your job to find out who they really are people arent going to tell you who they are usually.
@mariatriantafyllou-g3d
@mariatriantafyllou-g3d 14 күн бұрын
I care more about being me than finding someone with something that isn't for me.I hope you all find your matches. Let no one remain single
@CreativeMindsAudio
@CreativeMindsAudio 4 ай бұрын
Oof this kinda makes me sad that everyone is meeting through an algorithm that’s for profit. I stopped online dating years ago because i never had much luck on it. Most of my relationships were from friends. I had one through dating app, but hardly that. We hated the app and were leaving to myspace 😂.
@TheVincentKyle
@TheVincentKyle 4 ай бұрын
Like just about everything else they worked before the swipe algorithms took hold and the model went from active to passive, allowing someone to get rich controlling your experience.
@CreativeMindsAudio
@CreativeMindsAudio 4 ай бұрын
@@TheVincentKyle yup! I loved okcupid before match bought them (and every other dating app) out and replaced their amazing search and match function with a swipe focused app.
@mandisaw
@mandisaw 4 ай бұрын
Not sure all the "Online" means online dating apps. Like in the 90s & 00s you had folks meeting through mailing lists, Usenet/IRC, even multiplayer games / MMOs. Or Meetup-like clubs that formed & communicated online, but also had in-person events where you could socialize. Met my late hubby through the latter - I tell folks we met at a geek/anime club, but the actual "would you like to date" was via email/online.
@CreativeMindsAudio
@CreativeMindsAudio 4 ай бұрын
@@mandisaw valid! I used meetup a lot back in the day! Ram a couple of groups there too! Granted I would see that as not meeting online since it was an irl event that was promoted online. Definitely found people at events I dated. Usenet/irl, that takes me back! Definitely met a bunch of people online from irc back in the day. Granted by the time we met we were talking on social media.
@TheVincentKyle
@TheVincentKyle 4 ай бұрын
@@mandisaw AOL in the 90s for me, and not even a chat room or anything.
@johnericpamintuan4800
@johnericpamintuan4800 4 ай бұрын
Before the internet, couples also met via random telephone calls, snail mail clubs, texting/beeping, radio matchmaking and even message in a bottle.
@DataIsBeautifulOfficial
@DataIsBeautifulOfficial 4 ай бұрын
Or the mysterious phone call from a wrong number trick.
@kathleencove
@kathleencove 3 ай бұрын
Message in a bottle is a story I’d love to hear 😂
@justiceisserved3298
@justiceisserved3298 3 ай бұрын
Props to the guy who went back to 1930 to collect all this data 🎉👏🏻
@Made_In_Heaven88
@Made_In_Heaven88 4 ай бұрын
Watching the via Friends bar just suddenly crash down was kinda sad tbh
@kenken8857
@kenken8857 4 ай бұрын
For the old time ads in newspaper is missing. My grandfather married with this method. It's the paper version of the Internet. Nobody talked about it because there was shame about needing this. Oh , and dating agencies.
@DataIsBeautifulOfficial
@DataIsBeautifulOfficial 4 ай бұрын
They still have personal ads in newspapers.
@NeophyteRedglare-f3c
@NeophyteRedglare-f3c Күн бұрын
Was really expecting it to switch to the GASS GASS GASS !!⛽️ 🚘 song when internet took over
@akanesaotome5924
@akanesaotome5924 4 ай бұрын
I met guy online, fast forward 3 years and we are getting married next month ❤
@ptit-monsieur
@ptit-monsieur 4 ай бұрын
People seem to not accept the fact that online dating is the norm nowadays but I really don't mind it honestly, I always felt like couple who meet in college, through families or friends were the luckiest, I've been alone pretty much all my life and meeting people is just impossible to me, I'm happy that we're starting to see online dating as a viable option rather than a scary thing.
@quickpstuts412
@quickpstuts412 16 күн бұрын
The majority of my partnered friends have found their significant others online in the last 10-15 years. It just seems like the norm now.
@alesivan4489
@alesivan4489 4 ай бұрын
I meet my fiance and my baby's dad by internet two years ago. I was so introverted amd shy that he was my first bf I don't regret it he's the most gentleman even though hes 20 years older than me ❤
@samanthah4907
@samanthah4907 4 ай бұрын
I met my fiancé on a bus. 😅 we went to the same university but weren't in any classes together, nor crossed paths. We only ever saw each other on the bus and outside of uni. 😂 now we've been together for 10yrs.
@sanipine
@sanipine 4 ай бұрын
60% online? Wow, that's sad...
@hercules5546
@hercules5546 4 ай бұрын
why?
@akhsdenlew1861
@akhsdenlew1861 4 ай бұрын
The "via family" is the saddest part.
@sanipine
@sanipine 4 ай бұрын
@@akhsdenlew1861 Well, it came down to healthier 4-5% nowadays. That seems quite okay for me...doesn't mean, it's necessarily a fixed marriage or even a family member 😁
@FRN2013
@FRN2013 4 ай бұрын
My wife and I met online in 2004... motivated by church, you might say. I knew the Lord was sending me to the Philippines to start a charity for the poor, so I wanted to marry a Filipina who would help me with language and culture. We are a match made in Heaven!
@sanipine
@sanipine 4 ай бұрын
@@FRN2013 as long as you both feel that way...
@ndbeauty74
@ndbeauty74 Ай бұрын
Мы познакомились с мужем через соцсеть в 2019 году, очень быстро стали встречаться и сыграли свадьбу через 2 месяца после знакомства. А весь секрет в том что мы были уже взрослые и у нас обоих был опыт негативный в отношениях, а также желание создать крепкую семью. Много факторов влияет на пары и их устойчивость, а интернет лишь один из способов знакомства, вот и всё.
@DataIsBeautifulOfficial
@DataIsBeautifulOfficial Ай бұрын
Всё верно.
@Skarrier
@Skarrier 16 күн бұрын
Мне нравится, что негативный опыт в отношениях здесь показывается не как недостаток, а как достоинство. "Мы уже знаем, чего хотим и чего НЕ хотим", а не "у меня был только негативный опыт, значит я бракованный и со мной ничего построить нельзя".
@johnypohoda3781
@johnypohoda3781 4 ай бұрын
I met my wife in 2013 when hitchhiking to the music festival. She was another hitchhiker in that car.
@DataIsBeautifulOfficial
@DataIsBeautifulOfficial 4 ай бұрын
That’s a wild and awesome way to meet!
@johnypohoda3781
@johnypohoda3781 4 ай бұрын
@@DataIsBeautifulOfficial We have a wild life also years later :) Nomadic voyagers on a boat around the world and 4y daughter amazed by everything.
@DataIsBeautifulOfficial
@DataIsBeautifulOfficial 4 ай бұрын
@@johnypohoda3781 Living the dream!
@marianakiselova6913
@marianakiselova6913 4 ай бұрын
Surprised at how low the percentage of couples that met in college was.
@marianakiselova6913
@marianakiselova6913 4 ай бұрын
@@canopus_reborn hmm.. why?
@canopus_reborn
@canopus_reborn 4 ай бұрын
@@marianakiselova6913 Just curious if we can be friends? ,👀
@canopus_reborn
@canopus_reborn 4 ай бұрын
@@marianakiselova6913 Wanna be friends?
@canopus_reborn
@canopus_reborn 4 ай бұрын
@@marianakiselova6913 Your adorable!
@canopus_reborn
@canopus_reborn 4 ай бұрын
@@marianakiselova6913:Your adorable:
@user-cw4zj6kc8u
@user-cw4zj6kc8u 4 ай бұрын
Friendship was the best way for 100 years. Then the internet ruined human interaction. And now our world is broken.
@Holliester1912
@Holliester1912 4 ай бұрын
The decline of "in church" and "in school" is sad and explains a lot
@oldben7177
@oldben7177 4 ай бұрын
Internet is not so much a "couples" thing, rather hook ups and one night stands mostly.
@hawksgoated3613
@hawksgoated3613 4 ай бұрын
and only the top 10% of men get a change what a disgusting society we have become
@sausage4mash
@sausage4mash 3 ай бұрын
with chad
@injectedwolf914
@injectedwolf914 16 күн бұрын
If you are lucky. U can find one for forever
@Henrik9
@Henrik9 4 ай бұрын
We met at a dance class i took when i was in college in 2016. Now we are married and just got our second daughter. We used internet to keep in touch in between the weekly dance classes though, so I guess it contributed.
@DataIsBeautifulOfficial
@DataIsBeautifulOfficial 4 ай бұрын
Dance brought you together, and the internet kept the rhythm going - perfect combo for a lifelong duet.
@canyouspotit726
@canyouspotit726 4 ай бұрын
We met at a hobby we both enjoyed. We were both into historical reenactments growing up, but we never crossed paths ‘cause we did different eras. I was into the Revolutionary War, and he did WW2. One night, my friend told me we were going to a history party, lol... (it was actually like a pretty authentic after-hours party in an old fort).
@agenttassadar7272
@agenttassadar7272 4 ай бұрын
My wife does civil war and I do WW2 but we met at work. Reenacting is awesome.
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