How Did She Get Married (Part 2)

[@kendranovakX5]

The fact that we just enjoy sitting and listening to you talk. Keep doing what you're doing. We really appreciate it.

[@sis_yd_jesuschrist]

Agreed! I get excited when a new video appears on my feed. I catch myself reenacting the female voices Tony does 😂😂😂

[@mvpunique]

Stepdog 😂😂😂😂

[@simplyameeraj]

🤣🤣🤣

[@nenefranklin]

😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@petrezcarenza]

i came looking for this comment 🤣🤣🤣

[@karenmcgee1869]

Lol😅😂

[@priscilla6977]

I can’t 😂😂😂

[@sheenamincey4740]

I never understood why men chose the company of men over women until you explained that men can be their authentic selves with their friends. Thank you for helping me understand that dynamic!

[@Whitneylaurel742]

Sane reason a lot of women love the company of their female friends-we can be at ease! No one to impress romantically. We can be purely ourselves 🙌🏽

[@breannn]

I feel it's the man's mindset too. If he doesn't want a relationship with you, it doesn't really matter what you do. Some men just want to hit and quit. A man has to Want a relationship and be willing to put in the effort to form one!

[@KDStyle1]

Mr. Tony doesn't advocate for "hitting" b4 marriage. He speaks on having standards and red flags in Part 1...

[@BashaerB-h2c]

I’ve dated a man and he’s not the vocal type but with me he shared details about his life (it took a while but we got there) and one day he suddenly blurted out:” You have this motherly energy that is explosive, you remind me of my mother at times” and I knew he meant it as a compliment! 😭 Best compliment I’ve got from a man so far. I have four brothers and would constantly argue with them. However, after watching hundreds of Mr. Gaskins videos, I tweaked my attitude and learned when to shut up and listen. Thank God it pays off! It’s a pleasure to make people feel safe and at ease with me. Much better than the combative and aggressive lifestyle I used to live before.

[@danyelgarcia3689]

YOU GO!!! Working on your personality. I'm gonna try it too. Do you have any tips? What strategies where the most effective for you?

[@compassionateheartcoaching1142]

A couple of guys a friend and a guy l was dated have told me l remind them of his mum, or his mother would like me. I didn't know what to make of it but now I'm going to take it as a compliment 🌷🌹🤗

[@DeniseM4698]

I can’t claim that dog 😂😂😂😂😂 my uncle be talking like that too 😂

[@nichole4715]

I wanted to share that your ministry has helped me tremendously. Listening to your KZbin videos prevented me from getting three additional heart-breaks and has helped me to maintain my celibacy. I thank God for you and your wife. From a sincere Sister in Christ ....

[@ceciliamcnish7185]

Sorry, but I laughed the entire way through this 😂😂

[@simplyameeraj]

Man yall had that dog for a while now lol I can’t believe u still don’t claim it.

[@soulbutterflyy]

❤❤❤ what you said about black men in America’s thought process on marriage due to the trauma we’ve experience from Slavery. Light bulb moment.

[@devinicole1278]

Tony accent makes me laugh... but he be serious lol

[@EJIMANnenaNgozi]

Wow I needed this! Your breakdown on why black men dont desire marriage as much as other races was spot on! When we discuss this we get alot of pushback and that black women arent “wives.” But Its more than that- its mindset. I also agree that men “settle” as much as women do but many women dont see it that way.

[@darlenebernard4288]

I'm part Indian too. I need to get that check. I didn't believe my grandmother being part Indian but found out my great grandmother was a full blooded Indian. Tony she as black as a shoe that's why I didn't believe she was Indian. My aunt verified what type of Indian but I don't remember the name.

[@thebarbieinvestor5428]

It’s hard to get into tribes unless your people are on original rolls.

[@NewsieNikki]

😂😂😂😂😂 OMG you have some wisdom. I myself am happily married .. nothing is perfect, I’m always open to learn!! married 2 years

[@nyal131]

Kuddos to two years. What’s the secret?

[@Aisha_babii]

“J Lo look like ha breath stank” my goodness 😂

[@AsaAsherSmith]

I hollered ! 😭😭

[@dominica180]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@devinicole1278]

i met jlo and she is beautiful in person. i think she is 5'6 standing next to me

[@Tsunamilott]

This series literally solidified for me why you are loved. This is so needed!! You are doing the Lords work.

[@tarahbruno3793]

I personally can’t wait to be married and serve my husband. Some women are natural wives but many are not 🤷🏽‍♀️. The issue is I love black men and Tony is right.. so many have a phobia of marriage but with God all things are possible! Don’t lose hope

[@Anna-st5dm]

That’s your dog in that woman’s establishment acting up. 🐶 You’ve failed her as a dog daddy. She’s acting out because she wants your love. You better claim that baby and teach her to do better. 😂

[@shemireyahlilly5521]

🤣🤣

[@Enigmaproperties]

can you talk about men having options nowadays. Are women suppose to just stick around if we know he's talking to other women? Im so confused on how to date in 2024

[@KDStyle1]

Do you mean dating??

[@LeeAva]

Thank you for this video Tony. Would you be able to talk about if a man is ready to be exclusive in a relationship but the woman is hesitant? Due to her not wanting to rush things. She likes this man and wants to be with him also. Should she keep the hesitation to herself or would voicing hesitation push the man away? If you could give your thoughts Tony, it is appreciated.

[@KNickole]

Yall wanna know what’s wild: I read Nas’ baby mama (Carmen Bryan) memoir and she said Beyonce gave Nas her number at a video shoot, but Nas turned her down because he said she was too young (17/18) and her breath stank! Im like “How does Tony know this?!”😂

[@keptbygrace6221]

😂

[@Happinessis_12]

Step-dog? 😂🤣😂 is this the Dog named Bella? 😂🤣

[@Ms.Sipp40]

He said J Lo looks like her breathe stink when I hollered out😂😂😂Tony! No filter😂😂😂

[@jeannienelson9392]

Thank you Tony, been following you for years and meet you,.finally got a husband... Keep dropping these jewels so I can keep him 💪🏾💯🎯 appreciate you

[@d.j.deedeeskidiane9953]

I do agree that women need to make it a safe space non judgmental my expired husband said that about me and he didn’t want to be married could’ve fooled me 😂

[@marcycane1793]

I be looking forward to your videos. LOL at I don’t claim the dog. The little baby was just afraid! Anyway let me get listening!

[@asteward1201]

Listening at you describe the women is hilarious 😂😂😂

[@Discernmentlab]

Not “the toes look like a gremlin”!! 😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@dublingirl1691]

I was just about to put a forkful of food into my mouth when Tony said “the toes look like a gremlin” almost chocked laughing 😂😂🤣🤣

[@pamelabledsoe2635]

This is sounds like too much work trying get another person to be in your life. I’d rather invest in myself I know I will never let myself down.

[@darlenebernard4288]

😂😂 pooped and peed. They are like kids that's why I don't deal with animals.

[@c.ggraygray4389]

Dogs pee and poop when they're nervous and in new surroundings, and also sometimes to mark their territory in a new home. 🙂

[@c.ggraygray4389]

Dog's will also pee and or poop when they're scared also.🙂

[@MWisdomWisdom]

THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR THiS 2ND PART.. .....iM SO READY TO HEAR THiS.. SEEMS LiKE A LOT OF MEN DON'T CARE ABOUT LOOKS WHEN iT COMES TO RELATIONSHIPS/ MARRiAGES...😫🙄.

[@Realness111]

Don’t claim the dog 😂😂😂😂😂

[@kyshac81]

This is interesting because I’ve noticed that the chics I see getting married more often are the Big chics. The BBWs. And to some pretty decent men too. The dudes be nice looking.

[@completelysharise1372]

💯

[@AnnDonley]

What about a black man who comes from a two parent home? Do they tend to marry faster?

[@kendrawilliams5703]

Good question!

[@KDStyle1]

Depends on the 2 parent home...

[@d.j.deedeeskidiane9953]

Now question is not knowing how to be on a successful marriage an excuse not to learn??

[@nikkig8055]

His analogies have me rolling 😂😂😂 The way he gets his points across with a splash of comedy is epic ❤ Love it!

[@Rhapsody09]

Lol at the dog. Looks like the dog need a trainer. My grandpatents poodle would run out of the living room when we would carry him in there and place him on the floor. The lady that sold him trained him when he was a puppy before my dad bought him for my grandparents.

[@jessij4826]

I love when Tony tell us to shutup! Gather us TG!😂😂

[@moniquethornton3032]

Porta rika😂😂😂

[@reinaquisha9418]

Is this the same dog Bella that you all got a few years ago in the pandemic?

[@Tlittlet2]

Tony can you please talk to us about how to speak to a man.

[@julieanne413]

One Oreo away 😂🤣😂

[@Whitneylaurel742]

Hey Tony, I love your monologues-so much wisdom and enriching, all the while delivering tough love truths to the female audience! You are changing the world for the good! Some anxiety overcame me though on the part when you said “men do not actually want to marry” so that really answered my question about women having to finesse or manipulate a man to stand in the alter. It just doesn’t sit well with me and I know a lot of women (who would never admit it) who DO have to coax their guy into marrying them. Because how do you know if they really independently CHOSE you to be with them? That is just not my feminine style-it actually gives me much anxiety having to think about “getting” a guy to put that ring on me. Maybe I am not cut out for this world. At the same rate, woman like me have been taught our whole lives not to be desperate and to let the man lead-so, WHICH tactic is it? Maybe a little of both? Sounds pretty desperate to GET a man to marry you instead of just being and let things happen organically. Yet, only in a perfect world that is because I understand why a lot of women out there have to give ultimatums and stuff like that in order for him to formally commit in marriage (I know several female spouses who did that). I’m exhausted trying to figure out society and relationships. On that note, I think subconsciously that is WHY most women have premarital sex these days (I know it doesn’t always work to trap a man but the thought of holding out is so bygone from the era that changed everything in the 60s). So, my question is this: what can you prescribe to those of us who are aware that there is always going to be a better woman around the block for our guy (and in this digital age a man’s eyes are wider than ever)? If we have this truth that you just gave us concerning that a man inherently doesn’t want to settle down (even if he is in love, evidently) then how can we not walk in so much anxiety and tension?? Modern dating feels like a catch22 when it comes to sex: damn if you do try to hold on (give in to premarital sex) and damn if you don’t try to hold on (withhold sex until marriage). There is SO much insecurity surrounding holding out until marriage if they can’t test drive us and we can’t test drive them (goes both ways). I KNOW premarital sex is a sin no matter how normal it looks BUT we are 3 generations in deep from the sexual revolution so go figure that even Christian men and Christian women like myself feel an insecurity about holding back on bed activities. ….Just speaking facts from the singles’ street here!

[@KDStyle1]

Wow...

[@lisasmilez]

That’s dey dog 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@natasharivera6147]

Thank you so very much, Man of GOD. I thsnk GOD for you and the platform he has given you. I have two of your books "Make It Work" and "A Woman's Influence." GOD bless you, Man of GOD.

[@toniacollierross]

It’s the “I can’t just claim no untrained dog”. 😂😂and was serious!

[@cleoflowers3913]

😂 I hate to Laugh, but it's so funny when you say her breath stink!! 😂🤔

[@cc-ou7sl]

Thank you for your openness and honesty. I’m willing to listen, learn and change. Please continue. I need this. Thank you

[@bridgetteteapp]

so we know what makes a man fall in love, but what makes a man drop his guard and treat you like his teammate? And what comes across as judging to a man

[@lorettawhite2790]

" I aint no P-Diddy,Russell Simmons" LOL

[@nomessnostress]

You better claim that dog lol

[@indriadrayton1132]

I learn to listen to ya'll dudes. Helps alot. I am learning not to feel scared of being alone, either. Always have to remember that God loves me.

[@jessicascreenwritingservices]

Thank you for keeping it real with us Tony and telling us the truth. You are like the uncle/father/brother we never had and need ✨

[@bpOL5]

Being from West Virginia my whole life, YT women is all I know basically. So I’ve been w one for two years now and my parents understand that but ofc they’d love to see a queen but we’re almost identical her and I , but she was talkin ab marriage first couple months of me meeting her. In which like you said in this video , that was foreign to me. Never thought ab marriage in my life for my sake. Bc my mother had four boys and never wanted to be married so I’ve never seen or grew up w that. Overtime my girl really opened my mind and also like you said just being a chameleon everyday adjusting to whatever she likes for our reason this entire time. My lady doesn’t know how to be cooler than me and I told her to be that before we ever actually met and to this day she never could . She just needs me day in day out can’t be without me and the love is there but I do feel smothered some days because I’m not that in love to just be not being able to breathe without a significant other.

[@glendanesmith]

I'm truly enjoying this series. Taking notes as well ;)

[@michellepatterson1686]

😂😂 Tony you don't hold nothing back. You and your family are beautiful. Blessings

[@love7loyalty-MHA]

Awew the doggy 🐕 was scared at the groomers

[@YoBoyJu]

Yay part 2🎉

[@iyanayona5348]

Yes to the series. I am learning so much. Thank you Sir.

[@vlee7217]

This has explained alot! Great topic.

[@Eshababyyy]

I always notice you be sayin something about the thicker women if we thicker is it not okay or desirable?

[@keptbygrace6221]

Some men like big girls, but most don't. It is what it is. Just like most women don't like short men but some don't mind.

[@bosslady20201]

She is a Jamaican!!!! Yessssssss, you definitely got yourself a keeper bro!!! Halleujah, Bless the Lord!!!

[@eagles-soar]

Man of God pray for Bella, she transitioning from baby to big girl. Lay hands on her Man of god Big T

[@PrettyDreadie]

J look like her breath stank 😂😂😂 I’m screaming

[@rosesjezus]

I was at the dentist. And I told the dentist a story and he said: find a partner so you can talk with this person. No you don't have to marry him etcetera. And I was like, why do men keep advising me this?

[@MadebyMarisJ]

Lol😂 what was wrong with sis calves

[@christineporter9914]

Bro Tony you too funny talking about Step Dog , you ain't claiming the Dog.

[@jessij4826]

Step Dog!😂😂 I hear you TG! I absolutely love everything about this here channel. Get you some knowledge and a laugh you hear meee!😅❤

[@DW-tt8si]

Holy Roller lol😂

[@kitamariemartin2069]

I'm a lighter shade of brown and the gentleman I'm dating has the same preference. I'm not sure if I want to proceed since he told me he prefers darker-skinned women.

[@FitnurseApril]

J Lo and the breath.. took me out😂😂

[@BraidedNikki]

One Oreo away 😂😂

[@iashlee_3338]

😂😂😂😂😂😂 you gotta be trained for me to claim ya! 😂

[@brittanyelisejohnson7992]

Yesss!! Definitely need a series!! Thank you!! 🙌🏾🙏🏾

[@sherrynelson365]

Preach Coach Tony

[@sweetie932]

This was a good educational video, I do have a question if I may . Is it just narcissistic men or truly all men that loves to break a woman in anyway he can for no reason. For me I just can’t adjust, my tolerance is horrible, I’m not even sure I want to grow from not having to be tested to be broken. I always have this problem # I grew up with mom and dad, mostly dad.

[@KDStyle1]

Re-listen...

[@necholes9423]

It's her toes and her knees Tony😂😂😂😂

[@kalekyekaunda3988]

This is one of the best series you've done. Love it

[@misskaykayRSA]

JLo breath stink? 😂😂😂😂

[@Gfamily4]

Step dog. Now Tony🥴🤣🤣🤣

[@tlove750]

😅😅

[@natashajackson9302]

Step dog and J Lo 😂😂😂😂😂

[@charli2285]

Tony just wanted to say that you have made my life so much better.Understanding that truly great mentor.Exopress so well. And intelligent as well good looking. So that being sa8d well done continual to bless our spirit. This is Tammy Williams .Also best experience teacher for me. Love you Thank you for being free. Need more of your energy.

[@sherriwilcox6916]

This is soooo on point TG!

[@Amih1018]

I don't see how people get mad this is amazing and hilarious 😂 “She almost made the cut be she like to argue because her boyfriend she was taking a break from was dum” whhhaaaaatt 🤣🤣🤣

[@kadinethompson9442]

Jamaican 🇯🇲🇯🇲🇯🇲 woman for the win! Big up yuhself Mrs G!!

[@chocolatepie84]

Tony is so funny.

[@lyfemullins4519]

Yes, Tony, when the dog go to a new place, they always poop and pee on the floor. My dog does it all the time when he goes somewhere new. Make so ashame. Smh😊

[@marquisemcalister3465]

Mimicking us women is not only accurate…but hilarious. 😂

[@Demorbeauty]

28:30 When you said “God bless his soul “, did your father pass away?

[@DeniseM4698]

I don’t even qualify for welfare, section 8, or food stamps. I SHOULDVE BEEN WHITE 😂😒

[@samanthaharris5404]

The poor dog 😂😂😂. The JLo comment took me out .

[@joanne5275]

I couldn't listen to this because my phone must not be that good even though I put the volume up to max. I wish you had one of those little microphones.

[@KDStyle1]

Yeah..u need another phone

[@moniquethornton3032]

I'm hollering ,Tony I love you..

[@lyfesaquarium]

Tony we forgive you gah lee ❤❤❤❤

[@mygodisawesome6121]

I come here for the comedy😂

[@tamathapullens3367]

Good morning you funny

[@mygodisawesome6121]

Porto Ricka😂😂

[@eleanorjamison1985]

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