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Mens Divorce Coach - Rene Garcia

Mens Divorce Coach - Rene Garcia

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@Mensdivorcecoach
@Mensdivorcecoach 3 жыл бұрын
Schedule a free 1 on 1 with me atcalendly.com/renesance/free-consultation because nearly 3/4 of men going through divorce go through some counseling. Hire someone who's highly specialized and works only with divorce and men.
@grandemperorputin5992
@grandemperorputin5992 2 жыл бұрын
Did you also yearn for a quiet life for you and your kids? My ex was loud during arguments. My poor neighbors 😅
@hadiitiniguez2393
@hadiitiniguez2393 Жыл бұрын
I dodged some bullets. Although I was in pain, I kept my head above water. If you are strong, you will survive. Don’t compare yourself to anyone. Be a new person and face the reality. Accept the challenge
@BobBob-uv9fq
@BobBob-uv9fq 2 жыл бұрын
I overheard a drunken bum in the corner of a pub saying “ never ever get married” 20 yrs later I keep his advice
@jamiewarne9066
@jamiewarne9066 2 жыл бұрын
20 years together and 3 young daughters. She tells me I'm unattractive and I make her miserable. I was away working 11 hours a day, to come home to a cold hearted women, children upset, and a filthy house. She was a board housewife. Then I discover her affair with a married man from her running club. How could I compete with that? Fit and athletic while I'm burnt out, now left picking up the pieces.
@Mensdivorcecoach
@Mensdivorcecoach 2 жыл бұрын
Easier than you think. You get ahead of the problem. Also, you've been listening to her too long and are starting to believe her BS. I was always called a "boring old man" from my ex who was only 4 years my junior and I believed it. I had to leave to see how full of BS she was.
@Mensdivorcecoach
@Mensdivorcecoach 2 жыл бұрын
Hope you join our FB Group and set up a one on one
@jamiewarne9066
@jamiewarne9066 2 жыл бұрын
@@Mensdivorcecoach thank you. I have never been in face book, yet I find now she has multiple accounts, and Instagramwith thousands of followers. She is 10 years younger than me. And what hurts the most is that after years.of almost no affection, she tried me out before she left. I got to see the leather boots and outfit her new man is now enjoying. It tauments me. She doesn't even want the children, just the money that comes from having them.
@JustinRyan-ct7tq
@JustinRyan-ct7tq 6 ай бұрын
Hey man, how are you doing a year later?? My wife left me just a week ago after being together for 17 years. I’m 35 now. I find it interesting you said your wife complained about being a bored housewife because mine went to school to get her cpa for 10 years while I stayed the same in Quebec as a non French speaker waiting for her to finish. She didn’t work the entire time during that and her resume didn’t look great. We moved outside Quebec and got married during Covid which was challenging and her parents were about a 4 hour drive away. Then we bought a house together based on our dual income. We make basically the same amount of money. She got fired from her first job coming out here and the. The past year she was struggling so much at her 2nd job and was on the verge of being fired. She started saying how she hated living here even though we bought a house specifically cause she loved it so much and it was 5 seconds from her work and that she hated working and didn’t want to anymore and she was depressed being far from her parents. I tried suggesting taking some time off and maybe doing accounts payable for a small company or something instead of accounting firms she found to stressful. She was always very cold and reserved and hard to deal with but she became soul crushingly detached making me feel like she hated me, lazy and doing nothing but smoking weed in the bath on the phone among many other things. The Point is she basically said she hated working and wanted to be taken care of and missed her parents to much. This caused even more tension then we already were having but I was panicked cause I can tell she was Soo detached and checked out very very soon after being married. She had 13 years to decide weather she loved me or not and for some insane reason agreed to marry me buy a house together and a dog and within 3 years threw it away like nothing.
@rickboiardimindshiftingaca6975
@rickboiardimindshiftingaca6975 3 жыл бұрын
Your story is very similar to mine. I went through a long learning curve in my divorce, however I wouldn’t change a thing. All that well earned knowledge was so useful going forward. I remember constantly thinking back then how I was losing a hot wife. I realized after her, that women thought I was attractive, and now I had them while having all this recent personal growth. The world got so much better!
@Mensdivorcecoach
@Mensdivorcecoach 3 жыл бұрын
I'd do it again. Frankly, infidelity or not, I can do and am doing much better.
@bosebosell3252
@bosebosell3252 2 жыл бұрын
I ran into my ex the other day. She is 38 but still dressing up so hot. I felt exactly same as you feeling I lose a hot wife. Eventhough inside she had nothing for me. I am having trouble finding girls as hot as she was. And I was having doubt. I am still living through it. I hope when I look back later on, this is just a blip.
@Mensdivorcecoach
@Mensdivorcecoach 2 жыл бұрын
Don't replace your ex. I did a 180 in who I found. I think the only similarity is they're both Latin but then again so am I. Outside of that they couldn't be any different. Wasn't by design but I just changed my priorities. PS. Sorry it took me so long to respond.
@AgeofReason
@AgeofReason 2 жыл бұрын
Chasing women is disastrous, though.
@vasanthkrishna7809
@vasanthkrishna7809 2 жыл бұрын
This was quite self reflective. Post divorce I noticed the world around me especially people whom I used to call 'Friends, Family' suddenly behaving bit weird, maintaining some distance both in person and on social media. I realised lot of human relationships in today's time are like a mirage. It seems good when things are going well but in no time it evaporates when things fall apart in your personal life.
@mcpherson8995
@mcpherson8995 2 жыл бұрын
There is still chance for you to start again! Life is not all about you, it's about us, them, and our
@johnkauppi7078
@johnkauppi7078 Жыл бұрын
I married a feminist with a kid,she divorced me 3 years later at 31.I thought, 'ah so thats what women are really like'.She taught me everything I need to know about women and what awful creatures they can be.Yes ,the breakup hurt for a long time.I began to grow cold and emotionless towards women, to me they are just warm bodies.I'm a handsome fellow with money so women are easily attracted to me,but I'm still emotionally unavailable,no matter how much they profess their love for me.But I'll admit that I'm pretty happy and content.I'll never marry again as I just dont need it and there is no benefit.
@brent4073
@brent4073 Жыл бұрын
You just need to understand female nature and women aren't that bad. Problem is the laws and society have empowered women too much and now everything is stacked against men. The family unit has been completely destroyed by feminism.
@MatthewHarrisLawPLLC
@MatthewHarrisLawPLLC 3 жыл бұрын
Divorce Attorney here. Having to bury a failed marriage is tough on men. However, by the end it provides peace if you grieve and mourn, and actually put it in the ground.
@Mensdivorcecoach
@Mensdivorcecoach 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks, where do you practice?
@MatthewHarrisLawPLLC
@MatthewHarrisLawPLLC 3 жыл бұрын
@@Mensdivorcecoach we're located in Texas. 🤠
@Mensdivorcecoach
@Mensdivorcecoach 3 жыл бұрын
Can we get in touch? I have a men's divorce group that's growing quick!! Texas is represents a big chunk of the group. Here's my private link if you wish to friend/IM me. facebook.com/rene.garcia.96592836
@gavinsandlin27
@gavinsandlin27 Жыл бұрын
I love women. I care about them because it's in my nature. But never hang on to a woman who's a liability
@skoopqueen.
@skoopqueen. 8 ай бұрын
I went through a lot of financial crisis after my divorce, I had to raise my two kids alone, Currently I'm living smart and frugal with my money. Bought my second house already. Saving and investing lifestyle made it possible for me; even till now I earn monthly through passive income. I'm planning on retiring when my kids finish college,just hope it encourages someone that it doesn’t matter if you don’t have any of them right now, you can start TODAY regardless your age INVEST and change your future! Investing is a grand choice I made. Great video! Thanks for sharing!😊
@AnjaliKumari-tn3cv
@AnjaliKumari-tn3cv 2 жыл бұрын
Hi Rene , Mostly happens that good men don't get good wives and good girls don't get good husband . I miss those old days were husband and wives were like the water and fish where they could not stay without each other . I was quite keen to know about the aspects of foreigners about the impacts of divorce . I really liked your video . there is a great need to teach children in school about the family values since child hood . People have got mad about money .
@Mensdivorcecoach
@Mensdivorcecoach 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your comment and I enjoyed your metaphor (water and fish), don't be surprised if I use it on a future video. Curious what you mean or have learned thus far about foreigners and the impact of divorce on them.
@AnjaliKumari-tn3cv
@AnjaliKumari-tn3cv 2 жыл бұрын
@@Mensdivorcecoach I used to listen from my friends that In Western countries. Divorce is too common and people move on very easily. There maariage is not such a serious concept. But now I came to know that even they also have emotions, no one wants to live alone. . . And even you are also a good person 🙂
@sudeepsukumaran2103
@sudeepsukumaran2103 2 жыл бұрын
I am scared and confused. I want to be strong but i get emotionally broken even after two years of separation. I need help but couldn’t get the courage to ask for it.
@Mensdivorcecoach
@Mensdivorcecoach 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your comment. Sudeep, feel free to join our FB Group.
@thomesc6214
@thomesc6214 Жыл бұрын
Hello. Did you use apps for dating? Newly on the dating scene after two decades. Thanks for the videos.
@Mensdivorcecoach
@Mensdivorcecoach Жыл бұрын
I did. You should join our Facebook Group. I just had a webinar on this with the group last night. The girl on the video thought, my GF, she loves rubbing it in that she found me and not through apps, she hired a matchmaker.
@donclough2793
@donclough2793 Жыл бұрын
Loss of friends? Yep. Sure happened to me.
@jackharper6448
@jackharper6448 3 жыл бұрын
“Loss of friends” hey the same thing happened to me. A friend of mine since high school turned his back on me during my divorce. Even after i went to the hospital three times for having panic attacks. He decided that he didn’t want to hear me talk about my problems. I don’t talk to him anymore.
@Mensdivorcecoach
@Mensdivorcecoach 3 жыл бұрын
As men, we don't know how to respond to another man's "weakness". We need to get better at it. I'm sorry about you having panic attacks. They're horrible. I hope you're doing better now and I also hope that if anything (anything at all) this terrible experience in your life made you more empathetic towards men's cause because we sure need more guys like that.
@paulbester7097
@paulbester7097 2 жыл бұрын
@@Mensdivorcecoach Be careful, this happened to me, it turned out my best friend was in on the action with my now ex wife, so he couldn't say anything, I think she warned him to stay away, this came out years later.
@Mensdivorcecoach
@Mensdivorcecoach 2 жыл бұрын
I've heard that from other guys too. It's F-ing sickening
@Americanpatriot-zo2tk
@Americanpatriot-zo2tk 2 жыл бұрын
Then he was never really your friend
@BESTPLACESTOGO333
@BESTPLACESTOGO333 2 жыл бұрын
He was never your friend
@JulesOille
@JulesOille Ай бұрын
We’re about the same age, brother, I think you’re correct that our market value has increased, but women are seldom loyal
@MrShotgunX
@MrShotgunX 3 жыл бұрын
Oh my gosh, you just made me realize about the lingerie I'd never see put to use. Sheesh.
@Mensdivorcecoach
@Mensdivorcecoach 3 жыл бұрын
Really? That happened to you also? It made me feel stupid and ignorant when I found out. It sucked. Darn, my intent was not to have yo re-live the entire past.
@johnrencheck2283
@johnrencheck2283 2 жыл бұрын
Why would a man ever remarry ,not learning from his mistake,never again
@TalkToJayG
@TalkToJayG 2 жыл бұрын
I wanted to give a shout out to Rene for the great content but most definitely for the free consultation. During the call Rene gave me some actionable steps to deal with some of the most pressing issues of my divorce. Rene truly cares for our success as men, as fathers, and as the high value individuals our ex's foolishly overlooked to see. Schedule a call with Rene, you'll be glad you did!
@Mensdivorcecoach
@Mensdivorcecoach 2 жыл бұрын
Javier, thank you for such kind words and I'm fucking A glad you got something out of our talk. Funny because most people think I'm going to have then hear a commercial to sign up but your validation is more important to me than you know. Appreciate it and glad you're part of the group. Bless, you friend, Rene.
@danadane2501
@danadane2501 3 жыл бұрын
I've been single my entire life . I've met 2 girls I really knew were amazing in different ways . Different times in my teens . No real relationships no true love ever . Yours is a much different heartbreak . I feel for you . Although we occupy different ends of the spectrum you just motivate me to keep pushing and improving . I don't wanna die alone but won't settle for toxic woman either.
@Mensdivorcecoach
@Mensdivorcecoach 3 жыл бұрын
You know, I enjoyed my time when I was single. I didn't miss it. Like a guy that got out of prison , there was so much I learned and could do. Today as I'm now off the market, I have to say that it's different un SUCH A BETTER WAY, but I didn't want to do it until I was single for at minimum 2 years. I hope you get to meet someone and experience that. Look me up on FB and friend me. You seen like a cool cat brother.
@garytrautmann
@garytrautmann 3 жыл бұрын
Dane you are totally correct about your feelings since no one truly wants to die alone. And even though you have never been married before, there are solutions to your story. There are always solutions. The first question you have to ask yourself is what do you truly want in a woman?
@mcpherson8995
@mcpherson8995 2 жыл бұрын
There is love, it's just that you haven't met the right person yet! I have also encounted much like you but I still believe one day, I will meet the right person
@djjrifau
@djjrifau 2 жыл бұрын
Almost 2 years after..i only talk to her parents and sister because they are my son's family...but its limited. I'm am much better now...all comes out in the wash and things are seen easily. Blinders off 💪👏
@Mensdivorcecoach
@Mensdivorcecoach 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your response. Are you part of our FB Group?
@djjrifau
@djjrifau 2 жыл бұрын
@@Mensdivorcecoach no I am not wasn't aware of it
@Mensdivorcecoach
@Mensdivorcecoach 2 жыл бұрын
@@djjrifau facebook.com/groups/1381621565353978
@rjrulz327
@rjrulz327 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks brother I feel like I'm in a similar situation... after realizing the people she was messing around with it, really changed my perspective on the situation in general.
@trancein305
@trancein305 3 жыл бұрын
Even when she cheats, Most of those friends will stick with the woman. Most of those friends will support and be by her side even after you knew them for years. They were never your real friends. It’s crazy how they’ll show it to.
@Mensdivorcecoach
@Mensdivorcecoach 3 жыл бұрын
I gotta admit, that surprised me also. Surprised me to see them hanging out at a party. But,,,,, that said, it was time that I switched social circle. Funny how quickly you build it when you don't have a choice.
@hellodia8038
@hellodia8038 2 жыл бұрын
What men don’t realize is that woman suffered in silence and the “friends” knew all about it . Women check out mentally before they leave a relationship and men seem to be blindsided by it . Men lack emotional intelligence and support and thats why marriage is declining . It never benefits women , nothing does.
@brent4073
@brent4073 Жыл бұрын
What is crazy is no one cares if the woman cheats other than the guy she f'd over. Everyone shrugs it off as 'women will be women'.
@BrandonClapp
@BrandonClapp 2 жыл бұрын
Glad you found your balls, dude. Once I reached the acceptance phase, I found mine too.
@Mensdivorcecoach
@Mensdivorcecoach 2 жыл бұрын
Curious,,,,, would you say that your acceptance phase happened at same time as your not feeling the need to be her caregiver? Asking because when I did stop feeling responsible for her, that's when I felt powerful.
@767dag
@767dag Жыл бұрын
if you are going through this and your friends and family don’t reach out , FORGET THEM
@jaredmurphy8128
@jaredmurphy8128 Жыл бұрын
Yeah....I watch all these videos and it always turns to dating again etc....I'm not interested in dating ever again. I want her to be the last person I loved on that level really. I grieved her months ago. I realized I wasn't enough for her and refused to put my kids through a toxic existence. She definitely let me know she wanted me gone
@Mensdivorcecoach
@Mensdivorcecoach Жыл бұрын
Really? Dude, this is one of the saddest comments I've ever received. You don't even want to be helped and that's so sad. I think your response to your breakup was my reason for moving so quickly, it was people like you that were my motivation not to become that way.
@jaredmurphy8128
@jaredmurphy8128 Жыл бұрын
@@Mensdivorcecoach what's even sadder is you don't even comprehend what I'm saying. Thank you for the award though
@mikey92362
@mikey92362 Жыл бұрын
Maybe you weren't enough for her. But if she's anything like most ex wives, no man on earth is enough for them. They can never be happy with what they have. A woman who doesn't get what she wants is unhappy. But a woman who gets everything she wants is absolutely miserable. They really don't even know what they want. Even when they got the jackpot, they'll keep rolling the dice to see if they can do better. You can't make them happy. Even trying to make them happy makes them more miserable. Dating again did wonders for my self esteem. I make it clear upfront that there will be no relationship with me. I won't spend money on them either. I tell them that upfront. And most women are fine with it. They're kind of startled to run into the opposite of the simps they're used to. Enjoy their company. Just rent and never purchase again. But I can totally understand just going full monk mode too. I'll probably do the same thing now that I no longer need to prove anything to myself.
@oksoap2315
@oksoap2315 3 жыл бұрын
Awesome video!
@Mensdivorcecoach
@Mensdivorcecoach 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks!
@kittykathurricanetexas1634
@kittykathurricanetexas1634 2 жыл бұрын
How many men here walked out on their wife to move back in with the mother…
@Mensdivorcecoach
@Mensdivorcecoach 2 жыл бұрын
I don't know about how many "walked out on their wife" it's usually the other way around. I do have data regarding where they live. About 20% of the men that moved out are staying with friends/family member, Hope this helps.
@marvinhagler4721
@marvinhagler4721 2 жыл бұрын
Cant do that when shes NOT living
@playstereo
@playstereo 2 жыл бұрын
Where the heck were you able to date for two years, I have been trying to go out on the date for last year and half and have not had any success. My issue is that I am loosing confidence on the idea.
@Mensdivorcecoach
@Mensdivorcecoach 2 жыл бұрын
Don't you dare go that way man. Join our FB Group and make an appointment for me. You know, the original purpose of this channel was online dating because I studied it so much but I didn't want to be that guy. So, I know a lot about it. Please, join our FB Group and make a 1 on 1 with me. Data shows that men who have a good dating live after a divorce is one of the strongest predictors in how their overall enjoyment of life will turn out. Not because the dating but the spill over effect to other aspects of their life like confidence, etc. linktr.ee/renesanceman
@chadbrown4136
@chadbrown4136 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks to Rene Sance's videos, I was able to move onto higher ground with a rapidity that impressed me. This video really helped me when I was knee deep in the excrement pool (censored for KZbin) that is divorce. I really felt he put into words a lot of what I already knew. I already have a decent network that helped me through, or I definitely would have hired him. Turns out I didn't even need a coach, but his videos were enough. My mourning period lasted a few months. I'm not exactly sure how fast as I had highs and lows, but this program works! I highly recommend you get help through this. I've already recommended his videos to people who are currently where I was earlier this year.
@ArmchairExpert76
@ArmchairExpert76 Жыл бұрын
You gotta find your balls dude. Very good advice 👌
@Mensdivorcecoach
@Mensdivorcecoach Жыл бұрын
Always!
@rolandbazaldua5773
@rolandbazaldua5773 3 жыл бұрын
Great video
@Mensdivorcecoach
@Mensdivorcecoach 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks R Dot, glad you enjoyed it. Tried to represent as well.
@brettwightman2047
@brettwightman2047 3 жыл бұрын
Great video brother 👍
@Mensdivorcecoach
@Mensdivorcecoach 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks Brett, what would you be telling yourself?
@brettwightman2047
@brettwightman2047 3 жыл бұрын
@@Mensdivorcecoach it would a long deep conversation about how I need to snap out of it sooner and look at what I have let happen to me and how its affecting me mentally and physically.
@Mensdivorcecoach
@Mensdivorcecoach 3 жыл бұрын
Should include where you're going and wanna go.
@feliksobertman2103
@feliksobertman2103 3 жыл бұрын
So true !!! The toughest time of my life!!
@Mensdivorcecoach
@Mensdivorcecoach 3 жыл бұрын
Make it your ReneSance. I wouldn't trade it for the world.
@fluteshehnai
@fluteshehnai 3 жыл бұрын
Really beautiful presentation..I loved it👍
@Mensdivorcecoach
@Mensdivorcecoach 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you Brother. Feel free to join our FB Group. It's discreet, free and we're there for support. Just make sure you answer the questions because we don't accept people if they don't. facebook.com/groups/1381621565353978
@raquel8493
@raquel8493 2 жыл бұрын
I liked your video and I find it some parts even helpful for women. I have spent two years wasting thinking about my ex and his infidelity. It was scary but now is time to live.
@andysolis9521
@andysolis9521 3 жыл бұрын
Rene Garcia Totally spoke to my situation. How was I so blind to her thinking? How could we have gone from the time of our lives in love, to a fucking divorce? Why does that shit happen? I am learning to grow through grief. I'm 61 and still hopeful in finding the real love of my life. I know she is out there looking for me. It's now just a matter of my growing and ultimately finding her‼️
@Mensdivorcecoach
@Mensdivorcecoach 3 жыл бұрын
Andy, I'm terribly sorry for what happened to you. Don't just grow through grief but also through pushing yourself, through getting out of your comfort zone and get comfortable with the uncomfortable. You'll find love. True love, none of this BS crap love that we were given. I think as I look into my life today, at 48, I'm coping with my own existential crisis and realizing the reality that life goes by so quickly. That's one of the reasons I did the Existential crisis video, because the older we get, the more we realize that we had so many more options but limited ourselves to keeps certain standards on society. All for what? So I say grow brother. Thanks for sharing
@DBEdwards
@DBEdwards 2 жыл бұрын
Man I 'm 67 and still looking. Stinks
@jimmynebula
@jimmynebula Жыл бұрын
Not where I’m at.
@Mensdivorcecoach
@Mensdivorcecoach Жыл бұрын
Make a one on one then dude. By the time you were this comment you'd have something in the books. That's my pet peeve. You're good at expression how down you are but don't dig shit about it. It's been two years. Now you just have to reflect that is really on you and take responsibility. Bless and seriously, I'm waiting for your appointment
@philip-pp9qt
@philip-pp9qt 6 ай бұрын
Being emotional is understandable. But it can't effect your judgement. Marriage and divorce is a machine. You have to be mechanical and unemotional about dealing with it.
@Agent77X
@Agent77X 2 жыл бұрын
Never be on a social media in the 1st place!😮
@Mensdivorcecoach
@Mensdivorcecoach 2 жыл бұрын
That box has been opened since 2 decades ago. You can decide to laminate life or live it. I choose the ladder.
@mosesherdez1531
@mosesherdez1531 3 жыл бұрын
Great video, thank you for sharing with us, man.
@Mensdivorcecoach
@Mensdivorcecoach 3 жыл бұрын
My pleasure. Please free to join our FB Group. It's private and free.
@johnbasile1609
@johnbasile1609 13 күн бұрын
I wish I was calm and not try to save the marriage. In the end she gave me full custody of the children. In the end 20 years later our children were hurt the worst.
@Mensdivorcecoach
@Mensdivorcecoach 9 күн бұрын
John, I think you're part of our FB Group. Being a full time single parent is extremely difficult. I don't recommend that to either parent. I know it's been a while for you but you need anything, please set something up. FYI, I had full custody for a few years and I was a better parent with partial custody.
@dondady5500
@dondady5500 2 жыл бұрын
I am ugly and have a hot wife . Don’t wanna loose her but she finally realized I am ugly and want to leave.
@Mensdivorcecoach
@Mensdivorcecoach 2 жыл бұрын
The only thing ugly about this is your comment. If you think she's better than you than she is better than you. You've made her the price. As for what you mean by "ugly" vs. "hot". If you married her because she's "hot" and you're "ugly" you gave up a lot. Hope your find YOUR beauty brother, hope you can recognize that you're better than this ugly post. Your friend, Rene
@ljdidit2916
@ljdidit2916 2 жыл бұрын
Was just a mirage...Seen only by me.. WOW (PRO fkn LIFIC)! yes she is ...
@Mensdivorcecoach
@Mensdivorcecoach 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you Lj. Please feel free to join our free and confidential FB Group. facebook.com/groups/1381621565353978
@borracho19
@borracho19 3 жыл бұрын
Great advice... always spot-on!
@Mensdivorcecoach
@Mensdivorcecoach 3 жыл бұрын
My pleasure brother.
@slamdragonsok5296
@slamdragonsok5296 2 жыл бұрын
I’m confused concerned my soon to be ex that I’ve been with for over 20 years just told me that she love me but im not her true love, and that she wants to find her soul mate I’ve been so busy trying to build wealth and to be financially certain. That I haven’t paid her any attention. Hopefully all go well gonna stay single after this.
@Mensdivorcecoach
@Mensdivorcecoach 2 жыл бұрын
There is a video I did regarding the 3 types of love. I hope you get the opportunity to view it.
@karlaobolanos2178
@karlaobolanos2178 3 жыл бұрын
Awesome video brother, I relate a lot!
@Mensdivorcecoach
@Mensdivorcecoach 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks my friend. In that case, I'm glad you're kicking ass!
@bharatharajanviswanathan3531
@bharatharajanviswanathan3531 3 жыл бұрын
@@Mensdivorcecoach I can't forget her Stress depression 😭
@obsoleatsn
@obsoleatsn 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks man! Great group.
@Mensdivorcecoach
@Mensdivorcecoach 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks. I know, the group is terrific. Fastest Divorce Group for Men on FB.
@noahcalderon7751
@noahcalderon7751 3 жыл бұрын
Lmfao thanks brother
@Mensdivorcecoach
@Mensdivorcecoach 3 жыл бұрын
So am I. Thanks my friend.
@dermlover1
@dermlover1 3 жыл бұрын
Not all men are better as they age. In fact, that’s the rarity.
@Mensdivorcecoach
@Mensdivorcecoach 3 жыл бұрын
Good, then you can find yourself a good looking young one. Thanks for your comment.
@faizahanif9515
@faizahanif9515 2 жыл бұрын
@GirlyMuscleTV wise words. growth is what people choose. it doesn't happen automatically. and often times, men after a divorce or long term relationship fall under the category of "damaged". and women must stay away from such guys as they can be very harmful. If a man is improving, then the growth needs to be visible and he must make it clear that he's over his ex and ready to have a new beginning with a woman matching his needs. otherwise not. most damaged men play victim and women find this so attractive but it's actually very toxic and manipulative thing to do. and guys often do this just to pump and dump
@krinky74
@krinky74 3 жыл бұрын
Great information thank You for the video
@Mensdivorcecoach
@Mensdivorcecoach 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks buddy. Why don't you join our FB Group? facebook.com/groups/1381621565353978
@GabrielGarcia-su9po
@GabrielGarcia-su9po 2 жыл бұрын
Been married for 13 years. Happiness only lasted less than a year. I feel alone more then ever. I have 3 kids doesn’t change anything I still feel alone. I think it’s time for a divorce.
@rosalbaruiz3727
@rosalbaruiz3727 2 жыл бұрын
wow, man feel the same way after being left for someone. I know the feeling. Its seems divorce hits men harder. i would rather leave then cheat. it feels horrible.
@Mensdivorcecoach
@Mensdivorcecoach 2 жыл бұрын
As I began doing my research in grief and divorce I interviewed a few dozen women. The research I did was eye opening but there was one female in particular that by far outweigh any level of grief that I witnessed. It was almost three years since she was left by her husband for another woman and she still called him her husband and how he's her. The interview was done in person over lunch and I will never forget how she cried and cried and drank. At the time I was strictly doing research and didn't feel qualified to give her any professional advice but I did give her friendly advice. I hope she's well this poor thing. I wanted to hug her and hold her but I didn't want to come across as inappropriate.
@ezingles698
@ezingles698 2 жыл бұрын
Leykis 101 listen to the professor! Never spend more than 20usd on first date. Rule number2 don't date single moms! Rule number 3?????
@Mensdivorcecoach
@Mensdivorcecoach 2 жыл бұрын
You've been listening to too much red pill stuff man. They're toxic. $20.00? LOL, While agree it shouldn't be too much you also come across as too frugal, even cheap spending less than 20
@nathaniaregina
@nathaniaregina 3 жыл бұрын
In your case, When or under what conditions a divorced man is ready to look for a serious relationship (commit) ? Is there a checklist you had that has to be fulfilled before you enter another one ?
@Mensdivorcecoach
@Mensdivorcecoach 3 жыл бұрын
It's my belief that there's a sweet spot for single men to meet and start a LTR. From the moment they're separated (not divorced) a good time is 2 to 5 years but they have to go out as well. It's no good if they stay home and begin a long term relationship on their first dating experience. Anything below two years is too little, they need to go out, find out what they want, be independent and realize that they're going to be OK. Past 5 years, it's going to be hard to get the guy to comprimise as they're now used to being single.
@nathaniaregina
@nathaniaregina 3 жыл бұрын
@@Mensdivorcecoach thanks
@brothersandsistersyannah3653
@brothersandsistersyannah3653 3 жыл бұрын
Not once did i hear him say all of what he did was wrong. He not one said what he would change better as a man. Next relationship will be a fail.
@Mensdivorcecoach
@Mensdivorcecoach 2 жыл бұрын
Just saw this. What do you think my entire channel is about? My GF (yes, still the one in the video) and I have discussed our mistakes about our ex's. There are usually 2 types of guys I run into when I coach. 1) Those that have regrets of not being there and 2) those that have regrets for loosing much of their masculinity. Take a guess which one I am and why are you referring to me as a third person? Wrong pronoun, second person is good enough.
@inserter400
@inserter400 2 жыл бұрын
Don't need they annoying music
@Mensdivorcecoach
@Mensdivorcecoach 2 жыл бұрын
It's hit or miss. Didn't realize it was that loud. You know, I do take such feedback. I just released a video earlier today WITH NO MUSIC because of your comment. Promise.
@thor9217
@thor9217 Жыл бұрын
a real man does not need a women just leave the money on the dresser and move on
@PaulNat360
@PaulNat360 Жыл бұрын
sometimes the path to a new beginning is painful...
@user-li5xz7uk1q
@user-li5xz7uk1q 2 жыл бұрын
I like hearing/seeing stories of women cheating on their husbands, or women filing for divorce after so many years, the husbands are so usually so devastated and distraught. Lmfao!! 😂
@Mensdivorcecoach
@Mensdivorcecoach 2 жыл бұрын
Someone really must have hurt you. Truly, you either have a lot of growth to do or you're a sociopath. Either way, please refrain from commenting anything like this on my channel or I will have no choice but to block you from watching any of my videos.
@sarahrodriguez2212
@sarahrodriguez2212 Жыл бұрын
Honestly this is just his perspective but it can go both ways for a woman and a man. I found this enlightening for me after being in a relationship for 10 years. Happy to see he was able to find a partner that is for him. Without the struggle and the pain you won’t heal or grow. Take time for yourself, don’t settle and trust the universe will answer your prayers.
@gsk5161
@gsk5161 Жыл бұрын
June, your a c t!!
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