How do you NOT approach couples in swinging lifestyle? 🚩

[@contactjsl]

Interesting the points made about being direct. I've seen a bunch of videos about frustrated swingers get when their flirting isn't picked up on😂 Rather than be direct at some point they just walk away I guess? Every one has different communication styles. But I'm wondering if the issue is more the abruptness and lack of a smooth segway into naughty talk than speaking clearly about ones intentions.

[@rodyoung7045]

Common courtesy and respect goes a long way in life regardless. We prefer to build friendships and if after a while ( few interactions) and if the vibe is right then maybe play.

[@Vince-ml9gw]

Right on. Thank you so much for sharing your thoughts. You 2 are AWESOME. ✌️🙂

[@openlove101]

Thank you ❤

[@openlove101]

Thank you ❤️

[@1Whitetail]

Good advice the very first time my wife and I ever went a swingers club we was nervous big time, talked a while at a table with two other couples had a couple of drinks BYOB then a guy ask wife to dance and I did with his wife but the first thing he told my wife was we need to get your clothes off, first dance there so needless to say that didn't happen. People do come on to strong to fast sometimes. Especially with new people.

[@PaytonJohnson-hb7og]

How did it play out?

[@1Whitetail]

@@PaytonJohnson-hb7og It didn't that night but met some good people there and became friends with them. Exactly we met more that was online, you text alittle see how it goes, meet for a drink then decide later on or go forward if all is happy but there's no hurry just let us know sometime.

[@1Whitetail]

@@PaytonJohnson-hb7og really it showed us how strong we was as a couple, our first mfm was very exciting and she loved being touched by two guys at once which we talked about things that could happen before our meet and I said I was ok with anything she wanted to do. To end this story we loved it and love trying new things. A bucket list we did turned out to be one of the best ideas. Enjoy life, D&J

[@Em_Dee_Aitch]

My wife absolutely has to get to know someone over several conversations. I don’t need any pleasantries at all. So it’s about balance for us.

[@openlove101]

So great the two of you can honor each others personalities within the relationship.

[@Waywardification]

This depends on person. Some like to get to know someone...some just want to keep it seperate as possible. No names,just s*x. Again just depends on person.