Thank you So the “chemistry” that we feel is not for the person as much as you are getting what you think you want…yeah, been there and got major disappointment when I chose another narcissistic guy. “Resonance” is also at play since we “recognize” their (bad) energy that is familiar to us, and we think it’s love. More excellent reasons for us to slow down…this is a sad part of the madness and dysfunction of our rushed society; life decisions that are not given enough time and thought. We’ve been warned! Thanks again ❤
@princessjayknowles58327 сағат бұрын
This short was a shot of dopamine for me. Thanks so much!
@jmclivingwithart5817 сағат бұрын
You can't be high all the time, even if your highs are natural ones. Boredom is in the mind of the beholder. Having someone that "quietly cares" about you is one of the most wonderful things in life. Knowing all this neurochemical business just gives you another perspective on things, like poetry does.
@lynnmaclachlan44323 сағат бұрын
Absolutely, beautiful thoughts! Thank you for sharing ♥️
@maddiesyoutube6023Күн бұрын
Is there no such thing as love at first sight, then? Over the last year, I've started looking at things so much in terms of brain chemicals that it's taking away all the magic from love. Sounds like true love is basically years of boring commitment and quietly caring about each other. All the fireworks and butterflies are dopamine and other chemicals 😂
@danr2390Күн бұрын
Yes. You're finally getting red pilled. But, true love can exist early if you both commit all in, and are always ready to get through any struggle that hasn't happened yet.
@mfsusanoo723817 сағат бұрын
It's all there still imo, just really subtle
@Jana1402776 сағат бұрын
Years of boring comment is not really boring... It can be a lot of fun with the right person, who also cares truly for you.. So, you need to appreciate..
@aidaseguin6 сағат бұрын
Dang it! Wish I knew this 7 months ago. As an ADHDer, I'll definitely keep this in mind for the future. Now I understand so much 🤦🏻♀️
@crissycobain8361Күн бұрын
Haven't dated in a long time, but now this makes so much since! ❤ Thank you
@Plethorality20 сағат бұрын
The way tp really fall in love is the same way to getvover soneone: Just, GET TO ONOW THEM BETTER. Then you will know what you do or dont want.
@lindadavis566723 сағат бұрын
I think it’s the business of the two parties nobody can tell you how you feel so if you feel that way and he feels that way it’s all good
@marirothbauer5407Күн бұрын
Agree, I would prefer to stay single and have lovers less complicated and more exciting in my book. ❤
@misslanapaulfordКүн бұрын
Agreed, I wish women instead of being clingy and thinking omg the world ended I'm single and can't survive without someone good or bad. Just instead spent a little time just being single, even go to Therapy if you have unresolved issues instead of man to man to man..
@dor437611 сағат бұрын
@@misslanapaulfordwell same about men…
@bryonjaffee2361Күн бұрын
It's Infatuation!....it lasts on the average of 6 months to two years. It's Nature's Way for Reproduction..fueled by the strongest desire known to man. The reason why about 80 % of relationships breakup within the first two years.