The good old days are gone , we use to invest in friends and not money. Today you are valued only by what you are worth in money. That is why our society's moral compass is totally divergent. People are out to get money and fame what ever the cost. If you have both you wont lack in friendship. It is better to be alone than have fake friends who do not value you as a person.
@ethiopian65612 ай бұрын
Truth!!!
@WashingtonDab2 ай бұрын
Wrong,
@ethiopia26172 ай бұрын
በራስ መተማመን እና በውሳኔ መፅናት እንዴት እንደምችል እርጂኝ ዮዲ❤
@itsyidi2 ай бұрын
Eshi. I'll make a video on that.
@HaymanotAbebe-ur6vy2 ай бұрын
This is me 😔 we don't get the same person as we're, this is life
You're doing well than most people. Pen and paper will make you the most calm person in the world
@ZhaileАй бұрын
You’re my type; I will give back what you gave me. We can be friends.
@Abemelek-oz2xj2 ай бұрын
Have you ever had the experience of friends avoiding you so they can enjoy a beautiful and joyful day without the unpleasant feelings your presence might cause, only to reach out to you when they have no better option, treating you as a choice that is better than the worst, but not as good as the best? I've personally experienced this. What are your thoughts or reactions?
@educate-t12 ай бұрын
There is one person turning everyone against you. These types of groups will not last long. So don't take it personally and start enjoying yourself. It will take you further in life. Become as independent as possible. ❤
@educate-t12 ай бұрын
Same experience with me, and it was the best decision. I learned to become the source of my own happiness. Be kind to yourself. Why would you need anyone who will twist their views by just a gossip. Good luck, dear. Make your money and rely on God for pure love.
Whatever I do right now I did not take a course on it but I learned from people and through practice. If you want a part-time job anything related to graphics design, project-based work, freelance and digital marketing would help.
@haimanotgenene74482 ай бұрын
It's good to have 0 friends than a toxic selfish ones , it is a very good lesson 👍👍
@WashingtonDab2 ай бұрын
I like to add, in my experience, it’s good to categorize your friends. You will be mistaking to expect finding all the qualities you’re looking for in one or two people. Some friends are good to just call and go out to have a good time. This friends might not be the ones you call at times of hardship. But nothing the less, we are people, we are made to seek relationships/friendships to live a more fulfilling life.
@D.e.v.a.n.i.2 ай бұрын
Oh yidi i have no word kemr bcha am rly want to give u a biggg thank you😊❤
@itsyidi2 ай бұрын
I am so glad to hear that. 🙌
@itsyidi2 ай бұрын
I am so glad to hear that. 🙌
@D.e.v.a.n.i.2 ай бұрын
@@itsyidi fr i considered you like my big sister i wish u were 😊
@gashahunАй бұрын
Me watching this after losing everything, and being thrown a way
@rosehoney49742 ай бұрын
Yes I clicked your video right away, bcz I missed you!! But also wondered to hear your side of story, justification, is that make sense, Yidi!!💌
You are born to be independent. If you have God , you have everything.
@itsyidi2 ай бұрын
Amen, you too dear
@yordanosbantiyderu28252 ай бұрын
4:18 4:30 4:30 @@itsyidi
@WashingtonDab2 ай бұрын
Also Yadidya, from your experience honestly, it shows that you were not the good friend. You lied about your financial status. You shouldn’t have. It’s hard to make authentic friendships/relationship pretending to be someone else. That’s your fault. Not theirs. Now get out, be yourself and you will be surprised how awesome life could be when shared with friends. YOU ARE AWESOME, you will be a treasured friend for someone 😘
@Ruth153522 ай бұрын
She didn't say she was right about not telling them her financial stutues plus .....that wasn't the thing that caused problems she is just telling us how she felt and how the situation led her to pretend because the environment wasn't allowing her too ...again that doesn't mean she is right tho gn also it's not an excuse for them to treat her that way
@livelove67602 ай бұрын
Gobez! I can totally relate to this as well.
@itsyidi2 ай бұрын
💚💚
@AlebachewTube2 ай бұрын
Inspiring lessonful experience sharing. Thank you Yidu
@itsyidi2 ай бұрын
My pleasure
@metiteshome9439Ай бұрын
I feel u dear 😔
@jerryattom29302 ай бұрын
Just found your channel 😻.Not only this video loved all your content.keep it up girl.happy to see genuine intelligent habessha girl on KZbin.your personality 👌🥰🤗
@Yeyeyenu-Tube2 ай бұрын
I feel you my dear. Keep up your great attitude and fly high.
@Sirak15162 ай бұрын
😊😊perfect
@ayinadismossie562Ай бұрын
oh thank you so much yidi .ahun lay yalhubet huniet becha fetary hulnim nger lemasitekakle akim yistegniana....
@mulugetanega47532 ай бұрын
Thank you! Tiru sew mehonish kemopizanawimetish bedenb yastawikal. You also seem to get to the root and bottom of things, meaning the fundamental principles of major things in life, e.g your mentioning of the first commandment on this topic was right on point. Tebarki!
@itsyidi2 ай бұрын
Amen
@tsionyoutube610626 күн бұрын
I really appreciate you, Yididya. I see myself in you. I also haven't met up with any friends lately. Let's hang out, please, if you have free time.
@HealthyJourneywM2 ай бұрын
Yes I don’t have friend I tried for many years. I stoped
@remora88292 ай бұрын
great point, this is the cold hard reality. i figured this out early too, and lucky for me being big time introvert, rocking alone is natural and painless for me, infact quite the opposite...its peaceful and nurturing. looking beautiful than ever btw! keep up the good work.
@itsyidi2 ай бұрын
Well said! 💚
@ruthhaile703027 күн бұрын
I see the young me in you😢 አይዞን I was the same way I always trusted my friends but they always used my $my energy all. Now because of their influence I ended up single mom. Thank God I live in America anyways.Im glad you are becoming aware of your friends. I still the pain in you አጅኺ አይዝን ምዓረይ trust me only focus on those who are heading to success if they are motivating you.
@workeneshadane71922 ай бұрын
i totally relate to this story. Recently there was a work related conference and i tried not to contact my colleagues and i wanted to meet other people and i ended up meeting two women, i know we didn't continue a conversation after the event but i had a good time.
@davidcp8892 ай бұрын
Wise Girl! Thanks for sharing
@user-tz8us9sv9m2 ай бұрын
Betam lik nesh, Enem bezu guadegna yelegnim, endewum tikikilegna guadegna bechirash yelegnim, Mikniyatum abzagnaw sewoch guadegna nen bilew yekerebugn sewoch either letikim or enen lemegudat new, Silezi Rasen askebire ena ke metfo sew agliye new iyenorkugn yalehut I know that friendship is important but if its negative friend then no need of them.
@user-pk9qs4he2c23 күн бұрын
wow lidu thanks betam 🤩🤩🤩🤩🤩
@lidetuabayneh28 күн бұрын
wow yid i learn a lot of thing from this video i hope will use it for my life and i hope you get what you want type of friend
@Sebli_bling2 ай бұрын
my twin , we were in the same kind of friendship betam yegermal . now me and myself . gen yefetari fekad kehone endanchi aynet aredad yalew sew guwadegnaye bihon
@itsyidi2 ай бұрын
I'm sure you will attract your own kind. You have the energy as mine.
@Sebli_bling2 ай бұрын
If it is God's will, and thanks for sharing ❤
@fantushtewodros69062 ай бұрын
Idk how i stumbled into this channel but i found it cool! So you know being "poor" is not a sin but it's the way how you react to change "the poor" to "rich" There is always a way to do that if you like and how to hustle 💪 Thanx 4sharing this content with us!😊
@itsyidi2 ай бұрын
I'm are so glad you did dear. Welcome aboard! And thank you too.
@fantushtewodros69062 ай бұрын
@@itsyidi you welcome! 😊
@emushkebede26492 ай бұрын
I think we can be friends ❤
@ruthbelay42832 ай бұрын
Yene enat❤ u made me emotional
@Habeshazt2 ай бұрын
We have the same standards and I thought it was only me thank you for sharing
@ተንታኝ2 ай бұрын
❤❤ወይኔ ችግሬን የነገርኩሽ ነው የመሰለኝ የኔም ታሪክነው
@HealthyJourneywM2 ай бұрын
Yes you are the best. Smart
@user-ig1lt8fw2h2 ай бұрын
❤❤❤
@BarkotBizuneh2 ай бұрын
Ebaksh Ende journal kuterinna beyekenu awarin
@teddyjoshua56012 ай бұрын
Thanks for shaping😊😊😊
@itsyidi2 ай бұрын
Youre Welcome 😊
@yorkieyoku270220 күн бұрын
1.fetari❤ 2.Erase❤
@hayatabdella70562 ай бұрын
I totally erdashalew am exactly at ur ppsition no gwadegna....
@Sariem122 ай бұрын
Keep shining
@itsyidi2 ай бұрын
Thank you dear 💚
@maremare2342 ай бұрын
❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
@eshetuengeda28212 ай бұрын
For your MCQ, the response is all of the above! For the content, I hear you, Yididya! Friendship is a complex concept and phenomenon that can appear in various forms. For a friendship to exist, there MUST be a common goal (and several similar personalities). That goal could be as simple as going out occasionally and drinking alcohol or as big as working hard (or working smart) to transform one’s life. The moment the common goal becomes out of the equation, friendship vanishes at the speed of light. Do we need friends? Yes, we do! We need them badly. The big questions are how we can find people who value our values, AND how can we easily identify those who pretend to share our goals but actually are with us until they obtain something they want from us? You know what I mean.
@itsyidi2 ай бұрын
Great insight.
@seblybiruk89882 ай бұрын
Much love yidu❤
@WashingtonDab2 ай бұрын
You need a good friend? BE ONE. This changed my life. I become a better friend, I have great friends.
@itsyidi2 ай бұрын
Most definitely
@zebibaasani71312 ай бұрын
It doesn’t work that way, sometimes it’s opposite when you’re trying to be good people will use you,
@eyormak2 ай бұрын
Thank you yidi
@user-ds3wr6vz3c2 ай бұрын
እኔ ምክርሽ ለራሴ ብዙ ለወጦችን አይቸባቸዋለሁ ለዛ ነው ማይሽ
@itsyidi2 ай бұрын
💚💚💚
@abnett.64292 ай бұрын
Currently i also don't have close friends b/se i always chose to be myself and naturally hated to be influenced in any way. well i don't dare to refer myself as a"good person" as you did, Is it right to do that btw?😅 i mean seriously do you really think you were good to your friends all along? b/se the day they went to Entoto, you can't blame them. I mean you changed your plan and decided to meet them just b/se sb offered you a ride. They were probably totally beat to come to you wz empty stomach. What happened after that...eeh.. 😊🙌
@anna_3432 ай бұрын
true i am going through this journey
@itsyidi2 ай бұрын
You got this. And your not alone
@GeezTube-tb1yp2 ай бұрын
Yididya betam amesgenshalew bewunt
@filmegna2 ай бұрын
Lets be friends 😍
@frezerabush16062 ай бұрын
thanks yidu 🥰🥰🥰🥰
@lyric56152 ай бұрын
How a KZbinr changed mine 🙂
@efratazewdu11902 ай бұрын
Thanks for sharing this kind of life story I'm learning a lot from your life experience dear❤
@itsyidi2 ай бұрын
You are so welcome
@Fth19192 ай бұрын
Bay germsh yene life huno tesmag
@bezagm22542 ай бұрын
❤❤❤👌
@WashingtonDab2 ай бұрын
How about the fact “Love your Neighbor “ Can they be your friends too?
@tibebsolomon39382 ай бұрын
Same story nw yalene ....ahun laye menem guwadegna yelgnm
@meetiitareke-vb1rt2 ай бұрын
Wow I’m passing this kind of situation right now I and I get to your videos wow wow wow.the same thing is happening to me
@itsyidi2 ай бұрын
You got this. 💚
@Fth19192 ай бұрын
Ahun gen fetari yetemesegene yhun
@amanuelteka63832 ай бұрын
እውነት youtube ገብቼ video post እንዳደረግሽ ሳይ ደስ አለኝ
@rebbybam2302 ай бұрын
I did the exact thing to my friends , I tested them eski litfa biye then months count on other months the never even texted 😂 then months turned to years , then I ended up with no friends then now 5 years 😊😊😊😊
@itsyidi2 ай бұрын
😅😅 if you step back and check almost everything that is going on in our life it's really funny.
@tsvs34962 ай бұрын
Exactly
@hannaashenafi86592 ай бұрын
❤❤❤❤❤
@lanteTV12 ай бұрын
Here’s the deal, Come if you have! If you don’t have it, you will come when you have it. ካለህ፡ ና፤ ከሌለህ ሲኖርህ ትመጣለህ። This is what most Ethiopians' friendship and social networks look like. Nowadays Friendship is a nightmare 😊
@hanadesta52032 ай бұрын
❤
@bright21ideasАй бұрын
Dear, I see the loneliness in your eyes when you say "I'm fine."
I would say they might not matured mentally cus I guess most of you are in your ealiy 20s.So please belive that there are great ppl out there and open your heart to find a few ones.By the way,I appreciate the effort you are exerting to progress your like .Bravo
@itsyidi2 ай бұрын
Of course you're right. My path simply became that and I found peace I guess.
@frezerabush16062 ай бұрын
miss you
@seblewongelbiruk33292 ай бұрын
sewodesh jegena set
@meklitk.97032 ай бұрын
U look good today hule endi hugni and live ur youth life is short
@user-sc9wy1wf1r2 ай бұрын
ጓደኛ ለማለት ነው ጉደኛ 😂😂😂your thumbnail 😊
@WashingtonDab2 ай бұрын
😂 all the time. I hate this kind of mistakes
@itsyidi2 ай бұрын
😅😅😅😅😅 I'll change it. Thank you for telling me
@user-qv4zq6mc9c2 ай бұрын
ጡሩ ምክር ነዉ
@cross09902 ай бұрын
I wanna cut these Friend of mine gn alchalkum.metfo sew adelm gn mnm respect ena value yelewm lena gn dmo yewedegnal.lerkew semokr erasu beselk yedwlal ignore karkut bata yemetal.i really wanna be friend with him but he drag down my spirit everytime.dmo eko he have a lot of friends kene wechi gn lene bestfriend nen. Any advice please.
@itsyidi2 ай бұрын
I understand that to make that decision it's going to be difficult. But if you do not like the relationship and the energy it brings you then you need to have enough self-respect that you deserve better than cut them out. You never know maybe that person will come back but this time knowing your value and respecting your boundaries