How Friendship Changed My Life Forever"

[@lw440]

The good old days are gone , we use to invest in friends and not money. Today you are valued only by what you are worth in money. That is why our society's moral compass is totally divergent. People are out to get money and fame what ever the cost. If you have both you wont lack in friendship. It is better to be alone than have fake friends who do not value you as a person.

[@ethiopian6561]

Truth!!!

[@WashingtonDab]

Wrong,

[@ethiopia2617]

በራስ መተማመን እና በውሳኔ መፅናት እንዴት እንደምችል እርጂኝ ዮዲ❤

[@itsyidi]

Eshi. I'll make a video on that.

[@HaymanotAbebe-ur6vy]

This is me 😔 we don't get the same person as we're, this is life

[@helentekea]

Thank you!!! እኔም ጓደኛ የለኝም በተለያየ ምክንያት ትቻቸዋለው ግን አንዳንዴ ብቸኝነት ይሰማኛል በዚ ሰአት የኔ የምለው ጓደኛዬ እስክርቢቶ ና ወረቀት ነው !

[@itsyidi]

You're doing well than most people. Pen and paper will make you the most calm person in the world

[@Zhaile]

You’re my type; I will give back what you gave me. We can be friends.

[@Abemelek-oz2xj]

Have you ever had the experience of friends avoiding you so they can enjoy a beautiful and joyful day without the unpleasant feelings your presence might cause, only to reach out to you when they have no better option, treating you as a choice that is better than the worst, but not as good as the best? I've personally experienced this. What are your thoughts or reactions?

[@educate-t1]

There is one person turning everyone against you. These types of groups will not last long. So don't take it personally and start enjoying yourself. It will take you further in life. Become as independent as possible. ❤

[@educate-t1]

Same experience with me, and it was the best decision. I learned to become the source of my own happiness. Be kind to yourself. Why would you need anyone who will twist their views by just a gossip. Good luck, dear. Make your money and rely on God for pure love.

[@Alemye777]

Friendship የሚለውን ሳይ ዘው ብየ ገባሁ😍ምክንያቱም የአሁን ግዜ ጉዋደኝነት ከ ጥቅም ጋር ነውካለሽ አለሽ ከሌለሽ የለሽም :በዛው ልክ እንደ ቤተሰብ ያሉ ጉዋደኞችም አሉ

[@NardosWerknhe-nt2oq]

ጠንካራ ሴት ነሽ❤❤ ታነቢዋለሽ ብዬ ተስፋ አደርጋለሁ 2 ጥያቄ ልጠይቅሽ 1,አሁን የምትሰሪያቸውን ስራዎች ምን አይነት ኮርሶችን ወስደሽ መስራት ጀመርሽ 2,የቀን ተማሪ ለሆነ ሰው በትርፍ ሰአቱ ሊሰራው የሚችለው የምታውቂው ስራ ካለ እባክሽ ንገሪኝ

[@itsyidi]

Whatever I do right now I did not take a course on it but I learned from people and through practice. If you want a part-time job anything related to graphics design, project-based work, freelance and digital marketing would help.

[@haimanotgenene7448]

It's good to have 0 friends than a toxic selfish ones , it is a very good lesson 👍👍

[@WashingtonDab]

I like to add, in my experience, it’s good to categorize your friends. You will be mistaking to expect finding all the qualities you’re looking for in one or two people. Some friends are good to just call and go out to have a good time. This friends might not be the ones you call at times of hardship. But nothing the less, we are people, we are made to seek relationships/friendships to live a more fulfilling life.

[@D.e.v.a.n.i.]

Oh yidi i have no word kemr bcha am rly want to give u a biggg thank you😊❤

[@itsyidi]

I am so glad to hear that. 🙌

[@itsyidi]

I am so glad to hear that. 🙌

[@D.e.v.a.n.i.]

@@itsyidi fr i considered you like my big sister i wish u were 😊

[@gashahun]

Me watching this after losing everything, and being thrown a way

[@rosehoney4974]

Yes I clicked your video right away, bcz I missed you!! But also wondered to hear your side of story, justification, is that make sense, Yidi!!💌

[@itsyidi]

💚💚 thank you so much dear.

[@Beniyas33333]

❤በጣም ጠቃሚ እዉነተኛ ነገር ነዉ የተናገርሺዉ አብዛኛዉ ሰዉ ፣ የጎደኛ ጥገኛ ስለሆነ ሰዉ ብቻዉን ሆኖ ሲያይ ብቸኛ ይመስለዋል ppl wake up በራሱ እደሚንቀሳቀስ ሰዉ ፣ሰዉ ቢኖርም ባይኖርም ሁሌም ደስተኛ ነዉ በራስ ሁሉን ነገር ማረግ ፣መወሰን የተሻለ ሂወት ለመኖር መፍጨርጨር ሆሆሆሆ እረ አይወዳደርም ይዲዬ እዛዉ ብቻሽን ይሻልሻል የዘንድሮ ጓደኛ Horrible 😅

[@emebetwoldekidan3810]

You are born to be independent. If you have God , you have everything.

[@itsyidi]

Amen, you too dear

[@yordanosbantiyderu2825]

4:18 4:30 4:30 ​@@itsyidi

[@WashingtonDab]

Also Yadidya, from your experience honestly, it shows that you were not the good friend. You lied about your financial status. You shouldn’t have. It’s hard to make authentic friendships/relationship pretending to be someone else. That’s your fault. Not theirs. Now get out, be yourself and you will be surprised how awesome life could be when shared with friends. YOU ARE AWESOME, you will be a treasured friend for someone 😘

[@Ruth15352]

She didn't say she was right about not telling them her financial stutues plus .....that wasn't the thing that caused problems she is just telling us how she felt and how the situation led her to pretend because the environment wasn't allowing her too ...again that doesn't mean she is right tho gn also it's not an excuse for them to treat her that way

[@livelove6760]

Gobez! I can totally relate to this as well.

[@itsyidi]

💚💚

[@AlebachewTube]

Inspiring lessonful experience sharing. Thank you Yidu

[@itsyidi]

My pleasure

[@metiteshome9439]

I feel u dear 😔

[@jerryattom2930]

Just found your channel 😻.Not only this video loved all your content.keep it up girl.happy to see genuine intelligent habessha girl on KZbin.your personality 👌🥰🤗

[@Yeyeyenu-Tube]

I feel you my dear. Keep up your great attitude and fly high.

[@Sirak1516]

😊😊perfect

[@ayinadismossie562]

oh thank you so much yidi .ahun lay yalhubet huniet becha fetary hulnim nger lemasitekakle akim yistegniana....

[@mulugetanega4753]

Thank you! Tiru sew mehonish kemopizanawimetish bedenb yastawikal. You also seem to get to the root and bottom of things, meaning the fundamental principles of major things in life, e.g your mentioning of the first commandment on this topic was right on point. Tebarki!

[@itsyidi]

Amen

[@tsionyoutube6106]

I really appreciate you, Yididya. I see myself in you. I also haven't met up with any friends lately. Let's hang out, please, if you have free time.

[@HealthyJourneywM]

Yes I don’t have friend I tried for many years. I stoped

[@remora8829]

great point, this is the cold hard reality. i figured this out early too, and lucky for me being big time introvert, rocking alone is natural and painless for me, infact quite the opposite...its peaceful and nurturing. looking beautiful than ever btw! keep up the good work.

[@itsyidi]

Well said! 💚

[@ruthhaile7030]

I see the young me in you😢 አይዞን I was the same way I always trusted my friends but they always used my $my energy all. Now because of their influence I ended up single mom. Thank God I live in America anyways.Im glad you are becoming aware of your friends. I still the pain in you አጅኺ አይዝን ምዓረይ trust me only focus on those who are heading to success if they are motivating you.

[@workeneshadane7192]

i totally relate to this story. Recently there was a work related conference and i tried not to contact my colleagues and i wanted to meet other people and i ended up meeting two women, i know we didn't continue a conversation after the event but i had a good time.

[@davidcp889]

Wise Girl! Thanks for sharing

[@user-tz8us9sv9m]

Betam lik nesh, Enem bezu guadegna yelegnim, endewum tikikilegna guadegna bechirash yelegnim, Mikniyatum abzagnaw sewoch guadegna nen bilew yekerebugn sewoch either letikim or enen lemegudat new, Silezi Rasen askebire ena ke metfo sew agliye new iyenorkugn yalehut I know that friendship is important but if its negative friend then no need of them.

[@user-pk9qs4he2c]

wow lidu thanks betam 🤩🤩🤩🤩🤩

[@lidetuabayneh]

wow yid i learn a lot of thing from this video i hope will use it for my life and i hope you get what you want type of friend

[@Sebli_bling]

my twin , we were in the same kind of friendship betam yegermal . now me and myself . gen yefetari fekad kehone endanchi aynet aredad yalew sew guwadegnaye bihon

[@itsyidi]

I'm sure you will attract your own kind. You have the energy as mine.

[@Sebli_bling]

If it is God's will, and thanks for sharing ❤

[@fantushtewodros6906]

Idk how i stumbled into this channel but i found it cool! So you know being "poor" is not a sin but it's the way how you react to change "the poor" to "rich" There is always a way to do that if you like and how to hustle 💪 Thanx 4sharing this content with us!😊

[@itsyidi]

I'm are so glad you did dear. Welcome aboard! And thank you too.

[@fantushtewodros6906]

@@itsyidi you welcome! 😊

[@emushkebede2649]

I think we can be friends ❤

[@ruthbelay4283]

Yene enat❤ u made me emotional

[@Habeshazt]

We have the same standards and I thought it was only me thank you for sharing

[@ተንታኝ]

❤❤ወይኔ ችግሬን የነገርኩሽ ነው የመሰለኝ የኔም ታሪክነው

[@HealthyJourneywM]

Yes you are the best. Smart

[@user-ig1lt8fw2h]

❤❤❤

[@BarkotBizuneh]

Ebaksh Ende journal kuterinna beyekenu awarin

[@teddyjoshua5601]

Thanks for shaping😊😊😊

[@itsyidi]

Youre Welcome 😊

[@yorkieyoku2702]

1.fetari❤ 2.Erase❤

[@hayatabdella7056]

I totally erdashalew am exactly at ur ppsition no gwadegna....

[@Sariem12]

Keep shining

[@itsyidi]

Thank you dear 💚

[@maremare234]

❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@eshetuengeda2821]

For your MCQ, the response is all of the above! For the content, I hear you, Yididya! Friendship is a complex concept and phenomenon that can appear in various forms. For a friendship to exist, there MUST be a common goal (and several similar personalities). That goal could be as simple as going out occasionally and drinking alcohol or as big as working hard (or working smart) to transform one’s life. The moment the common goal becomes out of the equation, friendship vanishes at the speed of light. Do we need friends? Yes, we do! We need them badly. The big questions are how we can find people who value our values, AND how can we easily identify those who pretend to share our goals but actually are with us until they obtain something they want from us? You know what I mean.

[@itsyidi]

Great insight.

[@seblybiruk8988]

Much love yidu❤

[@WashingtonDab]

You need a good friend? BE ONE. This changed my life. I become a better friend, I have great friends.

[@itsyidi]

Most definitely

[@zebibaasani7131]

It doesn’t work that way, sometimes it’s opposite when you’re trying to be good people will use you,

[@eyormak]

Thank you yidi

[@user-ds3wr6vz3c]

እኔ ምክርሽ ለራሴ ብዙ ለወጦችን አይቸባቸዋለሁ ለዛ ነው ማይሽ

[@itsyidi]

💚💚💚

[@abnett.6429]

Currently i also don't have close friends b/se i always chose to be myself and naturally hated to be influenced in any way. well i don't dare to refer myself as a"good person" as you did, Is it right to do that btw?😅 i mean seriously do you really think you were good to your friends all along? b/se the day they went to Entoto, you can't blame them. I mean you changed your plan and decided to meet them just b/se sb offered you a ride. They were probably totally beat to come to you wz empty stomach. What happened after that...eeh.. 😊🙌

[@anna_343]

true i am going through this journey

[@itsyidi]

You got this. And your not alone

[@GeezTube-tb1yp]

Yididya betam amesgenshalew bewunt

[@filmegna]

Lets be friends 😍

[@frezerabush1606]

thanks yidu 🥰🥰🥰🥰

[@lyric5615]

How a KZbinr changed mine 🙂

[@efratazewdu1190]

Thanks for sharing this kind of life story I'm learning a lot from your life experience dear❤

[@itsyidi]

You are so welcome

[@Fth1919]

Bay germsh yene life huno tesmag

[@bezagm2254]

❤❤❤👌

[@WashingtonDab]

How about the fact “Love your Neighbor “ Can they be your friends too?

[@tibebsolomon3938]

Same story nw yalene ....ahun laye menem guwadegna yelgnm

[@meetiitareke-vb1rt]

Wow I’m passing this kind of situation right now I and I get to your videos wow wow wow.the same thing is happening to me

[@itsyidi]

You got this. 💚

[@Fth1919]

Ahun gen fetari yetemesegene yhun

[@amanuelteka6383]

እውነት youtube ገብቼ video post እንዳደረግሽ ሳይ ደስ አለኝ

[@rebbybam230]

I did the exact thing to my friends , I tested them eski litfa biye then months count on other months the never even texted 😂 then months turned to years , then I ended up with no friends then now 5 years 😊😊😊😊

[@itsyidi]

😅😅 if you step back and check almost everything that is going on in our life it's really funny.

[@tsvs3496]

Exactly

[@hannaashenafi8659]

❤❤❤❤❤

[@lanteTV1]

Here’s the deal, Come if you have! If you don’t have it, you will come when you have it. ካለህ፡ ና፤ ከሌለህ ሲኖርህ ትመጣለህ። This is what most Ethiopians' friendship and social networks look like. Nowadays Friendship is a nightmare 😊

[@hanadesta5203]

❤

[@bright21ideas]

Dear, I see the loneliness in your eyes when you say "I'm fine."

[@helenab6776]

idmay leh social media!

[@mubarekmurid69]

Yikrta adrgilgn mnm alsemawshm betam konjo honesh slemetash anchin bcha neber eyayew yeneberew😂

[@itsyidi]

😅 I'm flattered. But you need to listen again.

[@Furtuyoseph]

I actually missed u😅

[@itsyidi]

🥰🥰

[@alemtsehayworku7160]

በጣም ጠቃሚ ነገር ውዴ

[@WashingtonDab]

Can you tell? It’s a topic very important to me. And some “no good” friends are a path to meeting great people. please be open. Melkam ken

[@Samuel_Tilahun]

በጣም ነው ምትናፍቂኝ please ቶሎ ቶሎ video ልቀቂ

[@ermiasfitsum5790]

Jesus loves me ...jesus is my everything to me..jesus ❤❤❤❤

[@maremare234]

Gobozinshi

[@birukassefa4348]

YIDU .... you need to understand that no one is perfect. I hope someday you will get what I meant 🙃🙃

[@sebelleteferaminas9875]

የኔ ቆንጆ በዚህ ዘመን በተለይ ብቸኝነትን የመሰለ የለም ሰው ውስብስብ ሆኖአል ምንም ጥሩ ብትሆኝለት ስላንቺ ግድም የለው ወይ እንደ ፋራ ይቆጥርሻል😂 so ብቸኝነት ያዋጣል ወይ ፈጣሪ የባረካትን ስጠኝ ማለት ብቻ ይመችሽ።

[@itsyidi]

So true

[@wegahitatube]

🙏❤❤❤🙏

[@tizitayehualashet7816]

I would say they might not matured mentally cus I guess most of you are in your ealiy 20s.So please belive that there are great ppl out there and open your heart to find a few ones.By the way,I appreciate the effort you are exerting to progress your like .Bravo

[@itsyidi]

Of course you're right. My path simply became that and I found peace I guess.

[@frezerabush1606]

miss you

[@seblewongelbiruk3329]

sewodesh jegena set

[@meklitk.9703]

U look good today hule endi hugni and live ur youth life is short

[@user-sc9wy1wf1r]

ጓደኛ ለማለት ነው ጉደኛ 😂😂😂your thumbnail 😊

[@WashingtonDab]

😂 all the time. I hate this kind of mistakes

[@itsyidi]

😅😅😅😅😅 I'll change it. Thank you for telling me

[@user-qv4zq6mc9c]

ጡሩ ምክር ነዉ

[@cross0990]

I wanna cut these Friend of mine gn alchalkum.metfo sew adelm gn mnm respect ena value yelewm lena gn dmo yewedegnal.lerkew semokr erasu beselk yedwlal ignore karkut bata yemetal.i really wanna be friend with him but he drag down my spirit everytime.dmo eko he have a lot of friends kene wechi gn lene bestfriend nen. Any advice please.

[@itsyidi]

I understand that to make that decision it's going to be difficult. But if you do not like the relationship and the energy it brings you then you need to have enough self-respect that you deserve better than cut them out. You never know maybe that person will come back but this time knowing your value and respecting your boundaries

[@cross0990]

@@itsyidi 🙏🙏

[@fish618]

The same story here,dear

[@hayatmedia1823]

Anchi nafkeshign new konjit ❤

[@LiyaDegefa-o8i]

Omg yene chigeri bicha masilogni sawo yitalegnal biye enideti eraseni ziki arige enidamayewo😪😪

[@MelatHaftey]

Yeah me to l have toxic friend 😮

[@tsedid308]

Kesew mifelgutn negeroch validation fkr mejemriya leras mestet exactly yidi then u will get your peace ..

[@birukteshome6387]

Chance 😅😅😅

[@user-kf4in6jz1o]

ጉደኛ ጋደኛ

[@itsyidi]

😅 will change that.

[@beza7419]

Yet enagegn gudegna 😭😭😭

[@Amen-in2tu]

Enenem getemognal ahun bekrb yegermal e/r yerdagn becha..... yene enat enkuwan leze Ken abekash ok. Edelegnanesh berch e/r kanchgar yehun❤

[@user-pi5fw4lo9m]

Can i be ur friend