How I Changed My Life

Today is a little bit of a switch-up to sit down and have a one-on-one conversation with you guys to help you understand how I made a shift in my life for the better. Hopefully, this helps someone.
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[@onlyjoeltaylor]

I’ve started following you since i just turned 23. And to anyone reading this comment. He’s right!! I’ve been grinding for about two months now. And if you put the work in now it pays off. I traded going out for going to the gym. I gave up the temporary fun for long nights in front of my laptop. I left fancy dinners for cheap dinners at home. It wont sound great but the benefits will come back for you.

[@GsnaGs]

yessir keep it up

[@Wellwtfallthenamesaretooken]

You so fine. Like boy you minez.

[@glassconference9088]

sleep

[@nisay9847]

Insta?

[@GsnaGs]

@@nisay9847 what?

[@MathewRyan111]

Thanks for this. I'm a little over 40 and can promise there will be more than one period of down. Imagine life as peaks and valleys. Often the valleys get even harder as we age, because they are multi-layered. So important to prepare when young for good health, including mental health, so those valleys can be tackled when older. And NEVER claim victory over something like sobriety, etc. The universe could have a surprise in store if you claim victory. Peaks and valleys.

[@averagekxd-_-6218]

Wym don’t claim thing like sobriety?

[@MathewRyan111]

@@averagekxd-_-6218 I mean don't ever let yourself think you can't fall back down again if you're sober. Stay humble. One day at a time. Never claim that you "beat" it because there is no beating it.

[@thegenosims]

Should peep Peaks and Valleys by Spencer Johnson

[@sifisombatha2245]

I hear you. So many times I claimed victory over a couple of addictions and I have fallen too many times to the same pits(valleys) but one thing I have started doing now is to have accountability partners for my addictions and goals… They help me stay focus but most importantly having a relationship with Jesus Christ has been the best decision I could have made to walk without condemnation even when I stumble or even fall because His grace is sufficient.

[@DLAWREALESTATE81]

@@thegenosims I’m on that Audiobook now. Thanks to YT

[@nathananderson8720]

This is one of the channels that gave me the courage to start my KZbin channel 2 months ago about self development. Now I have 196 subs and almost 82 hours of watch time. I know it’s not comparable with others but I’m still proud I started because I’ve been learning so many lessons that I couldn’t have learned without getting started in the 1st place.

[@theresamish1746]

Hi carlos thanks for sharing awesome tips. I started my path to reinventing myself a year ago, I'm now living healthier,confident, stronger, making 6 figures, having leisure to enjoy family and Friends, I feel happier and living my life for myself. This is to encourage someone "you can start anytime to have a reset it's worth it! I'm striving to continue growing cus its s journey

[@evanschristain8131]

Congrats Theresa thanks for encouraging others with your story, I will love to get tips from you too

[@theresamish1746]

Change your mindset, read self-help books ,expand knowledge, budget and don't spend on impulse, save,take your finances seriously, eat healthy, exercise your body, meditate; the list goes on.... I hope it is useful to you

[@zahorushi2277]

@@theresamish1746 &// 6 figs how did you do that?

[@zahorushi2277]

I'm really tryna improve my perso nal fi nance this year .

[@theresamish1746]

@@zahorushi2277 I learnt to be frugal,minimal on spending, saving and paying myself first through investing, made plans,growing passive income ,Read a lot of books on finance and followed my plan consistently

[@danieljhagon4911]

Your honesty and vulnerability is what makes this video accessible and powerful, which ultimately makes this piece inspirational. You are a breath of fresh a air. Thank you 🙏

[@ninathecrab2571]

I needed to hear this. One year of pure focus. I started getting up everyday at 5 to hit the gym and honestly, as much as I hate it, it’s the only thing in life that feels to be going “right” because it has structure. No matter what happens, I know how my day will start. Thank you for your worlds Carlos ❤️

[@carlosdharrisjr]

Stay focused 🙏🏽

[@arnulfodan]

Crazy how quick we are to be willing to live with ourselves as liars rather than live with ourselves as failures. It's okay to fail at one thing and work on building another thing more in line with the path - one step at a time like you say! Thanks for sharing. Needed to hear this big time.

[@PLMafrobeats]

What is embarrassing to me is trying to have a whole relationship (boyfriend or girlfriend) when you are sleeping on the couch 🛋️… I did that before and when I look back on it I do not wonder why my life was screwed my priorities were fucked up. I admire you king 👑

[@theo1485]

Hi, I am French, I am 19 years old and I have been following you for 1 year now, I wanted to say thank you because thanks to your advice I have been able to progress enormously in my life. I was able to build myself a framework and I am learning more and more to take care of myself, be rigorous in my studies and adopt good habits! your videos are inspiring! In addition, your transparency makes your content unique :) Continue, you manage very well!

[@khizernawaz]

God knows I needed to watch this today. I made notes: -Chris is an amazing human being for doing that for you. Keep him close. -I have a routine - the same that you talk about but its not helping my cause -I am starting to focus on creating content with my 9 to 5 -I am ready to be a loser in the short run to get lightyears ahead

[@PassionJackson-by3qm]

❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@relveil.]

i’m 18, graduated high school last year in may, i feel like i’m at a point where I’m not doing enough but when i see your videos i keep pushing. i am actively looking for work so my 20’s can look something like this & so on. long story short, you inspire me man

[@petrruzicka295]

Keep going, time is on your side 👊

[@osariemenoriakhi]

You got this, one step at a time

[@Sassyminaj]

This was so on time. Today has shown me so many confirmation that I’m on the right track and it’s only the morning, I’ve been working on my business heavy for the past couple days and I see my friends on boats during the weekend and instead of having fomo I continue to stay focused. In this generation people always say “Spend the money, you’ll make it back” or “Treat yourself” when in reality no one can really afford anything they are doing, it’s a trap and that’s how most people stay broke. Thank you for being motivational, you never know who really need it.

[@aaronsesay6]

Congratulations on your business, wish you nothing but blessings

[@savienmarcal]

Thank You Bro🔥 I love this shit. Im going through some of the same things. Boutta graduate with no real direction, no place of my own, working a serving job I lied on the paperwork about. Bad work environment. Love the motivation bro, should be a mentor

[@sakshammansukhani9454]

I needed to hear this. I am a 1st year uni student and suddenly I feel disconnected from my friends because they embrace the #YOLO lifestyle and at times I do feel like a loser but I am gonna work towards my dreams and not give into instant gratification. Much love bro !

[@Aissa_gilly975]

Just know when you follow your friends path, you will become a real loser

[@921FM]

I'd like to let you know that your content is inspiring and this message you just gave is exactly what I needed to hear. I've been struggling with addiction for years and this past year was the final straw. I lost my job and I hit a true rock bottom. I've tried to change my life countless times but never succeeded. I had to fail to understand exactly what I needed to let go and I'm now 3 months sober and in the best mindset I've ever been in.

[@gabrielmartin769]

Thank you very much, I needed this

[@nishabaidya4366]

I needed this. Thank you so much!

[@tyford4879]

LOVE THIS VIDEO! THANK FOR SHARING 🙏🏾

[@Jeremykobe24]

Thank you for this video. I really needed this

[@Eddy-ve7dp]

thank you for this video carlos. needed this

[@sekanii4841]

Thank you for this 🙏🏾

[@martindaguiar]

Thank you carlos, thank you!

[@nicksoneko652]

Stay blessed Carlos, thanks !!!

[@msbt3]

I love this message. Thank you so much! I needed this.

[@ninadanley2814]

I needed this! Thank you so much🙏🏾✨

[@Bodybytashaa]

Definitely connecting!!! Thank you for this! 🔥🔥

[@jaytothemoon2401]

I felt the same way as you bro I walked into a job looking at everybody so miserable even the managers and after that I knew I had to change! I knew I needed change I was going to college but I hated it. So I decided to take a risk and drop out quit my job and start my own online brand! Stopped hanging out with friends that are no longer benefiting me, started prioritizing my time, stopped partying, started smoking a lil more weed lol! But now We good and we are gradually getting better. Love the journey! I live close to edgewater and I tend to walk around there to get motivated by the expensive apartment complexes and the view! Would love to meet someday!

[@kumbakpakima19]

Thank you so much for sharing this! I needed to hear that right now

[@adelalamri1186]

Thanks man . Thats really helpful. ❤️

[@harounepcgam6982]

thank you so much brooooo i need to hear that in the right time

[@Alexgotnext]

Thank you for your message! I appreciate that this gave me much to reflect on in my life.

[@Fasthebaker]

Thank you so much for being so vulnerable

[@itsjpercy]

Such a great video man! Thanks for sharing this value

[@Chrome1100]

Needed this motivation. Thanks Carlos.

[@marquiqui101]

I needed this man.

[@calef2196]

this was amazing 🫶🏽 thank you 🙏🏽❤

[@user-ff3vp3ny6m]

I needed to hear this 🙏🏾

[@saaantacruz]

Thank you for being so vulnerable and sharing your story

[@UncleSkuba]

Damn I really needed to hear this I’m in that dark place now but I’ve started knocking down small goals to help me get to where I want to be in life

[@iamjholloway]

Thank you for sharing your testimony. I’m sure it’s going to help someone! 😊

[@Shaniaa]

Thank you so much for this!

[@kingbv1079]

Thank you Carlos I needed to hear this. Thank you💯

[@dannyvalle5644]

Thank you for the inspiration

[@roseCbeauty]

Thank you for sharing your story! It defiantly has helped me! Im working on doing better with my routine/structure! I love your content!

[@AngeloRosse]

Thank you for share it Carlos, this is very important in life

[@estonngure]

Thank you man! This was powerful and relatable 🙏🏿

[@VuyoBaliso.]

Preach 🙌🏾, very much relatable . thank you for this video 🙏🏾

[@alvincodes]

Thanks Carlos. I really appreciate your honesty and message.

[@YahToldMe]

This was so on time! So inspiring. Thank you!

[@BRXTNOFFICIAL]

This one hit different brodie. Appreciate you for opening up and being vulnerable 💯

[@basilihuoma5300]

Such an inspirational story. Thanks for sharing homie. 🙏

[@Itsoktolove12]

Thanks for this man!! This brought tears to my eyes.

[@LaydyDivine]

This is amazing Carlos, your video came across my KZbin and this is great information and experiences to share. Life is so hard, and many of us don’t have any clue what we want to do or which direction to go especially with so many options now and everyone in the same age group living luxury lives and going out etc. it’s never too late to change your life

[@YoungSheckWes]

bro really thanks for this. I find this so inspiring. I have not experienced what you have experienced, but I have experienced something else and I also want to achieve those goals as you have done

[@sydonie22A]

Just saw your video popped up on my feed and I’m so glad I clicked on it because I’m going through a similar situation and I just wanna say you inspire man. It’s so hard but I’m gonna still push though 🙏🏽

[@thebadassniggatomtom]

Definitely a inspiration been following your instagram for a while. I’m 22 I dropped out of college with a year of school left to pursue my dream of becoming a fashion designer. I’ve been building my clothing brand Street War based on human history and culture for a couple years now. I realized early on that I don’t have the same goals as my friends who are now out of college working there corporate career jobs so of course my route to success would be different. My goal is to build my own company create generational wealth with my own two hands. I’ve worked a million different jobs from moving companies, to serving, to landscaping, detailing cars, gym monitors, to pick up trash, etc. At every job I’ve noticed that I hate working for people the idea of making other people rich while I do the hard work is sickening. Like you said it’s okay to take a step back from the parties to focus up on your purpose. This year I’m committed to working 6 to 7 days a week running beach chairs to fund my dreams. Crazy thing is with 8 months of consistency I will have the resources to blow my brand up. It’s been a hard fought battle and it’s not over yet but I know in the end it’ll all pay off.

[@Houdeani_]

I needed this thank you bro

[@creativegemarts]

THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR THIS!!💖💖💖

[@janeekinns]

Enjoyed the message of this video! There’s nothing like Humble beginnings and switching your mindset

[@victordasilva4157]

i feel so inspired by this!! more of this Carlos. thank you for this and God bless

[@kolyatirado1298]

Sun coming through at the perfect moment Thanks for sharing ❤

[@Veechytakesriches]

Opened up completely, gratitude for sharing your story family 💙

[@CrayDreZ]

This is POWERFUL!!!!! 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥 Thank YOU for the transparency & vulnerability that you’ve shown. Men need to see more of this & thank you for showing this.

[@kenzo_lee]

This was real! Needed this fr, thanks for sharing your story again 🙏🏾

[@xoxogabrielle8005]

I appreciate this video. Your testimony will help others. ❤

[@issacmassey7413]

You better preach Young King. You are exactly correct. "Change your mindset"! Another great message to pass to my grandkids especially my grandsons. Keep "pushin" Carlos!! You are a true inspiration!!

[@malakailuke2122]

I needed this bro I thank you from the bottom of my heart ❤

[@agentgringo5238]

Thank you for sharing your experiences, motivation and and positive energy. Love your videos and lifestyle!

[@venancia_]

Thank you for creating this video Carlos! You are not alone and you made me relate a lot.

[@Mistertisdale]

Carlos, I really appreciate your vulnerability! This is what I needed to keep progressing! Thank you so much! This really means a lot!

[@malusingobese_]

Thank you so much for this , I feel like rn I’m in that same space where I’m trying to figure out what I wanna be and what I wanna really do , sometimes I sleep late at night just thinking how I can approach my goals differently. How I can make everything come into one whole thing. The part where you were crying during the vlog bro that’s exactly me . Thank you for this vlog

[@KingJordan187]

mannnnn i needed this video tonight thank you and thank God for using you best wishes to you and a life long of prosperity and blessings

[@InfiniteMusicLive]

Wow. Thank you for being so candid about your life and how you changed it. I watch your stuff all the time and its helped me shaped my life. Thanks again king. Keep going

[@fatihwav]

This is such a great video Carlos!I have been following you from Turkey and love your stuff.Thank you for everything you put on🎉

[@beckydaniels5377]

I needed to hear this today. I’m at a crossroads right now and I need to put structure back into my day so I can make the best decisions for my situation. Thank you!!!!

[@TheOmega4ever]

Thank you for sharing. Factual worlds that i know we will benefit from. Praying for your continued life success! Stay focused and keep achieving your goals!

[@Zpac23]

Love this, you were preaching 🙌🏽🙌🏽🫶🏽

[@potterylady44]

Ahhh very inspiring video. Thank you.

[@lelensibande996]

Needed this. When you almost cried- I felt so seen! Thank you

[@cashsplashnasa]

This is such an inspiring video, Carlos! I've been preaching that having a routine and sticking to it is key to getting places in life too. Keep up the great work

[@deborahfowler3044]

Thank you for this! This was very helpful for me. Im in that place right now. And I’m ready to stay home and work.

[@davidcollinstutu]

Thanks Carlos, I needed to hear this

[@Skinnyinkman]

Very inspirational story man. You’ve found you’re way and never gave up when adversity hit. BLESSINGS and RESPECT to you dawg! 🙏🏾

[@ImFahimAhmed]

Appreciate you opening up brother. There's power in vulnerability🙏

[@felicia101214]

Thank you for this Carlos. Been following you for about a year now. This video is very inspiring, thanks for being so vulnerable. Love, from Montreal Canada.

[@tldrfin]

this was more than helpful. being humbled in such a way is confounding because while in the process i ask "why me?" but i also think that discipline is a byproduct of love. being humbled in such a way seems like a way of receiving discipline. the feeling is a catalyst toward our goals. im feeling inspired.

[@KKingRichard]

That was really hard bro🔥more wins in our coming year , am sure we will all talk about you one day. Keeping doing what you do best and we will also force to accomplish that goal we deserve .BLESSED🙏

[@kgomotsolouisaseema]

YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL AND THANK YOU FOR YOUR STORY AND SHARING WITH US

[@angi3230]

Trust the process, believe in yourself, *thank you* for the inspiration, and I appreciate the video ⭐️

[@teearaida]

I love your vulnerability! You don’t know how much this video inspired me to get out of my situation. Stories like this remind me it’s light at the end of the tunnel

[@yiswhy3934]

You are no doubt an inspiration for me. Truly. Thanks for sharing this.

[@Courtneymoriahmusic]

I love this so much!! You’re amazing ❤️ love all your content, thank you for being an example of a real man for those who need it.

[@jlpe954]

I truly appreciate you sharing your testimony bro....This one hit...

[@alfredkandakaijr]

Carlos you really motivate me man. Thanks for being authentic ❤

[@edwardjames_8]

Thanks for this bro ✊🏽✊🏽 Bless up 🌟

[@Aplethoraofconvos]

I really appreciate your transparency and vulnerability. Thank you for sharing this, oh and btw you are destined for greatness and you're going to make a positive impact in a lot of people's lives.

[@truthsetmefree]

Thanks for this bro! Amazing. I'm in the building stage and its awesome to see where you are knowing where you come from.

[@shanshanswan4948]

You moved me in every way. Just hearing your story and how transparent you are about your growth. Thank you

[@karenwilson794]

This was amazing. Thank you for sharing your story.

[@jrich__xx6132]

Great video Carlos! Loved your transparency, what a long way you have came. Congratulations 🙌🏾