HOW I DETANGLE EXTREMELY MATTED, DRY, TANGLED HAIR // FOR NATURALLY CURLY HAIR 2020

[@Leximarcellaa]

I am currently on a new acne system so please excuse the condition of my skin.

[@sunshinegirl4169]

No worries. You are beautiful 🙂

[@gissellabreu8292]

What happened with Curology??

[@Leximarcellaa]

@@gissellabreu8292 update video coming soon!!!

[@MiVidaBellisima]

So sad you have to say that, it’s barely noticeable and you are still so gorgeous!! ❤️

[@Leximarcellaa]

People do comment on it, but it is an insecurity of mine 🙈

[@PerfumeCognac]

I want to say that I appreciate this so much. I know you say “don’t let it get that way in the first place” but just to offer some perspective, I recently went thru a horrible depressive episode where I couldn’t do the bare MINIMUM. I vividly remember a day where I hopped out of the shower and with tears in my eyes drove to my friends dog grooming shop so she could literally dematt my hair with dog demattifyer because my curly hair had gotten so matted to my head I was worried I was going to have to cut the whole thing out (thank god for friends right). Anyway, sometimes we can’t prevent it from “getting that bad” in the first place so hearing you say “it’s okay I’m gonna help” and then giving us all tips on what to do once it’s past the point of no return is so so important and helpful. Thank you ❤️

[@Batcatrat]

I feel you, I'm in the same situation right now. I sometimes just want to cut it all off, because detangeling it at this stage is super exhausting

[@janneke2315]

I hope this video helped you! I hope you are doing okay x

[@sara-yy3hn]

Yes!!

[@kristievans6264]

Im in that situation now. Just hot out of the shower and I'm sitting here dripping and crying with a pair of scissors next to me . Just looking for tips on KZbin so I don't have to cut my hair. Wish I knew a groomer

[@PerfumeCognac]

@@kristievans6264 girl Matrix Biolage Hydrasource conditioning balm. And a wet brush. SPECIFICALLY the wet brush brand. LIFESAVER. Get the big bottle, it’s worth it to have on hand, just slather that sucker in there, and wet brush it under running water, if you need to, repeat until you’re mat free. That stuff has now saved me quite a few times!

[@semajwilliams2846]

I wanted to give up on my hair because I thought I was the only one with hair like this I struggle would just finding products for you really helped me and now my hair is just so soft and moisturized and I love your videos and I'm subscribed

[@Leximarcellaa]

This makes me so so so happy!!! Thank you for sharing. Welcome to the channel!

[@elorendati8422]

Me too, here where I lived it's soo hard to find products for curly hair, like there's only 15% chance you find it on the store, and don't forget the price! So expensive 😰

[@billm6294]

I love how you're not afraid to show what the real world Lexi looks like on some days! Be well and keep up the great work.

[@kahlani6313]

Into 0:00 Before Hair 0:40 Before Shower Tips 1:06 In Shower Tips 5:34 Post Shower Tips 6:46 Outro 10:33 :)

[@notevenalittle8363]

First you don't have to apologize for your skin. Second, your hair is stunning. Third, fairy knots at the base of my neck is what does me in.

[@MonkiMirai]

IM LITERALLY TRYING TO GET THE KNOTS AT MY NECK RN, I HATE IT 😩

[@midnightbel]

I get them so bad omg. It is the main point of issue for me.

[@marivadeborde]

YES SAME

[@srfinc1]

You literally saved my hair! using oil to detangle is a GAME changer! I now don't need to cut all my hair off🙏

[@Hadiyaabz]

Im a hijab and some times I tend to abandon my air because I wear a headscarf anyways. this video helped me to take care of my hair for myself.

[@hymntothenight]

this is extremely helpful, thank you! my girlfriend has been struggling with taking care of her hair and i want to help her with all of her tangles. i've been needing to research on how to take care of her hair type however, as mine's straight, and this is the perfect video!

[@xeviusUsagi]

was just getting in to long hair, and as a guy I had no idea hair was such a big problem. so ofcourse after 1 month of never brushing my hair I started to see lots of problems so I thought: "aight, lets just brush them a bit" and to my surprise the brush wouldn't go trught, even if I use full strength, I used just my hand, it didn't go trught, full strength not a movement. so I started to slowly detangle each hair individually but after 5 minutes my head was in a lot of pain and I realized this was not going to work. and well here I am years later finally decided to find a better way to keep them without knots, since till now the best I could do is not make them become a dead bush, but keep them moderately well,

[@violetkim1068]

I thought I was gonna have to shave my whole head soon enough cause I had terrible split ends and such matted hair just because my hair was long, but this really helped me thank you!

[@bridgetking4553]

This seriously helps me so much. I have super fine but pretty thick hair, and underneath my curls are a lot tighter so it gets more tangled. Thank you!!!

[@browneyedsomali2028]

I had surgery in September and my life was just plain horrible with the recovery process for six weeks and now can finally correct this. My hair is my life, and seeing it this way makes me so depressed. thank you for your valuable tips.

[@eg3605]

i didnt ask 😂😂

[@browneyedsomali2028]

@@eg3605 I heard your mom did.

[@heartz500]

I have to try this tomorrow! It’s currently a huge Matte ball and I’m terrified of pulling it apart 😩 I swear my tangled matte ball hair is bigger than my head 😭

[@adrianna9458]

Bruhh My Entire Hair Is Matted. It's Literally 3am & I'm Trying To Comb Most Og My Hair. It Feels Like Ras💀 Literally One Side Of My Hair Has Two Huge Balls & I'm Trying To Separate Them But They Literally Don't Wanna Come Out😭. My Ends Are Horrible Because I Didn't Cut It Since January. I've Tried Daysss To Comb Out My Hair For At Least 2 Months But Nothing's Working. I'm So Afraid That I May Have To Cut It😭. Jah Please Don't Make That Happen🤦🏽‍♀️

[@tune-iw9qo]

Láveeta Hernandez i feel youuuu

[@prernakrishna6774]

My hairs are horrible. Please someone help for extremely matted, fizy, dry, damaged hair. Scalp condition too is not good. 😒

[@Bella-mq3if]

@@prernakrishna6774 Hey! Have you tried hair mask? Hair masks really help for dry hair

[@lavanyaarawat]

How did it go? I'm going for same tomorrow now :(

[@Laflaca_5232]

Thank you so much for this video!! My hair is so similar to yours in length and thickness. The last time I had to detangle my hair, it took me about an hour and I was on the verge of tears!! I just wanted to chop all of my hair off. But this is a total game changer!! I detangled my hair last night using oil & a light leave in conditioner. Little by little I worked my way through all of my hair using my fingers and a brush. I washed it today in the shower and detangling it was a dream!!! Not even 5 minutes to detangle! I’m forever changed. Thank you again so much! ❤

[@DanielleChampion]

I’ve been able to grow my hair very long multiple times. But I’ve never tried oil for detangling before the shower. I’m going to try that.!

[@andreacastrejon7516]

bless! i dont have long curly hair but my boyfriend does and i just needed a guide to help him maintain his hair! this really helped me out!

[@LaHoraMusical]

OMG!!!! I just tried this! And it worked! Too bad it took me 46 years to find you. GAME CHANGER. I just started it and I am almost done detangling my curly hair that it would take me usually an hour. And yes, you are right. I let it got this bad. I just moved and I didn’t have time to do my hair so basically a whole week of just a pony tail and out the door. So yes, I tried to do braids or keep it “Tame” but when busy, a pony tail it is which results in the biggest nod in the universe hehe. Thank you so much for the tip

[@Runbts_ot7]

The trimming hair tip is so helpful. I was always forced to cut my hair as a child so I was not a big fan of hearing I might need to trim my hair, but after doing so my hair has not been tangled in MONTHS where before I would get one BIG rats nest every single day even when I just do nothing. Thanks for the tip.

[@mskeyna410]

Dry detangling!!! Tried it for the first time since being natural! Best advice! Thank you!

[@inmyopinionwisdom4986]

PerformeCognac stated: I want to say that I appreciate this so much. I know you say “don’t let it get that way in the first place” but just to offer some perspective, I recently went thru a horrible depressive episode where I couldn’t do the bare MINIMUM. I vividly remember a day where I hopped out of the shower and with tears in my eyes drove to my friend's dog grooming shop so she could literally dematt my hair with dog demattifyer because my curly hair had gotten so matted to my head I was worried I was going to have to cut the whole thing out (thank god for friends right). Anyway, sometimes we can’t prevent it from “getting that bad” in the first place so hearing you say “it’s okay I’m gonna help” and then giving us all tips on what to do once it’s past the point of no return is so so important and helpful. Thank you!

[@kiriforever1]

I definitely can relate to being super depressed and not have the energ

[@aishathfainaz7335]

Finally found someone who have same type of hair like mine

[@rosiestropicalfun]

Me too

[@juliekelly5217]

You've helped me tremendously! I'll be getting a trim soon. I often wake up every morning with a new matted glob of hair on the back of my head! Not having guidance, I haven't been taking care of my naturally curly hair.. until I found this video of course ☺️🧡 Thank you

[@jenniferdivine1115]

I went back to silicones and honestly I dont even remember why I stopped using them. Also I still use my flexy brush I bought last year after you recommended it so thanks for that I probably wouldnt have found it otherwise. I just used head and shoulders shampoo (the eucalyptus one) and their regular (regular as in not the eucalyptus one) conditioner and the slip is great. If the silicone causes any damage long term I'll update this comment

[@zander4529]

did it??

[@jenniferdivine1115]

@@zander4529 nope, I'm still using them

[@shantanugangele2827]

Now??

[@jenniferdivine1115]

@@shantanugangele2827 still using them, although I switched to a diff conditioner cause but it still has silicones

[@shantanugangele2827]

@@jenniferdivine1115 Thanks for the update :)

[@sabrinapachontorres403]

I finally found my curly twin, I love your videos and they're really helpful!! Have ever think getting highlights?

[@Leximarcellaa]

I’ve had them before ✨ lol

[@Simplyxdef3xt]

Actually I’m so happy I watched this Tysm so many ppl bully me for my hair

[@JustSomeGuyWithaGirlPicture]

Any guys with long curly tangled hair watching this?

[@ginogreen2091]

Yup

[@tonysoprano8750]

Yeaa 😂

[@BrunoSantos-sb6vh]

your hair is so healthy and beautiful

[@evadewar3905]

this is so helpful! My hair gets pretty tangled.

[@sara35ish]

Thank you so much. My thick curly hair has been extremely knotted lately . This will really help . I started detangling my hair dry and its a game changer.

[@dragonetafireball]

Thanks for this advice I have and all white family in a majority white community and just have never really known how to do anything with my hair so videos like this really help me.

[@whoakira7378]

My daughter has always a problem with this. She’s 10 now and dreads brushing her hair. Not only is it always tangled but it seems her scalp is very sensitive. It always ends in tears. Have you ever relaxed your hair before? I have curly hair also but hers is far more extreme.

[@Toawii]

"If you have an area that is bad..." Sis, the whole of my hair is a hot frigging mess right now. 😂 I don't know how wash day always catch me slipping like this. 😂😭

[@mariacastellon5420]

I haven't combed my hair in over a week and I'm having hair loss, so I'm scared to comb it :(

[@curlynella1011]

It’s most likely shedded hair which is normal. You shed 50 to 100 hairs a day.

[@marined7638]

I put heavy moisturizing conditioner (raw shea butter by shea moisture) on wet hair, i wait until it gets soaked in and really moist then i start detangling with a big detangling brush (the flexi brush by curl keeper) and bye to the matted hair :)

[@misha21olivia]

I’ve been bedwritten for 8 days now bc of a kidney infection, and I haven’t been able to do anything other than; go to the toilet, drink water, take my medicine, and eat a bit. So all the twists and turns have REALLY tangled up, so when I get better I will deffinately try to use this method So thank you, cause I was scared I was gonna have to cut all of it off😭

[@Yasmin-hk1wu]

Can I just say your acne on your cheeks are soooo pretty gurl like it really looks cute on u

[@TheHermithood]

My hair is almost exactly like yours. The detangling tip helps as I was just using olive oil and a detangler brush. It works for a bit but the next day it's a big poofy mess again. The fairy knots are what drive me the most bonkers, I always cut those out. You said something about a pillowcase please expand on that.

[@sunshinegirl4169]

Good video. Helpful reminder of good habits. Thank you for your work/content.

[@Leximarcellaa]

Yes! 💕✨

[@jessicapentz7282]

Thank you! Oil Detangling was a game changer for my daughter's hair!

[@lisatoolsieramali9772]

I’m definitely going to try this ! I’m tired with my hairs tangled 😢

[@Iheartmyself190]

Yessss girly this worked so well for meeeee!!!!! TYSM❤❤❤❤❤

[@jasminesaidy6422]

Thank you so much for making this video. Thanks to you and your tip about the oil I was able to save my tangled hair! You have no idea how tangled it was! I will forever be grateful to you. Thanks again for putting this information out there. I'm now a new subscriber. Have a wonderful day 🤗💐💜

[@tashabell8454]

You have beautiful hair and you are beautiful with or without makeup. I loved that you be truthful with all your information. Great job

[@JayeEllis]

No matter the hair type, always start at the ends and work your way up! Holding the hair between the scalp and the section you are working at saves tugging on tender scalps

[@Leximarcellaa]

So true! I am sooo tender headed

[@rosiestropicalfun]

Thanks a million, girl. I owe it to you big time. 😀👍

[@LoveMusic-dv4sl]

Thank you for the tips bc I have long fine curly/wavy hair and it gets matted & knotted up bad, and the tips you gave on the video helped. 👍

[@kyarafederico3643]

You seriously were so helpful. Wow. Thank you so much!

[@gg-ri2fh]

My hair always gets like this when I’m just unmotivated or in a bad spot and I get worried my long hair will get shorter 😭 I’m trying to make sure I wash it more often

[@75thquarterquell]

Sooo was the Notting Hill shirt intentional lol?? Because Notting and knots.

[@Leximarcellaa]

Lol I wish I was that clever 😂

[@MissAfia618]

My matting is always at the root with braids

[@rainbowunicorn8852]

SAME 😂-

[@curlynella1011]

Because you get product buildup at the roots💯

[@VedaOils]

This is an amazing video and it's a very clear dissection. I learn new something from your every video.

[@johnnyblaze2061]

So hard to detangle curls .

[@Yazmínmf]

Thank you for this! My daughter has very thick curly hair and I don’t know how to deal with it 😭

[@hoodinisharif1860]

As a Somali Man with coiled hair that looks like a car spring suspension I got irritated when those “detangle brushes” didn’t work and even when wet even though my hair is soft. I followed the instructions on the detangle process and it worked. Not everybody has the same type of hair so please use caution and don’t hurt your scalp if detangling hurts. Had braids for 2 days just to help with hair growth because my hair always stopped at my shoulders. I then removed the braids & washed my hair out and now it’s easy to comb & I still have my same coiled look 👍🏽 black seed oil and water spray bottle and I only use shampoo & conditioner in the shower and don’t use any products after. I’m against using multiple products because I don’t have time and I don’t want my hair hard or turn white when product dries.

[@chableepeterson1]

Love your hair so beautiful. I’m definitely going to try everything you’re saying in the video for my hair journey 🌸🌸🌸🌸

[@shadowman3dz]

I learned a lot thank you! Just one question what kind of towels do you recommend is the microfiber ones are ok?

[@tamouraa28]

Gosh im excited to try

[@theRealestBarbieD]

I'm here after I just literally washed my hair and she said to detangle when it's dry 😩😭

[@rainbowunicorn8852]

Same my hair is in a towel-

[@ellacarrillo8243]

Really good tips

[@yonashaile4919]

You’re helping a dad hear trying to figure out how to untangle a 4 year old daughter curly hair 😘. How many times per week do you have to treat the hair like that do to avoid tangled hair?

[@Seasonschange22]

Mine started when I had surgery and I had a wound vac on for 5 months. My depression set in and now I have matted hair. I listened to a friend and used a preshampoo which made the situation worse. I’ve used deep conditioners, leave Ins, you name it. Nothing has worked. There’s so much misinformation about it. No hairstylist are well versed in matted hair except one lady in Florida. Unfortunately I live in Ohio. People say “just shave your head” or “ why would you let it get this bad well those people clearly don’t understand depression due to illness and life conditions from which I was powerless. Simple tasks became impossible. Don’t judge things you don’t understand. Obviously I’m stating this generally but it’s a shame that people shame you for things that are out of your control.

[@SARoy-nt7rf]

I understand totally.. hope u find solutions

[@elDidiPR]

Eyy you helping me out already and is only video one thank you

[@FlamingKapra]

Well, hi! I'm very glad I found your video, because I was pretty hopeless when it came to my hair, and your tips have helped me a lot! I'm a metalhead guy, and I've been growing my hair since 2018. I've been suffering so much, soecially lately, because I had no idea how to deal with my hair, given that it is VERY thick. I have one question... Do you recommend adding conditioner every time I shower? I have pretty dry hair, but, until now, I only added conditioner whenever I washed my head, after shampoo. Thank you beforehand!

[@yarelyayala2403]

Wowwwww finger detangling just saved my life

[@hitmusicsociety]

Next time after oil detangling, go ahead and detangle with brush or comb - while dry. Cosmetologists suggest it prevents the sextreme breakage that occurrs after washing with the knots still in.

[@Aisha-dv5iq]

Wowwww...i want that comb😍😣

[@PaiWhi]

My hair gets dry and matted 🥺 especially in the back. No matter how moisturize my hair. But I’m going to try this…

[@Tandbtv1]

Amazing video, you are very pretty Dear👏🏾👏🏾

[@toxiknaoyt1619]

Whats the name of that pink comb it looks so soothing to use.

[@ellacarrillo8243]

Great tips

[@halcyon2017]

Thank you for sharing your tips. My two year old daughter's hair is very similar to yours so this video was very helpful. Do you have any tips for how to keep hair detangled while in it's dry state? That's the greatest challenge I have with my daughter's hair. We get it nice and detangled and moisturized, but by the end of the day, it's frizzy and starting to tangle. And I make sure she wears a satin bonnet whenever she sleeps.

[@Land_Shark]

you might be surprised and your daughter might have curly hair. We went though the exact same thing and when we started treating her hair as if it was curly - magic.

[@laydeejules2685]

I use to have straight, thick hair. As I got older, I noticed a slight wave. I was diagnosed with Rheumatoid Arthritis, I noticed my hair was getting substantially more cutler. I have been almost bedridden. It seems like I woke up with two large mats and I my hair is filled with ringlets. This all happened really quickly. I heard to get a silk pillowcase, I did I am not sure if I should try to cut out the mats, I am too embarrassed to go to a stylist for their help. I purchased one of the pink brushes you were using, it just bent backwards. I am 59 and a mess. I am leaving for the Mayo Clinic in a week and am freaking out. I have always paid for perms to get curls, now I have hair that is curlier than any perm and I don't know how to care for it. HELP,

[@melancholy1000]

So I went to a hotel and the shampoo knotted my hair up and I didn't know what to do, thank you!

[@saraeid8253]

It is impossible to separate my 3 year old daughter's hair when it's dry. She would kill me lol her hair drives me CRAZY 😭😭😭 I will try it with oil

[@7hfara]

I have been doing it wrong for ages! Thanks.

[@amarige25]

girl, i need that shower outfit.

[@lindalove7193]

Mine must have gotten damaged (at the nape of my neck) I had so many knots, it wasn’t funny and after I removed them from my hair, after 3 years of wash and go’s, I’m going to get a relaxer. I’m done. I’m done with the expense, the wet head in the morning, the shrinkage. I had it trimmed professionally and occasionally, had it trimmed. When I started my curly journey, my hair was above my shoulders, now it’s almost to the middle of my back. I’m going to find a good stylist and get it relaxed…okay, maybe. Maybe I’ll consider braids. Trimmed and braids. But not tight ones.

[@alyssajubinville]

I use that combing cream and I have straight hair and it’s the best thing ever

[@kutieluvsmj7]

U right don't let it get that bad yet I always do especially me being a stay at home mom to an autistic child I'm always putting my self care to the side. I'm soo exhausted to do anything with my self care

[@user-mb9jx5tx9y]

I have 3c hair and I shed so much every wash day. What can I do to lessen the shedding and soften my hair. My curl pattern has changed from using heat in the past. I deep condition every wash day.

[@lylabailey3715]

What is the comb your using? I haven’t found a good detangling shower comb yet.

[@coolloser85]

I'm a guy and been growing my hair out for a few years now. My hair is crazy curly. I have no clue what is right and is wrong. I get crazy big knots but then again I don't pay much attention to it anyway. When I go to stores to ask questions no one seems to want to help me understand how to take care of it. I've never gotten it trimmed I've just grew it out. I just combed my hair out in the shower with conditioner and I lose so much hair all the time. I don't even know if I'm using the right comb. People love my hair as much as I do and I want to make it look even better. I don't want to accidentally ruin my hair. How do I know if my hair is good and healthy? How can I tell if I've damaged it or not? What can I do to repair damages? Hot to tell if I need a trim? How can I grow my hair even longer when I feel like it stopped growing? I have so many questions

[@farah6370]

that was actually very helpful thank you

[@jayjyoung9092]

How long did you wear the bonnet before you began to style it

[@Ondagrind247]

I’m a dude with long curly hair and I’ve struggling with problem for a while thx

[@xiaoqlx]

YOU SAVED MY LIFE!!! Thank you o much

[@Anonymous-mu5bl]

The best feeling ever is when u add conditioner and u brush it ur hair become so soft and no more tangled

[@maxthadoll]

the beginning is how my hair looks everyday after school

[@aylin7078]

Can you do a video on how to get clean skin because it’s going to get thousands of views 💖

[@Leximarcellaa]

coming soon!!!

[@aylin7078]

Leximarcellaa yayy

[@amandagraham7731]

Thank you so much for these awesome tips we are hair twins lol

[@HaydennLIVE]

Thanks cause mine is looking like cam Newton’s

[@Sunrise-pl8ij]

Where can I get that brush that seems to separate, I need that for my stepdaughter

[@sophiemyers7243]

Every morning my hair is one giant, or multiple large knots and mats. This can happen throughout the day with my hair down aswell (shoulder length) This is a major struggle for me, and I can't seem to find any advice that works. Please any advice and tips would be amazing! I'm tired of having to brush for 30-50 minutes every morning just to get knots and mats out

[@JustJay809]

I hear you. Try sleeping on a Satin pillow case or have your hair up in at the top of you head to tame the frizz

[@Stephanie_HazelEyes]

my hair is exactly like yours just a little less curly

[@heatherlygillpatrick9414]

What kind of brush or comb are you using

[@giasstorytimes]

You saved my life!

[@jhx97]

how often do you detangle it?

[@marisolgonzalez4143]

This was super useful because I have a huge knot in my hair and it is so big and it's so hard to get out 😫😫😰

[@inu7533]

You're a lifesaver ❤️