How I Learned To Love Again

[@HelloHunnay]

What are some things u love about yourself?

[@jadecummings8093]

Playing fun games!

[@jadecummings8093]

I'm nice and amazing guy!

[@selma8337]

My personality 💜 and my big curly hair LOL 😆

[@flymummawaterbabes9583]

My heart, my Spirit and my Soul ❤

[@monique_6]

my personality and kindness

[@boaleah9828]

“At the end of the day, you are already with the one person you are gonna spend the rest of your life with, and that’s yourself.” Jeannie. SAY IT LOUDER FOR THE PEOPLE IN THE BACK

[@rueben44]

Yea I like that one also.

[@carolynmema2010]

Wow!

[@BeingDrBernice]

"I could not have fallen in love again if I didn't fall in love with myself." You are speaking SO much truth into light!

[@mr.albro14yearsago11]

“We’re not broken just bent, and we can learn to love again”

[@andreamadea3994]

Yes pink and Nate reuss!

[@MissV015]

Love that song!!

[@juliemitchell6037]

I like to say "Everyone's broken just some are glued together better than others. Over time your glue will harden and you'll be better!"

[@realrafafan]

@Zahira Llanes lol really??? Not a deep thinker I see...

[@marisolsanchez6068]

She’s so well spoken. I love hearing her speak

[@chocobrown2082]

Me too. I wish I could be as fluent and articulate as her

[@gracesaldana6411]

Can we all acknowledge how intelligent this woman is?!? Her way of thinking is mind blowing

[@kimberlybrabson3988]

Absolutely yes hell yes!

[@BrainstormHaZe_]

Ali Azmie Doesn’t make any sense I don’t understand simps

[@SchalaKid]

Absolutely! This woman’s ability to meaningfully self-reflect and then relate it to others in a helpful way... she’s awesome.

[@ahhnuumee]

An calming an peaceful. She always so open calm and seem to b at peace with things, people and their thoughts and opinion. Good listener too.

[@illmeeillmee9373]

You sound like a bitter dusty! Men by nature are to protect and provide! Men always took pride in that! I dunno where you dusty trash came from!

[@yclove1]

We need a “ how jeezy asked you to marry him “ video

[@maineng18]

Agreed!

[@gabbs5958]

we need jeezy on the show period !

[@KYESHAKNOWSSKIN]

Watch The Real on Monday💖💖

[@strawberrymel7022]

It was at his house in California ! Was supposed to be on a trip to Vietnam he had planned, but obviously that had to be cancelled !

[@sorayaluli9856]

Yeah..and why you're not wearing your ring😁

[@NaturallyNishy]

"You're already with the one person you're gonna spend the rest of your life with and that's yourself so you gotta love you" - Jeannie Mai. Yo that hit different. We always think we need to find the one to love but neglect ourselves and put others first a lot of the time. Great advice!

[@mjc3587]

Absolutely

[@generalgrievous2197]

That only works with fur babies and children, other adults can be very heartless :(

[@othelline3090]

I have noticed how much Jennie has changed/ matured from her pain. I'm proud of you girl.👏👏

[@TheSMCSS1234]

Jeanie must love Jeezy so much, she cries every time she talks about him. Jeezy must love her so much too, they are just so perfect. Added later: Oh! my god!! Whatt?? I have 1.4 k likes?? wow. I guess being positive and thinking good about others is good. I GOT LOVE FROM OUR JEANIE MAI. WE LOVE YOU. Love from NEPAL.

[@jolainedecoste4686]

Honey that's what happens when you're loved the right way!!! This Queen here deserve every ounce of happiness!!!

[@resourcegyrl]

Yep, when you cry just talking about them, its the real deal!👍🏾 Congrats!

[@kaki_karei]

But she is telling too much. Keep some things personal Jeannie. Don't tell everything!

[@jolainedecoste4686]

@@kaki_karei I don't think she is 🤷🏾‍♀️

[@retrollennialdungeonz2451]

@Win From Within Don't consider your own opinion as a fact, if its not a fact.

[@staytfhome1]

The way Jeannie’s complex way of thinking and navigating her thoughts and way of life is just beautiful.

[@raymundosconsulting]

Very complex descriptions

[@livelaugh_love0]

"If you don't have fears how will you know how to be brave"...one of the best quotes I've ever heard

[@bellenicks3879]

livelaugh _love Yesssssss!!!

[@vc9732]

You MUST go into a relationship as a WHOLE person, not looking for someone to Complete you. Great share Jeannie!

[@arol1644]

Voleta Chapman I absolutely love this. Because looking for our other half implies we’re only half, and we’re not, we’re whole, we are our entire person, only ourselves.

[@arol1644]

The right person comes to add, not to complete.

[@malishaguerrier]

“I’m dating myself and this guest can join me” Jeannie Mai, that is a line I’ve never heard before. I will gladly put it to use. 😂😂

[@1700zan]

😩😭😭😭😭

[@arizzle8048]

The insecurity is strong in this one

[@temavero2124]

If you can speak English, dislike the following video: kzbin.info/www/bejne/onTPaHxtpdOaZpo

[@sherlynndauphin6201]

Amen seriously I LOVED THAT☺️❤️

[@kc4531]

Malisha Guerrier Hi, This is fine ... (By the way) ...

[@JaredOhBrien]

"I could not have fallen in love today had I not fallen in love with myself." Cousin Jeannie (in my head) always giving it to us straight. She's the real deal Hunnay!✌️

[@Alexgrl99]

I’m experiencing my first break up and I’m trying to learn to be okay again without him. It’s just hard when you want to fix something or accepting that someone doesn’t want to be with you at this moment. So this video came at the perfect time I’m trying to manifest that I will heal again. The shame, starting over, all of this I’m trying to deal with! And I’m only 22 and i know it’s silly but it really is hard! I’m afraid of accepting that you can love again because that means the other party can too, and then I’m afraid of feeling that rejection all over again. But I’m really inspired by you Jeannie! You grew from this so well!

[@danniellemartins9068]

Wow. This exactly happened to me. I'm 22 years old and I had my first breakup last year December from a 7 year relationship. It left me shattered, I still feel as if am not enough, I sometimes cry myself to sleep because I've been with this person for a very long time and we both made plans that would never come true. I'm getting better and learning to love myself each passing day, I hope you do the same. Sending you love and light Alex

[@pam1082]

I am 21 years old, going through the same exact thing!

[@graymaplanka]

Alexgrl99 it gets better with time stay strong

[@dyyannakazu5638]

Alexgrl99 I had break ups when I was 21 with the same boyfriend but we’re still together now working in progress however I still think about the times when we had the choice to go separate ways. I hope you know you’re making a great decision and doing yourself a favour and I applaud you for your braveness Alex! My colleague always say “I’m gonna build a bridge and get over it” whenever we encounter a problem or something unnecessarily that’s bothering our lives. So keep building your bridge! 🥰

[@ashleyreacts8954]

Alexgrl99 I am 22 and in the position right now and have started healing from previous relationship and this video could not come at the right time 🙏🏽

[@shbr8533]

YOU SAID SOMETHING THAT HELPED ME! It is 10pm and I'm sitting in my home office. My husband and I are quarantined and not speaking. I don't feel that he loves me and I just can't be with him anymore, but I have been scared. We have 2 big homes together large financial bills. We just moved into our dream house! It hurts so much because I do love him but I feel that it is not reciprocated. After looking at your video with Jeezy's proposal and I knew! I KNEW I need love like that, and not someone who would watch me cry and not say a word and walk away. The thing that you said was, you envisioned your fears and how you would work through it. I am going to do that and move forward. I love myself and sense he doesn't, I'm going to tear down everything that we have built and build a new life with someone who loves me...that person is me. Thank you so much Jeannie... I'm in tears...

[@theblackpearl7035]

I pray that you find love again❤❤

[@yadenashy8442]

Wish you all the best love be strong and follow your Heart🧡😃

[@tw7010]

Wishing you the best on your new journey ❤️

[@jacquelinemawhinney2884]

You will find love again and you will love your self first when that happens you will see you want different things it’s a new beginning it’s so exciting I did it and I have never looked back be strong good luck

[@Angie-nb4pg]

Yes ma’am start focusing solely on yourself and what is going to benefit you, also amp up you’re self care and beauty routines. He is bound to notice you but by then it’ll be too late

[@selfxcare]

Omg!!! Jeannie, your eyes SPARKLE- they literally ILLUMINATE- when you talk about Jeezy. Thank you for sharing this journey with us. I've learned so much from you. Jeezy has an amazing woman by his side!.

[@GeneFOX70]

Jeezy came a long way since Trap Or Die He put on, went to get money, became an inspiration, survived the recession, started ballin, then met Jeannie and said "I'm a Go Getta."

[@mercedespullum7663]

😭🥰❤

[@charlottec.7881]

Everytime I see her I hear him sing “go get her” lol

[@ellaelle4538]

Yasss

[@hqbrazenexchange]

Jeannie, you made me cry. Hearing you talk about your must haves and meeting J, I'm encouraged to keep working on myself and growing 'cause at the end of the day, my good matters. I love that I always find a way to be positive, even when things are crashing down around me. I love that I am my own cheerleader. I'm starting to love my face, I always say I'm not photogenic but that's just me being insecure. Thank you Jeannie! Congrats on your engagement, kisses!

[@HelloHunnay]

Yes! Work those affirmations! Love to see u owning and celebrating YOU! ❤

[@rachelleraspberry53]

I felt her when she said she learned to love herself when she started spending time by herself.

[@Torilyricisst]

I felt that too , that’s how I met my husband, focusing on me 💛

[@arol1644]

tupacamaru2 Bro, most asians (and we do look a lot different, but my family is huge) remind me of some family member. Thanks, but no. I don’t want to be fucking someone and then suddenly think they look like my cousin. You know those couples that look like they could be siblings? Not my thing.

[@sincerelycin]

Same

[@trashawn.w]

Firstable, CONGRATULATIONS ON THE ENGAGEMENT!!! I'M SO HAPPY FOR YOU & JEEZY!!! I'M EVEN MORE HAPPY THAT YOU FOUND THE ONE THAT MAKES YOU HAPPY AS WELL!!! THIS IS HANDS DOWN THE BEST THIS TO HAPPEN DURING THIS "QUARANTINE SEASON" FOR ME. I MEAN I WAS CRYING TEARS OF JOY IT WAS THAT SERIOUS!!! Secondable, This video was GREAT advice. I've kinda been trying to find love myself (by that I mean I just work so much that I don't have much time really), but when I think I found someone, I don't know, It just doesn't end well for me. And I be thinking, was it something I did, or is she just not feeling me or what is it? And I think I been trying to find love because I been alone (meaning single) mostly all my life & nobody will ever love me. But now that I watched this video (like I watch ALL your videos) & listened to YOU, I'm gonna figure out what all my fears are, play out scenarios (in my head) of what not to do, & avoid them, figure out what specifically it is I want in a relationship & also spend time with myself, just be myself & love myself also & see what happens from there. THANK YOU JEANNIE FOR INSPIRING ME ONCE AGAIN & I HOPE YOU GUYS ARE STAYING SAFE OUT THERE & LOVE YOU GUYS!!! ❤❤❤ Sorry I typed most of it in all caps, I'M JUST SO HAPPY FOR YOU TWO!!!

[@tgirl8955]

Trashawn W. Was the sweetest news during this rough time

[@LisaAnn164]

Are they engaged?

[@jhordianleong4332]

Elizabeth Anders yes

[@HelloHunnay]

Trashawn... Thank you for taking the time to send me this detailed message. I can feel you from here and I wish I could give you a hug! Firstable I am very very proud that you understand to acknowledge you are fears. That's the 1st step! After you identify it, literally throw that shit out of your circumference and just step out in love. When you know where it is come up you won't let it interfere with you, and you'll understand how to love yourself without letting it get in your way. I am excited to hear more from you so keep in touch.

[@KendraMoralez]

Wow, she handled her divorce so well that I forgot she was even married before. I’m happy for you and how you’ve jumped back into love after all you’ve been through.

[@sonaidefabia2354]

Oi

[@KendraMoralez]

I don’t know how this was misunderstood as a rude comment, but it was definitely a compliment on how mature and wise she is.

[@lorepena3252]

@【登録者数200人目標】魚きんに do you even understand English? There is nothing wrong or bad with her comment.

[@stacymcload3151]

Backhanded complement 😂😂

[@KendraMoralez]

Stacy Mcload how? What am I missing?

[@Salma-nv4xm]

"At the end of the day end of the day you're already with the one person you're going to spend the rest of your life with, and that's yourself." DAMN i love you wisdom and honesty.

[@michelleduarte5478]

That was so beautiful.

[@seattlegyal5104]

I'm single and actually have never been in a relationship BUT oh the things that I learned from this woman! There are so many gems and important life lessons you can take from this no matter where you're at in life. God bless Jeannie Mai🙏🏾

[@princesshephzibah5894]

Same with me

[@princesshephzibah5894]

Jeanie is so deep

[@kingdomtrends711]

Hey Seattle! I’m from there too #206

[@missstorme2771]

Right!!! We're in the same boat, I love the idea of dating someday and knowing that I love myself and I KNOW what healthy love feels like AND saying NO to what doesn't feel right.

[@larrywhiteman4838]

Hi how let talk

[@saaaaruhhhh]

If you cry about the person you love ... that’s the one.

[@GeminiEmpress]

Jeanie should have a movie about her life! I love her journey as a person

[@Sheldon1411]

Agree

[@meowchinchilla4009]

Gemini Empress are you a gemini?

[@GeminiEmpress]

@@meowchinchilla4009 yes, what gave it away? 🤣

[@jebiusenvy]

She should write a book

[@GeminiEmpress]

@@jebiusenvy I would definitely read it but sadly not many people do read 😂 I was going to write book but thought, ah fuck it. People these days don't know how to appreciate a good book

[@ashlihopes4602]

Even though I wasn’t married I still needed this episode... I got out of a relationship last yr and I’m starting to date again and honestly it scares me... and I needed this!! Thankyou Jeannie💜

[@saibiennapoli9147]

I would love to talk to jeannie about my life problems. She just seems like such an understanding person and someone who could give such great advice x

[@YazMixtaah]

You ok x

[@tiffanyrosea.i.t.9239]

I know even if Jay wasn't Jeezy that Jeannie would still fall in love! Jeannie is so genuine and doesn't come across as superficial! She just wants pure love heart to heart,mind to mind ,and soul to soul ♥️🙏

[@resourcegyrl]

I just want her to be careful though. He was already engaged, bought the lady a beautiful ring, and a white Range Rover, but broke it off. I also didnt know him and the last lady have a 4 year old daughter together. So Jeannie, just be careful.👍🏾

[@rogers5622]

@@resourcegyrl some of these men will treat a new woman like a queen when the last one put in years with them 🙄

[@SS-xi2kz]

I CRAVE HER CHANNEL AND ANY OF HER STORIES .URGHHH SHE'S THE BEST. I WISH HER NOTHING BUT THE BEST 💕💕💕

[@HelloHunnay]

Thx fam! I love sharing this all wit U!

[@Filmyism]

I love this video, because everyone always throws around "love yourself," but you rarely see what that looks like in practice. You honestly make being single (and I don't mean the, single-but-desperately-trying-to-hook-up-and-date type of single) seem so fun and fulfilling. You're the only reason I watched The Real anyway, I'm so glad you have your own channel.

[@nikkidee9383]

Not sure what you mean...she is very much not single

[@Prosper927]

@@nikkidee9383 😕 Did you watch the video?

[@nikkidee9383]

@@Prosper927 no i am ignorantly commenting. Duh i watched the video. I am commenting on her.comment not the content. Of course someone in a relationship can make "being single look fun"...the point i am making you have seemed too have missed...

[@Prosper927]

@@nikkidee9383 Hence why I asked if you watched the video... which is all about Jeannie's journey as a single woman after her divorce. The original poster is thanking Jeannie for her honesty regarding her single journey in which she spoke about discovering herself and really finding (not faking) love within and for herself before entering into another relationship. What point were you trying to make?

[@nikkidee9383]

@@Prosper927 the point that I am trying to make is that the commenter should be more thoughtful in their word choice as it comes off as she is disillusioned.

[@maciiemuniz4272]

I was also in a 10 year relationship that was over years prior. We finally split when I found him with someone else. Although I was unhappy in our relationship, I didn’t think I would ever have to start over. Starting over was such a scary thought to me. I was with that person from 14 to 24. We moved in together at a young age and I never experienced having my own place. I am now 25 and since our relationship ended I’ve moved out on my own and have met someone new. It’s hard being on my own for the first time but it’s getting better.

[@SIR_REALIST_88]

SOUNDS LIKE YOU LET FEMINISM RUIN UR LIFE.

[@jessicalynn8607]

Maciie Muniz You have gone thru a very long relationship at such a young age. Please understand that there is no need to be in a hurry, you are so young...25!!! I cannot stress enough how important it is to learn who you are, who you want to be, & what you want...it is so important to gain that strength and personal knowledge. Make yourself your first priority. You’ve got so much time...enjoy you! Go take some random classes...like cooking or dance or art...be open to something a little different to enjoy and learn and grow from. Enjoy your new place! Have some girlfriends over for some wine therapy, girl talk and movies. Even better, plan a weekend getaway with friends or vacation! (Of course after covid 19) Good luck with the new relationship...just don’t rush anything. It’s ok to take time to take a step back and “do you” and learn to really understand and love yourself...you have so much ahead of you, now is the time for you!

[@kwonderz19]

This is also my story. It was painful as I grew with him. I had to rediscover me, my purpose outside of him. To finally fall in love with me. There are times that I want him to come back, and others where I'm grateful I made it out and I'm still young to experience someone else other than him. But it rough. I'm fearful of being alone but also fearful in being in another entrapment like that relationship

[@jpaoxx85]

B

[@SIR_REALIST_88]

@@kwonderz19 YOU DONT SOUND HUMBLE AT ALL.

[@DRUNKMERMAIDS]

“It’s okay to be a work in progress.” I needed to hear that. 🥺

[@ashandlo699]

I love how deep she is. I’m a very deep and passionate person myself, and not a lot of ppl get it. I just want to hear all of her life experiences and how she overcame things.

[@kaijohnson9048]

YESSSSSS!

[@jennifercamille16]

I feel the same way! 💯! 💛

[@honeybun1162]

Same ❤️

[@smackinnon13]

I hear you and relate 100000 percent

[@jazminmiguel]

"once you feel heard, you feel motivated. It's when you don't feel heard that you start feeling stuck." OMG. I CRIED WHEN YOU SAID THIS. On this month of April, I was going to have my college graduation ceremony. I am first-generation and the past 4 years have been the toughest years of my life. I will be graduating debt-free. I also wrote an original song and worked on the track. I had it all done and ready to perform at my graduation party. Now, everything is canceled. I am a student worker so once I technically graduate, I will be jobless. I worked my but off, managing 2 jobs (3 if youtube counts), and had a total of 5 internships just to be jobless after graduation. I feel like my family does not understand nor my friends (again,). My dream is to create my own company that will impact students and the community (& hopefully the world). I truly feel stuck Jeannie! But after writing this comment, I feel heard. Whether anyone reads this long comment.

[@landofdragons4055]

Do not give up! You are on the right track. You already know what you want and have the answers to your own questions. 👉" My dream is to create my own company that will impact students and the community(&hopefully the world)." You already have a KZbin channel and I'm sure social media. What are you waiting for? Let this be your focus. You are not stuck! Do not let the pandemic shift your focus.

[@halie8386]

@Jazmin Miguel, I hear you and I'm rooting for you. Like Jeannie, take time to listen to you. You know what to do. We love you! And you're not alone.

[@mauritius786]

You'll get through this, and all your dreams will manifest... perhaps not in the way you intend but your visions for yourself and your future will come in a way that is more right and perfect for you than you could have imagined. I have faith for you. Everything in its own time sis. and if someone hasn't told you yet you are a badass chick and I am proud of you. Maybe God is giving you this time to rest and breathe because the next period of your life will be this beautiful chaos.

[@damianashinjo7144]

Jazmin Miguel you got this girl

[@crystalsola4555]

@@mauritius786 👌👌🙏🙏

[@robertstanley9633]

You are allowed to be both a masterpiece and a work in progress, simultaneously -Sophia Bush

[@Leah__Ro]

As a divorcee of 2 yrs in my mid/late thirties- This was a blessing to listen to. Thank you for sharing. So happy for this new journey for you!

[@larrywhiteman4838]

U don't need a map u will find the way

[@arleneorozco0326]

I was in a bad relationship years ago, and I remember leaving, having my own place with my son. I didn’t know what to do, who I was anymore, I took two and a half years to myself. I went to college, got my G.E.D. And I went back to my old self. I met a good man, I’ve been with him 10 years (married 9 years now). I now know, what a healthy marriage is supposed to be about. I am so happy for you HONEYYYYY!!🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍

[@HelloHunnay]

Yessssss congrats!

[@roseandlotus]

Thank you for this. I had a breakup in late 2018, it went fine, though once my ex moved on late in 2019 it devastated me. It’s 2020 and I’m still just feeling guilty about all of it. The fact that you said it took you 2 1/2 years REALLY helped me not feel alone. So far it’s been a year and a half and I know it will take me longer to get over this. I think everyday that I’m never gonna get over this tho....But I know I will. I believe in myself.

[@arleneorozco0326]

Amy Sue you got this girl. And NEVER feel guilty for it not working out. When your in a relationship, both of you should put your pet to make it work. I took my time, and I loved every minute of it. I spent so much time with my parents (been married 46 years now). Sadly, my daddy has cancer right now so it’s been so hard this last week... but I know all of these tough times pass for all of us. Life is meant to make mistakes, and learn from them as well. And it’s ok to cry, be angry, and let your self heal mentally and emotionally. I did, times are tough right now, but we will get through this together. Wishing you nothing but the best. 🌻🙏🏼🥰😘 Don’t give up on your happiness!!!!

[@arleneorozco0326]

Hello Hunnay with Jeannie Mai thank you for responding omggg. 😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😌😌😌😌😭😭😭😭😭🤍 your a sweet soul.

[@aluranovak5445]

I know Jeannie doesn't want kids... but can you IMAGINE how beautiful and perfect her and Jeezy's babies would be

[@cadizcobn1573]

They would be so cuteee

[@melanieblueglam]

I think she met her match and her equal sooo THaT will make her want to share that and create babies with the man she loves sooo much!! I see baby Jeanine and a baby Jeezy in their future💕💕

[@LovelifeJesusdaily]

The heart can open up to new things when your heart is at peace and fulfilled. Anything can happen😊. I believe

[@mignong2787]

@@melanieblueglam me too!

[@ricardof9394]

She said she was open to it now a little while back.

[@bettyluna1240]

Jeannie I wholeheartedly agree with this! I was single for a little over a year after a break up (was with someone for 2+ years) before meeting my husband. In that year I invested in myself- I tried new activities, focused on my own personal projects, started meditating and before I knew it I was really enjoying being single. I started to think about the type of relationship I wanted the next time around. I got really specific about the type of partner I wanted and legit a few weeks after I did that I met my husband. I always joke that I manifested him into reality. Like you, I knew the moment I met him. We both felt it instantly on our first date (Aug 2017), the rest is history. It sounds cliche but once you get in the groove of REALLY loving yourself the universe reciprocates that energy by sending you more AUTHENTIC Love.

[@okaymea]

Thank you

[@oneof7billion627]

I receive 👏🙏❤️🙌🦋

[@frankelse745]

This message is universal. Should be translated in every language.

[@jazminmiguel]

"I was attracted to myself" GOALS! BTW, Jeannie, we are trending! yas girl!

[@HelloHunnay]

Omg...WE ARE SIS..

[@jyn88]

#9 trending at the moment! Looks like people are interested in the recent engagement!!

[@jazminmiguel]

@@jyn88 Yes! They sure are. So excited for her!

[@diabymodamed1817]

اكس

[@itsme-mt2fo]

@jelly fish i think jeannie wants some blasian babies...lol

[@user-ci5eu6tn9u]

Yes, you're deeply and sincerely in love. Not only with yourself but also with the man who was sent for you, Jay. Be blessed in life, and love, and the love of God.

[@finelady_a]

She literally lit up soon as she started talking about J... . Love is a beautiful thing ♥️

[@XPXhumble]

Tears of joy when talking about her man that’s true love

[@yanicyoda4762]

prolly makes her ohh and ahhh when he tickles

[@nicholaiginovaef7516]

Nah she will just cheat on him later in marriage.

[@welbecksson7118]

@@nicholaiginovaef7516 word she's just there for the SBC he has

[@yanicyoda4762]

@Miss Maddie not every black guy packs like he's from congo .anything above average is just a big deal for asians 😎

[@yanicyoda4762]

@Miss Maddie i hear ya 🤣

[@ashp928]

I just started the vid but are we gonna pretend like Jeannie isn’t engaged to J?!?!?! I haven’t seen any comments acknowledging it 😭

[@djm2985]

It's on the next video 🙂

[@kimberlybrabson3988]

I was so excited and still is, I can't wait for her wedding and having a family!😘😛

[@soshornahenry9959]

The message she is preaching is bigger than that for most in the comment section,😊

[@fayalzahrani7421]

YESSSSS I know this was pre-filmed, but I kept looking for a ring on her finger😂😂 I'M SO EXCITED!!!

[@HelloHunnay]

Pre filmed but THIS IS IMPORTANT TO KNOW in order to understand how I got engaged !

[@nelhoss97]

As someone who lacks that self-confidence and self-love, this video truly helped me answer a lot of the questions that I have been asking myself for years. Thank you Jeannie for your empowering message ❤️

[@tomatosoup7205]

"you're already with the person you're gonna spend the rest of your life with, and thats yourself."

[@KharisB.A]

The part where Jeannie started talking about Jeezy particularly about the 1st time their eyes locked got me teary 😢😢😢😢from gladness. I'm so happy that they found each other. True love is just so beautiful ♥️♥️♥️♥️. May the Almighty keep their union tighter🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@zyannathomas6550]

"Its ok to be a work in progress and be ok with that". I love that you said that because so many people feel the need to "have it all together" or to "have all the answers" and I'm glad you let people know that's they don't need to have all the answers or have it all together. We also dont have to stop working on ourselves when we do get it all "together". Its ok to keep working on yourself and find out who you are, as well as taking a step back when needed to acknowledge the progress we need to make

[@DejeriLaShay]

“I was making myself feel stuck by not listening to myself”. I agree writing is so therapeutic. Jeannie pls write a book 🤍

[@alejandrahinojosa2025]

As a women who has gone through a divorce, I have to agree with everything you mentioned. It’s been 5 years after my divorce and just now I am ready for a relationship. Spending time with yourself and figuring out who you are is so vital ladies! Don’t settle or jump into a relationship too fast.

[@Leydim91]

I’ve been divorced for almost 5 months now, and no one has understood me when I’ve said I’m taking this time to heal myself, to learn and grow before I date anyone else. And to see this video of you, its a reassurance to me that everything will be okay and that I am doing the right thing for myself. Much love and light Jeannie.

[@tamekabest425]

What are you going thru as far as thoughts and emotions??? How are you handling the Divorce. I'm sorry, im currently separated from estranged husband and wanted to connect with woman in my position

[@YousufAli-tl4in]

Hello Dear friend, I am so sad for your divorced, I want to support to u

[@SoloAdventureDiva]

@@tamekabest425 it will be hard I have been estranged and separated for 3 years but like Jeannie says take time for yourself to understand what you want, what makes you happy ,Career ,home, emotionally spiritually, then when you really start to know what makes you happy trust everything else will come I have been on this journey myself for 2 years and I am so happy bc when I do date again I will be ready.

[@Contentcreator139]

All divorced hunnays let's gather here. Thanks Jeannie for the great advise and congratulations on your engagement.

[@Nightlock2008]

“I was making myself feel stuck by not listening to myself.”

[@richard78420]

I see why jeezy fell in love with this beautiful intelligent woman. Peace to Jeezy you found a one of a kind.

[@mpumixulu3180]

I don’t know anyone else who deserves this more than you. You’re amazing, and I wish you all the happiness and joy you wish for J.Mai❤️

[@mariamakematoure]

This inspires me. From now on I will never settle for something I don’t deserve 🙏🏾 YOU HAVE TOUGHT ME THAT.! And for that I’m grateful for having you in Media. 🖤

[@RamMohammadJosephKaur]

First learn to spell

[@elppulol123]

Cyril why are you being mean?:/

[@TiaraWordsfromGod]

I believe once I started growing closer to Christ I truly began loving myself again, or should I say loving myself at the start. I began to realize that if God loves me through all I've done, through all I will do, and have been through than I too can love myself. I had to realize that when God forgives me I am truly forgiven and I had to stoop holding myself accountable for things that I can not change, things others did, and how I treated myself. I forgave myself, and that is truly when I started to love myself, accepting Jesus Christ truly changed my life. God bless, Jesus loves you. He forgives you and accepts you, now it is time to forgive and accept yourself. You are no longer of your old ways, or of sin. You are changed, move on and don't look back unless he tells you to. God bless. - Tiara words from God. A prayer to be saved by Jesus Christ: Lord, forgive me of my sins. I repent of all my sins to you Father. Allow me to see myself in you again, let go of my past, Lord. Allow me to be renewed, allow me to see the light in you. In times of darkness I became of the shadows, but in you I want to be of light again. Bless me Lord, Keep me Lord. I accept Jesus Christ as my Lord and Savior today and I declare and decree that I am changing my ways. I look to you in dark times, in rough times, in all times God. I am now a Child of God through Jesus Christ. Lord, You alone are my fortress, You are my refuge. In Jesus's name I pray this prayer and ask for protection over my life, accepting the covenant now over me and my family to come, as I say Amen. Congratulations on now being a child of God. I love you, but most importantly Jesus loves you! A prayer to forgive yourself: Dear Lord, you forgive me. You say I am free, free from it all. Allow me not to see myself as hurt and bruised. Allow me to see me the way you do, as clean, beautiful, and as a child of God the one true King. Keep me safe Oh Lord, renew my thoughts and my mind. Deliver me from evil and keep me safe in your hands. Shield me from darkness and allow my eyes to see the YOU in ME. Thank you Lord, I am redeemed by you, therefore I forgive myself and will no longer see myself as unclean, dirty, ugly, angry or broken. I am not of my past, I will not worry about the future. Instead Lord, I will trust in you. Allow me to remember the greatness you have and that it is instilled in me. In Jesus' name I prayer this prayer. Amen.

[@ericakang]

“Crazy kindness.” And that connection. That’s all you had to say girl. That’s the most important thing. Many congratz and best wishes to you both. This was so beautiful.

[@livingonpurpose23]

Jeannie Mai is my FAVORITE hands down.🙌🏿 This chick is EVERYTHING; beauty, brains, real, positive, etc. Definitely someone to look up to. Her first husband has to be kicking himself to be such a fool to lose her. Glad her and jeezy found each other. 💖

[@xaviourcammon1475]

Lakoye B do you not see how happy he is with his new wife and newborn babies? Why would he be kicking himself over Jennie mai? 🤔🤔. He left her for a reason!

[@babygurlanderson5896]

Nah I dnt think they were meant for eachother, they neva was supposed to be married, jeanie happy n he seems happy as well!

[@shirleycameron7718]

@@xaviourcammon1475 all of a sudden shes an expert....hilarious...

[@Risha-Rene]

Her ex had been cheating and already had someone. He’s doing fine.

[@tananasbananas3234]

@@kkjannah she is the one who left him smh she asked for the divorce you guys really don't even know what your talking about

[@HippietisedSoul]

First things first! Congratulations on you guys' engagement! 💕💕 Just love love love this video! Yasss to ALL of that unapologetically beautifully manifested wisdom. I always felt wisdom isn't experience(s) alone...It's the LEARNING from experience(s). You show that so beautifully. It brings to mind that Ernest Hemingway quote "we're all broken, that's how the light gets in"...finding and learning yourself is definitely a road of travel and the light of all your own truth is the only thing that gets you through that type of darkness. For me I've been learning soooo much about myself since I've been divorced. At first it was so scary. I had a lot of general fears of being 32(at the time) starting over with 3 kids, leaving the only relationship I ever knew, broken mentally and physically, hanging on a spiritual thread. Added with that fear was unfortunately I left a very abusive relationship with a highly trained sociopath so NEVER wanted to put others in danger and definitely didn't want to have this set the tone for future relationship(s). I also had a LOT of self esteem and confidence issues to work through because of this. I didn't have to just work through my toxic inner dialogue I now had to work through my ex-husband's too...that used to be a dark lonely place a times. It's 3 years now, I still haven't started dating honestly don't know what to expect these days. My ex my only real dating experience and that was 15 years ago. I'm not against it. I just want to work on myself and kiddos without distractions. I snuck off to sole what I called "soul" counseling 6 months before escaping my exhusband to armor myself with a stronger healthier mental state. Upon leaving I made a promise to myself to NEVER ALLOW RESPECT TO BECOME OPTIONAL ever again!! In addition to that, know what a healthy me looked like "for me" emotionally, psychologically, spiritually, financially, physically etc. to have the ability to continuingly maintain and sustain a healthy relationship with myself at all times, no matter who I choose to be with. Resetting my once toxic love meter to register "happy" and "healthy" as one and the same. Being a mother of 3, I exercise more caution too. I've accepted when I'm ready it will happen. Till then I've learn to identify what I see as "time" as cycles/processes. I'm allowing me this process...it's allowed me to be more realistic when setting and executing goals. Thank you for your beautiful words. Continue to enjoy all the happiness you built and deserve!!!😘💕

[@marleenb4705]

Wow! Your so very intellectual. I will, one day, be able to speak my inner thoughts and feelings like this. Your words came out beautiful and I want to have that same ability of choosing the best words to describe my pain and thoughts. Very well spoken. Very true and very blessed to have come across your words. 🙏🤗❤

[@HippietisedSoul]

@@marleenb4705 You're too sweet! Thank you. I do appreciate your kind words. It's crazy for me to receive that compliment. I was actually a subjective mute nearly the entire adolescent years of my life and still feel like I have difficulties expressing myself in words. Honestly I feel being forced in the position to be my own best advocate to get my kiddos and I out a horrible situation, helped exercise a voice I never knew I had. Thank you again! I will forever be grateful for your kind words. Hope all's well and you're feeling well in this world of COVID-19. Make it a great rest of your day and week beautiful😘💕

[@marleenb4705]

You know this year I learned that hod allowed me to go through situations in my life to help others. I know god is blessing you and will continue to bless you and the kids. I will have you 4 in my prayers and always in my heart. Where ever you are in this world know that there is a stranger in this world who has love for you and your children. 😊 I have 4 babies and 2 in heaven.😇😇 I know what us moms would do, put up with and fight for!🙏🥰💪 We are safe thank you. You as well keep safe during this time. 😊

[@HippietisedSoul]

@@marleenb4705 Awww thank you so much! The same to you and your children. Forever in my heart and prayers also. Yes! That warms my heart. Helping others is what humanity is about. I actually started a nonprofit last year. Its name is "Helping Others Onward" (HOO). 😊It's in its beginning stages but I've been grateful to be able to do a lot of groundwork where I can in DV. I aim to help others through all types of trauma by allowing space to collaboration falling into the it takes a village type of vibe. It is every individual who built Society shouldn't be the other way around. As an organization with my experiences, we specialize in DV and knowing the contribution DV makes in the world especially to other traumas, we specialize in DV with strong focus in childhood abuse & exposure to animal DV trauma. God's definitely have a way of preparing us for our purpose. I worked my butt off and was given the opportunity back 2018 to create meaningful change in my exhusband's now former Army unit, in how it treats families and DV as a whole experiencing abuse. Also was granted the opportunity to work with Sen. Gillibrand's office to create the "Military Families Protection Act" & now working with my local Senators for more meaningful change on civilian side. Love all of that! Thanks my kids and I appreciate all the love and prayers! 💕 Stay strong and safe💕

[@marleenb4705]

@@HippietisedSoul WOW!!! it just gets better and better. Oh! Does it take a VILLAGE😪 I dont know you but I'm PROUD of you! I feel your strength,fight,power,grace courage peace and most definitely LOVE! You are an inspiration! Thank you, for all your hard work a d dedication to your self kids and world! You see what god can do when we feel at our lowest, he brings us up to tell our own testimony!! Blessed very blessed to have spoken to you. Keep up your good work in the world! I will look it up and May God Forever Bless you🙏🙏🙏😘 💪Stronger

[@elizabethreece3129]

I am going through a divorce after 21yrs. I am 40 and this truly gave me a life with myself to look forward to . Thanks Girl 🖤

[@rubykanja]

"Once you felt heard you get motivated" that was golden Jeannie I had to write notes on my book literally as you speak ❤️you are wise

[@wyntonmohorn]

WOW!!!! I can't believe that I'm sitting here watching this & crying right now. This is so much that I needed to hear about myself for a long time. Thank you Jeannie. I really appreciate you for being so transparent about everything.

[@rag9129]

Thank you for verbalizing this. That is EXACTLY how I felt after I divorced my husband of 17 years. I was 37 and feeling so defeated because I had wasted so many years with someone and had nothing to show for it. 💕💕💕💖 I completely lost myself in that relationship.

[@shilpahosny4177]

I hear you, I'm currently two weeks into feeling this way and sometimes I just don't what do to.

[@moonchild708]

@@shilpahosny4177 how's it going now?

[@Nightlock2008]

Jeannie's Ideal Relationship must have traits: - Thorough Communication (attracted to somebody else, embarrassed sexually, etc) - Brutal Honesty (Like Mama Mai) - Respect - Understanding Her (Not agree with everything but understand her life. Example- Reasons why she stopped talking Mama Mai) - Vision (on the same page for the future so you can grow together) - Forgiveness (in a working relationship you are going to make mistakes and let people down) - Unity (be passionate about certain aspects - not everything) - Healthy Love (Healthy- nurturing each others souls, holding each other, 5 love languages)

[@isaymanalot]

Thank you, such an effective list 😊

[@brendaa149]

Goodness, thank you for the summary again.

[@dirtymikentheboys5817]

So a simp...

[@TheCoffeeNut711]

Also money

[@ravenx7032]

What about loyalty? Or is their relationship open?

[@Rose-ch7pc]

Girl I cried when you said “ I could see he had been broken like me” ugh 😩. I love this message. I’m currently going through this as well ❣️ loving myself

[@quinnmorgendorffer8435]

Been there hun. Mark my words...have his shit blocked! No contact rule. Bc once you're looking right and living life he'll make the Biggest U-turn! Narcissistics hate a woman they couldn't keep down. He'll hear about your best days ahead thru the vine. Keep his negativity from you. In the meantime remind yourself how you felt like shit and down all the time with that person. Thank God for the freedom and be smiling without them. You're lucky you got away some never do. 🥰👏❤

[@Thaywood79]

Amen to EVERYTHING that you said about narcissists! I almost married one last year, but was wise enough to finally walk away and dodge a “hollow point” bullet, lol. Their ego and delusional superiority complex prevents them from being able to wrap their minds around how the woman they did everything in their power to emotionally destroy and break could walk away from THEM in the end. Healing, moving forward, and ultimately being happy and whole is the narcissists worst nightmare.

[@normacolon9618]

Man dont get beoken they nreak. Hardly ever thwy get cheated on.. But if they do its a good reason.

[@Tamara165able]

I can so related to Jeannie and her last relationship. My relationship end a year ago and I took time to fall in love with myself and it has been the best thing ever. When you truly love yourself it’s like that energy starts to attractive both men and women in your life. I learned not to overthink and to truly be myself so I could tell by a initial conversation with guy whether we would be compatible. I didn’t rush and out of all the times I was single this was the first time I truly became happy with me. When you love yourself you know you worth and what you deserve, in turn you don’t accept anything less. I’ve been a dating guy that I meet (I rejected 2 others that day when he approached me) and it was almost like an instant connection. I think people don’t take time out to love themselves and when they start to dating someone who loves them unconditionally they are stocked because they were so use to accepting the bare minimum. Congrats Jeannie!

[@tq4142]

"Once you feel heard you feel motivated. When you dont feel heard you feel stuck." Wow such a deep video. Thank you

[@Elizabeth-jl4rv]

How could anyone dislike such a genuine and encouraging video like this

[@simplysynthia_]

Wow there’s something powerful about Jeanie’s self awareness. That’s so important rather your by yourself or in a relationship. I think I’m going to start journaling again.

[@jillh7403]

Jeannie, I've learned alot from you. When you talked about Jay and teared up, I started to cry. I am so happy that you and Jay have found each other. Much LOVE Love from Michigan. ❤

[@emmab2013]

Girl you said it. I think this just reinforces the fact that sometimes going though bad times, reaching a low point, struggling or whatever you want to call it is absolutely crucial to personal growth. You cannot get what you want until you realize what you don’t want. I’m so happy for you. I’ve been following you for quite some time ( I even submitted a prayer to your prayer box !!) and although I may not know you personally, I can tell instantly how much happier you seem :) keep shining. x

[@HelloHunnay]

Thanks Emma! Hope your prayer was answered. ❤️

[@rumaysa5800]

“At the end of the day, you’re already with the one person you’re going to spend the rest of you life with and that’s yourself. So you have to really really enjoy who that person is.” This spoke to my heart ❤️

[@zandisiwesidzamba2034]

We always feel ashamed whenever a relationship fails, especially if it's a long term relationship. And people always think that they should jump to the next available person. Big up for focussing on yourself and loving yourself enough to take your time.

[@eveallusion]

Jeannie, I love this message so much - it’s so true! I took about 1 year to be single and committed to helping myself grow and becoming the woman I wanted to be and I achieved it to a degree. I am still a work in progress. I didn’t even want to date but sure enough I attracted one of the kindest and most generous souls I’ve ever met and we started dating! To reach my goals, I stopped feeling bad for myself and took action! I stopped being lazy and worked every day to be the woman who could attract a better man than my ex and it worked. I managed to lose 53 pounds getting down to my goal-weight. It’s all about rewiring your brain for success! Good luck everyone. YOU CAN DO IT IF YOU PUT IN THE WORK!! 😊❤️😊❤️

[@Howdyeve]

I'm so happy for you! 💕

[@HelloHunnay]

This is true!!!

[@eveallusion]

Hello Hunnay with Jeannie Mai I love you Jeannie! You are an inspiration and I loved you before but I loved you so much more after your transformation. There was a visible shift in you and you spoke with so much wisdom and authority in your voice. Thank you for sharing your thoughts and journey with us! You’re an amazing human being and I’m so excited for your engagement. ❤️❤️❤️

[@tyrachantey9434]

First of all, Jeannie you don’t look a day over 25, secondly, every word you spoke was so genuine, straight from the heart and so inspiring. You’re so sure of yourself and that energy is so contagious. Much love from 🇸🇪

[@mr.leew.1543]

I truly understand what you were saying, I got married young, I was 22 when I got married, and after I got divorced I was jumping in and out of relationships, so my teens an my 20's was gone so when I was 30 I said myself no can't do this no more I had to learn who I was for about 6 years got in a relationship didn't work gave myself about another 3 years, I had to learn also what was it that I wanted like you, so I did what you did made a list an also pray. An at 42 I remarried 20 years later an I was bless like you said it just started with just a hello, had no intention on dating or hooking up we just had a good conversation and what funny the night we met neither one us didn't even want to come out that night we only came out because of are friends push for us to come out and that when we met for the first time. Sorry for this comment being so long.

[@cecilyworley8424]

I just ended a relationship after 10 years and this video really spoke to me. She hit the nail on the head. It’s Inspiring that she not only found love again but it seems like she found her soul mate. That’s encouraging.

[@chaneldesiree8349]

i'm so happy for jeannie. she is so deserving of happiness and self-confidence and love, and i think she tries to let other people know that we all are. it's so beautiful seeing how happy she is, as an individual and as a partner. and she's just such a genuine person and really keeps it real. idk there's just a level of vulnerability and openness that she has that i respect. i feel like i relate to her with so much ✨🥺

[@LimaB30]

...."I was making myself feel stuck, because I want listening to myself." Totally need to hear that

[@WindsweptBeauty]

So happy for you! When Capricorn’s and Libra’s come together they can be the ultimate power couple if they are in harmony.

[@nylamonee2634]

“It’s okay to be a work in progress” YES JEANNIE👏🏽

[@93pbs]

Couldn't stop the tears rolling from my eyes when you were talking about how soon you realised he was the one. Oh Jeannie, you speak to our souls ❤️❤️ Wishing you all the best from the deepest place of my heart.

[@amandarivera4088]

I sat on my bed, as I usually do to watch this every Thursday when I get the chance and watched this video. I cried. A lot. Thank you Jeannie for creating this. I needed this and you had no idea. I am so happy with where you are in life and how happy you really are. I appreciate you and your advice a lot. Love you hunnay

[@sbrown40]

Wow, when she started talking about the first time her and Jeezy locked eyes I got emotional right along with her. Despite their celebrity, status, etc. you can tell they really saw and acknowledged each other for who they are inside. That’s so deep and I’m so happy for the both of them. I hope they live happily ever after! ❤️

[@jgirl345]

I love this! I'm in the stage of post break up after 7yrs with someone, I moved out 2mos ago and I'm getting to know myself and work on me, I'm excited for my future and I'm so happy u have found happiness!!

[@gracengani6302]

I've been having self-esteem issues for the longest time. THANK YOU Jeanie for your words of wisdom. Love from Kenya 🇰🇪

[@wendynaazi]

Hi Grace, love from Kenya too...you're beautiful and amazing and I hope you'll be okay.

[@shernellecyrus5133]

You are beautiful 😍.. please know that you are worthy.

[@maureennasumba8076]

You're very beautiful Grace....don't let anyone or anything dull your sparkle

[@annenjoroge7109]

Hi Grace.. never allow anything or anyone to make you feel worthless... you are beautiful... hugs from Nairobi Kenya...

[@shinebosire6450]

Girl.. You are beautiful..But it's easy to say so to someone but not to yourself especially when you are dealing with it.We will overcome my love. Let's keep encouraging each other. Sending love From Kenya as well.

[@saltwaterlady]

Jeannie you a empowering and reminding people that love glows and attracts the right people in our lives by taking the time out of our life to just love ourselves more so that the rest of our life will be peaceful and genuine.

[@dehjunaeday1511]

She really is, I love her.

[@joelybaide9659]

Awe Jeannie the fact that you remembered the day you two met and how teary eyed you got just warmed my heart you deserve to find love and happiness again so happy for you hunnay ❤️

[@aurelie1778]

When she started tearing up, gosh! The tears were there before I knew! SO HAPPY FOR YOU!

[@dannybhoy2739]

Men want to be left alone. But they don't want to be by themselves. -Patrice O Neal More wisdom in that sentence than 1000 "books"

[@mandamadeyoulook9674]

I love how open Jeannie is. I was in a long relationship I told myself I was going to get to know me. And for one year I did that. I learned so much about my self. After that year I met my husband and we have a newborn now. Three years together now. It’s so crazy cause at that moment I was so broke. Didn’t think I was going to be ok. But I understand what Jeannie said.

[@SmokeyFiizz]

Honestly, hearing you talk about J and when you talk about him how emotional you get because you become so overwhelmed with finding the love your soul needed in him.... it makes me so happy. So happy for you. And it gives me hope. 31, and I've given up on it. Because I've been so... different.

[@cynthiajulissa5764]

She’s honestly an inspiration, her words have given me hope

[@tornettatayourie5166]

I realize that I should have left my bad relationship long ago and now I battle with regret because I feel like I had years of my youth stolen from me. I love this video. Please continue to share...love you Jeannie.

[@krystid4768]

Tornetta Tayourie same. Regret it so so bad. 25-31 just gone 😢 when this pandemic is over I am RUNNING and working on loving me again. I also feel shame and embarrassment like why would I stay so long why not get up and leave if it has been over so long. I never thought I’d be that person smh

[@charleezy123]

Sorry

[@schuylersavage276]

iLove Krysti it happens to a lot of people. Don’t regret it. Just learn from it! No one can judge you for that

[@larrywhiteman4838]

@@krystid4768 don't feel so bad u will find love some day

[@a1anna]

OMGGG😭! No you did not just give me a heart attack. I be putting people on to you sis & they be looking at me crazy when i tell them that we are FAM💙! Imma have this intro on repeat for the rest of my life😭

[@HelloHunnay]

We are fam Alanna! So appreciate all ur luv and support. Ur comments always send me 😂

[@Nique1986]

Jeannie I luv that you made this episode I literally went through my divorce around the same time you was I was with him for 10 years n married for 8 n we have 1 child together n it’s been very hard because all I new was being a wife n when u we’re talking about the feelings u felt it like a mirror I feel the same stuff feeling bad that my marriage failed not knowing what I like etc n it’s really hard to talk to people who never been divorce because they don’t get it but I really thank u for this video I have been a fan of the real since season one n I see your growth I’m 33 years old n I just hope I get that spark back n seeing that u found it agin gives me hope ❤️❤️