How I overcame my fear of dying while falling asleep using Cognitive Behaviour Therapy CBT

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Dr. Becky Spelman

Dr. Becky Spelman

Күн бұрын

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@blakebarnes8008
@blakebarnes8008 5 жыл бұрын
I feel this almost every night, I’m glad I’m not crazy because I explain this to everyone and they think I’m crazy
@dr.beckyspelman
@dr.beckyspelman 5 жыл бұрын
Hi Blake, We are sorry to hear you are dealing with this. Would you like a free 15 minute phone call with one of our therapists to discuss this?
@christiancorrea8426
@christiancorrea8426 5 жыл бұрын
I go through the same feeling as well and I understand how sad it is. I hope you get over with it soon. God bless you.
@hashimiqbal2421
@hashimiqbal2421 4 жыл бұрын
@@dr.beckyspelman yes I want to talk your therapist
@dr.beckyspelman
@dr.beckyspelman 4 жыл бұрын
Hashim Iqbal Great we can schedule you in for a phone call tomorrow, what time would suit you best?
@dannylin5980
@dannylin5980 4 жыл бұрын
Not crazy man. I’m pretty sure a lot of us LOVE our life. It’s just that we love it so man when we get scared of sleeping... that’s when we’re like oh fk what’s gonna happen to us? Reality is, we have to accept it. Ur not gonna expect to sleep good the whole life.
@charstyac7085
@charstyac7085 5 жыл бұрын
I’ve always felt like I was alone but after seeing this video and the comments I feel better :’)
@dr.beckyspelman
@dr.beckyspelman 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you Charlotte for your comment, we are pleased you found this video helpful. We can offer you a free 15 minute phone call with one of our therapists? There is always someone you can speak to, so you don't feel alone
@ruairibradley7715
@ruairibradley7715 2 жыл бұрын
@@dr.beckyspelman I feel like I’m loosing my mind here, all I wanny do is sleep but I’m afraid of dieing, when I slip into sleep everything pauses for a split second, that split second I feel like my life’s gonna end, this is scary
@ruairibradley7715
@ruairibradley7715 2 жыл бұрын
My anxiety is throw the roof, and having crazy panic attacks I’m usually a happy guy but this is affecting my work life and my well being it’s making me feel depressed sitting up praying, all I wanny do is sleep sweet Jesus
@mr_stifler8515
@mr_stifler8515 7 ай бұрын
​@@dr.beckyspelmanI need to talk to the therapist. I feel like this is really affecting me 😭
@emilielouise6701
@emilielouise6701 4 жыл бұрын
I really did think I was the only one feeling like this. Every night it is the same struggle. Staying up way too late because I'm just so afraid of not waking up the next day. I really want to get better, because my body and mind is getting really tired.
@dr.beckyspelman
@dr.beckyspelman 4 жыл бұрын
Hi Emilie, sorry to hear you are going through this, we can offer you a free initial phone call with one of our therapists to discuss this in more detail?
@Maridyel
@Maridyel 4 жыл бұрын
Same here. Its been 5 years now and still going on the same thing every night or every time i want to sleep. I got heart palpitations too. I hate it 😔
@leilei26.
@leilei26. 4 жыл бұрын
Well your not alone same here almost 4 years now.. I also having panic attacks being alone or going outside.. i felt so bad having this
@Maridyel
@Maridyel 4 жыл бұрын
Jw leizel are you taking any medications or ask medical professional help?
@nuralyazulfa21
@nuralyazulfa21 4 жыл бұрын
Mary Jiel Aguanta did u seek medical help ?
@skelter1153
@skelter1153 9 ай бұрын
❤Poppy, you are GORGEOUS. I hope your anxiety is more manageable for you these days. God Bless.
@alinag7314
@alinag7314 2 жыл бұрын
it’s so crazy hearing someone describe the exact feeling i’ve experienced since i was a kid
@rob_3417
@rob_3417 5 жыл бұрын
Everything you said is exactly what I go through every night. I also jump out of bed the exact same way. It's horrific, I hope you get better as quick as possible. Thanks for sharing
@dr.beckyspelman
@dr.beckyspelman 5 жыл бұрын
Rob 7 thank you for sharing, sorry to hear you are dealing with this. Please let us know or get in touch if you want a free 15 minute call back with one of our therapists
@howtopepsicola1252
@howtopepsicola1252 4 жыл бұрын
same! i will feel like i’m dying and i’ll immediate get up thinking it’ll make it better. it’s been 4 weeks and i need it to stop.
@joyreviewsproducts2805
@joyreviewsproducts2805 4 жыл бұрын
Are you still feeling fear of sleep?
@dreamsunrise7606
@dreamsunrise7606 4 жыл бұрын
@@joyreviewsproducts2805 i am
@harusu8610
@harusu8610 4 жыл бұрын
@@dr.beckyspelman do you offer chats too?
@hibari4079
@hibari4079 2 жыл бұрын
I can sleep during the day pretty much fine, but for some reason at night it's scary just like this. I get scared so much of the thought of dying. Right now I'm battling a bunch of anxiety due to all this. I hate it so much.
@softkayee1975
@softkayee1975 9 ай бұрын
hi! how are you doing now? did you manage to fight this fear?
@legacytrainer4242
@legacytrainer4242 2 жыл бұрын
She is helping so many people by talking about this. Thank you.
@alderoth01
@alderoth01 2 жыл бұрын
I'm a disabled veteran from the Iraq War and a recovering addict. Recently, I'm guessing about 4-6 months ago I started having this happen. Your description on how it feels and what you do to "kickstart" your heart is exactly how it feels. My psychiatrist claims it's insomnia due to a lot of grief. They are going to try and reset my sleep with an older medication in hopes I can get this under control. I am so glad I'm not the only one. I've felt very alone with this and like I'm not explaining it correctly. I hope you continue to get better and if you do get better, it never comes back.
@Imran-khan-nn
@Imran-khan-nn 2 ай бұрын
Im just your slave 💞💞😊❤
@kaleadreamaremylife6565
@kaleadreamaremylife6565 3 жыл бұрын
I’ve only shared these feelings with my therapist because I thought I was alone in this. We know it’s irrational and yet we can’t stop feeling this fear.
@aasiqkumar732
@aasiqkumar732 2 жыл бұрын
Most people think of hynic jerk or the simple jolt, but u guys have no idea what we really go through. It feels like heart stopped for a second, choked and feels like someone squeezed the heart and soul left the body. And extreme freefall feeling. This is what we go through
@user-dull9nf4
@user-dull9nf4 8 ай бұрын
Its so terrible .
@soylentgreendip
@soylentgreendip 4 жыл бұрын
Have the same problem. I don't fall asleep until I'm totally exhausted and even then it's only for a few hours at a time. I try to tell myself I'm wasting my life worrying about it. And I can't control it. As they say, the only thing to fear is fear itself.
@dr.beckyspelman
@dr.beckyspelman 4 жыл бұрын
Hi Kelly, thank you for sharing, sorry to hear you are going through this. Would you like a free 15 minute phone call with one of our therapists to discuss this and treatment options for this?
@skymueller6267
@skymueller6267 3 жыл бұрын
i try to tell myself to just live and stop wasting my time worrying too!! but i can’t help it. once i finally do fall asleep and wake up, all’s i do is dread falling asleep again because i’m so scared..
@soylentgreendip
@soylentgreendip 3 жыл бұрын
@@skymueller6267 wish I could help you out. I now fall asleep in my chair watching TV. Only thing that works lately.
@skymueller6267
@skymueller6267 3 жыл бұрын
@@soylentgreendip at least you found some resort rn.. hopefully things keep getting better but thank you
@UserUser-ww2nj
@UserUser-ww2nj Жыл бұрын
@@soylentgreendip I can do the same thing , i think it is because the TV is a distraction .
@danlfc14
@danlfc14 4 жыл бұрын
I get this every night I scared to sleep that I won’t wake up Please help
@dr.beckyspelman
@dr.beckyspelman 4 жыл бұрын
dan short Hi Dan, so sorry to hear you are going through this. We can offer you a free 15 minute phone call with one of our therapists? Please email info@privatetherapyclinic.com to book the free call
@georgemajana8953
@georgemajana8953 4 жыл бұрын
I work out before bed and it helps me I get that all the time
@jongrimes9797
@jongrimes9797 4 жыл бұрын
@@dr.beckyspelman could you fit me in for a call? Two days no sleep. I’d appreciate it
@earthwormchewer170
@earthwormchewer170 3 жыл бұрын
Trust Christ JESUS
@Imran-khan-nn
@Imran-khan-nn 2 ай бұрын
💜You are my music 🎸🎻
@gamerwitch8684
@gamerwitch8684 4 жыл бұрын
I get this almost every night. I check my heart pulse every time Im falling asleep, I end up falling asleep around 1am or so, it’s so bad. I end up having a panic attack bc I feel like left arm pain and thinking I’m going to get a heart attack or something. :(
@dr.beckyspelman
@dr.beckyspelman 4 жыл бұрын
Sorry to hear this, we can offer you a free 15 minute phone call with one of our therapists? Please email info@privatetherapyclinic.com to book your free call
@skytakami101
@skytakami101 4 жыл бұрын
This is literally me. I had no idea that others felt like this other then me
@gamerwitch8684
@gamerwitch8684 4 жыл бұрын
@@skytakami101 I’m happy I’m not the only one ! But it’s so sad and scary :,/
@dojinglama7723
@dojinglama7723 3 жыл бұрын
Oh my god i thought i was the only one who got this problem...
@stephenlowz1x2c3
@stephenlowz1x2c3 3 жыл бұрын
1am? i wish its 3am now
@joytotheuniverse
@joytotheuniverse 4 жыл бұрын
I've had this experience so many times before and it happened just now. I finally decided to search for an answer today because it's been bothering me for over a year now. I thought I was the only one who had this experience. Thank you so much for making this video.
@dr.beckyspelman
@dr.beckyspelman 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for watching, we are sorry to hear you are experiencing this. We can offer you a free 15 minute phone call with one of our therapists to discuss psychological treatment options available? Email info@privatetherapyclinic.com to book your free call.
@neonglow3378
@neonglow3378 3 жыл бұрын
I wish if sleep was like a button, just press it and see the morning after 8 hours, or just being able to think in your sleep.
@amogus7591
@amogus7591 3 жыл бұрын
Right now I'm laying in bed thinking about how if I died in my sleep I wouldn't be able to say goodbye to my loved ones,
@dr.beckyspelman
@dr.beckyspelman 3 жыл бұрын
Sorry to hear this! We can offer you a free 15 minute phone call with one of our practitioners to discuss some psychological treatment options we have available, just email us at info@privatetherapyclinic.com to book your free call!
@HollieBlack
@HollieBlack 4 жыл бұрын
I've had sleep anxiety for as long as I can remember. A few times this year I've experienced myself becoming hyper aware of falling asleep. Last night it was the worst it's ever been. I couldn't sleep at all. My eyes would open as soon as I started to drift off and my heart would start race. I felt so uncomfortable and nervous. So vulnerable and scared. This went on for hours and hours and hours.. Like you, I felt like I had to arouse from death. The experience was so horrifying that I've spent all day doing research on what on Earth was going on with me. I finally found your video and now I know I'm not alone and that there is help out there! Thank you so much for sharing this.
@darealdinerosavage5490
@darealdinerosavage5490 3 жыл бұрын
How are u now i have this exact same thing what helps u
@HollieBlack
@HollieBlack 3 жыл бұрын
@@darealdinerosavage5490 I'm pretty sure the worst of it was cause by extreme stress. My marriage has been pretty awful. My husband and I are temporarily separated. Him not being in the house, I'm taking a break from worrying about our problems gave me some much-needed peace and I started sleeping much better.
@kirasussy5911
@kirasussy5911 4 жыл бұрын
I always cry everyday at night because I’m scared if my parents die because my mom said she won’t be long in this world and I knew I have to continue living without her..and when I die I always have a feeling it would be boring to be there and can’t have the same thing I have in earth which is the best happiness of memory with family there and idk how to remove that
@dr.beckyspelman
@dr.beckyspelman 4 жыл бұрын
Hi there, thank you for sharing, sorry to hear you are going through this, we can offer you a free 15 minute phone call with one of our therapists to discuss this.
@kirasussy5911
@kirasussy5911 4 жыл бұрын
@@dr.beckyspelman I'm sorry but I can't because if my parents hear me talking to someone it will be awkward because I'm not that type of person who actually talks about this stuffs infront of my family
@Mia15239
@Mia15239 4 жыл бұрын
SpaceSheep I completely relate...... wish they would never have to leave me, makes my heart break and shatter so much I feel like I won’t know how to live on. I don’t want to live on without them :((((((( I love my mum and family so much.
@Mia15239
@Mia15239 4 жыл бұрын
I’m so sorry you also have these really painful feelings and thoughts. Reading what you wrote I felt like it was almost myself writing it. I feel the same way about my mum.. it kills me and everything in my body and heart hurts so much. My throat tightens so much and my eyes just well up with tears and I break down. I just feel so heart broken again and again. I love my mum so so much I just don’t want to have to be in a world without her. I hate that. I bet you also really really love your mum so much too :(((( biggest hugs I can give to you
@leeannlopezyt
@leeannlopezyt 4 жыл бұрын
I wish more people talked about this!
@dr.beckyspelman
@dr.beckyspelman 4 жыл бұрын
LeeAnn Lopez we hope you found the video helpful. If you wish to speak to one of our therapists directly please do not hesitate to contact us
@gainingsomeirlxp1897
@gainingsomeirlxp1897 2 жыл бұрын
Just knowing people also go through this and this is normal (considering the problems and stressing environment we are going through) already eliminated 99% of my anxiety and Somniphobia. I feel like I am going to get some good sleep tonight....
@howtopepsicola1252
@howtopepsicola1252 4 жыл бұрын
i always think i’m going to die when i sleep. i’m not afraid of death. i’m afraid of what will happen when my dad finds me dead. i’ve had all these symptoms and i do all of these!! i think i’m dying and i’m panicking because of the symptoms. i fall asleep and immediately wake up! i wake up and feel really dizzy for about 2 seconds and then i immediately start panicking. it’s currently 4am and normally i don’t sleep until sunrise. until i can’t take it anymore. i also get really bad heartburn because of my anxiety.
@dr.beckyspelman
@dr.beckyspelman 4 жыл бұрын
Hi there, sorry to hear you are going through this. We can offer you a free 15 minute call with one of our therapists to discuss this and treatment options for this?
@agielohenaj9617
@agielohenaj9617 4 жыл бұрын
What did you?
@angelmcmillian1395
@angelmcmillian1395 4 жыл бұрын
I'm scared that no one will be here but my 3 year old
@agielohenaj9617
@agielohenaj9617 4 жыл бұрын
What did you do?
@spononomthambama4827
@spononomthambama4827 3 жыл бұрын
That is happening to me too and I'll scream telling my husband that I'm dying and when I woke up I'll be shaking and dizzy and this is stressing me
@francescamennell95
@francescamennell95 4 жыл бұрын
I’m the same and I’ll stay up to as late as I can do it light outside when I sleep I don’t know and then I fear because my heart is irregular so I think I am going to die in my sleep and then I start thinking I have pains which are contributing to it
@dr.beckyspelman
@dr.beckyspelman 4 жыл бұрын
Hi Francesca, thank you for sharing. We can offer you a free 15 minute phone call with one of our therapists? Please email: info@privatetherapyclinic.com
@howtopepsicola1252
@howtopepsicola1252 4 жыл бұрын
same with me. my heart has been beating irregular lately (i’m also overweight) but then i think i’m dying. then i have a panic attack, chest pains, etc and i feel completely alone. i fall asleep and immediately jolt to wake up and then i get heartburn. i was diagnosed with anxiety and it was never this bad. i also jump out of bed right when i feel like i’m dying. cause in my brain if i do that i’ll “prevent” it. which obviously if i was dying it wouldn’t but i like to believe it would.
@ryanabgelina8914
@ryanabgelina8914 4 жыл бұрын
I have experienced the same, there was a time that i thought i stoped breathing,.. But i have manage to control it... just let it go, and it Will eventually.. its all in your mind...hope it Will feel you better..tc
@MelissaAnnLegard1989
@MelissaAnnLegard1989 4 жыл бұрын
I'm the same way recently. I stay up until like 7am because I'm scared of dying in my sleep so I'm exhausted during the day. Death is as natural as birth but I can't wrap my head around the fact that I'm going to die someday. It's the thought that I'll be gone and won't be aware of anything that terrifies me. I'm starting college in January and honestly don't know how I'm going to do it. I'm applying for Accessibility Services so I can get extra help and time if I need extra time on assignments and tests.
@francescamennell95
@francescamennell95 4 жыл бұрын
@@MelissaAnnLegard1989 oh my god that’s exactly me, i’ve found sleeping with people helps me a lot i don’t know why but having a person there really helps, i’ve just started college too . i totally understand what you mean like we could just die in our sleep and wouldn’t he aware or know our life has ended, it terrifies me that we have to come out of this life dead
@sarahtsopanis31
@sarahtsopanis31 4 жыл бұрын
I am suffering from the same thing. I have had its for nearly four months now. It’s quite horrifying. I know tonight will be the same. Everything the young lady talks about is very real. I’m feeling less silly right now that it’s not just me. Thank you for the video
@dr.beckyspelman
@dr.beckyspelman 4 жыл бұрын
Sorry to hear this, we can offer you a free 15 minute phone call with one of our therapists who can discuss ways this can be treated? (to book a free call you can email info@privatetherapyclinic.com)
@nuralyazulfa21
@nuralyazulfa21 4 жыл бұрын
Did u overcome it ? :/
@annar9477
@annar9477 3 жыл бұрын
I saw the name of this video and was SO relieved people knew what I was going through. Thank you for making the video name so specific!
@seekingthelight2029
@seekingthelight2029 4 жыл бұрын
Completely get this, I'm a completely rational person but I'm terrified of dying and losing everyone I love and I'm scared of infinity. I know it's ridiculous but it's so hard to live your life when all your thinking about is death.
@dr.beckyspelman
@dr.beckyspelman 4 жыл бұрын
Sorry to hear you are experiencing this, we can offer you a free 15 minute phone call with one of our therapists?
@MelissaAnnLegard1989
@MelissaAnnLegard1989 4 жыл бұрын
I have the exact same issue. I lost my dad in 2014, my aunt 9 months later, my uncle in 2017 and I put my dog down last year. I lost my grandparents too. I've thought about death in the past but I always pushed the thought away. It hit me again this year that one day I'm going to die and started experiencing bad anxiety attacks. The mind isn't able to comprehend death which is why it terrifies me.
@seekingthelight2029
@seekingthelight2029 4 жыл бұрын
@@MelissaAnnLegard1989 i totally get what you mean. And im so sorry that all those people in your life have passed away that must be really hard. I really hate when people say its such an immature fear, like anything that causes you fear is not immature and i can guarantee that this fear is so much worse than anyone thinks. I really hope you find a way to get through it, i know its hard believe me but i hope that things get easier for you.
@universalladyn
@universalladyn 3 жыл бұрын
I feel EXACTLY the same, and I hope you and I and everyone else struggling will find ways to manage and good luck to us all! Whatever else, we all have each other here in the comments. 💕🍀
@Imran-khan-nn
@Imran-khan-nn 2 ай бұрын
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@kd2010kd
@kd2010kd 4 жыл бұрын
I’ve been having this issue for a couple of months and its ruining my life quality, hearing im not alone has made me feel better though it gets really stressful :(
@dr.beckyspelman
@dr.beckyspelman 4 жыл бұрын
Hi there, sorry to hear you are going through this, we can offer you a free 15 minute phone call to discuss treatment options with one of our therapists?
@ryanabgelina8914
@ryanabgelina8914 4 жыл бұрын
I have experienced the same, there was a time that i thought i stoped breathing,.. But i have manage to control it... just let it go, and it Will eventually.. its all in your mind...hope it Will feel you better..tc
@nuralyazulfa21
@nuralyazulfa21 4 жыл бұрын
ryan abgelina hey how did u get over it ?
@ryanabgelina8914
@ryanabgelina8914 4 жыл бұрын
@@nuralyazulfa21 hey, I've been reading eckhart tolle's book. The power of now..And following his spiritual teachings. . It helped me a lot..I highly recommend eckhart tolle..you can follow him on you.. God bless..tc
@darealdinerosavage5490
@darealdinerosavage5490 3 жыл бұрын
@@nuralyazulfa21 did the book help u as well
@linneahulten405
@linneahulten405 4 жыл бұрын
This has happened to me last two nights. It's really scary, I have never experienced it before. 😥 I hope it's temporary...
@dr.beckyspelman
@dr.beckyspelman 4 жыл бұрын
Sorry to hear you are dealing with this, would you like a free 15 minute phone call with one of our therapists?
@linneahulten405
@linneahulten405 4 жыл бұрын
@@dr.beckyspelman thank you but I think it's getting better again, it was that weekend for some reason. Probably a stressful situation with lot of things happening at the same time.
@davidmilbourne6855
@davidmilbourne6855 4 жыл бұрын
This is the 2nd night of suffering from this. I’m going through it right now at 23:34 and I’m literally petrified. I’m constantly reading to keep me awake and not thinking about it but it’s useless. I’m sat here scared about dying and leaving behind my partner and kids. Scared that they’ll wake up tomorrow and find me dead and ruining my children’s lives.
@Imtheone84
@Imtheone84 4 жыл бұрын
I've been having this the last five to six months. Now I deliberately try to stay awake late so I don't have to attempt to fall into sleep because of all the symptoms associated with it.
@dr.beckyspelman
@dr.beckyspelman 3 жыл бұрын
@@joeblow1925 sure please email my becky@privatetherapyclinic.com and we’d be happy to help.
@ethancowart6765
@ethancowart6765 3 жыл бұрын
this is exactly how i feel, im always terrified to fall asleep like something bad is going to happen while im sleeping. it sucks like what is wrong with me.
@JZGreengo
@JZGreengo 3 жыл бұрын
I feel this, it’s like you just quit fighting then you overcome it, I’m working it but I sometimes forget I have to let go and wake up feeling dizzy and panicked after entering that sleep state, which is like 10 minutes in after closing my eyes. Thank you for telling us your story, definitely helped save people time and money with doctors lol
@alanpioquinto9289
@alanpioquinto9289 4 жыл бұрын
Actually I feel it too it been days. Several weeks and I also have that kind of thought because my heart doesnt beat rapidly and sometimes I feel like im choking.
@dr.beckyspelman
@dr.beckyspelman 4 жыл бұрын
Hi Alan, sorry to hear you are going through this. We can offer you a free 15 minute phone call with one of our therapists?
@ryanabgelina8914
@ryanabgelina8914 4 жыл бұрын
I have experienced the same, there was a time that i thought i stoped breathing,.. But i have manage to control it... just let it go, and it Will eventually.. its all in your mind...hope it Will feel you better..tc
@sjn2029
@sjn2029 4 жыл бұрын
I begin to fall alseep and realize my death, and then wake up from a fear of dying.
@xdeadyoungx
@xdeadyoungx 4 жыл бұрын
This is exactly what I have happen
@henrynwokeji985
@henrynwokeji985 3 жыл бұрын
I had this at the moment
@azzaharin6352
@azzaharin6352 3 жыл бұрын
Same with me
@bishnoiliftssss
@bishnoiliftssss 3 жыл бұрын
@@azzaharin6352 what is condition now
@Imran-khan-nn
@Imran-khan-nn 2 ай бұрын
💜You are my music 🎸🎻
@jennybugsification13
@jennybugsification13 4 жыл бұрын
I'm glad I'm not alone. I'm always afraid of my kids finding me... my anxiety started when I was a child and I had to regularly deal with my abusive step brother. I can't believe its actually been over 30 years. I'm so glad I searched this. I'm glad I found yall. Thank you❤
@dr.beckyspelman
@dr.beckyspelman 4 жыл бұрын
Hi Jenny, thank you for sharing, sorry to hear you re experiencing this. We can offer you a free 15 minute phone call with one of our therapists to discuss this?
@soylentgreendip
@soylentgreendip 4 жыл бұрын
Thanks for putting this video out, Poppy.
@dr.beckyspelman
@dr.beckyspelman 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your comment
@satolovelies
@satolovelies 2 жыл бұрын
it’s 12am and i have school so i’m speed running a 5hr sleep if i could but i’m scared to fall asleep, for the past 2 hours i’ve been thinking i’ll die in my sleep i’m so scared. I’m gonna try to sleep even though i don’t want to. but listening to this was a sort of relief and safe space for me
@lydia1642
@lydia1642 3 жыл бұрын
i feel this alot and im 10 years old i i keep syaing to my self that everyhtings gonna be alright and take deep breaths and its scary at first but just know that ur ok and nothing is going to happen! and it makes u feel better that there are people with this fear too and ur not alone!
@digginestdog5824
@digginestdog5824 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this. I thought I was going crazy. I experience the same thing, as soon as I begin to slip into sleep I jerk myself awake because it feels like death. It’s so bad even if I preoccupy my mind and fall sleep from exhaustion it happens anyway, as though controlled by my subconscious. I’m really tired and experiencing other issues as a result of the lack of sleep.
@dr.beckyspelman
@dr.beckyspelman 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your comment, sorry to hear you are dealing with this. Would you like a free 15 minute phone call with one of our therapists to discuss this?
@meenajones202
@meenajones202 4 жыл бұрын
Me too, I'm having such a hard time, I have been dealing with this for 15 years ! It started out of the blue when I was 19-years-old after a surgery, I had what they said was a panic attack. It was the most terrifying thing in the world, I remeber saying to myself "if I just sleep everything will be better" however, I was feeling so horrible physically and it just popped into my head "you might die in your sleep" and I have been terrified every since, my life completely runied. I'm now having a really bad bout of fear, I can't get to sleep until 5-6 a.m. and wake up at 11am feeling unrested, anxious, and sweating. I just want to love sleep again and be able to sleep with no problem like years before. I need some help, however, I'm a poor single mother and help only seems to be available to the wealthy. I cry all day because I cant be a mother to my child, I'm anxious and severly tried all day, my daughter is 12-years-old and she has always known me to be this way, tried and unable to cope and live a normal life. If you found some why to help yourself, please let me know. Maybe it will help me as well.
@digginestdog5824
@digginestdog5824 4 жыл бұрын
meena jones I had to get a prescribed sleep aid to go along with the therapy.
@digginestdog5824
@digginestdog5824 4 жыл бұрын
meena jones I had to get a prescribed sleep aid. It was the only way to sort out my head. You can’t work through the irrationality of the fear(s) if you’re not sleeping.
@meenajones202
@meenajones202 4 жыл бұрын
@@digginestdog5824 May I ask what sleep aid you used?
@mattya1133
@mattya1133 4 жыл бұрын
Omg I’ve been dealing with the same thing for years it’s horrible I feel like I jumped awake just in time before my heart stopped
@dr.beckyspelman
@dr.beckyspelman 4 жыл бұрын
Hi Matt, sorry to hear this. We can offer you a free 15 minute phone call with one of our therapists?
@ryanabgelina8914
@ryanabgelina8914 4 жыл бұрын
I have experienced the same, there was a time that i thought i stoped breathing,.. But i have manage to control it... just let it go, and it Will eventually.. its all in your mind...hope it Will feel you better..tc
@asadhus
@asadhus 4 жыл бұрын
Same! I see some time has passed for you. What is the best thing I can do? Any advice?
@zeljko3139
@zeljko3139 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you, this video really helped me calm down and understand what is going on with this kind of anxiety i have
@dr.beckyspelman
@dr.beckyspelman 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for watching
@Laura-sn8iy
@Laura-sn8iy 3 жыл бұрын
I love the horse rider metaphor. It made me realize that the „horse“ my body is already existing no matter what I do. So I might as well let that horse have a good sleep because it’s essential that I care for it. Good night!
@Stacey_imfruitful
@Stacey_imfruitful 3 жыл бұрын
Feels so comforting to know someone else feels exactly the same thing im going through, and im not crazy
@dr.beckyspelman
@dr.beckyspelman 3 жыл бұрын
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@veenamaru8275
@veenamaru8275 4 жыл бұрын
Am glad I am not alone somebody please make a group of us so we can feel never alone..yes we have to die one day we fear because we hate truth we want lie to satisfy us I have this fear from childhood it didn't bothered me then but it is bothering me as adult fear of process of dying, fear of seeing death angel while I am alive,fear of losing loved one behind,fear of after life that I would be left alone after I die and nobody will be there to love me this fears occurs sometimes but it kills me I am happy so many of them are here to understand me without even judging me it feels lovely to open up
@ssallons7930
@ssallons7930 4 жыл бұрын
its very reassuring Im not alone with this. The thought of sleep always terrified me for the lack of control you have, my mind refuses to let go of conciousness. to the point i've experienced sleep paralysis on a regular basis. powerful fears start arising. what helped for me was easing my mind with the thought that i didnt have to sleep, but i just haf to get easy with the moments before sleep when you feel concioussness dimming and just trying to explore that state in a peaceful way, allowing yourself to wake if your minds start rebelling. Kind of like enjoying the view on top of a cliff instead of jumping off. eventually your body will do the rest before you have the chance to be scared.
@dr.beckyspelman
@dr.beckyspelman 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing, sorry to hear you are going through this. We can offer you a free 15 minute phone call with one of our therapists to discuss this?
@Kmoore888
@Kmoore888 3 жыл бұрын
Anxiety->physical symptoms->irrational thoughts->fear->ruminating->anxiety. Break the cycle by grounding yourself in the present. And don’t be afraid of the physical symptoms. They won’t hurt you.
@dr.beckyspelman
@dr.beckyspelman 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing
@adakunwachukwu2654
@adakunwachukwu2654 3 жыл бұрын
So how do I break the cycle?
@Kmoore888
@Kmoore888 3 жыл бұрын
@@adakunwachukwu2654 do a search for anxiety grounding techniques.
@AlbaLynxQueen
@AlbaLynxQueen 2 жыл бұрын
I am afraid of death. I wake suddenly with the thought "I am going to die someday" Then panic overwhelms me.
@AlexeiRex
@AlexeiRex 3 жыл бұрын
I thought I was the only one feeling this way! Almost word for word what you’re saying. In a weird way it was nice to hear.
@4ngeljoy
@4ngeljoy 2 жыл бұрын
Everytime I try to fall asleep i feel like my body is drowning and I feel like I'm dying this thing keeping me awake rn
@grcff417
@grcff417 4 жыл бұрын
Every night,as I try and fall to sleep I start to drift off then all of a sudden jump awake and inhale massively panicking grabbing my arms checking I’m not dead. I try and drift off again and I can her my heart slowing and I feel like my breathing stops and it repeats cause I jump awake again and so on. It’s horrible and I’m really tired 😥
@dr.beckyspelman
@dr.beckyspelman 4 жыл бұрын
Sorry to hear you are going through this, we can offer you a free 15 minute phone call with one of our therapists to discuss treatment options for this, please email info@privatetherapyclinic.com to book your free call
@darealdinerosavage5490
@darealdinerosavage5490 3 жыл бұрын
@@cmiyglri how are u feeling now im currently goin threw this
@darealdinerosavage5490
@darealdinerosavage5490 3 жыл бұрын
@@cmiyglri what helped u if u dont mine me asking any advice will help me i sp tired pf goin threw this
@darealdinerosavage5490
@darealdinerosavage5490 3 жыл бұрын
@@cmiyglri idk how to do it do u have snap or anything by chance mine is mikiesavage4 i could really use your help
@alexg.8512
@alexg.8512 Жыл бұрын
I came across this exact anxiety.Had to speak with a psychiatrist which formulated Clonazepam in droplets. The first night it eliminated my sleep anxiety completely "fear of dying" and allowed me to sleep with no fear ...after a couple of weeks I was able to get off the medication and rewired my brain to feeling safe again at bedtime..but I have to agree that I went sleepless 9 days because of this anxiety..felt like I was having a heart attack everytime it triggered at bed time..worst feeling ever..but sometimes certain medication can help for these situations
@Sabeel-fs6vv
@Sabeel-fs6vv 10 ай бұрын
Same thing I am face since 2019 ... I think there is no way to overcome this without medicine ...If we take the medicine we have to take a full episode may be six month or more that would also give us some other side effects .
@w1tc4
@w1tc4 3 жыл бұрын
Going through this. I just want to rest. I’m tired. I don’t know how much more I can handle this.
@hafsaabdullahi4166
@hafsaabdullahi4166 4 жыл бұрын
It’s all in your brain, your thought makes you anxious, every single though you have about the fear of death when u go to sleep makes your anxiety increase. Thoughts of Death in sleep=increased anxiety. Which leads up to you staying up all night feeling scared, alone, for me, My anxiety increases so bad when everyone else is asleep. And I’m the only one awake.
@danlfc14
@danlfc14 4 жыл бұрын
This is still scaring me , can’t sleep as I’m scared I won’t wake up
@dr.beckyspelman
@dr.beckyspelman 4 жыл бұрын
Hi Dan, thank you for sharing, sorry to hear you are going through this. We can offer you a free 15 minute phone call with one of our therapists? Please email info@privatetherapyclinic.com to book your free call
@danlfc14
@danlfc14 4 жыл бұрын
Private Therapy Clinic yesss please it’s scaring me
@Maaaaryjaaaane
@Maaaaryjaaaane 4 жыл бұрын
@@dr.beckyspelman please call me
@cmdvlogs6103
@cmdvlogs6103 4 жыл бұрын
I'm so so sad that I' m dealing with this kind of anxiety, I'm just 17 years old and I'm suffering from this every night and thinking when it'll gonna end? It's worst that I'm not just thinking about my own death but everyone aroun me
@dr.beckyspelman
@dr.beckyspelman 4 жыл бұрын
Sorry to hear you are experiencing this, we can offer you a free 15 minute phone call with one of our therapists to discuss psychological treatment options available?
@lukspie
@lukspie 3 жыл бұрын
Got the same problem, I already told myself that I should not be afraid of it anymore, the panic attacks stopped but the fear of dying in sleep is still a current thing.. Im so glad that Im not alone with this issue and that there are thousands of us out there
@skymueller6267
@skymueller6267 3 жыл бұрын
@@lukspie is there any social media we can talk on?🥺 like me being 17 myself NO ONe understand and it’s literally consuming me.
@vuvvz
@vuvvz 3 жыл бұрын
@@skymueller6267 hiiii i’m having the same problem no one understands and i can barely sleep thinking ab it , u have instagram ?
@skymueller6267
@skymueller6267 3 жыл бұрын
@@vuvvz hi hun!! yes, skyy_eli
@BlueGravity777
@BlueGravity777 3 жыл бұрын
Didn't know it was this common. I have the same fear. Allergies and asthma makes it very hard to breathe. Bad Allergies and a plugged nose started giving me panic attacks
@alexandriahyndman7613
@alexandriahyndman7613 4 жыл бұрын
I am uncomfortable with being happy so whenever I’m happy and content with my day before going to sleep I feel like it’s time to die because the only place to go from happiness is horribleness but it’s sooooo silly but it is scary
@dr.beckyspelman
@dr.beckyspelman 4 жыл бұрын
Sorry to hear you are experiencing this, we can offer you a free 15 minute phone call with one of our therapists?
@justidi2306
@justidi2306 4 жыл бұрын
i struggle so hard with this, I’m so scared to go to sleep.
@MrMrperfect123
@MrMrperfect123 4 жыл бұрын
Me too do you maybe want to talk about it
@yeeunnn_
@yeeunnn_ 4 жыл бұрын
Sin separated us from God (everyone sins) and that leads to an punishment, (hell) but Jesus came down from heaven and died for sins , Now there is a free gift of salvation and whoever believes in the one and only one Jesus, you can have eternal life in heaven and escape punishment.
@dr.beckyspelman
@dr.beckyspelman 3 жыл бұрын
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@dr.beckyspelman
@dr.beckyspelman 3 жыл бұрын
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@isnotreallylikethat3601
@isnotreallylikethat3601 3 жыл бұрын
I recently developed this 3-4 months back and it has gotten to the point that I would stay up until 4-5am then slip in to sleep from exhaustion, but even then these days it has gotten worse and I don't even try to sleep anymore since the feeling is so horrible, as a result my health and thought process is just messed up. I'm typing this at 6am in the morning and still don't feel an ounce of sleepiness even if I feel like I'm dying from exhaustion. I hope I can get better soon.
@giannimacaluso6643
@giannimacaluso6643 2 жыл бұрын
I hope you’re ok
@neginjamshidi7381
@neginjamshidi7381 2 жыл бұрын
Me too . I was not like this before but for some months Im afraid of being unconcious not to die in sleep but afraid to being unconcious no one can help me . I say it to people but they make fun of me that scaring me more that how people can be cruel to not help you and even make fun of you're mental problems😔
@marcelaqq
@marcelaqq 6 ай бұрын
Hi! Did you cover? How are you these days? ❤
@breezetell
@breezetell 2 жыл бұрын
For the past 2 years, I feel like my body's condition has been deteriorating in multiple ways.. I'm not too sure what is causing all my symptoms but I suddenly developed a fear for dying. I'm starting to realise that I've been suddenly dreading my sleep for the past few days. I used to love sleeping as a form of an my escape or chance to lucid dream but right now, I've suddenly developed this fear.
@jessie-flower
@jessie-flower 4 жыл бұрын
This has happened to me the last nights where all of a sudden I awake myself with such a heat flush and I want cry .... I came across this to try and ease my anxiety about this
@dr.beckyspelman
@dr.beckyspelman 4 жыл бұрын
We are sorry to hear you are experiencing this. We can offer you a free 15 minute phone call with one of our therapists to discuss psychological treatment options available? Email info@privatetherapyclinic.com to book your free call.
@jimmyfigueras4476
@jimmyfigueras4476 Жыл бұрын
The most terrifying thing is spending the day after not having slept at all worrying that it will repeat itself every night.
@joshuabentley497
@joshuabentley497 3 жыл бұрын
Girl this is my life right now … I’m exhausted 😩
@dr.beckyspelman
@dr.beckyspelman 3 жыл бұрын
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@lilibeth6023
@lilibeth6023 3 жыл бұрын
Same , I have been scared to sleep for 2 years now and I burley sleep 😫 are you still struggling with this ?
@UserUser-ww2nj
@UserUser-ww2nj Жыл бұрын
Thank you for making the video Poppy , it can't have been easy to talk about this irrational fear . I have it and last night not a wink of sleep . I have all the classic symptoms as you . The only thing that helps at the moment is alcohol , not the best treatment but it shuts my brain down . I have had the problem for some time , go to bed and my brain goes into hyper drive , shortness of breath and specially disorientated and have to get up . I hope you are better now and that you never have this problem again . Take care
@alexandersutton8669
@alexandersutton8669 Жыл бұрын
Ever since a negative experience with weed, I've been struggling with an issue that I never had before. Initially, I used small amounts of weed to help me relax at night, but one night I accidentally took too much, and when it kicked in, I thought it was going to be my last night. I was advised to go to bed if I had a bad experience, but the anxiety I felt was overpowering. The fear of dying prevented me from sleeping, and this feeling persisted every night afterward, causing me to wake up with a racing heart in the morning. Sometimes, the racing heart would occur before bed, during sleep, and in the mornings, and it was so severe that my body would shake from the stress. To address this anxiety, I turned to an ebook called DARE, which provided significant help in managing my symptoms. Additionally, I discovered that I was deficient in magnesium, a common deficiency among many people. I started taking a magnesium supplement containing various types of magnesium, initially at 500mg daily. It took some time to adjust, but it proved to be beneficial. However, recently, the fear of death at night has resurfaced, without the racing heart. To tackle this, I plan on increasing my magnesium intake to 500mg again before bedtime. I feel more secure sleeping during the day or with the lights on when this feeling arises, but I typically need to be extremely tired to fall asleep. Despite feeling exhausted before bed, as soon as I lie down, worry sets in. My nose starts to feel congested, and my chest tightens, leading me to panic, fearing I can't breathe. Swallowing becomes difficult, further exacerbating my anxiety. Once I start drifting off to sleep, I experience a queasy stomach and a nervous sensation similar to the feeling of free-falling, causing me to become alert once again. It usually takes going through this cycle a few times before I can finally fall asleep. At one point, my condition was so severe that when I woke up with heavy eyes and slightly blurry vision, I would panic, thinking my body was shutting down. I would often leap out of bed and rush to the bathroom, splashing cold water on my face to reassure myself that I wasn't going to die. It's quite absurd when I think about it now. However, one valuable lesson I learned from that night of taking too much weed is the incredible power of the mind. I hope you're able to find peace of mind. It's currently 3 am for me, and I'll attempt to do the same.
@faith21savy98
@faith21savy98 4 жыл бұрын
I was so scared I have severe anxiety I thought I was the only one suffering from this but I'm glad I'm not alone
@dr.beckyspelman
@dr.beckyspelman 4 жыл бұрын
Hi there, thank you for sharing, sorry to hear you are going through this. Would you like a free 15 minute phone call with one of our therapists to discuss treatment for this?
@spkurmi4111
@spkurmi4111 3 жыл бұрын
How did you solve the problem? Help me
@neonglow3378
@neonglow3378 3 жыл бұрын
@@spkurmi4111 2 Things 1. Exercise a lot 2. Practice Deep Breathing....
@hanimakdissy2188
@hanimakdissy2188 4 жыл бұрын
I suffer the same like I am going to have a heart attack or I wont breathe if i fall asleep and once I was suffering in the night and I went to the hospital I thought I was having a heart attack but of course it was all in my mind and the doctor checked on me and told me I am more than fine.But what really helps you overcome this is just do a voice record to listen to when you panicking talking about all your last experiences and what you felt before and how it was nothing after all and your still alive and remind yourself that is all in your mind and mention some very bad experiences that you thought that it was deadly and it was nothing after all .listen to this voice record while your sleeping on a very low volume it really helps
@dr.beckyspelman
@dr.beckyspelman 4 жыл бұрын
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@goneviral8814
@goneviral8814 3 жыл бұрын
Glad I'm not the only one lol. You will overcome this. Yoga and meditation helps but it's all our mind playing tricks on us. My doctors even told me but I kept turning away. Please realize it's nothing but our mind playing games with us
@wackybobo2000
@wackybobo2000 4 жыл бұрын
I’m so happy I’ve found this I generally experience the exact same thing every single night
@maulitaanggiasih4966
@maulitaanggiasih4966 3 жыл бұрын
Literally my problem. Plus I have GERD and sleep apnea. You must understand how I feel. Umm can I make video of my mental health journey? I mean that was embarrassing to admit it to my family. But now I think I can open up about who I am and what's really happening with myself
@maulitaanggiasih4966
@maulitaanggiasih4966 3 жыл бұрын
I can't sleep. Everytime I try to sleep I always think that I'll stop breathing, Jesus will take away me, and whatever whatever. I've been talking to myself that "everything is gonna br okay, when I wake up tomorrow you'll make good breakfast and send some fruits to my neighbor". And then I tried to sleep and my body will jolts by itself because the heart no breath. Like sleep apnea. It's 04.15 am here. September 27 2021. And I haven't slept .
@DAYDREAMER名越
@DAYDREAMER名越 4 жыл бұрын
I am the exact opposite as I was like you ten years ago. Ten years ago I was scared of falling asleep because it made me feel like I was dying, but now, ten years later, I am in such pain each day that I'd like to die without feeling anything, so dying in my sleep would be the best thing that could happen to me. I'm not scared of dying anymore, but I'm scared to feel pain since I had health problem that caused me hours of agony...
@dr.beckyspelman
@dr.beckyspelman 4 жыл бұрын
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@julienorton-huse871
@julienorton-huse871 4 жыл бұрын
I get this, i jump up & run around trying to keep myself going in sheer panic- horrible. How u did a sky dive i dont know! Well done.. i’ll try these tips 👍👍
@dr.beckyspelman
@dr.beckyspelman 4 жыл бұрын
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@MusashiArisa
@MusashiArisa 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this video. I started having this after having my first panic attack and I struggle with it!
@dr.beckyspelman
@dr.beckyspelman 4 жыл бұрын
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@h3ll4v
@h3ll4v 4 жыл бұрын
everyone always thinks i’m crazy when i say i’m scared to sleep
@dr.beckyspelman
@dr.beckyspelman 4 жыл бұрын
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@h3ll4v
@h3ll4v 4 жыл бұрын
Private Therapy Clinic yes thank you
@holdfaster2000
@holdfaster2000 4 жыл бұрын
After 6 years of on and off experiences with this. It’s gotten bad over the last year. I dread falling asleep. Today, I learned that a large amount of people deal with this. I finally have had enough and decided to take to the Internet. I do have PTSD but these episodes started a year before my traumatic event. I know I have general anxiety these days but this impending feeling of death that jolts me awake is becoming too much. I’m left wondering about health issues.
@dr.beckyspelman
@dr.beckyspelman 4 жыл бұрын
Hi there, thank you for sharing. Sorry to hear you are going through this. We can offer you a free 15 minute call with one of our therapists to discuss this? We have many therapists at our clinic who specialise in PTSD and Anxiety.
@kayleighbrown459
@kayleighbrown459 4 жыл бұрын
I have this a little bit. I'm not scared that I'm going to die, but the process of what sleeping actually is kinda freaks me out a little bit. Like the idea of just giving up your consciousness. I know I'm gonna way up again. I'm not worried about that. I think it's because I can never really remember the exact moment I fall asleep. I don't have that feeling of somewhere between asleep and awake. It's just like someone switching off a light and it just really freaks me out.
@dr.beckyspelman
@dr.beckyspelman 4 жыл бұрын
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@cristiansg2433
@cristiansg2433 2 жыл бұрын
Hey, did you get better? I'm desperate :(
@kayleighbrown459
@kayleighbrown459 2 жыл бұрын
@@cristiansg2433 I did, but mainly because someone died and I kinda stopped caring.
@eugenesundeliusvonrosen3285
@eugenesundeliusvonrosen3285 2 жыл бұрын
I have this exact thing as opposed to the fear of dying while sleeping.
@nelyantonio1655
@nelyantonio1655 4 жыл бұрын
I am on week 3 of Covid and for the last two weeks I’ve been unable to sleep because this fear you just expressed. It’s really exhausting.
@dr.beckyspelman
@dr.beckyspelman 4 жыл бұрын
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@Dumpling.-.
@Dumpling.-. 3 жыл бұрын
I’m always scared that I won’t wake up. I have a fear of everything that can hurt me, except myself.
@dr.beckyspelman
@dr.beckyspelman 3 жыл бұрын
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@christianviruet6229
@christianviruet6229 4 жыл бұрын
I feel the same way, the reason why im watching ur video at 3am right now 🤦🏽‍♂️
@dr.beckyspelman
@dr.beckyspelman 4 жыл бұрын
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@aitanagomez7338
@aitanagomez7338 3 жыл бұрын
1:08 here lol
@joytotheuniverse
@joytotheuniverse 4 жыл бұрын
Considering that I also have heart problems, that makes this experience a lot more worrisome even though it's completely irrational.
@mileidyclass
@mileidyclass 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this video. I've been getting a lot of panick attacks lately and this is a thing that's also been happening to me lately (panicking because I think I'm gonna die in my sleep).
@dr.beckyspelman
@dr.beckyspelman 3 жыл бұрын
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@journworks.2545
@journworks.2545 3 жыл бұрын
im experiencing this right now😭
@Bbqmanslays
@Bbqmanslays 3 жыл бұрын
I’ve started to have sleep paralysis almost every week for around 5 months and it affected me so badly that whenever I’m going to sleep I either feel like I’m gonna die or that I’ll have sleep paralysis again that it scares me cause I’m scared I’ll go crazy as well..
@valerianunez4942
@valerianunez4942 4 жыл бұрын
Ive been struggling every night I’m just so scared of dying in my sleep and this just comes along with terrible headaches that leave my whole body feel as if it were burning and that just makes it even worse. I literally hope for night time not to come so I don’t have to go through feeling like this again. I’m so glad I’m not alone
@9877-d4x
@9877-d4x 4 жыл бұрын
I’ve been reading some comments and part of me is a bit more calm about how I’m not the only one and it’s something not that “serious” but it’s still hard for me to realize that I’m okay and it’s just anxiety but I just feel weird because I’m young and I’ve never heard someone the same age as me have this so idk it’s just really hard but I’m trying my best :)
@dr.beckyspelman
@dr.beckyspelman 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing, sorry to hear you have experienced this, we can offer you a free 15 minute phone call with one of our therapists?
@SteveFoi
@SteveFoi 3 жыл бұрын
How are u now?
@joelfrygonzalez9224
@joelfrygonzalez9224 2 жыл бұрын
How are you now did it went away I’m also young and I’m experiencing this to
@sophiakerkdolera9929
@sophiakerkdolera9929 2 жыл бұрын
I'm 26 and I felt like my arms are numb my my chest is in pain my neck something stuck on it . I also got irritated I'm afraid to sleep .my vital signs was fine but my veins are bulging I have tummyache too .. it all started when I went to hospital after having pneumonia
@9877-d4x
@9877-d4x 2 жыл бұрын
@@joelfrygonzalez9224 thank you for asking, I’m so much better now. It definitely took some time but it’s a lot on focusing on reality. The brain really likes to play tricks with us but it’s all about being stronger and remembering it that we control it.
@nunu_beee
@nunu_beee 2 жыл бұрын
I also am suffering from sleep anxiety but it's getting better I think. I went through a period of extreme insomnia for a month and ever since then I have been anxious about falling asleep. I only feel safe falling asleep around 6 am. It's currently 3:26 am and I'm just passing the time until I feel safe enough to get in bed
@giannimacaluso6643
@giannimacaluso6643 2 жыл бұрын
This is me rn
@giannimacaluso6643
@giannimacaluso6643 2 жыл бұрын
We need to go to therapy n end the cycle it’s the only thing that will help
@nunu_beee
@nunu_beee 2 жыл бұрын
@@giannimacaluso6643 I forgot about this comment. But once again it's 3 am and I'm procrastinating sleep for the same reasons as my original comment. Clearly it's not getting better by itself so yes we need therapy.
@aashimaarya5496
@aashimaarya5496 4 жыл бұрын
I feel like I m evaporating or more like slipping away I have this feeling if I go deeper into sleep , I would never be able to come back It scares me so much I want to live
@dr.beckyspelman
@dr.beckyspelman 4 жыл бұрын
Sorry to hear you are going through this, we can offer you a free 15 minute phone call with one of our therapists to discuss this? Please email info@privatetherapyclinic.com to book your free call
@aashimaarya5496
@aashimaarya5496 4 жыл бұрын
@@dr.beckyspelman Thankyou 🙂
@zaida.notalien2821
@zaida.notalien2821 3 жыл бұрын
I feel so scared tonight and I don't know why.. The feeling of being unconscious and dying in my sleep and it's super scary, Please pray for me tonight
@juliaaamarieee
@juliaaamarieee 4 жыл бұрын
This is happening to me right now. I can’t even relax. I’m afraid to sleep I live alone and worried my dogs will not be found. I’m only 28 so it sounds silly but this has been going on for a few months now. I don’t know if it’s because I have been stuck working from home for almost 3 months because of quarantine but I can tell this is wearing on me I am so tired all the time
@dr.beckyspelman
@dr.beckyspelman 4 жыл бұрын
Sorry to hear this Julia, would you like a free 15 minute phone call with one of our therapists who can discuss ways this can be treated? (to book a free call you can email info@privatetherapyclinic.com)
@meenajones202
@meenajones202 4 жыл бұрын
Same things is happening to me and has for a very long time. I have a daughter and we have been sleeping at my moms house at night becauee I'm so scared to be at my apartment. I usually have the fear for a few days then it goes away, however, it has bewn consistent since mid March and I just want it to go away. Have you found anything that helps you?
@juliaaamarieee
@juliaaamarieee 4 жыл бұрын
meena jones I personally haven’t found anything that helps but I have noticed it goes in phases of that makes sense. Like some day I can put on a movie and fall asleep other nights I lay wide awake worrying. Also I know I shouldn’t sleep with a tv on but it’s the only thing that helps me feel not alone besides my dogs.
@annebrewer7882
@annebrewer7882 4 жыл бұрын
Yes, I have this exact same thing. I live alone and am terrified that I will die in my sleep and my pet bird will die too bc I have no one to check on me here. It’s only been this way for me since Covid 19 hit, before this I never thought much about death and dying but it hit me like a truck
@annebrewer7882
@annebrewer7882 4 жыл бұрын
meena jones hi sometimes I go stay with my parents and I have a lot less anxiety knowing someone is in the house with me. It gets worse every time I go back on my own however. I try to get lots of excersise during the day so I’m more tired at night and more likely to fall asleep other than stay up worrying. God bless and keep you safe!
@mr.wigglemunch3856
@mr.wigglemunch3856 Жыл бұрын
I wasn't ready for Poppy to leave to be quite honest, does she have a YT channel?
@neonglow3378
@neonglow3378 3 жыл бұрын
I wish if sleep was like a button, just press it and see the morning after 8 hours, or just being able to think in your sleep.
@dr.beckyspelman
@dr.beckyspelman 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your comment
@KRAZEEIZATION
@KRAZEEIZATION 4 жыл бұрын
Anxiety is a terrible thing. The trouble is once we get on the loop it creates more fear. People say it goes back to childhood. Go back and examine the things you were afraid of or caused distress. The sensations you may feel is your anxious response to the feelings and it’s a combination of different things the brain stores to cope with it. So the brain needs an answer and if that answer is sensations then that’s the anxiety cycle. I’ve been suffering like this on and off since late 2013 and I’ve experienced all kinds of feelings and symptoms. Get well!
@dr.beckyspelman
@dr.beckyspelman 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your comment
@KRAZEEIZATION
@KRAZEEIZATION 3 жыл бұрын
@@dr.beckyspelman You’re most welcome!
@hithere2681
@hithere2681 4 жыл бұрын
Feel helpless when asleep, I wake up out off breath in a panic. I had been rolled up in a carpet and zipped up in a suit case as a child so i have a hard time sleeping at night. My nose has been broken since 2nd grade so i grew up unable to breath well out of my nose. To sleep i must fall asleep sitting up watching videos to distract my brain sometimes getting less than 2 hours of sleep a night. Getting heart and lungs looked at soon!
@dr.beckyspelman
@dr.beckyspelman 4 жыл бұрын
Sorry to hear you are going through this. We can offer you a free 15 minute phone call with one of our therapists?
@Rosewoodz
@Rosewoodz 3 жыл бұрын
I have developed this fear. I usually can’t sleep and stay up till dawn,I can’t count how many times I have cried in bed that I will die in my sleep. I’m afraid of telling parents because I don’t know what they would do.
@shaymitchell3689
@shaymitchell3689 3 жыл бұрын
exactly the same with me :(. it’s 5:15 am rn and the sun is rising, I’m really sick of staying up, I just want to sleep on time
@chris307
@chris307 4 жыл бұрын
THIS IS EXACTLY WHAT I FEEL WHY WAS THIS SO HARD TO FIND?
@dr.beckyspelman
@dr.beckyspelman 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your comment. We hope you enjoyed the video, we can also offer you a free 15 minute phone call with one of our therapists to discuss this?
@neilwilliams4420
@neilwilliams4420 4 жыл бұрын
Omg!! I’ve had exactly this since I was 21!!! Exactly the same, I hate trying to sleep, it’s the letting go I don’t like, I know it’s daft too, but it’s like I’m in control ( of course I’m not) but I keep thinking if I keep an eye on it creeping up on me day or night... then I can sort of snap myself into reality before I get taken!!! My was caused along time ago smoking weed once and only once and I didn’t like the trip and thought I was dying, I’ve been suffering ever since, I’m now 48 and am completely emotionally drained from fighting my own mind, the irony is I’m not enjoying life like I should be( constantly on edge thinking of the grim reaper) to the point I don’t want to live either, it’s bizarre , I’ve had hundreds of nights at the point of drifting off suddenly waking my self either shouting something totally random, or grabbing the bed post sooo hard I popped veins in my hand because I thought I was slipping away forever and I was fighting so hard to stay as I’m terrified of going... that when I come around fully I’m physically knackered and incredibly tense and tight chest, I’d love to be cured, I think people around me have had enough of hearing about my misery etc, I know it’s draining and obviously it is on them too, I hate the fact it’s inevitable and one day it will definitely happen ( list my dad suddenly a month ago) and fear the unknown, and yet sometimes after a couple of beers I can totally accept it all and be cool, but my point is it’s not normal for anyone to be thinking about 24/7, it’s exhausting and it’s a monkey I want to get rid of , much love and thank you for your video, I know I’m not alone x..... ps.... 11.38 pm now and in bed, dreading putting my head down, but this video may help a little x
@dr.beckyspelman
@dr.beckyspelman 4 жыл бұрын
Sorry to hear you are going through this, we can offer you a free 15 minute phone call with one of our therapists to discuss this? Please email info@privatetherapyclinic.com to book your free call
@neilwilliams4420
@neilwilliams4420 4 жыл бұрын
Private Therapy Clinic very kind, but I can’t afford any therapy at all, I don’t think one15 minute call will help me really, but I sincerely thank you x
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@meenajones202 4 жыл бұрын
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@susiebit
@susiebit 4 жыл бұрын
I'm going through the same thing. I've had problems sleeping since I was a child, but can't place the exact point it started. In my teens, I heard that an old teacher of mine in her late 30s had a stroke from taking the pill, and I was always kind of shocked with the situation. Now I'm on the pill and in my 30s, so this is a constant thought at night. But I'm not sure my anxiety doesn't come from earlier life experiences. I definitely believe the coronavirus situation has awakened these fears of death again. It's terrible. I will try breathing and creating those scenarios you mentioned (my imagination is also extremely vivid, which I find to be a curse), hopefully that can help me relax, since I really don't want to start taking anxiety medication. Thanks for the video, stay strong everyone.
@dr.beckyspelman
@dr.beckyspelman 4 жыл бұрын
Hi Susana, sorry to hear you are experiencing this, we can offer you a free initial phone call with one of our therapists to discuss this in more detail?
@susiebit
@susiebit 4 жыл бұрын
@@dr.beckyspelman I appreciate you trying to help, but I wouldn't be able to continue sessions because I'm not an American (I believe that's where you are). And I've sought counseling in my country. Thank you for caring 🙏
@paoarabe
@paoarabe 3 жыл бұрын
@@susiebit Hi Susana, out of curiosity: you're Brazilian? I'm going through the same thing for a long time.
@susiebit
@susiebit 3 жыл бұрын
@@paoarabe portuguesa :)
@paoarabe
@paoarabe 3 жыл бұрын
@@susiebit Entendi! Obrigado pela resposta, espero que esteja bem
@Tabsit_Academy
@Tabsit_Academy 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your video. Can I ask you how were your symptoms? Were you waking up at the beginning of your sleep, so scared and like breathless?
@heribertogarcia2090
@heribertogarcia2090 4 жыл бұрын
I I am going through the same thing right now I’m afraid to go to sleep for the fear of dying. I am also legally blind.
@dr.beckyspelman
@dr.beckyspelman 4 жыл бұрын
Sorry to hear this, we can offer you a free 15 minute phone call with one of our therapists to discuss treatment options we can offer. Please email info@privatetherapyclinic.com to book your free call
@joelfrygonzalez9224
@joelfrygonzalez9224 2 жыл бұрын
Does it ever go away by itself I been experiencing this for a couple of days now like when I’m go to sleep and even when I’m awake when I’m sleeping I feel like ima die any second and that my heart is going to stop beating and in the day I feel like ima just die for some reason
@alexwrea
@alexwrea 4 жыл бұрын
It is just horrible. I have the same thing. It is only lunchtime and I am already worried about tonight
@dr.beckyspelman
@dr.beckyspelman 4 жыл бұрын
Sorry to hear this, we can offer you a free 15 minute phone call with one of our therapists to discuss this and psychological treatment options?
@1dalexa
@1dalexa 4 жыл бұрын
I can’t do this anymore I’m only 14 please someone help me out I’m tired of my body aches and fast heart beat it’s taking a toll on me please
@dr.beckyspelman
@dr.beckyspelman 4 жыл бұрын
Sorry to hear this, we can offer you a free 15 minute phone call with one of our therapists? Please email info@privatetherapyclinic.com to book your free call
@adamfuller6384
@adamfuller6384 4 жыл бұрын
I have just been recently feeling like this and it sucks! I felt as if i were the only one!
@dr.beckyspelman
@dr.beckyspelman 4 жыл бұрын
Hi Adam, sorry to hear this. We can offer you a free 15 minute phone call with one of our therapists?
@endyalfonso9801
@endyalfonso9801 Жыл бұрын
My anxiety come and goes. Sometimes I look back when I had it and think how stupid it actually is but then when it comes back then the fear takes over sometimes stronger than before
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