How I See the US After Living in Europe

[@TravelingwithKristin]

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[@stephaniemcgreevy4114]

Thanks 🎉. Gonna find a fun class that will help me move forward. People in USA dont interact because they are bombarded with Fears. So that causes more stress and so they take more anti depressants and then they just crash. I’m gonna joyfully find something good to Study.

[@olschool1963]

Should add music as one of the skills, like learning guitar or any instrument.

[@lc7169]

Kristen I know you may not have a personal favorite place to live because you’ve been all over the world and I’m sure you love so many places you’ve been. But I’m curious, do you have a personal favorite Country or city in Europe that you love most?

[@eileenwatt8283]

Foods are not prepared in the restaurants. They come in large cans then served to the customers. That's why it tastes the same. I worked in restaurants in my youger days.It's all processed food.

[@PoliticalEconomy101]

How do you like living here in Miami? Make a video.

[@louaceveu1925]

My son went to study his masters in Brussels, Belgium. After one year studying there he came back to see his college friends in Salt Lake City (Utah State). The first cultural shock happened in a party that they threw for him. None he said to me, absolutely none Dad, asked me once a question about my life in Europe or anything related with my European experience (That really hurt his feelings), later, he noticed that all the conversations were related to money, possessions and banal topics and when he tried to talk about something more interesting he was treated with contempt. As a European, I always tried to teach my kids that as important as earning a living is, it is also important to feed our intellect and nurture our soul. His first months in Brussels were very difficult since he didn't know anybody there and he felt very very lonely, two years have passed on and he has friends from all over the world, last week took his test for French proficiency and passed it and I am extremely proud of him since he is 23, it is about to finish his masters and speaks fluently in English, Spanish and French.

[@kimhorton6109]

My Dad was in the Air Force and we moved A Lot. Puerto Rico, Jamaica, Guam, and all over the States. We never made it to Europe though many people we know did. I remember in 7th grade, living in Portsmouth NH and a girl I had nursed a crush on for four years got transferred to Spain. It turned out much later, she got married there. One thing we never did in country was think about the language. I had no idea what I missed until I was in my 60s.

[@birdlover7776]

Nice 🎉👏😊

[@Stopit77]

@@kimhorton6109 As an adult I feel those emotions as well. People rarely ask questions about my time in Europe, etc. it’s a very narrow minded point of view.

[@breathefree.]

I have a similar experience just between different states in the U.S. I moved to another state as a young adult and most of my family have little curiosity about the state I live in now or have traveled to. So, it's come as no surprise that they have had zero interest in my experiences traveling to other countries. My chosen group of friends is much more diverse, and there's far more curiosity among them. So, it's not everyone.

[@lukmaes6290]

Congrats from Brussels to your son and you !!!!

[@Steve757-fl1hd]

I am a retired airline captain. I have been through thousands of checkpoints. The best I was treated every single time was entering foreign countries. If I was in uniform, or not, I was treated respectfully and with dignity. I was addressed as Captain or sir. “Step this way Captain or thank you sir.” I never once in my 32 year career I never felt I had done something wrong or there was cause to be suspicious of my intentions or behavior. Not once. Coming to the USA all this went out the window. I usually felt pissed off after the experience. I was, on several occasions, asked to partially disrobe parts of my uniform. Now that will really make a person angry.

[@mariadaido6715]

When I first came to the us in 1957 everyone was friendly but it has change so much since then and now people are angry and worry and the media doesn't help by constantly telling us lies after lies.

[@Steve757-fl1hd]

@@mariadaido6715. Maria, what media lies are you referring to? In my experience - I don’t think I ever encountered a media falsehood about security. Don’t get me wrong, as a pilot, I appreciated tight security. I just believe TSA can do it without all the attitude and disrespect.

[@msvideotime]

Si true

[@tatiana.lifeinglow]

Interesting … I guess it depends on the place.

[@roymaddocks3184]

This comment really resonates with me

[@terryschima4964]

Kristin, this needed to be said; most Americans don’t have an idea of the truth you are saying, especially those who haven’t travelled outside the US. I was a truck driver for many years, and delivered to Sysco and US Foods. There are others though, but you are correct: whether you go to a $50/plate restaurant or a $500/ plate restaurant, with few exceptions the food is all the same. I know, I hauled it.

[@DarthFurball]

Great comment and insights

[@neutrino78x]

Well, the USA has 13 restaurants with three Michelin stars. Britain only has 9.

[@1chumley1]

​@@neutrino78xUmm, that's a case for better food in the UK when you consider how much larger the US is.

[@neutrino78x]

@@1chumley1 "Umm, that's a case for better food in the UK" The UK needs to work on better food, yes I agree. USA is 5th in the world for number of 3 Michelin star restaurants. We have 13, Italy has 14. Next one down is Germany with 10. The greatest number is found in France (home of Michelin) with 30. We're 6th in the world (still ahead of the UK) in number of restaurants with at least one Michelin star. That's 200 in UK and 239 in USA.

[@eileenwatt8283]

Correct. It's just presenation and location. Chicken will be chicken but to cost changes depending on what plate it's on.

[@mrkgrmn3]

Everything you've talked about has resonated with me. The quality of life in the U.S. has declined precipitously over my lifetime. I'm ready to see what the rest of the world has to offer.

[@TravelinRosy2025]

Usa sucks

[@cynthialeveque6606]

Me too!! I visited Ireland in 2023. I loved it.

[@ceoa]

​@@cynthialeveque6606 That is my dream destination.

[@cynthialeveque6606]

@@ceoa You'll love it. The Irish people are so nice. That was my dream destination too. My new dream destinations are now Greece and Italy.

[@jPuma817]

me too bro, if only I wasn't in so much debt... many of us are just trapped here in the rat race

[@DoloresJNurss]

During the Cold War we took a moral turn, from seeing capitalism as a handy tool, to treating it like a religion. We associate earning money with being virtuous, even when it robs our families of time with them. We charge more than we need to because we can, because we think that we're supposed to. Anything that doesn't earn money seems like a sinful waste of time. We regard the poor as sinners and try to make a low-cost lifestyle as punitive as possible. We treat people who do low-paying yet necessary work as disgraceful slackers, even when they work extremely hard; when they suffer from not getting paid enough we think of them as reaping their just desserts instead of asking why we pay so little for something that we honestly need. This is no way to live! We have become dysmoral.

[@carliene9389]

Perfectly said

[@Roguesta54]

I moved back to the US after living in Europe and Asia for many years so that my daughter could finish high school. I'll leave again once she graduates.

[@abdulaliakbar1175]

You will always return to the US because it is home, regardless of what you may say, especially if they do not grant you citizenship in that country. I understand your perspective, as I tried living in Dubai for two years with a teaching job, a salary, housing, and transportation provided, yet I still found myself back in the US.

[@Roguesta54]

@@abdulaliakbar1175 It sounds like you were in Dubai pretty much just for the job. The countries I lived in (two in Asia, two in Europe, plus Mexico), I did so because I absolutely loved living in them--the culture, the food, the architecture. I'm not interested in getting citizenship in any of thses countries--I guess you could call me a slow traveler since I did this over a 20 year period. I do not dislike the USA, but I have no interest in staying here.

[@prettybrwneyez7757]

@@abdulaliakbar1175Thats soooo not true 😂😂😂

[@Mike-h8m]

I am moving to Switzerland. USA is a shi*hole right now.

[@AkamaiOkole]

@@abdulaliakbar1175 Not true. Dubai is not what I would call a "long term" destination. People move there for a good job but I can't imagine living there forever.

[@ShawnLivesInItaly]

Your not alone - I feel the same way after coming back from Northern Italy - all your points are valid. I am a naturalized American but I hold citizenship in NZL and CAN I see so much changing in the USA not for the good actually especially now.

[@proudhavenot]

I lived in Europe in the mid-80's; I didn't want to come back, and as soon as I landed, it hit me hard, and it has stuck with me ever since.

[@mcmSEA]

Thanks for this. We lived for 3 years in Denmark and really enjoyed the bike/train/walking lifestyle (our "car" was a Christania cargo bike, and my wife would use it to take our son to Danish børnehave every day). If you needed a car you could always rent one. Coming back to the US we immediately noticed the things you did. Also supermarkets which are enormous here and somewhat overwhelming after being away for a while. Now that my wife and I are middle-aged we want to return to this lifestyle and live without a car again.

[@asinglewomanontheloose5590]

My best friend married a Brit & moved to England over 50 years ago . Last time she went through US Customs, the agent wanted to know why she was living in Britain and not the US. Then she practically yelled at her , “Well, what’s wrong with America?” (My friend didn’t have time to give her the list). Americans have a “what can you do for me” attitude toward friendships. They want instant friendships but will dump you just as quickly. I recently had a woman introduce me to her friend as “my new best friend” even though I had only met her once before. Often they want to know where you live to help them decide if you are worthy of their friendship. No thanks. Great video!

[@DarthFurball]

Great point. And the first sentence in the conversation is usually "what do you do"?

[@hikingviking859]

What total rubbish! That’s made up.

[@prettybrwneyez7757]

Absolutely correct ✅

[@zeroveda]

If the vast majority of Americans lived abroad for a while. In other developed countries, they wouldn't be so proud of the American way. America is never about the people, it's about corporations, profit and consumerism.

[@hikingviking859]

@ that is ridiculous and ignorant. Millions of us do travel and live abroad. Most return to the USA at some point. Where do you live, Boris?

[@allwaysbemoving]

I agree with pretty much all of your observations - particularly life being a grind and food/groceries lacking quality. On the issue of loneliness, imo it's a matter of not being able to connect well with people in the US due to different perspectives gained after living abroad for so long (17 years for me). I noticed it my first year back (2012) on, interestingly enough, Thanksgiving. About eight friends and I were standing around a deep fryer in my friend's garage watching the turkey cook. They were all talking about home renovations and landscaping projects and I realized right then that the respective lives we had led to that point shaped what we valued in life in vastly different ways. They were all tuned in to each other's stories while to me it was a yawn fest. And vice versa when I tried to share stories of my experiences overseas.

[@stevemellor7989]

Kristin, you are spot on about the differences you've noticed and experienced. I have lived in 7 different countries myself and can confirm the same observations when returning to the US. Yes, reverse culture shock is a real thing. Thank you for your channel. Your personal experiences are very insightful.

[@Utoko]

It seems to me USA is the greatest company in the world. Even outside work it is all about work. If you don't have a great job or at least a job which pays very well that doesn't seem great. Work-work-balance.

[@TheFroggie66]

You are 100% right. And this is why my husband and I will be retiring in France in a few years. We love the lifestyle there and want to live that ourselves. I am a fiber artist for relaxation and look forward to having a studio there to spend some time doing this hobby more freely. Also, personal safety is critical,especially as we get closer to the vulnerable age of the elderly. I am willing to sacrifice the closeness to family to have a safer, more relaxed life. No place is perfect, but France represents most of what we hope to live.

[@TravelingwithKristin]

It sounds like you've found a great place to spend your retirement! France is always a good idea 🙂

[@leeche87]

Just beware that the locals won't be interested in making friends with you

[@matpk]

@@TravelingwithKristin why not live in Taiwan Just much better

[@JillWhitcomb1966]

I'm an American who has lived in Spain, Wales, and Poland as a digital nomad during the 2013 to 2019 time period. There, I walked to grocery stores, restaurants, pubs. I took the train to various cities for weekends away. I never worried about walking by myself after dark. And, my grocery bill was considerably lower than back home, with fruit and veggies being super fresh and inexpensive. Now that I'm back home in North Dakota (due to being close to family), I still walk to grocery stores and such--but am bullied, belittled, and questioned by the locals because of it. And taking the train? Forget it. One train comes through here at 3 AM, making it near impossible to use. If I wanted to visit my adult son who lives 200 miles away, I'd then have to rent a car as there are no other options transportation. Oh, and dating? It was really easy to meet intelligent, wise, traveled, witty men in the United Kingdom to date. That isn't the case here in my part of the American Midwest, at all.

[@kkpenney444]

What the hell do you expect in North Dakota???

[@appstratum9747]

"I still walk to grocery stores and such--but am bullied, belittled, and questioned by the locals because of it. " You know, as a Welshman who lives in Portugal (but who has worked in the US and who works with Americans every day), this sort of thing never ceases to amaze me about the US. At least in many parts of the interior and mid-West. I was speaking to a university friend (who has no less than four nationalities - British/Belgian through from her parents, Swiss by birth and American via naturalisation) the other day. She's lived around the US in places like North Carolina, New Jersey, Texas and California. And after recently moving back to Austin, TX after a decade close to San Francisco, she was recounting how she was treated with utter contempt as woman in Home Depot when asking for a particular type of nail. And how she got hassled, questioned and confronted when walking outside of her immediate neighbourhood. Part of my surprise is that this aspect of the US never seems to come across in popular culture such as film, television and media in general. In part, I suppose, because those industries are based largely in LA and NYC and don't really reflect the everyday reality in many other parts of the country. "Oh, and dating? It was really easy to meet intelligent, wise, traveled, witty men in the United Kingdom to date." Even though I'm well past all that - purely self-preservation, you understand, because I'm sure my Portuguese wife would take a pretty dim view if that weren't the case - that's good to know!!!! 😀I'd be surprised if most other parts of Europe and many other places beyond weren't pretty similar in this regard. What's strange it the next point that you make... "That isn't the case here in my part of the American Midwest, at all." That's a shame. But I understand what you mean given some of the things that I've experienced/witnessed myself in that part of the world. Anyway, best wishes to you. And you'll understand what I mean when I say that I hope that you find a way to eat healthy - with plenty of fresh fruit and veg - now you're back home in the States!" 🙂 My university friend makes ALL her own bread because of concerns about that sort of thing. Despite living in a large metro area.

[@prettybrwneyez7757]

Girl get up out of there as soon as you can!! That’s draining!!!

[@MeganMarkuson]

Also in North Dakota and looking to leave to another country currently! I understand reasons to move back or stay but once I’m out I’m not sure if I’d want to come back lol

[@anniek820]

Excellent video! I’m a 72 yo retired woman who moved from the US to Mexico 7 years ago, primarily because of the cost-of-living issues I anticipated on my low teacher’s pension (and I’m from a state that does not allow Social Security benefits if one is a retired state employee). For the most part, I’ve been very happy with this decision, both for the reduced cost of living, and for the immersion in a different culture. The ability to participate in cultural activities here with some of the American and Canadian expats who have settled here, as well as with the Mexican citizens I’ve come to know, is also very rewarding. As you say, no place is perfect, but moving abroad is a wonderful life decision if one can do it! I will say that navigating the health insurance field and the health care costs here present a two-edged sword! Yes, many services and medications are less expensive, and paid out of pocket. But Medicare is generally not accepted here, and the older one gets, the more difficult it is to get insured with a private insurance agency - one of the most common options. This is one of the main reasons some people have to move back to the US: to be able to access the medical coverage they have in the States. Thanks for being an excellent source of information about living abroad!

[@jbw53191]

I moved to Mexico 4 years ago and you have a very accurate description of it. I'm 65 and live in the Lake Chapala area. I will say that it's nice to access healthcare when you need it in Mexico and not have to wait 3 months to see a doctor. How refreshing!

[@prettybrwneyez7757]

@@jbw53191I love being able to WhatsApp my dentist and see him within 24-72 hours and talk to HIM, not a DH or secretary!

[@marcdarpel7766]

After traveling fairly extensively in the past 2 years I agree. You get a completely different perspective on your life in America, even just traveling a little bit each year. We'll be retiring to Spain or Mexico in the next year. Can't wait.

[@calarts2008]

Hear hear

[@ronaldcole3513]

The US has "Me" culture, Europe has more of a "US" culture.

[@AdamGordon1977]

Thanks for sharing Kristin. I taught English in Japan and South Korea i my 20s. I remember seeing reverse culture shock when I moved back. I am at a point where I've considered teaching abroad again and I've also considered retiring abroad when that time comes. It's always interesting hearing your thoughts on similarities and differences between places.

[@josephquillian2866]

Kristin, I just love your “safe place” videos. You are thoughtful (and thought-provoking) and polite. I have forwarded this video to several loved ones. Jorge, our Golden Retriever Buddy, and I (Joseph “Jody” Quillian) are about to celebrate 3 years of living in Querétaro, México. We are moving soon to a lovely rental home in the neighborhood we first lived in when we arrived in Querétaro on December 9, 2021. Currently we live in a high-rise apartment with lovely views of distant hills that envelop us in contentment. I lived in Dallas for 67 years … Jorge for 31 years (he is originally from Puebla, México). We are retired school teachers. We were happy in Dallas and are happy in Mexico … we’re just plain happy by nature. On November 15th we celebrated our 33rd anniversary. :-) One can create and hone a purpose in life, no matter where one lives … but I must say, life in Mexico is a happy one … maybe being retired helps. But we were also happy being school teachers and working a lot. “Energy flows where intention goes.” An expression I have always liked … and it is the way we have lived our life together … a fruitful life. Love to you, Kristin, and to anyone who happens to be reading this. :-) Jody

[@NickiLuescher]

I totally agree. I lived 32 years in Europe and I miss walking out of the door and walking to a sidewalk cafe. It is a shame that our zoning rules do not allow this. In Zurich you can walk or ride a tram to everything.

[@stephaniemcgreevy4114]

It is a new Moon tonight. Great time to set new intentions about what you want for yourself.

[@karlaelvis9815]

YES.... I'll put my crystals out and put some intentions on my Vision Board...

[@cindyk3076]

I love your observations when comparing the U.S. to Europe or Latin America, I have heard your words echoed on nearly all of the other channels that I follow. It's too bad that the U.S. won't be changing for the better any time soon.

[@TravelinRosy2025]

Usa sux

[@prettybrwneyez7757]

@@TravelinRosy2025Big time!

[@andyaptc2907]

Having high streets where shops are concentrated helps people come together . I love walking around in Europe and they have pretty good transport systems available as you say.

[@annapaz4]

Great video, Kristin! You really hit so many of the main points, and thank you for ending on a positive note with ideas of how to handle all of the issues. I just flew home (Chicago) from visiting a friend in Nashville and spent $70 for an Uber home (11 miles). When I saw the price, I was going to take the train. However, there have been multiple shootings on the trains lately, so I invested in my safety. I was born in San Fran, was raised in a town of 4,000, have lived in major US cities (Dallas, Chicago, Milwaukee, Tampa, etc.) and have lived in Spain. I have never seen the US like this, and I also pray for it to get better.

[@TravelingwithKristin]

Hi Anna, I’m so glad that you found the video helpful. That Uber pricing is so high! But it’s important for you to stay safe. I’m sorry to hear that about the public transportation, it’s a huge problem.

[@annapaz4]

@ Thx Kristin! It sure is important. Happy Thanksgiving 🦃🍁 All the best to you and yours as you continue to adjust in this chapter 🎊❣️💫

[@berndhofmann752]

As a German international management consultant i had to say, that the USA had to learn a lot about the world! It's good, that many us Americans go outsides . ❤❤❤❤

[@jq2639]

There is an aggressive theme at the airport and society in general.

[@reneep.9075]

That was 100% dead on. I could not have said that better myself. We currently live in the USVI, which has all the same (and a few more) American issues you outlined in a pretty (and warm) setting. We have lived & sailed throughout the Caribbean and miss the vibes of the other islands, but it's easier to work in your home country so here we are. We are hoping to move to Europe or Latin America in the next few years. Residency seems much simpler (and sometimes comes with perks) internationally when you're retired, so we are waiting until we qualify for those visas, have more savings, and are (hopefully) assured that social security we put into the system will be there for us when we need it.

[@imogendunstan3603]

What is USVI?

[@reneep.9075]

@@imogendunstan3603 US Virgin Islands. We are a territory of the US so American/US Citizens but can't vote for US president. We are not far from Puerto Rico.

[@imogendunstan3603]

@@reneep.9075 thank you…thats so interesting i will have to look into it a little more, have a lovely evening

[@RJMincey]

Another brilliant video with excellent commentary and insights. In having this perspective you are definitely NOT alone. Your observations about American culture are spot on. Having said that, this is not even really about what is right or wrong. You are speaking of your own personal experience and it’s valid even if the experience of others is to the contrary. (Not that you need me to validate this for you.) Americans worship at the altar of the new, and one thing I miss about Europe is its reverence for oldness and its history even as it moves forward as well. Also, your comment about omnipresent strip malls in the United States exemplifies what author James Howard Kunstler writes about in his book, “The Geography of Nowhere.” The United States is moving deeper into the privatization of what should be public assets of the common good. And this is very distressing. We also tend to measure our standard of living solely by the acquisition of consumer goods and the money we make. And this is a soul-sucking ethos. We are rapidly devolving into a two-class society of server and served. And the system which has most codified this dynamic is the one we know by the name, feudalism. This rhetoric may seem hyperbolic or over-the-top, but I think we are like the folklore of the frogs in the frying pan - the temperature is so gradually turned up that we scarcely perceive it. Moreover, American food is processed to death for the sake of the capitalist agri-industry. And we are indoctrinated to believe that the solution is not to support regenerative farming and organics but just to turn to the high-priced pharmaceutical industry and medicate the problem. Also, I witness that we (U.S. Americans) are losing the art of conversation - genuine personal contact not orchestrated by corporate media. Your points in this regard resonate with me very much. Likewise, what you say about the lack of common spaces. In the United States, city officials would rather give up a public square to the gods of the tax base than to give people a place to mingle and revisit their spontaneity. And we just need time to breathe, to reflect, to rediscover our inner voice. For all our running around to serve the priorities defined by others, we scarcely can come to know ourselves, to say nothing of knowing each other. And thank you for the courage to speak of gun violence and America’s perverse and pathological love of guns. Virtually everything in the States is driven by a myopic and self-destructive focus on profit, and we work ourselves to death - often literally. As the adage goes, no one on their death bed ever has said, “If only I spent more time at the office.” To be sure, capitalism is practiced in Europe as well, but at least there it has modest and reasonable regulatory limits in place. Thanks again for sharing your insights about American culture - insights which originate in your expansive outlook. I give you a standing ovation for this. This video is your personal masterpiece.

[@shellyswanner3069]

Well said. And unfortunately things are about to get much, much worse, in my opinion.

[@birdlover7776]

I’m giving you a standing ovation for your post. Bravo🍷I agree with everything you said!

[@santosrb2770]

Intelligent and well developed comment. Completely agree.

[@pumuckl0]

I was in the international terminal security line at SFO to leave the US after visiting family and saw a TSA agent yell "I said everybody move up in the line, don't you people speak English?" Then they got mad at me for confronting them about it. Seems like a lot of them are on a power trip of some kind. I've made it a point to be rude back to them if they are rude to me (which is pretty much every time).

[@sparklemotion86]

Just came back to the US a few days ago and treated horribly at point of entry. This is happened every single time every single time I've returned to the US. The rudeness was off the chain! I was confused because of conflicting signs and instead of getting off her duff and speaking to me like a human being, the TSA employee didn't just shout so that I could hear her, she was yelling in a condescending manner and repeating herself in a jerky fashion. I wasn't doing anything wrong I was just trying to figure out where I was supposed to go because the signs were conflicting I wasn't in anyone's way I wasn't going anywhere I shouldn't go. It was completely uncalled for and I gave it right back to her. Before that the customs guy made a joke at my expense which wasn't funny. If I made such a joke they'd haul me in and claim I was suspicious. I'm so over this place.

[@prettybrwneyez7757]

@@sparklemotion86This is my exact experience nearly every time! Leave that crazy place permanently if you can! It’s not worth the headache.

[@gregorylarson6623]

Hello, I lived most of my life in Miami: however also in Brazil, Costa Rica, & now in Portugal for the past 2-1/2 years. I speak English, Portuguese & Spanish. I'd love to help, give my perspectives & experiences for people considering moving to Portugal.

[@davidbailey3289]

OMG I swear I felt like you were talking directly to me. It was like everything you were saying it what I been feeling so thank you. I like they E U and had been thinking that is the area of going to end now I know so. Just need to figure out where.

[@scottman895]

I can definitely feel a lot of these! Almost all my friends live either in other parts of the US or in other countries, so I can definitely relate with the loneliness part. What doesn't help either is that everything is so spread out in the US with how far apart communities are due to the suburban sprawl. It can definitely be a challenge. Great video topic Kristin!

[@TravelingwithKristin]

Yes, the suburban sprawl is definitely a unique challenge in the US! Thanks for sharing your thoughts, Scott! I always appreciate your comments.

[@AThirstyPhilosopher]

Great tips at the end. Thank you, Kristin!

[@vnrjn8]

Thank you for your very valuable and insightful perspective.

[@checkeredflagfilms]

decades ago I traveled to Europe and like it so much I stayed nearly 7 years! Upon returning I was subjected to an intense interrogation at the airport. It was for no reason and was very intrusive and upsetting experience. Totally identify with your other points.

[@horse__power7891]

Bad food, bad manners, bad public transportation no aesthetics, no real connections anywhere in any form. USA is a cold, artificial, expensive world; it is not near as nice as it was in the first half of the 20th century. People work long and hard but still can’t afford a descent home and family-life. Even women and men seem to be working against each other rather than helping each other.

[@ccat342]

exactly .... reading about their culture shocks/complaints like no AC, having to pay 50 cents to use a (very clean) public toilet and for water in a restaurant shows me that they don't even inform themselves before flying to another continent and culture.

[@zeitgeist888]

As someone who is planning their move to Europe in 2026 I can see the benefits and enjoyable things in many European countries. I can't wait but have to wait for my spouse to retire. I love the US and am fleeing nothing. I was able to retire at 46 and my spouse at 51 with both of us from low-middle class blue collar backgrounds. While not rich it is not common in the US and even less so in Europe. The freedoms and opportunities are real factors for the US and in recent issues in the UK and other EU countries some limits on freedom of speech are not trivial. Every place has pros and cons and finding the right balance for yourself is what matters. I lived overseas for 3 years and came to enjoy it and while not returning to the US for 3 years I had culture shock coming back but accepting the differences instead of comparing 2 different cultures is best. Theodore Roosevelt Comparison in the thief of joy holds true.

[@LightsOnMultiMediaMindArts]

Thank you for your honest reflections. Much appreciated.

[@TravelingwithKristin]

You're welcome 🙏

[@gw3856]

As a resident, I am so sick of the U.S. It's going to be completely insufferable now especially as the bullies have truly taken over. Forget about investing in high speed rail, they'll probably give subsidies for the monster trucks... We're looking to leave as it's going to be a miserable 4 years ahead. Other countries are so much more welcoming than here.

[@flicks28]

Ive lived outside the US for 20+ years but have spent the last few years in the US. I was always planning to leave, but Im now leaving permanently somewhere between May and end of June this coming year. Was going to leave on Jan 19 as a symbolic departure, but I just cant get everything done by then.

[@dux_bellorum]

I can't wait till I can retire from the Army, I'm taking my family retirement and any VA disability I'll have and moving back to Europe. Cause everything you both said is true and this country is backsliding. They can have it, I'm done and out....

[@prettybrwneyez7757]

@@dux_bellorumYou’re doing the right thing!

[@carliene9389]

@@dux_bellorumGood for you

[@rachelknox9944]

Brilliant video - so thoughtful and reflective.

[@TravelingwithKristin]

Thank you so much, Rachel!

[@michaellogies1290]

I have been a dentist in private practice since 1996. I think the view of healthcare in Germany, but probably in the EU as a whole, is a little too rosy. Patient co-payments have increased steadily over the last few decades because the statutory insurance is not sufficient to pay the doctor or dentist adequately. As a dentist, I would probably earn several times more in the USA, but US doctors have managed to seal off their market against foreign competition, whereas doctors in the EU, for example, can set up freely and doctors from outside the EU can also work in Germany in a relatively short time, so that many foreign doctors are now working in German hospitals. However, my dental studies were also free of charge, apart from my rent and living costs. So there was no student debt for me, and after about 10 years my new practice was also paid for.

[@ceoa]

I liked your suggestions for how to cope with living in the states at the end of this video. All of them i have made a point to do. You always give such good advise and that's why i love your channel.

[@Uncommonsensetoo]

Being from Scandinavia myself but living in the US I agree with your observations. That there are more guns than people in the US really scares me. The US has a very weird love of killing machines. Also, the lack of concern for the environment is also something you definitely notice; the extensive use of one time use plates, cups, utensils, and bags etc. which is illegal at least in some countries in Europe. After a party there are usually several trash cans full of trash. Crazy amount of packaging. If I go though a drive through and asks for no bag some look at me like I am crazy. No, the crazy thing is to get one item in a bag just to deliver it 1 yard into the car window and then throw it away. The amounts of trash produced in the US is staggering compared to other countries. And people here find it completely normal and acceptable.

[@paul_domici]

You know it's crazy that I used to think about moving to Florida when I retired but now I just think of moving to Spain or Portugal : ) Once you go there you feel the difference!

[@np8173]

Thank you for this video Kristin. I am leaving the US for Europe because I can no longer afford to live where I was born. You're exactly right, the cost of groceries in France is 1/3 the cost of the US. Literally. It's mind boggling. I want to enjoy life, not be chained to my work desk just to pay the bills. I’m 55 and my very basic, no frills health insurance was $1,000 per month…with a huge deductible. I’d go without insurance if I could in the US because it would be cheaper for me but I’d be penalized through the tax system. It’s all about profit for the healthcare and insurance agencies.

[@TravelingwithKristin]

You are welcome. I’m happy to help. If you ever want to go abroad feel free to reach out on my website :)

[@ccat342]

Besides it makes me think that the US has rising energy prices and higher cost for groceries although not having a war next door and a former supplier cut off over night. In Europe we do have inflation too but not as extreme as in the US how come? Profits over all? With the recent announcements of the president-elect you should get over here prior to his day one.

[@gilliantracy7991]

All valid point but no idea why you went back there Kristin. I'm never going back!

[@GH-zy2dh]

i am glad:)

[@imogendunstan3603]

There are lots of reasons she has come home to US her family could be sick or needing her help she might miss her family she might love trump who knows please dont judge her decisions Edit more info: why kirstin moved back to US kzbin.info/www/bejne/a4iXf2d4nqZ5Zqcsi=nklKAYVGKvxfTO_7

[@prettybrwneyez7757]

Thats what I say every time she makes these videos! Like girl, why do you keep going back to that crazy place???? 😂😂😂

[@ruralrebeltory7474]

There is nothing like moving to and living in a different country we moved to England in 2013 a few weeks after we were married, we were 18 and 21 just starting out when we moved here. I always knew he wanted to move to the England, just never dreamed it would happen so quickly. We both love England. We have both become citizens, I went to university here and now teach year two students, we have had all three of our children here. England is home. We have travelled back to the States to see family, but it no longer feels like home. I throughly admit it was strange at first to discover America now feels like a different world and a different time. We are happy here, as I said England is home.

[@pedro89174]

Liked the Video a lot, thanks for posting.

[@TravelingwithKristin]

You’re welcome 🙏

[@HowardIraSeeit]

You reminded me of an old saying in America, “I’m too busy working to make any money” of course you can substitute any other thing for the word money.

[@hughtube5154]

To quote Meatloaf's song, Piece of the Action: "Working so hard, I can't remember much about the freedom I've been working for."

[@Kevin-et5zs]

I completely agree on the transportation issue, I don't want another car. I'd rather find a place where everything is within walking distance. And US Customs is pretty rough, compared to, oh, everywhere else.

[@hjade1933]

So thoughtful, Kristin. I feel very aligned with your points of view. Thank you for putting this together in a such a clear and informative way.

[@Peter-m5n7m]

Kristin, I really enjoy your work! I suppose I'm a lot like many, if not most, Americans. Inasmuch as I "assumed" we Americans have the "best quality of life." That began to change a year ago when, on a whim, I drove from Atlanta, Georgia to Veracruz, Veracruz, México and stayed for a month. Even though I had my POV, I had no use for it because I couldn't resist walking the malecon, and throughout the area. A halfmile away, to my surprise is a COSTCO! I was amazed how many restaurants there are within a mile of my hotel that were so easy to walk to. Back in Atlanta, for various reason, safety being big one, I would drive wherever I wanted to go. (To be fair, I live in a "rural" area that is nine miles to the nearest grocery store. But, even inside the Atlanta beltway, pedestrians are still the exception.) My experience in Veracruz was reinforced when I visited Centro Mérida, Yucatán, México this past spring and again this past summer. LOVED IT! Also, I concur with your sentiment about border security. In 1973, as an American GI, my unit was invited to visit east Berlin. I was less intimidated passing through Checkpoint Charlie and being inspected by East German police/soldiers than I was coming into the United States at Houston's George Bull Airport border patrol. Which was an hour long process!! Yet, when I traveled to Rome, Italy, this past March; It was easypeasy. Scan my passport, look into the camera, and DONE! ENJOY YOUR STAY IN ROME!! Currently, I'm home nursing two aging pet-children for a month. Then, if all goes well; I'm off to Montevideo, Uruguay and Buenos Aires, Mendoza and Cordoba, Argentina for a month. I missed spring in BA, but my pups are my priority! Besides, spring in Paris is just a flight away. I'm looking forward to more of your travel adventures!!!❤ 👍👍

[@Mars_Fortune_Music]

I miss that, in Europe you can travel almost the entire continent via rail, bus and, on occasion, rental car.

[@tanyoivanov-personal]

The rail is very interesting. Sometimes i use it and I always get interesting conversations with the people next to me. Like in the movie Euro trip. I like it too.

[@ciprianoneves7246]

I am currently going for physical therapy for my shoulder also and let me tell you that the fee they charge for a one session is hundreds of dollars, covered by insurance thankfully. It is absolutely insane,,,,,something will have to give sooner or later.

[@johnallan1786]

Valid observations! Thx!

[@TravelingwithKristin]

Glad you found it helpful!

[@BrydiHeebner-b6u]

Kristin, been watching your videos for 2 years, and I have to say, Thank you. No more car's for me! My goal is to live in a country with public transportation, and more community oriented ( Hofsteds studies I learned from you)

[@WrldExplorer]

15:33 and I’m sitting here in retirement trying to find something to keep me busy. I guess the difference is doing something you have to do keeping you so busy like working, or creating your days that benefit your mental, and physical health. That’s why it’s imperative to try to retire early, to take control of your life from someone else doing it. We also have to remember, the USA is why most of us are able to be from one of the countries that allow us to move abroad more than any other country. I get the work to get that benefit, so my focus would be where to spend my retirement after working. So now I’m still young at 54 enjoying the benefits abroad.

[@carolynmote5144]

I have felt the same about US living. I LOVE my fellow US Americans! Nothing against the people YET the lifestyle seems hard on us US people. thank you Kristin for being brave enough to speak about our quality of life. Your suggestions for connecting with others positively and daily meditation practice to slow down our spirits for a little time every day and making connection time with others a priority

[@barrysteven5964]

I live in the UK. I travel a lot. I've been to Romania and Hungary just in the last couple of months. I never recall a single time when I've come home being asked by passport control in the UK where I'd been or why. Ever.

[@asmasamano3410]

I just moved back to California, and agree with a lot of what you said. The issue is Europe economy is not that great, if you are someone who still depends on US income it’s not easy to keep a remote job especially with the time difference. I mean I did it for two years, but it’s exhausting.. what I decided to do is split my time between Europe and California, and see if this will be the best option for now.

[@wintersnowowen2254]

California 8 hours behind us, maybe the east coast would work better in terms of communication.

[@shinyshinythings]

Lucky that you have the choice! So many people are being sucked into RTO.

[@fredysierra9382]

Kristin, thank you for your bright and educated analysis.

[@TravelingwithKristin]

I'm glad you found it helpful! 🙏

[@hikingviking859]

I love traveling to Europe. I am in Italy as I write this. The Italian cities are flooded with migrants, pickpockets, tourists and traffic. There’s a lot of beauty but a lot of problems, which are increasing by the day. We have our issues in the USA for sure, but other countries are experiencing their own challenges.

[@YogaBlissDance]

Italy needs to get clear on what it can and cannot provide for migrants/immigrants. Letting them in put providing now way to integrate is not gonna go well.

[@EsteOeste-vw7ps]

I have been traveling to Europe since 2009, I have never had my wallet stolen thank God, I do keep my guard up and dress like a bum 😂, maybe thats why they leave me alone. Was in Milan and Lake Como region in 2023!.

[@johnsilver1800]

And the USA doesn’t have a migrant problem? It’s twice as big of a problem in the USA. If the only thing you can think of is pickpockets… Europe is better.

[@abdulaliakbar1175]

Exactly I totally agree with you

[@abdulaliakbar1175]

Living and traveling are two different experiences - when you live somewhere, you become a resident of a place which is a whole other ball game.

[@googolmom]

Yes, Yes, Yes!!! Totally agree.

[@WrldExplorer]

This is a real video. This should be on prime time news. People will be left scratching their head, and rethink some things.

[@stanobert3475]

Americans haven't mastered the art of relaxation like Europeans. We always seem to have the need to fill every minute with tasks or activities.

[@appstratum9747]

I agree. And as European who often works 7 days a week unless I consciously decide not to, I''ll be the first to admit that relaxation isn't always easy. But, like exercise and good diet and enough sleep, it's something that is healthy and that you should make an effort to learn how to do well, to have more fulfilling life. As a Brit, one of the things that I really appreciate about the part of Continental Europe where I live is the number of opportunities for communal get togethers here. Be it old people walking together through the forest to keep them fit. Or free bus services to swim together at the municipal pool. Or cultural activities such as cinema, art, dance and so on. Or football, cycling, fishing and so and so forth. And wine festivals with food and street entertainment. And village fairs. And usually just meeting up to have a meal together in a local cafe or restaurant. Or a coffee and a cake and nice chat. Or going out to lunch with your work colleagues for a sit-down meal for an hour in the middle of the day and talking about anything but what's happening at the office. So you have all of these ways to relax in addition to spending some quiet moments with your pets or doing your gardening or growing your own food or whatever. Or spending time with your pets and domesticated animals and enjoying each other's company. Relaxation is a chance to enrich your life and make it worth living. You should work to live (if you're a more sentient creature) rather than live to work (which works out fine if you're an ant or a hive insect). Personally, I can't imagine lying on my death bed wishing that I'd put an extra couple of hours of work in per week just to make it all worth it. And I've worked plenty of 90 hour weeks in my time. But strangely, there are those - and plenty of them in the US to be sure - who waste their entire lives worrying that they're not working hard enough or succeeding enough and proud they they didn't take more than one week's holiday a year. But through many foreign eyes they're failing every day - and in the most fundamentally profound manner - by wasting their entire lives for things that are - essentially - of little lasting value. It saddens to be to think that Americans die many years younger than their Europeans counterparts while having not spent enough time enjoying their lives up until the point of retirement. That retirement is VERY significantly shorter for Americans than Europeans just hammers that point home.

[@stanobert3475]

@appstratum9747 Many Americans work long hours throughout the year and then collapse during the Christmas holiday. I learned a while back to pace myself.

[@nmernst]

Hello thanks for sharing ☺️. I noticed (and was expecting) that the food quality is so much better in Europe (Paris and Bordeaux). However, my experience going back into the States meeting customs was in fact rather pleasant. Have a great day!

[@jdzimmermann6294]

great content I am contemplating living abroad, you covered the main points about living in the U.S. exactly as I see them

[@aliciapimentel5228]

Kristin. When I see the way you speak, the things you like. I feel Guadalaja, Mexico.. Providencia, Americana colonias would be a great fit for you. It has everything that you are looking for. 😊. Thank you for your great videos!. ✨️

[@Nestor_Fernandez]

Hi Kristin, excellent video. Thanks for the great analysis.

[@TravelingwithKristin]

Thank you for your comment! Don't forget to subscribe :)

[@earlofsmeg]

For someone who's spent a lifetime of travel back and forth, nothing surprises me anymore. And living abroad as well.

[@rabukan5842]

Hi Kristin. I've been living in Asia now (teach our military) for the past 16 years, and every time I return to the US to visit family/friends, I am reassured that in 2025, I will retire to Europe. I've been around the world, and have learned and experienced so much. Very few Americans ever ask us about our lives abroad. There is just no interest in any other culture or place than America. I enjoy my time with family and friends, but there is a limit to what I will talk about with them as we have expanded our horizons, and theirs are very insular. You said it all.

[@prettybrwneyez7757]

💯💯💯

[@dugfriendly]

Thank you ❤

[@SandraCorr-s3x]

Kristin, thank you so much for this video esp. we’re moving to France in 2025. And this solidifies our decision. We appreciate your experience and your effort in sharing it so clearly and honestly. Everything you say rings so true❤

[@TravelingwithKristin]

You are very welcome! I am so happy to hear that! Feel free to reach out anytime. 🙂

[@STUDERRG]

Dear Kristin, another excellent video of yours. - I am somewhat of a "counterpiece" of yours. I am European, but I have lived in the US, I have visited the US multiple times and I did get to know the US quite a bit. The way you describe the US is pretty much the same as I see it. Clearly the US by now has become unaffordable to me. The inflation rates are simply insane. - However I always love to chat with Americans. They are just easy to get along with. - I am a geopolitcally highly interested individual. I work in the financial industry. I honestly think the US will loose a lot of ground in the coming decades, but the US will not become insignifcant. The US clearly is the number one world power and simply will have to learn that by now, other powers have emerged and do and will demand their place on the global picture. Keep up your good work. You have a lot your fellow americans can learn from. with kind regards, your cosmopolitan swiss.

[@TravelingwithKristin]

Thank you so much for the kind words and for sharing your reflections.

[@twinmaples.carnivoreroad]

Noted that you are having pain problems since you returned to the US. Seed oils were my main cause for this. I was dealing with arthritis and other joint issues from old injuries / getting old. Turns out this was all caused by the foods we commonly have in the US. Canola oil is the worst. Olive, avocado, coconut oils are safe. Tallow, lard, butter are good. Soybean oil can cause issues for some folks. Everyone is different and no one thing works for everyone. Look up Dr. Ken Berry on KZbin for more specifics.

[@globalretirementus]

This is such an interesting perspective! I’m curious-what do you think are the biggest cultural differences between the U.S. and Europe? Was there anything surprising or challenging about adjusting back to life in the U.S.? I'd love to hear more about your experience!

[@pumuckl0]

Three things that I can add... First, I get migraines trying to watch TV because they have ad breaks every 5 min and the ads are designed for people with zero attention span. The ads are loud, flashing, the camera angle changes every third of a second and the people are referencing some kind of shallow consumerism or pop culture item that I no longer understand or care about. Second, it's difficult to talk to people about your life because they have no reference point or don't understand why you would do that. I avoid telling people that I live abroad because the typical reaction I get is "but why would you move to a place and give up all of your freedoms and rights and get worse education and healthcare?" I get tired of explaining that all of that is false. When they find out that I was able to afford a house and get more vacation and many other things that make the quality of life better, the conversation seems to die off. Lastly, Americans are friendly and chatty, but I find it to be very hollow. People will chat you up in line at a cafe, but it's rare that those conversations turn into anything meaningful. When I'm abroad, people don't chat you up as often, but when they do it's because they have a genuine interest in talking to you about something.

[@TravelingwithKristin]

Thanks for sharing your experience - I can relate. 🙏❤️ Although there are very nice people here and everywhere in the world.

[@matpk]

@@TravelingwithKristinwhy not live in Taiwan It’s just great

[@cassiocm]

I have seen something unbelievable the last time I arrived from overseas: an undercover immigration officer in the line! He heard someone talking about traveling to China and pulled the person out of the line! Pathetic.

[@WrldExplorer]

7:53 you ain’t lying. Every benefit you get abroad, good food, beautiful cafes, public areas to hang out, in the USA, those things are exclusive, how can we make money off of this popular want. Sometimes another benefit of living abroad is when you do visit the United States, you have extra money to purchase things like food, but the quality of what you’re getting, isn’t close to what you were getting, for the price you are paying now. This feeling after buying something is worse than gringo price feeling here in Colombia.

[@travelswithminky246]

the only way to cure any physical pain is exercise and a healthy diet. this opinion is from numerous doctors and surgeons.

[@insertmyidentityhere]

Oh yes, like surgeons know anything about diet & nutrition, lmao. Most doctors don't!

[@jamespardue3055]

I don't mean to rain on your parade, since you are reaching a very broad audience with an important message.......but.........I experienced these same experiences when I started traveling for business extensively in the mid-90's. Western Europe and East Asia were my territories, and increasingly over about 8 years, I dreaded coming back to the US, and once in the departure lounge in Marseille I actually teared up with the prospect of leaving that wonderful place after a few weeks of working and living in the South of France. The only consolation was I was sharing a house in the Santa Cruz Mountains at home, and had some very good friends to come home to. The USA IS a rat race, the people are not that kindly or friendly, it's incredibly expensive, and it is ALL ABOUT THE MONEY. Not having it is the greatest sin in the USA.

[@lisasuzanne38]

Kristen- I really value you and your videos, thank you always for your refreshing insights and honesty. Hoping to get to travel with you someday! :)

[@TravelingwithKristin]

Thank you for the kind words! I really appreciate your support. Make sure to check out my website :) www.travelingwithkristin.com/relocation

[@Hrodbiartr]

Welcome to Europe

[@terryschima4964]

Thanks

[@TheRealDlo]

Awesome video & you completely summed up all my feelings as someone who has recently spent time in the UK, Portugal & France. ✌️

[@rosalindhb]

I agree with what your saying. It makes me wonder why people from other countries want to move here. I guess the grass is always greener. I never understood the draw of podcast, especially watch a podcast. 😂 Being in this country I continuously worrying, being down, stressed trying to make it everyday.

[@johnsilver1800]

Because they want to make more money. That’s it. But if they’re not careful, their income can be offset by cost of living.

[@AllyCatAL]

I prefer small towns wherever I am. I think only places I would go for a long time would be Ireland or UK. But, difficult to relocate there.

[@jasonfitzpatrick414]

I think fear is keeping you here. Sell your stuff, buy a ticket, and go. If you can't return home, you will have to make it wherever you live. Don't worry, I am in the same boat. I'd love to live in Europe. I think my future wife is there.

[@JDGxyz-t7c]

Great video .Agree 100% with everything you said. Maybe to go "home". :)

[@pairofboxers1]

My experience was so much better going to Portugal than coming home to the US on every level. I was not excited to be home aside from seeing my dogs.

[@wintersnowowen2254]

I noticed that about food prices over there. We spent $400 just for a week in San Francisco in an ordinary supermarket. Absolutely insane and hardly justified. I don’t know how Americans do it. Another thing was the size of the fruit and veg. We could not get over it, the onions, for example were about 4-5x the size of our large onions.

[@TravelingwithKristin]

It’s bizarre. Besides the exorbitant prices, the produce is oversized yet void of flavor.

[@sparklemotion86]

Everything is genetically modified

[@prettybrwneyez7757]

GMO! Then they wonder why everyone has cancer.

[@msudak4]

You’re in lala land if you expect anything to get better in the US, it’s just gonna get worse and at a faster pace

[@prettybrwneyez7757]

💯💯💯

[@JimBarcelona]

It's rough heading back to the US, but the nature like you said, is tough to beat. The SF Bay Area, Chicago or NYC are the only real options for me because I don't want to be tied down by a car. Great list.

[@rebeccar4312]

Portland, Oregon is also a good car free option

[@rebeccar4312]

Portland, Oregon is also a good car free option.

[@macaccount4315]

Why I moved to Europe and never looked back! The USA offers convenience but everything else is somewhat toxic. Life in Europe is so much nicer for us ❤

[@arnodobler1096]

Convenience helps you fall asleep, for the American dream!

[@macaccount4315]

@ no it gets one fat 🤣

[@arnodobler1096]

@@macaccount4315 that too 😊 😊

[@prettybrwneyez7757]

💯💯💯

[@davidetrevinot]

Beautiful video and soul

[@ImsunaSong-gw2gs]

I felt that way when I went to Canada from the United States. No matter where I go I love coming back to the states.

[@richvangogh]

First we declared the "war on Drugs," bad, very bad idea. Then we declared the "war on terror." We are all treated like terrorists now, and treat everyone else like a terrorist. I am counting the days before I can leave. I am buying a house here in Seattle, but my next expense is a place in Portugal. The one I love most of all so far has a stone house, and an amazing stone olive press on it, that looks like Stonehenge with a purpose! I hope we can see each other again soon Kristin, I really like you a bunch!!!!

[@ccat342]

With the next war on drugs around the corner, "demand determines supply" makes me think the real problem isn't on the other side of the border ....

[@bognagruba7653]

How is the US about convenience, if you have to drive your kid to a playground? To me convenience is when I open the door and give my 10 year old some money for gloves, because he lost a pair, and he is going out to play in the snow with a friend. Or when my kids called me from the playground (one of many in the neighborhood), to tell me there was a bird that could not fly, and they didn't know what to do, and I told them to take it to the vet's office. It was not convenience, it was luxury ;)

[@cree8vision]

Nice to see an American with a healthy objective view of the States.

[@FiniteResources7734]

Many Americans have never left the US and don’t understand why anyone would want to. They are content with strip malls and restaurant chains and just lack curiosity in general. As a result many just accept what they are “fed” and don’t really question things or ask why. We can see it in our politics and overall culture. We’ve become intellectually lazy.