How I Started Having Positive Interactions With My STBX (And How You Can Too)

[@StephenJones_901]

It's very important for us men to take the no contact period seriously, and focus on ourselves and our own inner peace. I know that's easier said than done though. My ex and I separated in March of last year, and I was devastated. When one of my coworkers said that he was worried about me, I decided to go to therapy and start focusing on my recovery, instead of focusing on trying to get my wife back. After much work on myself, I was finally able to realize that I don't even miss my ex. My mind is at peace without her. This a prime example of why it's important for us to improve ourselves for us, not for our exes.

[@dredawg944]

You’re amazing and thank you for sharing so many of these videos for free streaming. Going through it all right now and you have truly helped

[@smiles7631]

There's nothing I would like to do more then having my family back together. Me ex has set her eyes on someone else and I think theres no coming back. The last time I talked to her I told her I was thinking about her alot and all I got back was "you got this". That was 8 months ago and no contact since. I am trying to move on and just find someone else. You would think it would be easy after almost 4 years now. I do appreciate your videos, thank you.

[@Brent-z2s]

This won't affect how much she asks for in the divorce my cousin tried this and thought it was working then in the divorce she wanted everything and said if she took everything no other woman would want him.

[@Jimmy-k1b]

So if she doesn’t see my bank account charges, how do you show her that you work on your self

[@LarsOutzen]

So how can we solve it, when she is always in fight or flight, because I can no longer GUARANTEE her safety (from her insecurities)? She continues to force me to make false promises, which I can't because then eventually if it fails, she reserves the right to guilt, blame, shame and yell at me for hours whenever she likes, instead of leaving me alone? I would prefer STBX, instead of the potential emotional abuse, but she claims I am responsible for paying for the kids private schools, despite my previous burnout, also if I get a burnout again? She refuses to take on this insecurity on herself, why can't women own their own insecurities?