How I Survived My Divorce.... (Advice for Divorcee's)

[@sirpepeofhousekek6741]

I'm not gonna lie. When I heard you got a divorce, I was absolutely terrified that you were going to hurt yourself, it really scared me. I really honestly believe you're one of the toughest people I've ever seen. To have survived what you have? To go through all of that? That requires strength. You're far more than what you see in the mirror.

[@boogie2988]

Kyle Lambert thank you Kyle. For a while I was scared too. Scared u would hurt myself. Not permanently but... maybe screw up my weight loss. Of quit youtube. Thanks to fans like you though I managed to stay strong. I appreciate the love and support.

[@dave6628]

Damn straight! Much respect and love.

[@davedogge2280]

I divorced Sony a long time ago for No Man's Sky. No more pre-order marriages for me.

[@sirpepeofhousekek6741]

boogie2988 I love you man. I mean that from the bottom of my heart.

[@nymri8537]

Noscamaroz28 You are the poster child for ignorance. No tax money went in to Boogie's surgery. You're just a sad hateful little person. Try some meditation. You may be able to locate that little part of you that has empathy and sympathy, and not jump to such dispicable ASSumptions about someone you CLEARLY do not follow.

[@AbbreviatedReviews]

"Hopefully your marriage is the one that ends in death." It's funny how malicious that sounds.

[@PhoeniixFiire]

Haha, I thought the same thing. I know what he meant, but it definitely didn't sound like a positive message.

[@sanity1123]

Just the text of that statement can seem super malicious, but when you give it some thought, you're like "oooo, I see now :)"

[@PhoeniixFiire]

Actually, I knew what he meant right away and only after a second thought realized it sounded funny.

[@deadboy1255]

Jacob Anderson it should be "I hope your marriage ends when you both pass away".

[@ryanmcfarland1900]

deadboy 12 Hopefully it ends when the first to pass, passes. There's laws against what you are suggesting haha

[@mikaelrivacov5705]

Boogie is the perfect example on what NOT to do during a divorce but since Boogie is so damn brave he rather speak out to help others. Few YTbers think this much on their subscribers. Gotta love it.

[@aidancourtney5919]

David T ur wrong but that’s ur own opinion so keep it to ur self. Don’t comment it on a positive comment

[@aidancourtney5919]

CrazyAndLazy I’m confused You just said his comment is disrespectful?!!

[@AttommicDog]

Yea once the divorce is over all ties should be cut with the woman. If there were kids involved it would be a different story, but in this case he should say "bitch lose my phone number"

[@BrentHarmon]

Boogie is one and so is Charles Trippy.

[@General12th]

+AtomicDog How is being mean to each other going to help anyone?

[@ll7868]

My divorce was in 1992, we didn't have social media. My ex slept around and was a drug addict, left me for a drug dealer who cut her off the freebies and turned her into a mule as soon as the divorce was final. She had it comin', I couldn't sign the divorce papers fast enough.

[@greggregory1744]

Boogie your shoulders are getting more and more narrow

[@tomlangford1999]

I haven't watched a boogie video for a few months and watching this, the change is so drastic

[@x28digitaldreamer67]

Tom Langford Same dude, haven't seen him for moths and god, he is completely different! I'm happy for him :D

[@nickc3856]

his wife left him a for a black. sad!

[@sargurak]

I had to look twice at the thumbnail, I did not notice it was boogie at 1st glance.

[@tsukopara2054]

I haven’t watched him since he started this journey, it’s like when JonTron got thin all over again. It’s so strange seeing Boogie with narrow shoulders & no visible extended chin. That & his face is much more deflated. It’s almost like an uncanny valley version of the KZbinr, something is *off* about them. Which is great in this case!

[@jacovichstabs841]

Divorce is never going to be easy but I wish the best to anyone going through it.

[@bobbygarcia34]

I’m going through a divorce right now and 13 days pre bariatric surgery thanks for posting your content I can really relate a lot to your videos

[@boogie2988]

Good luck on your recovery from both. Know that I am rooting for you.

[@bobbygarcia34]

boogie2988 thank you man I appreciate it and I have to agree with you surround yourself with friends and love ones that helps so much

[@Kami-qf7qg]

An on lmao nigga you really gotta post comments like that

[@everythingpony]

Bobby Garcia why would she leave you for trying to get thin?

[@rumpplex8085]

Rainbow Dash It happens alot. Working in healthcare you hear about it more. It ends up being a large scale change for all involved and your spouse may not want the change or psych/thoughts come into play.

[@S.R.A.B0XER]

Despite being a younger viewer than most, I'm still fully aware that this relationship meant a lot to you. Seeing the notification of the video where you revealed this really made me feel upset for you and I was worrying about your future. But your attitude towards this situation is one of many reasons I look up to you Boogie. Thank you for all you've taught to me and millions of others.

[@darkridr25]

As a divorced man, I'd like to offer some counter-advice to one of Boogie's statements: Exercise EXTREME caution if you decide to attempt to be friends with your ex. I made that attempt and it went well for about 6 months. Then she started asking me for monetary assistance. As a friend I tried helping her -- and she wound up screwing me out of around $1000. It was the second-worst mistake I'd ever made in my life (the worst having married her in the first place,) and as such, I am now in a position to offer this advice to anyone wanting to remain friends with your ex: DON'T! When you break up, break up completely. Anything less than that will find you in a very bad position -- perhaps not today...maybe not even tomorrow, but it will happen eventually....

[@PassportGaming]

I feel sorry for you

[@Magulousmous]

Hey everyone’s different, let me just say my grandparents have been divorced for up to over 45 years but they tend to get along great. As in they love each other like they’re family but not romantically, and there’s no manipulation to it at all.

[@whatdoesthisthingdo]

Losing $1000 is the second worst mistake of your life? Damn. You're doing pretty good man.

[@DarkInception]

I needed this. I’m not experiencing a divorce, but I am experiencing a break up. I understand it’s comparatively less severe than a divorce in a lot of ways, but it still a difficult time. Thank you for this! There’s a few useful channels I’ve been rewatching for new perspectives, like Elliot Hulse. Great video

[@joehiles6517]

Honestly the biggest piece of advice I wish I had was don’t delete/throw away all the pictures. I spent 90% of Jr. high and high school in 2 serious relationships (different times obviously). But when we broke up I just deleted everything that had to do with the girls. Now I have basically no pictures of me from that period of my life so that sucks. And now I can see that each relationship brought me to where I am now in my life and it’s something I should be able to look back on and appreciate the happy times we had.

[@lejuju4225]

I’m so happy for you man, I was in a dark place to and you are an inspiration to me. You had a horrible life but you made yourself better from it and you didn’t let your past hold you back from just living your life. I’m so happy you’re in a good place and you’re looking healthy. Much love man

[@TheJuhana]

Man. Youre looking really good these days. Keep it up man!

[@George-rm7dd]

Your honesty on this channel is something I admire and commend you for. Im glad sharing your personal experiences has helped so many.

[@rebelrun6137]

The people that say that Dez "took boogie for everything", she deserved what she got. Boogie said himself that he would probably be dead or on his way there if it wasn't for her. What is money when you owe someone your life? she got with him when he was broke, drove him to make his channel what it is today, and was the only reason he ever went to any events. She put in her time, it didn't pan out so they split and she got her share of a business that probably wouldn't exist without her. Boogie got the house and most importantly Sammy. He made out alright :)

[@Nelcomarproductions]

RebelRun 613 that time is not worth what she got also boogie would have went big even if he never met her. You are just giving excuses for people to get money they don't deserve

[@rebelrun6137]

Well i guess Boogie would be the definitive answer on at least what he believes she deserves. The courts might have a different opinion. A little presumptuous to assume Boogie would of pushed the channel like he has without Dezs help, especially when it was Boogie who made the statement to the contrary. Does a stay at home mom deserve half if her and her husband get divorced? The answer is fucking YES

[@gentlecat7735]

I'm not saying if it was right or wrong. I don't know the details. but saying she deserved it, he owe her his life. Do i get to break a mans legs if i drag him out of a burning car first? There is no reason to take more than what is deemed fair for both parties. You dont get to run over people just because they might have been depending on you. Again I'm not saying anything about boogies x but he shouldn't let himself get screwed over just because he feels like he owes her. If she taking as much as she did (still no clue) was mutually agreed upon, then more power to you guys

[@rebelrun6137]

He said it. Not me, take it up with him

[@gentlecat7735]

lol, then why did YOU make the comment saying she deserved what she got addressing everyone who said she took too much?

[@Docholidazed]

You are the best. Thank you for trying to help people, while also helping yourself. You inspire me, and many others. Never stop never stopping. Thank you, Boogie.

[@gloedepind123]

As a 23 year old male, never married. This advice really spoke to me, its in general a great way to live the short and precious life we have. If you have ANYTHING bringing you down in life, boogie's advice here is gold.

[@hellfire1820]

lol and people my age are rushing to get married and crap out kids when they will be divorced in 5-10 years. its idiotic to get married or pregnant in your 20s

[@NotThatGarden]

It makes me have happy tears seeing the passion you have to help other people with your advice, and the passion you have about all the positive steps you've taken through this. You're awesome Boogie!

[@ernstwolfgang1211]

You are right. I am a widower and not a divorcee. I need a responsible and God fearing woman. If you are single, please message me. We both deserve love and happiness again.

[@ActuallyDadam]

I love you boogie you've definitely gotta a lot of strength and I'm super proud of how far you've come. I've been watching your videos since I was in 8th grade. I'm a high school graduate and you've been with me the whole way. Stay awesome man and you're looking great!

[@Xsuprio]

My therapy was sawing my wedding ring in two and tossing it in the water on two different continents. Symbol of eternity, my ass.

[@Baddawg_313]

I got divorced on October 6, 2017 after getting separated on December 1, 2016. I have not been doing well. Please keep us updated. Some need advice.

[@TheApocalypsePals]

Thank you for your thoughts! The advice you give about holding onto some belongings with shared memories and storing them away for another day is really nice. Our hearing was two days before my birthday and I had requested the divorce the day after her birthday. This has been scarier than the first few moments of boot camp, more surreal than the wedding, far more sad than a family member dying. I'm so happy you are pulling through and exploring more of the world than you have lately and I'm rooting for you! Keep it up and thank you for being such a supporting figure in the lives of so many others.

[@HLl564]

My best advice. Buy a cool model kit, buy paint and tools, sit down and listen to some nice podcasts. And talk, talk, talk about it with people you trust and like.

[@nickc3856]

That's pathetic advice. go back to reddit, incel.

[@jamessayer913]

Such an important person to have on this platform. Talks articuality from the head and heart. KZbin are very lucky to have you Boogie.

[@EdwardSanchezProductions]

Boogie I always got respect for you

[@lafan2003]

Edward Sanchez Productions Me to.

[@patricedeavila4771]

I empathise the trials you are going thru. I with you the very best. Kudos for the wisdom you are trying to share. Keep healing and doing all the self care. You're rockin' it!

[@ernstwolfgang1211]

You are rightam a widower and not a divorcee. I need a responsible and God fearing woman. If you are not taken, please message me. We both deserve love and happiness again.

[@truetocaesar5706]

My parents divorced when I was 4, and it’s totally normal for me. Throughout middle school and high school I’ve helped My friends with there parents divorce. I was lucky that my parents chose to live 3 miles away for the sake of 4 year old me.

[@Hidden_Gamer-sn9yu]

TrueToCaesar yea my friend had the same thing happen to him when he was first born, he told me all about it. I know how you feel.

[@GodlikeGamersz]

Yeah my parents got divorced when I was about 7. They remarried and seem much happier though. I think it's tough but definitely a much better option than staying in a "toxic" relationship (not suggesting Boogie's was necessarily toxic), especially if children are involved.

[@truetocaesar5706]

EDIT_IN_GAMING 123 it’s actually kinda... nice. I’m very lucky in the way that I spend my time 50/50, I have 2 sets of parents and they are very nice to each other, and they live 30 min car ride away. And they have always lived in the same city

[@Havibox21]

I don't think it's that bad when parents get divorced when you are young. There aren't that many memories of them to together so what will you be sad about? Much less when you still get to see both of them still. It seems worse when they get divorced when the kids are much older. There are more memories of them together. That's why when someone say's "my parents divorced when i was 5-6 " and try to make it seem like a traumatic thing it just doesn't make sense. Even if it was, like a lot of fighting and stuff, the kids or teens are usually happy that they got divorced to stop all the fighting.

[@zebare726]

TrueToCaesar 60% of my classmathes from highschool came from a broken family. And me and parents did divorce when i was 10.. So this with divorce is quite normak for me to hear about.

[@Free_Bird420]

I want to thank you for being so open through this period Boogie. A couple years ago, you and a few others gave me the inspiration I needed to lose around 200 lbs, make some friends, start living life. Then, 6 months ago, my mom died. Had a fairly similar relationship as you did with your mom. It wrecked me. I returned to never leaving my house, eating terribly, just giving up. Every video you've done talking about this has helped me so much. I'm getting things back on track again. Love you, Boogie. :)

[@is21rocks]

Something that will also help is to begin referring to your wife as your 'EX'. She's no longer your wife. Either call her by name or you just say your 'ex'.

[@heartique9918]

You are looking so glowing and healthy these days Boogie! Keep doing you and focusing on getting better and better! The only way is up my friend! Keep it up. Nothing but greatness awaits. I love watching your progress via twitter and youtube!

[@AlejandroMeri]

A recommendation I heard about divorce that sounded very reasonable for me was DO NOT BE FRIENDS WITH YOUR EX. Not out of spite but because you have a history together and having friendly contact will inevitably overlap with the act of courting. I looked it up, it's from a video called "Can Exes Be Friends?" Very eye-opening.

[@davidscritchfieldds]

Alejandro Mer unfortunately it's not that easy when you have kids involved. Your children love both of their parents. They don't deserve to see the two people they love the most spitting venom whenever they meet up.

[@AlejandroMeri]

Exactly, I remember in the video I mentioned before it talked about "civil distance"

[@schregen]

If you have a kid, the parents should be friends after a divorce. Not friends like coming over for dinner, but just being able to talk for a few minutes helps. Otherwise how are they taking care of the kids, if the parents can't talk to each other? You're advice is WRONG and DANGEROUS! 🚨🚨🚨

[@Improbabilities]

Being friends with an ex is definitely not for everyone. Both people have to agree that getting back together would be stupid. They also can't be jealous of each other. If you aren't okay with seeing your ex with someone else, and/or can't be nice to your ex's new partner, don't try to be friends with your ex. My ex dumped me about a year ago. We go to the same dance class every week, and she usually brings the guy she is seeing there. She is still part of the group of friends I've invited over next weekend. So being friends with your ex works, as long as courting is out of the question.

[@LManonymous]

when you have sex with someone and it ends it is impossible to deal with that person without something happening in the bed again. Even people that hate each other do it. If you want a relationship with someone and you have an ex, don't ever let her get close. Just like those bitches saying that they have lots of friends that were boyfriends, yup, they all want the dick sometime somewhere somehow, it is impossible. Fuck, even when you hate someone and you never see that person for years and that person comes again the only thing you think is sex and not anger. I've seen it all, I never took a chance, that is why I'm working it out without problems besides the rare unknown number texting hi, that is easy to block and delete.

[@VincentDeBellis224]

Thank you Boogie. I'm not married, but this is good advice even for just a break up, or any kind of loss. You're a good man. Stay strong and thanks for keeping us entertained! Love ya!

[@davedogge2280]

I divorced Sony a long time ago for No Man's Sky. No more pre-order marriages for me. You are handling divorce quite maturely, some couples get vindictive and immature and petty and manipulative, especially when young children are involved.

[@fredericohartmann8882]

Dave Dogge I feel for your loss. Hope you cope with the pain in a healthy way.

[@gessnermatt]

Hopefully low budget pirate games fill the void

[@105wonky8]

Your not alone

[@105wonky8]

PikamonMaster 🤦‍♂️🥕

[@Jay-fs2nw]

I divorced with pre orders after assassins creed unity, I’ve been having a great few years with indies and low budget games like stardew and gone home, but recently I decided to get back to a proper relationship, and I recently pre ordered the Spider-Man collectors edition, since I fell in love with them way too fast

[@andersonaraujo]

Your videos are genuine and I can feel the honesty in your words, I went to separation some time ago and I know first hand how difficult it can be. Thanks for the reminder that things will stop hurting after a while. Keep your videos coming. Thank you.

[@CronicGaming94]

Glad you're doing good boogie. You have a strong soul. I'm going through a break and I know that's nothing near a divorce but it's still not fun. Love when you give some real life advice.

[@craiger0069]

Kerry Cronic Vlogs haha your partner doesn't love you!

[@17xGreedyaf]

I’m curently going through a breakup right now , we lasted 2 years toghether but now I feel like we’re just better appart from one and other and It’s very helpful and healing to watch your videos and seeing you get better , keep it up boogs you’re a hero to me and you’ve been for years.

[@GaggleofDoozies]

I'm 47 and I've never been married and I've never lost anything.....best decision of my life. 👍

[@onerandomperson2762]

We’re here for you boogie, you are such an inspiration to me on a daily basis and I love your channel. Watch every video, thank you so much boogie for all that you’ve given us

[@leokolas3993]

Boogie you are looking so good, looks like you are going handling life really well. We are all proud

[@doubletaketv7248]

Went through 4 divorces as a kid growing up (my parents obviously). It taught me at the age of 16 that marriage is a flawed and old system that humans try to hang onto without questioning it. :)

[@DanPeters-Realtor]

I can agree with most of what you said here. I've been through divorce however mine was complicated and messy but ONLY because of Kids. I think folks who get divorced without Children the process is completely different. The reality is either way, divorce in all rational a Mourning process, it's a loss for everyone involved. The only thing I would add to what you had to say Boogs is DO NOT go out and jump in another relationship, I see this time and time again. My ex did it, I have friends that do it. It's always the same story, a chaotic mess of no feelings ever getting sorted out and getting back to a good mental and emotional state. For me, swallowing my pride and actually talking to people was the hardest thing. I still don't talk openly about my divorce, I only speak of it in terms of the impacts it has with my daughter since my YT channel is heavily based around the life of a single Dad. outside of that, I rarely if ever speak of my Ex Wife.

[@ellyspins209]

I'm going through a very hurtful break up. A lot of feelings involved. Thank you Boogie. Your videos always help me. ❤️

[@387Dan]

Hey Man! I went through a divorce almost a decade ago. Happily re-married now ... and now I know what a healthy marriage is supposed to be like! I think if I were to give one line of advice to someone going through it, I would quote Dr. Phil. “Somebody has to be the adult in the situation.” Be an adult about it.

[@justsomenerd8925]

Suburbanite cucks would quote Dr. Phil.

[@michaelbalanay4406]

I don’t believe you understand how helpful this is whether someone is married or not. I’m going through a break up with my first and it’s really hitting hard because it was ended when we still loved eachother. You’re a strong strong man and I can’t be happier that you’re still alive today

[@teodorodominguez5000]

My divorce has been real hard so thank you for sharing

[@ryantrudeau44]

Boogie, this is a fantastic video. I recently went through a bad breakup and while I know that is not even close to the same thing as going through a divorce, I think everything you say here can absolutely be applied to any breakup or separation situation. You are the man!

[@HucksGamingchannel]

My marriage is one that will end in death...as soon as I can find a big enough shovel

[@thatonedudeoverhere]

Lol that’s awesome

[@caitlynjones2147]

I’ve always found the best way to get over someone is to make memories with someone else. Not necessarily a romantic partner, but old/new friends are a good starting point. That phrase “the best way to get over him is to get under someone else” may not be 100% the best way to go about it, but the principle behind it is. Thank you for opening up and sharing your experience Boogie, I know a LOT of us are so incredibly thankful to you for this. ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜

[@ChrisJohnson-hx7ld]

such is life it's not easy being lonely alone without the person you love, but life goes on, I lost my wife 3yrs ago, I understand how you feel, I'd love to talk to you more if you don't mind, it'd be nice if you just say hi here is my number [phone] 😇

[@afficial83]

People should be able to realize in this day and age marriage is not the be all end all in life and should stop worrying about your social status

[@DeceptiJeown]

Recently I finished college for the year and I'm able to catch up on my favorite KZbinrs and all I've got to say is WOW! It's incredible to see how far you've come boogie. You're looking very healthy and happy and I know it's not much coming from a random guy on the internet but I'm really proud of you. Keep up the great work!

[@andreatan97]

I love every one of your vids man! Whether it be your rambling series, unboxing vids, and funny moments, I always look forward watching you, Boogie. Looking good as always and I hope to meet you in person one day and give you a big hug.

[@selenealvarez693]

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[@Momma_Char]

Awe Boogie❤️❤️❤️ I loved this video! Stay positive hun, you’ll get through this 😊

[@davidscritchfieldds]

Once you have kids though, a lot of this becomes much more complicated. You can't just throw away kids, or the stuff they love that may remind you of marriage. You may not really be able to get out and make new friends if you're taking care of kids. You're going to have to see each other frequently if you have kids. It complicates the entire situation.

[@vdglife]

You make a sound point however, there are ways to still follow his advice. If you have kids you will need to rely on Friends and Family even more. Ask your parents or siblings if they don't mind taking care of the kids for a few hours so you can have some time with friends to clear your head. Make new memories by taking the kids to an amusement park, a play, movies, picnic, hiking, bike riding, etc. When you are around your Ex just be courteous to each other. You don't have to be friends, but you don't have to treat each other like crap as well. You are correct that this will be a much bigger undertaking with children than without, but it is still possible.

[@davidscritchfieldds]

Daniel Moore, Jr. I actually have a 1 year old daughter, and I'm going through all of this right now.

[@davenwatts8173]

nextlastgengamer unfortunately, yup

[@spartansmsu93noob54]

nextlastgengamer - True! Boogie should have added "Divorcees without kids". It is infinitely more difficult dealing with emotions and your children's emotions when a divorce occurs between parents. That being said Boogie's advice is good especially about going out and meeting new people.

[@emq5340]

nextlastgengamer Yes, I am a kid in that situation. It basically just sucks. It's like you're trapped. (Speaking for my mom as well) Thankfully, your mind isn't trapped. Knowing that and working towards the betterment of your life and the lives around you is what can help you to survive. Sometimes that just means trying to be a good person. It's hard for us to remember that.

[@Kay_Drechsler]

I really admire the openness and honesty of your videos! Me and I guess a lot of other people are taking a lot from these.

[@Datalanche]

Trying to be friends with an ex is a path to disaster. I supremely advise against it.

[@Datalanche]

Nope on all accounts lol

[@teddythickness7734]

I agree. I tried chilling with my ex as friends and i just wanted to kill her even more haha its like you wamt to be but all the rage comes back even harder. And we.aint even fucking anymore so whats the point.

[@2lowkey100]

why are your comments so abrasive? you come across as extremely obnoxious in every comment you post. The sad part is that you're not even a troll, you're just a weirdo that likes being negative.

[@Datalanche]

What other comments? I comment maybe 10 times a year on KZbin. If you've seen them all I'm a little creeped out. I just have an opinion on the matter and stated it. Maybe you should check yourself and why it gets to you so much instead.

[@scipro707]

Yeah man, of all the advice i got... one thing sticks out the most for me. A friend said... "1 year from now things will be much different and feel different." That was the case for me and my ex. We are living much better lives now, compared to then... good video man! Keep fighting through it. Your year is coming up! I want to see that video on the anniversary!

[@prabhu9245]

Boogie is not a you tuber boogie is like a friend who talk to you about the thing that he care about and that's what I love about it. i do not watch all of your video but I do care - A friend.

[@jasongervais6749]

Thanks for this great video Boogie.It's been 3 years since my second divorce and I still found things in this video to be valuable revelations even now. I have used many of them for my first divorce without even really realizing it but needed some new aspects to implement for the second as there are still days I'm reeling after all this time. Between your recovery update video and this one, I saw two things today that I really needed. Keep up the great work both on yourself and on your channel. Thank you!

[@stevenm.2380]

2 times?? Dumbass!

[@jasongervais6749]

Grow up and don't worry about my personal life. Thanks.

[@youtubenpc8273]

I remember when getting married meant something. Now it's nothing more than dating with benefits. Really sad. For better or worst? yeah right. LOL That's only if the worst happens to someone else. People need to grow up and learn what marriage is all about before making the commitment.

[@YouTubeJunkie]

Thanks for making this video, I've been separated about 5 months now, you hit on a lot of good points. It's not an easy thing to go through. Stay positive. Keep it real, peace.

[@lukakapanadze6179]

How to survive divorce - don't get married

[@Nelcomarproductions]

and go mgtow.

[@zebare726]

Nelcomarproductions Given modern day Females and the meeto shit. Mgtow is an savior for us men.

[@seanderoo37]

Drop the mic

[@Xion431]

or don't marry gold diggers and look for a woman who has wisdom and virtue

[@Cashe27]

animeplusTouhou awesome lol wisdom and virtue dont exist in their nature.

[@ashleycrowe6479]

I love this video. My husband has lymphedema as well so we feel your concerns, man. He loves your motivation to do better. We wish you nothing but the best!❤

[@TheFallofTheEleventh]

While it might not mean much. The fact I see Boogie make this videos and keeping his confidence and I’m just....I have no words. Seriously if anyone asked me who the strongest person I know was, Boogie is #1 without question EVERY time. It really puts into my head that no matter how tough things get, if you try like Boogie, then anything is possible.

[@carlwitt7950]

I would agree fully, but I know too much about "total biscuit" and his plight. Not trying to take anything away from boogie, just hoping to bring attention to cynical brit and the amazing strength and resilience he has shown through his fight. Boogie has the confidence to know he can beat this(whatever the "this" might be). TB is in a fight he knows he's going to lose, and yet faces it with a level of determination that is unparalleled. He is the epitome of "rage(ing) against the dying of the light". And he's doing it, like Boogie, on the public stage. Which takes brass balls the size of watermellons.

[@TheFallofTheEleventh]

carl witt absolutely, just for the sake of commenting under Boogie’s video, I feel it more appropriate to address his accomplishments, like you said TotalBiscuit is in a completely different situation and I can’t even begin to compare those.

[@FloridaSkimming]

I was too afraid to comment when I first saw this but thank you. I’m going through a break up after living with my partner for quite awhile and it has hurt a ton. It’s been a month since and after watching this I’m realizing how many mistakes I’ve made in my recovery process. Now I know what to do, thank you boogie, you’re a great man.

[@biohead66]

Advice for divorcees? Boogie you're in no position to give advice, you said that you should surround yourself with people, but not everyone has a 4,4 million subscriber base. Honestly you should feel blessed to have an outlet like this where you can vent all of your problems. Also don't rush getting married , your wife left you once you started getting better , the timing is so off it's obvious she married you for the heritage but when you got better she bailed. Had you continued your previous lifestyle she would probably be a martyr by now,profiting of your death. Also cut any ties you had with her it's time to move on.

[@nathanjester2043]

Jo Ordinate wow you are so bitter sounds to me like your in no position to give advice everone is different

[@rachelwright5750]

Your are such an inspiration Boogie! I am proof that time, and inner strength heals. 2 years ago I went through one of the toughest times of my life. Last year wasn't so great either. But this year is amazing for me, and I hope you can say the same soon.

[@Greendalewitch]

Can you tell me how to survive life?

[@StadiaMania]

Lutece life is for living :)

[@johnkimble4474]

Realize it's all meaningless and find happiness in yourself alone.

[@TearsOnTheSaintLaurent_]

Haven't been watching you often and I cannot believe how thin you got just over the last couple of months, keep going man you are doing great!

[@richardmarion7192]

I'll never get a divorce cause I refuse to get married

[@fastfuriousdiecast3256]

your such an inspierational person, your on the other side of a divorce helping others and this comment section is full of people youve done just that for, be proud of yourself man.

[@ForgedInValhalla]

Where’s Francis ??????

[@meganlovesdisneyandcrafts4780]

This is going to help ALOT of people, you're doing great boogie:) This can apply to the beginning of a relationship as well. If you meet on a public forum, if it's going to be something........ TAKE AND LEAVE IT OFFLINE.

[@drifterxexe]

Man your really looking good boogie and it sucks that you got a divorce just remember it wasn't meant to be

[@papasmurf2266]

KZbin: Annnndddd DEMONITIZED!! Jokes aside, great topic Boogie. You helping those who are going through a divorce. Keep it up my man!!

[@casie10]

I am looking forward to watching this. I had my first breakup with my bf of 3 years. Its been 10 months and im still struggling. I hate it. But its hard when you have depression and ocd along with getting no closure. I also spend a lot of time alone as i work and live alone lol. But ive watched you succeed so much and make it through this and it really inspires me. Thank you for finally posting a video like this. I understand a break up is not a divorce. And im sorry if its offensive to compare. Just i had a ring and i did think i was spending forever with him. And now...im not even worth a hello. Its a hard concept to think people can just fall out of love and i wonder if ill ever feel that way. Or if this is one of those things you dont let go of but rather learn to live with. Sorry if this makes no sense. Im crazy sleep deprived. The point is I was worried when you spoke of your divorce. Because depression does not make this pain any easier to cope with. But i keep seeing you do it. And it just makes me think maybe I can one day i can better cope with it too

[@andeggbreaks]

good luck

[@Improbabilities]

Casey, I can definitely relate. Thanks for sharing. If you care to read my rambling story, here it is. I erased the wedding invite card designs from my old computer at the beginning of this year. The wedding was planned for last summer, but I got kicked out of the apartment instead. I left my ring on a tree branch in a forest nearby. I can't compare my engagement to a marriage either, but I had started to plan the rest of my life with her, and we were talking about when we were going to have kids. And suddenly, all those plans didn't mean a thing. That wasn't my first breakup, and definitely not my worst. Still, thinking that I was going to spend the rest of my life with someone led to a whole new emptiness, when they were suddenly gone. It has been about 14 months since the breakup now, and I am starting to look forward, thinking about what I want to do in the coming years. I can't give you any advice that Boogie hasn't already talked about it in this video. Just don't give up, find people you trust and find things you like to do. From my experience, it will become easier to cope over time. I wish you the best of luck, and urge you to keep working towards a happier future.

[@casie10]

Improbabilities. Thank you and i am sorry you went through that. I know deep down that even on my darkest days when i feel so.muvh like giving up, i wont..i made it this far so of i keep trying somethings gotta change eventually. Im happy you can look forward to the future and i will keep aiming to get to that point as well.

[@fhantasm]

Women are children it's alright if you don't make sense.

[@dpcon1994]

I'm young and haven't had to face any difficult challenges in my life so far, thank god. But I love watching your vids Boogie and if I ever face challenges in the future its comforting to know I have tonnes of great advice and wisdom at my fingertips in the form of your videos. Thanks Boogie, stay safe!!

[@freddykisback123]

How much do you have to pay her ?

[@achikahola]

We are with you boogie. This is not something that is easy to live for anyone so know that you have your whole community of fans that supports you. You are the best!

[@xpgx1]

Huh, maybe it's just me - but you kept personal detail to a VERY bare minimum - I did not hear you say hurtful or even disrespectful things about your ex-wife! On the contrary, I never knew much about the mystery woman ^-^ - and you did not gave me the impression that it's her fault - in fact, I remember you saying VERY nice things about her and respected her feelings totally. So... like I said, maybe it's just me, but I thought you had done an amazing job in keeping things quiet and to a super fair minimum. As it should be - a divorce usually requires two :)

[@bartdemczuk7111]

Agreed!

[@JU5TAGAM3R]

You have done really well to keep it together. It's is very hard going through a divorce and I'm glad it's all gone smoothly for you

[@gabiblatezky]

You are an inspiration. I know you don't believe it, but you are. Thank you for sharing this. 💙

[@gabiblatezky]

Palidor ok maybe that's your opinion.. I don't agree , he inspires me and shows me that even when everything seems difficult , we all have the strength to build the life we dream for ourselves inside of us. But if that's how you feel about him maybe just don't watch his content.

[@TheDreadedZero]

Perfect timing on this video. Just had this happen to me after being together almost 6 years. The new surrounding and new friends stuff is dead on. That kinda stuff makes you feel so much better.

[@toothpickstickerbananas4914]

Your lucky you don't have kids. So your "divorce" was a little easier then the status quo. You got away clean all things considered.

[@RabidInd]

Boogie you have no idea how much this video help me! I’m in the end stages of a horrific divorce process and seeing this video has given me inspiration that it’s gonna be okay. In the past 4 months I’ve really had a hard journey, I’ve really learn to re-discover myself and my soon to be ex-wife is not making it easy based on how we’re acting so therapy has helped that I really hope to be way better in the future once I’m 6 months to a year in and I thank you for putting out this video!

[@smileyclownyloks9949]

Boogie your my best youtuber

[@pathosfear6290]

Good advice. Especially the part about memorabilia. I went through a very painful and self-destructive separation many years ago, and I was smart enough to keep stuff that makes me remember the good times. Whenever I feel down and depressed, I open the box with stuff like photos, a stuffed animal I won for her at the fair, her poems she wrote for and about me (I could sadly never write any back since I don't have the talent), correspondence etc. Abd using that I can feel the happiness I had back then. It's bitter sweet, but I'm so very glad I kept those things instead of throwing them out.

[@anthonymarge2106]

I know a guy who went through a divorce a couple years ago and he did pretty much none of these things, and it's still taking him a while to move on

[@Orlyy]

Men never fully recover, I haven't. It's even been argued that men are more neurochemically-predisposed to find breakups more difficult than women, and to resist seeking help from friends.

[@Mmyytt95]

I split up from my partner the very same day you released your video regarding your divorce. Your videos and updates have helped me more than you’ll ever realise,. Keep it up, Boogie. You’re doing awesome.

[@tonybutler4440]

Getting a divorce is easy. Staying married is not. Divorce rate is so high can't help but be sad about it.

[@thegreatone9022]

You've grown up quite a bit boogie both physically and mentally. It's quite inspirational, to see you grow through out the years. You're story has touched my heart. I wish you all the happiness in world. :D

[@PunkRockZombie205]

You got got, it happens. Best advice, don't get married. People are too selfish and addicted to attention and instant gratification these days for it ever to work. It's sad times we live in, but it is what it is

[@stephenking986]

PunkRockZombie205 sadly it true man , I believe I find someone but at same I afraid I get married to that person that shit will go down .

[@ayamgaming1868]

Perfect description of my ex and also, the reason i avoid relationships now.

[@jedifawn4509]

so happy that you have found this place in your heart now... i hope the future continues to bring you insight and happiness:)

[@OmegaWolf747]

Makes me wonder if marriage is even worth it with the high divorce rate nowadays.

[@Eudaimonia239]

NoobDJ Official that makes no sense even if two people love each other they will end up divorcing most of the time. its more complicated than just love, there will be cheating, secrets, bad moments, fights, and majority of the time one part doesnt want it anymore and thats it. no matter how hard you want to keep the marriage if the other part wants to end it.

[@Xsuprio]

You're right. Marriage doesn't add anything to the relationship. It's just the government getting involved in your relationship.

[@avader5]

Steve let me tell you I have been following you for a very long time I think a couple of years after you started on KZbin back when they were just a start up. I have followed your ups and downs and really I am amazed and proud of you that you found the strength to dig down deep and find the motivation or purpose or whatever that magic is that causes someone to move forward through difficult times.

[@bigdeweyj]

Don’t get married without a prenup. Especially for men.

[@davedogge2280]

prenup is almost worthless if children are involved, that's the case for the majority of Europe.

[@bigdeweyj]

Dave Dogge then I guess men shouldn’t get married at all.

[@TheMrarthas]

We just don't live in the times of marriage anymore. It's that simple.

[@giraffewithtattoos2770]

Some states dont recognize them

[@surii867]

Prenups don't always guarantee protection.

[@Spacexrover]

Thanks man. My ex wife and I separated at about the same time are you and yours so I’ve been on a similar journey with you. Stay strong brother. Thanks for the videos. They are really helpful.

[@magellan8232]

- Girlfriend marries the guy out of pity and also because she wanted a beta provider to pay the bills. - Girlfriend cheats on his ass for years while looking for an exit (She literally posted pics of herself with her side guy while claiming he was just a "friend"). - Girlfriend figures out Boogie is now loaded because of KZbin. - Girlfriend now has her exit, files for a divorce and takes half his money. - Boogie is now in denial and tries to tell himself "She deserved every penny" when he explicitly knew he was getting used for years. - Girlfriend is back to riding BBC while having her retirement money set so she doesn't have to work a day in her life, thanks to Boogie. I have a lot of respect for you Boogie, but this kind of shit is ridiculous, you know that you got played and just to avoid making it painful, you deny it and literally encourage her for it. I know a lot of fanboys will contest this comment a lot, but hey, let's be logical here, if you got cheated on and played by your wife "who supposedly gave you strength", do you think you'd give her half your wealth when she decides she is leaving your ass for the guy she's been fucking with on your back for the last 2-3 years or so ? What you do with your divorce is your business Boogie, but don't go on the internet and pretend the way you handled this is perfectly fine. Also, next time you decide to marry a useless gold digger, make her sign a prenup so you don't lose half your life's work when she decides to bail on you. Take care Boogie, you really deserve happiness after all of this. You look a lot healthier now that she is gone and i hope you keep on doing good work. We are all looking forward to what you have to offer in the months and years ahead.

[@emmastrange5557]

Why would she hook up with a guy almost in poverty on the off chance that he makes it big several years in the future? And if she was going to leave him for a black guy with a big cock you'd think she'd pick one who isn't gay.

[@tracymba]

Great video Boogie. I’ve been divorced for 6 years now, and your advice would have helped me.

[@thotung34]

High quality video

[@paulrickson2996]

Boogie . .you will never know how much you have helped me. .seriously thank you