How i texterize my daughter’s 4c natural hair|tutorial

Hello everyone thanks for stopping by to watch this video. This video is a little lengthy, but it’s worth watching.
In this video I will show you how to texterize your hair the right way, so that it won’t turn out looking like relaxer.
If you think this video was helpful please don’t forget to like, comment and subscribe.❤️❤️🙏🏻

[@mercurysdaughter]

I’m trying to figure out how the people who disagree with this, ended up on this video lol. Anyway …. My daughter is turning nine in a couple of weeks and I’m thinking of softening her hair as well. The drama , the crying , it’s soooo much ! She’s been wearing braids for the last couple of years to avoid having to deal with it ….. But I am considering this to give her more versatile styles . Thank you for posting this ….. and shame on judgmental women for their comments !!!

[@lifewithsuzzyq2039]

Thank for replying, remember you don’t need her hair to be bone straight. I could care lesss what people have to say, because who feels it knows it.

[@melissaf5044]

Exactly. My daughter just turn 8 and wore braids since she could. Her hair is down her back when stretched because it grows like spirals out her scalp. I need to do this texturizer to be able to train her hair( cut her ends, even out her tips)because she wants to wear her curls out but it's just too thick. It will be knotted up b4 lunchtime is what I say to my baby who wants to do styles she likes, but can't be done.

[@msbluv69]

I love it!! I'm doing my granddaughters hair today.

[@Bitemyredlips]

😂😂😂

[@PrincessYonna1]

Y’all know what they cause fibroids and uterus issues with black women then you go put in little black girls hair. Pathetic

[@aijonlonkey4998]

She's a pretty baby, your a good Mama for doing what best for her hair experience and your mental and physical health. I can definitely relate my daughter has a lot of hair and it is always a struggle getting her to sit tight without all of the breaks. Thank you for the video, I don't feel guilty about wanting this for not just my daughters hair but also for mine. ☺️💕🙏🏾

[@Ideeva]

Will def try this , it’s a nightmare doing my daughters hair and it always looks like she has had it for ages . Thank you for this video ❤️

[@brittbritt4661]

Omg im so glad I found this. I’m about to do my daughters she screams and holler so bad my neighbors probably think I’m hurting her

[@penneyfonville5166]

So glad most of these comments are positive. You did a great job!❤

[@Jaime_Lee_733]

I did my 7 year old during covid and it was so cute and healthy Long actually grew. She wants to wear her hair straight but I know picking her up from school it would be a mess. CROCHET styles are the go to but I remember wanting my hair straightened ❤️

[@lifewithsuzzyq2039]

That’s great, you can crochet her hair too, but my daughter has too much hair. I do straighten her hair on special occasions.

[@TimewithTiffi]

My mom use to use that Just For Me on my hair. I use the detangler and the nourishing leave in conditioner on my daughters hair. Your hair is pretty too Suzzy!

[@Mdp755]

What kind of heated brush is that?

[@jewelzofthasea]

I love this it brings me soo many memories 💕🫶🏾

[@Grannygangg]

How has her hair been ? Thinking about doing this to daughter hair as well. Your baby hair looks similar to my daughters hair. When I would do braided styles like cornrows she’d end up with a small bald spot. Have you ever experienced that with your baby hair? Also, how often do you need to do the softener treatments

[@lifewithsuzzyq2039]

My daughter’s hair is growing, I take ver good care of her hair. I also do hair treatments. ☺️

[@lifewithsuzzyq2039]

I do the hair treatment every 3 weeks. Sorry I forgot to answer.

[@lanishadaniels1602]

@@lifewithsuzzyq2039 what kind of hair treatments?

[@lifewithsuzzyq2039]

@@lanishadaniels1602 I use aloe Vera and Mielleorganics deep treatments, I’m writing this at the doctors office. I can’t remember which one, but their products are good. I let her sit under the steamer for 30 min. So it can penetrate her cuticles.

[@ketket2011]

It’s beautiful. I love it. I know the struggle. It us three girls so I did the same

[@rhodasam6094]

Beautiful but why were you wasting so much water when you weren't ready

[@Mrs.Blair_MPA]

Hello, thank you for sharing your video. I did some research and learned a lot about these products. Just wanted to share some facts. Children routinely exposed to these chemicals in Just for Me and other hair relaxers marketed to kids may face accelerated rates of ovarian cancer cell growth, which could also decrease ovarian function and increase pregnancy complications. Reproductive Problems from Just for Me Hair Relaxer Chemicals In addition to the link between hair relaxers and cancer, endocrine disrupting chemicals in perm kits can cause uterine fibroids and other reproductive dysfunction including: Infertility Endometriosis Ovarian Cysts Premature Ovarian Failure Preterm Delivery Risks Early childhood exposure to endocrine disrupting chemicals from hair relaxers like Just for Me can amplify a woman’s risk of later developing these reproductive problems, especially if they are introduced during critical development stages. As children grow before going through puberty, their body heavily relies on a healthy balance of hormones for the formation and maturing of reproductive organs. These essential building-block phases shape the future health of their reproductive organs. However, by exposing kids to hair relaxer chemicals during these pivotal developmental stages, children may begin to experience cell mutations and abnormalities that can change the course of a healthy growing reproductive system. Source: www.youhavealawyer.com/hair-relaxer-lawsuit/just-for-me-lawsuit/#:~:text=Children%20routinely%20exposed%20to%20these,function%20and%20increase%20pregnancy%20complications.

[@LatiWins]

Thank you for sharing. Some of these parents need to know it’s not worth it.

[@simplyme3600]

She doesn’t care, as long as she can comb her hair better and without her daughter crying she will accept shes basically giving her cancer.

[@missbrown5284]

I can relate my daughter cry so much I have try everything this is my next step 😢

[@tangie3857]

I love your videos. What’s the pink and black brush you’re using on your daughters hair I need one

[@barbarahploy8449]

oh great❤ does it works for adults ladies too

[@natwijukaritah9232]

I am here in 2024 and so happy to see this video….

[@mariahfrancois9517]

For ppl judging her judge your muma 😅

[@simplyme3600]

Nope we will keep judging her instead but thanks!😜

[@vrahmuzi5640]

Just softened my 4c hair with two boxes. Blow dried my hair n idk if i should flat iron it bc its still so thick.

[@MelissaLona]

How old is your daughter? My daughter 8 and I’m considering this maybe in another year

[@lifewithsuzzyq2039]

My daughter is 5 years old.

[@everythingweaver]

My daughter is 9 and the same with her hair. It goes to her back, it's thick, and she wants to cut it off because she hates getting her hair done. I wanted to stay away from a relaxer but it's that time now because her father said she be looking crazy.. but her hair is too much for me 😢

[@lifewithsuzzyq2039]

I think you should do it, because it will make her feel better, and she won’t want to cut it off. Thanks for watching.

[@GracielleRiedewald]

Wow its beatiful

[@Mdp755]

Have you done this to her hair before?

[@JESUSFORALL]

L 12 from me brethren. You did that so carefully.

[@cbreez40]

Your daughters do whatever you want ( and she's absolutely beautiful) but you gave her a relaxer not a softener and kiddie perms are just like adult perms.. black women by the time your daughter are 12 they'll have no edges just like most of you don't.. literally putting man made chemicals on top of still developing babies heads just so its more convenient for you when its time to style.. and we wonder why our children have ADHD and a host of other issues. But it looks nice..at least use eye protection over her eyes

[@lifewithsuzzyq2039]

Thanks 😊

[@simplyme3600]

Right! Def was a relaxer. Lol Self hate is so real. Now they are teaching their children to hate themselves as they are born as well.

[@demicrosby6882]

Here, 2 years later 😅😓 doing my 7 year olds. Thankfully she loves to get her hair done, but she wants her hair out instead of braids

[@Suram-i6w]

Is one box enough for long hair

[@lifewithsuzzyq2039]

It should be because I only used 1 box for my daughter.

[@jameskervenshomere9257]

Can you reverting a relaxer to natural hair😮😮

[@lifewithsuzzyq2039]

I think you can, if the hair is long, just don’t relax it anymore. Wear protect style and let it grow out.

[@user-zx5xw4yw2e]

*NO you cannot.* It is permanent!! As your hair grows of course the New hair coming in obviously won't have relaxer on it so it'll be natural only a few inches at the root. So as it continúes to grow inch by inch , as time (months n years) go by you'll have more NEW GROWTH. YOU'D HAVE TO CUT OFF THE RELAXED HAIR TO HAVE A HEAD OF NATURAL HAIR AGAIN. (Doesn't matter if your hair is long or not.. same principle applies. Not sure y she said "if your hair is long" .. )

[@teeteeh.6009]

Relaxers and textures are not the same thing

[@writteninstars]

Sad.

[@neneharmon98]

all that good hair wasted

[@pinkmacbeauty]

I’ve been using the just for me texturizer on my daughter’s hair. This has been a complete life saver. She is very tender headed and cries when I simply part her hair with a comb lol. I’m able to do any style now with ease. Moms if you’re thinking about it just do it. It saves so much time and my daughter’s hair is down her back. If you know what you’re doing this will not break off the hair. After using this those tears be gone afterwards lol. Which is so worth it. Btw you’re doing a great job mom! Let’s uplift each other instead of talk down on someone when we don’t agree on a hair preference. You’re not the one personally having to deal with a crying child not wanting her hair done. Job well done mom! I love it ❤

[@lifewithsuzzyq2039]

Thank you so much, I’m glad you can relate, just don’t forget to give her hair a deep treatment every month.

[@glamdollrickell]

❤

[@modernaminaj]

Thank you for this comment I wanna do this to my 11 year old hair I’m just scared I don’t wanna ruin her hair.

[@karinal75]

I’m about to do this on my big grown self lol. Thanks for sharing ❤

[@lifewithsuzzyq2039]

You’re welcome 😊

[@DreaRahming]

yes agreed

[@TNT31414]

Same! I always binge watch videos b4 I do a style that I want lol.

[@TheeJayMac0214]

I texturized my baby girl hair and I love it. Her hair is actually growing healthier. It was so broken off and brittle before. I did what I needed to do to reduce the pain of combing her hair. I keep her hair moisturized and I actually use hair grease and oil on her scalp. She LOVES getting new hairstyles now. My best friend is a hair stylist and her exact words were “ A lot of people went natural not knowing for some people you’ve got to get a texture release”. All it’s doing is softening the hair and opening the pores for moisture. Not to mention way less shrinkage. I legit left my baby girls texturizer on for five minutes and rinsed. Came out perfect 😍😍

[@lifewithsuzzyq2039]

I know you both are happy, 🤗 just make sure you do a deep conditioner each time. Yess moisture is keep to our hair.

[@ginalove4907]

Have u redone it yet?

[@TheeJayMac0214]

@@ginalove4907 hey I haven’t. She has some crochet locs in right now. When I take them down this time I’ll do a touch up. Believe it or not her hair is growing faster now due to less breakage. I use blue magic hair grease to keep her scalp greased too.

[@dudumosia8860]

How old is your daughter

[@TheeJayMac0214]

@@dudumosia8860 she’s 4!

[@mrs.camilliajones3560]

My son has 4c hair and was constantly comparing his hair to his brothers (who has 3b/3c) I put this brand in his hair yesterday and when I tell you the look in his eyes after I rinsed it out dang near brought me to tears! He loves it and although he's still tender headed this has definitely helped. ❤

[@lifewithsuzzyq2039]

I’m glad it worked out for you..💕

[@missbcritiques9209]

How old is your son? My son is 5 years old and I’m struggling

[@missbcritiques9209]

Thinking of doing a texture release?

[@MsWhocares14]

​@@missbcritiques9209 I would recommend trying to drench his hair in leave in conditioner before detangling to make sure it's not a lack of technique issue( like the amount of conditioner you're using should have make a white cast on his hair until the product absorbs). However if you really feel it's best just make sure you don't slack on keeping his hair moisturized and protein treat every 3 months. Chemical treatments cause our hair to dry out more than normal.

[@doylife]

Awww she is so beautiful and her hair is nice and thick. Thanks for sharing 🥰👍🏾❤️

[@lifewithsuzzyq2039]

Thank you so much 🤗

[@myamae9168]

Thanks much for this! You’ve just saved me and my daughter agony! And her hair is so much healthier now that we’ve tried this 👏🏾👌🏿🙏🏿♥️

[@SpiffyPenguin]

This autoplayed after a video about the girls on the Just for Me box admitting they never used it. Most of them said their moms just gave them a silk press 😭

[@lifewithsuzzyq2039]

Wow!! Omg 😳

[@leishlamolina5979]

Oooh.. my gosh.. I sooo.. agree with you. My daughter is 3 years old and her hair is sooo.. unmanageable and hair day is sooo hard on her and on me also because seeing her crying it’s just hard. So thanks for sharing 😊🙏🏻 Blessings ❤

[@lifewithsuzzyq2039]

Your so welcome, people don’t understand, but I’m glad you do.

[@TheeJayMac0214]

I did my little girls at age three. Just use Vaseline on her edges and all through the scalp before application.

[@AleayProfitt]

My daughter is 3 years and I honestly needs this cause it pains me when I have to comb her hair if we have to go out I have to comb her hair a day before cause If i only do it the same day it will be hours and she starting school soon and I don't need thoes drama so am getting her own done next weekend

[@popcorn7110]

I had the same problem and actually washed her hair every three months as well.. Lol. Never didn't perm hers but i do understand where you're coming from. She's sixteen now and in college and I want to perm it where I know it would be easier for her to manage but I just can't... Lol.

[@blackprincessyezz]

omggg when she tried to itch her hair. i just remembered me and my mom having the same conversation

[@ninajqz6885]

Doing all wrong, definitely will damage her natural hair.

[@lifestyleofharper5854]

Honestly use creme of nature shampoo it’s like a dark orange. It’s a detangler best damn thing for our color people

[@lifewithsuzzyq2039]

Thank you 😊

[@GM-qh9ys]

I love this! So informational. I have the same situation with my daughter. Hopefully this helps 🙌🏽

[@kierrastephens3933]

My daughter is 6 and her hair is the same way I didn’t know I can texturize it thanks for this video

[@lifewithsuzzyq2039]

Your welcome 🤗 it has helped me alot.

[@MsPURPLEVIXEN]

I can relate! The drama I go thru smh

[@lifewithsuzzyq2039]

I’m glad someone understands 😊

[@Blessedempress]

I can relate!!! I have twin girls and it takes me a day each to do their hair

[@lifewithsuzzyq2039]

Bless your heart ❤️

[@shanreacts]

List all Product used

[@ouuwwlishan]

your teaching her not to love herself poor girl hopefully she can recover from this as an adult and find true self love you can delete my comment but thats only because you know im truly right (side not this can cause serious FIBROIDS AND UTERUS ISSUES!! LOOK IT UP)

[@lifewithsuzzyq2039]

She loves herself very much, I can assure you.

[@ouuwwlishan]

@@lifewithsuzzyq2039 i hope you dont have any more kids if this is how ur gonna treat them

[@lifewithsuzzyq2039]

You should mind you business, I hope you have a lot of kids, I hope they are all girls too. Blessings 👍🏾👍🏾💯💯💯

[@ouuwwlishan]

@@lifewithsuzzyq2039 so you dont care about the side affects??? wow

[@mumof2690]

@@ouuwwlishan there is nothing without side effects, from the food we eat to the lotions we apply on our skin. so what is your point?. stop using soap on your skin coz thats self hate, just wash your skin with water from a river, coz tap water has chemicals that are harmful. dont be a hypocrite

[@melindalee290]

So, I did this yesterday but I only left it on for 6 minutes. I was terrified I was going to destroy her hair, but it did nothing. Didn’t even touch her tight curls. How long do you think before I should try again? I def should have left it in longer.

[@lifewithsuzzyq2039]

I left it on for 8- 10 minutes, just use a timer.

[@barbarahploy8449]

Wow ,wow ,wow! ❤❤❤perfect!

[@pearlbeenhavin]

the blow drying made me laugh😂

[@QueeshaMaree]

Use shampoos that have marshmallow root, slippery elm in them that will help you manage your hair. Also pre poo before washing the hair and it twist it in sections. This will make wash days easier. It has helped me and my daughter a whole lot. I hated wash day, it was too the point I was gonna loc her hair.

[@lifewithsuzzyq2039]

Do you have any brand that you know of??

[@QueeshaMaree]

@@lifewithsuzzyq2039 curlpeace shampoo is great they have a aloe vera pre poo. Another thing if you having a difficult time detangling it maybe time to trim her hair.

[@maacya1024]

Thank you. Do you comb it before this procedure please?

[@lifewithsuzzyq2039]

No don’t comb the hair, you will irritate the scalp.

[@shemaiahdenise]

Thanks for this ❤ my daughter has 4c hair and just washing it is alot of work and crying just to put it in 2 ponytails

[@lifewithsuzzyq2039]

You are so welcome!

[@YinkaLee]

Can you do an update video on her hair rn

[@lifewithsuzzyq2039]

Videos coming soon.

[@simplyme3600]

She hasnt did a video with her child in a year. She did one video a few weeks after this one. Probably cuz the child has no edges now from this perm!

[@Integrity-Speaks]

Aaww she is a little beauty, she will like the texturizer better and like getting her hair done now.

[@lifewithsuzzyq2039]

Thank you..

[@beautytube1]

My 10 yr old boy has a lot of thick long curly hair….I would say he is a 4c. He HATES getting his hair done and it’s always a fight…especially wash day which doesn’t even happen as often as it should. I’m thinking of doing this method on him. He refuses to cut his hair and we don’t want to force him. So I’m exploring other options. Any thoughts? Warnings lol? I should also mention that I keep his hair braided.

[@lifewithsuzzyq2039]

So I can’t tell you what to do, but you need to speak to him about what you’re planning to try on his hair. He’s 10 and he might not want a chemical on his hair. I think softening the curls will really help..

[@nataliachilders642]

Wanting to do this instructions say not to apply to fresh washed hair. Could u apply it to hair that's had gel and detangler in it?

[@lifewithsuzzyq2039]

No it’s not a good idea. Let your hair be free of gel before you apply.

[@brittanyharrison51]

My daughter' is 7 and she has thick long hair similar looking to your daughter's.... its so coily amd thick it takes me hours to detangle and style im tired and ashe is 2 so i think we will try this.. as long as her natural hair reverts back ❤

[@lifewithsuzzyq2039]

Thanks for sharing!!

[@zayanahapril6407]

Please let me know from what age I can start doing this? Hair days on my 3 year old is so traumatizing 😢

[@lifewithsuzzyq2039]

Hi, I really don’t advise you to relax your daughter’s hair at such a young age. I get the frustration, if you can take her to a kid salon. They might be able to help you on how to care for her hair. I hope this helps🙏

[@indextrian]

I used on my hair and I am a boy

[@olamideadisa-olokun75]

I have been using the Texturizer the wrong way, is it possible to restore my daughter hair texture after relaxing it?

[@lifewithsuzzyq2039]

Yes you can!

[@kimlee3158]

She's so beautiful omg ❤️

[@lifewithsuzzyq2039]

Thank you.😊

[@edanablocker4248]

Love it!! My daughter has the same hair type and you've encouraged me❤❤❤

[@lifewithsuzzyq2039]

That is awesome!

[@eymmylora1504]

beautifull results , can you tell me the name of the reference video u saw please im tryng to get more info.

[@lifewithsuzzyq2039]

Elite hair care on KZbin..

[@simplyme3600]

Y?

[@ScorpioMami415]

I'm Caribbean descent and Black-American my hair is super super thick. My moma use to use a softner for my hair too. You're such a great mom who loves and cares about your babies hair. I totally understand. When I was her age my moma broke combs in my hair or you couldn't even get one in there because I cried so much... It's so much manageable and alot easier. Great job mom!!!❤❤❤❤

[@lifewithsuzzyq2039]

Thanks for sharing!!

[@ScorpioMami415]

@@lifewithsuzzyq2039 Thank you❤️

[@RoshundriaWilliams]

Do you have to wash hair before applying texturizer?

[@lifewithsuzzyq2039]

No, please don’t wash the hair. Just apply to hair first, please follow instructions.

[@GracielleRiedewald]

😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍

[@reginawilliams3130]

Am going to try it as well my daughter hair is so tick as well and she afraid of it

[@lifewithsuzzyq2039]

You should try it, she will be so happy.

[@kaykay8150]

awe this reminds me of me and my mom 😅 I was just like your daughter getting my hair washed in the sink. I love how you preserved the natural kinky texture of her hair. Good job 🥰

[@lifewithsuzzyq2039]

Thank you.

[@Grannygangg]

Also, after the treatment is it no more tears??? Lol I’m curious to know

[@lifewithsuzzyq2039]

My daughter I feel is going to cringe 😬 because she doesn’t like doing her hair, but it has changed her hair a whole lot.

[@anglicawilliams2337]

Hi hru how long should u wait until nxt textures.

[@lifewithsuzzyq2039]

I try to wait 3months, but in between make sure your doing treatment, and moisturizing the hair.

[@harriscarol513]

So is that 9 min after everything is on or total from the time you started putting it on?

[@lifewithsuzzyq2039]

The 9 minute is the total time, from the time I started.

[@harriscarol513]

@@lifewithsuzzyq2039 ty!

[@Nene11-7]

My daughter's hair was just like this.i think i let the texturize stay in to long tho

[@lifewithsuzzyq2039]

I did It a couple more times, and I did let it stay too long, so her pattern has changed I wish I didn’t do that.

[@Nene11-7]

@lifewithsuzzyq2039 I feel the same I miss how cruly her hair was....ugh

[@malikauhuegbulem5747]

Can i use on a 4 year old?

[@lifewithsuzzyq2039]

I would not recommend that’s a little too young.

[@kayblossom8505]

Hey, did you wash her hair 1st?

[@lifewithsuzzyq2039]

No, you should always do it on hair, that’s 3 to 4wks dirty. Never do it on clean hair.

[@glamdollrickell]

I had to pause at 1:05 because WHEW; I’m dealing with this as we speak the fussing, crying ! I’m over it so here I am on your channel lol , hopefully it does us good because lord knows it’s a challenge to comb and style, especially when you LOVE DOING HAIR! Thanks so much for sharing

[@lifewithsuzzyq2039]

Good luck with her hair, yes the struggle is real😊

[@Candice322]

She is so beautiful ❤️

[@lifewithsuzzyq2039]

Thank you so much 😊

[@nellyaiyke]

Pls next time take it easy with the little girl. You were pulling in her hair so hard. Anyways, nice one

[@shawnagray2198]

Beautiful 🥰

[@CreolePearls_]

No ma’am…teaching your daughter her hair isn’t good enough

[@alisah2570]

You know how many looks and styles this child is going to have in a life time many we were all kids before and are now grown adults if in the future she doesn't want this look hair grows amd she can wear it however she wants let this mom live. It take a whole day just to come my daughter hair and her is down her back 4c and will be loosening my daughter curls as well. As long as I take care of her hair she'll be just fine. My daughter's 9 I dt tell her everything I'm putting in her hair so there fore wouldn't be teaching her to hate her hair. All she knows is her hair looks and feels nice after it's done and she's happy and that's all that matters!

[@CreolePearls_]

@@alisah2570 you are right, aye she likes frying her daughter’s hair then I love it

[@lifewithsuzzyq2039]

@@alisah2570 thanks so much, for saying this, because people are not in our shoes 👠

[@queenprecious5674]

@@CreolePearls_ so you’ll rather have the child cry everytime she combs her hair? I’ll don’t sound smart Also, this has nothing to do with not loving her hair.🤦🏽‍♂️ too soft

[@shanieg-3559]

People fry their insides and their skin every single day on purpose. Alittle example: acne medicine literally burns your skin off only if you use to much or leave on too long...but it's still used to make their life easier. Be mindful that you too do things that others hate but they respect you enough to keep it to themselves

[@writteninstars]

shame!

[@lifewithsuzzyq2039]

Your not in my 👞 so you can’t talk.

[@akosuadufie9331]

@@lifewithsuzzyq2039 😊😊 don't mind her / him

[@b3inb]

I get it, I did it too. It ruined my daughters hair. We're all natural in our household now. The best investment is a good water filter for your shower and hair washing. It'll help improve the texture within the first few washes depending on the filter. I bought a much pricer one and it has helped tremendously with reducing the chemical content and water hardness.