In a marriage a couple is suppose to have respect and trust. You did nothing wrong. He did . He is a liar and a cheat. He has no respect for his marriage, his wife and his children. As for the side chick, would she like another woman to do what she did to the wife and her children if the situation was reversed? She has no respect, no heart , no conscience, no self esteem, no character and no morals. What kind of mother will she be to her daughter? Unbelievable!!!!!