How Much Money Should I Have Saved Before Getting Married?

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The Ramsey Show Highlights

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@drazicmilosovic1065
@drazicmilosovic1065 Жыл бұрын
Big debt is a serious red flag in a prospective spouse. I’m generalising of course, but I’ve seen it makes things sour OFTEN!
@wattwalsh4982
@wattwalsh4982 Жыл бұрын
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@FTG2Eli
@FTG2Eli Жыл бұрын
That's exactly what we did when we first moved out for college. Dumpster stuff from rich areas. It was awesome....this was the '70's, and we all lived like that. Thank you for this video, I forgot how wonderful those days were. Young with very little money and most our time in the books.??????
@ss-s-do3uw
@ss-s-do3uw Жыл бұрын
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@tpolarbeart
@tpolarbeart Жыл бұрын
Totally agree, I picked up a dumpster couch that was very nice in my tiny car from the rich side of town. It took multiple trips with me holding onto the hatchback door and the end of the couch to keep it in while my dad drove. Used it for a couple of years then sold it for $400. Not bad for a free couch.
@JeanValjean875
@JeanValjean875 Жыл бұрын
All of these divorce-nightmare scenarios really depend a lot on what State you are in. I'm a lawyer in Texas, and our laws are some of the most favorable to the breadwinner in a divorce. It's not easy to get alimony here! If you are planning on getting married you should probably look into your State's laws so you have an idea what you are in for in the event of a divorce.
@wewhoareabouttodiesaluteyo9303
@wewhoareabouttodiesaluteyo9303 Жыл бұрын
That is because Texas is like the Middle East of the U.S.
@dankbreh9013
@dankbreh9013 Жыл бұрын
@@wewhoareabouttodiesaluteyo9303 Based
@JJ-mh3hb
@JJ-mh3hb Жыл бұрын
Not easy to get alimony in Texas and yet you do it for a living...
@wanderingdoc5075
@wanderingdoc5075 Жыл бұрын
@@JJ-mh3hb Lol ironiiiieeesss baby please
@unfairsanic5089
@unfairsanic5089 Жыл бұрын
@@wewhoareabouttodiesaluteyo9303 better than most of the states
@CinnaSpicey
@CinnaSpicey Жыл бұрын
One way you can save money for moving out. When it comes to birthdays and Christmas; when relatives ask what would you like for it. I tell them things to move out with. I got most of the kitchen settled. I have quite a bit of money not buying pots, pans, and plates.
@sherridevries9144
@sherridevries9144 Жыл бұрын
Yes! I've been doing this for my girls birthdays and Christmas gifts since they've been 18. They have a full kitchen of stuff gathered already and more. They are 23 and 21 now and are excited to use all their things when they move out this fall
@joechang8696
@joechang8696 Жыл бұрын
he doesn't have overhead now, but he will. Holy cow, 80K debt? if she doesn't have a good job, run! run like heck!
@KatieBellino
@KatieBellino Жыл бұрын
With $80k in debt, I'd be willing to bet she has some sort of a job that will at least cover the cost of the student loan payments. They can throw her entire income on that debt and live off of his check for now.
@MrTmenzo
@MrTmenzo Жыл бұрын
Hopefully not an 80k arts degree
@ss-s-do3uw
@ss-s-do3uw Жыл бұрын
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@flea4061
@flea4061 Жыл бұрын
Nothing. That way you won't lose it in the divorce.
@Ja50nkAt
@Ja50nkAt Жыл бұрын
You haven't even moved out from your parents and your getting straight into marriage!!? Dear Lord help this boy.
@ss-s-do3uw
@ss-s-do3uw Жыл бұрын
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@JakeAkstins
@JakeAkstins Жыл бұрын
Wait until the significant other becomes debt free. Otherwise sign a prenuptial agreement.
@Chele-nm4qx
@Chele-nm4qx Жыл бұрын
80 grand? 😮 Run boy- RUN!! 🏃🏽‍♂️
@ss-s-do3uw
@ss-s-do3uw Жыл бұрын
👆👆👆
@om617yota7
@om617yota7 Жыл бұрын
Unless she's making significant active moves to burn down this debt, unless you've had a very direct and honest conversation about both your views on debt, both your plans for the future, and how you both expect this to be handled, and are both on the same page, and backed up by her actions(working hard to eliminate that debt), I wouldn't touch it. Call off the marriage until this is handled. If it doesn't get handled, if you don't come to an agreement and wind up on the same page before hand, don't get married.
@Miggy2222
@Miggy2222 Жыл бұрын
I’m curious how much he spent on the honey moon knowing he is about to take on $80k of additional debt.
@rdb0819
@rdb0819 Жыл бұрын
They’re not married yet and I don’t think he should, until he understands her money management behavior
@ss-s-do3uw
@ss-s-do3uw Жыл бұрын
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@dnah02
@dnah02 Жыл бұрын
He should cancel the honey moon. Order a pizza and sit down.
@wanderingdoc5075
@wanderingdoc5075 Жыл бұрын
The fact that this guy is worried and thinks he will need more money when he's married then he does now being single should tell you all you need to know about marriage.
@lexie9109
@lexie9109 Жыл бұрын
He also lives with his parents and is planning to move out on his own there are expenses to that such as deposits on utilities and apartments
@amandarichardson8917
@amandarichardson8917 Жыл бұрын
We bought a couch the week we got married. It was used and was $400. 10 years latter we still have that couch and still love it. And surprisingly it’s still in good shape. The main reason we haven’t gotten an new couch is because we don’t want to spent the money and can’t agree on anything 🤣.
@mister_ray
@mister_ray Жыл бұрын
There is zero reason to have the state sanction a relationship.
@aolvaar8792
@aolvaar8792 Жыл бұрын
Survivorship, community property Laws, no wills>> probate My former employer pays for Lifetime Family Healthcare, (wife and children) not for a GF
@ss-s-do3uw
@ss-s-do3uw Жыл бұрын
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@JustinCase780
@JustinCase780 Жыл бұрын
80K on her end? ....Run to the Hills!
@ss-s-do3uw
@ss-s-do3uw Жыл бұрын
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@Crimea_River
@Crimea_River Жыл бұрын
Secretly, the caller hoped Dave would talk him out of getting married
@choicemeatrandy6572
@choicemeatrandy6572 Жыл бұрын
It's the main reason he called but then Dave told him to buy used furniture lol
@neilsmith9066
@neilsmith9066 Жыл бұрын
Makes 50k lives with mom and dad has almost Zero Money…..
@ss-s-do3uw
@ss-s-do3uw Жыл бұрын
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@dnah02
@dnah02 Жыл бұрын
Poor spending choices or they make him pay many bills and poor spending choices.
@Jay-pf2cn
@Jay-pf2cn Жыл бұрын
The Ramsey show is sooooo out of touch with modern relationship dynamics.
@Jim_Curtis
@Jim_Curtis Жыл бұрын
$10k debt for him + $80k debt for her = $90k debt for him after marriage. Young fool....only at the end will you learn.
@ss-s-do3uw
@ss-s-do3uw Жыл бұрын
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@dnah02
@dnah02 Жыл бұрын
I have a feeling she just came up with a payment plan for her debt.
@alinatamashevich3354
@alinatamashevich3354 Жыл бұрын
@@dnah02 They always do!
@Jim_Curtis
@Jim_Curtis Жыл бұрын
@@alinatamashevich3354 Yeah, the only way a lot of women can survive in this world is to find a gump provider.
@alinatamashevich3354
@alinatamashevich3354 Жыл бұрын
@@Jim_Curtis The term is "monkey branching". Sad.
@rdb0819
@rdb0819 Жыл бұрын
Dude, do not marry this woman until her $80k debt is paid in full or at least close to it. It’s no different than the fact you wouldn’t buy a $500k home while only making $50k a year 🤷🏾‍♂️
@reesercliff
@reesercliff Жыл бұрын
ehh I'm marrying a woman who will graduate med school with $100k debt, sounds like a lot but actually very little for med school. She is going to make way more money than me lol
@wanderingdoc5075
@wanderingdoc5075 Жыл бұрын
@@reesercliff Wait the 9+ years and hope you are not divorced after she finishes residency..
@rabcaxyz2
@rabcaxyz2 Жыл бұрын
@@reesercliff will she pay her loan? or will you? Remember, the money you make, it's "OUR" money! The money SHE makes it's "HER MONEY!"
@alinatamashevich3354
@alinatamashevich3354 Жыл бұрын
@@rabcaxyz2 BINGO
@rogerhoward1900
@rogerhoward1900 Жыл бұрын
Why do you want ur life to get complicated stay single and happy
@ss-s-do3uw
@ss-s-do3uw Жыл бұрын
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@om617yota7
@om617yota7 Жыл бұрын
Shoot I still sit on a $100 couch and eat at the $100 table. I can afford much more expensive stuff, but I'm not convinced a $1k couch or $1k table would get me any better couch or table. My first washer and dryer were $50 for the pair, because they were in an upstairs apartment, and someone didn't want to deal with moving them down stairs and hauling them off. I've since upgraded the washer and dryer, but that $50 washer and dryer set lasted 3+ years. A decent house can be set up cheap.
@ianmowbray3284
@ianmowbray3284 Жыл бұрын
There is no way she will be sitting on a $50 couch 😮
@wattwalsh4982
@wattwalsh4982 Жыл бұрын
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@rocren6246
@rocren6246 Жыл бұрын
10 million usd would be a basic start to start a family.
@suen5006
@suen5006 Жыл бұрын
Ha, then no one would ever start a family. That's insane.
@dagobaker
@dagobaker Жыл бұрын
dont do it just date... u live separate ....... she lives separate.......... enjoy life.........
@ss-s-do3uw
@ss-s-do3uw Жыл бұрын
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@crooked52h
@crooked52h Жыл бұрын
Double what your willing to lose in the divorce
@tcgtpl
@tcgtpl Жыл бұрын
It's more double what you're going to lose. What you're willing to lose doesn't mean jack-sh!t once the courts get involved.
@fsmoura
@fsmoura Жыл бұрын
plot twist: you're gonna lose pretty much everything
@wewhoareabouttodiesaluteyo9303
@wewhoareabouttodiesaluteyo9303 Жыл бұрын
If the judge sees you trying to game it, it will be 75%!
@ss-s-do3uw
@ss-s-do3uw Жыл бұрын
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@jameshorton3692
@jameshorton3692 Жыл бұрын
This dude needs to run.
@jasminebaby3375
@jasminebaby3375 Жыл бұрын
Wrong question and concerned buddy. You should be worried abt the 80k that you are about to obtain. If you are worried and need help on how to save up for 2k furniture maybe you should rethink about the 80k. Good luck!
@wattwalsh4982
@wattwalsh4982 Жыл бұрын
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@dankbreh9013
@dankbreh9013 Жыл бұрын
No way possible Id marry someone with 80k debt.
@KatieBellino
@KatieBellino Жыл бұрын
She may have a career that is totally covering the payments on that debt. I'd be willing to bet that her debt is for student loans of about $20k a year. It's certainly a large debt, but her personal paycheck may basically cover it and they can live on what he makes. Not particularly different than in the 1950s when the woman stayed home and it was a one income household.
@ss-s-do3uw
@ss-s-do3uw Жыл бұрын
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@dnah02
@dnah02 Жыл бұрын
Exactly
@RozeeBeez
@RozeeBeez Жыл бұрын
Find someone who is downsizing - I got a house full of furniture when my grandma moved from a house to an apartment. Had other relatives sell a house and had to get rid of the furniture and my son furnished his house for about $500. That was a bedroom set, table and chairs, lamps and all the art work they didn't want. Just ask around.
@janetstraw191
@janetstraw191 Жыл бұрын
Don’t forget about the thrift stores and Goodwill and various antique shops!!👍
@wattwalsh4982
@wattwalsh4982 Жыл бұрын
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@diceportz7107
@diceportz7107 Жыл бұрын
We also have the local Habitat For Humanity Resale stores. My daughter got a really nice rug for pennies on the dollar.
@alinatamashevich3354
@alinatamashevich3354 Жыл бұрын
@@diceportz7107 He will need a "rug" when his hair falls out after paying off her loans
@tristan2332
@tristan2332 Жыл бұрын
My wife hits up Goodwill from time to time we live in a pretty good area...she finds good deals there. 100% debt free and we alway look for deals still.
@jober8110
@jober8110 10 ай бұрын
For those going into marriage scared about divorce seriously think about things that lead to it and if you or the partner would ever do it guys can divorce to, marriage is meant to be sacred connecting a man and a woman as one not just to have a enhanced date
@lucanidae100
@lucanidae100 Жыл бұрын
Time to break off. skip it ! Leave town! run away ! Save yourself ..please
@rainacherienne1010
@rainacherienne1010 Жыл бұрын
Leave town 😂
@LuisJavier.
@LuisJavier. Жыл бұрын
R.I.P.
@wattwalsh4982
@wattwalsh4982 Жыл бұрын
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@christinebutler7630
@christinebutler7630 Жыл бұрын
Both parties should be bringing money into the marriage. And a prenup.
@wewhoareabouttodiesaluteyo9303
@wewhoareabouttodiesaluteyo9303 Жыл бұрын
Ha....tell another gal that. You guys have too much protection.
@besweeeet2
@besweeeet2 Жыл бұрын
Save money and have more freedom by not getting married.
@ss-s-do3uw
@ss-s-do3uw Жыл бұрын
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@coltonstokes4322
@coltonstokes4322 Ай бұрын
Also, you can learn to restore/repair furniture. Folks will throw out a beautiful dining room table just because it’s got ring stains on it or a couch because one of the cushions is torn. Little elbow grease and you’ve got a nice piece of furniture and you’ve learned a new skill.
@tennysoneffie6943
@tennysoneffie6943 Жыл бұрын
I do love your ethos Dave. I got married in 1979….I love books and the first piece of furniture I bought was a second hand oak book case. It has accompanied me in several house moves..early next year I’m having book shelves fitted in my living room. The oak book case is being refurbished and will sit on the landing. It drips with beautiful memories…..of my children reaching for their favourite story books….my own favourite books and up on the top shelf travel books, all the countries I’ve visited. A life time of special occasions held in a simple piece of furniture.
@ss-s-do3uw
@ss-s-do3uw Жыл бұрын
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@jwlsngold5026
@jwlsngold5026 Жыл бұрын
Right now I have a couch, coffee table chair, and ottoman listed on Marketplace for $100, no joke! 🤣
@djpuplex
@djpuplex Жыл бұрын
Get prices on local divorce lawyers. I know $10-15k is the start for retainers.
@wewhoareabouttodiesaluteyo9303
@wewhoareabouttodiesaluteyo9303 Жыл бұрын
His lawyer is going to end up being on HER side.
@unfairsanic5089
@unfairsanic5089 Жыл бұрын
Lolz only in america
@terriesmith2616
@terriesmith2616 Жыл бұрын
He's probably going to end up paying for HER lawyer too in the event of a divorce. Listen to the caller...he has $10K of debt, yet SHE has $80K of debt coming into the marriage. This guy is going to learn the hard way when she eventually divorce him.
@williammason352
@williammason352 Жыл бұрын
@unfair sanic not true
@alinatamashevich3354
@alinatamashevich3354 Жыл бұрын
@@terriesmith2616 Some guys are on their 3rd and 4th learning the "hard" way experience. Better odds in Vegas
@rnt45t1
@rnt45t1 Жыл бұрын
Ramsey's constant push towards marriage "no matter what" is insulting and infuriating. Men have checked out of marriage. The only one's dumb enough to go through with it anymore get what they deserve.
@Joenzinator
@Joenzinator Жыл бұрын
There's still good women out there to marry. Just avoid the "modern woman".
@terriesmith2616
@terriesmith2616 Жыл бұрын
@@Joenzinator I'm a woman and there are still good women around but it's like finding a needle in a haystack. It is VERY rare. As a woman, I actually don't recommend men to get married, not until divorce laws change. I have two older brothers and wished they hadn't gotten married, now they are both stuck and are miserable.
@Jay-pf2cn
@Jay-pf2cn Жыл бұрын
@@terriesmith2616 Thanks for keeping it real.
@alinatamashevich3354
@alinatamashevich3354 Жыл бұрын
@@Joenzinator Bull$h!t, Define good, maybe a Amish one? 90% plus are 304s
@alinatamashevich3354
@alinatamashevich3354 Жыл бұрын
@@terriesmith2616 More like finding a needle in a needlestack
@jimmymcgill6778
@jimmymcgill6778 Жыл бұрын
How much is she making? She also should be paying to furnish the place.
@dnah02
@dnah02 Жыл бұрын
Why don't they ask how much she makes?
@dt7099
@dt7099 Жыл бұрын
This show makes me realize that the people that look poor are usually not poor but the people that look rich and actually have negative equity in their life
@raymondcunanan1135
@raymondcunanan1135 Жыл бұрын
Bingo
@TrazimDollare1982
@TrazimDollare1982 Жыл бұрын
Oh I can tell the Comments are going to be pure Comedy
@geoffreymoseley6801
@geoffreymoseley6801 Жыл бұрын
That's why I clicked on this😂
@eclipse.5295
@eclipse.5295 Жыл бұрын
@@geoffreymoseley6801And they’ve never lived anywhere but mom and dad’s 😳
@josephinenelan4204
@josephinenelan4204 Жыл бұрын
Funny? They’re all the same “Fallen brother”.
@wewhoareabouttodiesaluteyo9303
@wewhoareabouttodiesaluteyo9303 Жыл бұрын
I never knew Mountain Dew was made in Tennessee.
@TrazimDollare1982
@TrazimDollare1982 Жыл бұрын
@@wewhoareabouttodiesaluteyo9303 Mountain Dew is made by Pepsi and I believe it is being made in every State in the US
@annatar6453
@annatar6453 Жыл бұрын
Do not get married in the west! Get your passport and find a wife abroad
@johnnyappleman7159
@johnnyappleman7159 Жыл бұрын
Dave I'm about to sink my net worth by 80K do you have any tips? Yeah Luke, just hunker down and pay 8x your debt because marriage is the correct path for life. I wonder why Dave who gives financial advice doesn't immediately point out this incredible liability.
@summerforever6736
@summerforever6736 Жыл бұрын
DAVE WITH HIS USED FURNITURE BULLCRAP
@gooserich3970
@gooserich3970 Жыл бұрын
Bedbugs
@unfairsanic5089
@unfairsanic5089 Жыл бұрын
Lolz i listen to dave about used furniture and it saved me thousands of dollars
@unfairsanic5089
@unfairsanic5089 Жыл бұрын
@Tricycle Man no i only buy used cars only, only suckers buy new cars 🤣
@PhilipMarcYT
@PhilipMarcYT Жыл бұрын
That's great and all, but how's Dave Ramsey getting prepared to avoid CBDC?
@ralfbo685
@ralfbo685 Жыл бұрын
Haha, there's no avoiding CBDC 😅💀
@drazicmilosovic1065
@drazicmilosovic1065 Жыл бұрын
I watched a video a little while back where he was responding to someone’s concerns re: CBDC. I like some of his views, but on this topic he was embarrassingly clueless as to what it even was - utterly tone deaf. And Dr Jon is sitting there with him chuckling along, but you can see in his face that he knows Dave has no idea.
@alinatamashevich3354
@alinatamashevich3354 Жыл бұрын
@@drazicmilosovic1065 Don't worry, they will turn your card off at will when you do not conform.
@juniorgod321
@juniorgod321 Жыл бұрын
He should save double of what he wants to keep after she files for divorce...
@wewhoareabouttodiesaluteyo9303
@wewhoareabouttodiesaluteyo9303 Жыл бұрын
The judge is going to be like: "Oh I see what he did there. 75% goes to the plaintiff. Case dismissed."
@kbrizy7490
@kbrizy7490 Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@joshbachmann5065
@joshbachmann5065 Жыл бұрын
Their right, not gonna spend 8k on the Couch I want just starting out , will spend 800 for it, estate sales have these things
@ss-s-do3uw
@ss-s-do3uw Жыл бұрын
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@om617yota7
@om617yota7 Жыл бұрын
Even $800 is a lot. It's a freaking couch, you're not driving it. My couch was $100 and works just fine. This is coming from someone who can afford the $8k couch. I just don't see how spending more gets you any more.
@fsmoura
@fsmoura Жыл бұрын
Well . . . how much are you willing to lose?
@ss-s-do3uw
@ss-s-do3uw Жыл бұрын
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@summerforever6736
@summerforever6736 Жыл бұрын
BEST ADVICE: DO NOT GET MARRIED!!
@wattwalsh4982
@wattwalsh4982 Жыл бұрын
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@MrOfficer235
@MrOfficer235 Жыл бұрын
Sell the fiancé
@joeriveracomedy
@joeriveracomedy Жыл бұрын
A woman with 80k in debt will not tolerate used furniture. This sucker is being taken for a ride. Smart men know what she is riding and it ain't him.
@untouchable360x
@untouchable360x Жыл бұрын
Doesn't matter. You will end up with zero after getting married or divorced.
@skydude1996
@skydude1996 Жыл бұрын
That's not true... you can get married affordably and if you go into marriage with that mentality you already are setting yourself up for a failed marriage
@wanderingdoc5075
@wanderingdoc5075 Жыл бұрын
This guy gets it. The reality is as a man you can be happy living on very little and not buy anything like clothes furniture gifts and trinkets. Moving in with a woman guarantees you will triple your spend and for no good reason either.
@skydude1996
@skydude1996 Жыл бұрын
@@wanderingdoc5075 you're so brilliant. Research shows that married couples actually end up more wealthy due to a higher income potential.
@torijones9992
@torijones9992 Жыл бұрын
@@wanderingdoc5075facts brother 💯
@SavageSanto
@SavageSanto Жыл бұрын
HAHA beat me to it !
@bradwilliams4921
@bradwilliams4921 Жыл бұрын
Best wishes to the caller.
@jo4285
@jo4285 Жыл бұрын
She needs to pay her 80k first
@ss-s-do3uw
@ss-s-do3uw Жыл бұрын
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@fsmoura
@fsmoura Жыл бұрын
So, for the 999th time, wahmen going eyeball-deep into debt and marrying out of it...
@ralfbo685
@ralfbo685 Жыл бұрын
Who says they aren't paying for the debt? I believe, in marriage, BOTH have to make sacrifices to get rid of debt.
@fsmoura
@fsmoura Жыл бұрын
@@ralfbo685 yea right, we all know how that "both" business works
@ss-s-do3uw
@ss-s-do3uw Жыл бұрын
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@chwparker
@chwparker Жыл бұрын
Marriage has become SOOO much more complicated, as has meeting someone to marry. It seems that money just keeps getting more complicated right in step with it. EVERY woman has been taught that she is an absolute princess that DESERVES the absolute best in a man regardless of what she's willing to contribute - and as a result, birth rates are plummeting!
@eclipse.5295
@eclipse.5295 Жыл бұрын
And the quality of men over the years has declined considerably.
@TrazimDollare1982
@TrazimDollare1982 Жыл бұрын
Or as the saying goes…..Marriage is grand Divorce is 50 Grand
@josephinenelan4204
@josephinenelan4204 Жыл бұрын
@@eclipse.5295True!
@KatieBellino
@KatieBellino Жыл бұрын
Men used to support the family financially while the wife stayed home with the kids. Women contribute way more financially than they ever used to. Because women have education and their own financial means, they also are more willing to put in their two cents on how money is spent.
@ss-s-do3uw
@ss-s-do3uw Жыл бұрын
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@guysview
@guysview Жыл бұрын
The question is NOT how much to save before you get married. The question is where you should go for Insane people because you are even THINKING of getting married.
@ss-s-do3uw
@ss-s-do3uw Жыл бұрын
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@alqoshgirl
@alqoshgirl Жыл бұрын
Some of our used solid wood furniture are a lot nicer than the brand new stuff we bought 🤷🏻‍♀️
@christinebutler7630
@christinebutler7630 Жыл бұрын
Don't have kids until you.have bought a house in a good school district. Better yet, don't have kids.
@unfairsanic5089
@unfairsanic5089 Жыл бұрын
Sounds like an origins of a crazycat lady 😂
@hvaball150
@hvaball150 Жыл бұрын
it seems like the immediate answer is simple. 90k. save 90k to pay off hers and your debts, then you can get married.
@joyaustin6581
@joyaustin6581 Жыл бұрын
Or she saves 80k to pay off her own debt and then they get married.
@hvaball150
@hvaball150 Жыл бұрын
​@@joyaustin6581its the same advice, effectively. I gave him a number he needs for this girl today. my guess is he doesn't have it. so same result. I'll recognize it is OK if she never works in the marriage. traditional. and if you total up all the labor he will work in their lifetime, I assume 90k isn't life ending.
@Minibike817
@Minibike817 Жыл бұрын
Being married you never have enough money Lol
@PhilipMarcYT
@PhilipMarcYT Жыл бұрын
I plan on getting married, but my money will be.. _my_ money, not "our" money. I'll pay the bills and expenses, sure, although I won't give the wife unrestricted access to my finances. When you mix money and love it destroys it.
@chuckgoodman3828
@chuckgoodman3828 Жыл бұрын
@@PhilipMarcYT Your money will never be only your money, but her money WILL be only her money!
@fsmoura
@fsmoura Жыл бұрын
@@PhilipMarcYT >I won't give the wife unrestricted access to my finances. haha you're in for a big surprise when the courts get involved pal
@djpuplex
@djpuplex Жыл бұрын
@@fsmoura yup her lawyers and the courts will get unrestricted access to his momey
@habeshasister11
@habeshasister11 Жыл бұрын
@@PhilipMarcYTwhy even get married w/ this mindset?
@davidmilhouscarter8198
@davidmilhouscarter8198 Жыл бұрын
3:41 She might not be sitting on a garage sale couch.
@rainacherienne1010
@rainacherienne1010 Жыл бұрын
Not even one comment congratulating the couple 😂
@wattwalsh4982
@wattwalsh4982 Жыл бұрын
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@alinatamashevich3354
@alinatamashevich3354 Жыл бұрын
I will let her divorce attorney do that!
@choicemeatrandy6572
@choicemeatrandy6572 Жыл бұрын
The dude doesn't even sound happy to be engaged. He should hold off.
@9liveslisa
@9liveslisa Жыл бұрын
Stick to your budget. Stay out of debt. Save what you can.
@wattwalsh4982
@wattwalsh4982 Жыл бұрын
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@ilai7893
@ilai7893 Жыл бұрын
Lol, my man is signing his life away by marrying a woman with $80k debt
@djpuplex
@djpuplex Жыл бұрын
That's some expensive 😾.
@lionheart93
@lionheart93 Жыл бұрын
does she come with an income close to the debt owed or above?
@reesercliff
@reesercliff Жыл бұрын
haha so am I but its $100k and she is going to be a doctor, I think life is going to be good.
@izzytheman20
@izzytheman20 Жыл бұрын
@@reesercliff i feel so sorry for you. She’s the man your the women
@tinyloc5596
@tinyloc5596 Жыл бұрын
@@izzytheman20 imagine thinking like that no wonder why your wife works the drive thru too affraid to have a partner making more then u
@screwdriver_bandit
@screwdriver_bandit Жыл бұрын
Dave’s only irresponsible behavior he openly cheers on: get married with nothing & have all the babies. Even when callers clearly shouldn’t. Lol
@freedomworks3976
@freedomworks3976 Жыл бұрын
Yep thats for sure. He’s from the Deep South so life is different down yonder
@djpuplex
@djpuplex Жыл бұрын
How else will there be a next generation on debt drowned 🐑 to call Dave?
@ss-s-do3uw
@ss-s-do3uw Жыл бұрын
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@Joenzinator
@Joenzinator Жыл бұрын
If everyone waited until they were 100% prepared to have children, then nobody would have children. You have to live your life, and it's possible to get married and have children with a limited budget.
@rogerhoward1900
@rogerhoward1900 Жыл бұрын
Yea he wants all guys trapped
@donaldcornwell1151
@donaldcornwell1151 Жыл бұрын
She is getting really good at conveying the Ramsey message.
@wattwalsh4982
@wattwalsh4982 Жыл бұрын
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@TALLXXL
@TALLXXL Жыл бұрын
Dont get married. Save all you money. Focus on retirement
@ss-s-do3uw
@ss-s-do3uw Жыл бұрын
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@davidmilhouscarter8198
@davidmilhouscarter8198 Жыл бұрын
5:44 The table at which I’m currently sitting watching this video, I paid fifty bucks for it about 14 years ago.
@Nolaman70
@Nolaman70 Жыл бұрын
I did it once and I learned not to do it again. She cheated I filed, I kept my house, just paid it off.
@foodmens
@foodmens Жыл бұрын
Why would I ever want to experience that?
@blackworldtraveler3711
@blackworldtraveler3711 Жыл бұрын
No thanks. Learned form observing hundreds of those scenarios and worse since high school including jury duty over weaponizing kids.
@Nolaman70
@Nolaman70 Жыл бұрын
@@foodmens you're right, I fixed it. I would not suggest nowadays to even do it once. I guess I was saying give it a shot, but I can't even say that is a good idea anymore. Based on the divorce rates, and the quality of today's choices. Stay unmarried, enjoy your life.
@Nolaman70
@Nolaman70 Жыл бұрын
@@blackworldtraveler3711 updated my statement, I would not do it once, nor would I suggest it to any man.
@tristan2332
@tristan2332 Жыл бұрын
So cause you found a bad women...all are. Makes total sense. Married 12 years to a great wife...there are plenty of marriages that work but many that end up divorced rushed or ignored huge red flags.
@douglasbrinkman5937
@douglasbrinkman5937 Жыл бұрын
go cheap on the honeymoon. 90k underwater? you are not ready to get married.
@ss-s-do3uw
@ss-s-do3uw Жыл бұрын
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@ElainesDomain
@ElainesDomain Жыл бұрын
The biggest problem they will have is that the mind can rationalize anything. Jordan Peterson
@Omar-nd6lh
@Omar-nd6lh 10 ай бұрын
Twice as much as you’d be comfortable paying your ex and the lawyers when its over
@todd2456
@todd2456 Жыл бұрын
Dave hates hearing other people talk.
@Nolaman70
@Nolaman70 Жыл бұрын
Shut up 😄 🤣 😂 😆
@rachelharrison7961
@rachelharrison7961 Жыл бұрын
Gotta see how much you get in wedding gifts!
@ss-s-do3uw
@ss-s-do3uw Жыл бұрын
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@sneak916
@sneak916 Жыл бұрын
Nah, she’s paying for 80k even after the wedding
@jimmymcgill6778
@jimmymcgill6778 Жыл бұрын
Here comes all the woman and marriage hating comments.
@dankbreh9013
@dankbreh9013 Жыл бұрын
So you see the problem; you just refuse to address it.
@unfairsanic5089
@unfairsanic5089 Жыл бұрын
@@dankbreh9013 because people will disagree about solving the problem 😂
@plants4thewin
@plants4thewin Жыл бұрын
LOL...dont do it!
@ss-s-do3uw
@ss-s-do3uw Жыл бұрын
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@jo4285
@jo4285 Жыл бұрын
Don't get marry!
@Raymond.Butler
@Raymond.Butler Жыл бұрын
Appliances and furniture came from the corner trash pile. Entire house setup for nothing, but it was a place to start.
@ss-s-do3uw
@ss-s-do3uw Жыл бұрын
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@lucanidae100
@lucanidae100 Жыл бұрын
You need to pay for the wedding, cars, house, You need at least 50K. You can get good dishes at goodwill
@wattwalsh4982
@wattwalsh4982 Жыл бұрын
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@smithrr6
@smithrr6 Жыл бұрын
Dave even for brief moment said something that hinted that he wanted to stop you from sacrificing yourself to the SIMP Blood God by saying , "well you aren't a "we" yet until you are married", but then the SIMP Blood God grabbed ahold of him and Dave started talking about craigslist furniture to distract you from the fact that you are turning yourself into a savory delicious blood sacrifice to pay off her $80k bad choices that had nothing to do with you. This is my comedic attempt to tell you that you should postpone the wedding until she pays off her debt and you pay off yours. If this takes so long that she wants to dump you and find another sucker boyfriend, then let her go on her merry way, and you go find a different chic that doesn't have this kind of debt. Please allow the blood to return from your lower head and back into your upper head so you can see rationally on this decision. By the way, if you bought an engagement ring, if you call off the wedding, she legally has to return it to you since, you never married. There were plenty of Judge Judy cases where fiance's tried to keep the engagement ring, but they were ruled to return it since the wedding never took place.
@ss-s-do3uw
@ss-s-do3uw Жыл бұрын
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@erich84502a
@erich84502a Жыл бұрын
$4.5 million dollars (inflation)
@AlejandroRodriguez-nf8xc
@AlejandroRodriguez-nf8xc Жыл бұрын
Good question. It's something I've been wondering about. I'm single af though, lol.
@ss-s-do3uw
@ss-s-do3uw Жыл бұрын
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@JP-uy9kq
@JP-uy9kq Жыл бұрын
comments are gunna be great!
@wattwalsh4982
@wattwalsh4982 Жыл бұрын
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@marcmontalvo787
@marcmontalvo787 Жыл бұрын
Dave did not answer his question whatsoever. He lives with his parents, and is asking how much it costs to move out with his wife (essentially with a shared expense roommate)
@LyricalTampon
@LyricalTampon Жыл бұрын
Dave really hates women...This is like the fourth video where he just ignores her.
@rabcaxyz2
@rabcaxyz2 Жыл бұрын
No, Dave wants to talk, he thinks he is right and the co-hosts (Male or Female) just need to keep in line!
@ss-s-do3uw
@ss-s-do3uw Жыл бұрын
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@tofahub
@tofahub Жыл бұрын
Most guys here don’t realize what she’s bringing to the table. They just yell how much he’s about to lose when they divorce. The guy doesn’t have much and what they’re building together is a lot more than where they’re starting
@tofahub
@tofahub Жыл бұрын
She got student loan debt. She’s probably educated and may have a career. Why would he get married if she got nothing to add?
@alinatamashevich3354
@alinatamashevich3354 Жыл бұрын
@Tricycle Man DEBT
@alinatamashevich3354
@alinatamashevich3354 Жыл бұрын
@Tricycle Man Bingo
@lucanidae100
@lucanidae100 Жыл бұрын
LOL I have furniture from my grandfather
@wattwalsh4982
@wattwalsh4982 Жыл бұрын
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@GeorgeSmiley2023
@GeorgeSmiley2023 Жыл бұрын
As funny as it may sound, that's a great way to save money, keep it as long as you can and don't succumb to peer pressure.
@jimmymcgill6778
@jimmymcgill6778 Жыл бұрын
What world does Dave lives in that he thinks utilities are fixed?
@neilsmith9066
@neilsmith9066 Жыл бұрын
He never lives in the real world
@catstopzebra
@catstopzebra Жыл бұрын
He’s talking about the connection cost. If you call and ask, you can find out how much it will cost you specifically to turn the lights on for a new apartment
@alinatamashevich3354
@alinatamashevich3354 Жыл бұрын
@Jimmy, you live in New Jersey, in the real world they are if you one uses budget billing. Grow up
@jimmymcgill6778
@jimmymcgill6778 Жыл бұрын
@@catstopzebra He's not talking about just the connection costs.
@davecopp9356
@davecopp9356 Жыл бұрын
Is she worth 80K to you?
@wattwalsh4982
@wattwalsh4982 Жыл бұрын
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@alinatamashevich3354
@alinatamashevich3354 Жыл бұрын
Double that!
@anthonykence9954
@anthonykence9954 Жыл бұрын
Have a Hillbilly wedding shotguns and moonshine. Total expenses $50.
@wattwalsh4982
@wattwalsh4982 Жыл бұрын
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@incognito1427
@incognito1427 Жыл бұрын
What at difference in class, wisdom and knowledge with Rachel and Mr Ramsey compared to the black lady and the wuha-wuha that only criticize and belittle the caller's.
@ss-s-do3uw
@ss-s-do3uw Жыл бұрын
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@johnjayandabackpack644
@johnjayandabackpack644 Жыл бұрын
These comments (not saying whether your right and wrong) are the reason why the Western world is on the decline and a very steep decline…………
@lukeharris2622
@lukeharris2622 Жыл бұрын
✝️🙏
@roncraft2042
@roncraft2042 Жыл бұрын
More😎
@ss-s-do3uw
@ss-s-do3uw Жыл бұрын
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@freedomring3022
@freedomring3022 Жыл бұрын
Why are you getting married at all in today's day and age? Luke is an idiot for even considering marriage. It is the only contract that a man will sign where he will lose 100% of the time if the contract doesn't work out. Also, there are no benefits to marriage anymore. Women are bringing less to the table then ever before.
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