How Not To Be An Entitled Fan

[@captainseg]

As a small content creator, this will be great to learn how to deal with situations like these in the future while also learning how NOT to harrass other content creators that we like

[@jasperflare]

Same here

[@userLongHairedGIRL]

Agreed, I mean... Where's the acknowledgement for the little content creators like us? I'd love it if my creation The Teen Gang got more noticed.

[@teric2]

Whew... I can see how this would be a bit scary to put out into the public, but I am impressed by your courage, Bliss! These are things that really do need to be said and understood.

[@lightning-bliss]

Thanks for the boost in confidence Teric ^^ appreciated

[@BrightIdeaPony]

This has the energy of a very well put together PSA: delightfully entertaining, informative for all ages, and memorable in the best ways. Learning to be less entitled is something everybody should go through, in order to gain the benefits true friendship has to offer

[@atiliopoolcartoonawesome]

😉👍🏻

[@WilliamSchmidNetwork]

Agreed. Right up there with Family Guy’s PSA on the Covid-19 vaccine for best PSA of 2021.

[@lilytiger8746]

I write a lot of fanfiction and stories ever since high school. And I am forever grateful to the small following I have for these stories. But I won't deny I've had in the past gotten comments where people specifically want me to write said fan into story or a specific story that entitles to their likes. I've definitely learned to politely decline and block people if necessary, but I won't deny when I get these comments, there's a sense of worry of 'What if this happens again?' Thankfully, most fans understand and go about there day. Sometimes simple communication/an explanation can really help a fan understand why a creator may not want to do what the fan wants. I'm not saying it'll always convince a fan or always work. But it doesn't hurt to try and level with them in a polite manner 🤗👍

[@OriMatricesBoardwalk2288]

Am glad you pick this up and raise awareness given the recent spike in such cases as of lately. It's a great lesson for each and everyone of us fans to learn from before worse repercussions could happen. Sorry to hear about this, hope things could settle down for the better Ms Bliss.

[@MLPDethDealr32]

this happens to us animators as well. its annoying to deal with it.

[@enderwalkgang]

Yeah id bet it has to do with the covid stuff. People indoors relying in the internetfor entertainment and psuedo relationships.

[@Zodia195]

I want to add something because I know I am guilty of this myself- if you are acquaintances with someone 'famous' or popular, it does not mean you're friends. My dad taught me this lesson and it's still something I have to keep teaching myself this. Unfortunately it's a reason why I do fear making friends too because I worry I'll be like that of pushing too hard. It's also happened where people want to be my friend right off the bat despite few interactions and yeah it's very uncomfortable. Good video Bliss, hopefully this will help others.

[@West_Coast_Mainline]

I get this, I am more of acquaintances with James is Here, although we like each other we don’t know each other, I am friends with I’m a Train Person

[@Cailadelrose]

First comment! I’m so happy to have helped in this project. Next time I will have a better mic :3

[@FluffDragonArt]

*has dealt with things like this before* Eeyup. Also a good reminder to be more self-aware in my own interactions. (Also Silver very much called me out, lol. When we met in-person at BronyCon and he recognized me I more or less may or may not have run off due to embarrassment, haha!)

[@sleepingpegasus3796]

I'll be honest, I thought DrWolf was a therapist. He sounded so natural when he talked

[@selineoakenarrow3989]

I also thought he was as well

[@waterpicker]

He definitely has the energy of a non crap one thou regardless if he is one.

[@Heavilune]

Ikr UwU

[@WhiteDarkness3113]

Me : aren't you a therapist ? Dr.Wolf01 : No, but play one on the internet.

[@lolstalgic9602]

He should be... he’s great at it

[@ripple-effect-mlp]

Aeon as an EF: Bliss, I wish you would read my fanfic. I would like to have you know that our characters have been interacting for the longest time. I have secretly been behind everything. Bliss: LOL Aeon :3 That is so hilarious in so many ways, I can't even explain!

[@jillevers1432]

I thought that was such a cute face he made

[@serpentblancx2320]

I love the disclamer about the character Dr.Wolf ,people sometimes forget the difference between the character and the person behind : /

[@calliethewolfcat2183]

It makes me happy to see all your loving friends protecting you. They're an example of a strong and healthy relationship. I hope at least some of us have been respectful towards you, and I'm sorry for all the pain you've suffered. I hope things start to calm down for you and all the other content creators.

[@OfficialGeoffreyTraylor]

The title alone is 100% compelling!

[@langshu6446]

Think of it this way. Thousands of people come together to give support to this one content creator. With so many of them, they can do so with relative ease. This one creator and her several collaborators are doing everything in their power to deliver for these thousands of fans, juggling many projects and trying to squeeze them into their day-to-day lives. That's a far cry from simply liking, sharing, commenting, subscribing, or financing through Patreon or commissions. Asking them for extra attention or special treatment is admitting that you don't sincerely appreciate or understand them as a person and what do to make content for their fans and get by. No one likes to hear that the time and effort they put in isn't enough for some people.

[@KNightlyLoveSpin20]

But what if you ask them exactly once? Because they probably spoke from experience.

[@bcrunch4232]

I feel like we should treat content creators not as idealized people but as fellow fans. Such as you Lightning Bliss, you and the other analysts. You all deserve to be treated like people. Not persons who should be put on a pedestal. I like the passion and hard work you and other content creators put into your craft.

[@MethiaCanvas]

With this lesson I hope everyone can learn to respect their idols! Even I’m learning to do so myself and not stray so far from it, heh. Sure there are times where we get to chat with our favorite content creators, but it’s better to just give em personal space, as Bliss explained in the video. And who knows, maybe one day one of our idols may want to chat with us more and eventually become friends. But you always gotta remember their personal boundaries and respect them as individuals! :)

[@Francis.L]

This is a great interpretation that these entitled fans are shadows, it fits on their personality and character rather having a normal oc of a fan.

[@Luximus17]

Lol I get some of these fans from time to time. They never truly go away. I either block and ignore, actually be patient in telling them to go away, or have some fun by messing with them. It's usually the last option.

[@TheCommenterDragon]

Thank you for this video Blissy, i always enjoy the Lightning Bliss Show and the video makes me glad that i don't have any fans. lol

[@1989JROG]

I will say this, after watching this video, I can clearly understand how you and your friends (and probably every other person) have to deal with entitled fans. This kind of behavior is never okay to act towards someone that is an idol that they follow. To fans who think they are entitled to everything, they are very VERY wrong.

[@Flitterkriz]

Woop Woop ! This is going to be epic and hopefully people get the masseges🍀💕

[@DuskFlare1990]

thank you for including me Bliss! it was great fun! i loved this video, both the message and implementation. the wavy effect on the shadow fans was a great addition and i already told you how great that voice change was on the depression lines lol! All in all well done, keep it up! ^.^ PS: CAT FACE AEON IS ADORBS!! *squee* ~Duskie

[@williamcrowe2576]

Sadly, there are a goodly few who just don't know the meaning of "no". And furthermore, there are times when I almost lose sight of why I draw in the first place. When I draw fan art of your OCs, it's supposed to be out of appreciation for your work. I don't do it for a glimpse in my direction from the individual I base it on. Or at least I try not to.

[@hyenaedits3460]

Somebody tried to rope me into doing a movie-length edit for them once. I didn't quite understand the situation at first but after I figured out what was going on I had to politely shut them down and then block them. I feel bad that I disappointed them but at the same time, I make literally no money from editing despite it taking hours of my time. I have a life. I can't just edit all day, and I wouldn't want to anyway. I'd get burnt out. I'm not mad at the person. As you said, parasocial relationships happen and it can be all too easy to lose sight of the reality of the situation. And I learned an important lesson about paying attention to what I'm agreeing to and setting clear boundaries. I spent a lot of my life bending over backwards for others and it's been hard to break that habit. I often worry that I'm being too self-obsessed. So this video is very validating.

[@KikiKiki-le9qe]

What a great point! I completely agree ! I still can’t understand someone would want so so much time from someone without giving anything especially when it takes so much skill and effort.

[@animationfromkaitlyn3296]

Holly cow! I'm really early! Well. Hope I'm here in time to catch you bliss! I just want to say that I love your channel, and not going to lie, you and a few other bronies like Dr. Wolf have really helped me not to be ashamed to admit I like mlp! So I thank you for that. Can't wait for the vid! Keep up the awesome work!

[@jillevers1432]

You know when I saw the list of cameos that would appear, I thought we were going to get a whole group of bronies in this and I was half right; we saw Dr. Wolf, Aeon, Chuggles, Solar, and Silver Quill, and they all performed wonderfully. I see some were the voices of the shadow ponies which was cool too. They were almost like Windigos too. And the part with Silver Quill was great, I didn't get why he did what he did at first but then I remember that was also his daily self. I do hope each character is doing well. As for the video itself, thanks for this knowledge. I recently got into a fandom or two and well honestly I never know what I do is something that could lead to entitlement. Just seeing your examples makes me cringe and feel so much guilt and pity. But I try to be better by thinking before typing and just showing support the best way I can. I do hope many more will acknowledge this.

[@CarolineMoon97]

I get what you’re going through it’s never easy with fans like that. I never try to be that kind of fan so it doesn’t have everyone get upset or block me cause people who do that are just rude and not aware of how they make you feel as a creator when they should. I love your videos keep up the amazing work! ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜

[@Juria316]

Good gods, I got itchy and nervous just from that intro. Glad to hear you raising awareness of this topic. Edit: Just finished the video, and jeeze, I certainly hope you don't have to deal with people like this too often. I thought it was bad when someone literally stole one of my fanfics and tried to claim it as their own, without changing anything or erasing my name from it, but this is like if you had an Annie Wilkes every few minutes. More power to you guys. Also, I know Dr. Wolf isn't a real therapist, but neither is Dr. Phil, so there's hope for a backup career.

[@Rojaniel]

Well, put Bliss. Well put. This whole experience reminds me of my two BronyCons. First time, I was a bit starstruck when meeting people. I don't think I came across as cringey, though. That was 2018. Year after, I also attended. It was a good experience, and no starstruckness at all. I just played it cool and interactions with creators went smoothly.

[@nicolaas2]

Hello Lightning Bliss. I don't know i you remember me? we met at BronyCon 2019 where i gave you a hug, how are you doing lately? i hope your doing well. watching this video made me teach something about boundaries and i really enjoyed it, you always make my day way better then it already had and i wish you a great day when you read this. Sincerely: Nick Fixed, a brony from The Netherlands.

[@SquirrelParanormal]

You hit it right out of the park with this one!:) I've gotten that fan treatment for decades from the Furry community. Demanding art, demanding avatars for Second Life. Wanting to know all my personal email, Discord, and other means I use for work. And when you don't become their personal Santa Claus of never ending gifts, they end up hating you, sometimes trying to blackmail you. Thanky for the great video. And keep up the great work :)

[@AuraNova-AshleyH]

Such an insightful and very well put together video. I can't even imagine the kinds of things you go through in terms of entitled fans. This is the first video I've ever watched of you and I wanted to say to keep up the good work, from one horse creator to another :)

[@max-coder4692]

I am both looking forward to and saddened by the topic(s) for this video. Sad thing as a content creator is that you can't always ignore these types of people as it may risk your public image for new viewers. I like many others am just happy with the great content you make Lightning, keep it up. :)

[@IBAIPshow]

Pardon the pun but good to hear from the horse's mouth. It hasn't happened so much to me personally (Lucky Knight) but sometimes get requests to join servers by people I've never met let alone had a conversation with. To borrow from the digital marketing cycle - don't ask someone to marry you before buying them a coffee first. Based on "normal" approaches to friendship - don't unload your everything on someone you want to get to know or simply respect their boundaries. Knowing this, some peeps don't respect them irl or otherwise. Other side of the coin is it fills me with great joy when someone says they've been following the work over the years and enjoying it (silent fans). Great video and proud to be a patron /)

[@thatsleepycat4445]

I have not watched videos like this in forever but I guess I will leave my take and personal opinion on this. Meeting your idols can be great, but as you get to know them it starts to feel disappointing and usually leads to issues. Some fans feel "entitlement" because most and usually some people these days outside of social media don't have friends, close family members, good social skills, and more. most feel a need to look up and try to communicate with someone they could learn from and get advice from In desperate times. we wish we could have the same close friends that are supportive and almost always available there with you like you have. the fun, the creativity, the warm feeling of safety and love, even the feeling your reaching success in life. I met one of my idols not too long ago and we became friends and due to my own personal problems, 2020 being terrible, political differences and different beliefs and finding their own flaws. Long story short, it went very badly. All it taught me is that idols are not worth meeting if they already have what most want so im not worth much of anything. I dont really look up to anyone anymore and it makes me sad not wanting to take the time to make friends as much as I use to due to these past issues in groups/communties. I feel disconnected from the world and even in online communities I think I shouldn't have much trouble fitting in with yet I do. I would say more, but all I can say is, It is what it is. Don't meet your Idols.

[@lightning-bliss]

I'm sorry that happend to you, but I think that mindset for others may be a bit harsh. It doesn't always have end like that, it certainly didn't for me anyways. Everyone has different experiences, some might meet their idols, and that's it, a quick hello and that's it. Some meet up and become friends, and those friendships can last forever or a few years, friendships do change over time. Sometimes for the better, others for not. It doesn't always have to be a bad experience, and it doesn't always have to end badly. I think with you, you had a dissapointing experience, and it left you with a very negative impact that is preventing you from trying to meet new people again. But I assure you, it may not always end that way, and you shouldn't let one experience ruin your chances to meet people and make friends one day. However this is your choice, you decide what is best for yourself and what makes you happy. This is just an opinion I'm sharing, and you can take it with a grain of salt. Either way I do wish you the best in life. Have a lovely day :)

[@Ven_Pie]

To expand on the "Tantrums" section, there are those fans that go even further to the point where they believe that the best way to let lose their anger is by sending death threats to someone due to a portion of their content that they don't like. Now, feeling angry at something that is a part of human nature, but we have the ability to understand how to express that said anger. There are multiple ways that one can express anger without hurting someone else nor themselves in the process, and it is important for us to learn how to control ourselves. Overall, this was a great video, Bliss, and there was definitely solid advice here, I hope you are doing ok.

[@firepaw4085]

I have often seen people doing this either by overly tagging people they want to talk with, being hyper critical of details that dont involve the fan and just over all making everything uncomfortable for not only creators but other fans caught in the situation. It's sad to see because while some fans just dont know better others do and leave a sour experience for creators when it comes to talking with other fans. I think everyone needs to take a step back from idolizing creators and remember where they are in the relationship so everything stays safe, happy and healthy for everyone. Cant wait for more of your content in the future and thank you for making those rainbows!🌈

[@ericb3157]

i've recently read quite a few stories about entitled CUSTOMERS at stores...it's quite crazy, especially since many stores don't ALLOW the workers to tell the customers to GET LOST!

[@Gojilion91]

This was indeed an interesting topic and an important one at that. As a fan myself, I always try to be more aware of how I would interact with people whose work I enjoy and try my best to be understanding, respectful and avoid falling into this trap that some people often do when and if they become entitled.

[@Lightspeedvore]

geez... This was kinda eye-opening for me... I recognize that I do a couple of those things listed with others, I do try to remain curtious with others, but it's a little difficult seeing as I have autism and can't spot some subtle social cues. =/ an example of this can actually be found in a comment of a previous video where I thought it was ok to 'virtually' hug you Lightning, Trust me, Solar put me in my place fairly quickly and I respect him for that. ^^; So yeah, I'm sorry that, that made you feel uncomfortable in any way. Would like to mention that I really enjoy your content and look forward to your future videos. ^_^

[@randominternetname2430]

i can really understand this. I have autisum and ADHD. subtle social cues are really hard to notice. this usually ends in me talking someones ear off. a way that i have created to combat this is i Just start off by telling them to be blunt about stuff because the subtle cues will just slip by.

[@benjaminfeld6388]

You know, I really like watching the creator commentaries you and Dr. Wolf and your other friends make on your TF2 Analysis Anarchy series. Feels like I'm getting a glimpse of the real you, not your personas, not the artists or voice actors or what have you, just a bunch of friends who enjoy hanging out and having fun. And I admire that, I really do. Just felt like you want to know.

[@kawaiikitty4623]

Wow, thanks for teaching us about all that, Bliss! Nobody's perfect, but we can learn from our mistakes and try to become better people! Thanks for that healthy dose of information!😸

[@TylerWilson0527]

Very good video. A lot of good points made. This is definitely something that people should keep in mind, not just for this fandom, but for any fandom that they may be a part of.

[@nicolefritz6818]

Silver Quill immediately protects, unless he attacks

[@alexvoicer689]

Love the video Lighting Bliss, this is a great lesson to learn and remember everyone at the end of the day our idols are people. Like us, they have life's family, friends, work and so much more by respecting this you gain there respect by treating them like human beings that they are. That's all they ask. Please. Always respect there boundaries that they give you, remember they don't hate you never take it personally everyone like idols they need personal space there entitled to that. It breaks my heart to hear my idols go through with not so great fans that gives them crap everyday, come on guys act your age or just leave them be if your going to act like an entitled 5 year old brat who doesn't get there way. That will give you a one way ticket into trouble like being blocked or worse. I hope everyone learns from this video that our wonderful Lighting Bliss just shared with us today, have a wonderful day! :)

[@zangryomani1257]

how i try to not be a entitled fan 1 ask the person to sign something 2 never talk to them again because social anxiety and just take it and leave it

[@ellenorwiseman2745]

That shot of you and your hubby hugging was soooo sweet 🤗

[@shep4187]

Huh. Thank you for giving links to other brony channels. I am aware of Aeon, Doc, Silverquill, Chuggle buggle and Solar Flare, but I am always looking for other great content.

[@sparkprisma3387]

Thanks for the video Bliss, glad you made it, really helps a lot for a lot of us

[@apolloisabnormal1001]

Honestly this is one of my biggest fears as a small time content creator, if I ever take off, I’m always worried I’m going to get “cancelled” or that only my bad side will be shown to them, if I ever get that fans that is. Alot of my friends are artists and streamers so unfortunately we all understand the pain of dealing with people that don’t understand creative minds.

[@ShanaReviews]

Very well put together Lightning Bliss, the video has a nice balance of being educational as well as entertaining, the moments where I felt a moment was cringe helped to send the message that "This thing is not okay" and as I've seen spoken by some on this subject elsewhere, if you Cringe, congrats, it shows you are aware and are learning and I hope others take that when watching this video. another thing that was very nice was Silverquill's addition at the end. all in all, I do hope that in any of the comments I've posted from watching your work that I haven't crossed any boundaries and if I have, I apologize and will work to be better ^_^ I do wish you well and hope that your days are good to you

[@jacoblee21]

Amazing job discussing this topic, Bliss! I agree with everything you said.

[@AquaBright]

I respect every KZbin, Artist, and Idols as there people too not robot as I met that some fans are being too rude to the Idol. As I also respect you as you work so hard to make video and artwork which I don't like to disturb or being you rude. Take some time for yourself to feel relaxed and take care ☺️

[@shampooh8r]

When I used to be on Deviant Art, I used to get watchers that I have nothing in common with that I think only watch me just to get free art on fandoms that I am not it when I made it clear on my profile that I only take requests and art trades from my friends. Most of the time I check I look at their profiles before I can decide if I want to watch them back, the only way I don't is when they ieither we don't have anything in common or if they have content that makes me feel uncomfortable.

[@beastpaws9]

Thanks for sharing this Lighting bliss, for I didn't know skilled artist have to deal with this kind issues, and thanks to Silver Quill for what to say like How are you doing? For am just not very good at greeting others for being introvert.

[@BeesMeliss]

This is very relatable and very helpful. Great job, Blissy! ^^

[@biancagrottolo]

I respect you, Miss Bliss, and I've always have. You worked hard. Some of us fans may go crazy, but some of us do respect you. And believe me, one time I drew a picture of you and you appreciated. And that made me very happy that you liked my artwork. It was when I was starting to become a pegasister. But then when the series became, well, too much for me, I quit. But I still do art once in a while of ponies, from different shows. Once in a while, of course. Just keep going girl. You are a beautiful woman and you're a tall, beautiful woman. And alicorn of course.

[@SuperPlanet3212]

I think this might firmly grasp the folks' attention.

[@enderpup9289]

FIRMLY GRASP IT! * yeets video at them*

[@SilverBell1999]

Oooo I love that outro being a reference to the Rainbow Brite end credits! :D Very creative and cute! Also very great and informative video, I really love how you presented the examples of all the problems! Keep up the great work, don't let these kinda people get to ya! nwn

[@COSGUK]

Ugh, I feel for you and a few of my mates who have gained recognition for their work and talent. The self entitled fans just don't have a clue even if you lay it flat out for them. I would like to say I hope this gets better but with social media the way it is now it's not gonna happen. Good thing you have such supportive friends, a great husband and 90% of your fan base who both appreciate and respect your boundaries. I am a fan myself and am proud to include myself in that 90%. I know of you through your videos but I don't know, know you as we aren't friends. Nor will we be as I'm just a simple fan. I wish the entitled fans would realise they are too and back off. You keep making those rainbows Blissy. I look forward to seeing future works and shenanigans with your friends :)

[@AngelLightYT]

Woaw i see that this video features alot of people. This must have been a big project! Cant wait too see it ^^

[@smart_comedyanyt7222]

At least I know when there's a boundary, took me a bit due to being easily distracted back in college, keep making content like this, it really helps see things in a different light, and hope you are doing well

[@HSOP-OFFICIAL]

First off, if I've come off this way I deeply apologize. Second, you are a amazing MLP KZbinr and if you're ever to busy or overwhelmed I, and all of your truly loving fans, completely understand.

[@HibiscusStitch]

You would be surprised the amount of commissioners who divulge REALLY personal things to me. I've had a commissioner message me randomly because I liked a random cute art tweet and tell me the person who made it is a bad person and I shouldn't interact with them. A few of these interactions have led to me just refunding them and bocking. Others I have become the master of the grin and bear it. Wanna tell me about the secret life of your OC, go for it. I'd rather that than telling me all about why you're depressed. Like you don't know me. You're lucky I'm trustworthy and won't ever spread what you say. Some people aren't that way and you shouldn't just divulge that stuff to strangers. The love proposals or saying the things they want to do or find attractive about my OC make me hella uncomfortable. I'm married as well and even saying that doesn't deter people sometimes. In the end, the good always outweighs the bad, but the bad can be annoying thorns in the memory.

[@christopherjones7023]

Great stuff Mrs. Bliss. I'll try to keep all this in mind so I don't become a nuisance.

[@battlecross8540]

I love your work Bliss. But I also now how demanding and hard the work can be. I hope you know how much I appreciate your efforts and all the time you take to accomplish all you do. God Bless and take care!

[@randominternetname2430]

i usually don't comment because i know my comment will just get lost in the wave of comments. I am starting to get on twitch and other social media. i really need to watch myself to overcome mental differences. ADHD+Autisum sucks. i have slight envy of Nero-typical people because i have trouble in social situations. this video has helped me understand the pitfalls to not go into.

[@davideostudio2664]

Very informative Bliss, we all need to understand how parasocial relationships work so everyone can be content with whatever outcome happens. I make fan art all the time and if the person acknowledges it great, if not, oh well that’s life. Sadly, there have been many cases in which over obsessed fans have even broken the law such as stalking or even killing their idols mainly stemming from their own personal issues. Life Noggin went over this with Jaiden Animations about why we obsess over celebrities or any kind of well known person. My advice to those who are fans who feel insecure with where they are now is to work hard on yourselves so you can offer something special to the world as well

[@cosminainspira]

Well done video. Some of them sound like a series YIKES! And I fear coming off like an entitled fan in any franchise or celebrity I like. It's why I just watch from a distance and enjoy it. It's also one reason I worry if I should try making my own content on YT, even though I've worked on a couple so far. Still, thanks for sharing your experience and I still hope there are more wonderful fan encounters for you and all your friends. :)

[@sweet-n-breezy3936]

I completely get how that is LB. I have been bulled brought down and ridiculed. About 1 year ago I was at an all time low. But then I found youtubers like you, Dr.Wolf, Firebrand, Silver Quill, and Mad Munchkin. In turn all 5 of you have inspired me to start my own youtube channel and thanks for bringing a little bit more joy to all of us fans.

[@gia_the_gamergirl4130]

I think that one person who disliked is an entitled fan. Also, I forgot to ask. How are you doing?

[@mrnissendk]

Create a topic to take up definitely in the online world we live in today, I see a lot of people in my own community that do think that I owe them help, but have done nothing for getting it. I rarely say directly no to help them, but if I have time, help guide them to find the solution themselves, but even then, there are the days where I really don't feel for help and try to let them down easily. I properly also say yes way too often, where I take too much to myself, and sadly feel like I will let them down if I fail.

[@jaywatson8054]

I have the opposite problem; once a wallflower, always a wallflower. Heck, it took better then 20 minutes for me to get up the courage to walk over and say 'hello' to you and Silver Quill back at B.C. '18 and almost an hour to say 'hi' to Prof. Wolf at B.C. '19 because I was so intimidated. But I'm glad I did and was very grateful for the autographs I received from you and many other members from the Rift Café. As a rule, I try to make sure to take up as little time possible from Con guests as they are usually pretty busy and have a lot to take care of while there.

[@CureCrystal1]

this video really speaks to someone like me who is both a fan of as well as a fanfiction writers almost all the ones i see have people in the comments clamering when the next chapter is and stuff, in laymans term "IF YOU KEEP DEMANDING AND BUGGING US ABOUT IT YOU GET NOTHING YOU LOSE GOOD DAY SIR!"

[@phoenixamaku5551]

Judging by the chat I think I'll stay out of this but will watch the episode:3^^ U Do great work bliss keep it up as always!

[@hemlock_dumpling]

Wow. I’m sorry you’ve had so many difficult encounters. I’ve seen many instances of the examples you described towards so many creators, especially on Twitter. I think this video explained pretty well why certain behaviour is a problem and how it would feel on the receiving end. It was also nice to see your friends supporting you too.

[@mercinaryscrapcore2097]

This makes a lot of sense. There a lot of artist I idolize but pestering them won’t work. I’m really glad someone pointed this out. Mad respect on this. I made a lot of new friends mainly cuz of my own slow steps to restore my mental health but also with my partner’s help too. It’s really great someone pointed all these facts out.

[@CerridwenVids]

Oh Silver Quill, you fowl of chaos, I love you and your crazy pun schemes. XD Good to see insight from both sides of the coin.

[@Wince_Media]

Hey there! Thanks for making this video! Even though I'm a semi-content creator myself, I often struggle with "clinginess" and demanding-ness with the people I talk to. (I really dont try to, but it happens) This kind of problem actually got be blocked by a friend of mine, so I have to change fast.

[@Songal18]

I think deep down it's these kind of situations that make me not upload as often as I do..but I'm glad to have watched this and, like many people, am going through to see if I find anything that is edging on entitlement. I do love the spoopy pony ghost-things you drew for the "fans". Also, I hope you and your family have an awesome weekend and that you keep on being strong against entitled fans.

[@animehunter23]

I will certainly try to use silverquill's suggestion next time I go to meet a guest at a convention I am attending. Aeon has one of those villain laughs and personalities in a video that I never get tired of seeing.

[@iamaperson5729]

You probably don’t know/fully remember who I am and I’m not gonna reveal my old handle that I used to interact with you; but I was one of those entitled fans, and my lack of internet etiquette as a child is one of the few things I look back on now as an almost adult and am actively embarrassed about. I apologize for my poor behavior as a fan and I’ve since realized my mistakes and have moved forward. I’ve also made an effort to try and make others aware of proper etiquette when interacting with online creators and will continue to do so, especially if I myself end up being a somewhat larger creator. I really hope you’re able to see this and I just wanted to throw this out because this has been on my mind for a long time now, not just with you but with a few other creators as well. I don’t expect you to necessarily accept my apology, it just gives me peace of mind to admit this and put it out there.

[@mulberry_joy]

yayy someone apoligizing! you did the right thing

[@Eleaor_F.]

I can relate man, and am at about the same situation. I probably don't know you, but still, great job for taking responsibility and having the guts to owning up to your past mistakes 👍👍👍

[@adamsaltus6236]

Hey bliss thank you for the wonderful videos please keep up the awesome work they really do help me after my mom passed away almost three years ago I miss her very much

[@Peppermint88]

This hits me as a artist That ive had to completely drop those who ask to much of me especially when i make art piece and they put there suggestion of what should happen especially in fanfics as well or even video projects that im not interested in This was Great thanks Blissy 💖 3 things 1. Aeon is a wee bit to happy to dual that multi weapon entitled fan 😂 2. It was so noble of silver protecting you from the blast and then evil laugh that moves to more evil laughing yep heart warming moment is gone 😝 3. I like that the design for the entiled fans they look like ghost Time to get the gear on ( Ghostbuster theme plays) 😅

[@wendydomino]

I enjoyed meeting you, Silver Quill and Dr. Wolf in Dallas. I tried to make sure I didn't take up too much time and wasn't overbearing. I bought some merch from SQ as well. Hope to see some or all of you wonderful KZbinrs again at Harmony Con. It's always nice to see you guys in the vendor hall or at panels. I had no idea how much you guys had to go through all the time until this video though. At one point I had thought maybe it would be cool to have "horse fame" in some way but I'm kind of glad that wasn't in the cards for me because of how much you have to put up with.

[@SpikyDash]

This was very informative, thank you Bliss and your friends for doing this. I've met you and a few other commentators/reviewers through IRL conventions and online ones, and I hope that I have been respectful and thoughtful to each and every one of you. I have a guilty conscience because of my morals and faith, so I am VERY self-aware when I do something that's either out of bounds, crosses the line, etc. and I would hope that anyone who felt that way toward me would let me know in advance so I could immediately fix it. But now that I create content myself with my ponified parodies, this will also help me from that perspective as well. Kudos on a job well done and keep up the great work >:-)

[@leiftoons5644]

Sometimes, i come back to this video, and I'm thankful that I watched. Before even seeing this video, i almost fell in the "Popular person is cool with me, so that means I'm also cool" mindset. I thought i was so cool because of all the stuff i use to do either by myself or with popular people i know. I would've kept going down the downward spiral had it not been for my irl 2 close friends opening my eyes and making me realize how much of a donkey i was too everyone i knew. I've since then, been more thankful about my 2 friends.

[@MLPDethDealr32]

this also happens to us animators Bliss. I have one that keeps asking me when a specific animation is going to be uploaded. I even had one tell that I was I employed by them and that they'd make sure I never got any business again, mostly because I didn't like the type of animation they wanted me to make. So I was forced to block them on Steam. Stuff like that causes me to burn out.

[@kclovelypinky8561]

I never knew this was a thing I'm so sorry that happened to u bliss ur an amazing person and u work so hard on ur beautiful artwork I hope when ppl see this video they learn from their mistakes

[@Imagination4all]

Have you seen Megamind? The true villain ends up being an entitled fan with superpowers. What worse combination for a threat could exist.

[@peterlambert5082]

This is true being a good fan is simply watching from a distance and enjoying the content from the idol

[@victorouda449]

You know lightning bliss you are lucky to have alot of friends and family. I respect you.

[@multimarks721]

Y'know, while I understand the kinds of fans that come off as... well, 'that' kind of fan, it kinda does make me smile knowing that a vast majority of them aren't as bad as they seem. And no, it's not the rainbows. XD Jokes aside, this was well made and yet you still manage to smile even after I got to see you at Bronycon 2019. The same one who does whatever she can, whenever she can. Btw, nice touch of Sub-Zero being in the vid.

[@newbiegamelover4767]

I've seen one commenter on DeviantArt who complimented someone's work, but then later commented that the artist wasn't thanking them for the compliment and called them "rude" for it. The thing is, this artist is really popular, and gets hundreds of comments for every piece they put out, so the first thing that popped into my mind was "What? Is this guy suppose to take time out of their day just to thank *every single person* who comments on their work?" Like, sure, it's nice when an artist does thank you for your kind compliment, but really they don't have to, especially if they can't keep up with them all! Heck, even if they only get one or two compliments on their work, they shouldn't have to be expected to say "thank you"! That should be up to them!

[@FieraMyst]

This was a very interesting, and informative way of broaching this particular subject, I enjoyed it very much. I've also experienced a few of these circumstances myself, though not on a fan/idol level, it's a stressful thing to deal with that is for certain.

[@smollpotato6791]

I shall wait patiently to wach this :3 It shall be grand according to others! Pog uwu

[@CodexandCo.]

*taking notes* I'm fully aware of this stuff, I'm just taking this as a refresher.

[@wooblesnya1455]

I've definitely been guilty of doing some of these things, but not to same extreme as the example in this video. A few years back I would send anon asks to a person I thought was cool on tumblr, most of them consisted of me desperately seeking validation for something I was going through. Validation that I really needed, but it wasn't their job to give to me. Once they started posting about how people should stop venting in their asks and stating this boundary did I realize that I was doing something that wasn't cool, and I hope to never make anyone feel that way ever again.

[@WildonVantrix]

Yep, I agree with you, no fan has a right or even “self entitled destiny” with a celebrity. I’m not sure if I’m a fan or celebrity, but… when you get as close as I was with certain fandoms like the “Sonic Franchise”, rubbing up next to fans that think they are more self entitled than you or other really is a pain!… all I could do was distance myself from it more & more! But is it not wrong when a bad self entitled fan becomes an official writer/celebrity, & you can’t help but notice the signs & their trolling, even if they won’t say it aloud??? Do you know any infamous celebrities, etc. ??? 😭 Anyways, a big thanks for the vid!👍 (no self entitlement asked, I hope, in respect)

[@adamsaltus4152]

Hey Miss Bliss I'm a fan of your videos they really helped me after my mom passed away back In 2019 please keep up with the awesome work and I will keep watching thanks again