How NOT to Get Your Heart Broken

In today’s episode, we’re breaking down the signs of a f boy, red flag photos for men and women on social media and dating apps, and how to treat your special someone to a perfect Valentine’s Day!
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Timecodes (Episode #146):
00:00 - Intro
00:23 - Skip Intro
04:03 - Wootak's Surgery
10:02 - Analyzing F Boys
17:36 - F Boy Fashion
27:07 - Dating Someone Who Has A Kid
39:13 - Two Dates On One Day
42:32 - Signs You're Dating A Player
1:01:08 - Wootak's Infamous DM Slide
1:07:28 - How To Get Your First Kiss
1:19:30 - Dealing With Awkward Silences
1:30:32 - Worst First Date Location
1:35:29 - Once A Cheater, Always A Cheater
1:42:12 - Can a woman change a man?
1:51:41 - IG Farming
1:58:29 - Valentine's Day Gifts
2:19:03 - Outro
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[@josss_ie8083]

we've missed you Brando 😭

[@artxwritesstuff]

the way viet is sitting is so baby girl coded

[@clos2965]

He looks extra tiny in between them lol

[@artxwritesstuff]

@@clos2965 he's a cutie patodie

[@andreamurillo1309]

LOLLL

[@CarineWG]

57:50 😂

[@saturbaby]

😂 facts. he’s literally the babygirl of UTI

[@Offlineee_]

no way they just re-defined f-boy so they wouldn’t fit the mold 😭

[@mochipark3675]

exactlyyy. a fboy is literally just a boy w many sexual partners not a manipulator by definition 😭😭

[@anarchistsalute]

Wootak even tried painting people who sleep around a lot are better than those who have a few partners or none. It was literally him trying to frame it in way that made oh I don't know HIMSELF look like a catch because he had a lot of those opportunites. It was weird and it seems like it was his way cleaning his slutty image haha

[@bunnykandi69]

Right

[@lucidlemonarts7597]

Viets looking like Brando and Jordan’s adopted child😭

[@bunnykandi69]

Yesss so cute lol

[@bictorsuave2102]

Aint no way they hyped the line so much just 4 them 2 cut it 4 patreon😅 some1 from patreon leak it lol

[@Sainte-adresse]

Ok after hearing everyone, Jordan is the most romantic. Writing letters? To the girl you love?? Made my heart swoon 🥺💓

[@SamIsInHereSomewhere]

Finally omg 😭 and don’t let it happen again while we’re at it 🤨

[@MsTee349]

🤣

[@UnderTheInfluenceShow]

youtube be hoeing us sometimes

[@ona1691]

1:09:40 Brando was made by a lesbian couple who needed the perfect boyfriend for their straight daughter

[@lizbvth]

girl what lmfaooo

[@ariannacontreras3360]

Ophthalmic technician here. Astigmatism is when the shape of the cornea is irregular. Myopia or nearsightedness is when your unable to see far away and your eye grows annually with your prescription.

[@raysaif7235]

Bro not even kidding I have been checking everyday since the last upload for a new ep sometimes even twice a day 😅 Let’s just say you guys are my favorite podcast ❤ Keep upppp the great work ⭐️👍

[@UnderTheInfluenceShow]

You win the cutest comment award 🏆😎 we love you and appreciate your support

[@raysaif7235]

@@UnderTheInfluenceShow I am proud to have that award I will accept it with pride this is better then any Grammy award out there 💪🏻👑🙏🏼⭐️

[@user-ii6xi4ex5p]

jordan’s sweater is so coquette😍

[@CassandraL666]

It just makes me so happy seeing Esther and Jeremy be public. Like I done knew y’all were a good match from the very beginning. Both just pure hearted goofs. Especially cause it’s Valentines I’m all soft seeing them together this episode.

[@rachelgriffith7191]

I agree with Esther! Jordan is definitely the most romantic just by the way he answered the questions, he gets it

[@nubiavergara19]

Missed our AI Robot Brando 💗💗

[@ona1691]

Brando looking extra fine😭😍

[@TranAnnette]

I went to Dave & Busters with a guy for the first time and was surprised that they have a bar in there. It was fun playing games with him and we had a great day. We did not date, but I still think about how fun and simple it was till now. Sometimes we don't really have to think too hard about first day. Something simple and easy will work, but it might be different if the girl likes super fancy things

[@kinageez]

I’m so down bad for Brando 😭

[@munaosman7563]

Love this podcast ❤

[@Swantekk]

Aye Lasik gang! One of the best decisions Ive ever made. Just make sure to follow the doctors instructions for aftercare. 1 year our and I can still see 20/20

[@morganeb2403]

Me watching this whole video despite having a boyfriend of 2 years lmao I just love listening to y'all talk

[@radioheadchica]

Viet has been cracking me up this entire episode! 😂

[@Sainte-adresse]

OMG OMG lmaoooooooo I just had a realization. When Wootak said he would touch a woman's hand to look at her nails or the rings she's wearing and see how she reacts then proceed forward. LMAO this guy did that to me but I honest to god thought we were just friends. He was definitely trying to make physical contact with our hands and I felt that he wanted to go further but I just wasn't into it. I didn't know this was a thing omggggg Edit: I fully agree with Brando on the physical contact. I think that naturally when two people just have that bond or chemistry then you won't require words to know when is the right time to touch one another. Your bodies just flow together and the physical contact happens naturally.

[@Darlingartee]

Omgg finally I’ve been waiting since yesterday guysss

[@Carlos-dm5fo]

yall really pay-walled the line :o

[@skiigainz4958]

Another banger 💪🤙💙

[@haechanbollo]

why is no one mentioning THE RING

[@faithpasley]

OMGGGG BRO

[@jocelynarevalomanzano4438]

Talking about the “once a cheater, always a cheater”. Yes up until a certain point but it depends on the guy. I was in a 2.5 yr relationship. I stayed after multiple times of getting cheated on. I got over it for some time but then I became insecure and kept bringing it up. I eventually got tired. I lost patience and care for that person and they changed once they realized I stopped getting mad and trying in the relationship.

[@mrsincara407JJ]

gatekeeping the line to the paid platform is insane LMAO i respect it 🤝🏼

[@shakirasmith6454]

Why is Brando looking so GOODT!? Like sir…we see you 😎😍❤️💕

[@ncklo1466]

JORDAN? PLUS BRANDO?!?! BEST FEB UPLOAD

[@saturbaby]

Viet was funny af this entire episode. “I’m many things but never a liar” took me OUT 😂

[@yobreathstank131]

Been cheated on a few times by my fiance and stuck out to get ditched at my lowest. Long story short don't do it it's game over at that point.

[@ken9922]

from someone who’s parents went through a rough patch, yes i do believe people can change, if not then what’s whole point of being a human being. i will say it take work, for my family it was with the help of god, my dad went from being an alcoholic to now being sober for half my life now. yes people can change yes relationships can work out if you really care and love someone. people make mistakes, not saying you should stay with someone who cheats but to think someone can’t change is insane

[@rebeccaazevedo7096]

My tongue rests on the top and that was a very interesting topic

[@MsTee349]

I swear this whole episode was Jeromy pointing out all the characteristics of Jordan, Viet, Brando and Wootak, and them acting like he’s not describing them 🤣 Edit: y’all ain’t s#!t for making Viet sit in between those guys 💀

[@NailzbyKaren]

Youuu guysss can’t ever be late(jkloveyouuuu) I was worried about yall tho but can’t wait to watch this vid❤

[@elenaoshino]

good to see Brando 🤧

[@ashrose15]

I feel like Wootak would be a good dad to a daughter, like she'd be a daddy's girl for sure ❤❤

[@shanelektro]

1:57:00 😂😂😂 “whaaatt” love how Wootak kept laughing about it

[@saraiurbina2586]

Jordan’s answers were top tier

[@passfern]

Omg I’ve missed Brando so muchhh😭😭

[@PhamNoodleCup]

Regarding “once a cheater, always a cheater”, I believe it’s yes and no. If they’ve cheated on you once, they can/will most likely do it again. However, just because they’ve cheated on one person, it doesn’t mean they will cheat on the next.

[@versaii5519]

Missed brando heavily and that banh mi joke was genius

[@user-ru9yr1lh5c]

if yall are near oc i would recommend taking a girl to any kei concepts restaurant (nep, rol hand bar, vox kitchen etc etc) has an upscale dining feeling without really breaking the buck

[@sweetkiy]

the way my ex literally wore dior sauvage is persian wears a chain, but drives a mercedes 😂

[@cvlmaia]

Wootak kicking his feet is sooo cuuute❤❤❤😂😂

[@adrianacastro5212]

Great pod, loved the guests!! 🩷✨

[@shaielsantiago6607]

One quality that was not mentioned was when the guy only text you at night

[@Sainte-adresse]

I generally don't wear scents for the same reason Wootak mentioned however, you really aren't supposed to spray perfume or Cologne directly on your skin. Also, look into Eau De Parfum, they tend to have a higher concentration of oils rather than chemicals. Perfume or cologne generally have the bad shit that disrupts hormones. Notice when you look of Eau De Parfum of whatever scent you're looking at, it generally costs way more than the eau de toilette or the the perfume/cologne because Eau De Parfum is the higher quality it costs more

[@kylacherice9811]

Nector needs to be in New Orleans!!! Literally the drinking capital like mardi gras would go UP

[@zoepark3163]

Didn't notice the first censor so i only heard "can we define the word boy for the audience"🤣🤣🤣

[@jtrix34]

Love you guys, but not gonna lie, that blue balling on the woohtak line is annoying as fuck. You could have just made the clip referring to it as the CTA. The way you edited it just made the 8 mins before that feel incredibly wasted.

[@brisspace]

There’s a spot at the top of your mouth for your tongue to naturally chill on. Esther’s right 😇

[@its_artea]

Bradno's hair looks so good

[@jkfortyseven]

I’m from Alabama and yeah..folks most def give babies whiskey on their gums, we call it a “hot toddy” lol

[@qiqueqiqi]

Astigmatism I think is the pupil and keratoconus is the eyeball. I also have both on my right eye. Thankfully my vision isn’t terrible

[@BTSLiveUploader]

3 mins ago? Nice!! 😂👏🏼❤

[@KPmissy]

wootak's reaction to the v-line comment and then jeremy's hypothetical angle shot. im watching these eps in order as best i can, and im said im somewhat almost caught up.

[@TheBizkit75]

lmfaooo " is that PSY!!" 4:30

[@sammo9467]

"😯 is that psy" LMAO 😂

[@bonjoursophie]

Brando. Oh, Brando. Swoon.

[@SamIsInHereSomewhere]

OMG BRANDOOOOOOO

[@kasuusak4792]

1:38:57 I think Brando talking about one of the try guys

[@Photographergirl20]

Agree! It’s very specific

[@seewave544]

Fire episode 🎉🎉

[@jessicajean7563]

Awww Brando!!! 🥹🥹

[@ruthdsouza169]

Is it what I think it is on Eester's Finger

[@lemonrosa5931]

She bought it herself I think? She said it on TikTok

[@elsyalonzo2436]

Can y’all do this same concept but for the girlies plsss

[@freedamnsweetcree7235]

Cringiest F boy line was "I bet you wondder why i even picked you" After i ran my idgaf about you game.. #lmao in my head i was like uhm because i dont really care and your ego was challenged duh. But i said while batting my eyes "no. Why"? Haha omg

[@BK-DNA]

Eddie is so beautiful hope to see him more

[@B00TYclapperCLUB69]

Well, they never explained how to not get ur heart broken

[@kaylaoverzet]

Bahn mi was hilarious actually

[@vnss_wav]

Jordan is 1000% the most romantic, y’all need to take notes! Also - trust the only woman in the room to tell you who is the most romantic guys lol

[@Myhalamanz]

This episode is so male-centric

[@clarSVTV]

YEYY BRANDOO I missed him!!

[@robyngentle9185]

What happened to the next episode 151? It was on a couple days ago here on KZbin, and now it’s not. 🤷🏽‍♀️

[@Offlineee_]

ya'll be talking so casually about first date sex.... like that shit normal... I caaaannntttt

[@ruthdsouza169]

Yo has anyone seen Ester's hand

[@glynkj5975]

i knowwwww

[@faithpasley]

This

[@Sanah93]

😮😮😮😮😮😮

[@isbejedjsndk]

what's wrong with it?

[@carbee123]

I knew this episode was gonna be juicy from the title 😝

[@B00TYclapperCLUB69]

Jeremy is pretty hilarious

[@stephy917]

You guys need a long couch 🛋 lol

[@UnderTheInfluenceShow]

UPGRADING THE STUDIO. STAY TUNED

[@Spydel2]

Don't rely on gum/mouthwash. Go to a dentist/hygienist to clean out that calculus, that's the stuff stinking so bad.

[@Solarreviews123]

Yo Idk if they address this at any-point(only 15:13 min in) But why wutok so cranky this episode lol

[@shanicethompson3196]

They twinkify my boy viet😔🙏

[@bonjoursophie]

Most to least toxic: 1. Viet 2. Wootak 3. Esther 4. Jeremy 5. Brando And I don't know enough about Jordan to make an assessment

[@lamma746]

I agree with this list lol

[@alexare6655]

I disagree with this list. Esther is 100p less toxic than jeromy.

[@Offlineee_]

Brando should be at the #3 spot

[@bonjoursophie]

@@alexare6655 Really? Why do you think that?

[@bonjoursophie]

@@Offlineee_ Brando can do no wrong

[@qianhongxiang8385]

what's wootak's line?

[@imjai9071]

facts does anyone know?

[@2levitate]

I too was wondering if I missed it or something.

[@robertvang1003]

Ik it

[@imjai9071]

@@robertvang1003 then say it

[@robertvang1003]

@@imjai9071 I can’t I’ve been sworn to secrecy

[@Aceleazy]

they started the BB Simon trend??????? they definitely dont know how the whole NYC was wearing BB Simon belts all throughout 2005-2014 with Marmot biggies or pellepelle leather jackets with true religion jeans and Nike ACG boots or timbs

[@NabiBeautyBar]

BRANDO!!! where you been 🎉🎉🎉

[@user39076]

1:07:11 damn what’s the line 😂

[@aashiaashi1371]

Tell me too if you find out plz

[@jasminevelasquez6592]

I just wanna say the best cologne a man can wear is Valentino Uomo Born in Roma! Better than the Dior Sauvage

[@palakrao3218]

I NEED TO KNOW WHATS THE LINEEE😭😭😭

[@iSell1nsurance]

I've never been so early

[@cgarc03]

Same

[@matthewbrocious7436]

What’s the line?!

[@versaii5519]

genuinely love this podcast but they really need to lest esther speaks and respect her opinions

[@paigemoloney]

BRANDITOOOOOOOO 😭😭😭😭

[@myklth]

anytime wutak isnt the center of attention he loses it its so annoying

[@metalbxrbie]

ily but high value is a stretch

[@John-ud1kd]

W line up

[@ashp7512]

Anyone know what the Mic is?

[@tunsofjunk]

What’s wootaks line !?

[@MrCowabungaDude]

Good lotion and cologne. I rarely use deodorant; or antiperspirant; anymore. Sunscreen with scent helps too; with cologne? Yes! Good shower habits, lotion, and cologne. S’all that’s needed mostly. If I could wash my clothes at a laundry mat; a proper one; I’d smell a whole lot fresher. Maybe kids even have candy scents for themselves now! I’m so old I’ve seen almost 2 decades of zeros, become over 20 years old. Kids spritzing candy smells probably does exist?